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Speaker 1: There are some things that you might want to share
Speaker 1: on a first date. Spit could be one thing, a churro.
Speaker 1: If you're at a place that hash Turro's, maybe you
Speaker 1: want to share Curro delicious. The fact that you want
Speaker 1: to get them pregnant probably not a good thing to
Speaker 1: share on a first date. And apparently that's why Justin's
Speaker 1: on the phone today. He may be shared a little
Speaker 1: too much on his first date. Now he's worried about it. Justin,
Speaker 1: We'll stop. How are you? Hey? How are you doing?
Speaker 1: Probably better than you? Hey, it's I guess it's just
Speaker 1: a preference. I guess. I don't know. Wait, you want
Speaker 1: to get someone pregnant? Or is Jubil making a joke?
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's that much of a joke. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: so I feel like I've met the one after one date.
Speaker 1: After one date, is that crazy? H. I mean, it
Speaker 1: depends how you went about it. I mean, I guess
Speaker 1: some people have gone on dates and peoplere like, man,
Speaker 1: that's the one for me, and then sometimes they get married.
Speaker 1: Sometimes their heart gets broken. And because you're on the
Speaker 1: phone for a second day update, I might know what
Speaker 1: position you're in, but I'm not sure. So tell us
Speaker 1: a story. What's the girl's name, Charlotte? Charlotte? All right, yeah,
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I just feel like I've met
Speaker 1: the one. This feels like already like a non negotiable
Speaker 1: for me. Okay, slow down. Where did you meet her?
Speaker 1: We met on online dating and the original plan for
Speaker 1: her first date was to meet up downtown and we
Speaker 1: were going to find a restaurant that we book liked.
Speaker 1: We didn't book anything. We're kind of like, you know what,
Speaker 1: let's just let's just see what happens. And I was
Speaker 1: immediately attracted to her online, but when I met her
Speaker 1: in person, I was like, I was blown away. I
Speaker 1: was like, wow, Wow, this is really cool. Her personality
Speaker 1: was just radiating. Okay, that's really sweet, but it also
Speaker 1: could be really creepy if the feeling from her wasn't
Speaker 1: suprocated right, like it has to be both ways. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not a mind reader. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Was she giving you any hints on the date that
Speaker 1: she was like crazy about you too? Well, we were
Speaker 1: hanging out and she didn't run away, so a good sign.
Speaker 1: That is a good sign. If somebody runs from you screaming,
Speaker 1: they usually are not into you. So that's good. That's right.
Speaker 1: Tell us about your date. Okay, So she didn't run
Speaker 1: away because she was shackled, right, she just didn't run Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's right. Okay, why can't you trust me if every
Speaker 1: time I on tire you try to run away? So
Speaker 1: that didn't happen. Tell us what did happen? So everywhere
Speaker 1: we went it was just super busy. It was like
Speaker 1: forty five minutes to an hour long wait. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you know how some girls would be like super judgmental.
Speaker 1: They're like, oh, how come he didn't book this place?
Speaker 1: Or you know, I don't want to wait that long?
Speaker 1: But she was just so chill about it, and she
Speaker 1: looks over to me and it was like the sexiest
Speaker 1: thing that you could say. It was like, do you
Speaker 1: just want to go grab some fast food? Oh? No, man,
Speaker 1: I was like, are you serious? Is that the moment
Speaker 1: you knew that you wanted to marry her right there?
Speaker 1: And well, I enjoy myself some fast food, But on
Speaker 1: the first date, I wasn't expecting this attractive, awesome person
Speaker 1: to just look over at me and be like, yo,
Speaker 1: let's grab some fast food, bro, Like what okays? The
Speaker 1: sign of a low maintenance person. That's always nice exactly.
Speaker 1: So we were so hungry, and so we went to
Speaker 1: Kiss Cool and we just ordered this big feast, you know, chicken, gravy,
Speaker 1: mashed potatoes, the works, the freaking works. And we're just
Speaker 1: sitting there stuff in her faces and it was crazy
Speaker 1: because I didn't even care, and she didn't even care.
Speaker 1: We were so comfortable with each other. Like there's just
Speaker 1: gravy sliding out her face, like you got something on
Speaker 1: your face? Sounds hilarious. Oh it's adorable. You ever get
Speaker 1: that feeling like we were so comfortable with somebody? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that that is a good sign. It like
Speaker 1: means that you definitely have a future if you can
Speaker 1: totally be yourself on somewhere. Did she feel the same though?
Speaker 1: Was she that comfortable too? That's what I'm worried about.
Speaker 1: You know. At that point, I didn't know, but the
Speaker 1: meal was over, and so I just looked it over
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, I probably shouldn't
Speaker 1: say this, but I'm gonna say it anyway. Oh, No,
Speaker 1: I think you're the one. Oh wow. Yeah. Usually, I mean,
Speaker 1: even if you're thinking, it's usually not good to share
Speaker 1: that on our first date. Could scare people off. No,
Speaker 1: I was speaking from the heart, man, I said, you
Speaker 1: know what, I think you're the one. And she was
Speaker 1: definitely surprised. Yeah, I'm sure she was. Did she say anything?
Speaker 1: She was hard to read her. She wasn't very vocal
Speaker 1: about it. But when the date was over, it ended
Speaker 1: with the hug. And it wasn't I thought I was
Speaker 1: gonna end with a kiss. I thought it was well,
Speaker 1: of course, you thought I was gonna end with a
Speaker 1: baby house in the future together. Yeah, I kind of.
Speaker 1: I kind of did the house. I take advance to
Speaker 1: all that, absolutely, But instead it ended with the hug.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like a like, oh I'm so excited. It
Speaker 1: was more like a mom's side hug. Yeah. I I
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe I overshared on the date. I mean
Speaker 1: I was speaking from the harder what's going on. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you're supposed to shut your heart up for a little while.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's the problem. How many times have you try
Speaker 1: to get ahold of her since you guys went out
Speaker 1: three or four times. I mean, I'm pretty sure that
Speaker 1: she had an amazing time also, so that's why I'm
Speaker 1: kind of confusing and why she's not reaching out back
Speaker 1: to me as well. Okay, well we'll play a song
Speaker 1: and then come back and call her and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, Okay, this really means a lot
Speaker 1: to me, So I just want to let you know.
Speaker 1: I know the whole future of the rest of your
Speaker 1: life hangs on this phone call. So yeah, we'll do
Speaker 1: it right after this. Hang on looking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second date update if you're just joining us for today's
Speaker 1: second date update. Justin is on the phone, and Justin,
Speaker 1: I know this is the first time that you and
Speaker 1: I have ever talked, but I have to tell you
Speaker 1: I think I love you and I can see a
Speaker 1: long future with you. I like hearing that, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: know you do response saying that because I want hug
Speaker 1: you right now. I want to do more than hug you.
Speaker 1: But well, we'll get to that later, Justin, you and
Speaker 1: I depending on how it works with your second day update.
Speaker 1: Right now, if you're just joining us, Justin wants to
Speaker 1: call a girl named Charlotte. They went out. They had
Speaker 1: some fast food because everywhere else in the city was
Speaker 1: booked up, and he thought that was awesome because she
Speaker 1: was like low maintenance. But he also told Charlotte that
Speaker 1: he thinks she's the one on their first date. And
Speaker 1: how you laughing, I'm not laughing a lot laughing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just it's probably a lot for her to handle,
Speaker 1: and that's why she hasn't gotten back to him. So
Speaker 1: we're about to call her right now and see if
Speaker 1: that is the case. Are you ready to go? Justin?
Speaker 1: Oh that Oh that makes me nervous. Well, now you're nervous.
Speaker 1: You're not nervous to tell them someone that you just
Speaker 1: went on a first date with that you love them. No,
Speaker 1: I just I don't know, Like she hasn't really reached
Speaker 1: out to me, so I mean I feel for her.
Speaker 1: Feel first, you have a lot on the line, I think,
Speaker 1: is what you're trying to say, Like you've already invested
Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, yeah, there's so much on the one
Speaker 1: right now. I mean, okay, you're a guy with a
Speaker 1: lot of feelings in you. Huh yeah, oh yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: and you know I love that. But just be prepared
Speaker 1: that she may say it's too much and just slow
Speaker 1: it down. You know what. I never want to slow
Speaker 1: love down. So okay, let's do this all right, don't yeah,
Speaker 1: don't slow love down. Let's get to it. Here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: h might I speak to Charlotte speaking? Hey Charlotte, how
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning. Um, I'm okay, I guess nice.
Speaker 1: That's good to hear. Can I ask what this is regarding? Sure?
Speaker 1: I think that that was her question. Oh I was
Speaker 1: waiting for you to ask. Yeah, well what is this?
Speaker 1: Got it? I'm not good at conversations sometimes. Charlotte. I'm
Speaker 1: calling you today because we got an email about you
Speaker 1: from somebody who listens to our show. Um, okay, what
Speaker 1: did it to say? Well, it said that you were
Speaker 1: a fabulous person, and it said that this person loves
Speaker 1: you a lot, but you might not love them back. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You have no idea what I'm talking about?
Speaker 1: Do you? Is there something you're looking for for me
Speaker 1: is yeah, yeah, well maybe not we are, but somebody
Speaker 1: else is looking for something from you. His name is
Speaker 1: Justin and you guys went out on a date the
Speaker 1: other day. Oh god, yeah, okay makes sense now, doesn't it.
Speaker 1: We do a segment on our show called the Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and then don't call them back, they
Speaker 1: can email us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out why. And Justin emailed us said that he
Speaker 1: was really into you, and yeah, I bet he said
Speaker 1: that he did, so he obviously told you that too, Yes, enthusiastically. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And he says that now you're not returning any of
Speaker 1: his phone calls or text messages and he wants to
Speaker 1: know why. What did he tell you about our date? Oh? Well,
Speaker 1: he told us that you were trying to go to
Speaker 1: dinner downtown, but everything was booked, so you guys had
Speaker 1: fast food. He said the conversation was good. He also
Speaker 1: said that he told you he thinks you might be
Speaker 1: the one. He did say that. Did he elaborate on
Speaker 1: what he said after that? No? Not really? Okay, great,
Speaker 1: so um, No, he did look at me and say, wow,
Speaker 1: you know, I think you're the one, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: take it back a little bit, but you know, I'm thinking,
Speaker 1: like maybe he had a couple drinks before our date.
Speaker 1: We were at KFC, like we didn't get to sit
Speaker 1: down restaurant where they serve alcohol. Then he told me
Speaker 1: that he said that to four other girls on a
Speaker 1: first date. What oh wait? Whoa? And like, I don't
Speaker 1: think I'm very old fashioned, but I think a soulmate
Speaker 1: is a one and done kind of deal. So it
Speaker 1: started out kind of weird and then it just like
Speaker 1: went completely off the scale. What did you I mean
Speaker 1: what He's just like trying it out until somebody says
Speaker 1: it back to him, and then he's just going to
Speaker 1: seal the deal. Every time he said it, he meant
Speaker 1: it at the time at the time. That's not what
Speaker 1: soulmate means. And for me, like, when I do find
Speaker 1: someone I want to be serious with, it's not going
Speaker 1: to be an at the time thing. It's going to
Speaker 1: be someone I feel a real connection with, you know.
Speaker 1: And how did you get to the point of telling
Speaker 1: you that? He said that before? When he looked at
Speaker 1: me and said, I think you're the one, I was
Speaker 1: probably making a face because I was pretty taken aback,
Speaker 1: and he was like, well, don't be scared. I've thought
Speaker 1: other girls were the one too, And then he starts
Speaker 1: telling me about the like he met, you're actually the
Speaker 1: one in four or the one in five. I mean,
Speaker 1: what are you even thinking when you say that? Like
Speaker 1: even if I had been cool with when he first
Speaker 1: said it, which I wasn't, but if I had, then like,
Speaker 1: who's going to be the one at McDonald's next week?
Speaker 1: Like I don't even know you're the one, but I've
Speaker 1: had a lot of one. Yeah, right, Like that doesn't
Speaker 1: sound like a one to me anymore. That sounds like
Speaker 1: a group, And I don't want to be in your group.
Speaker 1: I think I'm good. So I mean, you just wanted
Speaker 1: to end the date and get out of there. You
Speaker 1: didn't like why didn't you say something to him? What
Speaker 1: are you gonna say? That's gonna go? Well from there?
Speaker 1: Now I know something that he seemed to believe very earnestly,
Speaker 1: and my interest is now gone. What am I gonna do?
Speaker 1: But like, well, you know, at least I didn't spend
Speaker 1: money on a nice place to go for dinner. Thanks
Speaker 1: for your time. Finish up your fried chicken. And get
Speaker 1: out of there. Yeah, I like my fried chicken, but
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, right, all right, Charlotte, Well,
Speaker 1: thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it was a lot. It started
Speaker 1: with a lot and then there was more, and I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm not responding to that. Okay, Well, since you
Speaker 1: were so honest with us, now I feel like I
Speaker 1: should be honest with you because Justin is actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and he wants to talk. Yes,
Speaker 1: he is, maybe not Justin are you there? Yeah, hey, Charlotte,
Speaker 1: I'm still confused on why you didn't call me back.
Speaker 1: What's what's going on? What? What did you not? Just
Speaker 1: I feel like I just explained myself pretty clearly, and
Speaker 1: I feel like my not responding in the first place
Speaker 1: was a pretty clear message. I really don't know what
Speaker 1: you think you're doing. Thanks for dragging me on the radio. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just thought that we were supposed
Speaker 1: to be kind of you know, you know, you can
Speaker 1: have more than one soulmate. You have like a best friend, right,
Speaker 1: you have a you might have a lover, you might
Speaker 1: have friends. I have one best friend. I don't have
Speaker 1: five best friends. Well, what about soul may business partners? Like, Listen,
Speaker 1: I don't want to out there. You don't make any sense,
Speaker 1: and I don't need to listen to you explain this
Speaker 1: to me again because I am not interested and there
Speaker 1: was no amount of explaining you can do now on
Speaker 1: the radio to make me interested. Listen, forget all that
Speaker 1: stuff that has happened so far. I just knew immediately
Speaker 1: when I met you that you were my soulmate, just
Speaker 1: like I did with those other four girls. And try
Speaker 1: some business partners and whoever else? Do you hear yourself talk?
Speaker 1: You keep saying me and these four other girls like
Speaker 1: not supposed to be romantic. I'm supposed to be enticed
Speaker 1: by that. But I'm in this batch with all these
Speaker 1: other women. That doesn't make it feel special. Well, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to shy away from love. I mean
Speaker 1: when we were sharing our cole slaw, I can picture
Speaker 1: you with our kids three years from now. Wow, oh
Speaker 1: my god, Justin you have to stop. Are you also
Speaker 1: picturing the other women and their kids also? Are we
Speaker 1: all there in a group. Well, there's over seven billion
Speaker 1: people on the planet. I should say that I should
Speaker 1: only have one. No, we should just stop talking about it.
Speaker 1: We need to go forward. Yeah, let's stop talking about it,
Speaker 1: Charlotte and go on a second date with Justin. We
Speaker 1: will pay for it. Go out with your SOULMATEE. How
Speaker 1: do you know I'm not your soul mate? I know
Speaker 1: for sure that you're not my soulmate because of all
Speaker 1: the crazy that comes out of your mouth, Justin. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: I think women appreciate a man who's in touch with
Speaker 1: his emotions. But I don't think that you're actually in
Speaker 1: touch with your emotions. I think you're just trying to
Speaker 1: live out a rom com or something. You know what.
Speaker 1: I don't really care what everyone else is saying. I
Speaker 1: really think that, Charlotte, you are one of the soulmates
Speaker 1: for me of all. For real, I think that you
Speaker 1: will be linked to me as a soulmate forever. Wow.
Speaker 1: I really hope not I hope. So. I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess no matter why you choose who gets to be
Speaker 1: your soulmate, But I don't think this soulmate is choosing
Speaker 1: you back, Justin. Unless unless I haven't picked up on
Speaker 1: the right signals from you, Charlotte. No, I think you've
Speaker 1: picked up on my feelings signals pretty well, Oh well,
Speaker 1: maybe you and I are soulmates. We know each other
Speaker 1: so well. Wow, look at that, Charlotte, two soulmates on
Speaker 1: the phone. You can have more than one soul mate. Okay,
Speaker 1: well Justin right now your soulmate Charlotte doesn't want to
Speaker 1: go out with your shows just have to be a memory. Yeah, Charlotte,
Speaker 1: after everything that we've talked about, I really we hope
Speaker 1: that you change your mind and I'm gonna be here
Speaker 1: for you. I'm gonna wait for you. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: until the next person goes to KAFC with the Chlotte.
Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. Broken Jewil in the morning, text
Speaker 1: In at seven eight, five to nine two says I've
Speaker 1: met four soul mates already this morning, so it's going
Speaker 1: to be a good day. Talking about today's second date
Speaker 1: update if you missed it, this dude, Justin wasn't going
Speaker 1: to call back from a girl named Charlotte, And he
Speaker 1: actually told Charlotte on their first date that he thought
Speaker 1: she was the one but didn't understand why she wasn't
Speaker 1: calling him back. And when we got her on the phone,
Speaker 1: we found out that he also told her that he said,
Speaker 1: you're the one to like four other girls on dates. Yeah,
Speaker 1: says it all the time, I guess. And he explained
Speaker 1: that he believes people can have more than one soul
Speaker 1: mate in life and he's just trying to cast a
Speaker 1: very wide net for one. Is not accurate. Then, in
Speaker 1: the end, Charlotte did not want to be one of
Speaker 1: Justin's many soul mates and didn't go on a second
Speaker 1: date with him. But he should be fine. You'll find
Speaker 1: the one in a little while. I'll find another one.
Speaker 1: Remember you want to do a second date update? All
Speaker 1: I have to do his email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back.