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Speaker 1: Wait, Fred's show is on.

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Speaker 2: Show.

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Speaker 3: It's a friend show. Good morning, thank you for having

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Speaker 3: us on.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Kaylen, good morning, Jason Brown, Rufio, Hello, Jaky's here.

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Speaker 4: Good morning shows Shelley in a little bit in turn

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Speaker 4: of Bena mean that Benjamin is here as well. I

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Speaker 4: just want to commend the young man twenty one years

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Speaker 4: old in charge of the mother ship, and he's been

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Speaker 4: here pretty much every day that I'm aware.

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Speaker 1: At four thirty, right on time, Yeah, I've been here.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he knocks on my studio door says hello, and

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Speaker 1: then it.

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Speaker 5: Gets to work. That was Rufio's way of saying he's

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Speaker 5: here before him.

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Speaker 3: Correctly, that was Rufio's way of making sure we all

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Speaker 3: know Rufio gets here before him.

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Speaker 1: Of course that's right.

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Speaker 3: But Ruvio used to do the thing because now you

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Speaker 3: get here before all of us. But you used to

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Speaker 3: do the thing where you would like sneak in, Like

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Speaker 3: I swear to god, it was like, uh, when you

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Speaker 3: get home late from curfew and you'd like tiptoe in

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Speaker 3: the house because then you go.

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Speaker 5: Right into your little room.

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Speaker 3: And then we really because our littles where we organized

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Speaker 3: in the writer's room is around the corner, so we

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Speaker 3: never actually saw when you showed up. So then you

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Speaker 3: turn the corner like you've been there all morning. I've

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Speaker 3: been for an hour.

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Speaker 1: Only Jason Brown's only Jason Brown knows because he could see.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you knows. We could hear the door open. That's

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Speaker 5: what you didn't know.

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Speaker 1: We all can see real.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you were the kid that did your homework in

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Speaker 3: first period the day was due, right, Yeah, that makes

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Speaker 3: perfect sense.

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Speaker 1: Why do you work at home when you could do

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Speaker 1: it at school?

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Speaker 3: Exactly because it's called homework. But please, we were talking

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Speaker 3: about this the other day. It's like us, as the

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Speaker 3: fearless leader of this of this pack I have, I've

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Speaker 3: had to learn what each of your like, love languages

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Speaker 3: are really like, what each of you like, how each

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Speaker 3: of you are motivated, and you're You're all so incredibly

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Speaker 3: different in like the way that you go about doing things.

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Speaker 3: And the hardest part for me is trying to figure

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Speaker 3: being a jackass. But that Rufeo is the kid who

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Speaker 3: did his homework right before it was due, or as

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Speaker 3: it was due, or slightly after it was due, but

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Speaker 3: around the same time that it was due. That was you,

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Speaker 3: for sure, Caitlyn, you were You got your homework done

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Speaker 3: on time?

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 5: You didn't have any homework.

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Speaker 1: Did you?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 8: I did all my homework, but I was a really.

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Speaker 9: Bad test taker because of my ADHD and anxiety. So

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Speaker 9: I had like good grades because of my homework, but

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Speaker 9: then when I came to test.

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Speaker 8: That was not great.

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Speaker 3: Jason's a rule follower one hundred percent. Yeah, Jason, you

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Speaker 3: are a rule follower.

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Speaker 8: He loved you.

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Speaker 1: It was on time or early.

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Speaker 3: And like if it says if it says in the

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Speaker 3: that you're not supposed to do it this way, then

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Speaker 3: he's always the first to remind me.

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Speaker 5: Well it says here, you can't say that. Fred. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 5: we're gonna pretend we didn't see that.

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Speaker 1: Why. That's why I was sitting next to Jason too,

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Speaker 1: because like in school and be like you copy, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's got he's got all the work done, and be like, hey, Jason, right.

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Speaker 10: You gave me anxiety because I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 10: I know what. I'm a people pleaser.

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Speaker 11: Have door.

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Speaker 1: It's Okay, it's okay. R Coulina.

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Speaker 3: I think you and I mean this in the best

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Speaker 3: way because I respect it so much, but I feel

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Speaker 3: like you would have figured out a way to get

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Speaker 3: it done without having to do it absolutely.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like and you work hard here.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying there's nothing about your work ethic, but

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Speaker 3: I'm saying, like, if you could figure out a way

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Speaker 3: actually do it, which no, which is smart?

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Speaker 1: I mean that's like that. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was never smart enough to like tell anyone else

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Speaker 3: to do my stuff for me and then say that

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 1: I did it. Yeah, Well it doesn't translate here. I

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Speaker 1: don't I don't know. I don't think it dies.

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Speaker 3: But I can see that being you, like, yeah, smart savvy.

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Speaker 12: What I'm saying like, like, let someone else handle it

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Speaker 12: the stuff that I don't need to put my time into.

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Speaker 5: See, look at this. I just like.

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Speaker 3: And then, Kiki, you you strike me as the as

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Speaker 3: the person growing up who could talk your way into

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Speaker 7: Oh yes, that was like I used to eat lunch

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Speaker 7: in the teacher's lounge because I would go in they're

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Speaker 7: just like converse like I was supposed to be there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but and I think I think many of you

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Speaker 3: share that same quality of being able to like Rufio

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Speaker 3: has it too, of being able to charm your pants

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Speaker 3: out of it. Oh yeah, like when someone's when someone's

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Speaker 3: about to yell at you because you because you, I think, Paulina,

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Speaker 3: what you do is like I know that you need

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Speaker 3: the positive affirmation. So I can't get mad at you

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Speaker 3: because I don't want to make because I don't. I

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Speaker 3: want you to have the positive affirmation, like I know

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Speaker 3: the negative affirmation is way worse.

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Speaker 5: So I can't get mad at you.

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Speaker 1: Well that's nice, I can't.

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Speaker 3: I try and get mad at him, yeah, but he

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Speaker 3: then does some kind of puppy eye look at me

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Speaker 3: or yeah right, and then all of a sudden it's like,

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Speaker 3: well I guess, and then I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. You're emotionless sometimes, so.

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Speaker 1: I oh my job as well. So I don't really

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Speaker 1: think we absolutely none.

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Speaker 5: Let me be clear, let me be.

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Speaker 1: Mad, that's one thing about me.

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Speaker 3: Let me be clear, though, None of this is about

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Speaker 3: none of you. This isn't about you not doing your job.

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Speaker 3: It's about how each of you go about it. In

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Speaker 3: my opinion, I see that, and I think some are like,

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Speaker 3: how do we do this intelligently?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Such that you know, that's.

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Speaker 1: A great word, intelligently. I prefer that not.

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Speaker 5: As much of an impact on my schedule.

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Speaker 7: Is as you're not lying, where is the lie?

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Speaker 1: I see none?

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Speaker 3: And then you just put your head down and do it.

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Speaker 3: But but the inner monologue is what I'd love to hear.

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Speaker 1: Cala says that all the time.

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Speaker 7: But you guys, it's not as crazy as my facial

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Speaker 7: expressions may give.

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Speaker 5: I hope, I hope of you. This wasn't intended to

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Speaker 3: It's just it's just as I sit here in the

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Speaker 3: it's just each time that I each Sam, I have

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Speaker 3: something to say, I have to think about how to

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Speaker 3: say it like a parent, right, so I cut sort

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Speaker 3: of yes now, but here what do you think of me?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 3: And you can tell the truth because here I am saying,

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Speaker 3: like as the as the quote unquote leader like here's

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Speaker 3: and I don't know if you I think if you're

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Speaker 3: a parent, if you lead a team at work, you're

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Speaker 3: listening right now and you probably know like what I'm

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Speaker 3: talking about. It's like you can't approach every single person

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Speaker 3: time and know them, you can't motivate them all the

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Speaker 3: same way. Not everybody's here for I mean everyone's here

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Speaker 3: for like a common goal, but the reasons that everybody

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Speaker 3: very different the way that it fulfills people, I think.

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Speaker 5: But what's me going on telling you.

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Speaker 9: Not to do something you'll do? You'll do it, yes,

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Speaker 9: so that you know, so we have to work around

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Speaker 9: that psychology. Yeah, so tell you to do the thing

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Speaker 9: I don't want you to do, and then you'll do it.

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Speaker 5: But I don't do it on purpose.

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Speaker 3: Like if if you said don't do this, I don't

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Speaker 3: do it because you said don't do it.

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Speaker 5: But most of when.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that. But most of what I'm.

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Speaker 5: Told not to do so.

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Speaker 1: Was dumb.

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Speaker 5: I should I should do it?

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Speaker 1: Hey, lease your hands up. Don't talk about the suits today,

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Speaker 1: all these suits today.

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Every time.

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Speaker 3: That's a dumb thing to say, don't do Like most

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Speaker 3: sometimes when you're like, don't do this, like when you're like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, don't say what time we're going to

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Speaker 3: give away that, you know, the the vacation that you know,

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Speaker 3: it is, because it's going to ruin it. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: are you sure, Okay? Fine? But if you're like, don't

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Speaker 3: talk about the suits who are idiots, then that's dumb.

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Speaker 3: Probably I'm going to talk about them, you know. Or

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Speaker 3: if you're like, don't ask that question because that because

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Speaker 3: the paper says don't ask it, I'm like, but that's

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Speaker 3: the only question I want to ask, so I ask it.

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Speaker 1: What else? Do I think?

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Speaker 10: It's about timing with you, like I have to if

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Speaker 10: I'm going to hit you with something, like.

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Speaker 1: I have to wait until the vibe is right.

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Speaker 8: Like, I have to until the.

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Speaker 10: Timing is right, because I'm the type of person like

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Speaker 10: if I need to say something, I don't want to

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Speaker 10: forget it, so I want to say it right away.

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Speaker 10: But I've learned that I have to, like, let's feel

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Speaker 10: it out and see where we're at on this emotional

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Speaker 10: scale before.

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Speaker 1: We like, that's very fair hit you with something.

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Speaker 12: That's you know, I'm still learning that and you don't

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Speaker 12: like surprises, at least in my opinion, like I got

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Speaker 12: to prep you for stuff. If I tell you some

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Speaker 12: big news or something, I need to like prep you,

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Speaker 12: like just like show up and.

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Speaker 3: Say it's that's not fair. But I haven't thrown a

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Speaker 3: CD at you in a very long time.

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Speaker 13: Chasing you don't have any I haven't if we had

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Speaker 13: CDs though, Yeah, I haven't throwing a cassette tape with

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Speaker 13: you at Sometimes you act like you act like if

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Speaker 13: you don't hit me at the right moment that I'm

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Speaker 13: going to have like an actual it's not an explosion.

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Speaker 5: It's more of an implosion. Wouldn't you agree? It happens.

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Speaker 3: It happens like internally within I fold into myself and

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 10: Want to put you through that. So that's why it's

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Speaker 8: I can wash some of those.

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Speaker 3: Keep things clean, which you Rufio won't because he doesn't

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Speaker 3: cleanliness and hygien texted eight five, five, five, nine, one

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's true.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, probably my sister a lot of years ago,

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's important.

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Speaker 5: And you can take a little test.

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Speaker 3: it's interesting when you know for sure the order in

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Speaker 3: But sometimes it's as important to know how someone's giving

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Speaker 5: And even if he didn't ask for it.

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Speaker 9: So then I sometimes get resentful because I do all

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Speaker 5: Right, it's nothing I don't.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes people are ungrateful, but I think for the most

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Speaker 3: with words of afformation, Like I will give words of

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Speaker 3: what a genuine word of affirmation would do for me

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's I guess it's finding that balance too, But This

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Speaker 3: I'm not in a relationship because I sit around. I

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Speaker 3: you know. That's the other thing. I'm a thinker.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I destroyed myself many times just by thinking. Overthinking

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Speaker 5: I think there are a lot of thinkers in this room.

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Speaker 8: Yes, actually all overthink. Yeah, I think not health except

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Speaker 9: I just think out loud, you know, and then I

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Speaker 3: No, none of us are allowed to No, No, there's

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, it's true.

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Speaker 3: You never really have to know what Rufio is thinking,

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Speaker 3: or he'll pout. He'll either say everything or he'll pout

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Speaker 5: There's that too.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you look at this stuff that we pay attention

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Speaker 3: with a bunch of people who know each other. I

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Speaker 3: I already know what you're thinking, right, I don't even

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: So if you come in here and you're like you're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, now, don't want to stress myself out.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no no.

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Speaker 3: But then and you sing to us in your beautiful

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Speaker 1: It's the charm.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what.

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Speaker 5: Back to the chart. What did I watch last night?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I finished Jewish matchmaking last night, and I previously had

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I made the mistake of looking up Jewish matchmaking

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Speaker 8: Yeah, really they break up?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, of course, I know I looked it,

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Speaker 8: Did you slid and say I'll convert baby?

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Speaker 3: No, she's twenty three. At some point I say enough

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Speaker 3: I think once you get in that house, you're just

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Speaker 3: And some people will be like, I went on for you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're right, you know.

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Speaker 3: and then it doesn't work anyway, I recommend uh. But

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Speaker 3: then I started watching the Bama Rush documentary on HBO,

444
00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:35,880
Speaker 3: and I don't know how far I can get into it.

445
00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:40,640
Speaker 3: It's it's it's difficult to watch in what way?

446
00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:44,520
Speaker 15: Well, because you loved the TikTok. Yeah, you were all

447
00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:48,440
Speaker 15: about it. Oh I'm a Bama rush TikTok guy everything.

448
00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,840
Speaker 15: Oh I'm a Bama rush TikTok guy, throw and through. Oh,

449
00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:54,520
Speaker 15: no question about it. Day yeah, the ot day. Well,

450
00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,679
Speaker 15: and I went to a Southern college. So it just

451
00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,280
Speaker 15: it's so reminiscent of what I remember. It's just just

452
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Speaker 15: it's exact actly what I remember, the intensity, the seriousness

453
00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:08,600
Speaker 15: of it. But the parts it's hard for me is

454
00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,840
Speaker 15: I've only watched the first like fifteen minutes, and it's

455
00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:16,480
Speaker 15: hearing eighteen year olds talk about how like they're asking

456
00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,040
Speaker 15: these young and they're eighteen years old.

457
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,080
Speaker 3: You're a kid, right, And they're saying, well, why do

458
00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:23,199
Speaker 3: you want to be in a sorority? And like a

459
00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:25,720
Speaker 3: lot of these women, these young girls are saying basically

460
00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:27,800
Speaker 3: that they won't find themselves unless they get into the

461
00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,800
Speaker 3: right sorority, or like they won't have an identity unless

462
00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:33,479
Speaker 3: or they won't have friends, or or like I need

463
00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:36,560
Speaker 3: to get into sororityes so that people will love me unconditionally.

464
00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:40,639
Speaker 3: And it's like, no, no, no, it's all conditional. It's

465
00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:44,760
Speaker 3: this whole documentary is about conditions. You know, but that's

466
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Speaker 3: what I'm saying is I'm watching the first part of

467
00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,840
Speaker 3: this and these girls are like, well, you know, no

468
00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,520
Speaker 3: one's ever accepted me for me, but I know when

469
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Speaker 3: I get in a sorority, I'll be accepted whole you know.

470
00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,400
Speaker 3: Holy It's like, no, you won't, No, you won't. That's

471
00:18:55,480 --> 00:19:00,199
Speaker 3: this whole thing. It's a peeing contest, the whole thing.

472
00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:02,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, the Southern sororities are wild.

473
00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:04,160
Speaker 9: And then don't did girls that you're called, say ring

474
00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:06,080
Speaker 9: by Spring like they wanted to be engaged like by

475
00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:07,320
Speaker 9: the time they left college.

476
00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:08,720
Speaker 5: And so oh the mrs degree.

477
00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,400
Speaker 9: Yeah, and like even wearing sun dresses to tailgate.

478
00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,399
Speaker 8: Like I'm just it's foreign to me. I'm like, I

479
00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:14,080
Speaker 8: kind of word.

480
00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:15,879
Speaker 3: And look, I met some really great people. I mean

481
00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,320
Speaker 3: people I'm still friends with today. Being in a fraternity

482
00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,240
Speaker 3: for twenty minutes. I was in a fraternity for twenty

483
00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:25,720
Speaker 3: minutes one year, but basically twenty minutes. I'm not dissing

484
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Speaker 3: the entire institution, but I think in this particular case,

485
00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,960
Speaker 3: Alabama Rush, for example, like a lot of the other ones,

486
00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,760
Speaker 3: have become so overly publicized that it's like it's yeah,

487
00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,359
Speaker 3: I think it loses the intention, the intent in some

488
00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:42,000
Speaker 3: ways because people are just they just become fixated on

489
00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:46,040
Speaker 3: getting into the most popular house and not getting into

490
00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:48,879
Speaker 3: the houses that are quote unquote less desirable. And then

491
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Speaker 3: is that really the is that really the idea? You know,

492
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Speaker 3: because like my mom had a great experience in her

493
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Speaker 3: sorority and my sister doesn't. Didn't want to be in

494
00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:01,520
Speaker 3: that sorority because it wasn't that it was cool, but

495
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:02,360
Speaker 3: oh it wasn't.

496
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Speaker 2: No.

497
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Speaker 3: But you know how if you've been in if you've

498
00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:07,480
Speaker 3: been at a college with Greek life, then you know

499
00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:10,720
Speaker 3: how quickly, like my fraternity was okay when I was there,

500
00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,040
Speaker 3: then it got bad, then it got really good, and

501
00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,400
Speaker 3: then they got kicked off and not not even there anymore.

502
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Speaker 8: Wow.

503
00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:17,919
Speaker 3: But I mean, like, you know, my grandfather was in

504
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,359
Speaker 3: a fraternity that was awesome at I guess Iowa, but

505
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,640
Speaker 3: it wasn't awesome a lot of other I mean, it's

506
00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:24,680
Speaker 3: like it's all over the place.

507
00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:26,800
Speaker 8: Yeah, but your sister didn't.

508
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 9: Your sister got into Kappa without even trying, didn't she

509
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Speaker 9: She pretty.

510
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Speaker 5: Basically said, I don't want anything to do with this.

511
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 5: I hate it.

512
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Speaker 3: And I'm like Amanda, because I went to the Southern

513
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 3: Methodist and she did too, and we had deferred rush.

514
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,320
Speaker 3: So it was second semester. Oh, and the purpose freshman

515
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,800
Speaker 3: year second semester. It was a week before school started

516
00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,800
Speaker 3: for men and women. And the premise was you were

517
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,919
Speaker 3: supposed to like get to know everybody first semester, and

518
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 3: essentially they called it dirty rush, where they were like

519
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 3: recruiting without you weren't supposed to be recruiting, so that

520
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:56,879
Speaker 3: you kind of knew what house you wanted to be in,

521
00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 3: boy or girl. You knew what house you wanted to

522
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Speaker 3: be in before you went back after Christmas break. And

523
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 3: so she didn't do any of that because she hated it. Yeah,

524
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 3: didn't like any of it. So she didn't do any

525
00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 3: of that, like didn't make any of those contacts. And

526
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 3: then she's like, I'm not even gonna go back for rush.

527
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, man, I go back for rush, just try

528
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 3: and she gets there call me every night. I hate this.

529
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,639
Speaker 3: This is so dumb. I skipped five houses today. I

530
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,640
Speaker 3: didn't even go to this house. I don't like it,

531
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 3: you know, And I understood that she's like a free spirit,

532
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 3: you know, she doesn't want to me.

533
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,240
Speaker 5: She doesn't want to like, you know, I don't know.

534
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 5: She doesn't want to.

535
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,239
Speaker 3: Subscribe to all this and she saw what it was,

536
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,440
Speaker 3: which was really a fashion show. And I mean you'll

537
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: see on this documentary there are rush Greek rush consultants.

538
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 1: Stop.

539
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 3: Parents are hiring people to consult their children on how

540
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,479
Speaker 3: to get through and get into specific houses.

541
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 5: That's where we're at. That is not the point, right,

542
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:44,400
Speaker 5: my god.

543
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 9: Some of my sister's friends' parents were hitting me up,

544
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 9: like could you write a letter for your I'm like, ladies,

545
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 9: like we got to relax.

546
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 8: This is not a big deal. I'm not writing letters

547
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:53,200
Speaker 8: for all your kids.

548
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 5: My mom writes letters all the time. She's right out, Yeah,

549
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 5: I didn't.

550
00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 8: Even want me to write her a letter. I'm not

551
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:58,679
Speaker 8: going to write it for her friends.

552
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 5: She went to a different house and you did, right, yeah, yeah,

553
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 5: But that's.

554
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 3: The point, like that maybe that house is better for her,

555
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:06,880
Speaker 3: and then your house is better for you whatever.

556
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 5: She's happy, But like people don't think of.

557
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 1: It that way.

558
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 3: They think I want to get into whatever it is,

559
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 3: DG or whatever the house bame is you want to

560
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 3: be in because it's the best one, And that's not

561
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 3: the point. Maybe my sister was like I'm done. I

562
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 3: don't want to do this. And then she calls me

563
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 3: the Saturday morning. They call it what do they call it?

564
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 3: The pig run? It's the dog run. Well, because because

565
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 3: you get your bids. The fraternities get their bids on

566
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 3: Fridays and then walk to the house that we got into.

567
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 3: The girls got their Saturday morning, and then they physically

568
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 3: run from the arena to the house that they got into.

569
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,919
Speaker 3: That's why they call it. And then the guys who

570
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 3: just got into fraternities, who've been up all night, you know,

571
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:48,919
Speaker 3: partying because we got into a house, then we go

572
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Speaker 3: stand along the street and watch them run to their houses.

573
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Speaker 8: Okay, the second they made me run, i'd be like,

574
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 8: all right, I'm not going.

575
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: To do this now.

576
00:22:56,080 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 3: This is Southern Greek life, I mean, it's crazy. Anyway,

577
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 3: she calls me Saturday morning. Yeah, Ima Kappa, which is

578
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 3: the best house, was the best house at SMU by

579
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 3: a mile. And I'm like, how I mean there were

580
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 3: girls I'm not embellishing. When I was there, there were

581
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 3: girls that didn't get into Kappa or Theda or pi Fi.

582
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 3: Literally their parents were there that morning after they didn't

583
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 3: get the bid, moving them out of the dorm and

584
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 3: taking them home. Oh wow, because they didn't get into

585
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,880
Speaker 3: the house. They wanted to be end or the Legacy

586
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 3: house or whatever. And here was my sister with no recommendation,

587
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 3: no care in the world. And then then she I

588
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 3: think she got kicked out at some point. I love

589
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 3: oh because she stopped like she didn't want to live

590
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:38,360
Speaker 3: in the house and want to play the game.

591
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 8: We're like, we're not doing this.

592
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 5: She was just like whatever, I'm over, this is dumb.

593
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 2: You.

594
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 9: No, I didn't quit, but we all band together and said, listen,

595
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 9: if you want our money, because you have to pay,

596
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,679
Speaker 9: we're not going to do We're not going to live

597
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 9: in the house two years. We're not going to go

598
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 9: to these meetings. I'm not going to do rush. And

599
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 9: they were like, oh, so we kind of found each

600
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 9: other and then we're like no, but I didn't quit.

601
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 8: But I just was like, this is I knew it

602
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 8: was like when I was doing it, you know what

603
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 8: I mean.

604
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: So what was the reason for doing this?

605
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 2: Thank you?

606
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,919
Speaker 7: Like, what made you say this is the life that

607
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 7: I'm choosing?

608
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 9: You know, Well, it's not, by the way, it's not

609
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 9: at all like it is in the South.

610
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 8: So I want to make that very clear. I would

611
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 8: not have done any of that stuff.

612
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 9: But I went to a college in the state that

613
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 9: I grew up and I wanted to meet new people,

614
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 9: and I thought, why not just try it. If I

615
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,719
Speaker 9: don't like it, I can stop. And all my friends

616
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 9: that I have now, every single one of them except

617
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,360
Speaker 9: for one, is from that experience.

618
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 8: So I am so grateful.

619
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 5: Work out for us too, Yeah.

620
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,439
Speaker 9: It worked out, But like it's all about who's in

621
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 9: your pledge class, because then the year after us, it

622
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 9: like wasn't a great pledge class and girls didn't have

623
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Speaker 9: a good experience.

624
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 8: So I just got really lucky.

625
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 9: And also like with classes, like people in your house

626
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 9: will help you with classes because they had the class

627
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 9: before you. It's really good on your resume. Stuff like that.

628
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 3: I mean, see where I went to college, you had

629
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 3: you almost had to do it because everything social. It

630
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 3: was a smaller southern college, everything social surrounded you know,

631
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 3: it was it was encompassed for the Greek life, so

632
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 3: you kind of had to You're either you either Greek

633
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 3: or you weren't, and weren't wasn't great. Really, it was great.

634
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 3: It probably was better, actually, but I didn't know that

635
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 3: at the time. But the thing is the year that

636
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 3: I did it, there were like fifteen of us that

637
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 3: were all friends from the dorm, and this fraternity was

638
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 3: kind of okay, and they went and targeted like two

639
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 3: big groups of friends. There were like some jocks and

640
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 3: then there were there was and so there's thirty guys

641
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 3: they went after, and so I wound up joining the

642
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 3: house that all my friends went to, not necessarily the

643
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 3: house I thought I wanted to be in, which was

644
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 3: the point, right, Like the point was to join the

645
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 3: guys that you liked and that you vibed with or whatever.

646
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 3: So it worked out for me, But you're right. Then

647
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 3: the next year we had a bad pledge class and

648
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 3: then I dropped out.

649
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 12: Oh wow, did you guys have like like these bird

650
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 12: calls or whatever?

651
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 8: They would be like or they start like yelling stuff out.

652
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 8: They'll be like, third up, I don't.

653
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: Know what that was, just stomp the yard.

654
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 2: Now.

655
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 3: I think our bird call was we have beer and

656
00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:02,360
Speaker 3: then people would come out, Yeah, I know what you're

657
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 3: talking about. These a chance that they do, but are

658
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 3: almost like they almost seem like a cult and they

659
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 3: do a dance and oh yeah, oh yeah.

660
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 12: Coasta Rica over the weekend and he had all his

661
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 12: boys do this whole dance.

662
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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, we didn't do that. Girls do that though.

663
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 3: Do you remember any of the chances for rush that

664
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 3: you had to do?

665
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 9: We didn't really do a lot of that corny stuff.

666
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 9: Like it was very different, like from what you guys are, Like,

667
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 9: I'm not a cheerer like that.

668
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 5: You join us to your.

669
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Speaker 12: You know, like like what is it called austhority, But

670
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 12: I don't have a GP A high enough?

671
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 1: Somebody asked how to stay back?

672
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 7: But you could have joined mine. I created my own mob.

673
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 7: Yeah that's right, Yeah you can. You could join today.

674
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 7: Are we all in the mob?

675
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 1: Well it's a small fee, so if you want to go.

676
00:26:54,840 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 7: She doesn't have to pay, right, got the strap so.

677
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,239
Speaker 1: We need her. Well, there you go.

678
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 3: There's there's my rundown on Southern fratern of news sororities. Thanks,

679
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 3: thanks Caitlyn for your reporting on that.

680
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, they talk better than they say.

681
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 3: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, all right,

682
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 3: like writing in our diaries, of course we say them aloud.

683
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 5: And Calyn's got a blog, go dear blog.

684
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 9: So I love all of our listeners very very much,

685
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 9: even the ones that tell me I have ugly knies.

686
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: I love you.

687
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 9: Yeah, my knees get come for come for it? Well, yeah,

688
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 9: people come to my knees pretty sure.

689
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 5: Someone in fact, maybe this guy. Yeah, maybe it's very personal.

690
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 2: Guy.

691
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 9: People come for my knees, is what I was trying

692
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 9: to say. But I love them just the same, and

693
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 9: I love all our thirteen So I will, you know,

694
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 9: do anything to make them happy, at least I try.

695
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 5: You should not say that at all.

696
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 3: Caln will not do anything to make you happy, but

697
00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 3: she'll She'll do the best my madondas I thought we

698
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 3: all will. We're all pretty committed to making you all happy. Yeah,

699
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 3: because we couldn't do this without our listeners. So I'm

700
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 3: very appreciative when people listen and they like us.

701
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,120
Speaker 9: Anyways, So a couple of weeks ago, you might remember

702
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 9: that one of our listeners wanted to send me a

703
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 9: T shirt, a Marvel T shirt, and I felt really bad.

704
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 3: It wasn't just that they wanted to send it to you,

705
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 3: and they wanted you to wear it, yes, so they

706
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 3: could see it you wearing it in video of the show.

707
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 3: So it wasn't just here's a nice gift. It was

708
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 3: here's a nice gift that you must put on.

709
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:29,919
Speaker 8: Yes, he did hear us talking about it.

710
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 9: I'm assuming it to he and DMed and said, it's

711
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 9: okay if you don't want to wear it, like I

712
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 9: just want to whatever.

713
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 8: But I wore it.

714
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 9: You know, listen, I'm a people pleaser, so I was

715
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 9: very grateful. I don't like Marvel, but I wore my

716
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 9: little scorpion shirt.

717
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: Venom Venom sure.

718
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 8: Word to work. Just you know, I kept up my

719
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 8: end of the bargain. Okay, but I for a while

720
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 8: said no.

721
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 9: Because I don't want our listeners to ever spend money

722
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 9: on us. That makes me very uncomfortable. And so I

723
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 9: said thank you and we went on our merry way,

724
00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 9: and he promised it was just that one time.

725
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 8: Well he now is saying just this one more time.

726
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 8: He would like to send me another shirt, all right.

727
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 5: A Federal Booty Inspector shirt.

728
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: They didn't make so it could be Venom too.

729
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 4: Okay.

730
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 5: You know what was gonna say.

731
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 9: No because I said again, no, please, that's not necessary.

732
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 9: And I just looked and I have a few more messages,

733
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 9: so I.

734
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 8: Mean, I'll open them if you guys want me to.

735
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I tracking device didn't work on the first shirt.

736
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 5: No, she watched it.

737
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: Watch it just loves to becoming shorted out.

738
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Speaker 3: I got to send you another one to get the

739
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 3: Amazon packaging again.

740
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 5: This is the whole thing.

741
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 8: This time it will be an anime shirt.

742
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 3: Okay, so before long you're gonna have a whole new

743
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 3: wardrobe thanks to this guy anime like your Head with

744
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 3: the anime body figure.

745
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: Character category. Yeah, he's gonna.

746
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 8: I don't have to do pictures. But then he keeps trying.

747
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: One of those spray.

748
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 3: Spray painted t shirts from like the Boardwalk with his

749
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 3: name on it.

750
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Speaker 6: I got more Fread show.

751
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: Next, the Fread Show is on.

752
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 3: Rufio is getting mean things said to him too by

753
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 3: his uh, his son Ashland.

754
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and every day it's something new, like

755
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm stupid, or like I was like, get away from me,

756
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: I don't need you. I'm like okay, then I just

757
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: walked away, and then he's like, way, come back. All

758
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 1: these things, you know, Oh why why why you look?

759
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: Why you look so fat?

760
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 2: Dad?

761
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: All these things? So you get roasted every day every

762
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: day and I'm like, oh, here's some more ice cream.

763
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: Good job son.

764
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 3: You just have to say, right, where do you think

765
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 3: he's like you think he just overhears things and doesn't

766
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 3: necessarily understand how mean it is.

767
00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: I mean the kids on like YouTube and all these

768
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: do you know watch like.

769
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 5: Roast channel on you Tube.

770
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. It's just they pick up everything.

771
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: The TVs show anything they pick up, they hear from anybody.

772
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: They just want to copy it. So yeah, yeah, I

773
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: told you my niece hurt.

774
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 3: Her thing is that she likes to like pretend like

775
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 3: she's gonna give me something and then take it back.

776
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: That's her.

777
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 5: I'm like, this is a fun game. Cool like you.

778
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 5: And by the way, I.

779
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 3: Didn't want your slobbery hip anyway. But it'll be like

780
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 3: here about me, and then she'll stick it out and

781
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 3: then she'll stick it back, put it in her mouth

782
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 3: and start laughing. And I'm like, oh, okay, now let's

783
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 3: do it. Let's we're gonna bring it. There's gonna be

784
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 3: like a weekly segment. But I'm excited now.

785
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: I love.

786
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 3: What is the mean thing that your kids said to you?

787
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 3: I feel like it's a never ending supply of things.

788
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 8: They just don't have their filter. They say whatever pops

789
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 8: in there.

790
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 5: Three five is our telephone number, our private telephone number.

791
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 8: But this is a good one. I love mean little kids.

792
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: They're funny.

793
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 3: I think it's funny too, because it's gotta be hard

794
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 3: not to laugh too, because if you laugh, then right,

795
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 3: he's thinking, okay, right, right, you're like enabling him kind of,

796
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 3: and he'll be like, oh, Danny laugh, it's funny.

797
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: Does he's anything, Jess, No, he loves his mom. It's

798
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 1: just me. Yeah, it's just like I love mom more. Okay, fine,

799
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: that's facts right there. Yeah, but it's just like every

800
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 1: day something new, Like I don't know where he gets

801
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: it from, but every day I get home and I hey, buddy,

802
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 1: and then I get roasted and I'm like, okay.

803
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 8: Maybe it's because you fight back with him.

804
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you gotta put him in his place.

805
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 3: Sometimes there's nothing more rufio than a forty two year

806
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 3: old man.

807
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, with he's three, he's three and a half.

808
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 5: I got to write things down, like I don't have

809
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 5: a good enough memory. My niece, your.

810
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 15: Son, Jason Brown, Jason Brown, the same age, so yeah,

811
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 15: all the same.

812
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 3: Cousin whatever. Hi, Hi, Vicky. The mean thing that your

813
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 3: kid said to you? Oh this is neat we almost

814
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 3: forgot to do this again, but we didn't.

815
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 5: So here we are.

816
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: So my eight year old.

817
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 6: With a set that I would not get to McDonald's.

818
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 1: So he told me that he wishes I was dead.

819
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 3: Oh wow, now I can understand the dismay about not

820
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 3: getting McDonald That was. I don't think I would be like, hey, well,

821
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 3: if I'm dead, then who's gonna right?

822
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 6: Exactly exactly, but he was that upset. Needless to say,

823
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 6: he did not get the McDonald's.

824
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 11: But it broke my heart.

825
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 3: Where did he learn this? Who do you think is

826
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 3: wishing death upon you in his life?

827
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 6: Like?

828
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 5: Where would you even learn that sentence?

829
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: You know what?

830
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 12: I don't know.

831
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 1: I really don't know. I'm gonna blame you.

832
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 3: Too, maybe yeah maybe m hmm yeah, blame chat ept.

833
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 3: It's that's the problem everywhere, VICKI thank you so much,

834
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 3: thanks for listening.

835
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 5: Have a great day you too, Love you guys, Love

836
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 5: you too. Glad you called.

837
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 3: Hey Meredith, good morning, Hi, good morning, Hi Merrit is

838
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 3: the mean thing that your kid said to you?

839
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 14: I asked my daughter if we should have a third baby,

840
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 14: and she said yes, And I asked her why and

841
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 14: she said, because she wants to hear me scream during childbirth.

842
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, my god, awfully detail, Oh my god.

843
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 14: Psychopath would say, yeah, this is your daughter.

844
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: Hold, yeah, she just turned fick.

845
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

846
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 3: You should be like, fine, we'll have another baby and

847
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 3: you can come watch like Caylen did. Yeah, and that

848
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 3: will change your viewplot on a lot of things.

849
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

850
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 5: That's a true story.

851
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 3: By the way, Meredith, is it Caylen was present for

852
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 3: the birth of her of her little sister.

853
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 5: You were twelve, yep when this happened.

854
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 3: Boy, that would be you would think that would have

855
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 3: been birth control and maybe prevented you from cause you

856
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 3: to abstain a little longer.

857
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 2: Oh.

858
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 9: I was very very careful before and after that, but honestly,

859
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 9: I don't know. Like I passed out and then I

860
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 9: felt so bad because the doctors all came to me

861
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 9: and left my mom.

862
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,320
Speaker 8: You know what I mean that I passed out in

863
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 8: the delivery room.

864
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 3: Yes, Meredith, have a great day. Thank you so much.

865
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 8: It was terrifying.

866
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 3: That's a that's a crazy I mean, that's a special

867
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 3: thing to be included in, but also like highly traumatizing.

868
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 8: I was so out of it when they handed me

869
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 8: bella that. I was like, who the hell is this

870
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 8: because I had just fainted.

871
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Hey Cindy, yes, Hi.

872
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 5: So this was you. You were the one who said the

873
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 5: mean thing.

874
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 2: No, No, my daughter would tell me when she's eighteen now,

875
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 2: but when she was little, she would tell me that

876
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 2: she hated me all.

877
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: The time, oh, like two.

878
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,280
Speaker 6: Or three years old, and she would say.

879
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 8: I hate you so hurtful.

880
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so what do you do say, like, hey,

881
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 3: that's mean? Do you say you can't tell people you

882
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 3: hate them?

883
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: Like?

884
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 5: Do you try and reason with them? Or is there

885
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 5: any point?

886
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 3: I mean, sometimes I'd be like, oh, that's not nice

887
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 3: to hurt mom's feelings, and she'd just, you know, shrug

888
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 3: it off and walked away.

889
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:58,240
Speaker 1: She's nicer now.

890
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 3: Okay, Well that's good. I'm glad we come along with

891
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 3: in all these years. Cindy, thank you so much. Have

892
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 3: a great morning. We appreciate you listening. Hey, Maria, good.

893
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 5: Morning, good morning.

894
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 13: I love you guys.

895
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 5: Thank you, we love you too. What's the mean thing

896
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 5: that your kid said to you?

897
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 12: I went on vacation for a week and came back

898
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 12: and cast him if you missed me, she said, gone,

899
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 12: but never forgotten.

900
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: What on earth.

901
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 6: I don't think he understood what it meant.

902
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: But gone but never forgotten.

903
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess that's sort of a sweet I

904
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 3: don't I don't know how old is this kid. Oh okay,

905
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 3: all right, well Maria, thank you, have a good day.

906
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 5: You're gone but never forgotten.

907
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 3: Mom Saki, Hi, Hey, good morning, hey man, thanks for calling,

908
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. So we got on this kick of

909
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 3: because Kim Kardashians kid said something sort of mean.

910
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 5: What was it again? It was like a.

911
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 8: Saint said, he frequently says you're nothing.

912
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 5: To Oh, you're nothing to me. What is it that

913
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 5: your kid says to you?

914
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 6: So my daughter Katie, who's out thirty, but she was a.

915
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,720
Speaker 1: Little toddler, by White to take her out shopping and.

916
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 5: She'd be in a stroller and little ladies would come

917
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 5: up to her and.

918
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 3: Say, oh, you're so cute.

919
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: You're so cute, and she look.

920
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 3: At a ring of face say.

921
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 6: WHOA at the same time, right, So she just I

922
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 6: don't know where she came up with that day.

923
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 3: But you're like, hey, you're not wrong, but you can't

924
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 3: say that to people, you know, you can't say that.

925
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 5: Public.

926
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 3: It's the way I have a great day man. Glad

927
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 3: you called him. Appreciates you? Oh, I get because what

928
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 3: do you do at this point? Like why you look

929
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 3: like that?

930
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 1: I don't know? Stop? Why is why is that person

931
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: doing that? I don't know. That person's just mowing the lawn.

932
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 1: Leave alone. I'm scared. I am terrified the Sottlers because

933
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,760
Speaker 1: it just yeah, evil, Well.

934
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:06,359
Speaker 3: Look listen to this right here. Listen to this kid

935
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 3: trying to take my job. Listen to this kid?

936
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: Why what are you doing right now? I'm going to

937
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: this The Friend Show? Yoh yeah, who's on the Fred Show?

938
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 6: Me?

939
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: You're on the Friend Show? Wire, you're the star?

940
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

941
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: What about Uncle Fred?

942
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 8: He not the Fred Show?

943
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 3: No, you don't back off, little kid? Uncle Fred? Each

944
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 3: another ten fifteen years or so, and then it's all

945
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 3: yours Fred Show's ever been left waiting by the phone?

946
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 5: It's the Fred Show?

947
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 3: Marshalls here, how you doing Better've been better?

948
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: All right?

949
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 3: Well, welcome to Waiting by the phone. The whole cruise here,

950
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,240
Speaker 3: ready to hear the story. You met Tina on Hinge?

951
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 3: Then what happens?

952
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 2: Yeah?

953
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 6: All right, bound Hinge. We talked back and forth for

954
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 6: a little bit, and then we actually went out for

955
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 6: pizza and yogurt. It was super fun, super casual.

956
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 3: Weird pizza and yogat So you got the paza a

957
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:13,240
Speaker 3: little more healthy on the yogurt tips.

958
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 5: So I like his balance.

959
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I mean it was great, Like I definitely

960
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 6: got the feeling like there was potential in us dating,

961
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 6: you know, like we both really hit it off. And

962
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 6: I mean, I will say the only thing. I went

963
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 6: in to kiss her at the end, and she gave

964
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 6: me the cheek. Okay, but I mean, you know, it's

965
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 6: not that big of the deal. Some girls just don't

966
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 6: kiss on the first date.

967
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. So yeah, yeah, So I texted.

968
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 6: Her, you know, wanting to meet up again, and she

969
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 6: just ghosted me.

970
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 3: I haven't heard from her, okay, So you get the

971
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 3: you get this sort of you know, turn for the cheek,

972
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 3: so you get the cheek kiss and now she's ghosting you.

973
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 3: But otherwise you thought everything was pretty good and you

974
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 3: were hoping to hear from her or if nothing else.

975
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 3: You know, people talk about this all the time. It's well,

976
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 3: they don't know you, they don't have to go out.

977
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 5: With you again. You know, you go on one date,

978
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 5: No one owes you another date. No, But I suppose.

979
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:08,879
Speaker 3: You know, sometimes it's nice to know if someone's willing

980
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 3: to tell you, it's nice to know what happened and

981
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 3: why it didn't work out, So you can kind of

982
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 3: close that chapter, right absolutely, all right, Well, let's see

983
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 3: what's going on. We're gonna call Tina. You'll be on

984
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 3: the phone. We'll see what she'll tell us at some point.

985
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 3: Definitely coming on the call and hopefully we can straighten

986
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 3: this out, and if so, we'll set you guys up

987
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 3: on another date that we pay for. Okay, can you

988
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 3: hang on for a second, Let's see what happens next.

989
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 3: Part two of Waiting by the Phone after this song

990
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 3: on The Frend Show. Part two Waiting on the Phone. Marshall,

991
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 3: welcome back. Let's call Tina. You met on Hinge when

992
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,760
Speaker 3: on a date you thought everything went great, you felt

993
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 3: good about it, but she's ghosting you. Now you've reached

994
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 3: out to try and schedule another date. She's not responding.

995
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 3: You want to know why. Let's call her now? Good luck?

996
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 6: All right?

997
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 2: Hi?

998
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: Is this Tina? Yes, Tina?

999
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 3: Good morning, Fred from The Fred Show, Jason Ruvell, Paulina

1000
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 3: Kale and everybody's here. I have to tell you that

1001
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 3: we are on the radio right now, and I need

1002
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 3: your permission to continue with the calls. It okay if

1003
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 3: we keep talking. Oh okay, okay, I know it's weird.

1004
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 3: We appreciate you for taking the time, but I'll get

1005
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 3: right to it. We're calling on behalf of a guy

1006
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 3: named Marshall who reached out to us. Apparently you met

1007
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 3: him on Hinge and you guys went out on a date.

1008
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we did, Okay, so what.

1009
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, what happened?

1010
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 3: Because I think he was hoping to here for I

1011
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 3: know he was hoping to here from you again and

1012
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 3: go on another date, and you're not responding, So what's

1013
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:37,919
Speaker 3: the deal.

1014
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 14: It's really weird. Yeah, well we did. We went on

1015
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 14: a date. I was really looking forward to it and

1016
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 14: everything seemed pretty cool, like I was excited for like

1017
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 14: pizza and troio you know, but there's there's just there

1018
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 14: was just some stuff that Marshall did that was definitely

1019
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 14: a turn off for me.

1020
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 5: Like what what did he do?

1021
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 14: Okay, So we went to this piece place and then

1022
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 14: he suggested that we share a pop which is which

1023
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 14: is fine. It was self serve and kind of thought

1024
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 14: it was like a very lady in the tramp kind

1025
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 14: of way.

1026
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 5: Okay, so you get a pizza but only on drink.

1027
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 11: Yeah, it was weird.

1028
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 14: Yeah, that was kind of weird. But I was like, oh,

1029
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 14: this is romantic.

1030
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 11: You know.

1031
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 14: I was trying that was very logical, but so not that. Yeah,

1032
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 14: romance took over and I was like, oh, maybe this

1033
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 14: is kind of cute, but it was weird. But then

1034
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 14: we finished eating and as we were leaving, he just

1035
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 14: takes like a bunch of parmegan cheese packets and just

1036
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 14: stuffs them in his pocket.

1037
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 3: All right, so we saved a little bit on the

1038
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 3: drink and now we've got some parmesan to take home

1039
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 3: with us.

1040
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: Okay.

1041
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 14: Yeah, it was very weird and I was like, okay,

1042
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 14: that's strange. And then I asked him. I was like,

1043
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 14: what's going on and he's like, oh, this is from

1044
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 14: my house. I take it from my house. Why buy

1045
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 14: it when you can get it for free?

1046
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 6: Right?

1047
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 14: And I was like, this is not okay.

1048
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: So that's nothing wrong with that.

1049
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if that's a first everyone has

1050
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 3: that in their fridge. That's a first day move. If

1051
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 3: you order food to your home and a bunch of

1052
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 3: stuff comes and you want to save some of it

1053
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 3: in case, in case, for some reason they don't send

1054
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 3: it to you one time. Fine, but I mean on

1055
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 3: a day taking a stuff home, I don't know is

1056
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:32,399
Speaker 3: that it or was there more?

1057
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 14: No, there's there's one more. Well, we went to get

1058
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 14: some frozen yogurt and one of those like self serve places,

1059
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:44,399
Speaker 14: and he asked for she kept asking for extra sample cups,

1060
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 14: the giant samples, and then left without buying anything.

1061
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 6: I just find that's so.

1062
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 5: Cheap, you know, like you guys just had samples or

1063
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 5: did he buy you or no, for.

1064
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 14: Himself, just for himself, just for a giant samples that

1065
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 14: he asked for, and say he just like ate them all.

1066
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 14: And he was like, I'm ready to go.

1067
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 3: Let me let me bring Marshall into the cal I

1068
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 3: forgot to mention that Marsha's here, and you've been very

1069
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 3: patient throughout this martial. I mean, look, I'm all about

1070
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 3: saving money where you can, but on a I don't know.

1071
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 3: I mean, there's a few sort of tact tissues here.

1072
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 3: But also do you really want to to to sort

1073
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 3: of don't you want to spoil somebody on a first date?

1074
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,919
Speaker 6: Yeah, Well I'm being economical.

1075
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 3: Well, yes you are I mean, there's no real doubt. Yeah,

1076
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 3: that's a very frugal person. Yeah, but I mean you

1077
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 3: want to spoil somebody on a date, you want to

1078
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 3: make it feel special, and samples and and sharing a

1079
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 3: drink is not special.

1080
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 6: Well I get that, But at the same time, like

1081
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 6: I want wealth, Like that's a priority for me in

1082
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 6: my life. And in order to have money, you can't

1083
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 6: spend money.

1084
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's very true. I mean that is true.

1085
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 3: But aren't there sometimes when you splurge, like when you're

1086
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 3: trying to impress someone, when you try to make a

1087
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 3: good impression and get them to I don't go out

1088
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 3: with you again, maybe marry you.

1089
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 6: I mean, I guess, but that's the big quality of

1090
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,799
Speaker 6: my life, and I don't like I would want my

1091
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 6: partner to know that. And in a way, that was

1092
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 6: me showing that that I'm being farked.

1093
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 3: Well said, okay, how about this. Isn't taking someone on

1094
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 3: nice dates and showing them a good time. Isn't that

1095
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 3: investing in your future? Huh? You think of how much

1096
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 3: you could say, if you marry this girl and she

1097
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 3: moves in pays half the rent.

1098
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:27,959
Speaker 5: How about that?

1099
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 6: I mean that that is a good point Pina, I

1100
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 6: don't want you to think that I'm this like bastard guy.

1101
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 6: I'm not like.

1102
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Speaker 14: I just think I'm well, we're out together. At least

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00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 14: pay for your hat, you know what I mean. It's

1104
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 14: a little weird when you're trying to skimp over just

1105
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:47,959
Speaker 14: to share a pop.

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00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:51,760
Speaker 6: It's just you know, I mean, I understand.

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00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, well look, would you let me ask

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00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 3: you this, uh, Tina, would you consider another day with

1109
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 3: this guy? If maybe he I don't extend a little

1110
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 3: bit here, gets your own drink at last. I respect

1111
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 3: somebody who's trying to save money. I just think there's

1112
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 3: a time in a place I feel like if yeah.

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00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 14: I mean, if he changes his ways a little bit,

1114
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 14: if you change, like listen, if we compromise here and

1115
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,439
Speaker 14: you find a leveled ground and yeah.

1116
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: Wow, wow, you can have your second date at Costco

1117
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: and get all the same.

1118
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 5: Don't don't listen to him.

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00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: I don't know that one you a hot dog and

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00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 1: then the free drink comes with it. Would get a drink?

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00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, everyone makes their wow.

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00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 3: Okay, so Marshall, you get another chance. Were by the way,

1123
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 3: we're paying for it. So Jesus with Marshall this is

1124
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 3: a great success.

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00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 6: Yes truly.

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00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, well, good.

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00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 3: Luck to you guys. Thank you for your time, and

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00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,359
Speaker 3: and I hope it works out. We were talking about

1129
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 3: office politics yesterday. I think I really stirred it up.

1130
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 3: I didn't really mean to you we're talking about you know, collectively,

1131
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 3: we were not. No, it was collective. It was collective.

1132
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 3: We were talking about office politics yesterday. This is the

1133
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 3: office gate going on here. I want you to know that.

1134
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 5: I tried.

1135
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 3: You know, they have little digital signs outside all of

1136
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 3: these offices. If you missed this yesterday, you have to

1137
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 3: reserve an office in our office area now. And there's

1138
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 3: a battle going on between two executives who believe they

1139
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,280
Speaker 3: should have the big office. One person thinks it should

1140
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 3: just be his, and he's moved in. Another is offended

1141
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 3: by that, and it blocks the office and gets like

1142
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 3: the it people to block the office out before it

1143
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 3: or or he just gets there earlier and takes it.

1144
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:44,240
Speaker 3: And these are high level executives. It's hysterical. It's really funny.

1145
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 3: So I tried to get them to say that when

1146
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 3: I guess when you reserve it, it like says on the

1147
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 3: outside of the side of a little little like digital thing,

1148
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 3: who's got it. I tried to get them to change

1149
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 3: that to uh the Fred Show office so that nobody

1150
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 3: could have it, but for some reason they wouldn't do that.

1151
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 3: I don't know what I wouldn't do that. I have

1152
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 3: no idea what it wouldn't play my games. And then

1153
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 3: I said, we should make like a dry erase board

1154
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 3: and then just reserve the kitchen or something for ourselves,

1155
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 3: just the Frendshow kitchen reserved and then have like Jason

1156
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 3: stand outside and anybody who tries to go and be like, no, no, sorry,

1157
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 3: we have this reserve today.

1158
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 1: We have a label maker here. We could just label

1159
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: all the snacks and.

1160
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 3: Snack French Show, cup of noodle, Fred Show, died coke,

1161
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 3: you should, you should Fresh Show refrigerator, a French Show

1162
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 3: coffee maker. Honestly, well you got Will you start making

1163
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 3: those signs. I want you to just taste them up

1164
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 3: on everything Fred Show Snack, Fresh Show coffee bean, this

1165
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 3: coffee beans not but this one is we reserved it today.

1166
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,360
Speaker 3: I just I can't believe, though these are grown ass

1167
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 3: adults and this is the kind of scandal that we

1168
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 3: have going. It's It's true officecape going on right now?

1169
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 3: Bring this up though, because an anonymous Reddit user posted

1170
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 3: a photo of an alleged sign that suggests that hospital

1171
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 3: workers at an undisclosed location are being charged to use

1172
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 3: the microwave. What WHOA is anything like this going on

1173
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 3: in your office? Is anything crazy like this going on

1174
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 3: in your office where you're like? What the hell?

1175
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: Eight?

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00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 3: Five five five nine one three five is how you

1177
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 3: call it? You can text the same number any ten.

1178
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 3: A photo was uploaded of a sheet I hope this

1179
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 3: is a joke on the microwave and claims that a

1180
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 3: single microwave use is two dollars and somehow you can

1181
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,879
Speaker 3: have a monthly unlimited microwave pass for thirty dollars. Now,

1182
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 3: I didn't see like there's no like credit card thing

1183
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 3: or whatever it is. I guess it's an honor system.

1184
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 3: I use a microwave at work, I gotta pay you

1185
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 3: two dollars.

1186
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 5: This has to be a joke.

1187
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 1: You can buy your own. How broke are we? I'll

1188
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,919
Speaker 1: pay five dollars not to use the microwave this work.

1189
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:47,879
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's another thing.

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00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: This microwave is disgusting for two dollars use.

1191
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 3: There better be somebody getting in there like a bathroom

1192
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 3: attendant after every time, like scrubbing that thing out.

1193
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking.

1194
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 8: Maybe they've had enough of just the discustinginess that.

1195
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 12: Can go on microwave, especially when you share it amongst people,

1196
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 12: so they're like, now hiring someone to clean it.

1197
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 3: I don't know, no, I mean, so this sign apparently

1198
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 3: applies to hospital employees, and it was in a staff breakroom.

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Speaker 3: Microwaves are available in other areas of the hospital, but

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00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:20,240
Speaker 3: the behavioral health units social work department posted the side yeah,

1201
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 3: and then somebody was like, well, buy the unlimited pass

1202
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 3: and then charge everyone else a dollar.

1203
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 1: Side rufio, that's something you would do.

1204
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, hey the unlimited They put a lock on

1205
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,279
Speaker 3: that there, and one of the comments is yeah, it

1206
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 3: honestly seems like either a joke or someone abused a

1207
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 3: microwave enough to have this happen. Several Reddit commenters noted

1208
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,879
Speaker 3: that the thirty dollars for a single monthly microwave pass

1209
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 3: would be enough to purchase a smaller portable microwave.

1210
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:44,399
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, I'd bring my own.

1211
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 5: You have got to be kidding me, though.

1212
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 3: If I work someplace like the least the least in

1213
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 3: my opinion, that you can provide if I work somewhere

1214
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 3: is a bathroom, some water of some kind. I think

1215
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 3: coffee is a minimum expectation.

1216
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 12: Basic human rights, all three of them, right, basic human rights.

1217
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 1: That's I mean.

1218
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 3: If I need a supply of some kind to do

1219
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 3: my job, I know they don't do that here, but

1220
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 3: there should be. You know, I have to bring my

1221
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 3: own pens from home. I don't even know where to

1222
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 3: get them. I mean, I do steal post I used

1223
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 3: to steal postage. I don't know anymore because I don't

1224
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 3: know how to do it anymore. Yeah, I used to

1225
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 3: well we don't.

1226
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: Well, there you go.

1227
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 5: But I used to be like, hey, email this for me.

1228
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 5: It's totally professional, and it was like bill.

1229
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: To the old Florida mailing stuff. I wish it.

1230
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 3: I I can't believe this, Like I can't believe it.

1231
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 3: I guess this sort of pettiness happens h at everybody's

1232
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 3: place of business though well, but then at the same

1233
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:48,280
Speaker 3: time there's always the one guy or girl that abuses

1234
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 3: whatever it is. Like I remember at one place that

1235
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 3: worked there was free feminine hygiene products and but women

1236
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 3: I guess a few in particular, were like just stalking

1237
00:51:58,280 --> 00:51:58,919
Speaker 3: taking them home.

1238
00:51:59,160 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 2: Wow.

1239
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 5: That so they stopped. They weren't free anymore.

1240
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 3: And then people were like mad because they weren't free,

1241
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 3: and it's like, well, that's because somebody decided that, like

1242
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 3: they don't need to go to the drug store anymore, right,

1243
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 3: guess so they just took them all home. So, I mean,

1244
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:15,280
Speaker 3: you know, there's always there's always at least one person

1245
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 3: rufio who just goes a little too far.

1246
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,319
Speaker 1: I'm not the one that took the plants home. Like

1247
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 1: when there was plans here. Oh yeah.

1248
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 3: That was another thing, is that they bought a bunch

1249
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 3: of plans to put in the office to make the

1250
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 3: office look nice. People started walking out with them, I guess,

1251
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 3: to the extent that the that the security guards called

1252
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 3: one of the suits. It was like, do you mean

1253
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 3: for there to be a massive exodus plans coming out

1254
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 3: of the office. And then it's like no, no, no,

1255
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 3: no no. Those weren't for everybody. Those were like to

1256
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 3: make the night place look nice. Provide work supplies laughs

1257
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 3: a teacher's laugh. There you go, That's what I'm saying.

1258
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 3: Every year we cleared teacher wish lists because you know,

1259
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 3: of all the different supplies the teachers need it that

1260
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 3: they want to having to buy with their own money.

1261
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 3: In many cases, my job has a curing, but you

1262
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 3: have to bring your own k cup. What what that's

1263
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 3: so mean?

1264
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 1: Bring a whole pack and just start charging. Other people like.

1265
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 3: Rufia would have a hustle going. Yes, you absolutely, It's

1266
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 3: Fred Show. Thank you so much for having us on

1267
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 3: the radio on the iHeartRadio app as well. Search for

1268
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 3: the Fred Show anytime twenty four to seven. Always up

1269
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,760
Speaker 3: there on demand for anything you may have missed. Frendshier

1270
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 3: Radio on the Gram as well Frencherradio dot com.

1271
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 5: So thanks for all that.

1272
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 3: We we'd love for you to join us there on

1273
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:40,280
Speaker 3: the old socials on the Old Gram.

1274
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 5: Yes, lots of Kiki selfies on there, a lot.

1275
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, we love him. I say, there's what

1276
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm here for.

1277
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 3: There's very few parts of Kiki's day where we don't

1278
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:52,879
Speaker 3: get to sort of live it with you.

1279
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 7: Oh well, yeah, that's following me it on air, Kiki. Okay, yeah, yes,

1280
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 7: thank you. That's that's a little easier. Well not really,

1281
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,800
Speaker 7: that's almost as cryptic as calan Fough.

1282
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 8: I'm gonna say it because you guys want to drag

1283
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 8: me every time.

1284
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm dragging you were helping you

1285
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 3: because if you put kailin for real, nobody would find you.

1286
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 5: But it's Kailan Faugh.

1287
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 8: Really, my name's already really hard to spell, so no

1288
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:20,760
Speaker 8: one would.

1289
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,240
Speaker 5: E L A N fuck read.

1290
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 7: I'm gonna go follow you, and then there's I'm gonna

1291
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 7: go follow this right now, I'm gonna go.

1292
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 1: You know what, I'll give you a follow, kayl.

1293
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 8: I appreciate that's me.

1294
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: I give you a follow. Follow.

1295
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 3: I think I finally follow everybody on this show, so

1296
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:40,240
Speaker 3: that's cool. It took a while for me to realize

1297
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 3: I didn't. That's how it tuned to social media.

1298
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 8: Is yeah, but you don't like my stuff and it

1299
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 8: makes me sad.

1300
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 5: Say, that's what I'm talking about.

1301
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 1: If I didn't follow anybody, and I wouldn't get in

1302
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: trouble for.

1303
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 5: Liking you have muted.

1304
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 1: I don't exist.

1305
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:57,319
Speaker 3: I just don't look at stuff. Oh okay, I don't

1306
00:54:57,360 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 3: sit there all. The only place I sit and scroll.

1307
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:04,320
Speaker 3: Why am my sweating is TikTok. I see all your tiktoks.

1308
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 8: These threes stuff, all your tips.

1309
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 5: I see TikTok stuff. I like your TikTok stuff, Yes,

1310
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 5: I do.

1311
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 8: You've liked one.

1312
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: Why are we doing inventory of.

1313
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 8: Anything?

1314
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 2: You know?

1315
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 7: What's funny when people talk to you about your content,

1316
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 7: like I saw that video that you did X, Y

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Speaker 7: and Z and they.

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Speaker 1: Haven't liked it.

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Speaker 7: Like I love that, Like you come have a whole

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00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,720
Speaker 7: conversation with me about what I posted, but you didn't

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Speaker 7: like nor.

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Speaker 5: I didn't realize people.

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Speaker 3: I don't go look and see who liked it didn't

1324
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: like my I would have no idea if you guys

1325
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:34,720
Speaker 3: liked or didn't like my stuff.

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00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 5: I don't go look who cares?

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00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 1: I do?

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Speaker 3: But I mean, like, why would you go look for

1329
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 3: the one person who didn't like it, who may not

1330
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 3: have seen it or just was absent minded, versus all

1331
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 3: the people that did like it?

1332
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 5: Look for it.

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00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 8: I noticed it. It's just like I'm I know this everything.

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Speaker 1: It's even worse when you you view it, you see

1335
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 1: it and you don't like it.

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00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 3: That's I've never once looked great. Now something else I'm

1337
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 3: going to go. Now the double tap goes a long way.

1338
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: It does.

1339
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,760
Speaker 8: Rupiel likes every single thing I post.

1340
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: You don't matter what very supportive promise.

1341
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:07,919
Speaker 5: Well, okay, but then that doesn't mean it was good.

1342
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 5: He just likes every single the guy on social media.

1343
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 1: I got ready with Kaitlin. I got ready with Kiki

1344
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:16,399
Speaker 1: over there. Uh huh.

1345
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 3: Well, I think the last one I saw Kailen, she

1346
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 3: was in a towel and I was like, oh, I

1347
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:20,360
Speaker 3: might get too excited.

1348
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 5: I moved on, you know, give me a life.

1349
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: I think I was creepy.

1350
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 2: Fantasy.

1351
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 12: It's appropriate for a friend to come back one day

1352
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 12: the next day after work and be like, hey, I

1353
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 12: saw what you had for dinner last night, but he

1354
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:37,800
Speaker 12: don't look at my stops.

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00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 3: I don't know that's your I would aim higher on

1356
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 3: the little fantasy if I were.

1357
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Speaker 8: You Jason did last night you know last night.

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00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:50,280
Speaker 3: That's not even true. Oh my god, you guys. Honestly,

1359
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna make it real simple. I'm gonna mute

1360
00:56:54,280 --> 00:57:00,720
Speaker 3: all of the problem. Doesn't have to that, but it's crazy.

1361
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 5: I don't put any stock in what one.

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00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 3: The only stock I put in social media is if

1363
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 3: somebody says something really really mean or bad. Other than that,

1364
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:08,920
Speaker 3: I'm not going to look and see who I mean.

1365
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 3: I figure people have lives. You're not obligated to watch

1366
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 3: all my stuff. You spend six hours a day with me.

1367
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 8: The strangers saying mean stuff to me doesn't get me

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00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 8: at all. It's like the people that I love and

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00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 8: care about, well.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully they're not saying meat.

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Speaker 8: Hopefully I want everybody.

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00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 5: I mean, your comment is telling you that your content sucks.

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00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 3: That.

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00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okayn's comments are the best. She's got the best

1375
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 1: commentarys on her really yeah, oh yeah, what do they say?

1376
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: You know, the things they shouldn't be saying.

1377
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 8: Thanks for bringing that up.

1378
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 5: I don't know, you guys, that's all right.

1379
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: I just I just love if you all.

1380
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 8: Just cry myself to sleep.

1381
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: It's like, it's.

1382
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 3: Amazing the stuff that you guys think about. I don't

1383
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 3: have the brand, the bandwidth.

1384
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 8: Think about that. I don't, you know. It's just everybody

1385
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 8: has their things.

1386
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 3: Of course, look at this, see this is another dumb comment.

1387
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 3: Of course, Fred doesn't look or like at your post.

1388
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 3: They're not about him, No, half the time they are

1389
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 3: because they're about this show. So that's actually not correct, moron.

1390
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, Like a lot of the commentary

1391
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 3: about the show. So if anything I show or a

1392
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 3: lot of the content is about the show, so I

1393
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 3: should be watching it to see more of our brilliance.

1394
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 8: Yes, we're brilliant.

1395
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 5: Fine, I'm gonna start looking more carefully.

1396
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 8: Followers, unmute me.

1397
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 3: I only I also only follow like not that many

1398
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 3: people I don't know.

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00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 8: So then you should be saying, yes, you should be seeing.

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00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 5: But look I don't.

1401
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 1: I'm not saying a word because follow me.

1402
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 3: I can't believe the stuff that you guys come up

1403
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 3: with to be like like low key annoyed about like

1404
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 3: that's crud. I see you and talk to you more

1405
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 3: than anyone else in my entire life, and somehow that's

1406
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 3: not enough.

1407
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 8: More you have other people that and I'm to share

1408
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:53,080
Speaker 8: my story right now.

1409
00:58:55,480 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 5: On Aki you don't what Rufield Radio? Well, I mean

1410
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 5: Fred on air.

1411
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 3: But but if I, if I didn't have this job,

1412
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 3: I would not have social media.

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00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 16: I really wouldn't feelings all your followers to follow us.

1414
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 16: What No, we don't see now he's just doing too much.

1415
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 16: Maybe I'm gonna start muting you now too much?

1416
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 3: Man, you guys, I can't just there are so many

1417
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 3: things to worry about in life that are way more

1418
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 3: important than who I don't have. I of all people

1419
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 3: don't have time, and I have lots of time on

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00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 3: my hands. I don't have time to go look at

1421
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 3: the stats of my social media because that would depress

1422
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 3: me too. If I were looking at this, at the

1423
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 3: engagement of my social media posts, I'd be like, well,

1424
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 3: why didn't people like that one more? That one was

1425
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 3: better than the first one. Everyone liked the last one.

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00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 3: I didn't like this one.

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00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: I can't.

1428
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 5: I don't have the bandwidth for this.

1429
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 1: It's obsessive and unhealthy. I thank you, yes, I like

1430
00:59:57,960 --> 00:59:59,919
Speaker 1: you said, Fred, you only have X amount of follow

1431
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 1: You don't follow a lot of people. That takes like

1432
01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 1: ten minutes to see everyone's post on Instagram.

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01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 7: But he has to see how the people you curate

1434
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 7: for him with yours.

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01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 3: I don't help them out your stuff pop stuff on TikTok.

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01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 3: I like your stuff on TikTok because I'm using TikTok

1437
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 3: to like just scrolling through videos Instagram.

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01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 5: I don't use it that way.

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01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 1: I don't.

1440
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 3: I don't watch all the stories. I look at the posts,

1441
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 3: the hard posts, and I do like your hard posts

1442
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 3: for that matter.

1443
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: You know, Jesus is waiting for you. And was that

1444
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: grown up on was that adult one. I'm over flapper

1445
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 1: for a year, but I'm also over clapper.

1446
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people have been expecting me

1447
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 3: to pull up on your writing for a long time.

1448
01:00:42,880 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 3: I got bad news for you, though, er I use

1449
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 3: Craigslist for that.

1450
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: It's total.

1451
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 5: I put in the papers.

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01:00:57,200 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 3: Connections over here, like to live on the.

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01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 17: More Fred Show. Next right here, Freends Show is on.

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01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 5: It's The Friend Show.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, and we're doing our holiday wishes again this year.

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01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 3: It's become kind of a tradition on the show. We

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01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 3: love it, and we got to shout out our partner

1458
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 3: the money. The one's giving us the money, let's face him,

1459
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 3: very generous people. It's fueled by Celsius Essential Energy drinks.

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01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 3: Go to your nearest jewel and energize your holidays with

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01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 3: Celsius twelve packs. So we we've gotten thousands of submission

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01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 3: to Friends Show radio dot com.

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Speaker 1: We always do.

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Speaker 3: We go through all of them, and I know we

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01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 3: can't obviously do all of them, but we pick as

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Speaker 3: many as we possibly can to share with you and

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Speaker 3: hopefully to grant Hi. Chrissy, Hey, good morning. How are

1468
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 3: you doing very well? So do you know what's going

1469
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 3: on here? Or we just wit just Chatt and you

1470
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 3: just we're just hanging out, you and me and all

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Speaker 3: the rest of us. Yes, that's what's going on. But

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Speaker 3: we have your note here. I'm going to read it

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01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 3: to everybody. If that's yes, that's yeah, okay, good. It

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Speaker 3: says that dear friend show. My name is Chrissy, and

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Speaker 3: this year my holiday wish is for my kids. On

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Speaker 3: September eleventh, I took my fifteen year old son, Gabe

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Speaker 3: to the emergency room. He wasn't eating, had a constant headache,

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01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 3: and was throwing up, so I expected them to tell

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01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,160
Speaker 3: me that he had COVID, maybe the flu. Unfortunately, that

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Speaker 3: wasn't the case. When the doctor came into our room,

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Speaker 3: he informed us that they'd found a tumor in Gabe's

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01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 3: head and sent us Toillary Children's Hospital. I remember telling

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01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 3: the doctor that he was lying and there was no

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01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 3: way that this could be true. Sadly it is, and

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01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 3: our world was rocked in a way that no parent

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01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:38,840
Speaker 3: or child ever should be. Within those first forty eight hours,

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01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 3: it was bad news after bad news, and we were

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01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 3: told that Gabe has germ cell cancer, which had spread

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01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:47,680
Speaker 3: throughout his body. I remember asking the doctor if there

1490
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 3: was any way that he could survive this. Since then,

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01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 3: Gabe has underwent multiple surgeries, many without any pain meds.

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01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 3: He was also put on an intense chemo plan and

1493
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 3: is about to finish round four today. He's truly my

1494
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 3: hero and handles everything with such grace. Gabe and his

1495
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 3: twelve year old brother Elijah actually our nephews that we adopted.

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Speaker 3: We spent so much time in the hospital that we

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Speaker 3: haven't been able to give Elijah the attention he deserves.

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01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 3: It's been extremely hard for him to see his brother

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01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 3: like this. We've obviously missed a lot of work, so

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01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 3: money is tight, but I would really love to be

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01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,360
Speaker 3: able to give the boys an amazing Christmas to take

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01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:23,120
Speaker 3: their minds off of the craziness. We drive an hour

1503
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 3: and a half to the hospital, and every time we go,

1504
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,479
Speaker 3: we put on The Fred Show and spend the whole

1505
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 3: time laughing, which that might be a lie, because we're

1506
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 3: not always.

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01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 1: That funny, Chris, I mean.

1508
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 5: Sometimes we find we're not funny.

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01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 1: Anyway.

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Speaker 3: I cherish those moments that I see my son's smiling,

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01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 3: thank you for even just a chance for this. They

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01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:43,480
Speaker 3: mean the world to me and just want to bring

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01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 3: some joy to them. My gosh, Christy, you have been

1514
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 3: through a lot. How is your son Gabe doing.

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Speaker 2: He's actually we're at the hospital now and he's getting

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01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 2: the last dose of this round.

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01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,959
Speaker 8: It seems like he's doing great.

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01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 1: Like they told us.

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01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:04,919
Speaker 2: That in the brain the chemo wouldn't work, but those

1520
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 2: sell those tumors are almost gone.

1521
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:10,440
Speaker 1: Really, so that's incredible news.

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01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, they do incredible work, ed Larie, I mean, just amazing,

1523
01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 3: but they do, they do. But wow, I'm so happy

1524
01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 3: to hear that. So the prognosis is much better than expected.

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01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 2: Then, yes, yes, they said it's highly currible and he's reacting.

1526
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:28,440
Speaker 2: We know for sure he'll get a couple more rounds,

1527
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 2: but yeah, wow.

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Speaker 3: And then you mentioned the Gabe and his twelve year

1529
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 3: old brother are your nephews that you adopted and how

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01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 3: long did you guys do that?

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01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 2: We've had them since his brother, Elija, was born at

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Speaker 2: the age of he's twelve now, so.

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Speaker 14: We've had him in his whole life.

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Speaker 3: So wow, wow, And you guys are raising them, and

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01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 3: obviously that that strikes the court with us too, because

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01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 3: many of us, a few of us in the room

1537
01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 3: at least, have parents people who raised us who are

1538
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 3: not necessarily our blood relative, blood parents. And so it's

1539
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 3: incredible that you that you're doing this. And uh, and

1540
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 3: so I want to know what are what are they into?

1541
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 3: Gave in Elijah? What kind of stuff do they want

1542
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 3: for Christmas?

1543
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: They they loved their video games? Lagos, yes, music, okay that.

1544
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 3: Hey, Rufiel, give us back the PS five. Okay, you haven't.

1545
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 3: You haven't undone done the box, have you? But we

1546
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 3: want to we want to take care of you guys

1547
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 3: for Christmas because it sounds like, obviously you guys have

1548
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 3: so much going on. So let's do some video games,

1549
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 3: Let's do PlayStation headsets, Let's let's get the Legos. Art

1550
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 3: supplies are on the list, some bass years on the list. Uh,

1551
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 3: let's make sure we take care of all of that

1552
01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 3: so that you guys can put some stuff under the

1553
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 3: tree from us, and then you don't have to worry

1554
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 3: about it as much because clearly you have a lot

1555
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 3: on your plate right now.

1556
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, everything well, And we listened to you guys on

1557
01:05:57,800 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 2: the way into the hospital this morning too.

1558
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 3: So oh really, well, I hope you didn't say anything

1559
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 3: wildly inappropriate, but we probably Yeah, how many times Chrissy,

1560
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 3: do you have to tell your kids?

1561
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 5: We'll we'll talk about that later.

1562
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: We call it.

1563
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 5: Well thank you teachable moments.

1564
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 3: But hey, look, I'm so glad to hear Probably the

1565
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,000
Speaker 3: best part of the call is is hearing about game

1566
01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:22,280
Speaker 3: and and the things are going better than expected. I

1567
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 3: can't imagine what that must be like to get a

1568
01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 3: to get a prognosis like that, you know, wondering if

1569
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:29,280
Speaker 3: if your son is going to survive, and to hear

1570
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 3: that it looks like things are going really well. Uh,

1571
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:33,880
Speaker 3: it makes me very makes all of us very happy.

1572
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:36,320
Speaker 14: Yes, thank you so much.

1573
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 8: And no pain meds? Is he crazy?

1574
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 2: That's what the doctor told us. We were like, They're like,

1575
01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 2: it's got to be wrong in the charts when the

1576
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 2: nurse just didn't put it there. And he's no, he

1577
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 2: didn't take no pain meds after surgery.

1578
01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 5: Wow.

1579
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 3: Wow, Well, do some Christmas shopping on us, and I

1580
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 3: hope it makes things just a little bit brighter for

1581
01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 3: you guys. We're wishing you the best. You're in great

1582
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 3: hands at Lurie. We hope you'll keep in touch with

1583
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 3: us too and let us know how everything is going.

1584
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 14: I will, I will thank you so much.

1585
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 3: No well, thank you for listening and for sharing your

1586
01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 3: sweet story, and congratulations on a hopefully a great future

1587
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:17,760
Speaker 3: for everybody here and Mary Christmas, Happy holidays everyone. Yeah,

1588
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:19,920
Speaker 3: hang on one second, will make sure we have your info.

1589
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 3: Nobody say anything dirty because the family might be listening.

1590
01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:26,480
Speaker 3: Wait at least ten minutes or so. But we want

1591
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:29,000
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1592
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 3: sponsoring this for us this season, giving us some money

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1595
01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 3: Kylin Jason, thank you for reading a gazillion of these

1596
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,440
Speaker 3: things and sharing them with us so we could pick

1597
01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 3: some people. And also thanks to all the people who

1598
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:46,919
Speaker 3: took the time to nominate others. I say it every time,

1599
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 3: every day, but that's the part of this that really

1600
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 3: inspires me, is the fact that I think a lot

1601
01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 3: of people could use help. A lot of the people

1602
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:56,560
Speaker 3: nominating other people could use help, but they're thinking about others,

1603
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 3: which is you know, I mean, it's cliche, but it

1604
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,320
Speaker 3: is sort of the to the holiday season, which gives

1605
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:03,560
Speaker 3: lost a lot of times. So it's really sweet that

1606
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 3: people are thinking of others. But good job you, guys.

1607
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 3: Good on you. It's the Fread Show.

1608
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:11,360
Speaker 1: Here we go.

1609
01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 3: It's the pre Christmas, pre New Year Friday throwback dance party.

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01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 3: This is how we Friday. DJ Eronick is here at

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Speaker 3: dj M. You are ot ic on all of the socials.

1612
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Speaker 3: Let's do it. All your favorite throwbacks mixed together right

1613
01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:27,200
Speaker 3: now on the Fread Show. Thank you, dj e Ronic

1614
01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 3: another Friday throwback dance party in the books. Find them

1615
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Speaker 3: on all the socials at dj M. You are ot

1616
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Speaker 3: I see. Also get a link to the mix. It's

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01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 3: up right now at frendshowradio dot com.

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01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 17: More Fread Show. Next, the Fread Show is on Friend's

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01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 17: Fun Fat.

1620
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 1: Fredn Learn so much? All right, guys? You ready?

1621
01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 5: Yes?

1622
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,479
Speaker 3: If you've ever put your phone in the back pocket

1623
01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:04,519
Speaker 3: of your pants, then you're probably aware that your backside

1624
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:07,479
Speaker 3: poses a danger to it. People often forget their phone

1625
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:09,960
Speaker 3: is there when they sit down, and that can result

1626
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:14,400
Speaker 3: in a crush and broken device. That's why Samsung uses

1627
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 3: butt shaped robots to test their products. The robots not

1628
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 3: not the fun kind that you might be interested. According

1629
01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 3: to Business Insider, the faux bums sit on the Samsung

1630
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:31,880
Speaker 3: phones over and over again in order to test the

1631
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:36,080
Speaker 3: durability and bending ability of the phones. So they got

1632
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 3: fake butts and just go up, down, up, down on

1633
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 3: you got a fake buddy? Do you work for Samsung? Yeah,

1634
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 3: it's true. So yeah, they got butt shaped robots that

1635
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:52,599
Speaker 3: are used to test phones.

1636
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 10: Theree different types of butts. Who's like, what but do

1637
01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 10: they model? Assuming it's a big, strong butt, because like

1638
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:01,400
Speaker 10: a weak, flabby it wouldn't be the right. Oh god,

1639
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:07,479
Speaker 10: this is yeah right, Yeah, they use loning butts like

1640
01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 10: mine because I'm no acetol.

1641
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 5: That's what they called me.

1642
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:14,040
Speaker 3: No aid, you don't have a buddy to do you

1643
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 3: h our butts wouldn't be the proper task. So they use,

1644
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:21,839
Speaker 3: they use, but they cannot lie.

1645
01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:30,960
Speaker 17: Samsung more Fread Show next, You've got to wait.

1646
01:10:31,680 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 1: Freads Show is on the Hottest morning show. Yeah.

1647
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 3: Nothing makes nothing makes me more uncomfortable than a woman crying.

1648
01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:44,720
Speaker 8: Oh really, I didn't know. I mean to uncomfortable, not.

1649
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 3: Uncomfortable, he said, I don't know what it's like. I

1650
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 3: want to solve the problem and I don't. I guess

1651
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:51,360
Speaker 3: I reverted immediately to my mom and my sister, and

1652
01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:54,920
Speaker 3: I think, like like seeing them sad, like nothing makes

1653
01:10:54,960 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 3: me more unhappy than that. But usually there's nothing I

1654
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 3: can do about it. And I'm not like a big, touchy,

1655
01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:01,880
Speaker 3: feeling emotional guy, like it is kind of like that.

1656
01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:05,519
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, what do I do?

1657
01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:05,920
Speaker 1: What do you?

1658
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 5: What I do?

1659
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:06,840
Speaker 2: Oh?

1660
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:08,120
Speaker 5: I don't make it stop.

1661
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 3: It doesn't happen very often, So that means like, when

1662
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 3: it does happen, that I really got to do something,

1663
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 3: but I don't know what to do.

1664
01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 8: I want your emotions so bad.

1665
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 1: I want to be used.

1666
01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:19,760
Speaker 8: I don't think you do want begged up.

1667
01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 5: I don't think you do.

1668
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 3: I would take I would take twenty percent less stone.

1669
01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:25,840
Speaker 5: I would.

1670
01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:28,680
Speaker 3: I mean, at least privately and within control. I'd like

1671
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 3: the ability to have a good cry every now and again.

1672
01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:32,720
Speaker 3: It just doesn't happen. It just I just can't do it.

1673
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 1: No, you are blood.

1674
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:36,559
Speaker 5: I don't think that's true, though.

1675
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 3: I think that it says something that's like very wrong

1676
01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 3: about me, very broken.

1677
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 5: And I go to therapy and I discussed this.

1678
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:48,240
Speaker 11: No, No, I don't cry.

1679
01:11:48,360 --> 01:11:50,240
Speaker 5: It's not it's not I'm not proud of it. It's

1680
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 5: not like something I'm bragging about.

1681
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:54,440
Speaker 3: I just I don't it has to be very very bad,

1682
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:56,839
Speaker 3: like very very very bad.

1683
01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:58,400
Speaker 5: For me to cry. I don't know why.

1684
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:01,600
Speaker 3: And when it happens, it's like it's like an explosion

1685
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:04,400
Speaker 3: of crying, like it comes out of nowhere and it's

1686
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 3: it's like bad. It's like fifteen years built up in right. Yeah,

1687
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:12,720
Speaker 3: can you imagine you know anything else you build up

1688
01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 3: for fifteen years and it's it's gonna be it. I mean,

1689
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 3: I'm just thinking about it. I mean, why do you

1690
01:12:17,320 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 3: have to take You don't have to take it there?

1691
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:22,679
Speaker 3: My favorite is that one lady, what do yeah? Because you, oh,

1692
01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:26,479
Speaker 3: PERV is such a PERV. I'm not the biggest person.

1693
01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 3: Someone the other day was like, freend takes everything second,

1694
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, I do. You haven't been listening long enough.

1695
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:36,200
Speaker 3: Apparently its way worse culprits than me. Stick around a

1696
01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:39,759
Speaker 3: little longer and you'll be more offended. Hang around