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Speaker 1: the Welcome back to another episode of Carefully Reckless with
Speaker 1: your girl just hilarious. Now Mother's Day just passed, and
Speaker 1: I want to take the time to say Happy Mother's
Speaker 1: Day to all the mothers out there, and even the
Speaker 1: ones who are not with us anymore. And it's rather
Speaker 1: ironic that I'm paying homage to moms because I want
Speaker 1: to dedicate this episode to women and how we need
Speaker 1: to be cherished, whether you're Black, Asian, Hispanic, white, whatever.
Speaker 1: This is about women in general and how we need
Speaker 1: to be cherished and not taking advantage of. So I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you a story now. This story time is
Speaker 1: kind of different because this was a story that one
Speaker 1: of my fans told me in Columbia, South Carolina, where
Speaker 1: I just play at the comedy house and it's juicy,
Speaker 1: So grab your tea in your halls because it's story
Speaker 1: time now. She told me I can say her name,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna say her name because I had
Speaker 1: the pleasure of meeting her in person and the pleasure
Speaker 1: of seeing her get terry eyed cried, real tear is
Speaker 1: telling me the story. But it all ended beautifully. I
Speaker 1: just want you to know that years and years ago
Speaker 1: she met this guy. She said, everything was great. Now,
Speaker 1: what's been said before. When you meet somebody and it's perfect,
Speaker 1: that's not the person that you're dating. The person that
Speaker 1: you're dating is a person that come out after the
Speaker 1: probation period, after the ninety days, maybe it's even longer
Speaker 1: than that that they can keep the act up of
Speaker 1: the representative. You actually fall in love with the person
Speaker 1: that they show you that they are the first three
Speaker 1: to four months, right, that's their representative. Then outcomes the
Speaker 1: real them, you know, or however long it may take.
Speaker 1: Everything was perfect, she said. Three years down the line
Speaker 1: they got a baby. Now, okay, after the baby is
Speaker 1: when everything went south. And she told me she don't
Speaker 1: think it went south because of the baby. It just
Speaker 1: went south period, because he loves his child, loves his
Speaker 1: child all over his child to this day, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, To his day, he's a great father.
Speaker 1: So it wasn't about the child at all. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you, she said. The intimacy stopped the compliments stopped
Speaker 1: gifts for holidays, stopped. I said, did he become a
Speaker 1: Jehovah's witness? She said, no, everything just kind of stopped. Now.
Speaker 1: He didn't become a bum. He kept working, always had
Speaker 1: a job, always had a ship together. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, car, all of that. You know, they bought
Speaker 1: a house together. When they first met, they lived separately.
Speaker 1: They bought a house together. They both worked great jobs.
Speaker 1: They were doing good individually individually, but together they started falling.
Speaker 1: He wasn't making her laugh no more, he was less charming,
Speaker 1: he didn't really want to touch her. Sex didn't last
Speaker 1: that long, all of that, so she immediately thought that
Speaker 1: he was cheating. She suspected it. It never came out
Speaker 1: that he was. Of course, you do to going through
Speaker 1: the phone thing. She never found anything. Did the snoop
Speaker 1: and ship never found anything. So she was led to
Speaker 1: believe he was not cheating because she could not prove it.
Speaker 1: So she let that go. Fast forward three more years later,
Speaker 1: this is six years. They've been together now, three good
Speaker 1: years in three trying years. So she said, by this time,
Speaker 1: it wasn't even I love yous and I missus, or
Speaker 1: you look beautiful. It was none of that. She had
Speaker 1: to say it first. That was the only way he
Speaker 1: was gonna say I love you or I miss you
Speaker 1: is if he was putting two on the end of it,
Speaker 1: because she said it first. So we all know how
Speaker 1: that feels. She also expressed me that she was feeling unappreciated.
Speaker 1: She was being taken for granted, like she was just there.
Speaker 1: After a while, she said, it felt like being with
Speaker 1: a roommate. They were just roommates. It came down to
Speaker 1: no sex her seventh year, her family had to get together. Now.
Speaker 1: He was always involved with her family, and he still
Speaker 1: went to outings with her. They just didn't interact behind
Speaker 1: closed the wars at home. They were just like two
Speaker 1: mad home girls who lived together. Never talked, didn't mingle,
Speaker 1: didn't watch TV together. I'm talking about nothing. She said.
Speaker 1: He would cook, wouldn't make her plate. He would cook
Speaker 1: because he can cook. He would cook, wouldn't make a plate.
Speaker 1: She would have to go and make her own plate.
Speaker 1: He would not sit down and eat with her like
Speaker 1: boyfriend and girlfriend, like a family. They didn't. They wouldn't
Speaker 1: do that anymore. He just started doing things by his lonesome.
Speaker 1: There at the family get together. One of her cousins
Speaker 1: got proposed to not too long before they get together,
Speaker 1: so all the couples, of course, started talking about marriage
Speaker 1: and everything, and the cousin asked him, a dumb when
Speaker 1: you're gonna marry my cousin, y'all see babies, more babies
Speaker 1: in the future, and the wedding bells, she said. He
Speaker 1: shrugged his shoulders and threw his hands up, scared the funk.
Speaker 1: I asked you a question, whether it's I don't see
Speaker 1: wedding bells, whether it's yes, of course I'm gonna get married, nigger,
Speaker 1: You could have lied to paint the picture instead of
Speaker 1: embarrassing her, missed them in d C. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Just a little bit, be like, oh she
Speaker 1: already baby, don't do you already know when we getting
Speaker 1: married or something? Even if you have to play like
Speaker 1: that just to save her the embarrassment, you already ain't there. Mentally,
Speaker 1: she'd been feeling it for four years now. She knew
Speaker 1: in that moment that was it for her. She told
Speaker 1: me that was the last night she ever wanted to
Speaker 1: be with him. That was the last night she ever
Speaker 1: wanted to pull up to the same house with him.
Speaker 1: That was the last time she ever wanted to be
Speaker 1: with that man period. She left him that night. That
Speaker 1: was two years ago. To this day, he is trying
Speaker 1: to get her back. She ain't trying to go back.
Speaker 1: She was weak at her. She even told me she
Speaker 1: went back before not knowing what our worth was. And
Speaker 1: then she had to leave again because he was good
Speaker 1: when she came back. It was like he was scared
Speaker 1: of losing her, but he didn't want to be with
Speaker 1: her while he was there. That was kind of crazy. Now,
Speaker 1: I know a lot of women are going through that
Speaker 1: ship right now. Hold up, Hold up, I know the
Speaker 1: ship getting good. But listen to just a couple of
Speaker 1: seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 1: That brings me to the carefully reckless discussion. A lot
Speaker 1: of women are going through that ship. I know it
Speaker 1: right now. If you're listening, I know you're going through it.
Speaker 1: I've been through it. You know where you feel unappreciated
Speaker 1: and most of the time you know you're worth You
Speaker 1: just don't enforce it because, for one, a lot of
Speaker 1: us have bigger hearts than we know. Our heart is big.
Speaker 1: We don't want to leave someone, we don't it's it's
Speaker 1: a lot of reasons why you stay complacent and why
Speaker 1: your relationship is stagnant and it starts to go downhill
Speaker 1: because a lot of people feel like as they get
Speaker 1: up in age, they don't want to start over. A
Speaker 1: lot of people they get to the point where I
Speaker 1: don't want to start over. I got a family member
Speaker 1: going through a divorce. She was married for thirty some
Speaker 1: more years. She's in her fifties. I said, Auntie, why
Speaker 1: why I take you so long the divorce? And if
Speaker 1: you knew he was cheating on you all this time?
Speaker 1: Like she said, yo for real, boo because they call
Speaker 1: me boo boo. She said, boo boo for real. I
Speaker 1: just didn't want to start over. Who the hell out
Speaker 1: here is really looking for a fifty year old? I said,
Speaker 1: maybe other fifty year olds. I don't know. Ship, you
Speaker 1: can find you a good thirty five year old if
Speaker 1: you're lucky. Ship the novelty, the war off on our
Speaker 1: young asses. No nobody want the lord, young, stupid lord whole.
Speaker 1: No more. Ship. Guys need y'all. Real men are looking
Speaker 1: for y'all. You know, young niggas are looking for y'all
Speaker 1: because the young bitches ain't doing it no more. All
Speaker 1: the young bitches is about. It's some money popping pussy
Speaker 1: and that's it. According to the Internet, that's all young
Speaker 1: bitches be about. We need those seasoned, rill women. We
Speaker 1: need those women that know how to treat men. And
Speaker 1: my aunt was a damn good wife to her husband.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. Sometimes you grow past a
Speaker 1: certain point and your companion doesn't now listen, This topic
Speaker 1: is not only for relationships. That was just an example.
Speaker 1: That was story time. You may be even going through
Speaker 1: this ship with a family member, Like I had a
Speaker 1: lot of family members who I've done shipped for. You know,
Speaker 1: I wasn't appreciate it. I've done ship. I've done it.
Speaker 1: I've done ship for them. I'm talking about in the
Speaker 1: midnight hour, you call me, you know I'm listening. I
Speaker 1: may be sleep, but I'm up listening. You're my cousin
Speaker 1: going through some ship. Talk to me what's up? And
Speaker 1: then when I need the same thing back from you,
Speaker 1: you ain't no where to be found, or you just
Speaker 1: think I got it all together because I'm just what
Speaker 1: the funk you mean, I'm another human being. I'm just
Speaker 1: a public figure, you know, I'm just a celebrity, you know,
Speaker 1: or I'm famous. So on, she got it all together,
Speaker 1: she got money. She good listen, I've been there and
Speaker 1: even in relationships where niggas have gotten too comfortable. And no,
Speaker 1: it's not all about cheating all the time. Sometimes a
Speaker 1: guy just really may mentally be fucked up, or he
Speaker 1: may mentally check out, like in story Time, her man
Speaker 1: she was with her seven years dumb then they get
Speaker 1: checked out mentally obviously. Now she said she never found
Speaker 1: no traces of cheating, even that nigga was good at
Speaker 1: covering his steps, or he just really didn't want to
Speaker 1: be there anymore, he didn't have a desire to be
Speaker 1: with another woman because he would have left her. Instead,
Speaker 1: she had to leave him, and he'd been trying to
Speaker 1: get up back of a sense, you never know what
Speaker 1: you got till it's gone. And that is cliche, but
Speaker 1: you really gotta listen into it. You can do everything
Speaker 1: right for a man, everything right for a friend, everything
Speaker 1: right for a family member. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You can cook, you can clean for your man, make
Speaker 1: sure he come home to dinner on the table. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about where he lack. You pick it up because
Speaker 1: everybody not up. There supposed to be ups and downs
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Everything is not supposed to always be good,
Speaker 1: not even with celebrities. It's not. Trust me, it's not.
Speaker 1: And we've seen some celebrity relationships fall. Ain't nobody perfect.
Speaker 1: That's why I say, in my mind, nobody should be
Speaker 1: fucking goals for nobody because we don't know what nobody
Speaker 1: is going through. Everybody's dealing with something. Trust me, relationships
Speaker 1: are meant for trial and tribulation. It's all about the battle.
Speaker 1: Can y'all come together in battle? So y'all can win
Speaker 1: a victory? Do you feel me? So y'all can bounce
Speaker 1: back and be stronger and be best friends. That family
Speaker 1: member that's keeping a hole on you, ryan your coat, sail,
Speaker 1: draining you and all of that ship, but don't put
Speaker 1: your hand out to them because they ain't gonna have
Speaker 1: nothing for you that ship. Man. It may not even
Speaker 1: be money. Whether you're just there for them to vent
Speaker 1: to you all the time, but when you got to vent,
Speaker 1: they don't want to listen to you, or they're too busy,
Speaker 1: or I can't help you because you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But you're gonna need me again. Your friends friends, certain
Speaker 1: friends use different friends for different ships, and I've always
Speaker 1: thought that was wrong, but it's situational. You never know
Speaker 1: you got different friends for different ships. But you are
Speaker 1: never to treat a friend bad. Always treat a friend
Speaker 1: like you want them to treat you. You feel me,
Speaker 1: I've lost a lot of friends being there, but in return,
Speaker 1: I get shipped. If you're feeling unappreciated and you're doing
Speaker 1: so much for motherfucker's that won't do nothing for you.
Speaker 1: You got to move on. Like my girl from Story Time,
Speaker 1: you move on there. We took us seven years, but
Speaker 1: she eventually gained back that respect and dignity within herself,
Speaker 1: got the funk up and left. And here's another thing.
Speaker 1: You can't expect for people to think like you think.
Speaker 1: Understand what I'm saying. You may be the most generous
Speaker 1: fucking person. You may be the most sweetest person. Give
Speaker 1: your last dime to somebody, give somebody the shirt off
Speaker 1: your back. Don't think for one second that somebody else
Speaker 1: will do that just because you've known them for years,
Speaker 1: just because you've been with them for years, just because
Speaker 1: you are related to them. Yeah, y'all got the same blood,
Speaker 1: but probably not the same characteristics, not the same trait,
Speaker 1: not the same personality, but the same blood. Do you
Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying. Yeah, you laid down with this
Speaker 1: nigga every night, but trust and believe he may not
Speaker 1: still be thinking like you're thinking. Do not depend on
Speaker 1: him to think like you think until he proves you wrong,
Speaker 1: until he proves otherwise. With your friend, y'all been friends
Speaker 1: for twenty something year, is still don't think in your
Speaker 1: mind that she's gonna do each and everything that you
Speaker 1: do for her for you, and it ain't gonna happen.
Speaker 1: That's why you have to go in knowing your worth.
Speaker 1: That's why you have to go in knowing who you are.
Speaker 1: That's why you have to go in loving yourself, learning
Speaker 1: not how to give so much and take so little back.
Speaker 1: You're gonna weigh yourself. Then keep trying to be super
Speaker 1: woman for everybody. Ladies, it's not gonna happen. Now. I
Speaker 1: know this goes both ways because there are men being
Speaker 1: used up as well, but right now I'm dedicating this
Speaker 1: to my women. Happy belated Mother's Day. Now. I was
Speaker 1: in a situation where a guy got comfortable he was
Speaker 1: living with me. He got super comfortable. When I met
Speaker 1: at me at a job, everything was great, everything was great.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I started making good money, I started
Speaker 1: being on TV. Oh we quit his job. Oh yeah, this,
Speaker 1: this is what I'm doing. I'm about to reap these benefits.
Speaker 1: Um you know what I'm saying. You get comfortable, you
Speaker 1: get comfortable, you get complacent in your relationship, goes stagnant,
Speaker 1: and you go nowhere, and you're growing. You're growing spiritually,
Speaker 1: you're growing mentally, you're growing the funk up I'm talking
Speaker 1: about financially even bit you're trying to boss up. And
Speaker 1: then you got this person who's not this person who's
Speaker 1: just sitting in the corner watching you, expecting for you
Speaker 1: to break a piece of your growth and give it
Speaker 1: to them, expecting that Women, we are too good. Our
Speaker 1: hearts are so big, We take so much ship, and
Speaker 1: yet nobody checks on us. Yet nobody says, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Let me get you some flowers, yet nobody says,
Speaker 1: you know what. Let me cook for you, let me
Speaker 1: take you out. Let me just call you and see
Speaker 1: how your day been. Let me just tell you you're beautiful.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back. And that brings me to
Speaker 1: just fix my mess now. Of course, y'all know, I
Speaker 1: always turned to y'all online with my Twitter, my Facebook,
Speaker 1: and Instagram, and I ask y'all so y'all can share
Speaker 1: your experiences with me about the topics in which we
Speaker 1: discussed during Carefully Reckless. So I said, have you ever
Speaker 1: felt unappreciated? Like you try hard and you still get nothing.
Speaker 1: You know your worth, but you don't enforce it, therefore
Speaker 1: you stay? Why tell me about it? I'm gonna read
Speaker 1: off a couple pan Marie Q says everything I do
Speaker 1: ain't good enough for my mom. I try so hard,
Speaker 1: but she don't see it. She act like I won't
Speaker 1: run away, but I don't got no car, so I
Speaker 1: gotta stay and y'all stop playing with me, like stop, hey, yo,
Speaker 1: stop playing Pan Marie, like for real, y'all take your
Speaker 1: lott ass in the house. That's it. You ain't running away, yo,
Speaker 1: y'all agreez Yeta Underscore Mode says yes, I actually recently
Speaker 1: reflected on why I'm not big on holidays slash birthdays,
Speaker 1: and it's because I've never been celebrated but I often
Speaker 1: celebrate others. That's the ship I'm talking about. That's the
Speaker 1: ship I'm talking about. Now. I'm not telling you to
Speaker 1: change who you are, because you shouldn't let somebody else's
Speaker 1: behavior define you as a person. If you are celebratory
Speaker 1: of others, still be that way, but require the motherfucker's
Speaker 1: to reciprocate it. Do you understand or you might have
Speaker 1: to fall back a little bit, start celebrating motherfucker's to
Speaker 1: celebrate you. That's what that is, because if it's genuine
Speaker 1: love between you two, it's automatically gonna be reciprocated because
Speaker 1: that person is gonna feel an obligation, not a favor.
Speaker 1: Underscore waw waw waw waw waw me I feel for
Speaker 1: me personally, it's the starting over falling again part that
Speaker 1: I'm afraid of not being alone or letting go, but
Speaker 1: having to start all over. So I stay and I
Speaker 1: tried my best to make it work, but it usually doesn't. Well,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you've done this more than once, baby,
Speaker 1: And maybe that's why your Instagram name is wy waw
Speaker 1: waw waw way me, because you didn't did that for
Speaker 1: every why you got so that's five wise in your name.
Speaker 1: You don't did this ship five times? I feel and
Speaker 1: I know a lot of you are probably laughing and ship,
Speaker 1: but no, I see a message and everything and baby,
Speaker 1: that's your name. That's a cry for help. Your Instagram
Speaker 1: handles a cry for help why me? Because you keep
Speaker 1: attracting the same thing, and you know why, because that's
Speaker 1: something within you you need to figure out. You need
Speaker 1: to learn your worth. You don't know it, or you
Speaker 1: wouldn't be asking why why me, and you wouldn't keep
Speaker 1: on getting in these sames situations. It's only gonna keep
Speaker 1: happening unto you if you keep repeating the cycle. You
Speaker 1: are the exact example of giving more. Then you get
Speaker 1: giving yourself, your whole self and nothing but yourself, And
Speaker 1: people don't reciprocate that to you, and you don't require
Speaker 1: them to either. So that's why why Wow, Why it
Speaker 1: keeps happening to you? I underscore can underscore, only underscore
Speaker 1: be underscore, Tiff says, My reason is because you care
Speaker 1: about that person so much and you hope they'll see
Speaker 1: you trying and match you, or because you care about
Speaker 1: them so much that you actually want to do for
Speaker 1: them despite them not reciprocating the same. Mostly it's out
Speaker 1: of love and or genuine care. We can't help the
Speaker 1: fact that some of us are built different with the
Speaker 1: heart to care, nurture and provide. We get hurt the
Speaker 1: most too. And yes, you are right, because I was
Speaker 1: one of those people before. You are absolutely right. I
Speaker 1: was one of them, so I know, but I realized
Speaker 1: after le didn't. It happened to me not once, but twice,
Speaker 1: and it ain't gonna be a third time. And I
Speaker 1: want to reflect on what you said. You said, we
Speaker 1: can't help the fact that some of us are built
Speaker 1: different with the heart to care, nurture and provide. Yes,
Speaker 1: you can help that. I'm not saying you have to
Speaker 1: be different, but you can help that. You can because
Speaker 1: you don't have to do it for everybody, and you
Speaker 1: don't have to do it so much. If you know
Speaker 1: you keep getting the shitty end of the stick, stop
Speaker 1: playing with that stick. You gotta find a good stick
Speaker 1: where it ends. Don't get shitty. Do you understand what
Speaker 1: I'm saying? All right now, this is a long one,
Speaker 1: but this is the last one I'm gonna read. And
Speaker 1: this is what I want to spend the most time
Speaker 1: on Eunica Senta says, girl, Yes, my husband and I
Speaker 1: have been together for eleven years and a lot has happened.
Speaker 1: He lost both of his parents, so I said, okay,
Speaker 1: he needs me. I'm gonna build him up so he
Speaker 1: can return the favor and build me. But the grief
Speaker 1: was too much. He started drinking real bad and I
Speaker 1: left just for him to all me crying, begging me
Speaker 1: for abortion money because he got some random bitch pregnant.
Speaker 1: When I left him, he had a good job and
Speaker 1: a car, just drinking real bad child. When he called
Speaker 1: me begging for that abortion money, my heart broke, not
Speaker 1: because of the pregnancy, but because I had never seen
Speaker 1: him at such a low point. All his utilities was off.
Speaker 1: He lost his job and car like he morphed into
Speaker 1: a fucking bum. Then here go my captain, save a
Speaker 1: whole ass, tell him I'd help him get back on
Speaker 1: his feet. Did not give him the abortion money though,
Speaker 1: because ha, that's what you get, and the process of
Speaker 1: helping him get back on his feet, I fell back
Speaker 1: in love with him. Now my baby is one year
Speaker 1: sober and we're still striving for greatness. I know, dot
Speaker 1: dot dot, I'm a dumb bitch, his dumb bitch. First
Speaker 1: of all, how the funk? Wait a minute, Wait a minute,
Speaker 1: scared because I didn't read the end of that. I
Speaker 1: read the beginning of it, and I said, Okay, this
Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna use. This is pretty good. First
Speaker 1: of all, it's a couple of things I want to say.
Speaker 1: You said his utilities was off, but as Dick wasn't
Speaker 1: off because he damn sure made a baby. Okay, a
Speaker 1: baby he didn't want, but he made one. And I
Speaker 1: get it. You're going through ship. A lot of times
Speaker 1: people can use their issues to play on people. They
Speaker 1: use that for manipulation to get what they need from others.
Speaker 1: Now that's not what happened in her case, because she
Speaker 1: said her baby has been sober for one year. And
Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. I love the end.
Speaker 1: But I want to get back to you what you said.
Speaker 1: I know I'm a dumb bitch, his dumb bitch. How
Speaker 1: are you dumb? That's what I want you to think
Speaker 1: about it. Listen, you're not dumb. You left when you
Speaker 1: seen there was a situation that you just couldn't be
Speaker 1: a part of anymore. He called you, he didn't call
Speaker 1: nobody else. He called you, obviously because you meant that
Speaker 1: much to him, and he saw more than just the lover,
Speaker 1: and you obviously saw a friend because any n that
Speaker 1: I'm with when I leave, he called me for money
Speaker 1: for my fucking abortion. For another bitch, I don't even
Speaker 1: need to finish the sentence because I know. Let me
Speaker 1: get a amen, because what the hell? You're better than me.
Speaker 1: Let's just say that. But obviously you know him better.
Speaker 1: And he's not the average manipulator. He's not the average
Speaker 1: person who does this ship. He's not the average user.
Speaker 1: He loves you. He loved you enough to accept your help.
Speaker 1: You were feeling unappreciated for a while, he was going
Speaker 1: through some ship, and you helped him while he was
Speaker 1: on his last leg. And now he appreciates you. And
Speaker 1: the end said, and we're still striving for greatness. And
Speaker 1: I love that. Don't you ever in your life call
Speaker 1: yourself a dumb bitch for helping the man that you
Speaker 1: have always loved just because he left you and made
Speaker 1: a baby that he asked you to help him financially abort.
Speaker 1: And now I know that sound a little crazy, easy
Speaker 1: I was, I know it, and I know it did,
Speaker 1: and it still does to me. But things work out
Speaker 1: differently for different people, and that's all that is. And
Speaker 1: I'm in dead on that. I love you very much
Speaker 1: to be hard. So listen, ladies. If no one has
Speaker 1: ever told you, no one I'm talking about, no, if
Speaker 1: no one ever tells you, if your man ain't tell
Speaker 1: you in a long time, if your friends don't tell you,
Speaker 1: if your friends don't check on you. You know, I
Speaker 1: want to know how you're doing. Are you okay? You know?
Speaker 1: I love you, I miss you. I don't even know you.
Speaker 1: Just just listen to these words. Close your eyes and
Speaker 1: listen to these words. You are beautiful, You are enough.
Speaker 1: And if you keep on letting them walk all over
Speaker 1: you or not walk at all, if you keep doing
Speaker 1: all the walking, you need to walk the funk on
Speaker 1: and not look back. Because if you ain't trying to
Speaker 1: walk with me, then you that means you behind me.
Speaker 1: And I don't need you to be behind me. You
Speaker 1: can't appreciate me behind me. You need to be beside me.
Speaker 1: You need to love me as my family member. You
Speaker 1: need to love me. You need to give me the
Speaker 1: respect I give you, because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: all we have is family, and some people don't even
Speaker 1: got that. Some people look more for loving friends than
Speaker 1: their fucking family because they don't have that family dynamic.
Speaker 1: So be that friend that you want me to be
Speaker 1: for you, or I ain't gonna be your damn friend
Speaker 1: no more. And trust me with the love I give you,
Speaker 1: You're gonna miss it and you're gonna need me before
Speaker 1: I need you. And I know y'all have said that
Speaker 1: to somebody, And I know y'all feeling that burning down
Speaker 1: in your soul because for real, his motherfucker's out here
Speaker 1: that you didn't cut off, that still probably calls you
Speaker 1: because they need you. But when you needed them, they
Speaker 1: weren't there. That's why they're cut off. And if they're
Speaker 1: not cut their ass off. And on that note, I
Speaker 1: love all my beautiful ladies. Happy belated Mother's Day to
Speaker 1: my mother's I love you, guys, and I know y'all
Speaker 1: love me back. Make sure y'all turn and every Wednesday
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