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Speaker 1: Hi everyone. I'm Julia Hart.

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Speaker 2: I'm the star of my un Orthodox Life and the

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Speaker 2: author of the best selling book Raiser Uh, the owner

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Speaker 2: and CEO of Body by Julia Heart, which is a

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Speaker 2: shape our brand, and the mom of some really amazing children.

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Speaker 1: My two daughters are here with us today. But and

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Speaker 1: here Hey, hi everyone, I'm but Shava.

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Speaker 3: I am the oldest of the Heart and I am

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Speaker 3: on my North Fox life as well. And I also

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Speaker 3: do content full time. So if you guys aren't following

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Speaker 3: me on Instagram, TikTok, snapchat, YouTube, all of the places you

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Speaker 3: I do a lot of like fun lifestyle girly content

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Speaker 3: for all my single ladies out there.

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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and I'm Mariam.

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Speaker 4: I'm the youngest daughter in the family and I'm so

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Speaker 4: happy to be on this podcast. I do all things tech,

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Speaker 4: so I do tech consulting. You can check out my website.

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Speaker 4: But that I have a podcast called Faking It, and

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Speaker 4: I like to say that faking it is not not

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Speaker 4: faking orgasms and more fake it till you make it, uh,

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Speaker 4: And so definitely check out my podcast. And I'm super

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Speaker 4: excited to be talking with you all.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, Yeah, this is that we're gonna do it.

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Speaker 1: We figured we're gonna I'm gonna ask them questions that

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Speaker 1: we got and then they're gonna ask me questions and

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Speaker 1: hopefully a little gender, some fun conversation. All right, here

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Speaker 1: we go. Watch that. I'm Miriam. Both of you explain

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Speaker 1: your relationship with mom. Mm hmm, I love going first. Yes, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I was. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think people I feel like, if you watch the show,

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Speaker 3: you see that we have a very unique relationship with

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Speaker 3: our mom. It's very I think people say that we're friends,

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Speaker 3: but I always say that there's a very clear distinction

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Speaker 3: respect for our mom and that line has never been crossed.

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Speaker 3: So as close as we are, we all have that

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Speaker 3: friendship mom, but we also have that mother daughter and

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Speaker 3: there's that level that we don't cross in that sense

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Speaker 3: where I feel like sometimes we're like, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: I'm so close to my mom, and then they like,

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Speaker 3: you know, we'll yell back or things like that. It's like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, that would never happen. So I feel

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Speaker 3: like people are always interested in.

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Speaker 1: Learning about that.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, no, no, Like I love my mom

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Speaker 3: super super closer. I could tell her anything, but she

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Speaker 3: is my mom, and I think that's a hard balance

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Speaker 3: for parents to have, whether like being very close with

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Speaker 3: their children but still also being like a form of authority.

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Speaker 1: My mom walks that line very well, cool, beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So well, just one thought on that was, since

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Speaker 4: you were the oldest, was Ema like, would you say

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Speaker 4: was like the toughest on you?

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Speaker 1: Or like, was she like what do you think?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously, I think every oldest child knows that you

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Speaker 3: I bet time, Yeah, I I yeah, I mean I don't.

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Speaker 3: My mom was never strict, but we were all really

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Speaker 3: good kids, so I think we never had to have

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Speaker 3: we like really followed them. And then my youngest brother.

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Speaker 1: He never had.

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Speaker 3: There was a lot of watch whatever he wanted, hang

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Speaker 3: like a guarantee between being I'm still happy to be

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Speaker 3: the oldest. How does it feel being a middle child?

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Speaker 4: I would say another benefit of Ema in terms of

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Speaker 4: our relationship is you're also like my business coach, you know,

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Speaker 4: like if I had your mother like in friends end.

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Speaker 1: And then also business coach like, momitor, well, don't say that.

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Speaker 4: But yes, I think that's the truth. It's like, what's special?

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Speaker 1: I got to protect my family.

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Speaker 2: You know, you don't sign a contract without mommy looking

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Speaker 3: My mom's like, you can't sign a contract contract without

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: You learn very valuable lessons with our mom every day

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Speaker 3: from from all different avenues. We call our mom E

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Speaker 3: short for Ema, which means mother and Hebrew. So if

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Speaker 6: So I'm just at like, I'm just I think it works.

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Speaker 6: I want my grandchildren to call me just the letter.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I'm the letter.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like, oh my god, no, but can

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Speaker 1: That's not happening people, So it's going to be everyone's

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Speaker 1: just gonna call it better than because as first we

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Speaker 1: So what do you want to ask me? Are your

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Speaker 1: favorite things about us? Oh?

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Speaker 2: My goodness, okay, how which time do we act? She

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Speaker 2: only said thirty minutes. Okay, I'll start with you because

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Speaker 2: you're the oldest. So what do I love about Eva

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Speaker 2: or so many things, so many things, I would say

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Speaker 2: number one, she made me a mom so first and foremost,

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Speaker 2: and she is. We're very different in so many ways, right,

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Speaker 2: And I have so much admiration for the past that

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Speaker 1: She's a complete self starter.

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Speaker 2: She's crazy hardworking, she has an extraordinary work ethic, and

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Speaker 2: she goes for what she wants and then she gets it,

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Speaker 1: I'm so proud that she made the move to Miami.

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Speaker 2: I think that's not an easy thing to do, to

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Speaker 1: And I'm so happy because you look so happy and

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Speaker 1: you just belong there. You look amazing. She just I'm

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Speaker 1: so happy that you look so happy. And you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm totally in awe of how fearless she is with guys,

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Speaker 2: like you'll like you'll be the person asking someone out

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Speaker 2: and I haven't learned how to do that yet.

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Speaker 1: I'm working on it. I'm work in progress. So I

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Speaker 1: just you know, she's.

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Speaker 2: My dating guru and my confidence coach in all things dating,

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Speaker 2: and I really admire her.

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Speaker 1: Just thinks She's incredible and also like when they should hit.

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Speaker 2: Them fan in my life, my family's there for me

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Speaker 2: and the ways that every mother dreams of, honestly, and Miriam.

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Speaker 1: Miriam is the reason I left the community.

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Speaker 2: She's the reason I started my exodus journey.

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Speaker 1: She is a fearless feminist. I'm so proud of the

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Speaker 1: fact that she stands up for the Jewish people, she

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Speaker 2: And I'm proud that she lives her life openly and

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Speaker 1: So I have pretty awesome kids. I kind of like them.

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Speaker 3: I feel like what's unique about our family is that

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Speaker 3: but we also all have different things that like empower

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Speaker 3: I remember we had just come out with the second

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Speaker 3: this like family came over to us and they were like, wow,

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Speaker 1: Close, Like they thought that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, They're like you seem like you like really like

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Speaker 1: Do everything together. Like.

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Speaker 2: I started Omnation, which is this website, basically to help

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Speaker 2: change the trajectory of social media because right now, you

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Speaker 2: support Jewish people, you get attacked, you lose followers, you

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Speaker 2: lose job. It's very scary out there. So I had

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Speaker 2: this concept that people will sign on to Omnation. The

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Speaker 2: Miriam did all the content. We have a show that

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Speaker 2: we're working on together. Obviously I'm not allowed to say

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Speaker 2: all three in that as well. But Chevin and I

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Speaker 2: have invented a pickle brand together. It's like we do

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: Shlomo is my business partner every single business I have.

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Speaker 2: What advice should we give people to like how we've

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Speaker 1: What do you think you would say?

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Speaker 3: I think I obviously give my mom that credit for

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Speaker 3: And then I think when I was younger, sometimes that

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Speaker 3: gives you the space to grow and continue seeking their advice.

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Speaker 1: Love that what me or you want to time in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I think that something that I think is

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Speaker 2: We've really been through hell together, Like we've had to

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Speaker 3: Well, for me, it's like my mom had a twenty

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm cringe cringe, but it works.

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Speaker 2: So like I imagine the favor. Yeah, it means to me,

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Speaker 2: it means freedom having hair, you know. So, But like, okay, tattoo. Honestly,

441
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Speaker 2: the only tattoo I could ever see getting, especially with

442
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: what's going on in the outside world, is a star

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Speaker 2: of David. I was going to get a tattoo would

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Speaker 2: be like a heart with a big startup David in

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Speaker 2: the middle.

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Speaker 1: Thanks.

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Speaker 4: I think we would all do that.

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Speaker 2: I think we're all pretty like if we would get tattoos,

449
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 2: it would be about what we believe in, you know,

450
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Speaker 2: women juice all women and and you know, no more hatred,

451
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Speaker 2: no more racism.

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Speaker 4: Mhmm, yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 1: Where do you think you love to shop the most

454
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Speaker 1: now that you can wear whatever you want? Well, I

455
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Speaker 1: like to design my own clothes. I like wearing my

456
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Speaker 1: stuff best to be.

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Speaker 3: But if we were all, if there is a store,

458
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Speaker 3: because Miriam has, well, we all have kind of different style, but.

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Speaker 1: More I like, I like to borrow things.

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Speaker 3: I borrow all my mom's accessories and outerwear and basically

461
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Speaker 3: whatever I can fit into tops, jackets. But Miriam has

462
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Speaker 3: a different aesthetic than we do, so I feel youthetic.

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Speaker 1: But I like it.

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Speaker 2: Find like, now you have an aesthetic, like your clothes

465
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Speaker 2: are finding it, but I experimenting. You're playing and your

466
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Speaker 2: clothes because that, to me is what clothing is fashion.

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Speaker 2: Why I love fashion so much. Is it the melding.

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Speaker 1: Of the creativity of the person who designed the clothing

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Speaker 1: with the individuality the person wearing it and how they

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Speaker 1: wear it. And to me, it's an expression of who

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Speaker 1: you are as a person.

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Speaker 2: And I think Miriam is finding her way and finding

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Speaker 2: her style and I think it's super cool. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: but Schev and I wear I would wear anything she

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Speaker 2: wears I would wear anything you wear.

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Speaker 1: I can't think.

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Speaker 3: So I have a funny story to share. I was

478
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Speaker 3: just going on a date. Well I'm visiting LA and

479
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Speaker 3: I'm like why not? And I put on the stress

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Speaker 3: and my mom's like is that sexy enough for a

481
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Speaker 3: first date? And I feel like most moms wouldn't be

482
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Speaker 3: like you should show more cleavage, and are you really

483
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Speaker 3: it looks a little covered?

484
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Speaker 1: Was sob but I was like, so I did go

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Speaker 1: on the date.

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Speaker 3: And the guy when I was on the date, he

487
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Speaker 3: was like, I really like I you know, I love

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Speaker 3: what you're wearing. And he was like, did you know

489
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Speaker 3: that it's like a tiny drop see through? And I

490
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Speaker 3: was like, yes, that was aware. But I said this

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Speaker 3: to my mom and she was like, if it's gonna

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Speaker 3: be a dark restaurant, he won't be able to see him.

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Speaker 1: She's like, see you. I was like, okay, that's true,

494
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Speaker 1: but in the dark restaurant.

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Speaker 3: And You'm sure it wasn't like see you through, see you,

496
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Speaker 3: but it was like slightly shere where you can see

497
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Speaker 3: my legs.

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Speaker 1: It's like in certain lighting.

499
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Speaker 3: And I told him like, well, my mom wanted me

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Speaker 3: to dress more provocatively on this date and he was like.

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Speaker 1: Who's your mom? He's like, I appreciate her looking out

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Speaker 1: for me. It was funny, but but needless to say,

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Speaker 1: I feel like if.

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Speaker 3: We were to all go on a little shopping spree together,

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Speaker 3: it would have to be like an apartment stores, so

506
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Speaker 3: we could all find our specific things that we like.

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Speaker 1: One story.

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Speaker 2: I don't think we can all agree on. We all

509
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Speaker 2: wear very different brands too, Yeah, which is right?

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Speaker 4: M hm.

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Speaker 2: What's one piece of advice you would give to other

512
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Speaker 2: mothers and daughters to strengthen their bond?

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Speaker 1: Ooh, I like that where you want to start?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can start, Okay, So for this, I think

515
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 4: taking accepting people for who they are as they are

516
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Speaker 4: in the moment, and wanting to find a way to

517
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Speaker 4: meet common grounds with the relationship with the other person.

518
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Speaker 4: I think like that's really how we strengthen our bonds,

519
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Speaker 4: is that we always try to see each other where

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Speaker 4: we're at and work to strengthen and like build from there.

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Speaker 4: So that's one thing finding commonality too, Like finding things

522
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Speaker 4: to do together. I think something that in our family

523
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Speaker 4: we're always doing things together, you know, like me and

524
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Speaker 4: Slim will work out together.

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Speaker 1: We do business together, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean chaba like top of the phone a lot, and

527
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Speaker 4: do other works business together too, And so it's like

528
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Speaker 4: we're always.

529
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 1: Having multiple reasons to talk, you know.

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Speaker 4: So it's not just like how are you, but also

531
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Speaker 4: like what's the update on this thing? And it's like,

532
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 4: you know, like i'll see you at this time.

533
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Speaker 1: We always we have.

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Speaker 4: Our Saturday brunches that we like to keep to when

535
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Speaker 4: we're all in the same city and like, you know,

536
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Speaker 4: so it's like having multiple reasons to be together. I

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Speaker 4: think really helps strengthen a bond.

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Speaker 1: Two there's a good one.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: From my perspective, it's unconditional love. The minute you put

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Speaker 1: conditions on loving someone. To me, it's over. Because for

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Speaker 1: mothers and daughters to truly truly have this relationship that

543
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 1: cannot be broken, every person needs to know that no

544
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Speaker 1: matter what you do, your mother's still going to love you, your.

545
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Speaker 2: Sister is still going to love you. We are family

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Speaker 2: no matter what, through thick and thin, and it has

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Speaker 2: no conditions.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: I grew up where love was very conditional. You dress

550
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Speaker 2: this way, you act this way. Your love you don't

551
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: behave you're not And that is what I tried to change.

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Speaker 2: When I was a mom, my kids always knew they

553
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Speaker 2: could come to me with anything. I would never judge them,

554
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 2: and no matter what, no matter what, they are the

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Speaker 2: people I love most in life.

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Speaker 3: For all, eternetic, I love you too, I remember now,

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Speaker 3: but I was specific all this is specifically for the

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Speaker 3: daughters that I think as you get older, you realize

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Speaker 3: that your mom is a person as well. And I

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Speaker 3: think that once I understood that that like your you know,

561
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Speaker 3: your mom has her own aspirations, her own dreams, her

562
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Speaker 3: own things that she wants or questions or changes.

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Speaker 1: And understanding that your parents are people.

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Speaker 3: Like you know, like they're doing their own thing, learning,

565
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Speaker 3: growing just like you are. And to take away that

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Speaker 3: like form of you're like, oh like you understanding that

567
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Speaker 3: your parents are people, I think is like one of

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00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: the most things that like brought us closer as I

569
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Speaker 3: became an adult, because I was like, oh, wait, you're

570
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Speaker 3: because it's always like you see your teacher at a

571
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Speaker 3: grocery store and you're like, why is my teacher here?

572
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 3: Like she belongs in school, and you would then if

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Speaker 3: you like apply that kind of like your mom is

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Speaker 3: a human and she's going to her own things and

575
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Speaker 3: has her own dreams and being able to support that

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Speaker 3: as a kid. I think you don't necessarily understand until

577
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 3: you're an adult. I think once you do that, you

578
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 3: have like even more respect for your parents and understanding

579
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 3: about your relationship because you're aware of that. And I

580
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 3: think that like more daughters need to internalize that their

581
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Speaker 3: mothers are people and we shortened part like everyone.

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Speaker 1: Else exactly, so you need to.

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Speaker 3: I think sometimes people put their parents on a pedestal

584
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Speaker 3: and then that makes them not relatable anymore. But when

585
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 3: you realize, like, oh, we're all going to things, we

586
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 3: can talk about it, then it helps strengthen your relationship.

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