1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: I'm ready to leave my sister and her kids homeless. 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: And here is why. 3 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 2: Hey, there better be a fucking good reason. 4 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: You know, she left out that she left the cereal 5 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: box open, she forgot to stack the dishwasher. That is 6 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: that is worthy of kicking your own flesh and blood. 7 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: To the streets. I agree, I agree. I'd say ritual 8 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: sacrifice at that point, you know, just get her out 9 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 2: of here and off with her haste temple, rip out 10 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 2: their heart. I forgot. 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: The villain from Ratitui and Harvey are your top two impressions? 12 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 2: Absolutely crush those, allright. I'll see if I can gain 13 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 2: some more. 14 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, mic Pokemon, I forty four mail am a single 15 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 1: father to a fourteen year old daughter. I've raised her 16 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: on my own since her mother passed away ten years ago. 17 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: Since the beginning, I was not a fan of being 18 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: a strict father. I came from a household like that, 19 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: and all it did was give me a miserable childhood, 20 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: a strained relationship with my parents, and a corrap ton 21 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: of therapy. 22 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: I had strict parents, but I think it turned out 23 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 2: pretty well. 24 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: Or within reason. I feel like your parents. It's also 25 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: not like. 26 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 2: They didn't let me have sleepovers after. That's a little 27 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 2: bit able school to me, but you know, don't hurt me. 28 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 2: It wasn't allowed to watch rated R movies until I 29 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:17,279 Speaker 2: was eighteen. He's gonna keep going. What else? I wasn't 30 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 2: allowed to watch television ever? For the somberness in your 31 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 2: voice is just piercing right now. All of my friends 32 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 2: were scared of my parents. Was it more your mom 33 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 2: or more your dad that they were scared of? No? No, no, 34 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 2: like that that kind of set this like super strict. 35 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 2: So I've said this like to other friends before, what 36 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 2: was great about my parents growing up? And I get 37 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 2: I love my parents, but in terms of strictness, they 38 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 2: were strict about completely different things. So between the two 39 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: of them, they encompassed being strict about everything in life. 40 00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: Right, that is very unfortunate. Yeah, I'm so so sorry. 41 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: So why kids shows and stuff like don't get the 42 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: references and. 43 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: Like, no, no, I I again, I think I told 44 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 2: you this before. Maybe I don't know if I did, 45 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 2: but like in fourth grade, Uh, my teacher had a 46 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 2: parent teacher conference with my parents. I remember was like, hey, 47 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 2: Sam's weird as fuck. It doesn't get any of the references. 48 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 2: The kids are talking about, like for his social sanity, 49 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 2: can you please get him at television? Wow, I don't. 50 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm I'm impressed or not about 51 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: that from the teacher. 52 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, I'm like the you know, like in 53 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 2: Mean Girls where the girl comes from Africa and she's like, 54 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 2: doesn't know anything. That's basically Sam's basically from Africa. Basically 55 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 2: from my one of my one of my my teachers 56 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 2: in uh in high school would always pronounce Africa Africa. 57 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: That is strange. Is that like how it's pronounced? I 58 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 2: do not think so Africa Africa like that? That is 59 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 2: very strange. I've never heard that pronunciation. 60 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: In my life. 61 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 2: Okay, but what do we know? But what do we know? Everything? 62 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: Now, two weeks ago, my sister's house got flooded and 63 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 1: they found out that the foundation rotted. I offered to 64 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: let them move into my finished basement with a separate entrance. 65 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: So right now, her husband, three sons sixteen, thirteen to nine, 66 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: and her are all living in my three bedroom house 67 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: of basements. 68 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 2: And they're chained to the fucking floor. They're just like, 69 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 2: please let us out. 70 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: Usually they have their life and we have hours but 71 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: we hang out a couple of hours every day. Now 72 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: that's where the trouble started, all right. Like I said, 73 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: I don't have too many rules for my daughter. As 74 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: long as I know where she is and she's back 75 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: by nine, she's free to go wherever within limits. Of course, 76 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: I do not control what she wears or her makeup, 77 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: as long as she follows to school dress code and 78 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: of course dresses appropriately on special occasions. 79 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 2: She doesn't have a bedtime. I do not check in 80 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 2: if she's done her homework and she has a lock 81 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: on her door, and I ask for permission before going in. 82 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 2: If she doesn't like what I plan for a meal, 83 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 2: she's free to either cook something else or to order takeout, 84 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 2: as long as she uses her own money twice a week. 85 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 2: I think that's okay. 86 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: So this is like I feel like this is a 87 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 1: really nice guard rail. Of there's structure there, but she 88 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: has enough freedom movement to kind of operate independently, which 89 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: is actually great. Now, these rules are a result of 90 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: me having a good kid, her earning my trust, and 91 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: me wanting her to grow up as independent as possible 92 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: while learning to self regulate and keep safety in mind. 93 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: Kind of sounds like great parenting to me in all honesty. 94 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: My sister, on the other hand, is very strict. Oh no, 95 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 1: want to eat too bad? 96 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 2: No, I'm just kidding. 97 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: She has her kids on a set routine. They are 98 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 1: not allowed to have closed doors except while changing. 99 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: That's what my parents had really Wow, Okay, but. 100 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: But the door, like closing the door for the night 101 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: to go to sleep. 102 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 2: They I mean they could, but like they could bust 103 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: in at any time the door was unlocked. 104 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: A locked doors, that's I mean, that's different than like, uh, 105 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: the door has to be open at all times. Fair 106 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 1: well you know that. Yeah, that's still that's still kind 107 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: of crazy. I'm praying his parents don't hear this. 108 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: I hates this show. She'll never listen, all right. She 109 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 2: checks their electronics all the time. They're rarely allowed to 110 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: go anywhere. They eat what she cooked, or they starve 111 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 2: if she allows them to eat what she made that is. 112 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 2: And she's so on top of their schooling that I 113 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:48,280 Speaker 2: feel bad for the teachers. She's always emailing them, calling them, 114 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 2: or even just going to the school to bother them. 115 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: They do not get any pocket money, they're not allowed 116 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 2: to work, and even the sixteen year old has to 117 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 2: go to bed at nine on weekdays and ten on weekends. Yo. 118 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 2: I had to be bad like nine on weekends. Yeah, 119 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 2: I wasn't allowed anywhere. Wow, that's so interesting. 120 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: That's very interesting that you turned out as you given 121 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: those like very strict Zia went wild in college. 122 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, wild wild, wild boy. That's what you do. 123 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 2: That's what you do. Yo, no guardrails. I'm gonna fucking explode. Now. 124 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 1: I do not agree with her parenting style, but I 125 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,839 Speaker 1: keep my opinions to myself. But now, Sam, yes, she 126 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: is demanding that I give my daughter more rules. 127 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 2: Why dude, it's not your kid, that's what you ask. 128 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: But here's the thing, because her kids are comparing themselves 129 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: to their cousin and now they're rebelling. 130 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 2: Yeah makes sense, makes sense. I understand why the mom 131 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 2: is pissed. But if I had a cousin living with 132 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 2: me during what like during high school that was totally free, 133 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 2: I would be like, what the fuck? Yeah, you'd be pissed. 134 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 2: Like it's one thing to like have your friends have 135 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 2: completely different like schedules, but have family living with you 136 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: have completely different schedules and and maybe some of them 137 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 2: being younger than you, and having more lax rules. I 138 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 2: would be like, yo, Jimmy is ten years old and 139 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: he has a later bedtime than me. That would be 140 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 2: watched Jimmy's ten years old and could watch rated our movies. 141 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: Ooh, we should have we should go back and we 142 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: should build a time machine, go back in time and 143 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: then like flood your your relative's basement exactly forced them 144 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: to move in with you and then. 145 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: And see what happens. I wasn't allowed to watch it 146 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 2: rated our movie until eighteen John. I was like so 147 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 2: so for me, like it was that way, and. 148 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: Then it kind of just loosely unraveled as we got 149 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: like pretty much in high school, it like they set 150 00:07:56,640 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: standards that were like, but your buddy didn't even swear no, no, 151 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: they was she but she wasn't strict. I mean they 152 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: didn't want me like m games no uh even tea 153 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: like rated games, but it was less it was less 154 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: explicitly stated and and they would state stuff. But then 155 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: as gradually as we kind of got older, they started 156 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: to unravel. And by the time I was a senior 157 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 1: in high school, like but also I was like, I 158 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: didn't drink, I didn't do I didn't do anything, So 159 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: I would get do anything either. 160 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 2: So I didn't So I do SI, Bro, and my 161 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 2: I would like be coming home from like swim practice, 162 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 2: right and like there would be like chlorine in the pool, 163 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 2: so my eyes would be red. Yeah. I would come 164 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 2: home at like seven after having been swimming for two 165 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 2: hours and like, why your eyes so red? Sam? I'm like, Bro, 166 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 2: I've been swimming in the pool with chlorine. You picked 167 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: me up from swim practice. 168 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,679 Speaker 1: Guys, I'd like I'd like to announce our latest podcasts 169 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: dissecting Sam's childhood trauma, called Unleashing Sam, the story of 170 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: a boy who couldn't stay out past nine pm. 171 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 2: I was like locked into my freaking room. Wow, Rapunzel, 172 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 2: what would you do? Like study? I would do latine 173 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 2: till like two am. 174 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:31,839 Speaker 1: What a waste? What an absolute waste? I would I 175 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: didn't go to a party until college. I also did 176 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: I go to no I went to like friends stuff. 177 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 1: I get very low key, John, I get it. 178 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 2: This is so funny. Man went to prom with hooking 179 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 2: up with told girl the same though, Actually get you 180 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 2: went on eight dates while making out with some other girl. 181 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 2: You know that I did do that. That's that's accurate. 182 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's I was getting home at like 183 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 1: four am by the time. 184 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I just rub it in my face. 185 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm so sorry. I'm so so, so so sorry. 186 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: Anyways, we'll put Sam's trauma in a box over there 187 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 1: and get back with this story here. 188 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 2: That's what I've done so over twis so. 189 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: I told her straight to her face. She either keeps 190 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: her opinion to herself and parents her kids at least 191 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 1: my daughter to me, or she's free to live on 192 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: the streets. 193 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, get out of my basement, bitch, Get out of here, 194 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 2: Get out of here. 195 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,559 Speaker 1: She says that I'm the a hole because I don't 196 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: know how my lax parenting style is only adding more 197 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: stress to her already stressful life and threatening her with 198 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 1: homelessness is a low blow. So am I the a hole? 199 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: And there's a slight edit. Okay, my sister and her family, No, 200 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: they're not supposed to go to the second floor without permission, 201 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 1: that's where me and my daughter live. Well, my nephew's 202 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: art to go there and hang out with my cousin 203 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 1: in her room without their mother being able to get 204 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: to them. And when she does, my daughter's door is 205 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: usually locked and she has to wait for her to 206 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 1: open it. She's convinced that they're hiding something in my 207 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: daughter's room. They're vaping and doing drugs. 208 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 2: The jewels, yeah too fair. They could be jeweling. They 209 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 2: could be jewel epidemic. 210 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:27,119 Speaker 1: All they are doing is having some freedom and privacy 211 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: away from her constant monitoring. So Sam as the resident 212 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: strict parent victim as our resident expert on trauma from. 213 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 2: From strict parents. To be completely clear, I had a 214 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 2: great childhood. 215 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: Sam had a traumatic, trauma filled childhood. 216 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 2: I love my parents a lot. They were just maybe unreasonably. 217 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: He is secretly crying for help. It is his coded language. 218 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:56,319 Speaker 1: Now I'm just kidding. He does love his parents and parents, 219 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: and his parents. 220 00:11:56,720 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 2: Are My parents are awesome, but like, I mean, I 221 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 2: could see my mom being mad about something like this, 222 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: or my dad, especially my dad was like a no, 223 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 2: no locks kind of person. 224 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: So that's so, what do they think about you now, 225 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: like running around and oh they hate it? 226 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 2: So like so like like if I if I wasn't 227 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,319 Speaker 2: like like like doing things in the world and being 228 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 2: like somewhat successful in my endeavors, I think they would 229 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 2: be a lot like more pissed. Yeah, but I think 230 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 2: because like, like I think, if you like achieve to 231 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 2: a high degree, then they're like they're not really worried. 232 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 2: But like I still I tell my parents everything. Yeah, 233 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 2: like I tell them absolutely everything, and so I have 234 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 2: a very honest relationship with them. They just like don't 235 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 2: approve most of what I do. 236 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: Right, Honestly, I think that's the best way to go 237 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:51,719 Speaker 1: about It's like, this is what it is. 238 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 2: I'm doing it. You live on your own, you're paying 239 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 2: for yourself, so there's like not much they can't do 240 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 2: anything they can do about it. Yeah, that's how I was. 241 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm out of here, so what can 242 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 2: you do? Can't do shit? Mama, just kidding. I love 243 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 2: my parents. We both love our parents. 244 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad did try to make me sign a 245 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: contract saying I would not drop. 246 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 2: Out of college. How did that turn out? I did 247 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: that shit anyway? Sucker. 248 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 1: If you thought that was crazy, check out this one 249 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: where op does throw a sister on the streets. 250 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 2: Click to watch or check the link description.