WEBVTT - Episode 290: Eat & Block (Feat. Coi Leray) 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:05.720 What's up. It's let's service. I'm Angela Ye, I'm g Maguire, 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:09.559 I'm Glario and it's a party. We got coilet ree here. 0:00:09.600 --> 0:00:14.400 What's up? Hey? Girlhead? Hello, Hello, I'm here. She got 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:22.000 her drink, got my drink? Tell us anybody Yeah, drinking? 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:26.400 I'm thinking some Delian and ginger beer. You're all drinking 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:35.040 Delian lemonade, water on water, drinking a little. This is light? Oh, 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:40.400 this is embarrassing. Okay, we got defense and your defense. 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:43.040 It is only three o'clock over there in California, so 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:46.159 if you have a right to be light before break now. 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:50.680 But you look super cute. Thank you. I saw it 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:53.160 before we got on. You were complaining about doing your hair, 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:55.279 and I was like, okay, what's it about to look like? 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:59.080 What's it given? Oh listen, I went, it's in California. 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:01.880 I'm from Jerry's so like, we don't got no Dominican 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:05.360 Washington set real quick. H So I finally found one 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:08.880 and she charged me an arm and a white these 0:01:08.959 --> 0:01:15.120 a little boring cut. I get over it. But it's 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:20.000 bouncing and behaving so well, like embraced my natural hair 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:22.800 because I really really try to stay away from like 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:25.039 I do so much braids and I'm tired of the braids. 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:28.880 I can't have the big air of a wig. I 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:30.760 don't know why. It's either if I put it on, 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:32.480 I'm gonna like it and never want to get rid 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:35.760 of it, or it's just gonna like fun, my baby, 0:01:35.760 --> 0:01:39.360 here's up or something. I just got my first wig. 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:42.560 I gotta show y'all if you have a wig, yes, 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:45.759 I'm getting it. When I was alright, first of all, 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:47.720 let's be clare. I just have a story that just 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:50.640 opened in Detroit private label extension, so we sell all 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:53.280 of that, and I was like, I gotta get a 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:59.240 wig for the first time. It's come on, Nicki Minaj 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.000 saw I had a wig on that. It went from 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:05.920 here to here and no, I'm like on stage we 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:07.720 was Donna Lip Service Live and it was just like 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:09.840 slipping back and I was like, no one told me 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:13.720 my wigs about to come off. I'm dead that that 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:19.000 would be me. For now. Let's get into it. We're 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:20.960 bringing back something and you're the first person. We're bringing 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.560 this back with coy Laray, We're gonna do it a 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:26.160 tip of the day. So lip Services Tip of the 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:28.880 Day today Valentine's Day is coming up, so we want 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.600 to give the guys a tip. What can you do 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.280 for Valentine's Day that's really special for our women, but 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:37.640 on a limited budget, on a limited budget, really special. 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:42.080 I think the best gift is your time. Like you know, 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:45.079 after Valentine's Day, you could do the regular regular deglo. 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:47.280 But I feel like what's more important is what happens 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.399 the next day and the next day and the next 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:51.040 day and the next day. You feel me so like, 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:54.000 I don't know, pull you pull up with a little 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:57.360 bottle of mostattle. I'll take shut a home. I don't 0:02:57.400 --> 0:03:01.560 care at all. I just need to know what's going 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.200 on after this VD, like what's up? So you can 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:05.880 just shout up and be like I'm here. I'm giving 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.679 you my time. My presence is the press. I want 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.120 your time. But I wanted to be like you feel me, 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.040 make it special, like rub my feet. You don't when 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:16.360 we rub my feet with the oil. We're not gonna 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:18.520 act like motherfucker's grab the oil every time and start 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:23.160 rubbing feet. Okay, eat, you know what I'm saying. Would 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:25.959 you rub his feet too? I love feet. I'm rubbing 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:29.760 his feet. I've never heard anybody say I love feet. 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:32.280 That's a not a girl, not a female, not a female. 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:34.640 Plenty of men love feet, but not too many. I 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:37.680 love feet. I feel like, now listen, I don't like 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:41.640 the crusty toe nails and the ship falling off and 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:44.320 this colored and all that ship Like that's different. But 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:46.880 I'm also the type like I'll put your feet right, baby, 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:48.880 you your feet look batter when get you read? So 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:53.840 he stuck toes. I don't suck toes. I don't take 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:58.640 it that far. He's not sucking. No, goddamn so where 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:02.240 it is? Uh? I tried to pull up on me 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:06.000 with time for Valentine's Day. I'm like that happened to you, 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:11.680 you know, Like that's how you got some big want 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:13.920 you want a bit more? No, I needed more than that. 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:16.400 Like especially, it's like I just need you to put 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:18.560 a little effort in. Ain't nobody saying you have to 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:22.080 spend a million dollars, but like do something like flowers 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:24.400 at least, what the hell like? And I'm not even 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:27.279 a big flower person, But it's just like the thought 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:28.720 that counts, you know what I mean? I feel like 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:30.559 if you just come up like I got dick, bitch. 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:35.559 It's like this Valentine's Dinner, Hot bad cut some dinner. 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:38.440 That's a romantic movie that she would never watch with 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:42.040 her I don't know. Find a cute little game to play. Yeah, 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:44.080 this make it that just because he was around me, 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:45.960 I was supposed to be happy. I'm like, Na, this 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:49.279 isn't cool. No, but that's a part of time that's cheap. 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:52.200 Running the bath water doesn't cost no dollars. Like, that's 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:54.239 just all depends what type of you dealing with. Because 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:56.920 because you act like that on Valentine's Day, I hope 0:04:56.920 --> 0:04:59.040 he was acting like that before Valentine's Day and the 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:01.640 day before that, you know what I'm saying. So, but 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:04.520 what's your best Valentine's Day in your head you can 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:07.080 think of. I've never I'm twenty three. I still feel 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:09.960 like I haven't even experienced. Like I can't wait for 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:12.359 the day I put the little they got the Savage 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:19.720 X fenty little ships going on word. I don't know, 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:22.479 I have to. He's a boy, these a little these 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:25.120 a little boys that like what you're saying, Like I'm 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:27.560 telling the little boys like unfortunately it's sad, like the 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:30.960 age group between like twenty and twenty six is little 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:33.280 boy energy to me, and a lot of them don't 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:36.600 have the mindset to like give us that. And I'm 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:38.760 not about to sit here and teach you and ask 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:40.760 and beg like it. I'll just wait till it comes. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:43.760 So the guys trying to talk to you all kind 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:46.720 of guys try to talk to me down. You don't 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:48.800 want to. You don't want to, dude, how much I 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:52.120 love older dudes, but I'm it's just hard because they're 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:56.360 so old, like they got the old like. I don't know, 0:05:56.480 --> 0:05:58.400 it's just certain things. I just I want to have 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:00.280 fun at the same time. But I don't want no 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:02.480 little boy that you're not really ready to be in 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:05.960 a relationship. I'm a relationship girl. I'm not even gonna lie. 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:07.680 I wouldn't say right now is not the time to 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:09.479 be in a relationship. Like I'll stay focused and worry 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.239 about you know, get this bag, but worry about the music. 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.200 But I'm a relationship girl. If I'm talking to you, 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:16.880 when I'm dealing with you, I don't want to have 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:20.480 to entertain thirty other different guys. I just don't. I 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:23.000 thought you were in a relationship with Blue Face I've 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.160 seen it on the blogs and they were saying that 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:28.040 y'all came out as a couple. They said we was 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:31.640 a couple or yeah, by he was outside, I was 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:37.480 just outside. We was outside blue face dye, But not 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:39.320 a couple because you're not ready for that right now. 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:43.040 He might not be ready either, by the way, taking 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:46.600 taking things one step at a time, you know, one 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:49.680 step at a time. Like people gotta understand outside of 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:53.480 this industry, outside of outside of Instagram and everything, we 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:55.880 still are human people, Like we're still humans and real, 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:58.840 like we're real souls, you know what I'm saying. So 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:01.760 would you guys see I see totally different or what 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:03.920 the world would see. It would be like, oh, ship 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:06.880 is d what you call blue face too? I'm drinking. 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:14.440 I'm drinking. Yeah, I saw you. We're talking about having 0:07:14.520 --> 0:07:16.720 issues like how do you know who to trust? Right? 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:19.360 And I saw you venting about that there's something in 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:22.360 particular happen or is this a common way that I 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:23.840 think a lot of us feel that way? How do 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:27.160 you know who you trust in this world? Um? Yeah, 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:29.600 I got into it with my fucking account and I've 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:31.960 just been like, you know, since I started. It's so 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:34.640 much money going on, Like it's so much money to 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:36.600 be made in this and so much money flowing around, 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:40.080 and like, you know, it's just really hard to really 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:43.160 make sure you find somebody that has your best interests. 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:45.120 So this morning me my calm got into it. So 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:47.320 I was just aggravated because it's just like fun, who 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.080 who else is gonna handle my money? God? Right, you 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:54.240 it's so important to me, that's very important, but it's 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:58.360 it's it's it's listen. This life is so frustrating sometimes 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:01.000 because as much as I need to be on top 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.680 of my business and monetize everything going on with this 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:07.640 and this is for all artists out there, especially female artists, 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:09.360 like you don't want nobody to take advantage of you, 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:11.400 so you do have to be on top. But at 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:14.400 the same time, mentally, like you have thirty million other 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:16.120 things you have to take care of, so you wanna 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:21.520 depend on at least somebody like professional accountants, and you 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:23.320 know what I'm saying, Like that's what their accountants to 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.760 handle the money, make sure the bills are being paid, 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:28.920 make sure the communication between you know this person and 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:32.240 this person's like, don't call me looking for no money, 0:08:32.320 --> 0:08:35.960 Like my my that should be an automatic payment. No. Yes, 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:38.040 because there's so many people. You gotta pay, right, you 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:40.480 gotta pay your accountant, you gotta pay your lawyer, you 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:44.120 gotta pay your manager, you gotta pay the road manager. No, listen, 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.559 we sign these big deals. They don't never read you 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:50.800 the motherfucking disclosures on all the fees that come behind 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:56.079 this lifestyle and beside the personal like my personal maintenance 0:08:56.320 --> 0:09:00.280 fee all right, between hair and nails and goshes. Every 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:03.760 week I spent at least like eight hunted nine hunted. 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:09.520 It's crazy trash. It's it's expensive to have that to 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:12.319 keep up with, you know, the standards of looking good 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:14.800 and being and make you feel like I gotta learn 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:16.640 how to do my own makeup. I gotta learn how 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:20.400 to do my own here, ask me, ask me all day. 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:22.959 I don't want know makeup parties and do my own makeup. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.439 I don't care. I'll how about you to dotios like 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:30.360 to the university? Right? All right? Now, do you think 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:33.640 that since you're single, could you date somebody who one 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:36.959 of your friends used to date? No? I mean now, 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:40.160 first of all, I don't have any friends like these days, 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:42.800 and we really friends like that, like that means we 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:44.959 grew up together, we have some type of history and 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:49.079 some type of you know, experience together. These days we 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:52.599 could be associates, you know, and and stuff. But I 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:55.040 feel like, I don't know, even if you talk to 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.320 your friend is talking to or your home girls talking 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:00.240 to you, you shouldn't do it. But if it just 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:02.240 like what if she just liked him but he didn't 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.599 like her, but he liked you, I mean, if you 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:07.640 like him. So look, I had a situation to where 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:10.520 it was just like one of my friends, right, like 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:13.319 one of my friends. It's like I didn't did a 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.280 music video. I'm not gonna name drop or anything, but 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.360 I didn't did a music video. I don't shot a video, 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:20.240 did a song and everything, right, And this is one 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:22.839 of my friends. And next to you know, it's like 0:10:22.920 --> 0:10:24.640 the person I did the video with, they're about to 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:27.160 go out to eating ship. So I'm just like, yo, 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:29.040 what the fun is going on? Like wait to a 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:31.480 video drop first? Like what are you doing? Like why 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:33.400 are you so desperate? I just kept thinking to myself, 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.160 like there's gonna be so many artists, so many other 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.360 men that's gonna be around. I want to be able 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:40.360 to trust my home girl to just hold her ship 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:42.599 down because sometimes it's not about me and it's not 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.479 about her. The fact that you're even given the satisfaction 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:48.079 of you being a rebound, you making us look like 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.360 we that type of time, Like I don't hang myself 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:53.080 around females like that, you know, like I just don't. 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:55.640 And it's just certain things that need to be done 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:58.880 a certain way. That's why it's just like, girl, it's business. 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.760 It's business. Business, it's business. And it's like, if you 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:04.439 really like him, y'all better have some type of history. 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.120 But if you're my girl, when you and me, when 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:07.880 did y'all have enough time to develop any of this 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:11.520 motherfucking history? Did you have a falling out over it? 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:14.400 Or did you say something to her? Oh yeah, we don't. 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:16.200 We're not friends no more. Just how the simple fact 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:19.080 that where it's just like it's certain things you don't 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:21.880 do out of respect, and like I said, I want 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:24.080 to be able to have my people and my friends 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.520 around certain people. Is gonna be so many more bigger artists. 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:29.560 We're gonna get it wrong. You're not. You're not gonna 0:11:29.640 --> 0:11:33.640 just slide with him, right? Would it have been different 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:35.959 for you if she came to you and said first like, 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:38.959 you know, I feel him and that nada I want 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:41.080 to hang out with him and X maybe did you mind? 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:42.599 Would it have been different for you? Or is it 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:45.679 because she just went she did? She did? Oh that 0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:49.520 I showed her like he was flirting. However, like that's 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.839 what happens. You know, I'm a pretty girl and artists 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:54.920 to artists like they flirt these boys crazy. However, our 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:58.000 friends zoned them and it was a respectful friend zone exception. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:01.240 You feel me, but I'm showing you this and it's like, 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:04.120 oh ship, I didn't know he was, so now I'm 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:06.199 showing you. It's like, but she looking like the rebound? 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:09.319 Are you comfortable? Not if I'm the friend that you're 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:11.240 gonna be the friend that pick it up? Let me know, 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:13.400 because that's just I don't know because he tried to 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:14.880 talk to both of y'all so and make out a 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:18.040 crazy like what's weird? Like just don't do that. There's 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:21.800 so it's a million, so many people I didn't even 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.520 know so many people called the coronavirus something like damn, 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:29.480 how many people was in the world? How many people 0:12:29.559 --> 0:12:31.440 in the world. That means that if you do process 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:35.679 of elimination on the men in this world. Right, there's 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:38.480 one thing. If you won't go ahead and ruin a 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:40.600 friendship over, you're just gonna go ahead and worry about 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:44.920 yourself and deal with the other thirty million possibility potential people. 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:46.319 That's gonna be what. We'll give you what you want. 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:50.200 And she still talking to him, now, I would guess 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:53.680 not yeah him cool, Oh we cool and ship were 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:56.640 like good like I ain't know bad blood of nothing. 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:59.800 It was just it was a girl cold thing like 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:02.280 I wanna I want to ask him. Why can't tell 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:06.319 like this? Shut up? Yeah, I don't have to give 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:09.839 you no information. It's just very industry stuff gets so messy, 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:12.400 gets so weird. You gotta you and Amazon hugged up 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:14.920 in the video, it was very sexy. Now, it wasn't 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:21.040 that video. Okay, checking video, this video a minute now, 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:23.640 it wasn't that video. No, no, no, no no. I 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:28.160 thought it was Gonnaya was gonna slide And now wasn't 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:30.559 that one. Yeah, we brought, we brought. The action in 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:33.439 that video was lit. Y'all had some real chemistry and 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:38.640 that nobody knows. Like listen, if y'all watched the full 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.839 VHS video, like because you know, a video was edited, 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:45.760 so they edited third part if you watched the actual 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:48.480 VHS video that she was so awkwardever, is because it's 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:51.520 like the cameraman tried to come in the car. So 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:53.640 I'm like, I wanted this VHS scene. I'm the one 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:55.800 who like you know, so I'm gonna try to come 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:59.559 in the car too. But it was in the car, 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:01.480 but the the record was supposed to film it, so 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:03.560 I took the camera told the director to get out. 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:06.320 So now we're just blasting its music and we're looking 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:09.800 at each other like all right now. It hopped on 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:12.240 top of him, like let me you feel me, Like 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:14.520 I would have felt really offended if he did not 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:18.360 touch me or dusted like I'm a girl not ugly, 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:21.040 Like think, let's make this a movie. Here. The slide 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:23.400 is called what I say, only throw it back for 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:25.680 the real ones. And we started off. Then we did 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:27.440 it in the bench, I mean curling out my toes like, 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:29.000 and that's what we gave them. You have to go 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:33.080 for it. You need that ship. I'm paying a picture 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:37.160 right in your head for you, like because I'm a 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:39.400 visual learner, you know, so I want to do that 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:45.320 for everybody that's watching me. Did he look surprised at first? 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:51.160 It was like it was like but then, like I said, 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:53.400 I don't know. We just the music was loud and 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:56.600 I just let let it play out. But if you 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:59.040 watch the whole video, it's some funny moments in there, 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:01.640 but the way re sexy. But I have to say 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.000 I like it because I feel like for a song 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:05.960 like that, you'll have to feel like you had chemistry 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:08.160 in the video and people be kind of scared to 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:11.240 be like that. And nobody saw Gonna like that, Like 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:14.200 it's good when Gonna such a dope artist and he's 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:16.960 so talented, so fly right, so like it's good to 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:18.640 t happen. On the female side, I feel like a 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:21.120 lot of females love him because of that, just because 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:23.800 it shows like how instantly you can be with a girl. 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:25.880 I don't know, I feel like people have to look 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:29.000 at stuff with that. I do. Yeah, Now, let me 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:30.880 ask you this, because they're trying to learn more about 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:32.960 you as a person. Who do you think it's more 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:36.680 selfish in a relationship, you or the guy. I'm selfish. 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:42.680 I want, I want, but I need good communication. I 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:45.000 need all your time like, and if you're not working, 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:48.080 or if you're not working or doing something that's like 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:53.640 do me productive, than you should not with me if 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:56.040 I I mean, you're not working, and it's like no, 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.240 I thought you were saying if it wasn't working period. 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:00.760 I was like, you want a guy that's not working? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:05.240 hell no, you got to have the back you gotta have. 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.200 I have to date someone who has more money than me, 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:11.520 but you're wanting to be up underneath you. I don't 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:13.120 want him to be up underneath me. I just want 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.000 to I just want okay, I don't want to say 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:16.760 I just don't want to share my name. I just 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:20.200 want my us to be all by myself. That's what 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:25.280 we all went. Yeah, I think most people and it's 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:28.320 usually the problem that they aren't. So there goes that 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:31.960 the problem is that everyone feels that way and it's 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:37.000 not enough. It's not for me. Can take a question, 0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:40.480 of course, please, so because I need advice. So I'm 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:44.200 really curious. So how do y'all feel about growth as 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:48.040 far as outgrowing someone like? You know, do you think 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:51.360 a lot of relationships? All right, let's just get right 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:54.760 into it, right, Can a baby, keep a man, No, 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:58.560 it can. It can make you feel I can make 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:00.760 a guy feel like he wants to have a family. 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:03.320 But if a guy doesn't want to be there, he'll 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:06.159 be resentful, you know, and I think that's not a 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:08.040 good thing. You never want somebody that's only with you 0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:11.960 for a baby. So how long should it take you 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:15.200 to realize after being, you know, having your child, Like 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:17.000 how old does a child have to be for you 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:19.840 to realize, like you're not gonna be Some women it's 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:24.840 twenty two or like some womant it like it ends 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:27.080 on a woman. And not only does it depend on 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:30.080 a woman, it depends on what he's saying, what he's doing, 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:32.800 and when he's feeling, cause that's stuff and stuff like that. 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:37.400 And then that's mixed messages like if he's on vacation 0:17:37.480 --> 0:17:41.880 with his baby mama, okay and the kids, that's I'm 0:17:41.920 --> 0:17:45.119 doing that. If the kids is there, they're that's different. 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:47.080 If the kids is not there, then it's a different 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:49.200 different Done do you think a guy should be on 0:17:49.280 --> 0:17:52.159 vacation with his baby mom and the kid because I 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:56.800 feel like it's a family vacation. It's yeah, but I'm 0:17:56.800 --> 0:17:58.800 not just s tell a couple of vacations, I'm coming 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:03.560 to I'll, I said, that's but look, that's how I 0:18:03.680 --> 0:18:07.000 feel like. It's so hard because at the end of 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:09.080 the day, I don't know. I didn't grow up with 0:18:09.160 --> 0:18:12.399 my mom and my dad, and I can't even like 0:18:12.560 --> 0:18:14.879 I just even if my mom and dad was together, 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:18.439 wasn't together, I still can't father them. But I wouldn't 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:19.960 give a funk if we all went on vacation or not. 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:22.440 And I felt like even when I was probably like six, 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:24.840 even old enough to understand. So when people try to 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:27.160 be like, we gotta do it for the kid, it's 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:31.080 just be bullshit. That's definitely. But but if he has 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:33.880 a different room, like he's not staying in the same room, 0:18:35.240 --> 0:18:38.840 that's the same. That's why I think that's grown is 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:41.480 sexy right there now they're not staying in the same room, 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:44.040 but she's gonna come to his room exactly knocking on 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:47.960 that door. What do y'all have a separate room? Y'all? 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:50.280 Also like the baby, see y'all kids, But then that's 0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:52.560 giving them the kid. That's giving a kid nick signals 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:54.879 And I said, you don't want to in front of 0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:57.399 your child, like you want to have like, uh, like, 0:18:57.480 --> 0:19:00.480 how freaky can't you get really if they're sitting, they're watching, 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:02.399 or they sweet. Okay, so then let me ask you 0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:05.160 a question. If that's the case, if it's just about sex, 0:19:05.280 --> 0:19:07.000 then what do you call that? I mean, is there 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:09.720 is there is? The kid don't matter at this point, 0:19:09.760 --> 0:19:12.399 because even whether she's the baby mother or not, you 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:15.480 donna want to it's usually dressed about the sex for 0:19:15.560 --> 0:19:18.399 the guy. It's the girl that's usually all attached and 0:19:18.520 --> 0:19:20.760 wants to have her family and wants to be in 0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:23.080 the mix and you know, all up in his business 0:19:23.080 --> 0:19:25.600 and trying to you know, the guys are the guys 0:19:25.640 --> 0:19:28.320 are jealous too, like they say all that and they 0:19:28.400 --> 0:19:30.880 tell you that, but then they'd be telling her want 0:19:30.920 --> 0:19:33.000 her too, They don't want I don't want you, but 0:19:33.080 --> 0:19:36.520 nobody else with a baby, and they now they got 0:19:36.560 --> 0:19:38.560 her forever because she got the baby. She gotta be 0:19:38.640 --> 0:19:40.840 around and talk to him, because that's the whole thing. 0:19:41.280 --> 0:19:43.280 We'd be so mad at the woman, but they really 0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.600 be the guy going back and forth, and but sometimes 0:19:45.640 --> 0:19:48.159 to be both them because sometimes the woman know and 0:19:48.240 --> 0:19:51.359 she'd be trying to be spiteful, like you know, because 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:53.600 she don't want to see him with anybody else and 0:19:53.640 --> 0:19:55.680 show your to do certain things. I mean, he's weak 0:19:55.920 --> 0:19:58.000 and gives them too, so he ain't no better. But 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:01.240