1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so, uh, I get a lot of comments 2 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: about these rants, and it's funny because I had never 3 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: I still have never listened to a podcast before, and 4 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 1: I didn't really know what this whole medium was about. 5 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: And I'm not on television now. And one of the 6 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: things I really did like about housewives was the absurdity 7 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: and just the ability to say anything that you wanted 8 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: or felt. That was very liberating for me, because, um, 9 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: I need to express myself. I'm one of these people. 10 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: Some people need to work out, some people need to 11 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: have sex, some people probably need to murder people. You know, 12 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: those are those types of people. But I need to 13 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: vent and rant and say things that aggravate me. And 14 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: when I did stand up comedy for the first and 15 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: only time, one of the comedians, I just want to 16 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: give her the credit that she deserves and I'm just 17 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: blacking out. So anyway, she um, she identified that my 18 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: comedy or the things that I want to talk about 19 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: are these sort of things that I'm aggravating about. Um, 20 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: And it's such a great vehicle here to just talk 21 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: about them. And you don't have to agree with me. 22 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: You could think I'm insane. It's just these ramblings of 23 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: a lunatic that you you know, you're on the subway 24 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: or you're taking your kids to school, or you you 25 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: you look somebody up and down about what they're wearing, 26 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: or you know, the moms that decide to dress like 27 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: in hair makeup and the people like me who dress 28 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: like you know, do we live in a sewer And 29 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 1: so basically it's just like thoughts that go on throughout 30 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: the day. And I'll text my assistant. I'll say something, 31 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 1: I'll text her something she doesn't understand at all, Like 32 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: I'll just be like paying forget a mantra, Like that's 33 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: what I'll text her, Okay, it's it's and it will 34 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: get there at some point. And then I just sometimes 35 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: I read them on the piece of paper. I forget 36 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: what I even said or what I thought. You know, 37 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: I'll be out in a restaurant with someone and someone 38 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: will some of you'll drive me crazy, like when I 39 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: waits like have you dine with us before? Were? I'm like, 40 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: I haven't, But I somehow feel I'll be able to 41 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: navigate the scrawl on this piece of paper. And then 42 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: I see a kitchen, so I think there's a man 43 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,079 Speaker 1: or a woman who's gonna cook some food and I 44 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 1: think you're gonna bring it out with the larger round 45 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: trees are meant to be shared. I'm like, cool, that's 46 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: so interesting. Okay, wow, the things that are at the 47 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: top of the advertisers so like, these are the types 48 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,119 Speaker 1: of things I think about. What's your water preference. I'd 49 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: fucking like it to be liquid if it's possible, but 50 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: it needs you want to be ripped off to the 51 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: nth degree? Or do you do you know? I have 52 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: been around the world, I've traveled a lot, and I 53 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: still feel like an idiot every time. It's like the wine. 54 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about the wine? Let's just talk. 55 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: You know what's going to happen. You could put the 56 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: best wine at the top of the two dollar price 57 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: tag and the shittiest one with the seventy five dollar 58 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: price tag, and if someone's on a date and wanting 59 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: to impress someone, they're gonna get the seventy five one. 60 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: I'm in the liquor business. I have a wine brand. 61 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: I have no idea. We save these words like shabilee. 62 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: When I was a kid, it was shabilee, and when 63 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: I was a kid, what we call now Rose I 64 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: seemed to be white zim Fandel and it wasn't even white. 65 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 1: I don't think. I think it was pink. But zim 66 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: Fandel was like a cheap eat type of ASTI spumante, 67 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: like wine in a box, vibe thing. And now Rose 68 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 1: is pink and that was not in when I was younger. 69 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: So these types of things that we think about, that 70 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: I think about, that's what we're gonna do today. Just 71 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna rant about things that I've been talking about, 72 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: and I'm probably gonna get myself into trouble or we'll 73 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: edit some of these out. I don't know where do 74 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: I begin. Well, first I want to talk about fashion, 75 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: because first of all, when you listen to this, I 76 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: sound like I'm not current because it's not exactly when 77 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: things are happening. We edited and it might air a 78 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: week later to a month later, depending upon the guests 79 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: and the topic, et cetera. So if I'm talking about 80 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: the met Galo, which was last night for me, you 81 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: might be hearing it a week later, but I'm not. 82 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: This is not a podcast for current events. It's sort 83 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: of if I talk about something or someone, like if 84 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: some some someone famous or some famous couple or some event. 85 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: It's only because it's a matter that transcends this moment. 86 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: Meaning I don't care about popular culture. I don't care 87 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: who's sleeping with you. I only care about what it means, 88 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: meaning what the construct is. So if I'm talking about 89 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: the MET Gala and I'm talking about fashion, I am 90 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 1: talking about what it means, what the what the what 91 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 1: it means to us who are watching and who aren't 92 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: really involved and who it's it's this show and the 93 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: MET Gala has evolved because if you look at pictures 94 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: when they flashback and you see Donna, Karen or Um, 95 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: Elizabeth Hurley or someone, they wore gowns, beautiful gowns. It 96 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: wasn't so crazy until I remember, I think Rihanna broke 97 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: through with all her like the real Costume Institute moments. UM. 98 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking about this year's MAC Gala, and I'm 99 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 1: thinking about UM, the Kardashians and j Lo and the 100 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: way they present and the evolution of it, and in 101 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: some ways it's really become this competition like these the 102 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: fashion shows are always about the designers who design and 103 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 1: what are they? Who designs the best design for these 104 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: models and muses but there really isn't a show that 105 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 1: is about who's wearing the best. We do that, we're 106 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: sort of the court of public opinion judging who wore 107 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: the best, who wore it best, but there's no show 108 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: really saying it out loudly. There are people their opinions, 109 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: this person won the night, this person looked terrible, but 110 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: no one sort of really saying no, that person actually won. 111 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: So this year, I thought that Kendall Jenner one. I 112 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: thought she was spectacular, extraordinary. I thought that dress was 113 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 1: elegant but still a moment like not safe, daring and sheer, 114 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: but so because it's pays homage to what the event 115 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: really is. And then other people do these sort of 116 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: clown suits, crazy things that everyone has to talk about 117 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: and thinks are amazing because you sort of don't even 118 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: know how to understand it. So the guy from Ship's 119 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: Creek who I love, Daniel Levy, did this outfit that 120 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: was outrageous, but I don't know that I liked it. 121 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: It just was so crazy that you have to talk 122 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: about it. Same thing with umsap Rocky. He was wearing 123 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: a blanket like it was a blanket of pomp pomp 124 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 1: poms that look like someone's grandmother made it, Like how 125 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: much did he pay for that? Because I get that 126 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: it was a moment, but it was a giant blanket. 127 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: I want to snuggle in that in my house? Was 128 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 1: that not a blank It was a big blanket. So like, 129 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: you know, we have to be reduced to them that 130 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 1: we don't understand because remember that conversation that and a 131 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 1: wind Tour had in Devilware's product about how cerulean blue 132 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: is derivative of all these different moments. So we're you know, 133 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: if I could literally wear uh, you know, a vintage 134 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: telephone booth as a dress, and oh well yes, I 135 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: mean obviously I get it. Anybody who knows would get 136 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 1: why you're wearing a vintage telephone booth. But I could 137 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: just it's sort of like art, you're just like fucking 138 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: with people. But then someone like Rihanna, it's it seems 139 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: like you do get it because she was wearing that 140 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: that beanie, that cap with diamonds, like you know that 141 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: there was a whole narrative there, and I'm sure there 142 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: was two for Asap Rocky they went together. There's a story. 143 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: But sometimes it just seems like, let me wear something 144 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: absurd and ridiculous. That's expensive and get away with it. 145 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: But I you know about fashion and about who gets 146 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: invited to the met Ball, like why does Chloe Kardashian 147 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: and Courtney aren't a list enough and they have a 148 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 1: hundred and thirty two eighty million followers. But Madison Beer, 149 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: who wore adult Chickaman, addressed that I literally have very 150 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: similar one I wore twenty years ago to a Victori's 151 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: Secret fashion show that I bought a sample sale, and 152 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: she wore a pink version of that, So that wasn't 153 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: very daring, and I don't think that she's really anyone 154 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: in fashion, but she has a ton of TikTok followers, 155 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: and so does Addison Ray, who someone said she borrowed 156 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: adjust from Courtney Gardashian, So she was invited because she's 157 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: an influencer and younger. So I guess like Chloe and 158 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 1: Courtney in Purgatory, they're right in the middle. They're definitely influencers, 159 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: but they're older. So this year they wanted either icons 160 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: or young influencers, because I can't see how Addison Ray 161 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: would be there, not courtnay Um. And then Megan Fox 162 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: is there and isn't she more relevant now because she's 163 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: in a relationship with someone that's very relevant. But didn't 164 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: She's gonna go away for a minute, so we all 165 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: don't understand exactly what is why And guess what the 166 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 1: HBI c Anna wint Or gets to decide whether the 167 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: funk she wants she could invite whoever she wants, she 168 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: could invite herkell. That brings me to the Kardashians. Uh. 169 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: Kendall Jenner is a supermodel. Kylie pushes the fashion envelope 170 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 1: all the time. Um, but Kim in wearing that all 171 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: black ensemble, which I said yesterday they said that Kanye 172 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: and followed her, and I believe that that's sort of 173 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 1: some connected message to this this costume. I just think 174 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: that it's not unrelated. There's something that they're in on. 175 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 1: But she said herself she always wanted to be on 176 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: the cover of Vogue. She's had This is goals for her. 177 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 1: She wanted to be invited to the met Ball one. 178 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: I think the first year she got invited because of Kanye. 179 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: Then she got invited in her own right. The next year, 180 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 1: Kylie was invited, Chris is invited, Courtney and Chloe are not. 181 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: That's got a bug them. They do everything the same 182 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: and everything together. But that maybe probably makes the two 183 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 1: sisters feel more elevated. And and but I have to 184 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: say for Kim, she has committed to this life. Like 185 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: she she she told a story. If this is supposed 186 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:48,199 Speaker 1: to be impact and theatrics and escapism, she accomplished that, 187 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: Like I saw that black outfit on the stairs, Like 188 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: I'm giving her full props for being disruptive, for saying 189 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 1: I'm here and I can take chances and do my 190 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: own way, and you know, own the room. And you know, 191 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:04,559 Speaker 1: a lot of people don't give them props. It always 192 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: is given props. But well, she's a billion dollars, brought 193 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: the sex tape or well whatever, Like I'm just giving 194 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 1: straight up props. It takes so much work. I for 195 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: me to go to that event, I would be planning 196 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 1: for eleven months. I would figure out a way to 197 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: rock it. I would make it my business. But like 198 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: these girls, j Lo had been at the Venice Film 199 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:29,079 Speaker 1: Festival with Ben Affleck in full regalia with diamonds everywhere. 200 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: Right before that, she was at the dol Chase Show 201 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: looking like a app like literal like brocade queen with 202 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: the craziest costume like that, that was the costume the 203 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 1: met Gala. That was crazy. Her outfit there was crazy 204 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: than her costume with the MEC Gala. Then she goes 205 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: with Ben Affleck too Venice again. I think for his 206 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: film festival. Unless I'm mixing stories, No, I think she 207 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,199 Speaker 1: went back. I don't know. She was there for dol Jacobana. 208 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: Then Ben had a thing and she went with him. 209 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,839 Speaker 1: Then she went to the v m As. Then she 210 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: went to the Beck Gala and like that, like Indiana 211 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: Jones outfit, Like do you know how exhausting that is? 212 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: That whole thing? Dad alone. I mean, she's got kids, 213 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 1: she's got a job, she's got a relationship, she's got 214 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: a mother, she's got a house. She must I mean, 215 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: not that we're comp Nobody likes to hear like they're 216 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: rich complaining about being exhausted, And she's not complaining. I'm 217 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 1: just saying, these people are committing to really just win, 218 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: to make a statement. And what do we all think 219 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: of that? A lot of people don't like it. A 220 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: lot of people think there are real things going on 221 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 1: in the world. But that's escapism. You know, I'm the 222 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,559 Speaker 1: first one I deal with a lot of real things 223 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 1: going on in the world, a lot of natural disasters, 224 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: a lot of crazy stuff and people dying. But you know, 225 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: it's what. It's escapism, and people want to see something, 226 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 1: and so they're putting on a show to entertain others. 227 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: Us on the other side in times of stress. I mean, 228 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: that's not their purpose. I mean, don't get me wrong, 229 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 1: I'm not overstating. They're all they all want attention, they 230 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: want it, they love it, they want to win the night. 231 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: I just think it's just an interesting conversation, alright. So 232 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: cancelation is obviously a thing. It's cancelation nascent nation. And 233 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 1: I was talking to my assistants yesterday about cancelation and 234 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 1: sometimes will say, is that person can't I'll always say, 235 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: is that person canceled? Because, as I said another time 236 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: on this podcast, there's no jury. No one put down 237 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: the gavel and said, yes, this person is canceled. You 238 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 1: are canceled. So some people are undeniably canceled. Obviously, Bill 239 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: O'Reilly's canceled. Harvey Weinstein is canceled, like banished to an 240 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: island forever. Being a criminal should be in a different category. 241 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: So that's the Harvey Weinstein thing. But you know, like 242 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: Matt Lauer was a pretty big cancelation. And whether you 243 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 1: agree with that or not, it's just that was a 244 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: pretty big cancelation. And and and Brian Williams was not 245 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 1: a cancelation. That was a demotion, Okay. And that's what 246 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna get into too. So Briant Paula Deane was 247 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: a cancelation. Nick Cannon was a demotion. Had a bad 248 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: moment that was being demoted. Years ago, don Imus said 249 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: something about women um and I don't want to say 250 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: because it was a women out of basketball team and 251 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 1: it was like a racist, derogatory comic canceled. Okay. Julianna 252 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: Ransi said something about Zendaya demoted. Okay, Chrissy Teagan with 253 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 1: the thing about her saying that stuff to that girl 254 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: demoted Olivia Jade and it was a bad one, Okay, 255 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: Olivia Jade because she was like an influencer, et cetera. Demoted. 256 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: Christie Tagan still has thirty million followers. Olivia Jade still 257 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: has how many followers and she's on Dancing with the Stars. 258 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 1: Nick Cannon still has whatever followers and he's on Mass Singer. 259 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 1: I think this is the host. So these people don't 260 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 1: may not have all the different promotion deals, endorsement deals, 261 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 1: but they so they've been demoted. So my assistant said 262 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: to me, what about Erica Jane. Has she been canceled? 263 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, she's on trial right now, the trial 264 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: the judge, no judge has put the gavel down, like 265 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: and because she hasn't had her maya culpa, she hasn't 266 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: said her thing. She she's she's definitely semi demoted, but 267 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:13,079 Speaker 1: she's on a show that's celebrated for trashiness and scandal. 268 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: You know, Teresa, arguably it was elevated by going to 269 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: jail and that's like sort of street cred and you know, 270 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: but the salahis who broke into the White House and 271 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: that show got canceled. They were canceled, So it's very 272 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 1: great people get demoted. People in purgatory waiting to see 273 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: what's happening. I ran into Christy Taking when she was 274 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: in purgatory. I didn't think she was gonna fully get canceled. 275 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: She definitely hasn't gotten canceled, but she's definitely been checked 276 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: and it may not be the same, but to me, 277 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: I don't know thirty million followers. Seems like a pretty 278 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: serious following to me. So then we talked, so this 279 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: is about Erica Jane. So my assistant said, well, that's crazy. 280 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: What's going on now? Now obviously I've know what's going on. 281 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: I haven't seen the show, but I have a specific 282 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: perspective on this. So Dennis Shields, my ex fiance, he 283 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: passed away. He owned a company called law Cash. It 284 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: was the largest funder, one of the largest funders of 285 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: litigation in the country, and so funders of litigation. It's 286 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: what happened with Hulk Hogan. He couldn't have fought that 287 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: case that you want if he didn't have someone backing 288 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: him in that litigation. Most people don't know this is 289 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: even a business, and people don't like this business. But 290 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: I'm just reporting the news. So there are these people 291 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: that fund litigation, and so it has it happened like 292 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: Ana Nicole Smith I think had litigation funding. Bill Cosby RV. 293 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: Weinstein may have, or they talk about it because they 294 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: are not gonna be able to afford their UH litigation. 295 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: And you know, it happens on every level. It happens 296 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 1: with UH companies that if you that's when you always 297 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 1: see all these commercials. You see these billboards. Uh, John 298 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: Morrigan does it in Florida. He basically if you get 299 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 1: into an accident or class action suits, transvaginal mesh, things 300 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: that happened from baby powder, like any of these kind 301 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 1: of things, these big lawsuits that are class action lawsuits, 302 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: mass towards. I'm getting complicated, but you under standin I'm saying, 303 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: these lawyers do this. So that's so John Morgan is one. 304 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: There's I know a lot of them because I met 305 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: them through Dennis and I went to these sort of 306 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: conferences with him, and I've met them, and some of 307 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: them are billionaire lawyers, like major, major lawyers. Some have 308 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: taken down like the NFL, Volkswagen, Chinese drywall, like major ship, 309 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 1: big tobacco. Okay, that's that's that kind of stuff. So 310 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: Tom Girardi was a lawyer that worked in that space, 311 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 1: which is why I've met him, which is why Dennis 312 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 1: knew him. So Dennis had never seen the show. So 313 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: this was in two thousand eighteen. So Dennis and I 314 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: watched the show The Beverly Hills Housewives. I don't I 315 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: didn't watch this season. I want I dabbled so he 316 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: watched a little because he um new Tom Girardi and 317 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: he knew of Erica Jaane because Tom used to send 318 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: Dennis videos of Erica and Dennis would be like a 319 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: little uncomfortably, be like watching in your office when you're alone. 320 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: That's what Tom would say to Dennis and be like, 321 00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: that's creepy and weird. So, um, we want ran into. 322 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: I met Tom at like a lawyer's conference. I think 323 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: it was in Florida or l I can't remember. I 324 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: think it was it was l A a lawyer's conference. Um, 325 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 1: so I knew I was aware of Tom, and also 326 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 1: I saw Aaron Brockovich and um, and I told Dennis 327 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 1: that Erica said on the show that she spent fifty 328 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 1: thousand dollars a month on her glam and I also 329 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 1: told him that her private plane. She had two private planes. 330 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 1: And he said what, And I said yeah. And my 331 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: experience is especially with the housewives, but everywhere as well, 332 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 1: but really particularly with the housewives, if someone's flaunting their money, 333 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 1: they don't really have it. And a lot of that's 334 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 1: happened with a lot of the girls on all of 335 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: the shows. And I can tell you that in New 336 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: York people right that they have like fifty seventy five 337 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: million dollars. All the girls have probably between like four 338 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: and eight million dollars, and that's a lot of money, 339 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,640 Speaker 1: but people like you know, and then there are ones 340 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 1: that were on before that have that really don't have 341 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: a lot of money at all, but the media makes 342 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: it like they do. In particularly on Beverly Hills, there 343 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 1: have been a lot of all show and no go girls. 344 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: And the more that they they flaunted, and the more 345 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: that they, you know, brag about it, usually there's something wrong. 346 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: I've always found if you're really flaunting your money, then 347 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 1: you probably don't really have it. So I was talking 348 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: to Dennis about this and I was, you know, Christopher Buckle, 349 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 1: I know, is a friend of mine. He was doing 350 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: her makeup and she's spending a crazy amount of money. 351 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 1: She said this cost fifty a month and I was like, 352 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 1: holy shit, six thousand dollars a year. Now I have money. 353 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 1: I make money, I you know. I was like, that's 354 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 1: rolling really deep, and that's just the nut that would 355 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: be hard to sustain. And Dennis said to me, he 356 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 1: doesn't have it like that. He owes me money, He 357 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 1: owes me half a million dollars. I know this other guy. 358 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 1: He owes a million and a half dollars. He doesn't 359 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: have money. He owes everybody money. And I go, what 360 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 1: are you talking about? How is she flying around on 361 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 1: the big plane and a small plane. And he said 362 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: it's not because he's using people's money to support her lifestyle. 363 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 1: He's using the company's money to support her lifestyle. Dennis 364 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:58,719 Speaker 1: said this, and I said, what are you what are 365 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 1: you talking about? And out Don't get me wrong, I 366 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 1: didn't know everything about specifics. I didn't know what kind 367 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 1: of cases he was working on. I didn't know there 368 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,920 Speaker 1: was an airplane flight. I didn't focus on it that much. 369 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,400 Speaker 1: I just was focusing on the five six hundred thousand 370 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 1: alls a year. And Dennis was like, yeah, no, he 371 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: owes me money and it aggravates everybody. I said, why 372 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 1: why would he do that? He goes he can't say 373 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 1: no to her. Dennis said, he can't say no to her. Okay. 374 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 1: So now we were away in um New Orleans in 375 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 1: May of two thousand and eighteen, and we ran into 376 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: uh not ran into went to meet these other like 377 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: billionaire lawyers that that Dennis knows and also people that 378 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: Dennis worked with who I know I've mentioned it too, 379 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 1: And it was a well known secret, like it was 380 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: a well known it was widely known, best kept secret, 381 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 1: like it was the worst kept secret, you know what 382 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So so this lawyer, who I don't want 383 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: to bring these other people into it. When Dennis said 384 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 1: to that him because he doesn't focus, he doesn't watch 385 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: the housewives. So Dennis said, do you know in his acts, 386 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: like do you know Erica Jaye spent five hundred thousand 387 00:19:57,080 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: dollars fifty thousand a month on her her hair and 388 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 1: her makeup. And the guy's like what he owes everybody money? 389 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 1: He's being sued by everybody. So it was a thing. 390 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:10,959 Speaker 1: So I knew about it. So I don't know, like 391 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: that's just what happens. Things take a long time to 392 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: come out. But everybody in that industry knew about it. 393 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: All these major lawyers and I'm talking about around the 394 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 1: country that are in this industry, they all knew about it. 395 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: And I I told Christopher Buckle about it. I told 396 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 1: Andy Cohen about it just to say like it's not 397 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 1: what you think. You know Erica. I have met and 398 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 1: met her at Christina Aguilero's birthday party, Erica performed. We 399 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 1: had a nice, very brief conversation. She we like you know, 400 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 1: social media at each other, and she sent me boots 401 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: which were great. And I think she's interesting. I think, 402 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 1: oh I met her, she came to my house because 403 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: we did the crossover. I think she's interesting. I'm sure 404 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: she has an interesting story. I think she's tough. I 405 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: think she brings it with the fashion is polarizing, and 406 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 1: she seems strong. And she said, you know, unique history. 407 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: I don't know her that well. And when I told 408 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 1: it to Lisa Rehn and Kyle, I just said it 409 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: like they don't get it, like that, like it's something 410 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: you know her. Her husband. Everybody knows in that industry 411 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 1: that he owes a lot of people money that he 412 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 1: is also being sued by many of them. So when 413 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,439 Speaker 1: this came out, I don't know during the pandemic last year, 414 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: I didn't even really know about it. Um and he 415 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: called me, he goes, holy sh it, you really do 416 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,120 Speaker 1: know it all. He's like, you told me about this 417 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 1: years ago. I'm like, yeah, I told you, Like no, 418 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: I you know, I hashtag I know it all. So 419 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: I knew about this whole thing. Um, I knew since yeah, 420 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 1: probably probably two thousand seventeen and two thousand eighteen. I 421 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 1: knew about this so definitely, because we all wear away 422 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 1: that summer that he was the summer before in l 423 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: A that I Meagan Dennis told me about this in 424 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 1: two thousand seventeen and this all came out, and I 425 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: guess so it wasn't a very well kept secret in 426 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,959 Speaker 1: that industry, but we're in the entertainment industry and that's 427 00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 1: very different. So it's crazy. I haven't seen it. But 428 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 1: I when I was talking to my assistants about people 429 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 1: getting canceled, they said, this is like crazy that you 430 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 1: haven't talked about this because I haven't been really paying 431 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 1: attention closely and I didn't realize this is like a 432 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,919 Speaker 1: major thing that everyone's talking about. So I, you know, 433 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:14,439 Speaker 1: Andy said it to me, and I said it and 434 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: forget it. I just like I didn't know, and I 435 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,160 Speaker 1: haven't seen the show. I just I think when I left, 436 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 1: I just sort of left that franchise and took a cleanse. 437 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: So I don't know what's really going on, but it 438 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 1: seems to be like a very big conversation and um 439 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: and I think that the reason that I brought that 440 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 1: up today is talking about people's need to show what 441 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,919 Speaker 1: they have. I remember the first season, Alex and Simon 442 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 1: going in St. Bart's and spending like a hundred and 443 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: something thousand dollars and they had, you know, they didn't 444 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 1: have it like that, but they felt like the show 445 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 1: would catch up with what they were spending, meaning, you know, 446 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: and there are other people on the Beverly you know, 447 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 1: Beverly Hills and other franchises that have done the same. 448 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 1: And for some people, works out the money that you're 449 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: making catches up with the way that you're spending, but 450 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: for others it doesn't. And that's a dangerous game. If 451 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: people are haunting and showing a lot of what they have, 452 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: very often it's all show and no go. And people 453 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: are just so tempted they must they must show a lifestyle. 454 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: And you cannot create a life out of a lifestyle. 455 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: You can create a lifestyle out of a life, but 456 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 1: you cannot, like you can't lifestyle your way into a life. 457 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: And I think that people just get so tempted to 458 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 1: show everything and say everything instead of just keeping quiet. 459 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 1: And that's so much stronger saying nothing. Is so much stronger. 460 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 1: Just being more subtle about it is so much more 461 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: powerful and strong. But it's there's something in our society 462 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 1: where everybody needs to show what they have. And Instagram, 463 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 1: you know, hashtag blessed equals hashtag bragging. You know, every 464 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 1: time hashtag blessed, someone's always on a private plane, someone's 465 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,160 Speaker 1: always you know, on the back of a yacht because 466 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 1: their hashtag blessed. Like if you're healthy and your kids 467 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: are healthy and they love you and they adore you 468 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: and they're snuggling and it's it was just a natural disaster, 469 00:23:58,119 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 1: your hashtag blessed because you're on the back of it, 470 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 1: your hashtag bragging. So I just think that people, because 471 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 1: of Instagram and because of filters, and because of look 472 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 1: at me, and because look how good my ask looks 473 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: and look how bad yours looks, is what they're effectively saying, 474 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: because that's what everyone feels, and let me filter my 475 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,160 Speaker 1: picture and let me bullshit my way through everything. There's 476 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 1: usually something they're hiding, how this is how perfect my 477 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 1: relationship is, And then you find out four years later, 478 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 1: and then you want to bring that person down because 479 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 1: the people who get brought down the worst. The people 480 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: who get canceled the worst are the people that were flaunting, bragging, fronting, 481 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: looking down upon. Really just I'm up here and you're 482 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: down here. So just think about that in your life, 483 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 1: even if you're not on television, even if you're not 484 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: in the house. So I just think about what you're saying, 485 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: what you're doing, how you're living. Because what goes up 486 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: must come down, and who you see on the way up, 487 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: you're gonna see on the way down. So that's why 488 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 1: I brought up the topic of the Erica Chain situation. 489 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 1: That's people all over the internet are writing about her 490 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:06,400 Speaker 1: shopping and the clothes and the yachts and the glam 491 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 1: and the shoes and the diamonds and the planes and 492 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: all this stuff because the people you know in that industry, 493 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 1: and the people who really knew knew that they were 494 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 1: all getting robbed. Do you know people who are just 495 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 1: showing and you know that they don't really have it 496 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 1: like that, and you feel that they're going to have 497 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: a greater fall publicly in your circle when things go 498 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:35,479 Speaker 1: if things go wrong, or do you feel a greater 499 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 1: sense of indulgence when somebody gets canceled when they've been 500 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,440 Speaker 1: fronting and stunting. If someone's just been sort of minding 501 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 1: their own business and they say something wrong, is their 502 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:53,199 Speaker 1: cancelation different than somebody who's been fronting and stunting. Do 503 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 1: you want to just grab them and pull them down. 504 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 1: Someone's been flaunting their relationship, how perfect it is, flaunting 505 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 1: perfect their bodies, and something goes wrong and you feel 506 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 1: better about that at that time because they've just shoved 507 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: it up your ass. So that's what I think. And 508 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,439 Speaker 1: I don't think that's talked about. Cancelations talked about, but 509 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: the terms the cancelation policies not talked about. The terms 510 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: of your cancelation is not talked about. And I think 511 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: that's very important and very relevant. And like I said, 512 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: don't care about celebrities. I don't care about who people 513 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 1: are sleeping. If you've listened to the podcast, you know 514 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 1: I don't care about these people ca you know, I 515 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,439 Speaker 1: care about what it means. I care about socially, what 516 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 1: it means. I care about how we're living, and I 517 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 1: care about lessons and takeaway. That's what I care about. 518 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 1: So had Erica Jane not you know, had had the 519 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 1: different people on the Housewives that say that constantly brag 520 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: and freak out if you find out that they are 521 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 1: being sued, or freak out if you find it that 522 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: they really don't have the money, or that they owe people, 523 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: or that they're renting their house, or that you know 524 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: they had a bad situation, or that they have skeletons 525 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: in their past. Are you more aggravated when they've pretended 526 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: everything is perfect. That's the thing. It's so much easier 527 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: to just be flawed and just be honest. But everybody 528 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 1: needs everybody else to think that they're better than they 529 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 1: actually are, and everybody wants to keep up with the Joneses. 530 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: I just started zero. I just don't wear makeup, so 531 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,120 Speaker 1: when I put it on, I look good, We're like, wow, 532 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 1: you look beautiful, And I really probably don't. I just 533 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 1: the bar so low, okay. So being somebody that's always 534 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 1: in pajamas always and never has hair and makeup on never, 535 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 1: like really really never never never, probably nine at the time. Never. 536 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 1: So when I go out, like I have a bottom 537 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 1: mizza on Saturday, I'm gonna do my hair and do 538 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 1: my makeup and try to look somewhere cute. And that's 539 00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 1: that's okay. And because I like my skin to be 540 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: fresh and free always. I just don't like makeup on me. 541 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 1: I don't like lashes on me. I don't like hair spray. 542 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: I like just a Um. So I'll go out this 543 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 1: Saturday and that'll be a thing like that's gonna be 544 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 1: an hour more than I would ever take to go 545 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:10,680 Speaker 1: just out to dinner. When I got to dinner with 546 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,160 Speaker 1: pol put my clothes on, I put a little lip 547 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,239 Speaker 1: class on. If it's a summer it's great because it's 548 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 1: a hat and sunglasses and it's the winter, and it 549 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 1: was just put a ponytail and hope it don't, you know, 550 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,880 Speaker 1: run into someone. I know it sounds like maybe it's 551 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 1: not making an effort. But I'll put a cute outfit 552 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,400 Speaker 1: on and some live class and I go to dinner. Um, 553 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: I think time is so valuable, so that extra it 554 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: could be like an hour and a half to get 555 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 1: your hair and makeup done, So that extra hour of 556 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,399 Speaker 1: my life is not worth it to me. The nails, 557 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,479 Speaker 1: I don't wear nail polish at all. I never wear 558 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: nail polish. I just get my nap nails done have 559 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 1: been buffed because all that is time in my life. 560 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 1: And maybe people are less busy. But then I look 561 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 1: at these major celebrities and I think about, so I 562 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 1: know how long it takes to get ready, Like I 563 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 1: know how long it takes Beyonce or j Lo like 564 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,800 Speaker 1: three times, Kim Kardashian like three or four times that 565 00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: it takes me to get ready, becausey t can definitely 566 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 1: takes a two to two and a half hours if 567 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 1: she's doing something major, and probably like an hour and 568 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: a half two hours. But if like there's hair stuff involved, 569 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 1: like hair pieces or wigs are being or falls like 570 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 1: the long thing, that's like a long time. So they 571 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: have to do all of that then do like whatever 572 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 1: the press of it is, like the theatrics of it, 573 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: how exactly am I posing? And when did the jewelry 574 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: get there? And what exactly is the bag and what's 575 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 1: the overall look? And it's not just like when I 576 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 1: do my hair and makeup, I just pray for the 577 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:25,880 Speaker 1: best to put on an outfit and the hair looks 578 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: pretty much the same every time. I don't sit down 579 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 1: and like, all right, I want to look like Joan 580 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 1: of Arc Tomorrow, like Elizabeth Taylor. I'm going for this, 581 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: I'm going for that, I'm going for God, Like they 582 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: have a whole plan. So there's like a whole creative 583 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: meeting too with stylists. And that's a job. And I 584 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 1: know it's their job, and I know it's part of 585 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: them making money. It's part of the whole thing. But 586 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 1: from like a time suck perspective, so that would take 587 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 1: up so much time. They're out like every night doing 588 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 1: these events. So then if they have kids, how do 589 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 1: you spend a ton of time with your kids? Because 590 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: you gotta take your kids to school, back from school, dinner, night, bedtime, talk, fun, 591 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: pumpkin pick in, Christmas decorations, all that. Then have a relationship, 592 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: But then that person you're in a relationship also has 593 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 1: that whole circus. I mean, I don't think that the men. 594 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 1: You know, the men don't have the same circus, but 595 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: they still have the whole stylist. And I forgot to 596 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 1: even mention the stylist. I was just talking about the 597 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 1: hair and makeup, the clothes. Oh my god. Any my 598 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: assistant just said to me, like, do you want to 599 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: have a stylus for your book cover? Shoot? And I 600 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, if we had to bring 601 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: over our own clothes, it's like a rolling rack and 602 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: it's shoes and it's all this stuff. I'm like, sure, 603 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 1: but that will be a whole process doing that and 604 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: the different outfits and changing. I mean, it's a full 605 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: time thing. So it's hard. It's hard to imagine two 606 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 1: people both having to do that whole circus, both having kids, 607 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 1: both having obligations, both having major careers. Like I don't know, 608 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 1: I would be literally exasperated the entire time. Like the 609 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 1: way j Lo showed up to that Dolt Jay Gabana 610 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 1: thing in Venice was nothing short of theatrical like it was, 611 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 1: and she had a different outfit every meal, and there 612 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: were definitely a whole entourage. There was definitely a whole 613 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: entourage they're doing that with her, But like, that is 614 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: so much work. We're watching like an amazing show, you know, 615 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 1: it's an absolute like Vegas. I don't mean that in 616 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 1: a derogatory way, like an a spectacle show. It's just 617 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 1: hard for me to imagine how you fit in time. 618 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 1: If you go to bed at any kind of reasonable hour, 619 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 1: I just know how many hours of the day there 620 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 1: are and there aren't enough. And then forget about like 621 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: cooking in your house and keeping your act together. And 622 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 1: I know people have people who do it, but still 623 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 1: you have to manage your stuff. So I have ideas 624 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 1: and all that. It's it's just it's just interesting two 625 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: think about it. What do you think about time? I mean, 626 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 1: I value it so much. I valued it for a 627 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 1: long time. I've taken so many things off the board 628 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:51,160 Speaker 1: that I do and for me personally, image is not 629 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 1: something that I'm willing to spend time on when I'm ninety, 630 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: I can promise you this. When I'm years old, I 631 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: will not be around saying I wish I wore more makeup. 632 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 1: I wish I had more selfies that look better. I 633 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: wish I had more followers, you know, I wish I 634 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 1: got that outfit right. I wish more people thought I 635 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: would look beautiful. I will not be saying that. I 636 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 1: will be saying, God, I'm so glad I spent all 637 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 1: that meaningful time laughing and with my daughter and um, 638 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 1: with all those experiences, like without being frazzled and rattled 639 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 1: and just like always running. It's just the way that 640 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 1: I am. So it's interesting to think about how you 641 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 1: choose to spend your time. I choose to work when 642 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 1: I have to, and then stack all the rest. Another 643 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 1: question related to that is, is it is it possible 644 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 1: to be in a good, healthy relationship and also flaunting 645 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,560 Speaker 1: it all the time. We see so many Hollywood couples. 646 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,719 Speaker 1: They spend years and years flaunting how amazing their life is, 647 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 1: their relationship is, their gifts are, how much the person 648 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: loves them, They're so lucky they met their soul mate. 649 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 1: They write it on social idea, they wax poetic, they 650 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: gosh and they and everybody watching it feels like absolute 651 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: shit about themselves because either their relationship isn't as good 652 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 1: and then it makes them feel better about themselves, or 653 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 1: they're not in a relationship and then they feel like 654 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 1: about themselves, or they're not as attractive, or their partner 655 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: doesn't do as much for them. All of this is 656 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 1: like to show, and then someone could say that it's aspirational, 657 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: it's something to look up to. Is it aspirational to 658 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: look at shiny pictures of rich and famous people showing 659 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 1: how in love they are when we're just getting a snapshot? 660 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: And then that's why people get excited and literally are 661 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,480 Speaker 1: like parasites when a couple breaks up. That's why a couple, 662 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 1: as to say, we respectfully asked for your privacy during 663 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: this challenging time, because the fans want to say, we 664 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: respectfully ask for our privacy while you were fucking flaunting 665 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 1: it with all your you know, lucks, good gifts and 666 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day and all the things that you have that 667 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 1: we don't have. So you can't fucking have it both ways. 668 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 1: You can't go flawed, how amazing it is, and then 669 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: what your privacy when the ship goes sideways And I 670 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 1: went through it, you know, with with I went through 671 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 1: it with Jason, like I was like, hit me with it, 672 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 1: I you know, And I put it on my show 673 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 1: that things weren't going well because I didn't want people 674 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 1: to think that it was. I don't like people to 675 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 1: think that, like my life is so great and it 676 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 1: makes them feel bad bad about themselves. It's kind of 677 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 1: why I don't. Every day I post myself the way 678 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: that I really am in pajamas and my hair wreck 679 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 1: and my grays, and I don't care because that's what 680 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,280 Speaker 1: people really look like. And I don't want to post 681 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 1: something that makes people feel bad about themselves and that's 682 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 1: not true. It's effectively lying. It's effectively lying, and they 683 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: don't like that, and I don't think you can spend 684 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 1: so much time producing what your relationship looks like to 685 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 1: other people and actually have it be good. I always say, 686 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: you can make a lifestyle out of a life, but 687 00:34:56,640 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 1: you can't make a life out of a lifestyle. So 688 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 1: I know that when I'm with Paul, once in a while, 689 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,719 Speaker 1: I want to take a picture of us and look cute, 690 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 1: or we're doing something funny, but like that takes it takes, 691 00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,759 Speaker 1: it takes something away from our relationship. I like in 692 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: that moment. You know, it's a little bit of like 693 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 1: doing a little bit work, a little bit of work. 694 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:17,880 Speaker 1: It's like being on the phone. It's two seconds, and 695 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 1: I so rarely do it. And Paul, you know, once 696 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: in a while we do something really funny and then 697 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: we later watch it on the story and we laugh 698 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: and it has not It doesn't affect our relationship at 699 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: all because we're not in a a reality show. And I 700 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 1: literally never post about us, but once in a while 701 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: I'll post something. I'll post somewhere. But can you get 702 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,719 Speaker 1: a picture of me? Because the girl does our social 703 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 1: said she wants to get a picture of me in 704 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:37,919 Speaker 1: a bathing suit. This weekend or it's fourth of July 705 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 1: or whatever, and I'll like say it like that because 706 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 1: I'll feel like a real freaking loser because it's not 707 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 1: something i want to be doing. But once in a 708 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,400 Speaker 1: while I'll do that and I'll feel a little cheaper 709 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 1: as a result of it, you know. And so there's 710 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 1: no way that people who are posting so much about 711 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 1: their relationship and showing so much about their relationship and 712 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,840 Speaker 1: posing so much about the relationship, there is no way 713 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 1: you can successfully do that and nurture their relationship. I 714 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 1: do not give a ship. Like Harrison Ford and Clista Flockhart, 715 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 1: they're in a good relationship. They went away. They're like 716 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 1: they're not looking for it. There's so many people even 717 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 1: like Blake Blake Lyiley and Ryan Reynolds, they do they 718 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:17,840 Speaker 1: have like their goals because they do it in like 719 00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 1: a comedic way with each other and like they're bantering 720 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 1: and you can tell they enjoy it. But they're not 721 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: flaunting their relationship, you know, and we and we just 722 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: believe it because we just know that it seems like authentic. 723 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 1: That's not flaunting, that's sharing. The difference between sharing and flaunting, 724 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 1: I think, like I would put like dak Shepherd and 725 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 1: Kristen in that same like sharing but not flaunting. There's 726 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 1: some people that do it that way. I feel like 727 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 1: even Michelle Gellar Sarah Michelle Geller. Um. So anyway I 728 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 1: think sharing is it means sharing is a means to 729 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: possibly having a successful relationship while showing everybody what is 730 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 1: going on, but flaunting, I feel like we'll definitely do damage. 731 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: And it also means it's like someone who doesn't really 732 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,880 Speaker 1: have money showing everything they have, like it's showing so 733 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:11,880 Speaker 1: much something's missing. That was really fun, that was different 734 00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,360 Speaker 1: because it was really liberating. And it's just this is 735 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,799 Speaker 1: my place to get things out. Honestly, I just I'm 736 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,440 Speaker 1: missing that vehicle and that outlet in my life. So 737 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 1: let me know how you think this went and if 738 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: you want me to do more of these, because I 739 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 1: enjoy it. It's just very freeing um and I want 740 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,799 Speaker 1: to hear what you think, so please rate, review and subscribe. 741 00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 1: Thank you so much,