1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: All right, we got a brand new episode for you. 2 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 2: It is the Second Date Podcast and this is Brooke 3 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the Morning. And when I say the 4 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:11,319 Speaker 2: entire room was shocked, that is a understatement. When we 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: found out the real reason this guy wanted to switch 6 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 2: tables at the restaurant. 7 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm still mid gas, dude. 8 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 2: Seriously, seriously, this one is gonna blow you away. And 9 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 2: I know there's gonna be a lot of comments on it, 10 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 2: So let's get to those comments that we've got from 11 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: this week. 12 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: What do you like? Linda Scott wrote, Hi from Bulgaria. 13 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: I found you on Instagram and got hooked. 14 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 3: Now I listen to you every day while doing a 15 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 3: one thousand piece puzzle. 16 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 4: Keep it up. 17 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: A thousand piece puzzle every day. That's a lot of 18 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: pieces for making tapes for a while. It can't be 19 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 1: one day. 20 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 5: Okay. 21 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 3: I don't know. 22 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: Maybe she's really smart, maybe they're made differently. 23 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 6: Made a lot of money for that. 24 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: Hey, we love it, and let's get this episode started. 25 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, the second date of day. 26 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 5: If you go out on a really good first date, 27 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,279 Speaker 5: it might end in a little kiss, It could end 28 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 5: in a tender hug. Or if you're lucky a three 29 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 5: way chicken fight with your parents, and I don't even 30 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 5: know what that is, sitting on top of each other's 31 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 5: shoulders inside of the pool. But one of our listeners 32 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 5: says she got something else at the end of her night, 33 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 5: a two word whisper in her ear, and she's not 34 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 5: sure really what it. 35 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 7: Meant, if anything, So let's talk to her. 36 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: I just cringe thinking whispering. 37 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 7: It could be something really nice and romantic. 38 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 6: Baby Angie, Welcome. 39 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 7: To the show. I'm very curious about this whisperer. 40 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 5: But before we get to that, first tell us the 41 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 5: guy's name and how you met him. 42 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 6: Whisper it to us. 43 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: N no more whispering, No more whispering. 44 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 7: Until the actual whisper happened. At that its disy heat. 45 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 6: I know, the radios down or. 46 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 7: Up there, I don't know. 47 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 4: How. 48 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 3: I mean, it's kind of embarrassing. But we met on 49 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 3: plenty of fish, which I know people don't even use anymore. 50 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 6: But yeah, there's actual only fish on their question. 51 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: What drove you to plenty of fish? 52 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just one of those that, like 53 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 3: I said, up a profile I don't even know how 54 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 3: long ago. And then I'll get in a relationship and 55 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 3: I'll get off it. But like I can just go 56 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 3: reactivate it. 57 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 4: I don't know. 58 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: Okay, question does it even have an app or you 59 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: have to use a browser? 60 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 7: I don't even know. It only operates over facts now, okay. 61 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: I thought it still was printed out on the back 62 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 1: of the weeklies. 63 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 7: That could be. 64 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 6: I want to go. 65 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 5: But the important thing is that you matched with this 66 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 5: Nicholas guy. 67 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 7: So tell us what did you do for your date? 68 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 3: We went to dinner. We went to a tie place, 69 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 3: which is one of my faves, so that was good. 70 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,399 Speaker 2: Did he remember that it was one of your favorites 71 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 2: because that's always like really nice too. 72 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 3: Well, I picked it, so that means that. 73 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 7: He deserves credit a little bit for going along. So 74 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 7: let's get it. 75 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 3: And I'm a lady who knows what she likes and 76 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: it's padi. 77 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 7: Awesome. So what did you think when you first saw 78 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 7: each other. 79 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like we hit it off. I mean, 80 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 3: I will say dating kind of sucks, and I feel 81 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 3: like a lot of times they get like flirty to 82 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 3: the point that you're like, all right, dude, calm down, 83 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 3: Like they'll ask you for sexy pictures before you've even met, 84 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: and he didn't. He was more like soft spoken, more 85 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 3: like a like a nerdy type. 86 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 4: But it was. 87 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 2: Cute and he was respectful of your bountries. 88 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 5: So a nice guy. That's sweet and considerate. I'm surprised 89 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 5: you didn't unmatch him. 90 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 7: Immedia, Right, Yeah. 91 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: That's really funny. 92 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 2: Okay, was there any like, I don't know, moments of 93 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 2: real flirtation that happened. 94 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it felt like a good first day 95 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 3: for the most part, but like I don't know, they'd 96 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 3: be like I'd ask him a question and there'd be 97 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 3: like a five seconds delay and then he would go 98 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 3: and answer, and it wasn't weird at all, but. 99 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: Like just staring at you for the five seconds. 100 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: You know, though, some people are just bad at timing 101 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: in a conversation. Have you ever talked to somebody who 102 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 2: like takes really long pauses and you're like. 103 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: Wait, due, do I go? 104 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 6: Do we not go? 105 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: Like, maybe his timing is just a little off. 106 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 7: Maybe what are you talking about me? 107 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 2: Sorry he waited to answer. 108 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 7: So I like to think of it as I'm just 109 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 7: a good listener. 110 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was done talking. I mean, he was 111 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 3: checking his phone a lot, so I wonder if maybe, 112 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 3: like maybe I thought I was boring. I don't know, 113 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: you know what, I think this is. 114 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 8: Mind blowing to me. He does something that I could 115 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 8: never do, and that is think before he speaks. 116 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: I'm thinking Google before he speaks. 117 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 7: Google second fast. 118 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: I know, maybe he's having AI listening thing. 119 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 3: Was one point, like early on, after we sat down, 120 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 3: like before we had ordered anything, he was like, oh man, 121 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 3: it's really loud over here. And he was like, do 122 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: you mind if we moved to like the back where 123 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 3: it's quire And I was like, no, that's fine, and 124 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: they moved us out. 125 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know. 126 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: I think I honestly think we're over thinking it. 127 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 5: I was just thinking what jose was thinking, like, if 128 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 5: this is a really sweet, nice guy who's trying to 129 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 5: come off like he really cares, he might take a 130 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 5: second to try and come up with a really good 131 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 5: answer to your questions and blurting stuff. 132 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 4: Wow. 133 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 2: The whole point is that the awkward pauses didn't bother you, right, No, 134 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 2: I wouldn't. 135 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 3: Say they bothered me. 136 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 4: I just it was weird. 137 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: It was noticeable because they probably didn't bother him. That's 138 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: how he communicated to him. 139 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 6: He was like that was a normal back and. 140 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 7: Forth totally so overall pretty solid date. 141 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 5: I'm really really interested though, in the end here when 142 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 5: he whispers something into the two words wait. 143 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:50,679 Speaker 2: I want to know if he waited five seconds before 144 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 2: he did the run. 145 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 7: Us through what happened there? 146 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 3: Okay, so end of the day, we were like outside 147 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 3: of the restaurant about to go our separate ways. I 148 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 3: give him a hook and win, I hug him. He 149 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 3: whispers in my ear, good. 150 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 4: Job, good job, good job. 151 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 3: Like sums up good job. 152 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 6: Well that's weird. B. Maybe he just doesn't know how 153 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:14,159 Speaker 6: to end a date. 154 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: Like maybe it was any dialogue that came out. Maybe 155 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: he was talking to you. 156 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 5: Is it like the thing where you're you're wanting to 157 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 5: be like hey, good date, or like in two words 158 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 5: that you mix two things together and accidentally say something awkward. 159 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 2: It could be the whole reason he's not calling you back, 160 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: because he's like, God, what did I say that? 161 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 3: I mean maybe, but like even after he said it, 162 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,119 Speaker 3: I was like, wait, what are you talking about? 163 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 4: What did he say? 164 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 3: He just he put his finger to his mouth like 165 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 3: like it's our secret. But I have no idea what 166 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 3: he was talking about. 167 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 6: What is happening that romantic. 168 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: But anytime a man puts his finger to his I 169 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: don't like lips. It's creepy. 170 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 3: Anybody nobody should. 171 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 7: So have you texted him since the date ended? 172 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 8: Yeah? 173 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 3: So we were, you know, we were. We had like 174 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 3: a cute little back and forth before the day, you know, 175 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 3: we'd like send each other memes or whatever, so like 176 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 3: I did that, but no, I have not gotten any response. 177 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 5: Oh okay, something's up. We're gonna come back rate that's 178 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 5: not okay. We're gonna call this plenty of Fisher, and 179 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 5: we're gonna see what he has to say when we 180 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 5: come back and get you your second date. 181 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 7: Update right after this. 182 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 6: Update. 183 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 5: It's the two words that every little boy is dying 184 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 5: to hear from his unapproving father. 185 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 7: Good job, Yeah, proud of your son. 186 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: We're proud of you, Jeff. 187 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 5: That's not exactly what a woman wants to have whispered 188 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 5: into her ear at the end of a first game. 189 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: I thought we were gonna go into Jeff's therapy session. 190 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 5: We do nearly enough time, okay, But it's what happened 191 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 5: to our listener Angie after she hung out with a 192 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 5: guy named Nicholas the other night. He gave her a 193 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 5: and then softly said, good job. 194 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 6: Girls are not happy about this. What she wasn't either, right. 195 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 7: I don't think any woman would be happy about that. 196 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 7: But we've got a. 197 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 5: Lot of questions about the good job, about some of 198 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 5: the other weird stuff that was happening during the day. 199 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 5: Angie said she's willing to look past it if she 200 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 5: can get another chance with him, because he seemed like 201 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 5: a great guy. 202 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 2: He said that he was like a little reserved, a 203 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: little nerdy, Like those are some of the quirks that 204 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 2: come with nerdy, you know. Yeah. 205 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 3: I mean that's the thing though, Like it's so hard 206 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 3: to meet an actual, nice, respectful guy, and I just 207 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 3: feel like he was And I'm assuming I mess up, 208 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:40,439 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? 209 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: Do you think you messed up? And that's why you. 210 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 3: Weally it's the person who calls in that messed up. 211 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 3: And like I said, maybe thought I was boring. 212 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 6: I don't know, probably was becoming self aware. 213 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: No, you don't like that. 214 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 7: Are you cool? 215 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 5: If Nicholas has an unapproving father, is that okay? 216 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 3: I can deal with that. 217 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, it's good. 218 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: It'll be something Jeffrey and he can bond. 219 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 7: Yes, also good about it. So let's call him. I'm 220 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 7: a Dallas number right now. Let's see if he picks up. 221 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, is this Nicholas Listen Nick, hey man, thanks 222 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 5: for answering. You are on a radio show right now 223 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 5: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 224 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Nicholas, How are you man? 225 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 6: Good morning? 226 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 4: Why am I on a radio show? 227 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: Great question? 228 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, so, I don't know. Have you ever heard of 229 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 5: something called a second date update before? 230 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 4: Yeah? I think so, I think so. 231 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: Oh you have. 232 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 2: Okay, congrats, you know who we are. 233 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 7: Now you get to be a part of one. 234 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 5: So the way that it works is one of our 235 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 5: listeners has reached out to us hoping that. 236 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 7: We could get a hold of you. 237 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 4: A girl named Angie, Andie's trying to get a hold 238 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 4: of me. 239 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, do you remember her? 240 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: You guys wing to ty food the other night. 241 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 5: She's hoping that she could maybe get another chance to 242 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 5: hang out with you again. 243 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I don't. I don't think that's going to 244 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 4: work out. 245 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 2: Really Okay, it sounded like such a good date. 246 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 5: Well, yeah, before you even go there, Nicholas, I'm just 247 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 5: gonna let you know, she said, that she really liked 248 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 5: you and that you two shared a good vibe. 249 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I thought Angie was nice. 250 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, she didn't mention that. 251 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 5: Actually, Nicholas, she mentioned a few odd things that happened 252 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 5: on the date, and she wasn't sure if maybe those 253 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 5: were early signs that you weren't interested. 254 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 2: In her, which actually turns out could be true. At 255 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 2: this point, at first we thought she. 256 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 4: Was nuts, But well, well what what did she What 257 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 4: did she say? 258 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 5: Well, like we just mentioned, there's like a delay in 259 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 5: your responses a little bit during the normal conversation. 260 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 6: Almost like you're only thinking of what you're going to say. 261 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 7: Delay, Okay, almost happened again. 262 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 2: I think he hasn't noticed that that is part of 263 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 2: your conversation. 264 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: That's fine, that's okay. 265 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 5: And also she said that you had to move to 266 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 5: a quieter area. And I'm just going to let you 267 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 5: know what the room thought when we heard everything. The 268 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 5: room was wondering if maybe you had AI listening in 269 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 5: on your conversation to help you respond to your date, 270 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 5: because you were checking your phone a lot too. 271 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I don't know who the room is. Who's 272 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 4: the who's the room? 273 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 2: It was mostly Alexis people okay, because when we talked her, 274 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 2: you know, we all give our ideas like, oh, maybe 275 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 2: it could be this, maybe it could be that. 276 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 7: These are just theories. 277 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 5: So could you just be honest with us and tell 278 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 5: us did you do that? Were you using AI to 279 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 5: assist you? 280 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 4: I was having some help on the date, but I 281 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 4: wasn't using the AI some help on. 282 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 1: The date, help from your phone. 283 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 4: I was on the line with my ex, and she was. 284 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 4: She was on the line with us the whole time. 285 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 7: Your ex. 286 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I mean sometimes I just need help. So 287 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 4: she's kind of like a security blanket for me. 288 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 2: She wait, you date, did you have like earbuds in 289 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 2: and you were listening to your ex at the same 290 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: time you were listening to her? 291 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 4: No? No, she was just on mute, like she couldn't 292 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 4: say anything. She wasn't coaching me. I just wanted her 293 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 4: to hear everything. 294 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 8: So she's kind of taking notes and then later you 295 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 8: will call her and she will go over the notes. 296 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:38,839 Speaker 5: Here. 297 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 6: That's what I'm thinking. 298 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,839 Speaker 1: Volunteers to listen to hours of your dates? 299 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 7: What what a kind woman? 300 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 4: Well, it's part of our post breakup growth agreement. 301 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 7: Wait, post break up growth agreement wore. 302 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 6: In that. 303 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, we mutually agreed upon and I listened to her 304 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 4: dates too on occasion. It's just we help each other 305 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 4: get through our past breakup and move into a new one. 306 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 4: So it's healthy and very healthy. 307 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it's a very conscious uncoupling like your 308 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 5: new dates. 309 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, well that is a good point, because he 310 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 6: said sabotage. 311 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 4: You know she was not a fan of Angie. 312 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 5: Okay, well, but how did you feel about her? 313 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 4: I was enjoying myself, but she mentioned that she seemed 314 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 4: like a try hard, And then when I was thinking 315 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 4: about it, I think that she might be kind of 316 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 4: a try hard. 317 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 2: Whoa wait, wait, don't you want people to try hard 318 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 2: on a first day? 319 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 3: Excuse me? How was I a try hard? 320 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 1: That's coming in hard? 321 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 7: Yeah? 322 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh my god, Nicholas, you might find this funny, 323 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 5: but your ex girlfriend and Angie have a lot in 324 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 5: common because she's actually been on the phone listening in 325 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:01,559 Speaker 5: on this conversation. 326 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 4: Okay, that's not that's not fair. I didn't I didn't 327 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 4: know that. I didn't. 328 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, and Angie didn't know that X was listening to 329 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: her either. 330 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 7: Yeas to be judging, but Angie. 331 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 4: But she was hi, Angie there you go. Hi. 332 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 3: I mean you're saying this is a healthy thing, but 333 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 3: you also said your ex is your security blankets. So 334 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 3: it doesn't feel like you're ready to be dating other people. 335 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 4: Yeah no, Well, in most relationships, people don't have the 336 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 4: right closure and then they hold on to the past, 337 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 4: and so this is a way to move on to 338 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 4: my future. Yeah, you're not moving on. 339 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 3: You're literally still relying on your ex to make your 340 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 3: decisions down there, we're dating. 341 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 4: Well, we spent a lot of time together, so she 342 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 4: knows me really well, and she sees things from the 343 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 4: opposites x that I might not see. 344 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 3: Then maybe you guys should be together. 345 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, it's not. It's not like that. We're not 346 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 4: romantically involved whatsoever. It's just we have a year left 347 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 4: in our post break up growth agreement. 348 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a long time. 349 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 6: You're kind of each other's life. 350 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 2: Coaches, really, can't you just recap the date with your 351 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 2: ex instead of having her the whole time? 352 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 4: Well, see, there's trigger words and things that she'll say, like, well, 353 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 4: that's the red flag that I don't typically see. 354 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 7: This does make sense now why he whispered good job 355 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 7: at the very. 356 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 5: End of the date. 357 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 7: He wasn't saying it to Angie. He was saying it 358 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 7: to his ex girlfriend who was listening. 359 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 3: That doesn't make sense. 360 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 4: No, I was talking to Angie. I did whisper good 361 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 4: job because I thought that we were going to get 362 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 4: to go on another date because I enjoyed myself and 363 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 4: I didn't want my ex to hear her. 364 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 3: Nicholas, so you're not to go out with me again? 365 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 3: And you listen hearing me. 366 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: I mean, here's the thing. 367 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 2: I actually think Nicholas is over his ex. I think 368 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 2: your ex Nicholas is not. And I don't think you're 369 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 2: seeing that correctly. 370 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 4: I mean that's the possibility, and I and I kind 371 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 4: of agree with that, but we still have our agreement 372 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 4: and I have said. 373 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: That, rip it up. 374 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 4: Okay, what are we talking about? 375 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 376 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 2: And if all she could come up with is she's 377 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 2: a try hard as the biggest red flag. 378 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 8: Oh man, that's a weak red flag. 379 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 3: And I didn't try that hard. I didn't even shave 380 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 3: my legs for that day. 381 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 7: There must be some clause in your contract with her. 382 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 5: They'll let you get out of it when you find 383 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 5: an amazing new girl like Angie here. 384 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 3: Because I have a question, what if I had put 385 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 3: out on the first date, which you have been listening in. 386 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that. 387 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 4: Our date, whether it's supposed to go over an hour 388 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 4: and a half, I know, we were already pushing it 389 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 4: at an hour forty times agreement. 390 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 5: Where he was already breaking the rules a little bit. Yeah, 391 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 5: so the band aid's starting to come off. 392 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 6: Or he's like, hold on, let me ask my ex, Hey, 393 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 6: can I sleep with this? 394 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 395 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:07,239 Speaker 5: Angie, just real quick, first, are you still interested in 396 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 5: meeting up with Nicholas again? 397 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 7: After what you know? 398 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 6: There's no way. 399 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 7: Oh I thought you were okay, No. 400 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 2: Jeff that would have been wild if she said, yeah, 401 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: let he breaks the thing. 402 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that's true. 403 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 5: Angie doesn't want to extend the offer anymore. So Nicholas, 404 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 5: we're not obviously going to give you another date with 405 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 5: Angie here. 406 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 8: But funny if his girlfriend has been on the line 407 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 8: this whole time too, Oh yeah, wait is she? 408 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 6: Is she on the third line? 409 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 3: What's her name? 410 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 2: Let's say hi, froaking Jeffrey in the morning. 411 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 5: So his ex was on the phone on mute, listening 412 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 5: to the entire date for an hour and forty minutes, 413 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 5: taking notes, and she said no, I mean that's shocking. 414 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:51,120 Speaker 1: I really thought that that was going to walk out. 415 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 6: I tried to call my ex over and over. 416 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she's gonna answer. 417 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 5: I don't get it, jeff I guess the fascinating thing 418 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 5: to me is if she would have said yes. Could 419 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 5: you imagine that conversation where Nicholas is really excited and 420 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 5: he calls you, like, hey, great news, we get to. 421 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 7: Go out again. 422 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 5: My ex gave you the thumbs up, first one in 423 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 5: six months, congrabs, she prooves. 424 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 2: It really did sound like Nicholas was over his ex 425 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:21,120 Speaker 2: and his ex isn't overham Yeah, like. 426 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:23,119 Speaker 6: No girls or something. 427 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, whatever it is, it is a messy situation. 428 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 6: Did she give him away at the wedding? 429 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: She's still hoping that she is the one? 430 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 7: Yeahless no fine out. 431 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 5: But speaking of messy situations, our social media YouTube TikTok 432 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 5: Instagram mess You could see all of our second dates 433 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,640 Speaker 5: on there, and those are messy for sure. 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