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Speaker 1: normally when we do a second date update, we spend

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Speaker 1: the time trying to figure out what could have possibly

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Speaker 1: gone wrong on the date. Yeah, but apparently today is

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Speaker 1: a little different because Shane is on the phone and

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Speaker 1: her date went fine, but something weird happened days after

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Speaker 1: the date, and I don't know what it is yet,

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Speaker 1: so we'll let her explain. Shana, how are you hi? Guys?

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Speaker 1: How are you not too bad? So? Your email said

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Speaker 1: something weird happened after your date, So it did. But

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Speaker 1: let me give you a little bit of a background

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Speaker 1: story about the date. First, okay, okay, what's the dude's name?

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Speaker 1: First of all, Oh, his name is Eric. Eric, would

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Speaker 1: you guys meet? We met on a dating website and

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Speaker 1: we really connected and we really just clicked. And he

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Speaker 1: told me that he had some kids. Okay, were they his?

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Speaker 1: Or was just saying I grabbed some kids. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: got a bunch of kids. If you want one, No,

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Speaker 1: he said, you know, they're his kids. You know, whatever's good.

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Speaker 1: But you're cool with that. You're open to dating a dad, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm totally open to dating the dad bought and everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, I dated some dads before they had a

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Speaker 1: it's not new territory. I'm kind of used to it.

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Speaker 1: So the date went great. He took me to a

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Speaker 1: lovely dinner. We laughed a lot, and we had a

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Speaker 1: great time. Okay, So by the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: I invited him back to my house. So all we

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Speaker 1: did was make out. That's all we did, and we

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Speaker 1: had a great time, and he just left, which I

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Speaker 1: thought was really respectful and great, and I was really

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Speaker 1: looking forward to hearing from him again. Yeah it sounds

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Speaker 1: didn't hear from him. But that's the whole part that's

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Speaker 1: very strange. Okay, So you guys just made out of

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Speaker 1: the house and then he hit you up a few

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Speaker 1: days later and told you he was pregnant. Didn't he

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Speaker 1: that is a strange thing. That would be very weird.

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Speaker 1: So it took him about two days to call me back. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But the weird thing is when he called me, he said, hey,

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Speaker 1: come and by to use your restroom? So I don't

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Speaker 1: know why he said I need to use your bathroom?

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Speaker 1: But he said I really need to use the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: So wait, so like he was in your neighborhood and

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Speaker 1: he had an emergency bathroom. No. I mean, I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: that this is code that he wants to come over

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Speaker 1: me because he haven't talked to me for two days.

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Speaker 1: It's usually called for hook up. I am driving and

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Speaker 1: I really have to use the bathroom badly. Can I

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Speaker 1: don't know, like weird code, right, but I'm thinking it's code.

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Speaker 1: It didn't sound like it was an emergency. So he

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Speaker 1: kind of just said, hey, can I come use your bathroom?

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Speaker 1: and then left. And he left. Wait what did he say?

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Speaker 1: because that's really weird to do. But we've we've heard

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Speaker 1: a first, you know, you hear people getting friend zoned

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Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, all right, hang up rooking

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning, right in the middle of a

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Speaker 1: second date update, and if you're just joining us, Shana,

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Speaker 1: who's on the phone to get a second date up

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Speaker 1: date to day has given me a great idea. I

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Speaker 1: to use the bathroom. But I've got exes all over

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Speaker 1: the place, So now I'm just gonna start calling any

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Speaker 1: of my exes just to say, hey, can I stop

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Speaker 1: Shano went out on a date with the dude named Eric.

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Speaker 1: Everything went fine, but then a few days later she

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Speaker 1: she's heard from him. That is so rude if he

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Speaker 1: really isn't interested in dating you again. Weird, rude, rude,

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Speaker 1: like who does that? Find a gas station? Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: you're a dude. You can literally pee anywhere you find

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Speaker 1: an alley and it's fine. This is weird and annoying.

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Speaker 1: that's why I kind of want to pick his brain

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Speaker 1: what's up? Maybe it's me. No, Well, we'll get him

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Speaker 1: it out. I'm a Dallas one of here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 1: I gotta speak to Eric. Please. This is Eric, Eric.

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Speaker 1: How are you man? This is Jewil from the radio

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Speaker 1: show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry, who

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Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a

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Speaker 1: radio show. You called me from a radio show? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Is this some kind of prank or something? No? No,

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Speaker 1: actually it isn't. I'm Jewil from the radio show Brooke

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning, and you're Eric from dating

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Speaker 1: a girl named Shanna and using her bathroom after Is

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Speaker 1: that correct? Wait? Wait, wait, hold on, So you're you

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Speaker 1: know Shana? Yes? Um, okay, sorry, I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: catch up here. So Shana told you something about me

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Speaker 1: in a bathroom? Yeah, kind of. We do a segment

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Speaker 1: on our show. It's called the second Day up Date.

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Speaker 1: It's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 1: out what happened. And Shana emailed us because she told

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Speaker 1: a great dude. Wow. Okay, And then she also told

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Speaker 1: mean that's a little personal. Well, she's just confused, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, we definitely hit it off right away. So

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Speaker 1: why wouldn't you use your bathroom break as the opportunity

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Speaker 1: Is that what you do? You just find women looking

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Speaker 1: normal guy. Actually, so wait, did you actually just have

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Speaker 1: um this is it's it's pretty personal. Um, going back

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Speaker 1: what you didn't tell her or why you use her

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Speaker 1: I mean, Shana or anyone else. I can't believe that

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Speaker 1: handle it medically. Cut the whole thing off. No, so

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Speaker 1: you've been snipped, You've been you it's a vasectomy. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I decided to get a vasectomy, and it is a

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Speaker 1: very personal thing for me, and I mean, to be frank,

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Speaker 1: the fact that I'm even sharing this right now is

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Speaker 1: not something I would normally do. But why not call

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Speaker 1: her back? Though? I mean, did you do it in

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Speaker 1: think I could perform a self vasectomy. I'm so confused, though,

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Speaker 1: So you had a vasectomy. A lot of men have

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Speaker 1: had vasectomies like okay, so let me just explain. I

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Speaker 1: they make sure that things are working by having you

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Speaker 1: give a sample. And my sample was contaminated and they

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Speaker 1: be happy to know that everything works. I'm snipped in

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