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Speaker 1: Text you will heal, then, text you will. Doctors can

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Speaker 1: heal you physically, Therapists heal you mentally. But this group

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Speaker 1: of radio rejects promises to heal you textually. Oh yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: we do it in this segment called textual healing. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: not the smartest group that we have in here. But

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners has asked for our help with

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Speaker 1: a text conversation that she's been having. Her name is Alyssa. So, Alyssa,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, thank you, Oh man, Alyssa desperate times. We're the

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Speaker 2: desperate measure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're on with the Texperts right now. Please

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Speaker 1: tell us how we can help heal you textually.

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Speaker 3: Oh please help heal me.

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Speaker 4: Heal me, heal me. I like that.

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Speaker 3: I went to a dinner party at a girlfriend's house

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Speaker 3: the other night. I don't know, probably eight of us

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Speaker 3: like a decade, Like we went to college together, we

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Speaker 3: nobody drank too much?

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Speaker 1: Wow, I cannot relate. Yeah, how is it a party?

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Speaker 4: She's not friends with me? Obviously, just kidding. This sounds

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Speaker 4: lovely this sounds like a great night.

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Speaker 5: Oh it was great.

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Speaker 3: I mean she made this like incredible dinner with these

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Speaker 5: Anytime I hear goat cheese, I'm like, fancy it could

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Speaker 2: Be like, oh, so good to have a good friend

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Speaker 3: And that's why when I got a notification on my

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Speaker 3: was acting for a payment of twenty five dollars a request, well,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know. I thought it was some sort of mistake.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, hold up, your girlfriend was charging people for

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Speaker 2: And how is it twenty five a person? It's kind

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Speaker 5: Cheap.

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Speaker 2: Is there? It was there like a text thread.

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Speaker 4: You weren't in on, like everybody was chipping in, like

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Speaker 3: I know, I mean it didn't sound like that. It

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Speaker 3: And honestly, I kind of I think it's offensive, and

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Speaker 1: Have you hosted dinner parties before where anybody charged money

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Speaker 3: No, I mean we've absolutely all had parties together before

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that is weirder because if you had before, then

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Speaker 2: You guys mind chipping in.

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Speaker 4: Like it's crazy that she just went straight to Venmo,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and now there's like this whole other text chain

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Speaker 1: You've been nominated as the spokesperson for the entire group.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, are you closest with her? Is that why?

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Speaker 1: So you want to text her, Hey, you're out of

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Speaker 2: They meet her, she cooks.

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Speaker 3: Because no, it says for dinner.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay. Normally I don't advocate for something like this,

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Speaker 2: If you just say this?

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Speaker 4: What if you just say this, Like if we could

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Speaker 2: Everybody's really confused about this.

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Speaker 1: I think one why because it makes it seem more

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Speaker 3: God, okay, I mean there's the newest friend maybe even okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: So his name is Kevin. He's dating our other college

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Speaker 2: He's not going to just be like be like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know, I'm always going to be honest with you,

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Speaker 1: it's like Kevin told me that he thought your Venmo

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Speaker 2: What should I tell you is this conversation.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, don't ever try and charge me or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Maybe, but not right now. We just have to

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Speaker 3: Okay, I just I'm going to say, hey, lady, thanks

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Speaker 3: And this morning Kevin told me that the Venmo request

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Speaker 4: Well, I think you should write way over the line,

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Yeah, I think that's difference is going

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Speaker 5: And I kind of like leaving it as a question

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Speaker 4: No, yeah, yeah, yeah, But you can't side with your

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Speaker 2: How about just like I can't believe him?

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Speaker 1: And a finger snap emoji.

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Speaker 2: Nails, any of those up.

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Speaker 1: To you, Alyssa, this is your text.

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Speaker 2: Imagine what your group texting your friends, and he.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back start, we'll see if your friend has

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Speaker 1: responded when we continue textual healing. Man, it is tough

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Speaker 1: being better than Brooke in a girl's text conversation. I

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Speaker 4: I say better, you say better, I say more petty,

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Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Alyssa, after one of her best

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Speaker 2: Well, you decided, I don't know that. I want to

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Speaker 2: It's a date and one of the girls.

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Speaker 1: I'll read the text generally, what it said was, Hey, lady,

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Speaker 1: just being honest, Kevin messaged me this morning saying your

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Speaker 4: Why is Kevin talking to you?

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Speaker 2: Did? She respond?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Lissa, have you gotten a response?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I did, I totally got one.

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Speaker 1: What did your friends say?

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Speaker 3: She says, what does Kevin know? He can't even cook?

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Speaker 3: And then she's got an egg emoji.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's a good pay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. She also wrote, though he's lucky that Mirror is

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Speaker 5: Oh all right, so okay, so we stirred up a

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Speaker 5: bunch of drama for Kevin.

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Speaker 1: Now hopefully Kevin's not listening to this.

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Speaker 2: But that wasn't productive at all, was it?

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Speaker 5: I think it was because now we can defend Kevin

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Speaker 1: A lot interesting thought, But I disagree. I think we're

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Speaker 2: Comment, but then how do you ever back out and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to really get onto her good side

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Speaker 4: We're gonna sneak attacker that she shouldn't be charging her friends.

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Speaker 1: lucky to be with He's so lucky to be with Mira.

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Speaker 1: But don't you agree that it's rude what he said? Okay, broke,

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Speaker 1: before we do it? What's your dumb idea we should

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Speaker 1: say like hugging kids.

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Speaker 5: Huh.

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Speaker 2: But then I think that you have to say, well,

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Speaker 1: Let's get to that later. Okay, all right, let's just

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Speaker 5: Kevin down him ugly too. Let's just do this.

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Speaker 1: I'm kidding, I'm kidding.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. You just think like being direct with

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, but I kind of like when what Jeff saying, like, well,

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Speaker 1: And I think and I think if we can really

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Speaker 1: say you may have overstepped just a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, let's try it.

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Speaker 1: Let's see what she has to say. Okay, go ahead,

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Speaker 1: a list so you can send that.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh no, no, I already got it. It's already said.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, discussing for discussion. I mean I hope Kevin

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying I wouldn't go that far.

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Speaker 2: Somebody got to tell Kevin that you threw him under

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Speaker 2: up to everyone a.

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Speaker 1: Person that was like defending Kevin ten.

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Speaker 4: Seconds ago, like say, like, we're if kind of has

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Speaker 1: It's like a nice call, isn't.

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Speaker 5: That what we.

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Speaker 3: I got blue dots, I got okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna get a response here soon.

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Speaker 5: I call those drama doaths.

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Speaker 2: Got Oh that is good?

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Speaker 4: That Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I should have charged him more money. The meal

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, what did you do to Kevin Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: Was kind of funny, But you're just making money.

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Speaker 2: I think she's profited. You think that's going on the

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Speaker 2: right route right now?

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Speaker 5: I think now is when you have to defend Kevin

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Speaker 5: and say, look, I think twenty five is already.

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Speaker 1: A lot to ask. Don't do that to the poor guy.

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Speaker 4: Lo o L. I mean, at this point, are you

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Speaker 4: that was surprised by this.

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Speaker 1: Why would you want to be on Kevin's side.

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Speaker 2: Because he's lucky to be dating mirror.

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Speaker 1: Stop standing up for this guy, but he's nobody. I mean,

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Speaker 1: at any point, Elizabeth, Kevin actually complained during the meal.

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Speaker 3: No, No, he didn't complain at all.

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Speaker 2: He was like, complain maybe maybe this time.

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Speaker 3: Sorry what I say she's writing back already?

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Speaker 1: We didn't send anything.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: That's how girlfriend text go.

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Speaker 4: Like, I have some girls that like text me like one.

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Speaker 2: Especially if it's about drama.

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Speaker 1: What she's saying, Well.

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Speaker 3: She said, you don't think it was rude that I

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Speaker 3: asked you for money? Right?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Because I was out a lot of money. People drank

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, not.

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Speaker 2: Considering the wine you guys doing be wild? Yeah, Like

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Speaker 2: you bring your own wine to a dinner Why off

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Speaker 2: her wine?

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Speaker 4: No one shows up to a dinner party without a

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Speaker 1: It's just like that's just your thing. You carry wine

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Speaker 1: with you everywhere you win.

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Speaker 4: It's etiquette, Jeffrey, you don't show up to a dinner

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Speaker 5: But right now we're in Yeah, this is our end

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Speaker 5: now because she's asking you directly.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So the passive aggressive strategy you worked. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: whether you guys liked it or not. Now she's asking

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Speaker 1: Alyssa whether or not. It's okay, we're not telling her.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing.

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Speaker 4: You can't use rude in your You need to say

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Speaker 4: that it was surprising.

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Speaker 1: That's a good word.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: You can even still continue to throw Kevin under the

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Speaker 1: bus if you want to be like, look, I personally

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Speaker 5: Rude, but unexpected, absolutely surprising.

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Speaker 1: You're saying he's in the doghouse, but it sounds like

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Speaker 1: that's where he belonged to just be the guy to

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Speaker 1: all girls dinner party for.

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Speaker 2: I think that's good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it too. I mean, I think it

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Speaker 3: makes sense because then I'm writing again, writing that fine line.

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Speaker 3: The problem solved.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you could say, like I mean, you

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Speaker 4: could even add if you wanted to, it's surprising.

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Speaker 2: We didn't discuss it.

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Speaker 3: It's already sent. I even added a little bit at

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Speaker 3: the end, and I said, maybe if you gave us

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Speaker 3: a heads up before, Kevin wouldn't be so whiny next time.

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Speaker 1: That's nice.

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Speaker 5: That was shad you brought it back on to Kevin

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Speaker 5: at the end.

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Speaker 2: So do you feel like, I mean, maybe this.

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Speaker 4: Will bring some closure to the whole thing. You're still

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Speaker 4: going to pay it, though, like all your friends are

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Speaker 2: Pay it, right, I have to?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I guess we have to at this point.

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Speaker 5: But you set the tone for the next inner product.

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Speaker 2: Well, and she's the only one charged that the next

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Speaker 2: inner party is well.

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Speaker 1: Maybe Kevin's gonna pay for the whole freaking thing.

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Speaker 2: Did she write that?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah she did.

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Speaker 1: Actually, Okay, what'd you say?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, what does it say? Okay? So she

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Speaker 3: wrote back, she says, l You'll never believe it. Kevin

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Speaker 3: just paid me twice. I said, thanks for the great dinner.

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Speaker 3: What a kiss? And she's got that like laugh cry

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Speaker 1: That I hate him even more. I know, fifty you'll

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Speaker 1: probably never go back to a second one. Just sounds

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Speaker 1: so punishable, Kevin.

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Speaker 5: At least Kevin's got money or good for.

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Speaker 3: That's all I care about all this, All right.

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Speaker 1: I feel I feel like we've done our job. We've

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Speaker 1: healed you. I feel like I'm sorry I have done

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Speaker 1: our job. Yeah, thank so, you are welcome. Good luck

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Speaker 1: with this, Alyssa, thank you, thank you, thank you. Make

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Speaker 1: sure to reach out if you ever need help again,

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Speaker 1: but maybe just to me directly.

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Speaker 5: And if you get a vendor request from the show,

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Speaker 5: pay it because we need money.

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Speaker 1: Forward it, Kevin. It's textual healing. It's Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.