WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Marathon Date 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.240 All right, you caught us. We were on vacation last week. Hey, 0:00:02.240 --> 0:00:05.880 it's breaking down, but we're back and we got a 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:07.360 brand new second date for you today. 0:00:07.440 --> 0:00:07.640 Yeah. 0:00:07.840 --> 0:00:10.000 My stream was like, dude, that you work so hard, 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:13.240 like you're able to record every single morning while you're 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:15.920 in Hawaiian Yeah, yeah, that's what we all do. 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:18.439 Yeah, that's that's it. 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:18.840 That's it. 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:23.200 I think today's second date is going to elicit a 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:28.040 lot of commentary. People are gonna have strong feelings about 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:31.680 what happened after a ten hour date. Yeah, you might 0:00:31.720 --> 0:00:35.400 have strung feelings about that in itself. Yes, yes, yeah, 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:38.199 so definitely leave us those comments. We love reading. Yeah, 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.080 what did you see from last week? Alexis? 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:42.800 Yeah, Fabien said, hey, guys, I have a date today 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:44.839 and she seems nice. Just hope I won't be on 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:47.880 your guys' show any times. And I never gave it 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:52.279 an update, so now we need one. How did it go? 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:55.280 I mean I always feel like no word is good word. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:58.319 Thank you so much for being here. If you ever 0:00:58.360 --> 0:00:59.880 want a second date update, you can go to our 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:02.760 It's brick and Jeffrey dot com. There's a little submit 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:06.080 button there. We can't do international calls. Yet. Okay, we're 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:09.200 working on that, but for right now, sit back and 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:12.560 enjoy the very state side. Second date update brand news 0:01:12.560 --> 0:01:13.360 starts right now. 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:15.800 Second date update date. 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:19.959 What's the optimal amount of time you should spend with 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:21.000 someone when you're on. 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:21.839 A first date? 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:25.880 If it's best case scenario, how long should that hangout? 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:26.319 Last? 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:33.760 Best case scenario means we never leave and we get married. Yeah, 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:38.120 three to four, but effort to say a coffee date 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:39.880 could go forty to sixty minutes. 0:01:40.040 --> 0:01:41.040 That's a long time. 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:44.560 Yeah, I feel like dinner dates could stretch up to 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:47.120 two hours if it's really going well. It makes sense. 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:53.360 Then with activity dates like naked frisbee golf, those can 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:55.720 last two and a half hours if the. 0:01:55.760 --> 0:01:57.120 Chafing doesn't get in the way. 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:59.559 Oh wow, so you probably want to take a time 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:01.480 out here in there, ask your date to rub some 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:03.639 gold bond medicated powder on your side. 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:07.200 Yeah, sweat, are you playing frisbee golf? 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:09.000 Yeah? We're doing it right. 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:12.239 But I want to know what does it mean when 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:15.840 a first date lasts four times that amount? 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:18.040 Oh, cute means it's cute. 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.359 Goes on for ten full hours. 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:23.440 Maybe they're lost in the woods. A lot of people 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:23.960 go hiking. 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:25.960 Okay, but we all agree this is something wrong. 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:28.839 I feel like it's not normal. But one of our 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:31.520 listeners said that happened to him. Unless this is a 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:34.920 typo or something, Chad, Oh, it's one hour. It is 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:37.119 this a typo? It can't be ten hours. 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:41.000 No, this was a marathon date that started early in 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:44.800 the day. It literally kept going. Oh yeah, it wasn't 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:46.040 even it wasn't even planned. 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.360 Oh, it wasn't planned to spend that long together. 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:51.800 No, no, no. We so we met on a dating 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:55.160 app and we were supposed to get some coffee and pastries. 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:57.120 Wait wait, wait, what's her name? 0:02:57.800 --> 0:03:01.320 Her name is Samantha. Samantha okay, and we kind of 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:03.760 hit it off, definitely kind of liked each other, and 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:05.760 I thought that was kind of where it was going 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.680 to end. And then, you know, I was playing on 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:10.480 going to the gym. It seemed like she kind of 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:11.520 wanted to keep going. 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:14.480 Well, yeah, she's got all that coffee energy. Now she's 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:16.800 got to burn it off and do something else. 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:17.320 Yeah. 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:20.560 Did she suggest like activity or something go to the 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:21.000 gym with you? 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:23.200 She wanted to go to the wine bar. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:28.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that sounds way more fun. 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:32.040 But why in the morning. That's cool? 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:34.280 Yeah, yeah, I mean I kind of liked her. It 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:36.680 was a little early, but I was like, what's one day? 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:38.840 So you skipped glue day? 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:43.000 Jessappointed, I know, but I mean you must have felt 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:45.360 the connection too, if you're willing to skip the gym 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:45.760 for it. 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:48.520 He used those crazy strong words. I kind of liked her. 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:56.120 Yeah, well, things are going pretty well. She kept asking 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:59.160 like tons of questions. She was super into me. I 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:02.120 could tell that, and like, then again I liked her too. 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:05.600 And then we're about four hours in at this point, 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:06.960 what wow. 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:08.440 You're drinking four hours the wine. 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:11.120 Well, we got coffee first and then wine. Yeah, we're 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:15.920 trying to make our heart stop, the stomach some set. 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:18.120 What's going through your mind at the four hour mark? 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:21.240 I mean, I'm just thinking, like when is this ending? Like, 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:22.280 I like her, but. 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:25.040 It's like what's next. 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.080 But it's so fun to get kind of day drunk, 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.520 and then you just one thing leads to another and 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:32.359 suddenly you're at some house party at night and you're like, 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:34.520 well to yeah. 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:37.200 So we actually we took some wine to go and 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:40.120 then she wanted to go to the park and I 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.760 was like, well, we're already here this far. Let's go 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:43.160 hang out. 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:48.200 Yeah, let's put some public intoxication on this first date. 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:50.320 I ought to be lunchtime soon. I know, I feel 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.479 like they need to eat too. Yeah, you get something 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:53.200 in your stomach. 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:56.279 Right, So we're up to like maybe five hours here, 0:04:57.000 --> 0:04:59.799 and she asked if she wants to go get some dinner, 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:04.040 so we went to another bar before the dinner. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:07.680 Okay, how are you are you seeing this as an 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:08.320 issue at all? 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:11.520 Are you having fun? 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:14.360 A little bit of column a little bit of column beat? 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:17.839 All right, it's it's the buzz is kicking in and 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:20.960 I'm having fun. But it's also you know, like it's 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:23.200 this is a long time. But again, I like her, 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:23.840 like me. 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:25.960 It's at the same time you were saying at hour 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:28.320 four you were wondering when this date was gonna end. 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:30.520 So it sounds like you just don't know how to 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:34.320 politely be like I need this to be over. 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:38.320 Yeah. So I did say at one point, hey, I've 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:40.480 had such a great time, I'm sorry to take up 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:41.560 your entire day. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:45.200 Okay, okay, all right, So you gave her an out, 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.440 what I mean, because maybe she was doing the same thing. 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:51.120 Maybe both of you don't know how to Yeah, what 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:52.480 did she say? No? 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:55.440 And she goes, are you kidding? The day has just begun? 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:01.680 But I go into kids and she pulled away. I 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:05.320 have no I have no clue. I thought for sure, 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:09.880 after ten hours, four different location changes, I'm into her. 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:13.360 She's into me, I thought for I thought I thought 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:16.360 she wanted me to kiss her. Yeah, I felt it. 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:19.039 How many signs can you get from one person that 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.120 they like being around you and like hanging out? 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:27.279 I would have been making out an hour two. 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:27.160 Fixed out to say at the wine mark. 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:31.560 It's weird that she pulled away from the kiss, though, 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:32.760 and then where did that happen? 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:32.919 Like? 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:34.080 Was that in the restaurant? 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:34.320 Is that? 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:35.040 No? 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:36.640 We were actual? Yeah, we walked back to her place, 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:39.080 was right in front of her place. She pulled away, 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:41.240 and she hasn't returned my phone. 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.719 Call since, and she sobered up. Any maybe she was 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:45.719 just more intoxicated than you saw. 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.239 She didn't want your first kiss to be a super 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:51.160 sloppy drunk she was acting. 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:52.600 Or she didn't pull away, she just lost her balance. 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:55.520 I mean, all could be true, but then that doesn't 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:57.440 explain why she won't return my calls. 0:06:57.560 --> 0:07:02.520 Yeah, so would you be disappointed if after a great 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:05.520 ten hour date you find out you messed up at 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:09.680 the nine to mark and those last fifteen minutes just 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:11.080 absolutely killed. 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:12.560 It for you, or she blocked out hour two. 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:16.960 Yeah, I'd be I'd be very upset. 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:19.960 Okay, all right, she's like fighting was perfect until he 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:20.760 tried to kiss me. 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:22.160 Yeah. Did you like. 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:25.080 Her more at the end of the ten hours or less? 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.120 I kind of just was Carpe DM season a day 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.840 and it felt right. So I still just can't explain it. 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:32.800 I liked her very much. 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:34.360 He was just relieved that it was over. 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:37.040 He can go home and take a nap, probably, but 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:40.400 let's come back. We will call Samantha for you and 0:07:40.480 --> 0:07:43.800 hopefully get some answers about why after a ten hour 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:45.400 marathon date. 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:47.000 She is suddenly ghosting you. 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:49.000 We'll do it and keep right after this Hold on 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:54.120 Second Date update. If you're just joining us for the 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:57.040 second date update. Our listener Chad went on a first 0:07:57.120 --> 0:08:03.160 date that lasted longer than most relap ten full hours. 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:08.280 Wasn't planned that way, It just happened naturally where they 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:11.640 kept rolling from one activity into the next, to the 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:15.560 next to the next, until ten hours later. He's finally 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:19.280 standing in front of her place, going in for the kiss, and. 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:23.760 She pulled away. Yeah, hasn't heard from her after that. 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.160 Yeah, it sounds like it was an awkward moment for sure. 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.560 Yeah, but they were both drinking the whole day, so 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.840 who knows what the moment was really like. Yeah, but 0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:33.840 just to be clear, Chad, you still want to try 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:35.520 to get another date with Samantha? 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:35.719 Here? 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:38.000 Are you just doing this to figure out why? 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.440 I want to know both? I want to know Lie 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:43.319 and I would love to go on another day with her. 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:44.000 We had a good time. 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:47.240 But it's interesting too because every new activity you guys 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:50.200 did was her idea, right, not one of them was 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:50.840 your idea. 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:51.600 That's true. 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:54.320 Maybe in her life, ten hours is a really short 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:57.280 date and she's like, he can only last ten hours. 0:08:57.720 --> 0:08:59.240 She's like the opposite of life. 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:01.120 He does, sound like that would have gone out after 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:01.920 it he left that. 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:08.040 Yeah, morn that, but I don't know. Let's call her, 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:10.600 we'll see if she picks up. And I'm dying to 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:12.559 know what she has to say about. 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:14.320 This, because there's just remember when we get her on 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:16.240 the phone, we don't have ten hours to talk to her. 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:19.319 Oh okay, Well, we'll do it quick. Gosh, what if 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:23.800 that's it? She just doesn't stop talking. We might need 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:25.680 some help with it, but I'm calling her right now. 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:36.560 Here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Samantha? 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:38.800 Yeah? Who's calling? 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:42.240 H This is a radio show calling you called Brook 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:43.240 and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:44.240 Not fuck. 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:51.760 Oh okay, that's weird. Why are they calling me? Can 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:52.680 I win something? 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:53.760 Yeah? 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:55.320 Kind of at the end, you kind of do. 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:59.040 Yeah, depending on what happens over the next few minutes here, 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:01.080 because this is a segment we do call the second 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:01.680 Date update. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:06.520 Oh, I think I've heard this before. 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:08.800 Okay, it's pretty popular. 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:11.320 Yeah, let's go viral on TikTok and stuff. 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:15.880 Okay, so you're calling me, So who is the person 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:17.720 that I went out on a date with? 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:19.800 Well, Jeff Yeah, I. 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:22.040 Really appreciate you doing my job because I'm not great 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:25.040 at it. But there's a guy you should definitely remember 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:28.120 because you spent ten full hours with him, a guy 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:36.880 named Chad in Incredible. 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:38.040 Incredible. 0:10:38.360 --> 0:10:40.440 Wow, you think he's incredible. 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:43.120 I think it's incredible you're calling me about him. 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:47.120 Wow, this is so unbelievable. It sounds like you had 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:48.960 a great time all day long. 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:53.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, how do you spend ten hours ongoing 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:55.520 with somebody if there's not some sort of vibe happening. 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:58.040 If there's no, I'll tell you, I'll tell you. So 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:00.480 he went out with my best girlfriend. 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.840 Wait wait wait wait wait wait when after you went out? Wait? 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:07.920 Yeah? No, no, before months ago he went out with 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:09.079 my best girlfriend. 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:11.680 Okay, wait, did you know this before you went on 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:12.600 a date with Chad? 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:14.679 Or I shure, did you. 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:18.400 Knew Chad before you went out with him as having 0:11:18.480 --> 0:11:19.760 dated your friend? 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:20.600 Yeah? 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.080 Oh that's weird. He didn't mention that. 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:26.439 Yeah, well he didn't know this, but he spent many, 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:31.320 many hours with her, oh, then ghosted her. She was 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.280 very into him, liked him so much. He totally I 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:37.400 feel like he led her on. He even took her 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:39.600 to spend time with his grandma. 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:42.559 Wait, oh boy, he took your best friend to spend 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:45.720 time with his grandma, and then he ghosted your best friend. 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:51.320 Yeah, introduced her. He spent all this time with her, basically, 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:55.160 you know, half a day, and then he just ghosted her, 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:58.240 never replied to her, never called her nothing. 0:11:58.320 --> 0:11:58.600 I know. 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:02.360 She didn't do anything wrong. He's adorable, she's sweeps. He 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:06.920 showed me pictures of him, and I matched with him 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:09.200 months later on a dating app and I ran to 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:10.959 her and I was like, oh my god, you're never 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:14.439 gonna believe this. I matched with him. She goes, Oh, 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:16.520 you got to go out with him and get him back. 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:16.760 What. 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:20.160 Oh, so this whole thing, your whole ten hour date 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:23.000 was just revenge for him ghosting your best friend. 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:27.800 Yeah, we girls got to stick together. Yeah, so give 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:30.719 him the message. Now you know how it feels. Give 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:31.600 him that message. 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:33.719 Oh. 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:36.200 I don't know that that's the most mature way to deal, 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:36.840 but this. 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:39.360 Makes sense why she was the one that was like 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:40.920 wanting to like keep. 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.840 The date going, yea, and why she wouldn't kiss him, 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.040 And the look on his face at the end of 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:50.440 our gate Christ was, I don't know if he told you, 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:52.400 like how much time we spent, how much money he 0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:53.600 spent on me, But. 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:55.880 You realize it, like he would have never got the 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:59.240 message of what you're doing, that it was even revenge 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:00.959 if you didn't call him and. 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:04.120 Tell him, Okay, we we knew, we knew me and 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:05.840 Karen knew okay. 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:06.800 So it was just for you too. 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:11.040 Yeah, he definitely had no idea about this whole thing. 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:11.600 Going on. 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:14.800 But yeah, good, tell him he used to be humiliated. 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:18.400 And you know, I don't have to tell him that 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:21.080 because he's actually been listening to this phone call on 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:24.040 the other line quietly this whole time, so he's kind 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.320 of already heard it. 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:28.280 Great, it's even better. 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:30.959 I love get you're enjoying that. 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:34.760 I feel bad about it, gloating now, I mean, chat, 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:35.280 are you there? 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:37.560 Yep, I'm here. 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:38.160 Wow. 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:42.000 I don't even know what to say right now. That's 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:44.160 that's really what was going on the whole time. 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:47.520 Yeah, I'm not interested in you. 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:48.800 Oh who wait? 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:51.559 Wait, wait, wait wait wait, I heard everything you said. 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:54.520 But we spent ten hours you mean it our eight 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:58.679 hour nine when we've had shardenay coffee, all types of 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:00.960 we've had the most fun all day. 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:04.160 You mean to tell me you didn't feel anything, because yeah, 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:06.480 and I'm. 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:09.559 Pretty sure you felt five hours with you and then 0:14:09.600 --> 0:14:10.480 you you ghost her. 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.720 So now you know how it feels your friend, your 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:15.400 friend Sarah Will only went on one date with him 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:17.040 before that lasted a long time. 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:25.160 Yeah, so you doubled it, okay, And I have no regrets, 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:25.920 no regrets. 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:28.800 No, there wasn't even a moment in that ten hour 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:32.080 period that you felt like a tinge of guilt, a. 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:34.680 Decent guy a little bit. 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:40.560 I was enjoying myself so much I had, I had 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:45.160 a belly full of food, I had a drinks going 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:50.760 in my veins. I was like fine, yeah, yeah. And 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:52.640 to top it off, you know who else had a 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:56.840 great time, Sarah. We laughed for hours. Oh my god, 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:59.400 we're still laughing about it. 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:02.880 I don't even want to tell you that Chad skipped 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:05.040 his gluten day at the gym in order. 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:08.200 To with you, Sarah. 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:13.000 He really needed that day. I'll tell you what. 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:17.680 Okay, Oh Chad, I mean, do you feel bad about 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:20.160 ghosting Sarah? I guess that's what she wanted. 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:23.000 Yeah, I mean it was just a tough time, you know, 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:25.200 with my grandma and not doing so well. I just 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:26.560 didn't feel like I could be dating. 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:30.320 I am curious, Chad, why did you introduce the other 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:31.600 date to your grandma? 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:34.840 I was honestly just dropping off medication. It was just 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:37.760 a quick errand it wasn't really like I was introducing 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:38.200 it to her. 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:40.560 Why you monster? 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:46.680 I mean, okay, I know that your friend Sarah was 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:50.560 really hurt, but like we deal with so much dating 0:15:50.720 --> 0:15:53.280 on this show, that ghosting just seems like the normal 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:55.400 way that people get out of things these days. I 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:58.000 don't think she should have maybe taken it so personally. 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.680 Guys are just playing us all all the time, and 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:03.880 they're playing games and they you know, we felt like, 0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:07.440 let's get this one back already. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:08.040 Sarah, and you have done. 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:10.760 But I'm also interested. Yeah, Chad just happened to be 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:12.080 the wrong place at the wrong time. 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:12.480 I don't know. 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:14.960 I can kind of see what Samantha is saying here, 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:16.600 because I kind of would like to play a little 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:18.600 bit of a game with you, a game. 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:20.440 Of would you like to go out with Chad one 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:21.000 more time? 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:26.400 I would rather I would rather split my eyelids with 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:29.080 razor blade. 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:35.120 That's so dark if Chad, are you into that or. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:39.520 Yeah? Honestly, it just seems like she's so really angry 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:43.480 because of what happened with Sarah, and honestly, at this point, 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:45.960 I just it doesn't seem like it's going to work out. 0:16:46.200 --> 0:16:49.400 Okay, man, Oh you think you think, oh. 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:53.360 You didn't answer, like he's the one being asked. 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:55.960 Yeah, I never know who you're ghosting too. 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:58.040 I guess, yes, Chad. 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:00.240 Now you know, if a girl in the future ever 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.720 says that she wants to hang out with you more. 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:07.320 And really likes you. Red flag. Someone's trying to get 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:10.440 three of this date. It must be awf. 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:15.800 And you know what else? Say you're gonna call the person. 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:18.000 Don't say that you liked them and you had a 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:18.440 great time. 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:21.720 She's trying to drag us into our ten of this 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:24.520 song came, we appreciate your time, Ante, We'll let you go, 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:25.040 thank you? 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:28.080 Yeah, all right, brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:31.720 It used to be that dating apps were scary, like, 0:17:32.000 --> 0:17:34.760 oh my gosh, is this rando gonna like show. 0:17:34.600 --> 0:17:36.000 Up and murder me or whatever? 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:39.280 Totally, but nowadays it's like, oh my gosh, is this 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:41.560 person gonna waste all my money and time and. 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:43.480 A revenge a lot and. 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:46.200 Then ghost me afterwards and laugh about it with their 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:48.439 friends on the radio. 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:51.720 Yeah. I can't believe there's so few options on dating 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:54.080 apps that you run into the same people or people 0:17:54.119 --> 0:17:55.160 that your friends have dated. 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:57.320 Yeah, how awful. 0:17:57.800 --> 0:17:59.720 My friend's hitting me up, Like, dude, your girlfriend is 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:04.639 still yeah show Yeah. This whole thing just really is 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:07.840 not a great advertisement for all the matchmaking apps out there. 0:18:07.880 --> 0:18:10.840