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Speaker 3: My stream was like, dude, that you work so hard,

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Speaker 1: I think today's second date is going to elicit a

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Speaker 1: what did you see from last week? Alexis?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Fabien said, hey, guys, I have a date today

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Speaker 1: I mean I always feel like no word is good word.

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Speaker 5: Second date update date.

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Speaker 3: What's the optimal amount of time you should spend with

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Speaker 5: A first date?

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Speaker 3: If it's best case scenario, how long should that hangout?

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Speaker 3: Best case scenario means we never leave and we get married. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: three to four, but effort to say a coffee date

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Speaker 3: could go forty to sixty minutes.

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Speaker 1: That's a long time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like dinner dates could stretch up to

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Speaker 3: two hours if it's really going well. It makes sense.

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Speaker 3: Then with activity dates like naked frisbee golf, those can

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Speaker 5: Chafing doesn't get in the way.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, so you probably want to take a time

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Speaker 3: out here in there, ask your date to rub some

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sweat, are you playing frisbee golf?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? We're doing it right.

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Speaker 3: But I want to know what does it mean when

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Speaker 3: a first date lasts four times that amount?

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Speaker 1: Oh, cute means it's cute.

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Speaker 5: Goes on for ten full hours.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they're lost in the woods. A lot of people

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Speaker 5: Okay, but we all agree this is something wrong.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's not normal. But one of our

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Speaker 3: this a typo? It can't be ten hours.

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Speaker 2: No, this was a marathon date that started early in

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Speaker 1: Oh, it wasn't planned to spend that long together.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no. We so we met on a dating

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Speaker 2: app and we were supposed to get some coffee and pastries.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, what's her name?

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Speaker 2: Her name is Samantha. Samantha okay, and we kind of

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, she's got all that coffee energy. Now she's

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Speaker 2: She wanted to go to the wine bar.

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Speaker 5: So you skipped glue day?

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Speaker 1: He used those crazy strong words. I kind of liked her.

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Speaker 3: It's like what's next.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's put some public intoxication on this first date.

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Speaker 2: Right, So we're up to like maybe five hours here,

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Speaker 2: A little bit of column a little bit of column beat?

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Speaker 3: It's at the same time you were saying at hour

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Speaker 3: So it sounds like you just don't know how to

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I did say at one point, hey, I've

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Speaker 2: And she goes, are you kidding? The day has just begun?

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Speaker 2: She's into me, I thought for I thought I thought

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Speaker 3: How many signs can you get from one person that

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Speaker 1: I would have been making out an hour two.

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Speaker 5: Fixed out to say at the wine mark.

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Speaker 3: It's weird that she pulled away from the kiss, though,

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Speaker 5: Was that in the restaurant?

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Speaker 2: We were actual? Yeah, we walked back to her place,

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Speaker 1: Call since, and she sobered up. Any maybe she was

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Speaker 3: She didn't want your first kiss to be a super

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Speaker 1: Or she didn't pull away, she just lost her balance.

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Speaker 2: I mean, all could be true, but then that doesn't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so would you be disappointed if after a great

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Speaker 5: It for you, or she blocked out hour two.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd be I'd be very upset.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, she's like fighting was perfect until he

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Did you like.

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Speaker 1: Her more at the end of the ten hours or less?

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Speaker 2: I kind of just was Carpe DM season a day

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Speaker 2: and it felt right. So I still just can't explain it.

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Speaker 2: I liked her very much.

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Speaker 5: He was just relieved that it was over.

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Speaker 3: He can go home and take a nap, probably, but

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Speaker 3: let's come back. We will call Samantha for you and

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Speaker 3: hopefully get some answers about why after a ten hour

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Speaker 5: She is suddenly ghosting you.

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Speaker 3: We'll do it and keep right after this Hold on

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Speaker 3: date that lasted longer than most relap ten full hours.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't planned that way, It just happened naturally where they

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Speaker 5: She pulled away. Yeah, hasn't heard from her after that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like it was an awkward moment for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but they were both drinking the whole day, so

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Speaker 3: just to be clear, Chad, you still want to try

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Speaker 2: Here?

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Speaker 5: Are you just doing this to figure out why?

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Speaker 2: I want to know both? I want to know Lie

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Speaker 2: and I would love to go on another day with her.

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Speaker 2: We had a good time.

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Speaker 1: But it's interesting too because every new activity you guys

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Speaker 5: That's true.

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Speaker 3: Maybe in her life, ten hours is a really short

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Speaker 1: She's like the opposite of life.

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Speaker 6: He does, sound like that would have gone out after

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Speaker 3: Yeah, morn that, but I don't know. Let's call her,

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Speaker 3: we'll see if she picks up. And I'm dying to

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Speaker 1: This, because there's just remember when we get her on

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Speaker 1: the phone, we don't have ten hours to talk to her.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, Well, we'll do it quick. Gosh, what if

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Speaker 5: that's it? She just doesn't stop talking. We might need

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Speaker 5: some help with it, but I'm calling her right now.

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Speaker 5: Here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Samantha?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Who's calling?

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Speaker 3: H This is a radio show calling you called Brook

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Speaker 3: and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Not fuck.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, that's weird. Why are they calling me? Can

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Speaker 6: I win something?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Kind of at the end, you kind of do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, depending on what happens over the next few minutes here,

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Speaker 6: Oh, I think I've heard this before.

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Speaker 5: Okay, it's pretty popular.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go viral on TikTok and stuff.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so you're calling me, So who is the person

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Speaker 5: Well, Jeff Yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Really appreciate you doing my job because I'm not great

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Speaker 3: at it. But there's a guy you should definitely remember

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Speaker 3: because you spent ten full hours with him, a guy

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Speaker 6: Incredible.

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Speaker 5: Wow, you think he's incredible.

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Speaker 6: I think it's incredible you're calling me about him.

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Speaker 1: Wow, this is so unbelievable. It sounds like you had

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, how do you spend ten hours ongoing

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Speaker 6: If there's no, I'll tell you, I'll tell you. So

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Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait wait when after you went out? Wait?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? No, no, before months ago he went out with

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, did you know this before you went on

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Speaker 6: Or I shure, did you.

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Speaker 3: Knew Chad before you went out with him as having

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's weird. He didn't mention that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well he didn't know this, but he spent many,

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Speaker 1: Wait, oh boy, he took your best friend to spend

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Speaker 6: Yeah, introduced her. He spent all this time with her, basically,

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 6: She didn't do anything wrong. He's adorable, she's sweeps. He

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Speaker 2: What.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so this whole thing, your whole ten hour date

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we girls got to stick together. Yeah, so give

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that that's the most mature way to deal,

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Speaker 3: Makes sense why she was the one that was like

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Speaker 8: The date going, yea, and why she wouldn't kiss him,

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Speaker 8: And the look on his face at the end of

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Speaker 1: You realize it, like he would have never got the

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Speaker 1: if you didn't call him and.

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Speaker 6: Tell him, Okay, we we knew, we knew me and

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Speaker 6: Karen knew okay.

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Speaker 1: So it was just for you too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he definitely had no idea about this whole thing.

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Speaker 5: Going on.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, good, tell him he used to be humiliated.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I don't have to tell him that

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Speaker 3: of already heard it.

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Speaker 6: Great, it's even better.

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Speaker 1: I love get you're enjoying that.

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Speaker 3: I feel bad about it, gloating now, I mean, chat,

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Speaker 3: are you there?

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Speaker 2: Yep, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know what to say right now. That's

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Speaker 2: that's really what was going on the whole time.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not interested in you.

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Speaker 5: Oh who wait?

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Speaker 7: Wait, wait, wait wait wait, I heard everything you said.

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Speaker 7: But we spent ten hours you mean it our eight

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Speaker 7: hour nine when we've had shardenay coffee, all types of

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Speaker 7: we've had the most fun all day.

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Speaker 2: You mean to tell me you didn't feel anything, because yeah,

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Speaker 6: Pretty sure you felt five hours with you and then

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Speaker 3: So now you know how it feels your friend, your

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so you doubled it, okay, And I have no regrets,

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Speaker 1: No, there wasn't even a moment in that ten hour

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Speaker 5: Decent guy a little bit.

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Speaker 6: I was enjoying myself so much I had, I had

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Speaker 6: to top it off, you know who else had a

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Speaker 6: great time, Sarah. We laughed for hours. Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: I don't even want to tell you that Chad skipped

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Speaker 5: To with you, Sarah.

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Speaker 6: He really needed that day. I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh Chad, I mean, do you feel bad about

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was just a tough time, you know,

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Speaker 3: I am curious, Chad, why did you introduce the other

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Speaker 2: I was honestly just dropping off medication. It was just

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Speaker 5: Why you monster?

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I know that your friend Sarah was

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Speaker 6: Guys are just playing us all all the time, and

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Speaker 6: they're playing games and they you know, we felt like,

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Speaker 4: Sarah, and you have done.

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Speaker 1: But I'm also interested. Yeah, Chad just happened to be

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I can kind of see what Samantha is saying here,

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Speaker 5: Of would you like to go out with Chad one

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Speaker 5: more time?

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Speaker 6: I would rather I would rather split my eyelids with

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Speaker 5: That's so dark if Chad, are you into that or.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Honestly, it just seems like she's so really angry

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Speaker 2: I just it doesn't seem like it's going to work out.

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Speaker 6: Okay, man, Oh you think you think, oh.

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Speaker 5: You didn't answer, like he's the one being asked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I never know who you're ghosting too.

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Speaker 5: I guess, yes, Chad.

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Speaker 3: Now you know, if a girl in the future ever

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Speaker 5: And really likes you. Red flag. Someone's trying to get

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Speaker 5: three of this date. It must be awf.

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Speaker 6: And you know what else? Say you're gonna call the person.

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Speaker 6: Don't say that you liked them and you had a

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Speaker 3: She's trying to drag us into our ten of this

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Speaker 3: song came, we appreciate your time, Ante, We'll let you go,

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Speaker 3: thank you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: It used to be that dating apps were scary, like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, is this rando gonna like show.

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Speaker 5: Up and murder me or whatever?

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Speaker 3: Totally, but nowadays it's like, oh my gosh, is this

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Speaker 3: person gonna waste all my money and time and.

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Speaker 1: A revenge a lot and.

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Speaker 3: Then ghost me afterwards and laugh about it with their

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I can't believe there's so few options on dating

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Speaker 1: apps that you run into the same people or people

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Speaker 5: Yeah, how awful.

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Speaker 3: My friend's hitting me up, Like, dude, your girlfriend is

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Speaker 3: still yeah show Yeah. This whole thing just really is

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Speaker 3: not a great advertisement for all the matchmaking apps out there.

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Speaker 3: But I guess this is what's happening right now, Oh Boy,

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Speaker 3: And you can hear more of our second date updates.

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Speaker 3: You can find them wherever you get your podcasts. They're

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Speaker 3: on Spotify, Apple. We also put them up on YouTube,

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Speaker 3: so go check them out, subscribe Approok and Jeffrey