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<v Speaker 1>There are some things that you might want to share

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date. Spit could be one thing, a churro.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're at a place that hash Turro's, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>want to share Curro delicious. The fact that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get them pregnant probably not a good thing to

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<v Speaker 1>share on a first date. And apparently that's why Justin's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone today. He may be shared a little

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<v Speaker 1>too much on his first date. Now he's worried about it. Justin,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll stop. How are you? Hey? How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably better than you? Hey, it's I guess it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a preference. I guess. I don't know. Wait, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get someone pregnant? Or is Jubil making a joke?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's that much of a joke. Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I feel like I've met the one after one date.

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<v Speaker 1>After one date, is that crazy? H. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>depends how you went about it. I mean, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>some people have gone on dates and peoplere like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the one for me, and then sometimes they get married.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes their heart gets broken. And because you're on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second day update, I might know what

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<v Speaker 1>position you're in, but I'm not sure. So tell us

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<v Speaker 1>a story. What's the girl's name, Charlotte? Charlotte? All right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know. I just feel like I've met

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<v Speaker 1>the one. This feels like already like a non negotiable

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Okay, slow down. Where did you meet her?

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<v Speaker 1>We met on online dating and the original plan for

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<v Speaker 1>her first date was to meet up downtown and we

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<v Speaker 1>were going to find a restaurant that we book liked.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't book anything. We're kind of like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just let's just see what happens. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>immediately attracted to her online, but when I met her

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<v Speaker 1>in person, I was like, I was blown away. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wow, Wow, this is really cool. Her personality

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<v Speaker 1>was just radiating. Okay, that's really sweet, but it also

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<v Speaker 1>could be really creepy if the feeling from her wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>suprocated right, like it has to be both ways. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm not a mind reader. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Was she giving you any hints on the date that

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<v Speaker 1>she was like crazy about you too? Well, we were

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out and she didn't run away, so a good sign.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a good sign. If somebody runs from you screaming,

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<v Speaker 1>they usually are not into you. So that's good. That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about your date. Okay, So she didn't run

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<v Speaker 1>away because she was shackled, right, she just didn't run Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right. Okay, why can't you trust me if every

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<v Speaker 1>time I on tire you try to run away? So

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't happen. Tell us what did happen? So everywhere

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<v Speaker 1>we went it was just super busy. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>forty five minutes to an hour long wait. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know how some girls would be like super judgmental.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, oh, how come he didn't book this place?

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<v Speaker 1>Or you know, I don't want to wait that long?

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<v Speaker 1>But she was just so chill about it, and she

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<v Speaker 1>looks over to me and it was like the sexiest

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<v Speaker 1>thing that you could say. It was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>just want to go grab some fast food? Oh? No, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, are you serious? Is that the moment

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<v Speaker 1>you knew that you wanted to marry her right there?

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<v Speaker 1>And well, I enjoy myself some fast food, But on

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<v Speaker 1>the first date, I wasn't expecting this attractive, awesome person

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<v Speaker 1>to just look over at me and be like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>let's grab some fast food, bro, Like what okays? The

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<v Speaker 1>sign of a low maintenance person. That's always nice exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were so hungry, and so we went to

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<v Speaker 1>Kiss Cool and we just ordered this big feast, you know, chicken, gravy,

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<v Speaker 1>mashed potatoes, the works, the freaking works. And we're just

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there stuff in her faces and it was crazy

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<v Speaker 1>because I didn't even care, and she didn't even care.

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<v Speaker 1>We were so comfortable with each other. Like there's just

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<v Speaker 1>gravy sliding out her face, like you got something on

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<v Speaker 1>your face? Sounds hilarious. Oh it's adorable. You ever get

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<v Speaker 1>that feeling like we were so comfortable with somebody? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that that is a good sign. It like

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<v Speaker 1>means that you definitely have a future if you can

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<v Speaker 1>totally be yourself on somewhere. Did she feel the same though?

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<v Speaker 1>Was she that comfortable too? That's what I'm worried about.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. At that point, I didn't know, but the

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<v Speaker 1>meal was over, and so I just looked it over

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know what, I probably shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>say this, but I'm gonna say it anyway. Oh, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're the one. Oh wow. Yeah. Usually, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you're thinking, it's usually not good to share

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<v Speaker 1>that on our first date. Could scare people off. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I was speaking from the heart, man, I said, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I think you're the one. And she was

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<v Speaker 1>definitely surprised. Yeah, I'm sure she was. Did she say anything?

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<v Speaker 1>She was hard to read her. She wasn't very vocal

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<v Speaker 1>about it. But when the date was over, it ended

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<v Speaker 1>with the hug. And it wasn't I thought I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna end with a kiss. I thought it was well,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, you thought I was gonna end with a

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<v Speaker 1>baby house in the future together. Yeah, I kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of did the house. I take advance to

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<v Speaker 1>all that, absolutely, But instead it ended with the hug.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like a like, oh I'm so excited. It

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<v Speaker 1>was more like a mom's side hug. Yeah. I I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Maybe I overshared on the date. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I was speaking from the harder what's going on. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you're supposed to shut your heart up for a little while.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's the problem. How many times have you try

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<v Speaker 1>to get ahold of her since you guys went out

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<v Speaker 1>three or four times. I mean, I'm pretty sure that

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<v Speaker 1>she had an amazing time also, so that's why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of confusing and why she's not reaching out back

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<v Speaker 1>to me as well. Okay, well we'll play a song

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<v Speaker 1>and then come back and call her and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, Okay, this really means a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to me, So I just want to let you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the whole future of the rest of your

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<v Speaker 1>life hangs on this phone call. So yeah, we'll do

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<v Speaker 1>it right after this. Hang on looking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update if you're just joining us for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Justin is on the phone, and Justin,

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<v Speaker 1>I know this is the first time that you and

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<v Speaker 1>I have ever talked, but I have to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>I think I love you and I can see a

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<v Speaker 1>long future with you. I like hearing that, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>know you do response saying that because I want hug

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<v Speaker 1>you right now. I want to do more than hug you.

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<v Speaker 1>But well, we'll get to that later, Justin, you and

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<v Speaker 1>I depending on how it works with your second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, if you're just joining us, Justin wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Charlotte. They went out. They had

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<v Speaker 1>some fast food because everywhere else in the city was

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<v Speaker 1>booked up, and he thought that was awesome because she

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<v Speaker 1>was like low maintenance. But he also told Charlotte that

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks she's the one on their first date. And

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<v Speaker 1>how you laughing, I'm not laughing a lot laughing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it's probably a lot for her to handle,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why she hasn't gotten back to him. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to call her right now and see if

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<v Speaker 1>that is the case. Are you ready to go? Justin?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that Oh that makes me nervous. Well, now you're nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not nervous to tell them someone that you just

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<v Speaker 1>went on a first date with that you love them. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't know, Like she hasn't really reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to me, so I mean I feel for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel first, you have a lot on the line, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>is what you're trying to say, Like you've already invested

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Yeah, yeah, there's so much on the one

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I mean, okay, you're a guy with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of feelings in you. Huh yeah, oh yeah, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know I love that. But just be prepared

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<v Speaker 1>that she may say it's too much and just slow

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<v Speaker 1>it down. You know what. I never want to slow

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<v Speaker 1>love down. So okay, let's do this all right, don't yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>don't slow love down. Let's get to it. Here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>h might I speak to Charlotte speaking? Hey Charlotte, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning. Um, I'm okay, I guess nice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good to hear. Can I ask what this is regarding? Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that was her question. Oh I was

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for you to ask. Yeah, well what is this?

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<v Speaker 1>Got it? I'm not good at conversations sometimes. Charlotte. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you today because we got an email about you

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<v Speaker 1>from somebody who listens to our show. Um, okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>did it to say? Well, it said that you were

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<v Speaker 1>a fabulous person, and it said that this person loves

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<v Speaker 1>you a lot, but you might not love them back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. You have no idea what I'm talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you? Is there something you're looking for for me

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<v Speaker 1>is yeah, yeah, well maybe not we are, but somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else is looking for something from you. His name is

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<v Speaker 1>Justin and you guys went out on a date the

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<v Speaker 1>other day. Oh god, yeah, okay makes sense now, doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. That's where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody and then don't call them back, they

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<v Speaker 1>can email us to get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out why. And Justin emailed us said that he

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<v Speaker 1>was really into you, and yeah, I bet he said

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<v Speaker 1>that he did, so he obviously told you that too, Yes, enthusiastically. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And he says that now you're not returning any of

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<v Speaker 1>his phone calls or text messages and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know why. What did he tell you about our date? Oh? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he told us that you were trying to go to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner downtown, but everything was booked, so you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>fast food. He said the conversation was good. He also

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<v Speaker 1>said that he told you he thinks you might be

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<v Speaker 1>the one. He did say that. Did he elaborate on

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<v Speaker 1>what he said after that? No? Not really? Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>so um, No, he did look at me and say, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think you're the one, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>take it back a little bit, but you know, I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe he had a couple drinks before our date.

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<v Speaker 1>We were at KFC, like we didn't get to sit

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<v Speaker 1>down restaurant where they serve alcohol. Then he told me

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<v Speaker 1>that he said that to four other girls on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. What oh wait? Whoa? And like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm very old fashioned, but I think a soulmate

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<v Speaker 1>is a one and done kind of deal. So it

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<v Speaker 1>started out kind of weird and then it just like

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<v Speaker 1>went completely off the scale. What did you I mean

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<v Speaker 1>what He's just like trying it out until somebody says

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<v Speaker 1>it back to him, and then he's just going to

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<v Speaker 1>seal the deal. Every time he said it, he meant

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<v Speaker 1>it at the time at the time. That's not what

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<v Speaker 1>soulmate means. And for me, like, when I do find

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<v Speaker 1>someone I want to be serious with, it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be an at the time thing. It's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be someone I feel a real connection with, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did you get to the point of telling

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<v Speaker 1>you that? He said that before? When he looked at

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<v Speaker 1>me and said, I think you're the one, I was

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<v Speaker 1>probably making a face because I was pretty taken aback,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, well, don't be scared. I've thought

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<v Speaker 1>other girls were the one too, And then he starts

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<v Speaker 1>telling me about the like he met, you're actually the

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<v Speaker 1>one in four or the one in five. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you even thinking when you say that? Like

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<v Speaker 1>even if I had been cool with when he first

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<v Speaker 1>said it, which I wasn't, but if I had, then like,

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<v Speaker 1>who's going to be the one at McDonald's next week?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't even know you're the one, but I've

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of one. Yeah, right, Like that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>sound like a one to me anymore. That sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a group, And I don't want to be in your group.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm good. So I mean, you just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to end the date and get out of there. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like why didn't you say something to him? What

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna say? That's gonna go? Well from there?

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<v Speaker 1>Now I know something that he seemed to believe very earnestly,

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<v Speaker 1>and my interest is now gone. What am I gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>But like, well, you know, at least I didn't spend

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<v Speaker 1>money on a nice place to go for dinner. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for your time. Finish up your fried chicken. And get

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<v Speaker 1>out of there. Yeah, I like my fried chicken, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, right, all right, Charlotte, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's just it was a lot. It started

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<v Speaker 1>with a lot and then there was more, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm not responding to that. Okay, Well, since you

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<v Speaker 1>were so honest with us, now I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>should be honest with you because Justin is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and he wants to talk. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he is, maybe not Justin are you there? Yeah, hey, Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still confused on why you didn't call me back.

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<v Speaker 1>What's what's going on? What? What did you not? Just

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I just explained myself pretty clearly, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like my not responding in the first place

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<v Speaker 1>was a pretty clear message. I really don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>you think you're doing. Thanks for dragging me on the radio. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just thought that we were supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be kind of you know, you know, you can

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<v Speaker 1>have more than one soulmate. You have like a best friend, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a you might have a lover, you might

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<v Speaker 1>have friends. I have one best friend. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>five best friends. Well, what about soul may business partners? Like, Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to out there. You don't make any sense,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't need to listen to you explain this

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<v Speaker 1>to me again because I am not interested and there

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<v Speaker 1>was no amount of explaining you can do now on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio to make me interested. Listen, forget all that

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that has happened so far. I just knew immediately

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<v Speaker 1>when I met you that you were my soulmate, just

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<v Speaker 1>like I did with those other four girls. And try

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<v Speaker 1>some business partners and whoever else? Do you hear yourself talk?

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<v Speaker 1>You keep saying me and these four other girls like

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<v Speaker 1>not supposed to be romantic. I'm supposed to be enticed

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<v Speaker 1>by that. But I'm in this batch with all these

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<v Speaker 1>other women. That doesn't make it feel special. Well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to shy away from love. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>when we were sharing our cole slaw, I can picture

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<v Speaker 1>you with our kids three years from now. Wow, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, Justin you have to stop. Are you also

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<v Speaker 1>picturing the other women and their kids also? Are we

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<v Speaker 1>all there in a group. Well, there's over seven billion

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<v Speaker 1>people on the planet. I should say that I should

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<v Speaker 1>only have one. No, we should just stop talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to go forward. Yeah, let's stop talking about it,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlotte and go on a second date with Justin. We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it. Go out with your SOULMATEE. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you know I'm not your soul mate? I know

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<v Speaker 1>for sure that you're not my soulmate because of all

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<v Speaker 1>the crazy that comes out of your mouth, Justin. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think women appreciate a man who's in touch with

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<v Speaker 1>his emotions. But I don't think that you're actually in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with your emotions. I think you're just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>live out a rom com or something. You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care what everyone else is saying. I

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<v Speaker 1>really think that, Charlotte, you are one of the soulmates

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<v Speaker 1>for me of all. For real, I think that you

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<v Speaker 1>will be linked to me as a soulmate forever. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I really hope not I hope. So. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess no matter why you choose who gets to be

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<v Speaker 1>your soulmate, But I don't think this soulmate is choosing

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<v Speaker 1>you back, Justin. Unless unless I haven't picked up on

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<v Speaker 1>the right signals from you, Charlotte. No, I think you've

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<v Speaker 1>picked up on my feelings signals pretty well, Oh well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you and I are soulmates. We know each other

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<v Speaker 1>so well. Wow, look at that, Charlotte, two soulmates on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. You can have more than one soul mate. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well Justin right now your soulmate Charlotte doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with your shows just have to be a memory. Yeah, Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>after everything that we've talked about, I really we hope

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<v Speaker 1>that you change your mind and I'm gonna be here

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I'm gonna wait for you. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>until the next person goes to KAFC with the Chlotte.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't worry about it. Broken Jewil in the morning, text

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<v Speaker 1>In at seven eight, five to nine two says I've

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<v Speaker 1>met four soul mates already this morning, so it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a good day. Talking about today's second date

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<v Speaker 1>update if you missed it, this dude, Justin wasn't going

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<v Speaker 1>to call back from a girl named Charlotte, And he

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<v Speaker 1>actually told Charlotte on their first date that he thought

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<v Speaker 1>she was the one but didn't understand why she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back. And when we got her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>we found out that he also told her that he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the one to like four other girls on dates. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>says it all the time, I guess. And he explained

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<v Speaker 1>that he believes people can have more than one soul

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<v Speaker 1>mate in life and he's just trying to cast a

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<v Speaker 1>very wide net for one. Is not accurate. Then, in

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<v Speaker 1>the end, Charlotte did not want to be one of

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<v Speaker 1>Justin's many soul mates and didn't go on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with him. But he should be fine. You'll find

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<v Speaker 1>the one in a little while. I'll find another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember you want to do a second date update? All

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<v Speaker 1>I have to do his email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back.