1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: It's time to ask the c l O. Our Chief 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from ask him. 3 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: This is from Monique and Richmond. 4 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: Monique writes, my husband started sleeping in another room without 5 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: any discussion. The first night, he claimed he was having 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: trouble falling asleep. The next night he said his stomach 7 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,639 Speaker 1: was upset. It's been a week. So should I be 8 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: concerned about this? Yeah? 9 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 3: Ye out, yeah, yea. He might not want to tell 10 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 3: you what it is. You know, you sleep rough. Oh 11 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 3: you know you could be you never know, like you 12 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 3: ever slept in a room with a woman that had 13 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 3: hot flashes. Yes, I'm there now, I'm there, right now, 14 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 3: right now. Yeah, you're not gonna be able to stay 15 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 3: in that room because the air conditioning is on a defect. 16 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 3: And leave it alone. Just just you can't do nothing. Yeah, 17 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 3: I've tried. I'll try to sleep it in the hoodies? 18 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 3: About I slept. I slept. I slept in a full 19 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 3: yoll full hoodie with wet pants. Yeah, I had put 20 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 3: on socks. 21 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 2: Thats how hold out thermals? Yeah whatever, Yeah, you'll be 22 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 2: all right. 23 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 3: So you know this hell be that lady and maybe 24 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 3: that's it. So you know. 25 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 2: Why did he tell her though, she said, no discusscause 26 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 2: y'all don't. 27 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 3: Handle the truth real good. Y'all always want it. But 28 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 3: you tell you, then you know. 29 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 2: We handled. 30 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 3: If you don't know, don't. You can't tell. 31 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 2: I'm sleeping in the other room because it's cold in here, he. 32 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 3: Is, I'm sleeping here because it's cold, you're snowing and turning. 33 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 3: I can't say nothing because ain't nothing wrong with y'all. 34 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 3: Y'all perfect. Anybody say nothing against y'all. Y'all can say something. 35 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 3: Y'all perfect for me. So he just went on, got 36 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 3: no the bed sleeping good over there too. 37 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he should have at least. 38 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 3: Told that what you thought, but he didn't. Sure, dude, 39 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 3: it ain't your answer. I'm the clotchi, but they asked 40 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 3: you what you thought. Dean's in the Strawberry Love Strawberry Love, Dina. 41 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: In Minneapolis writes, I've been dating the same man for 42 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: over five years, and my sister joked about us getting married. 43 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 2: I told her that I was ready in waiting. My 44 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 2: boyfriend got. 45 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: Upset and said that that felt like an ambush. Why 46 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: is he so irritated by a joke about marriage? 47 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 3: Because he not marrying you. 48 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 2: Oh, after five years. 49 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 3: You ain't married, You ain't got no ring. He proposed, 50 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 3: he's not marrying you because there's not a requirement of yours. 51 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 3: Now he touches because now they want to bring it up. 52 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 3: He don't know how to tell you he don't want 53 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 3: to marry you. He just gonna keep you have in 54 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 3: you without asking you. That's all. It's okay, See how 55 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 3: the true feel y'all don't want that. That's why he 56 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 3: just goes can handle it, Yeah, just cause it ain't 57 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 3: young as the subject. You can't handle you don't. Don't 58 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 3: nobody want you. Stop that. 59 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 2: You know you can't feel the truth. 60 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 1: I don't want you, but I don't want you either 61 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: about that. 62 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 3: We don't want to know that. 63 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: I'm all right, right there, Get off of me, all right? 64 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: Moving on to bau and Lafayette, Bow writes, my wife 65 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: used my birthday as an excuse to get the most 66 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: expensive patio furniture and a fire pit that she wanted. 67 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: I never asked for this, and I'm going to end 68 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: up paying for it all. Can I have it returned? 69 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: Or should I act like it's the best birthday gift ever? 70 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 71 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 3: Well, dog, you're gonna enjoy the patio furniture, and you're 72 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 3: going to enjoy the fire pick. What you all to do, man, 73 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 3: is just say hey, thank you baby. You know. But 74 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 3: you know, now see listen to this. Here go the truth. 75 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 3: Buy your wife for her birthday an item that the 76 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 3: whole house can use, and see how they go for 77 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:36,919 Speaker 3: you or something, wash the machine. Yeah yeah, tell her 78 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 3: that's her birthday. Give her addiversary gift. See they won't 79 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 3: stuff personalized. She the went out there and bought this 80 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 3: stuff she wonted. So all you gotta do, man, you 81 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 3: just go and let it ride, just say wow, you know, 82 00:04:50,160 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 3: and then go buy yourself someone it. That ain't what 83 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 3: he wanted, okay. All he wanted his man cave remodel, 84 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 3: TV speaker, sister, you know, stuff like that in the 85 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 3: basement new Bob bill, that's what he wanted. 86 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: Okay, Well let me ask you this, celo. What what 87 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: if he had a return. 88 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 2: Because he asked the question. 89 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, see once again you can't tell him the truth. 90 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 3: Always got a lie in y'all took it back, that 91 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 3: would be the truth. But now he got the last 92 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 3: to keep piece in his house, he has to lie 93 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 3: he has to lie. If you want to keep piece 94 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 3: in your house, you're gonna have to pick up line. 95 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 3: If you don't want to do that, you're not going 96 00:05:55,520 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 3: to have a happy household together. 97 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 2: No, that's love will keep us together. 98 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 3: Love and lying. If you love her, you will lie 99 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 3: to her. 100 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 2: Oh wow, wow, that's so sad. 101 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 3: I am telling you the truth. I'll tell you what. 102 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 3: Let him start walking in there and saying, whatever the 103 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 3: hell he thinking? You're Finn find out real quick, uh huh, 104 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 3: real quick that you need some more lies. You know 105 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 3: you're fat behind ain't in here cooking again. And we're 106 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 3: not saying say what's on your mind and not think 107 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: that what's on. 108 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: But we're not talking about thinking before you speak. We're playing. 109 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: That's a whole other issue. 110 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 3: No, we are thinking, we're no, we're no. You are 111 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 3: saying things before you speak. Thus comes the lie. 112 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 2: Oh goodness, all right, last. 113 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 3: Time, Cake, you go ask one sure, go ahead, Shay. 114 00:06:56,200 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: And evanston right, So talk with my hands and I'll 115 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 1: hit whoever is the closest to me. I hit one 116 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 1: of my coworkers lightly on the arm while we were talking. 117 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: She popped me right back and startled me. Was it 118 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: just a reflex, like she said, or has she been 119 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: wanting to punch me. 120 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 3: For a while. You need to put your hand, you 121 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 3: need to fold your hands while you talk, I said. 122 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: She said one more time, one more time that the 123 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: first time you've done it. 124 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 2: Ron, She says, she'll hit whoever is the closest to her. 125 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all right, thank you guys. 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