WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Dating Periodically

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<v Speaker 1>The second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Most businesses want to have return customers who keep coming

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<v Speaker 2>back for more, like restaurants and salons dentists.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes not us, wait, yes we do.

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<v Speaker 2>Now we like to be used and abused and then

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<v Speaker 2>tossed aside, because the whole goal of this segment is

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<v Speaker 2>to try and get people to go on dates that

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully go the distance.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah right, see that they don't have to come back.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, and get married exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And if we have a return customer, that means something

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<v Speaker 2>went wrong and it was probably Brooks fault.

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<v Speaker 4>Today, a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Named Eric has emailed us again for help, and this

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<v Speaker 2>one's extra disappointing because Eric was actually on for an.

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<v Speaker 4>Update update a while back.

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<v Speaker 2>He told us him and a girl named Samantha hired

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<v Speaker 2>a designated third person to go to concerts with them

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<v Speaker 2>because they didn't like the same music.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I remember that he was into like old music,

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<v Speaker 3>like the Beatles or something.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she was into the old stuff and he

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<v Speaker 2>was in the new stuff like twenty one Savage.

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<v Speaker 3>So then they had someone who would go with each

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<v Speaker 3>of them separately.

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<v Speaker 4>But Eric is back. Eric, was it Brook's fault?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, guys, No, no, no, it wasn't Brooks fault.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, how long did that relationship last with the girl

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<v Speaker 3>you were on with last time?

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<v Speaker 5>It was a little bit over a year.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I still count as charting success.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, right, Well, so what happened with you and Samantha?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, honestly, I probably should have saw it coming, but

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<v Speaker 5>it was one of those nights where, like you guys said,

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<v Speaker 5>we all three of us went out. Oh no, and

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<v Speaker 5>essentially after that night and I basically found out that

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<v Speaker 5>she hooked up with our third wheel. Oh yeah, did

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<v Speaker 5>you hook up with him too?

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<v Speaker 4>Out of revenge?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Now, teacher, Yeah no, no, I mean yeah, it

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<v Speaker 5>kind of sucked honestly, because, like I said, we went

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<v Speaker 5>about a year and I was feeling pretty okay.

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<v Speaker 3>But you're you're back with us, which means you're back

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<v Speaker 3>on the wagon. You're dating again.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I liked up with a new girl. Her

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<v Speaker 5>name is Carrie.

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<v Speaker 2>And when first you went out with Samantha, and now

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<v Speaker 2>you're going out with.

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<v Speaker 4>Carrie, you're getting the whole.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Next is going to be Charlotte. She's the one that

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<v Speaker 2>stays committed, so we'll hold out for her. But tell

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<v Speaker 2>us more about Carry. Where did you meet her?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? We uh, we got on tender went on a

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<v Speaker 5>first date. But that's why I'm calling you guys, because

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't heard back. Okay, first date.

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<v Speaker 4>What'd you like about her on Tinder?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the first thing was her her tender handle was

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<v Speaker 5>was pretty funny. I actually loved it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, good humor.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I didn't know you had those on not

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<v Speaker 3>on Tinder, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean there's handles, but like some girls.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what was it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, it was soft Apricot.

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<v Speaker 4>Soft.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that like a small peach type of thing where

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<v Speaker 3>it's like maybe little booty? Is that what she means?

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<v Speaker 1>That's smart?

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<v Speaker 4>Does it mean something?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>I never really got around to that because we haven't

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<v Speaker 5>been on a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, the first just like a woman that mentions fruits.

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<v Speaker 3>What was it like in person with soft Apricot?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it didn't go exactly how I planted out in

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<v Speaker 5>my head, but we started going out to a nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 5>Obviously the first eight.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's obvious at all. I think that

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<v Speaker 3>a nice restaurant is set in the bar high.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I've tried to do that a lot of

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<v Speaker 6>people don't want to do something.

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<v Speaker 3>There's too much pressure. What was her you know vibe

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<v Speaker 3>at the restaurant?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, honestly, we didn't really get the vat

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<v Speaker 5>too well because when we got there, it was just

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<v Speaker 5>a bunch of like fire trucks around in the place

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<v Speaker 5>and we couldn't even get in.

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<v Speaker 4>You complain to the manager or.

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<v Speaker 2>Still tried to get seatedicy here, Yeah, the no smoking section.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>That sucks.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, awful. Did you pivot? What did you do next?

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<v Speaker 5>So I took her to this other restaurant that I

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<v Speaker 5>remember was not too far from there, okay, and we

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<v Speaker 5>were able to get a table, you know, sat down,

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<v Speaker 5>and then of course our server comes over. He's like, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 5>by the way, we have a private party coming in

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<v Speaker 5>at like eight, and so you got there up and eat. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it was like it was like seven thirty, saying they're

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<v Speaker 5>going to rush you out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, why wouldn't they tell you that before you even

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<v Speaker 3>sit down?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I don't know. By the time we ordered,

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<v Speaker 5>we would have had like fifteen minutes to eat. So

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<v Speaker 5>you leave, well, yeah, I said, hey, you know what,

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<v Speaker 5>let's just get it to go. We'll go back to

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<v Speaker 5>my place.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's the pivot he really wants. Like this stuff

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<v Speaker 3>shows if people are actually fun or not, like when

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<v Speaker 3>you have to be spontaneous. Yeah, and you're getting her

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<v Speaker 3>back to your place, which is it's kind of bold

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<v Speaker 3>to say right away, I haven't even had a meal

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<v Speaker 3>together yet.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean she did say yeah, she was pretty

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<v Speaker 5>comfortable with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, great, So how do things go back at your place?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? I didn't mention that when we got our takeout food,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, to go. Obviously I rushed that. So it

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<v Speaker 5>was cold, it wasn't good. Yeah, I just kept getting worse,

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<v Speaker 5>so I had to save the day and I ended

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<v Speaker 5>up cooking dinner for us at my place.

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<v Speaker 4>Good though, that's nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Man can throw some chicken nugs in the oven, how

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<v Speaker 3>buckets or two any faster?

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<v Speaker 6>I just take it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just hungry.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I'll put it this way. She definitely enjoyed dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>And let's just say she really enjoyed breakfast.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so you had breakfast for dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>No, a couple other events in between the meals.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's just move on. I guess I'm never going

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<v Speaker 4>to understand it, all right, all right, next question, did

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<v Speaker 4>you kiss? I?

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, it's a good sign that she hung around for breakfast.

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<v Speaker 3>She kind of just snuck out in the morning. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't want to.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, is that the last that you saw her? Like,

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<v Speaker 4>what's happened since then?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? That was it. That was the last I saw her.

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<v Speaker 5>She hasn't been spiny time messages And like I said,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean when she left the next morning, we hugged,

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<v Speaker 5>we talked and she said, hey, we'll talk to you later.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like, oh, this is great.

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<v Speaker 6>Dang, you must make an awful breakfast.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody could screw breakfast.

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<v Speaker 4>Breakfast you know these are over medium.

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<v Speaker 1>And I is it over easy?

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<v Speaker 4>I'll never see you.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe there's something like maybe like how long ago is that?

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<v Speaker 5>It's been about like five or six days. But I

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<v Speaker 5>mean I've texted her and it's been no response.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the human body can go three weeks without eating

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<v Speaker 2>a meal, so maybe she's just waiting for.

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<v Speaker 4>The next meal.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't eat that much.

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<v Speaker 2>Just I'm really confused. Let's just play a song and

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<v Speaker 2>we'll come back. We'll get more clarity when we call

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<v Speaker 2>Carrie for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean, hey, you guys looked for magic for

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<v Speaker 5>me before. Hopefully and do it again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's personal dating service.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll do our best second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>You've heard of brunch combining breakfast and lunch, but Eric

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<v Speaker 2>served up dreakfast the dinner breakfast combo.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I don't think he did one.

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<v Speaker 3>I think he thinks that that was a meal.

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<v Speaker 4>Was it brinner not breakfast?

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<v Speaker 3>No, but that kind of sounds better. It was it

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<v Speaker 3>was dinner, dessert Jeffrey, and then breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>Eric.

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<v Speaker 4>You can cook dessert too.

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<v Speaker 3>Good for you.

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<v Speaker 4>You're youre must be a pretty good chef.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't think we were talking about the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 2>They literally just eight meals the entire time, did nothing else.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, the problem is after their date, Carrie is

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<v Speaker 2>not calling Eric back again, and so we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>do it for him.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we did so well with Eric the first time.

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<v Speaker 3>You were in what a year and something relationship with

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<v Speaker 3>the girl.

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<v Speaker 6>All the credit for the Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean sure she cheated on him eventually, but we're not

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<v Speaker 4>going to take credit for that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that was all her. Sorry to bring that.

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<v Speaker 5>Up, Eric, Yeah, yeah, I hate cheaters.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, buddy, Okay, let's just call carry and see what

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<v Speaker 2>she has to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Carrie.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, m.

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<v Speaker 4>She didn't sound like she was that sure.

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<v Speaker 3>She sounded very sure, Yes, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe she's just skeptical of us calling Jerry.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the one.

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<v Speaker 4>What's up? You're on the radio right now with Brooke

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Why am I on the radio?

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<v Speaker 4>Question?

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<v Speaker 2>You're actually part of a segment that we're doing called

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<v Speaker 2>a second Date Update. We're trying to help out one

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<v Speaker 2>of our listeners who you went out with recently, named Eric.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it sounded like a really nice night.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, sorry, it's really weird. I was taking him to

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<v Speaker 7>have a radio call me if.

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<v Speaker 6>He wasn't planning on it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you haven't been hitting.

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<v Speaker 6>Him back up.

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<v Speaker 2>So he just wants our help to understand what's going

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<v Speaker 2>on because he knows, like you, went to a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of restaurants that didn't end up working out, so he

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<v Speaker 2>ended up going back to his place instead and he

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<v Speaker 2>cooked for you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah that was really nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you enjoyed that his cooking was good, his company.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think.

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<v Speaker 7>Is he listening to us? I don't want to like

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<v Speaker 7>say anything mean, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Know who's listening. A lot of people could be listening

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<v Speaker 4>to this.

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<v Speaker 3>To be honest, if people know when they call into

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<v Speaker 3>our show what this is all about, and so they're

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<v Speaker 3>prepared to just hear.

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<v Speaker 7>It, okay, then I mean, yeah, he was really nice

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<v Speaker 7>and he cooked really good food. I guess I won't

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<v Speaker 7>hear that either.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's good.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean yeah, it was just like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 7>there was something just like missing guy, a guy that

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<v Speaker 7>can cook.

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<v Speaker 4>Would you say, Jeff salt?

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes you vinegar salt?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, But that's not the point.

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<v Speaker 6>Everybody we're saying, is everything sounds great, what's happening?

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<v Speaker 4>What was missing?

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<v Speaker 7>It was like the I don't know there, like wasn't

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<v Speaker 7>meant much chemistry. I guess why would you say the

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<v Speaker 7>night then?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, he said wanted a good night's sleep. You

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<v Speaker 4>had dinner and breakfast?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh okay, so he told you about that.

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<v Speaker 4>You just said he had dinner and breakfast with you?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no shame.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounded like you guys had a lovely night and

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<v Speaker 3>you hugged ye before you left.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't worry.

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<v Speaker 6>Even if he tried, Jeff wouldn't have understood what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm still not really clear all that I'm clear

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<v Speaker 2>on here is that you're saying that there was no

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<v Speaker 2>chemistry between you guys, even though you spent all that

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<v Speaker 2>time together.

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<v Speaker 7>Right, I mean he was really sweet and I did

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<v Speaker 7>enjoy our night, but I don't know. The next day

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<v Speaker 7>in the morning, I don't know. It's just like awkward.

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<v Speaker 7>The like chemistry was there was just really uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you give us an example, like what, how is

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<v Speaker 4>the chemistry off?

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I I have this kind of test that I

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<v Speaker 7>do with a lot of guys to see. It's kind

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<v Speaker 7>of like a measuring stick to see if I vibe

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<v Speaker 7>with them, measuring.

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<v Speaker 3>One of those two very trade friend not that.

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<v Speaker 7>Kind of measuring stick.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you know?

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<v Speaker 7>So I I said a joke and he didn't laugh.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, if it's not funny, sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>It was funny.

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<v Speaker 7>It is funny, Okay. So I said, did you hear

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<v Speaker 7>oxygen went on a date with potassium?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I didn't hear it went Okay, I wouldn't even know.

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<v Speaker 3>That symbol on the periodic table is a k fort science.

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<v Speaker 4>Was it your chemistry was off or your chemistry? Jokes?

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't like?

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<v Speaker 7>It was so literal both honestly, and I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>I just feel like it was not clicking. I need

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<v Speaker 7>someone that laughs at my jokes and like science puns.

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<v Speaker 2>And well, maybe it just took him a while to

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<v Speaker 2>get the joke, and there's a chance that he finally

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<v Speaker 2>understood it may have finally clicked, and we can ask

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<v Speaker 2>him right now because he's been listening on the other

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<v Speaker 2>line this entire time.

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<v Speaker 6>I knew it.

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<v Speaker 7>There.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I'm just confused, so.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you'd still be laughing.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you explain the joke to him so that he's

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<v Speaker 4>not confused anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I get the joke now. It obviously took

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<v Speaker 5>me a second during the date, but okay, when I

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<v Speaker 5>thought I was confused, I'm just I don't understand that.

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<v Speaker 5>She says we had no chemistry, but you know, you

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<v Speaker 5>stay the night and we had breakfast and we had

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<v Speaker 5>a good time. That just doesn't make it.

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<v Speaker 7>But like that's that's just like hooking up. You don't

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<v Speaker 7>need really, you don't need chemistry for that.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't eat super breakfast. I mean I can't understand.

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<v Speaker 5>That, okay, but we did have downstairs chemistry.

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<v Speaker 3>I think Carrie is talking about like the mental stimulation, right, Carrie,

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<v Speaker 3>like you want someone that can go toe to toe

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<v Speaker 3>with you in a conversation more.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think I think I think Eric had a

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<v Speaker 2>good question, Like was the chemistry there in the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it was, okay, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oxygen and potassium.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the third or fourth time really really hits hard.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I get That's just that's just weird to me,

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<v Speaker 5>because like I feel like we were vibing all night.

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<v Speaker 5>Obviously we had some hiccups, but we were still there

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<v Speaker 5>getting along. And I even changed my my my handle

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<v Speaker 5>on tender to little Kiwi. I mean, no matches.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 5>What is that?

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<v Speaker 7>What's little Kiwi?

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<v Speaker 5>What do you mean? You don't get it? You know,

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<v Speaker 5>to match your name soft Apricot tender. Remember, yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 6>Guys are both bruised fruits.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. I don't think that really matches. Those are just

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<v Speaker 7>like two different fruits. Okay, this is what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 7>This is not like, this is not wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>Behind soft Apricot. Then if he didn't get it with

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<v Speaker 3>little Kiwi.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just like kind of soft and petite and cute,

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<v Speaker 7>and I don't know, I just really like apricots and

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think it's a joke.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's a little green, especially when it comes to comedy.

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<v Speaker 6>There you go.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just saying words. I'm glad they were funny. Then,

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<v Speaker 4>now that you know we have the I feel the

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<v Speaker 4>chemistry happening. Now I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just try you do.

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<v Speaker 4>At least in this room. We got the chemistry gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm seriously confused. Try Carrie.

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<v Speaker 4>We'd like to send you and Eric out on another date,

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<v Speaker 4>and we will pay for it. What do you say? Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>that's a callback.

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<v Speaker 5>I like it.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry, Eric, I think you're great, but I just

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<v Speaker 7>don't think we're a match. I don't think. I don't

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<v Speaker 7>think we should go on another date.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, I think that's I think that's iron. Is

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<v Speaker 3>that iron and oxygen?

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<v Speaker 4>It all just sounds like them. Well, we've officially made

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<v Speaker 4>this the worst second date update we've ever done. Did

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<v Speaker 4>you hear my jokes? All the there's no chemistry in

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<v Speaker 4>this room whatsoever?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm sorry, Eric, we we failed.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I mean, I don't know. I guess I'll

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<v Speaker 5>just try again and maybe stay away from the food

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<v Speaker 5>handles or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Things are going to turn out, okay, Okay. The fifth

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<v Speaker 4>time

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<v Speaker 1>Looking Jeffrey in the morning,