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Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight here it is thank you nephew,

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Speaker 1: subject cheating husband. Dear Morning crew. I've been with my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend for six years, living together. He bought a house

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Speaker 1: and we started to go to church and got married

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Speaker 1: in that church to Luther song. So amazing. Three months

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Speaker 1: into the marriage, my husband started to cheat on me

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Speaker 1: with a twenty four year old woman who is the

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Speaker 1: same age as his daughter. I find out this New

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Speaker 1: Year's Eve if he left me sleep to be with her.

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Speaker 1: The next time he told me, Um, it was the

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Speaker 1: church's fault. We got married. The next time he told

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Speaker 1: me read the letter like its ridden. Don't try to help.

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Speaker 1: I know it's hard for you because you speak real property.

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Speaker 1: Read read the letter. Let me read this letter because

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Speaker 1: see you you don't do good with broken grammar. This

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Speaker 1: is why come your morning crew. I've been with my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend for six years, living together. He bought a house

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Speaker 1: and we started going to church and he and got

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Speaker 1: married and got married in that church to Luther song.

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Speaker 1: So amazing. Three months into the marriage, my husband started

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Speaker 1: to cheat on me with the twenty four year old

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Speaker 1: woman who is the same age his daughter. I find

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Speaker 1: this out New Year's Eve if he left me sleep

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Speaker 1: to be with her. The next time, he told me

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Speaker 1: it's the church fought we got married. He blamed in

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Speaker 1: on God and stopped going to church. Well, now it's

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Speaker 1: four months later, little miss Sunshine is gone. He backed

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Speaker 1: in church and need my help. I still have feeling

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Speaker 1: for him, but the trust is gone. Part of me

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Speaker 1: wants to leave you. What should I do? And how

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Speaker 1: you reading read the last line line? What should what? What? Sure?

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Speaker 1: I do? Yeah? Worsh I do? Thank you Steve. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm really sorry this young lady had to

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Speaker 1: go through this pain. I really am. And I understand

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Speaker 1: how she still might have some feelings for him because

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Speaker 1: he is still her husband. But in this case, you

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Speaker 1: have to think about yourself, you really really do. You

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Speaker 1: can't allow this man to treat you anymore. He can't

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Speaker 1: to mistreat you anymore. You have to stand up for yourself.

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Speaker 1: You you have to believe that you deserve better and

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Speaker 1: no one should treat anyone like this. Uh. This has

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Speaker 1: to do with you and the choices you make for

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Speaker 1: the rest of your life. So all I can say

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Speaker 1: to you is ask yourself this. You know, he says

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Speaker 1: he needs your help now, But what does he need

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Speaker 1: your help for now? He wasn't thinking about that when

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Speaker 1: he was cheating on you three months into the to

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Speaker 1: the marriage, So you got to think about it that way, Steve.

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Speaker 1: I know it's like, go ahead, no, no, uh, don't

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Speaker 1: worry about that. All of my answer canna be done

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Speaker 1: on the second half. See, you only had to work

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Speaker 1: when a person right like this to go, she talked

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Speaker 1: to man. Okay, when we when we do come to that,

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Speaker 1: the strawberry ladder will be for next for two. Alright,

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Speaker 1: Part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three

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Speaker 1: after the hour this letter here, we'll be back. All right,

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Speaker 1: Here we go with Steve Harvey's second part of his

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Speaker 1: response to this crazy strawberry letter. Right now, let's go, Steve, Well,

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Speaker 1: this crazy written letter deserves to be answered in the

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Speaker 1: same way, so let's read. Just let it and go

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Speaker 1: down the line. Dear morning crew, I've been with my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend for six years, living together. He bought house, and

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Speaker 1: we started going to church and got married in that church. Okay,

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Speaker 1: right here, if you got married in that church, Mary

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Speaker 1: means to become happy. See you got married in the church,

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Speaker 1: y'all got happy. Y'all should have gotten married at the church.

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Speaker 1: See to the Luther song. So amazing. Okay, what's Luther

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Speaker 1: are you referring to? Because I thought you was talking

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Speaker 1: about Luther Bates, because Luther Baits used to say got

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Speaker 1: the holiday and expressed up in Cleveland. And I think

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Speaker 1: what's really amazing is is that you are even writing.

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Speaker 1: I find that to be. Uh. Three months into the marriage,

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Speaker 1: my husband start to cheat on me with a twenty

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Speaker 1: four year old woman that surely you said you wanted

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Speaker 1: to talk to this young girl and help out. She's

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Speaker 1: not young, she's grown. Yeah, because she's a full grown woman.

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Speaker 1: I mean talking about up in age because she was.

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Speaker 1: She got cheated on with it from man. She with

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Speaker 1: a four year old woman, same age as his daughter.

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Speaker 1: I find this out new Year's Eve. If he left

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Speaker 1: me to sleep to be with Falk, well, see, baby,

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Speaker 1: most men ain't gonna wake you up and then notify

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Speaker 1: you on New Year's Eve that I'm going out. That's

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Speaker 1: why he didn't do that. The next time, he told

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Speaker 1: me it's the church fought we got married. See then, baby,

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Speaker 1: that's why he going to the hell to Then she

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Speaker 1: said he blamed in on God. And stop going to church.

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Speaker 1: This is starting to hurt my head. Now. Four moost later,

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Speaker 1: little miss Sunshine is gone. He back in church and

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Speaker 1: need my help. M that's why you should tell him, lady,

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Speaker 1: to kiss to your behind. I still have feeling for him,

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Speaker 1: but the trust is gone. Part of me wants to leave.

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Speaker 1: What's sure I do well? I for show. Don't know

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Speaker 1: what you sure to do? But to hell with he

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Speaker 1: and tell he to kiss back? Yo? What what fun? Dang? Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're moving on. We're moving on. Email or Instagram your

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Speaker 1: thoughts on today's strawberry letter at My Girls, Shureley