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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand, jewils dirty Little Secret. Hello,

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Speaker 1: it's the Jewel Show. Yes, Hi, Hi, Hi. You're not

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Speaker 1: gonna ask what your name is because you have a

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Speaker 1: dirty little secret to tell us, right I do? Yes, Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's nice to meet you, whatever your name is, nice

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Speaker 1: to meet us. Are you negotiating? Yes, I'm ready to

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Speaker 1: say it. Okay, whenever you're ready. I mouthed into my

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Speaker 1: husband's Facebook account and Messenger account and he has no idea.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, he has this thing where he doesn't want

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Speaker 1: me to see his phone. He's always fanned away before

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Speaker 1: we got married and even afterwards. That's shady me, a

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Speaker 1: little bit of suspicious. Should find anything, well kind of,

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Speaker 1: there's some I guess dirty messages with growth. I have

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Speaker 1: no idea. Oh hell, now they are? Are these just

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Speaker 1: like random girls that he's met like on the like

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Speaker 1: online or in person? No, so I've actually stocked them right,

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Speaker 1: so actually from the same place where he's from the

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Speaker 1: same count. Um, I guess they're friends. He's never talked

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Speaker 1: about them, he's never mentioned them. But um, yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: a thing where he says, you know, something has to

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Speaker 1: be private in the marriage. That's actually one that you

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be open about in your marriage and you should

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Speaker 1: be cool with it so that you don't feel like

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Speaker 1: you have to check it. Yeah, I mean, is this

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Speaker 1: somebody that you see yourself most likely that you want

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Speaker 1: to be with forever? Or because I've been in a

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Speaker 1: situation like this and I knew that, I knew that

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Speaker 1: it wouldn't be forever, right and he was shady with

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Speaker 1: his phone, and like I didn't check because I just knew, right,

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Speaker 1: I just didn't care. But if you care, if you

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Speaker 1: want to be with him, that's a different story. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess that makes sense. Yeah, it is a different

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Speaker 1: story right now. I don't know if he's just you know, like,

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Speaker 1: what are his intentions? Yeah, it's not really to be trying,

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Speaker 1: so I'm saying, or if he's just being friendly, Well,

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Speaker 1: if I have any advice for you at all, even

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Speaker 1: though you didn't ask, but just keep checking, keep checking,

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Speaker 1: hoping for the best. But I'm going to be prepared

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Speaker 1: for the words. Ok. Can I ask you a question?

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Speaker 1: We should do the roses? Here's my question to you, Okay,

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Speaker 1: because ultimately I believe everybody knows everything that's going on

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Speaker 1: in their life if they truly pay attention. Okay, are

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Speaker 1: you looking for proof or are you keeping tabs? Just

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Speaker 1: be honest? Both both. Okay, So you're looking for proof, okay,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to, you know, accuse him or

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Speaker 1: anything like that. Yeah, at the same time, I want

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Speaker 1: to be one step ahead of him. Yeah, he might

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Speaker 1: not be cheating, but he still should not be messaging

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Speaker 1: those girls. That's my other question. Is it cool with

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Speaker 1: you that he messages girls at eleven o'clock at night? No? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean most people probably would not be cool with it, right. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to be that crazy one, but

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Speaker 1: I kind of feel crazy. That is super stressful, and

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Speaker 1: that will make you go crazy. Here's what I would

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Speaker 1: you if you want some other advice that you didn't

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Speaker 1: ask for. Log out of it. Okay, log out of it.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget about it. Log out so you don't have

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Speaker 1: to keep feeling like a crazy person checking and checking

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Speaker 1: and checking and checking and checking, waiting until you find

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Speaker 1: the proof. Just log out except the fact that you

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Speaker 1: saw something you're not cool with, and then figure out

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Speaker 1: how you're going to bring it up. Because you should.

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Speaker 1: You absolutely should. Whether you need to find proof, yes,

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Speaker 1: your needs are important, just like his k needs are important.

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Speaker 1: But your needs are important. And if you're about it,

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Speaker 1: you know, I think, yeah, I have to just get

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Speaker 1: it together and confront them about this. Yeah, you'd feel better, yep.

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Speaker 1: But if you want to do it in a ward

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Speaker 1: of the roses to catch a cheater, we can he will. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I definitely think about it. Okay, okay, Well, thank you

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Speaker 1: for telling us your dirty little secret and good luck.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening. Thank you, You're welcome. The Jebel

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