1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Likes to share. Now it's time to hear from my man, 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: Rashan McDonald money Making conver sections. Working the money making Conversation. 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: I'm back again, your host, Rashan McDonald. I always tell 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: people it's time to start reading other people's success stories. 5 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: I say that every time I start this show. It's 6 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: time you start doing your job and writing your own story. 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: And I always tell people leave with their gifts and 8 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 1: don't let their friends age, especially age, stop you from 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: playing your dreams or living your dreams. My INM interviewers 10 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: always include consumers, uh CEOs, entrepreneurs, and what I call 11 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 1: industry decision maker. My next guest, he's an interesting decision maker. 12 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,279 Speaker 1: He's a celebrity because he's on TV every night. He's 13 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 1: an entrepreneur. His name is Don Lemon. He's the host 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: of Seeing n Tonight with Don Lemon, and he's America's 15 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: only black prime time anchor. In Done was the leading 16 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: voice on CNN guided viewers like me through the death 17 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: of George Floyds on the summer nationwide protests and riots. 18 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: The viewers and myself we depended on him nightly to 19 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: god us through the global pandemic. I recently got a vaccine, 20 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: I woul tell you them. He guided me through the 21 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: process of being mature enough to deal with that and 22 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,759 Speaker 1: go get the vaccine. I got it yesterday. Now an urgent, 23 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: deeply personal and rivetem plead his new book shows us 24 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: how deep our problem live with racism and what we 25 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: can do to begin to fix the problem. The book 26 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: is entitled This is the Fire What I Say to 27 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: my friends about racism. Don brings his vast audience and 28 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: experience as a reporter and a black man to today's 29 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: most urgent question, how can we end racism in America 30 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: in our lifetime? Please? Welcome to Money Making Conversation. Don Lemon, 31 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: Chris Shawan, Thank you so much. It's good to be 32 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: with you again. And wow, what an introduction. Well, you know, 33 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: some man, it was. It was emotional, you know, because 34 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: I read the book and the book was a journey. 35 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: And I say that to everybody that before I get 36 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: into detail about the book. One of the things that 37 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: I love what you said is somebody says they have 38 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: the answer to the racism, basically walk away from because 39 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: they lie. And you said that in the book, because 40 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: that's true. Talk to us about that. Well, it's said, 41 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: I wanted to write this book because I thought I 42 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: had some things that I could speak to and that 43 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: I could speak because I'm at the really at the 44 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: matrix of, as you so keenly pointed out, of everything 45 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: that happens in this country every single night, every weeknight, 46 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: at least sometimes on weekends, sometimes seven nights a week. Uh, 47 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: And I'm just sort of guiding people through the process 48 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: and so, um, so you're right on about that. I 49 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: it was, it was. It was a tough thing to 50 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: write this book, knowing, um what I know, and experiencing 51 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: what I've experienced, and it was, as you said, very personal. 52 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: Just before just before I hung up with you a 53 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: couple of minutes and just before I got on with 54 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: you a couple of minutes ago. Um, you know, my 55 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: I write the letter to my nephew in the beginning 56 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: of the book. My niece and her husband called, which 57 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: is Trishad my great nephew who I write the letter to. 58 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: It's his mom and stepdad. And they called me and 59 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: they were so emotional about the book, and they didn't 60 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: realize just how personal and how candid it would be. 61 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,399 Speaker 1: And they said they were actually crying reading the book. 62 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: And he's like, and you know, his stepdad Jeffrey said, 63 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm not an emotional person, but don you made me cry. 64 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: I believe this book is going to be a classic 65 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: and a hundred years people are going to be reading. 66 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: And I said, what, So there you go. But you 67 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: know in that letter it was it was a couple 68 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: of things. Maybe smile when you said we share the 69 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: same fourhead nose and we're articulated m bones. What is that? 70 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: What is that? Then you know you know well articulated 71 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: on bones, that everything is in the right place. Um, um, 72 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: there's a there's a photo of us at the beach 73 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: from a couple of summers ago, and um, very similar. 74 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: He's he has the younger body, uh, the younger version 75 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: of me. And so I looked at it. I said, look, 76 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: we have the same arms and we have the same 77 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: weird and so that I said, how would I put 78 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: that in there? Instead of saying, you know, it's so 79 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: simple to say we have the same arm and say, well, 80 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: don't want to say the same well articulated arm. But 81 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: I loved it. It may be smile because the book 82 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: like this want to smile. You want to find those 83 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: moments of happiness because it's the truth. And sometimes when 84 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: you deal with racism and that, and you know, white people, 85 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 1: they always say, you have to say, white people, can 86 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: you just move on? You know, we know there's a problem. 87 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: Can we move on. That's not me. They don't really 88 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: realize the vast nature of hot racism is so undercover. 89 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: The beauty of electing a person like you said with 90 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: Donald Trump in to me, you said, he led us 91 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: to the fire. And what exactly is the fire? Well, 92 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 1: he glowed us to the fire and then pour gasoline 93 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: on it. Um. The Fire is James Bowen's book, Um, 94 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: The Fire Next Time, which was this was a tribute 95 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: to right. That's why one of the reasons that I 96 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: um fashioned the book in the way that I fashioned 97 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,679 Speaker 1: it is because James Bowen is my literal very hero 98 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 1: UM as I was as I read I read The 99 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: Fire Next Time a couple of times a year, and 100 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: as all of these events were unfolding UM in the 101 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 1: last few years, and especially the last year in the 102 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: summer of I wanted to write something. I was inspired 103 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: to write something that was short, that was concise, and 104 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 1: that was powerful, and I wrote it in the fashion 105 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: of James Baldwin. That's why James Balwan starts to fire 106 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: Next Time with a letter to his nephew one hundred 107 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: years after the Emancipation Proclamation on the anniversary one hundred 108 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 1: years and he starts by saying something like, we know 109 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: that we're celebrating or we're writing this. You know, I've 110 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: begun this letter, UM a thousand times and I've torn 111 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: it up. And then he says, we know that we're 112 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: celebrating this anniversary a hundred years too soon, even though 113 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: it's a hundred year anniversary of the Emancipation Patient Proclamation. 114 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: And when he said God gave no oh the rainbow 115 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: sign no more water to fire next time, to me, 116 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: that was an indication in a call after watching someone 117 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: die on camera, UM, that we were in the fire 118 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: and that we were at an inflection point in our society, UM, 119 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: and either we could decide as a group of people 120 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: to continue on towards a more perfect union rather than 121 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: a divisive union, or regressing to a time where UM, 122 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,239 Speaker 1: people of color and marginalized people did not have equal 123 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: rights under the law under the Constitution, or at least 124 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 1: under the law unto the Constitution, they should have, but 125 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: not more treated that way, and so I believe that 126 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: we are. This is the fire that we're in right now. 127 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: If we don't fix this, then it's going to get 128 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: hotter and worse, and we will never fix it. We're 129 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 1: at an inflection point where it needs to change. And 130 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: then in the book we talked about it. I think 131 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: it's a great segument because you say we're a perfect 132 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: union because at the age of back three new book, 133 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: you talk about Thomas Jefferson and he's writing. But before 134 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: we go there, let's go back to sixteen nineteen as 135 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: you're talking a book when they really all started. You know, 136 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 1: you know many women are dark complexion of color, collection 137 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: skin well sold as slave in sixteen and then you 138 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: jumped to Thomas Jefferson at the age of thirty two 139 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: and when they wanted to do right, but they were 140 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: shouted down by men who didn't want to do right 141 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: because they said, who's going to pick the cotton? I'm 142 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: not picking the cotton, so's not gonna pick itself right. 143 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: And then because it was, like I said, it was 144 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: a beautiful book. First of all, I want to compliment 145 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: you on that because I read a lot of books 146 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: and and what captures me as a as a reader 147 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: is emotion and it also you're very colorful writer. In 148 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: other words, I actually felt the moments I felt uh 149 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: Thomas Jefferson's issues that he had in your writing. And 150 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: then you jumped to uh Miss moul Terry in nineteen 151 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: forty seven. It gets personal with you because you start 152 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: talking about your life. You know, you start talking about 153 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: this is an area of the country that you live in, 154 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: and she, as a black woman, was in a position 155 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: to purchase land and the issues that she had to 156 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: deal with. And then you jump even further to George Floyda. 157 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: Why was it important to have these transitional time moments 158 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: in your book to set the stage because I think 159 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: it was importan to show that the true history of 160 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: the country and the contributions of black people, of people 161 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: of color, of um people who were descendants of slaves. 162 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: I thought it was important to be able to point 163 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: that out because I don't think that we can solve 164 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: this unless we start at the beginning. In the beginning 165 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,679 Speaker 1: is a true history of this country. You mentioned sixteen nineteen, 166 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: and there's a sixteen nineteen project, But there's also what 167 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: we should realize is that long before the Mayflower was here. 168 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: There were people who came over who made the journey 169 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 1: across the Atlantic, and they were Africans, and there were 170 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: people who helped to build this country for free. So 171 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: while we look upon the descendants are the people who 172 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: came over on the Mayflower as some sort of sort 173 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: of vaunted or celebrated position. Um, perhaps that we should 174 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: teach the history of the people who came over before 175 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 1: them as well, and who actually built the country for 176 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 1: free as slave slave labor. And um, so I used 177 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: mon terry, because mon terry that should be taught in 178 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: our history books to American history to kids, as we 179 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: teach Christopher columb Us discovered America. Christopher Columbus did not 180 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: discover America. America was here long before Christopher Columbus. Columbus 181 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: is here, just asked any native American. And it's insulting 182 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: to people actually to learn that, because it's not the truth. 183 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 1: If you want to say Christopher Columbus conquered America, or 184 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: that um that Europeans conquered America, Okay, that might be 185 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: a fair statement. So that um, people like Mone Terry 186 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: and his sister a Maza, and um, the German coast Uprising, 187 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 1: which I write about, and a number of other things 188 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: that instances in the book that include African Americans or 189 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: African how African people contributed to this country. 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What I say to my friends about racism, 231 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 1: what what response are you given to your friends? So 232 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,719 Speaker 1: the response that the biggest responses that we have to 233 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 1: do the work is that there's a shared responsibility that 234 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 1: we all have as American where we can't say, well, 235 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 1: you know, my people didn't do this, and my people 236 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 1: didn't do that, and I didn't know in plays and 237 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know, but um, there but there were people 238 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 1: in this country, um, who weren't able to vote, weren't 239 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: able to get an education, who were not able to 240 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: live with they where they wanted and weren't able to 241 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: which is the biggest part of it is to earn 242 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: generational wealth. And but who helped to build the wealth 243 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: for wealthy people, and which offers what an ease in 244 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 1: society and the comfort and the level of privilege that 245 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: that isn't afforded to most people of color in this country. 246 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: And so what I tell them is that again they 247 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: must know their history starts from the beginning, and teaching 248 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 1: their children the real history of this country. But I 249 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: also tell people that the difference is going to be 250 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 1: made with the relationship because when you see people as human, 251 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:10,679 Speaker 1: when you see people's humanity, it's hard to discriminate against them. 252 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: It's hard to be humanize them. And it's even more 253 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: difficult to put your knee on their neck for almost 254 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: nine minutes on a street in front of the world 255 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 1: to see, you know, relationships, get to know people who 256 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: don't look like you. That's really important, and it really 257 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 1: it was. It was interesting things. When I talk I 258 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: try to talk out of when I talked about staff, 259 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 1: I talked to my family and talked to my my daughter. 260 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: I would talk about the reality of what Donald Trump 261 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: was to this country. I always felt that and I 262 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: tell the people that I said equipment with the one 263 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,839 Speaker 1: in twenty sixteen, I think that we needed this gut 264 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: check because I felt that Donald Trump pushed this country 265 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 1: into a state of racist reality, and it brought out 266 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 1: a lot of people who are boldly let them know 267 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: how they feel about race, but boldly letting them know, 268 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: let you know what side of the eye they're willing 269 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: to stand on. Do you think that's good or bad? 270 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: Because myself I think I want to know what a 271 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: person thinks. Hiding what they think, I want to know 272 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: as well. I would rather someone tell me who they are. 273 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: I would rather know who they are, and we do now. 274 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 1: And that's why I stay in the book that he 275 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 1: was the president we deserved and probably the president we needed. Now, 276 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: what would it have been better if it if we 277 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: could have learned the same lessons through a different person 278 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: with a different experience. Yes, but all things being what 279 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 1: they were and what they are right now, we must 280 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: look at the reality, and that is that he exposed 281 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: um for us, the symptoms of what was boiling or 282 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: going on beneath the surface, and he's the one that 283 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 1: sent us into the doctor's office to have it diagnosed 284 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: and then fixed. Whatever that is, whether it's a long 285 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: process of of convalescing and trying to get better and 286 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: um and recovery, or whether it's just too excite the 287 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: problem and try to do it immediately and as fast 288 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: as possible. But whatever it is, he led, he supposed it, 289 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: and he led us here. And now we know we 290 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: don't have to live in um some false reality that 291 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: we thought that we were post racial, because we're not. Absolutely, 292 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: you know, the thing about it, here's an interesting part 293 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: about my life. And you know, when you you know, 294 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: you develop a relationship with a person like you. You know, 295 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 1: I value the time I spend with you now, but 296 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: I even value the time I spend with you whenever 297 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: at my home. And I turned you on and as 298 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: a that's an honesty about you done it. Police expound 299 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 1: on that because it is riveting to me. Last night 300 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: when I saw you interview the Capitol police officer who 301 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: had UH and you in in twelve of Republican members 302 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: of Congress didn't want to honor them because they didn't 303 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: see the January sixth event as an insurrection, even though 304 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: five people died at that little I guess protest that 305 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: got out of hand. I guess that's what they're calling it. 306 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. But this man, you know, he used 307 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: the word are racial slur. He didn't want to use 308 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: in word. But he was mentally bruised and may take 309 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 1: years of therapy to recover from that moment. But you 310 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: was the interviewer. How did you how were you taking 311 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 1: all of that and then maintaining emotions? Well, I have 312 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: to because um I am the facilitator, right and if 313 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: I lose my composure, then you don't get anything out 314 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: of the interview. But at the very beginning of the interview, 315 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: I started talking to him and then he said, I'm 316 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: sorry I stopped. I didn't expect to be this emotional. 317 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: And so I've said to him, it's okay, go ahead 318 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: and talk to us. Why are you emotional? And then 319 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: it gets then he has to explain it. Um. It 320 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: gives him a place to go rather than going down 321 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: spiral and spiraling into his emotions. Sometimes you just have 322 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 1: to allow it and let people say what they want 323 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: to say. But I think it was more productive um 324 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 1: that he explained his feelings and why he become so emotional. 325 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: And he said, because I hadn't really had a chance 326 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: before this interview. The way I set it up the interview, 327 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: he said, it gave him a fuller perspective or more 328 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: fulsome perspective about um what had transpired and what people 329 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 1: thought about it. And also he had done one earlier interview, 330 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: and in that earlier interview he had not spoken to 331 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:19,360 Speaker 1: his fellow officers, And after speaking to his fellow officers, 332 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: he got more of their experiences. And that cut even 333 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: deeper because one of one of the stellow officers said 334 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 1: to him, Um, the protesters were not only calling, you know, 335 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:32,880 Speaker 1: me the N word, but they said, hey, N word, 336 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 1: you have that rifle in your hand. You're so big 337 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 1: and bad. Why don't you put that rifle down and 338 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: we'll show you how big of an inn word you are. 339 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: And this is a police officer who is who puts 340 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 1: his life on the line every day. And these people 341 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: are out there supposed to be supporters of the police officers, 342 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: and you know so called blue lives matter, but they're 343 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 1: beating them with blue lives matter, blackpoles and times. So um, 344 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 1: that's that's why he was emotional because he had had 345 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 1: time to his orbit. He hadn't had time to absorb 346 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 1: it before. I think he was somewhat still in a 347 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 1: state of shock. We know just in reading this book. 348 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:08,719 Speaker 1: You know a great picture on the back by the way, 349 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: I love that picture. Where where was it taken? What 350 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: take that? That was taken in the backyard of my 351 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: house in front of I have a shed in the backyard. 352 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: What is it? A shed in the backyard? And that's 353 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 1: the door to the shed and I'm actually, um standing 354 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: right next to there's Uh, I had dreamed the bushes 355 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 1: that I'm trying not to crush because I said, you know, 356 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: as a book, you write about a black man with 357 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: white heritage embody both the struggle and the hope of reconciliation, 358 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: you know. And I look at this very simple picture 359 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: and it's and it works for you. You know. You know, 360 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 1: I don't see the tie. I don't see the look 361 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,639 Speaker 1: I see o TV. And you have an amazing smile. 362 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: That's why it's always with me and you when I 363 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: interview you. I really wanted to see the smile. But 364 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 1: I have to balance that because you're such a you know, 365 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: your your business is serious. You a guy, You a 366 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 1: guy who has to who present the whole process of 367 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 1: being serious and also informative. Talk to us before we 368 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: exit on this brilliant book. This is the fire What 369 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: I say to my friends about racism by Don Lemon. 370 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: It was a wrap up my friends, so we can 371 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 1: sell some more books. Tell me where do you want 372 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 1: to know? What do you want to know? From? Where 373 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:15,239 Speaker 1: do we go? You know, without revealing the process of 374 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: your book, But where do you we go? How do 375 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: we what? What do I have to do? You know, 376 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 1: I feel I'm doing a good job. We go with honesty, 377 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 1: We go with a sense of openness. We go with 378 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: a vulnerability, the same vulnerability. Are in the same mindset 379 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: that we had during the summer when we were locked 380 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 1: in our homes, when um, when our hearts and our 381 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: minds were open, and then we saw someone die in 382 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:44,919 Speaker 1: front of our eyes. We go with that vulnerability, and 383 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 1: we have to to um to a large degree trust 384 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: that our countrymen will do the right thing. But trust 385 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 1: yet verified. But I would I would say, but here's 386 00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: what I think again, And I hate to keep harping 387 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: on this, and I know people think it's you know, 388 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: it may sound traite. We have to establish relationships, especially 389 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: with people who do not look like us, the people 390 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: who do not live particularly maybe in our same neighborhood 391 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: or travel in our same circles. That is the only 392 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,199 Speaker 1: way it's going to happen. We have to begin to 393 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 1: respect and learn and love each other and see each 394 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: other's humanity and that and and and then beyond that, 395 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,359 Speaker 1: we have to begin to do the work. That's that 396 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,679 Speaker 1: We've got to do the work, and and doing the 397 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: work requires an open mind, in an open heart. Well, 398 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: you've done the work, You've written a brilliant book and 399 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 1: informati book, an emotional book that this is the fire. 400 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: What I say to my friends about racism? What do 401 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: you say to me every night? Makes me feel good 402 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 1: and informs me and gives me hope. Done them? Don't 403 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: you stop? And you are the prime time black man 404 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:54,159 Speaker 1: for America. Now Okay, Rashawn, thank you so much with that. 405 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 1: I really appreciate all your support. Uh and thank you 406 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: for your time. 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