1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Right now it is time to ask the CLO our 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This one is from Swanda 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 1: in Raleigh. Swanda writes, my husband has been putting his 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: name on food in our fridge and pantry since our 5 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: son came home from the military. Yeah, he tried to 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: rationalize it, but it's very rude and our son feels unwelcome. 7 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: How do I stop my husband from being selfish? 8 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of crazy. Dog, Yeah, you know, and 9 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 2: that's kind of crazy. I don't know that military boy 10 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 2: that came in there, even though he got a hell 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 2: of an appetite, he eat a lot. Yeah, yeah, I 12 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 2: got my name. You know what. Yeah, I don't. I 13 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 2: don't have a suggestion for you. I don't know how 14 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 2: to do that. 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 3: Okay, what. 16 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: Your name own stuff in refrigerator? You ain't never heard that? 17 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: When well, I'll tell you what. I take that back. 18 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 2: I bet you couldn't. Nobody open that frigerator and get 19 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 2: nothing that blown the slick Harvey out of there, and 20 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: I couldn't. No, That's that's why I ain't never had 21 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: the first of all, when I lived at home. The 22 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 2: last time I lived at home, I was seventeen so 23 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 2: I didn't really. 24 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 3: Really I couldn't. It wasn't really nothing to go in 25 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 3: there and eat. So I mean no, I mean we 26 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 3: wasn't starving or nothing like that, but we didn't have 27 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 3: no what all damn extras in all this here, had 28 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:39,639 Speaker 3: extra all this here, so you know, we always had food. 29 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 3: We was never hungry. So we didn't have that. And 30 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 3: then when I lived on my own, I ain't had nobody. 31 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I don't really I don't know 32 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 3: how to do that. 33 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: You know, you just want to suggestion, Yeah, dog, dog 34 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: is food. 35 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 2: I ain't. 36 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 3: And then I guess I'm out of touch because been 37 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 3: a while since I had to, you know, rash. 38 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: A lunch bag or something eat them. 39 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 3: I don't really know how. You know your husband, I 40 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 3: mean your husband he go he? When do he? When 41 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 3: does he go back? That's what we need to know. 42 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 3: He's home. But here's the deal, his deal. What happened 43 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 3: was the husband went in there one one day to 44 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 3: get something and he had been looking for it and 45 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 3: it was and he went, I be damn, but it 46 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 3: happened more than once and it was his favorite. 47 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so he had the service. Got nothing to do 48 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 2: with we preciate the service. Refrigerator ain't got nothing to 49 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 2: do with the service, Rex was Shirley, We ain't got for. 50 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 3: It is only the damn about your service for your 51 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 3: country that we we get that out the way. Appreciate 52 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 3: your service and all that. You got your check, Thank you, 53 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 3: get you some last better not going here and get 54 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 3: nothing else. I'm just talking about this situation. I ain't 55 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:11,839 Speaker 3: talking about the military overall. 56 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: All, right, Morris in Chicago, Right, So I was facetiming 57 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: a female coworker and my wife got upset. She asked 58 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: me why I needed to see her while we were talking. 59 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 1: It was a business call, so I asked her for privacy. 60 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: I'm working from home now, how do I get my 61 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: wife to leave me alone? 62 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 3: Bruh, bruh. That FaceTime and the coworker. I hate facet 63 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 3: It's business, I know, because the covid zooms became big. 64 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 3: We on zoom now because of that. Yeah, we are, 65 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 3: and you know it's been a very helpful thing. But 66 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 3: she she not gonna Hey, man, just remember your wife 67 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 3: ain't gonna stop being a woman. Though. She's not finna 68 00:03:58,160 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 3: stop being. 69 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: A woman even when it's business. 70 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 3: Bro, Why you got to see her though. That's what 71 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 3: the wife want to know. Call her why you got 72 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 3: to see her? 73 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: He would say, if he had to go into office, yeah, 74 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: he wanted privacy. If he had worked, if he had 75 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: to work in the office and they had to talk 76 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: face to face, he would see her. 77 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 3: Then that's gonna be his point. Oh okay, So what 78 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 3: you and Shirley saying is y'all cool with this? Okay? 79 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 3: All right? I mean, Junior, I can tell you right now, 80 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 3: she FaceTime all this is out. 81 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 2: The only reason why Monica is because they employed here. 82 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, and and and and and the chick is attractive. 83 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 3: I'm just telling you what prom you know? Okay, Yeah, 84 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 3: what's problem is? 85 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 2: Okay? 86 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 3: All right? 87 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:01,799 Speaker 1: Moving on to Trina in Phoenix. Trina says, I'm dating 88 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: a guy that is not handsome, but he's got other characteristics. 89 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: I'm messed up by allowing my girls to talk bad 90 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: about him in the beginning. Now that I'm really starting 91 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: to like him, looks don't matter. How do I get 92 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 1: them to stop the jokes? 93 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, half them ain't got nobody misery 94 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 2: love company. 95 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 3: And I think what you should do is you should 96 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 3: start flashing and flexing some of the attributes of the 97 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 3: glass dude, you know, start showing some of the things 98 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 3: that he does. Well, you know, wait, she. 99 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: Said he was not handsome. 100 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:47,559 Speaker 3: Okay, that's her glass dude. If you're not handsome, there's 101 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 3: a reason why somebody said you was not handsome. That 102 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 3: a person has had a reason for that. 103 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, you. 104 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 3: Don't just go up to people and go you know, 105 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 3: oh my god, you're not handsome. Somebody's in front of 106 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 3: you and you had to damn you know, and how 107 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 3: and ladies, all of you have done it. You have 108 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 3: had an unattractive man approach you and actually hit on you, 109 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 3: and you sat there in your mind going, what do 110 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 3: I have onto to make this this ape looking ass 111 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 3: think he got a chance with me? This this troll 112 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 3: ass looking man that walked up to me. Now, you 113 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 3: and you got to go in the bathroom and see 114 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 3: what you got on that I'll put it on wrong? 115 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 3: Is my makeup off today? That my hair not done? 116 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 3: What made him think he had a shot? Cause I 117 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 3: tell you something, man, Uglass dudes, they braived. They got 118 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 3: to be They've learned it over the years. 119 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 2: They braive. 120 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 3: Uglass dues is courageous courageous, ugly ass Dues is courageous. 121 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't have no ugly problem. I 122 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 3: ain't I don't know about that. 123 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: Well, you can't to this all question at all, a boy, 124 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: because Stephens really talking on this. 125 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 3: I'm telling you they got a lot of ugly comments. 126 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 3: That's what they do. 127 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 2: Let them talk. 128 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: That's why I became a great conversationist. I had jokes 129 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 3: I could, man, I get you laughing, and you know 130 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 3: all the man I suck. I learned early. Take them 131 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 3: to Dennis. You don't order nothing that if they need 132 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 3: that grand slam, you got five dollars gold. Make this 133 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 3: evening and be entertained and laugh and just keep smiling, 134 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 3: because the moment I quit smiling, Daddy is Daddy is 135 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 3: right there. 136 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Celo. Coming up at the top 137 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: of the hour, we will talk about eating your age 138 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: with the fabulous doctor Ian Smith. Right after this, you're 139 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.