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Speaker 1: normally when we do a second date update, we spend
Speaker 1: the time trying to figure out what could have possibly
Speaker 1: gone wrong on the date. Yeah, but apparently today is
Speaker 1: a little different because Shane is on the phone and
Speaker 1: her date went fine, but something weird happened days after
Speaker 1: the date, and I don't know what it is yet,
Speaker 1: so we'll let her explain. Shana, how are you hi? Guys?
Speaker 1: How are you not too bad? So? Your email said
Speaker 1: something weird happened after your date, So it did. But
Speaker 1: let me give you a little bit of a background
Speaker 1: story about the date. First, okay, okay, what's the dude's name?
Speaker 1: First of all, Oh, his name is Eric. Eric, would
Speaker 1: you guys meet? We met on a dating website and
Speaker 1: we really connected and we really just clicked. And he
Speaker 1: told me that he had some kids. Okay, were they his?
Speaker 1: Or was just saying I grabbed some kids. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: got a bunch of kids. If you want one, No,
Speaker 1: he said, you know, they're his kids. You know, whatever's good.
Speaker 1: But you're cool with that. You're open to dating a dad, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm totally open to dating the dad bought and everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I dated some dads before they had a
Speaker 1: couple of kids, so it's not really a big deal
Speaker 1: for me. So and it's not new territory either. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not new territory. I'm kind of used to it.
Speaker 1: So the date went great. He took me to a
Speaker 1: lovely dinner. We laughed a lot, and we had a
Speaker 1: great time. Okay, So by the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I invited him back to my house. So all we
Speaker 1: did was make out. That's all we did, and we
Speaker 1: had a great time, and he just left, which I
Speaker 1: thought was really respectful and great, and I was really
Speaker 1: looking forward to hearing from him again. Yeah it sounds
Speaker 1: like you would. Yeah, oh of course. And actually I
Speaker 1: didn't hear from him. But that's the whole part that's
Speaker 1: very strange. Okay, So you guys just made out of
Speaker 1: the house and then he hit you up a few
Speaker 1: days later and told you he was pregnant. Didn't he
Speaker 1: that is a strange thing. That would be very weird.
Speaker 1: So it took him about two days to call me back. Okay,
Speaker 1: But the weird thing is when he called me, he said, hey,
Speaker 1: can I come and by? And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm around, come you know, And he said, can I
Speaker 1: come and by to use your restroom? So I don't
Speaker 1: know why he said I need to use your bathroom?
Speaker 1: But he said I really need to use the bathroom.
Speaker 1: So wait, so like he was in your neighborhood and
Speaker 1: he had an emergency bathroom. No. I mean, I'm thinking
Speaker 1: that this is code that he wants to come over
Speaker 1: and like hook up, or he wants to come see
Speaker 1: me because he haven't talked to me for two days.
Speaker 1: It's usually called for hook up. I am driving and
Speaker 1: I really have to use the bathroom badly. Can I
Speaker 1: stop by your place? Usually means to hook up. I
Speaker 1: don't know, like weird code, right, but I'm thinking it's code.
Speaker 1: It didn't sound like it was an emergency. So he
Speaker 1: kind of just said, hey, can I come use your bathroom?
Speaker 1: And I kind of just took it and he came
Speaker 1: over and did you guys hook up? Or did he
Speaker 1: just use the bathroom. He literally just used the bathroom
Speaker 1: and then left. And he left. Wait what did he say?
Speaker 1: Like he didn't use that opportunity to ask you out
Speaker 1: again or anything. No, he was like thank you so much.
Speaker 1: He was very nice, but he like took off. Okay,
Speaker 1: So that's the point, Like, I'm very confused. Have you
Speaker 1: guys talked much since he used your bathroom? No, it's
Speaker 1: been four days. So now I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: So he just stopped by and used the bathroom and
Speaker 1: then nothing. I mean, he stayed for a couple of minutes.
Speaker 1: It's not like I just stood and listened to him,
Speaker 1: because that's really weird to do. But we've we've heard
Speaker 1: of people being used for a lot of things like money,
Speaker 1: job opportunities, never just a restroom. Yeah, it's really weird, right,
Speaker 1: It's not just weird to me. So have you tried
Speaker 1: to call him? I haven't tried to call him him.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I should. It's just a little awkward. Now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was waiting him for him to call me,
Speaker 1: and nothing was wrong, and I just got home from work,
Speaker 1: My house was clean, I looked nice. This might be
Speaker 1: a first, you know, you hear people getting friend zoned
Speaker 1: after a first date, but you got rest stop zoned,
Speaker 1: bathroom zoned. I've never heard of that before, but apparently
Speaker 1: he just wants you to be his bathroom buddy. Who
Speaker 1: does that to somebody? He didn't actually definitely like stink
Speaker 1: up your restroom or something, and now he's embarrassed. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I did not go right into there
Speaker 1: to like check it out, because that's growth, yeah, first
Speaker 1: of all, But second of all, I thought he was
Speaker 1: going to actually stay and talk a little bit, and
Speaker 1: he didn't, and he left and it was awkward, and
Speaker 1: he has not called me. Okay, well we'll play a
Speaker 1: song and then come back and call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, all right, hang up rooking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning, right in the middle of a
Speaker 1: second date update, and if you're just joining us, Shana,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone to get a second date up
Speaker 1: date to day has given me a great idea. I
Speaker 1: have a really, really weak bladder, and it's hard for
Speaker 1: me to drive a mile without him going to stop
Speaker 1: to use the bathroom. But I've got exes all over
Speaker 1: the place, So now I'm just gonna start calling any
Speaker 1: of my exes just to say, hey, can I stop
Speaker 1: by your house and use the bathroom real quick? Because
Speaker 1: Shano went out on a date with the dude named Eric.
Speaker 1: Everything went fine, but then a few days later she
Speaker 1: got a call from him saying he was in the
Speaker 1: neighborhood and he wanted to use her bathroom. He stopped by,
Speaker 1: use the bathroom and left. And that's the last time
Speaker 1: she's heard from him. That is so rude if he
Speaker 1: really isn't interested in dating you again. Weird, rude, rude,
Speaker 1: like who does that? Find a gas station? Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you're a dude. You can literally pee anywhere you find
Speaker 1: an alley and it's fine. This is weird and annoying.
Speaker 1: And I heard you guys do this a lot, so
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, it could be me, and
Speaker 1: that's why I kind of want to pick his brain
Speaker 1: and you guys to pick his brain and see you
Speaker 1: what's up? Maybe it's me. No, Well, we'll get him
Speaker 1: on the phone now and see if we can figure
Speaker 1: it out. I'm a Dallas one of here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: I gotta speak to Eric. Please. This is Eric, Eric.
Speaker 1: How are you man? This is Jewil from the radio
Speaker 1: show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry, who
Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a
Speaker 1: radio show. You called me from a radio show? Yes?
Speaker 1: Is this some kind of prank or something? No? No,
Speaker 1: actually it isn't. I'm Jewil from the radio show Brooke
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning, and you're Eric from dating
Speaker 1: a girl named Shanna and using her bathroom after Is
Speaker 1: that correct? Wait? Wait, wait, hold on, So you're you
Speaker 1: know Shana? Yes? Um, okay, sorry, I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: catch up here. So Shana told you something about me
Speaker 1: in a bathroom? Yeah, kind of. We do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show. It's called the second Day up Date.
Speaker 1: It's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them back, they
Speaker 1: can email us, get you on the phone and figure
Speaker 1: out what happened. And Shana emailed us because she told
Speaker 1: us you guys had a really nice date and she
Speaker 1: really enjoyed hanging out with you and thought you were
Speaker 1: a great dude. Wow. Okay, And then she also told
Speaker 1: us how a few days after your date, you just
Speaker 1: hit her up to use her bathroom and then you
Speaker 1: went over there used her bathroom and haven't talked to
Speaker 1: her since. Oh my god, I can't believe she told
Speaker 1: you that the bathroom part of the date part. Oh well,
Speaker 1: to be honest either, but especially the bathroom part. I
Speaker 1: mean that's a little personal. Well, she's just confused, you know,
Speaker 1: Like she said that you guys had a really nice time,
Speaker 1: you went back to her place and made out, and
Speaker 1: then you don't really talk to her, then you stop by,
Speaker 1: use the bathroom, and you're gone. I'd be confused. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess I have to admit that it's a little
Speaker 1: bit odd. I mean, hey, I really liked her too,
Speaker 1: at least happy to hear that she had a good time.
Speaker 1: I mean, we definitely hit it off right away. So
Speaker 1: why wouldn't you use your bathroom break as the opportunity
Speaker 1: to ask her out again? I mean that's a perfect opportunity. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess so, But I just had a I had
Speaker 1: a lot going on. Oh are you in a relationship? No?
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no, nothing like that. No relationship.
Speaker 1: Is that what you do? You just find women looking
Speaker 1: to date you and then you just use their bathroom
Speaker 1: like some kind of maniac and that's your thing. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I can safely say that I've never done this before
Speaker 1: and I'm definitely not a maniac. I promise I'm pretty
Speaker 1: normal guy. Actually, so wait, did you actually just have
Speaker 1: a bathroom emergency or did you want to see her
Speaker 1: again and then chicken out at the last second. Oh gosh,
Speaker 1: um this is it's it's pretty personal. Um, going back
Speaker 1: to her place, everything was great. Um, it just happened
Speaker 1: to coincide with some personal stuff for me at the time.
Speaker 1: It's kind of one of those topics that, Um, it's
Speaker 1: a hard thing to broach with someone you don't know
Speaker 1: super well. I can't decide if I'm more interested and
Speaker 1: what you didn't tell her or why you use her
Speaker 1: bathroom the two go together. Yeah, I think you don't
Speaker 1: want to tell you have IBS or something. Uh No,
Speaker 1: thankfully that's not the issue. Um. Look, I've got two kids.
Speaker 1: I love my kids, but I'm not looking to have
Speaker 1: anymore in the future, regardless of whoever it is that
Speaker 1: I mean, Shana or anyone else. I can't believe that
Speaker 1: I'm telling you this. I don't want to have kids
Speaker 1: in the future so badly that I made sure to
Speaker 1: handle it medically. Cut the whole thing off. No, so
Speaker 1: you've been snipped, You've been you it's a vasectomy. Yes,
Speaker 1: I decided to get a vasectomy, and it is a
Speaker 1: very personal thing for me, and I mean, to be frank,
Speaker 1: the fact that I'm even sharing this right now is
Speaker 1: not something I would normally do. But why not call
Speaker 1: her back? Though? I mean, did you do it in
Speaker 1: her bathroom like a homewoy? Think of it is a
Speaker 1: quick procedure. I didn't know just a couple of minutes.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm good with my hands, but I don't
Speaker 1: think I could perform a self vasectomy. I'm so confused, though,
Speaker 1: So you had a vasectomy. A lot of men have
Speaker 1: had vasectomies like okay, so let me just explain. I
Speaker 1: had the procedure the week that I met Shana. So
Speaker 1: they make sure that things are working by having you
Speaker 1: give a sample. And my sample was contaminated and they
Speaker 1: said that I had to wait and give another sample,
Speaker 1: so I did, and by the time that my second
Speaker 1: sample came through, all the bathrooms were full, everything was
Speaker 1: being used, and there was nowhere to go, and they
Speaker 1: said that we need a sample right now. So what
Speaker 1: you need to do is go somewhere nearby and give
Speaker 1: your sample. It happened. That's what you're doing, and that's
Speaker 1: when you went to her house. You went to her house,
Speaker 1: you know, I know, I know it wasn't my first choice,
Speaker 1: but I'm telling you, she lives very close to the hospital.
Speaker 1: There was no other place nearby for a gas station.
Speaker 1: It wasn't there, and I was I was out of option.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's weird, but I feel like that's
Speaker 1: a better option than doing that in the gas station bathroom.
Speaker 1: Thank you, I mean, yeah, exactly. You got a long
Speaker 1: line of people waiting to do that anyway, But you, guys,
Speaker 1: besides him doing okay, why doesn't have anything to do
Speaker 1: with whether or not you'll go out with her again? Though, No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I really would love to see Shane again. I had
Speaker 1: a great time, but it just didn't seem like the
Speaker 1: right time, if you know what I mean. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: didn't want to tell her why? You're sorry I had
Speaker 1: to take care of Yeah, I don't. I could see
Speaker 1: how that would be a weird conversation. Like remember when
Speaker 1: I stopped by your bathroom the other day. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: already longer than that. Normally, it takes me longer than that. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I am surprised that he could get that done with
Speaker 1: the amount of pressure that must have been on you
Speaker 1: in that bathroom. Yeah. Oh, that sample was coming. Whether
Speaker 1: we liked it or not, Well, guess what, whether you
Speaker 1: like it or not, Eric, Shana is on the other
Speaker 1: line listening, and I'm sure wants to talk to you
Speaker 1: now or bathroom. Yeah, did you just say Shane's listening
Speaker 1: to this? Yes, I did, unless you hung up. Shane,
Speaker 1: are you still there, Oh my gosh, yes, I am here.
Speaker 1: I hope he scrubbed your bathroom. Oh my god, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, Shana, I'm so weird. I'm so sorry. You
Speaker 1: weren't supposed to know any of that. I was planning
Speaker 1: on telling you in my own way, at my own time.
Speaker 1: Oh god, this is embarrassing. Um, listen, I had a
Speaker 1: really good time with you. I had such a good
Speaker 1: time on our date and in the bathroom, I forget
Speaker 1: in my bathroom. I'm sorry about that. I really had
Speaker 1: no other option. If I could have done anything else,
Speaker 1: I would have, I promise you. And I just didn't
Speaker 1: feel like that was the best time to explain the
Speaker 1: whole thing. So I thought if I just got out
Speaker 1: and made sure everything was working right. Then I could
Speaker 1: call you and we could have a second date, and
Speaker 1: I could explain, so you want a second date after
Speaker 1: you stopped in my bathroom, if we could view the
Speaker 1: off as more of a medical thing and a weird thing.
Speaker 1: There wasn't a pleasure one, you know, like there's all
Speaker 1: kinds of different ones. There's stress ones, there's anxiety ones.
Speaker 1: It's pleasure ones, there's medical ones. Now they're all different.
Speaker 1: You know, it has the same outcome, tubill, no matter. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you it is purely medical and nothing else.
Speaker 1: There was nothing weird or creepy about it, I promised you.
Speaker 1: So what were you thinking about? Then? Oh? Um, you
Speaker 1: mean what was I thinking about? So awkward? It's my bathroom.
Speaker 1: I have the right to know. What were you thinking
Speaker 1: about it? Um? I was thinking about you. That's kind
Speaker 1: of creepy though. Actually, yeah, it would have been better
Speaker 1: to say, oh, I was picked up one of the
Speaker 1: last weekly's. Yeah, laying next to the toilet. I just
Speaker 1: feel like being honest right now is going to be
Speaker 1: the best thing for me since I'm kind of in
Speaker 1: a weird position. So I just I'm just telling you
Speaker 1: the truth. I understand. I just wish you were a
Speaker 1: little bit more honest. I mean, it's been four days.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know. I just couldn't figure
Speaker 1: out how to do it over the phone. This isn't
Speaker 1: something you just text someone, you know, so I just
Speaker 1: want to be sure. Can't wait, though, Shanda, are you
Speaker 1: cool with him having a vasecto me? Him not wanting
Speaker 1: kids anymore? I mean, I guess he should have talked
Speaker 1: to me, But I know it's only one date, so
Speaker 1: I understand, and it's that's your personal business, to be honest.
Speaker 1: I've been planning this for a while and it just
Speaker 1: so happened that it coincided with this, this great date
Speaker 1: that we had. Let's go to hear that you planned it.
Speaker 1: You didn't just do it on a whims. I've dropping
Speaker 1: by a place, so I thought, why not? Okay, got
Speaker 1: any specials today? Two for one. You guys really aren't
Speaker 1: helping the situation. I don't think you helped. Well, you
Speaker 1: did help yourself out, but you don't mean why go silent? Though, Eric,
Speaker 1: why not at least talk to her? I mean, you
Speaker 1: don't have to have that conversation right away, but why
Speaker 1: didn't you just like hit her up and say and
Speaker 1: plan a date. You're right, You're right, that is definitely
Speaker 1: what I should have done. I wasn't thinking super clearly,
Speaker 1: but I wanted to make sure that everything was right
Speaker 1: before we move forward. And you know, Shana, I had
Speaker 1: such a good time with you. I would love to
Speaker 1: see you again if if you'd be into that, Shana,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with Eric?
Speaker 1: Will pay for it. I'm kind of intrigued, so kind
Speaker 1: of leaning towards a yes. He's going to have to
Speaker 1: give a couple more samples before this thing. She's leaning
Speaker 1: towards it. Eric, Is there anything you can say to
Speaker 1: get an absolute yes from her? Well, I think you'd
Speaker 1: be happy to know that everything works. I'm snipped in
Speaker 1: the bathroom. Uh No, you still have to check, like
Speaker 1: sixty or ninety days later, after so many times. I
Speaker 1: promise when it's time to check again, I won't check
Speaker 1: in your bathroom, check in my place. You know. That's
Speaker 1: really very weirdly and strangely very sweet as far as
Speaker 1: these go. Yeah, that is probably one of the sweetest
Speaker 1: things you've ever heard. I don't want to touch myself
Speaker 1: in your bathroom. Again cool. Congratulations Shana you got a
Speaker 1: second date. And Eric, I'm glad everything's working out for
Speaker 1: you down there. Ye yeah, thank you. I guess I'm
Speaker 1: just excited you might get to see that bathroom again.
Speaker 1: Broken jubil in the morning.