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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, right here in the building. All right, This

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Speaker 1: is from Dion in Memphis. Dion writes, I'm dating a

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Speaker 1: man that is getting divorced. He told his oldest daughter

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Speaker 1: about me and gave her my number so we could talk.

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Speaker 1: He said, she has a problem with me because I'm

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Speaker 1: only two years older than she is.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: Am I obligated to meet with his daughter?

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Speaker 2: Well, you're not obligated, but it seems like he getting

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Speaker 2: so much pushback that he'dnt probably said to his daughter, Hey, look,

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Speaker 2: she's a wonderful person. You need to meet her because

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Speaker 2: she's really on my side. Because your daughter's going way

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Speaker 2: what she want with you, because your daughter don't see

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Speaker 2: you as his sex son. All right, your daughter don't

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Speaker 2: thank you for your daddy knows hers her daddy. Now

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Speaker 2: she's trying to figure out what this girl won't with you,

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Speaker 2: and so you're not obligated to meet with her her,

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Speaker 2: but I think it would be in your best interest

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Speaker 2: to just sit with her now. It shouldn't change anything,

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Speaker 2: but you could just appease her and sit down and say, look,

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Speaker 2: I know this sounds strange for you, But I really

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Speaker 2: do love your father and he is so kind to me.

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Speaker 2: I've never listened what I want to do. And I'm

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Speaker 2: here because I love him, not because of what he has.

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Speaker 2: But her daddy got some money to him. So yeah,

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Speaker 2: you don't get an old man because he old. That's

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Speaker 2: not what you get him for, right, Okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: you get an old man because he might be still

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Speaker 2: holding looking good. But you're looking for stability, security, stability.

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Speaker 3: You're right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on, Moving on to Louise and Detroit. Louise writes,

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Speaker 1: the guy at the cell phone repair place told me

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Speaker 1: that my husband was tracking.

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Speaker 3: Me through an app on my phone.

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Speaker 1: I had the app removed, and that's my husband. Why

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Speaker 1: he's tracking me, he said, for safety reasons. Was he

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Speaker 1: being sweet or creepy?

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Speaker 2: Well, he's being sweet, he said, for safety reasons, which

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Speaker 2: is a really good reason. One of a man's top

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Speaker 2: things is to protect, provide, and process and a profess.

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Speaker 2: This is the protection part and the provision part. Now,

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Speaker 2: why is that being creepy? And why do you care

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Speaker 2: that he's tracking your car?

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Speaker 3: What's happening?

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Speaker 2: Hello? Hello, good question. Hello. I think most women wouldn't

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Speaker 2: mind their husband tracking him. At least my man know

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Speaker 2: where I'm at. I wouldn't have a problem with that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so he was being sweet, you're saying,

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Speaker 1: all right? Moving on to Fay in Columbus, they writes,

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Speaker 1: my forty eight year old husband has an obsession with crocs.

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Speaker 1: He wears them to work and even to church. He

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Speaker 1: even has croc slippers that he wears at home. Our

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Speaker 1: ten year old son loves them too. How do I

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Speaker 1: get my husband to wear real shoes?

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Speaker 3: What is happening? Your husband crazy? He loves them. Some

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Speaker 3: croc crocs may be comfortable.

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Speaker 2: I've never had on the path. I just can't look

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Speaker 2: at him and imagine them on me. And I know

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Speaker 2: a lot of people that wear them. There's nothing wrong

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Speaker 2: with them. It's just not an item for me. I'm

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Speaker 2: not wearing them to work to church. Yeah, no, you

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Speaker 2: ain't got no church shoes for I know times are different,

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Speaker 2: but I had church shoes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah we all did. You're right they're wearing crocs to

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Speaker 3: the airport. Yeah, I like her everywhere.

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Speaker 1: They're comfortable, right, I don't have any, but yeah, they're comfortable.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, crocs are comfortable.

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Speaker 3: That's what I am comfortable.

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Speaker 1: I like you. So maybe he just wants his feet

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Speaker 1: to be comfortable at all times, Steve.

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Speaker 3: So she's gonna you know, he.

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Speaker 2: Got bad feet, he got bad feet, or he cheat

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Speaker 2: wanted you to.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so she's you don't think she's ever gonna

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Speaker 1: be able to get him out of those and get

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Speaker 1: him to wear some dressed shoes, as you say, church shoes.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I gotta get some, mother. I

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Speaker 2: can't wear crocs everywhere. Our crocs don't look nothing. Crocs

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Speaker 2: don't look good with nothing now on.

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Speaker 3: You should try it. Though, you should try. You might

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Speaker 3: start a trend, Steve.

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Speaker 2: You would well, Shirley, have you ever tried it?

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Speaker 3: I have not. I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Calling you have a pet? Yes I do?

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Speaker 3: She did?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, tell me you got you got no shoes?

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Speaker 3: I'm finna decorate.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't. I remember putting a blean on my shoes.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got no bling on him.

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Speaker 3: For a reason. I considered the crocks with.

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Speaker 2: It and the ones I do have, Junie, you got

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Speaker 2: some crops.

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Speaker 3: I considered the ones with the heels monicas. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you're not gonna dodge just about our crock I'm not

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Speaker 3: gonna have it.

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Speaker 2: I just think it's the other shoot.

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Speaker 3: Period.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, so yeah, it might be a lost cause

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Speaker 1: with her, all right, Moving on last one, Steve to

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Speaker 1: Jacob in Greensboro. Jacob writes, my girlfriend moved in and

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Speaker 1: has taken over my home. She's replacing my furniture and

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Speaker 1: donated my memory foam mattress that was expensive because she

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Speaker 1: said other ladies have slept on it.

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Speaker 3: How do I reason with her about my belongings?

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Speaker 2: Well, bro, that mattress you gotta understand that one. And

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Speaker 2: she redecorating the home. What do you want a woman

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Speaker 2: to do? A woman gonna come in the house and

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Speaker 2: put a woman's touch on it. Yeah. Now, if you

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Speaker 2: didn't want to live in with your don't. But let

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Speaker 2: me let me explain something to you, bro. She either

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Speaker 2: gonna get comfortable in there. Are you gonna have a problem?

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Speaker 2: Mm hm. So you want her at the house, She

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Speaker 2: gonna make it a home. My father taught me valuable

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Speaker 2: lesson when I was growing up. He says, son, it's

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Speaker 2: your job to buy a house, it's her job to

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Speaker 2: turn it into a home. Stay out of that business.

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Speaker 2: Let her turn it into the home. Because when somebody

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Speaker 2: come over and say, man, yo, his house look crazy.

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Speaker 3: What's she doing?

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Speaker 2: She gonna she can has to take full blame for that,

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Speaker 2: because that's the standards we live in. If a man

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Speaker 2: living in a jacked up house and a woman is

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Speaker 2: in there, they're gonna blame.

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Speaker 3: Her every time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah so man, so she picked out furniture because she

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Speaker 2: want to be comfortable in that. So when people come over,

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Speaker 2: it's gonna have her touch on. If you didn't want

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Speaker 2: the woman that my things is gone. It's our things now. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and our things they ain't gonna stay in here because

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Speaker 2: the other half hour don't like it. Yeah, yeah, and

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Speaker 2: you finish learned real fast and hour the stuff at

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Speaker 2: the house is really just heard her your closet, it's hers.

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Speaker 3: We need room. I don't understand the problem. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 3: I gave you a little space. I'm telling you.

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Speaker 2: I'm just telling you.

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Speaker 3: Good school them. See that's true, Newly Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: You know I go into another room to get dressed.

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Speaker 3: I don't have a closet in the room. And you

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Speaker 3: never will. Yeah, you never will.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got no fence and you ain't got nowhere

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Speaker 2: to put the hell is going on?

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Speaker 3: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show,