1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: What's that? What's up this litt service? I'm Angela yee, 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 1: I'm g g McGuire, I'm Luria And we got another 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: version we got to sell Bryant be nice for me. 4 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: He's a little service version. But I know you can 5 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: handle it because I see how while you handle yourselves 6 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 1: umbal housewives up potomach. So you got this, thank you, 7 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 1: But there's so much for you to talk about right now. 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of things that are great 9 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 1: the second time around. Yes, Angela, I do. When I 10 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: did Breakfast Club, I think the first time we talked 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: about like could you would you ever go back? And um, 12 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: could you consider yourself for giving him? And I was 13 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 1: like no, And here we are allway, say what did 14 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: he do? Let's I want to jump right into it. 15 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 1: What did he do to get you back? Good graces? 16 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna keep it read. There's a lot of 17 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: guys who need this advice, right. A lot of guys 18 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: sent me up like you're trying to get my girl back. 19 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my wife back. I'm stuff. So 20 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: what did he do? You know? He and I have 21 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: been the best of friends, as he relates to our 22 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: children since we got divorced. Um. I mean, of course, 23 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: when we first got divorced, it was like rough and 24 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: mean and nasty. But as time went by, we've always 25 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: had a great friendship and I think that held us together. 26 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: And then you know, he started saying sweet nothings to 27 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: me and talking about futuristic things, meaning I'm about the 28 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: term fifty y'all can believe it or not. And so 29 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: he would always be like, like three years ago, he 30 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: was like, so, what we're doing on your fifty and birthday? 31 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,559 Speaker 1: What do you want for your birthday? Gifts three years 32 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: from now? So things like that always let me know 33 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: that you know, clearly he wants to see us back together, 34 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: and he just kept being consistent. Gods needs to realize 35 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: consistency is key, Like you patients, Yes, yes, if you 36 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: if you want that prize at the end of the rainbow, 37 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: you gotta be consistent. You gotta keep knocking at that 38 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: door at the same time every day without man. Now, 39 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 1: did you ever bring up to him like old issues 40 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: or anything like that, or did you just let it 41 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: all go once did the vorce happened? Yes, of course 42 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: we had. We had to lay all the cards on 43 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: the table and talk about everything, because I'm not the 44 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: kind of girl that wants to hear things from other 45 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: people in the street. Right, I don't want to hear, 46 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 1: So don't put me the position that I'm hearing stuff 47 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: in the street and you're taking a note. Girl. I 48 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: just like he can keep his raccoons. She she thinks 49 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: that g is gonna go back to her. I'm not 50 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 1: gonna this last I was God, I'm done, I'm done. No, 51 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: you don't. You never say never. It's what I'm gonna saying. 52 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: At the end of the day. He probably knows you 53 00:02:55,639 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: better than any other man that you have been encounters with. Right, 54 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: you also knows his raccoons very well, so he can 55 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: keep them because they carry diseases. They like to go 56 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: through my trash every time. I feel his ass away. Okay, 57 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: it was like, okay, you're not there yet, but you 58 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: know what you need to. But I think helped us 59 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: is people doing had other relationships. I had plenty of 60 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: other relationships. Like, no, neither one of us we was 61 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: sitting around pining for the other one. It's just happened. 62 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: It worked when the timing was right. I had your 63 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: last wife, friend, I'm sorry, like not personally, but like 64 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: to put you up next to each other. I just 65 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: feel like you're beautiful, and I know everything's not about look, 66 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: but I'm like, this guy don't deserve her just off 67 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: of look. I know it wasn't just that he wasn't 68 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: showing up. Before I even got get to show up. Part. 69 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: I just seen the picture of them and I was like, 70 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: just you are beautiful. That looks. It's not about that, 71 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,839 Speaker 1: it's not, but she felt pretty. She doesn't, you know 72 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: to me? So thank you like him either, That's why 73 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: he's gone. So just out let me ask you this. 74 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: Did you have to put all your cards on the 75 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: table of like everything that you did, who you've been 76 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: involved with? And were you ever in love with anybody 77 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: like you were in love with him? Because I know 78 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 1: he doesn't think you could have been happy without him. Um, 79 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:20,799 Speaker 1: I thought at the time that I was with another 80 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 1: dude that I that I was, But in reality, though, like, 81 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: there's nobody that I know more than that man than Jamal. 82 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: He's actually here right now. He's on another zoom. So 83 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: if you hear this booming voice is him. He knows 84 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: me better than anybody. I know him better than anybody. 85 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: So right there, right there, cancels out everybody else and 86 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: how I might have felt now I could have been 87 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: in love with other things about other guys, you know 88 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, you know certain things and certain 89 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: guys you really like, but overall picture not um, no 90 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: nobody else other than being really persistent. Was there certain 91 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: changes that you saw with your mom that you were like, 92 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: oh my god, he's really a different man, absolutely, Like 93 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: I saw maturity, like any time a guy is while 94 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: you know, a guy in his twenties, because that's when 95 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: we met, and he's doing things that you don't appreciate, 96 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: raccoon's he's doing raccoon things. Then I didn't see that anymore. 97 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: Like I saw growth. I saw a maturity. I saw 98 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: a man as opposed to a boy. How did you girl? 99 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: How does your girls feel about? Um? You guys as 100 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: parents being back together? And at first they were like, 101 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: I think the more excited you are. Right right? At 102 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 1: first they were like, well, like daddy lives here, mommy 103 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: lives here, and we enjoy both separate places. Um, But 104 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: now that we've spent so much time together as a 105 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: family unit, they get it and they see our love 106 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: for each other. So they understand when did they have 107 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 1: to say when they look back that at the episode? 108 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: Because I also think you talking to Andy and you 109 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: he basically said that throughout this season that it's not 110 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: gonna get any better their love for you being back 111 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 1: when their father, So, how was it for them seeing 112 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: theirselves on the TV like this when y'all was like 113 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: tonguing on the phone and stuff. Um, see, my kids 114 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: are shady. They get just that where they get that from? Okay, 115 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: get honest. They dad is shady. They they're very outspoken, um, 116 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: which I do appreciate. So and they give me a 117 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 1: hard time. So you've to understand. Filming is like in 118 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: a capsule. Were filmed for like three or four months, 119 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 1: so they were feeling that feeling within those months. And 120 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 1: that's fine. Um, you know, I'm always gonna give them 121 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: the room to feel whatever it is that you need 122 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: to feel, because this is a journey, this is not 123 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 1: a race. Did that hurt his feelings? To see them 124 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: like why are they back to you know? This is weird? 125 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: Did that hurt him? And I don't necessarily hurt him? 126 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: They get he gets it. He understands. I mean, really, 127 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: adults here, we've it it. We have never our parents 128 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: were um together. Both of our parents were together while 129 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: we were growing up, so we don't understand the whole 130 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: divorce thing. My parents didn't get divorced until they were 131 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: married for thirty five years, so the whole divorce thing 132 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: is something that we have to like lean on them 133 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: to share their feelings and to understand through them. Um, 134 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: but he gets it. I mean, my girls are very vocal. 135 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: They share all their feelings, which is a good thing. 136 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: Great thing is it really is? It is the test 137 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: you to talk to you. That's that's what I was 138 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: about to say. I'm a mother and I went through 139 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: a period of point in time with my daughter when 140 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: she was around middle school age where she hated me, 141 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: like I was the worst person ever, and we didn't 142 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: agree on a lot of things and our communication was off. 143 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: But once we got past that home and things got better, 144 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: I feel like the fact that she was able to 145 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: communicate her feelings with me was such more, you know, 146 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: a greater thing than her being like, bitch, don't talk 147 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: to me. I don't like you right now, you know, 148 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: I think you got over that hump and now she 149 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: feels like she can come to me and tell me anything. 150 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: As a mother, I just feel like that's amazing because 151 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: you want to be able to open that line of 152 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: communication with your especially girls. Yeah, no, I totally agree, 153 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 1: and I I joke with them because they give me 154 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: a hard time. But I wouldn't have it any other way. Like, 155 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to be the parent that doesn't know 156 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 1: what's going on because you feel like you can't talk 157 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: to me. No, that that's you're right, Like you need 158 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: to have those open lines of communications. So what was 159 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: that reunion getting back together? First night? Back into dad? 160 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: Like here we go, say yeah that, Wow, isn't like 161 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: roding rodding a bike or rod I mean you pick 162 00:08:55,480 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: it right back up like Bason lady. Yeah, it's all good. 163 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: Anything techniques better was Yeah, nothing was different. Who taught 164 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: you that? Y'all ain't right? Okay? Older it changes of course, 165 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: Like you know, if you have been with somebody for 166 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: twenty some years, clearly we're gonna need to evolve with 167 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: the chips, right, there was the evolution God that just 168 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: could only just as good as you remembered it. He 169 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: was like, touchdown, I'm back in the game. Baby. That 170 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: mean y'all all here sinning though, because you because in 171 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: the eyes of the Lord, we were married. So we're 172 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: still married. Okay, thank you. I like that. I like 173 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: how you put that. Now. One thing I would say, 174 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 1: um from watching from season and season that I thought 175 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: was kind of funny with the ladies, I felt like 176 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: they single shamed you a lot. You know what I mean? 177 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: Do you think that there is anything wrong with being 178 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: a single woman and and dating because they made it 179 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: seem like it was like the worst thing, right, No, 180 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 1: and we need to stop doing that, Like there's nothing 181 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: wrong with me being single or any woman being single? 182 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: What's wrong with I'm picky? What's wrong with I'm not 183 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: just trying to be with any man that rolls up 184 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 1: on me. No, I want to make sure that whatever 185 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: whoever I'm with is who I really want to be with. 186 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: So that means that I've got to say no to 187 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 1: a couple of people to get to that guy. Then 188 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: you shouldn't as a girlfriend. You shouldn't be treating me 189 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 1: like I don't know how to get a man. I 190 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: don't know how to hold out a relationship. Something's wrong 191 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: with me? Like, that's not cool. We need to stop 192 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 1: doing that to each other. I can actually does that 193 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: to me all the time. But that's the fact going 194 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 1: at that day, and you have to test the waters, 195 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: I find out what it is you like and who 196 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: you really want to be with, Like you always tell 197 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: people right there, you gotta date and you gotta go 198 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: shod and you got to figure out, Yeah, atually be 199 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: I'd rather be alone than in a relationship and miserable, 200 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: because I think there's a lot of people who would 201 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 1: be in a relationship just for the sake of saying 202 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 1: that they're in one and they're miserable. And sometimes you 203 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 1: could be way lonelier in a relationship than if you're single. 204 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: Like you feel so lonely when you're sleeping in the 205 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: bed next to somebody already not even sleeping in the 206 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: bed with you, and you feel like you're all alone. 207 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 1: That's the worst feeling I think than really be like 208 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 1: Karen and then you gotta go and step out. What 209 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: is it that one was separated for a while from 210 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: her husband, But I felt like each and every time 211 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: when she lied about the kind of but she's still 212 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: a shaming you about not having a husband. So that's 213 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 1: what confused me in and like the whole thing because 214 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 1: it was very like, well, I have a husband, and 215 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter that she's trying to keep up appearances. 216 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if you're happy or not. It was 217 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: just like I have a husband, period, Like they hurt 218 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: my heart and he wouldn't even say nothing to her. 219 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: She was like, I just want to hear those three words, 220 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: right like if for man is with me and he 221 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 1: can't even say I love you, and I'm prompting you 222 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: to say and he still can't say it, and the 223 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: cameras are rolling um at least on the cameras now 224 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: and used to leave because he's miserable too. You you're 225 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: not the only one miserable in the relationship. He's miserable too. 226 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: Right now when we see a lot of people are 227 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: passion that relationships to like your good friend robbing and one. Now, 228 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 1: I want to ask you this because they try to 229 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: act like it was shady, like something was about papping 230 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 1: when you went to go meet with one. And then 231 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,680 Speaker 1: I started thinking because I didn't never think that, like 232 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: I think it was quite clear what was about to 233 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: go down. He was going to talk to you about proposing. 234 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: Have you ever had a friend that you didn't trust 235 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: around your man? Yes, No, I've had girlfriends, yeah, and 236 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: I don't trust them around me. Absolutely, y'all all have 237 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: come on now, I was asking us, I was asking you, 238 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: oh yeah, like and to the point where let's say 239 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: we're all out to dinner and she goes to the bathroom. 240 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: I'm going to because I don't wanna be at the 241 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: table with her dude and he gets slicked and say 242 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: something about his mouth to me. Because that then I'm 243 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: kind of like, it makes me feel like do I 244 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,719 Speaker 1: tell her? Am I good enough friend to tell her 245 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: that her man is over here talking crazy? You know? 246 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 1: It just men don't understand how horrible that of a 247 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: position that puts us in. Like they just think it's 248 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: cute because they're trying to see whether they can shoot 249 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: this shot. No, it's not cute. Like to this day, 250 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: I got three girlfriends I can rundown right now. I 251 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 1: haven't told them, but every single one of their dudes 252 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: like came at me sideways, and and they're married, Like, 253 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: so it's I hate it. That's a hard one because 254 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: that could break up a marriage. And but then at 255 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: the same time, it's hard to not tell your friend that, right, 256 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: So I've out of all of the girlfriends that I have, 257 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: how do we get on this subject? Um, I'm only 258 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: told one that I knew her husband was stepping out 259 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: because like the whole town, right, And I was like, look, 260 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: I don't I don't care what you do with this information, 261 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: but this is the girl he's sleeping with. This is 262 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 1: what it is. And everybody knows. You don't whack fire. 263 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: Or Um, she took she took it, and she she 264 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: and I are still friends, they're still together. Um he 265 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: denied it, of course, but she knows, but she knows 266 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: he's fine, So it's fine. I would love to say 267 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 1: something now he hates you or she didn't tell him 268 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: her source. I don't know. I never told. I said, 269 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: I told her. I don't want to discuss this again everything, 270 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 1: So that's not your friend, right, I'll tell again. Like, so, 271 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: what about the other women? Do you feel like you 272 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 1: kind of like push yourself away from being friends with them, 273 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: not necessarily because you don't want to be friends with them, 274 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: but because you don't want their husband to ever, you know, 275 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: over step their boundaries again. No, we're still totally cool everything. 276 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: I just act like, you know, I'm I'm real good 277 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: about acting like I don't know what's happening, like I 278 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: can act like Betty Boot like happening here, like is 279 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: this really happening? So I hated it like that just 280 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 1: because I think it's unfair for the guy then to 281 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 1: come in between my friendship with my girlfriend, Like girlfriends 282 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: are hard to find, so I don't want him to 283 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: destroy my relationship with my girlfriend. So no, I've I've 284 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 1: remained friends. Actually, if that happens, please tell me. Okay, yeah, 285 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm telling Angelis stuff before. Angelis told me stuff before, 286 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: but she's not at me if I say something back, 287 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 1: what like how I just been saying like I don't 288 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: care if the guy don't like me, whatever, whatever. Leave 289 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: talking about this. Numerous times, you feel like I shouldn't 290 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: tell the guy, like oh, well this person told me 291 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: that you were doing actual y Z, it's your more stuff. 292 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: I don't think it should matter who told you. That's 293 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: what I said. Why somebody specifically says, don't tell him 294 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 1: I told you, but here is the information, and then 295 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: now he's mad at the person. I don't think that 296 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: even matters if it's true or if it's if it's true, 297 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: it's true, he's gonna deny it anyway, you know, to me, 298 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: and he's like and then he's like, I'm a spin 299 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 1: on her when I see here, I'm a slapper. And 300 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: then for what, I don't feel like there's anything wrong 301 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: with saying who told it? Like with me personally, I'll 302 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: be like, suck it, just say I said it, you 303 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: know what I mean, because at the point in time, 304 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: it's gonna come to the forefront of who said it anyway, 305 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: so we might as well just get it out. And 306 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm the type of person to be like, yeah, I 307 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: said it, What are we gonna do? You know what 308 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: I mean? So I guess it just like depends on 309 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: the person, your friend or whatever the case, like what 310 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: you can do moving forward. That's why you told one 311 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: friend and the other one you didn't because you knew 312 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: how she would take that news out there, right, Because 313 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: I had people who would be like, don't tell anybody 314 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: I told you this, but that's weird, no, because they 315 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: want to stay out of it. And it also could 316 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: be a situation you want to shut the hell up, 317 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: but they want you to know. You know what I'm saying, 318 00:16:56,480 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: but they don't. I had a situation where this um 319 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: guy told me about my friends husband with cheating on her, 320 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 1: but he worked for somebody and he would have lost 321 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: his job. So I'm not gonna tell on you because 322 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:11,640 Speaker 1: of that, Like I don't want you to lose your job, 323 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 1: So I take into consideration other people. It's like they 324 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: might have to do business with somebody. You don't want 325 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: to make them feel awkward, so get somebody. Then. You know, 326 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 1: we're very good and not saying where we got something from, 327 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 1: but telling you we know something, and you have no 328 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 1: idea how we found out. Did she go through my phone? 329 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 1: Did you go through my messages? Did she sees something? 330 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: And we're really good at framing things, so you don't 331 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: know where we heard it from. And then the next thing, 332 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 1: you know, you tell us more than we knew in 333 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:37,640 Speaker 1: the first place. I think it depends on the circumstances, 334 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: like you gotta weigh all the pros and cons. Well, 335 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: how did you find out about Jamal when that first happened. 336 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 1: Let's go around. I think somebody told me, Yeah, somebody 337 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 1: told like the world on the street, and you believe 338 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 1: them at first that you were like, no, um, I 339 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 1: can't remember, but that when I asked him, he told 340 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 1: he was awesome. Okay, that's rare picture evidence. I ever 341 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 1: finding it out from you know, word on the street. 342 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:10,719 Speaker 1: Where you ever suspicious that he had anything going on? 343 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 1: Did you ever talk? No more. There was no type 344 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 1: of intuition that was telling you something ain't right, So 345 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: you were bit by the fact when it came through 346 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: from Yeah, and it could have been you know, at 347 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 1: the time, I was having baby after baby after baby, 348 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 1: like I had a lot of kids. I was, you know, 349 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 1: and mommy mode. Um, you know, I just I wasn't 350 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: even you know how sometimes you get the spidy senses. 351 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: I wasn't. My senses were in the trash can, Like 352 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 1: I wasn't even in that frame of mind to even 353 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 1: think something might be happening. So now, yes, sensence was 354 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 1: like my kids is hungry, let me go feed my kids. 355 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 1: Like it wasn't about no one exhausted. Yeah. So I 356 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: think that's how guys get away with stuff too. It's like, 357 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: once you get really busy and you can't really focus 358 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: on them, it's like so easy for them to like snit, 359 00:18:57,080 --> 00:19:00,080 Speaker 1: like slide and do something when you're not really you know, 360 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: looking for that, paying attention to that. Yeah, And no, no, 361 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: um excuses for for the behavior, but like I wasn't 362 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 1: paying attention to him, right, I was overwhelmed with children. 363 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 1: I had three kids under three. Yeah, that's understandable. Yeah 364 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 1: it was it was babies. I mean it was pampers 365 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:24,919 Speaker 1: and milk. I was overwhelmed hearing about it. Cal I 366 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: needed I needed nap right now. Right with all that 367 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: being said, what do you think about Ashley in her situation? 368 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: Because I saw the previews for some upcoming episodes, and 369 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: I guess he was propositioning women in the club offering 370 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: to pay for sex or something like that, but it 371 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 1: just went out. It was just women on this it's 372 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: just the season. It was just women. Um and he yes, 373 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 1: we took a I'm not trying. I'm not don't want 374 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: to give it away, but we were all out of 375 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 1: town and that um information came to Ashley, and yeah, 376 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 1: that's some mess. I mean, Michael. Michael is like relentless. 377 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: It don't ever stop for him. So I just have 378 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: to pray for her. Their relationship is always the one 379 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 1: that we're like, clearly they're getting divorced, Like in any 380 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 1: second now they're gonna get divorced. And they and they 381 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: come on together It's unbelievable to me because I would 382 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 1: have thought like, all right, maybe one time I get it, like, 383 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: you know, maybe somebody sail, but like seven times at 384 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:26,119 Speaker 1: this point it's like, dude did something. I don't know 385 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 1: which one of the things he did because back that 386 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: works on production on this show that at this point, 387 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 1: it's like and then he tried to lie. See this 388 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 1: is what I didn't like how he was like, that's 389 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: not what you heard, Like, who are you talking to 390 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:43,199 Speaker 1: out right there the microphone? What do you mean that 391 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: was a mask? But let me tell you, by the 392 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: time the season is over, Michael is going to prove 393 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 1: himself to be what y'all think he is ten times over, 394 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: Like he's going it's a whole lot with Michael. So 395 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 1: just can't wait. I can't wait because I was in 396 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 1: the first couple episodes and I was like, you know, 397 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: things on this show are very like chill, calm. But 398 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 1: then I've seen the previews of what's to come and 399 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: I was like, uh, we started out over our head 400 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 1: with the crazy you or you know what you franchise? 401 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 1: What do you feel about Monique? Because I also seen 402 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 1: something recently where Karen was trying to say that you 403 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: had some kind of jealousy, which, um, are you know 404 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 1: watching from outside looking and I don't see the jealousy. 405 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: I can see, if anything, I can see competition. And 406 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why. I feel like in this 407 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 1: show off top from when it started. You were the 408 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 1: start of the show, Like it just is what it is. 409 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 1: And um, I feel like now she's come along and 410 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: she's gotten a lot of you know, fans or friends, 411 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: and now they're kind of like penning you two against 412 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: each other. Can you tell me where you think it is? Um? 413 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,479 Speaker 1: That has been her number one thing? Oh gosh, yourselves 414 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: jealous of meself? Jealous of what? I don't even get it. 415 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 1: And I don't even live my life like that, Like 416 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: I love my life. I think my life is great, 417 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 1: So I don't understand that. However, she you're You're absolutely correct. 418 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: Her fans are like, you know, we're coming to tear 419 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 1: Jizel down to get out of here. She needs to 420 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 1: leave the show, and like that's not even productive. Like 421 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 1: my lane is my lane, You're a lane, is your lane. 422 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 1: We can all rock our lanes like we're not We 423 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: shouldn't be in competition. We should just be here killing 424 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 1: our lanes, Like, I don't even like that whole Let's 425 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,640 Speaker 1: tear each other down so that that makes you look 426 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 1: bigger and better. No, it makes you look like you're 427 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 1: tearing people down. So I don't like it at all. 428 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 1: You know people She'll go on Twitter and she'll go 429 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 1: hard in the paint, just terrorizing not only me, robbing Candice, everybody. 430 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 1: And it's like, does that make you look better because 431 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 1: you're telling people down? No, it makes you look crazy. 432 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: Actually he thinks her husband. Yeah, as the word in 433 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: the street, the baby ain't even not a baby no 434 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 1: more yet we'll see that play out. But that was 435 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 1: a romer um actually two years ago, and we didn't 436 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 1: even talk about it last season, but it came up 437 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:25,640 Speaker 1: this She didn't right right, but it came up this season, 438 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: so we talked about it. But um, you know, I 439 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 1: don't know if I had to come back home to 440 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: that big dude. I don't know, big guy, do you 441 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 1: have a cheating on anybody? Not my husband? Now? Like 442 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: when I was like, I'm sorry, yes, but I decided 443 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: once I a single girl could do what she wants. Um, 444 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 1: once I got married, I was like, absolutely not, I'm 445 00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 1: going to live up to my bows? Did you get 446 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 1: clute cheating? Yeah? How what happened? Girls? One dude? Like 447 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: this is really bad. I can't believe I'm telling you 448 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,399 Speaker 1: all this. This was college days, so this is really 449 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: count in college. Yeahs to get it out, you says 450 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: every time like that when you do it. Morning and 451 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 1: went and told my boyfriend like that day like you 452 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 1: have a sister A week like I was so undone 453 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,400 Speaker 1: and I and I there was nothing I could say 454 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 1: because he knew I wasn't with him the night before, 455 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I didn't come back. 456 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 1: He had an apartment. I didn't come back to the apartment. 457 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 1: So yeah, that that was. That was pretty bad. And 458 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 1: with that happening, I was like, I'm sorry, what do 459 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 1: you mean? I didn't mean it? Like I didn't need 460 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:57,159 Speaker 1: it because let me tell y'all, and y'all can understand this. 461 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: It wasn't good, sou the way the word of a 462 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: body not even worth it? Uh? It was it was, sir. 463 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,919 Speaker 1: If I can't right, hum, it probably made you never 464 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 1: want to eat again. I'm gonna say that, but I'm 465 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:22,679 Speaker 1: gonna say I like all it is like I was 466 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,479 Speaker 1: the he mean the s guy together for two years 467 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: and we had like ship. I don't even know what 468 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 1: I was saying. I just yeah, how did he bag you? 469 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: How did the other guy bag you for the night? 470 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 1: What did he even do? I don't I don't even 471 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: really know. I kind of like succumbed to the pressure, 472 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: Like I think I had won too many dreams. So 473 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, you know it's good. This 474 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: conversation is not doing me any favors. Okay, they're gonna 475 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,160 Speaker 1: go back again, because you know sometimes that one time 476 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: you do it, it's not good, but then you go 477 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,199 Speaker 1: back the second time and it's much better. No, I 478 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 1: never went because I don't have no respect for him, 479 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 1: Like he has gotta tell you thought my life? What 480 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: do you say anything? Didn't he say it was good? 481 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 1: At least did he did he say he was good? No, 482 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 1: he said it was good. Like at least he tell 483 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 1: your boyfriend like, yo, we had a great time. No, 484 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 1: he just wanted to be able to tell my boyfriend 485 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,359 Speaker 1: that he was with me, that that was the He 486 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 1: had a personal vendata against the boyfriend, right, who knows? 487 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 1: So how would you fail ip it with somebody that 488 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: you really was like in love with and they said 489 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 1: sex with you as a decent time that's never happened 490 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 1: and that will never happen. Do you feel like that's 491 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 1: disrespectful for somebody to say and sex of the decent time? Hell, yes, 492 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 1: that's disrespectful. I mean I need for him to be 493 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: looking at me like you're the best thing I hadn't 494 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: ever had. Okay, I mean you know decent? What is decent? 495 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 1: Just like so you think that, can't you think that 496 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,679 Speaker 1: Candid should apologize to her husband for saying it was 497 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 1: a decent time to have sex with him. Absolutely, like 498 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 1: that you browns for you need to go sleep on 499 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 1: the couch for a couple of days, Like that's not 500 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: even cool, Na, and that's your husband. Cameras are rolling 501 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 1: like if anything, let's prop this man up, like even 502 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: every day he said, like the world that he is 503 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 1: like knocking your back out. Let's that's what we need 504 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 1: to say. I think you should lie better friendly. You 505 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 1: should lie for your boyfriend her husband if he doesn't 506 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 1: do really good in the bad or else, it's just 507 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 1: gonna make you look bad because it's like you're the 508 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 1: one stuck with the whack dick. So it's like as 509 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 1: as J was telling you, you you don't want other girls 510 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 1: to win him. Oh so you say, just because you 511 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: think other girls? No, I don't think that. No, that's definitely, 512 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 1: that's definitely that alway, he says, ye, never tell you 513 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 1: that her man is good because you don't want nobody 514 00:27:54,640 --> 00:28:02,159 Speaker 1: else to win him. You can't be like he's amazing. Okay, 515 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 1: your husband, if it's like your real dude, you shouldn't 516 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 1: really be telling people what's going on with you. I 517 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 1: agree with that. Don't talk about your sex life with 518 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 1: your real husband. Are you? Are you more gentle or 519 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 1: rest in the bed? Oh my gosh, let's see um 520 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:24,960 Speaker 1: combo m okay? So yes, because that is a virgo, y'all. 521 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: Come on, Oh yeah, now that makes s of sense. 522 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 1: I didn't even realize that. Who's a virgo? You know? 523 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,639 Speaker 1: I dated virgo. That's what I'm saying. You're a virgo, 524 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 1: So yeah, I know. I don't know how I dated 525 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: two virgos in my life, and what does that need? 526 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 1: But do virgos do? Virgos are nasty? They like right 527 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 1: under Scorpio would be virgo, Like virgos are the freaking 528 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: the sheets and lady in the Street was a person. 529 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 1: It's a virgo, was a sign, it's a virgo. Like 530 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 1: it just did all kind of three sims and ship. 531 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised, to be honest. But you won't tell, y'all, 532 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 1: don't tell. They don't, but that the first lady very 533 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 1: loyal to their relationship and nasty behind closed doors, do 534 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: all the nation ship, but just won't talk about it. 535 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 1: That's a regal woman very best friends is very and 536 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 1: she's married, so I know all her I take it 537 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 1: as a compliment. Yeah, that's was it difficult for you 538 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 1: being first lady? Because I do feel like, Um, I 539 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: don't like you can throw the shade and stuff like that. 540 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 1: I felt like that's some church stuff that happens. They'd 541 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: be throwing the shade. But like I also feel like 542 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 1: when I think a first lady, for some reason, I 543 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: always think of like, oh, the lady with the happens 544 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 1: and that, you know, Like I just don't see that 545 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 1: with you. So, like, is it a lot of pressure 546 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: for that? Um, it's a lot of pressure to be perfect. 547 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: Like once you hit that church, it's like, you know, 548 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 1: no nail chips, no hair out of place. Um, dressed 549 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: to the nines, Like that's the expectation that your members 550 00:29:56,080 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: want to see. So there's that, Um, But I would 551 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 1: never I mean I've gotten you know, yelled out, yelled 552 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: at five members of the church. But I would never 553 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: be shady with them, never treat them roll my eyes 554 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: or you know, treat them crazy, even though I had 555 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: right to, But I would never do that because that's 556 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: just like not the place of a first lady. He like, 557 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 1: turn it off when it goes into the church. But 558 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 1: then when somebody try you on the street, you're about 559 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 1: to read them to filth. Yes, gonna be on the 560 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: show now he we'll see him, Yes, we'll see him 561 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 1: next episode. Okay, that's what's gonna be different this time around, Like, 562 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: did y'all set any type of new guidelines and rules 563 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: for the relationship. We're going to be totally honest and 564 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 1: and open the doors of communication. Y'all know, communications keep 565 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: with any relationship. So like that has to be on point. Um, 566 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 1: And if any one of us feel like it's not 567 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 1: or we feel like, um, anything from the past is 568 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: creeping back up, like immediately we gotta check each other. 569 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: Has anybody like on any of your old things reached 570 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 1: out once they found out you were back with Jamal 571 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: and like tried to shoot their shot again or like 572 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: said anything. No, I've been wondering, like what's doing on? Like, no, 573 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: they'd respecting your space, girl, they are, We're just say, 574 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 1: don't have a chance. Yeah, because it's not like this 575 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,959 Speaker 1: is a new boyfriend. This is your husband returning. Then 576 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 1: you're returning back to where you should be. And you know, 577 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,959 Speaker 1: under the eyes of God and everybody who witness you say, 578 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 1: your bow so and your children. So it's like, you know, 579 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: any your boyfriend or any relationship or situation cannot compare 580 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: to that, like you just yes and yes and that's yes. 581 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 1: At some point guys have to be respectful, like enough already. 582 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: But we all know guys to be doing all kinds 583 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 1: of dirt. But you know, respectful of this now now 584 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: when it comes to like the second go round, as 585 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: far as like when it's time to get me ry. Uh. So, 586 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: I know how you feel about the ring. You said 587 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 1: it should be the side, right. I said that. I 588 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 1: couldn't have said it better myself. Now what about the 589 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 1: wedding though, are you would you plan to have another 590 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:17,000 Speaker 1: big wedding or you know, it's gonna be that's a 591 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 1: good good What do you do a special on TV 592 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: for it? Jesus, I don't know. That's a that's a 593 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 1: very good question. I think I would want it to 594 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 1: be people who love us period, but that's a lot 595 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,200 Speaker 1: of people, so but I wanted to be intimate, so 596 00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I would need to think about that. 597 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: I will keep you all posted on now right now, 598 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 1: we'll be there every you. Now, I have one more question. 599 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 1: I know you have to get out of here, but 600 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you since everybody's talking about this 601 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 1: Pardi B and Megan Stallion song wobb and I saw 602 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 1: a see Lois to the interview right where he was 603 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,760 Speaker 1: talking about the song. Also, he said, a lot of 604 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 1: music today is very unfortunate and just some pointing on 605 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,239 Speaker 1: a personal and moral level. They once a time when 606 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 1: we were savvy enough to coach and things we could 607 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: express to those It was meant for with the style 608 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 1: of language we use. But now music is shameless, it 609 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 1: is sheer savagery. And then he also named apps Cardi 610 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 1: and Megan and he says attention is also a drug 611 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: and competition is around Cardi B and Megan. The Stallion. 612 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,960 Speaker 1: They are all more or less doing similar solacious gesturing 613 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: to kind of get into position, and he said that 614 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: all comes at what costs. I wanted to know what 615 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 1: your thoughts were on Cardi B and Met the Stallion songs, 616 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: since everybody's talking about it right now and you're women 617 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 1: of the church. A couple of things. One, you know, 618 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm a little older, so my perspective comes from a mom. 619 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: You know, I have teenage daughters and they listen to 620 00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,719 Speaker 1: all that kind of music all the time. I with 621 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: all due respect to Cardi and Meg, I think Cardi 622 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,479 Speaker 1: I love. I have loved watching Cardi B's journey, like 623 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 1: we you know, she went from the strip powle to 624 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 1: a lot of hip hop to big time rapper two movies. 625 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: Like I I'm like her biggest fan. I feel like 626 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 1: she has stayed true to herself, um and make the 627 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,840 Speaker 1: same thing, smart girl all that. But I would love 628 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 1: for for it to have been about that I could 629 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 1: listen to with my girls, like I can't listen to 630 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:24,760 Speaker 1: that with my kids, like it's it's it's pretty um 631 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 1: raunchy is that the word raunchy? It's just like no, 632 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,800 Speaker 1: I can't, I can't listen to that with my girls. 633 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 1: So then there's the other side to that, like so 634 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:39,640 Speaker 1: Meg just did that song with with Beyonce, like we'd 635 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 1: be bouncing around all over town this um. So it's 636 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 1: ship that that was the only disappointing point as far 637 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 1: as your artistry and your creativity. Do you and be 638 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: as clean as you want and as as raunchy as 639 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,799 Speaker 1: you want, But for me, I would like to have 640 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: seen it a little cleaner, that's all. Can you think 641 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,399 Speaker 1: of signs that you used to listen to growing out 642 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 1: that later on you were like, damn, that's what they 643 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:11,319 Speaker 1: were talking about, all of them because that yeah, but 644 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,919 Speaker 1: our freaking streaking the streets, So that I do feel 645 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,640 Speaker 1: like it's it's a heading message opposed to just saying 646 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:21,800 Speaker 1: we as right. I'm so I'm so slow those times 647 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 1: because like the song, um, put it in your mouth, 648 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 1: I was singing out what they were talking about. You 649 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:38,839 Speaker 1: get that you could take you jib yeah. Yeah. So 650 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff I appreciate cause I gotta think 651 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: about it. What you don't have to think about nothing 652 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 1: they did. Like, so that's that's my only as a mom, 653 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,359 Speaker 1: as a mom of fourteen year olds and fifteen year olds. Yeo, 654 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 1: I can't listen to that with them. I don't even 655 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,279 Speaker 1: want them to listen to They came and told me 656 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 1: about wait where y'all hear that song at? Did you 657 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,839 Speaker 1: see the video? Like you see they got the kids 658 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,840 Speaker 1: about version. Well, I got got some chores in this house. 659 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to be cious. That's what they said. 660 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 1: I hear it. Some chores in Hey, Can I say something? 661 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 1: How we getting Loriale on the real coming out that listen? 662 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 1: They fronting on your girl. Let me tell you something. 663 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,879 Speaker 1: If they don't put me on the rail, I'm gonna 664 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,400 Speaker 1: make another show. We're gonna call it the Fake, and 665 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 1: it's gonna be me. It's gonna be us for right here. 666 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: We're just gonna ship. But we're gonna shade everybody the 667 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,760 Speaker 1: whole entire show who's down. We're gonna smiling their face 668 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 1: and right after they leave, have my vote so much 669 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 1: appreciate that. I think they make an announcement soon. So 670 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 1: I see and it looks and if it ain't me, 671 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 1: we're going to l A. It's gonna be some problems 672 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:16,239 Speaker 1: for Genie. Lannie is glad. Adrian was good. I'm good, Yeah, 673 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: but now I think that you would be great there. 674 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,759 Speaker 1: You would shake it up, and you know, you have 675 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 1: a voice in an opinion. I'm so like you know, 676 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 1: I love seeing answer you doing your thing. G you're 677 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,879 Speaker 1: doing your thing. It's like, grew so great to see 678 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 1: black women younger than me just like killing it, y'all. 679 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 1: I here killing it every morning. Loria. We listened to 680 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,880 Speaker 1: you as I drive when I used to drop my 681 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,799 Speaker 1: kids to school, but not not so much anymore. Um, 682 00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 1: and my kids love your voice, you know. Oh I 683 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 1: didn't know that, so I as a rapper, they're waiting 684 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 1: for your voice. You know, you give the t on 685 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: the people that they all know about. So yeah, yeah, 686 00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 1: I'm yeah, y'all doing great things. Proud of you. I'm 687 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,680 Speaker 1: so glad. I ain't never say nothing bad about you. 688 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't though, because I love you. But but what 689 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,560 Speaker 1: if they were just and you was like, you know, 690 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 1: just tell them but the busting it open for us, 691 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 1: they would be like mine, No, but listen, we'll be 692 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 1: watching two on the season for you as well. So 693 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 1: we are happy for you that you work things out. 694 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 1: You know, I feel like sometimes you guys, time apart 695 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,880 Speaker 1: from somebody can help you grow closer to them in 696 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,240 Speaker 1: the end. You know, people do change, grow up and 697 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,360 Speaker 1: realizing the mistakes that they made in the past. So 698 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,799 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you were able to you guys were 699 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:38,040 Speaker 1: able to work through that. I think that's dope. Yeah, 700 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:41,359 Speaker 1: it's it's It's not for everybody, but you know, when 701 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:45,279 Speaker 1: the love is there, why not and tell him if 702 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 1: he messed up, We're going on every morning show and 703 00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:50,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna drag him and and we in the ending, 704 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 1: so we'll pull up to the church. Better leave them alone. 705 00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 1: You know you you got it. You got it on 706 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 1: the locker the land, and I don't want no problems, 707 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 1: and we're gonna get information for your up right. Letting 708 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:07,440 Speaker 1: none of them girls be trying to come up. All 709 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,719 Speaker 1: this happened. We did this, We need to you know 710 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,680 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Let's just keep it clean. Just you're 711 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,000 Speaker 1: not You're not trying to leave us on the shower, 712 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 1: are you? No? No? I? Um okay, So I said 713 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 1: when I first started, I was gonna give it five years. 714 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 1: So we just this season five um, and now I'm like, 715 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:32,359 Speaker 1: y'all got to fire me because I'm right, You're like, yeah, 716 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:34,399 Speaker 1: you and your girl. We barely get to see your 717 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 1: your real personality. I feel like, yeah, yeah, I can't 718 00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,560 Speaker 1: fake it, Like I can't pretend like I'm something in 719 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,399 Speaker 1: somebody that I'm not, because that that don't ever last 720 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,879 Speaker 1: long and never works out well for the person that's 721 00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 1: trying to do it. So I'm just you know, I'm 722 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,840 Speaker 1: just gonna make me laugh. Yeah, y'all was in the 723 00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,279 Speaker 1: in the vacation and you was like, I'm not going 724 00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 1: with them benches, I'm about to go do it. I 725 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,840 Speaker 1: want to go do with my friend like you was like, no, no, 726 00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 1: she's gonna be a while. It's gonna take a while. 727 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 1: Y'a might as and just go. You ain't want to 728 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:06,799 Speaker 1: gone to that bunchh it you not? You faith me 729 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 1: so funny. As soon as you don't want to do nothing, 730 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 1: you're like, who's going there? I'm not going? And I 731 00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,480 Speaker 1: do watching you fix up your house too, I think 732 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 1: that's don't Yeah, okay, okay, can I talk about that 733 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:23,719 Speaker 1: for five seconds? The corona hit my house? So my 734 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,319 Speaker 1: you know when corona hit, uh, I'm like, well, I 735 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,400 Speaker 1: was on a steady pace, like my west wing was 736 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 1: about to be done beautiful, and the corona hit and 737 00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 1: my workers were gone. There were goes. So now they're back. 738 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,920 Speaker 1: But every all the material like me getting wood, me 739 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 1: getting sheet rock, me getting um the electrical stuff and 740 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 1: the plumbing, it's on short order. Like things that were 741 00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,919 Speaker 1: normally order take two days. It takes months. I don't 742 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,879 Speaker 1: know whitness house is gonna be done, y'all, just pray 743 00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 1: for me. Well, it's looking good so far. I thought 744 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,839 Speaker 1: he was pretty much finished. Yeah, right to be seen now, 745 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,640 Speaker 1: I I m had a whole extension field. It's a 746 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:08,600 Speaker 1: two story for me, so upstairs just like because I 747 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,600 Speaker 1: ain't never hear that once. You was like, I got 748 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:19,800 Speaker 1: my two story uh master bedroom. I was like, okay, okay, yes, okay, 749 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:23,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's trying to like that closet behind you. 750 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 1: I'm so confused by that. Them shoes, I said, so 751 00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:31,440 Speaker 1: I want to wear. But yeah, so hopefully it will 752 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:35,799 Speaker 1: be done before um, before the end of the year, 753 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:39,040 Speaker 1: before December. I like, welcome back on that. I know 754 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 1: how amazing that is when you have a house and 755 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 1: you get to build it to what you like. That's 756 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,439 Speaker 1: what I whenever every house I butt. I've done that too, 757 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,960 Speaker 1: so I know that's really quite a project. But when 758 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 1: you're done, it feels so good. Yes, yes, yes, I 759 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,840 Speaker 1: didn't know that, Angela, that's that's amazing. And it takes patience. 760 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,880 Speaker 1: My mother was like, down't do that. You don't have 761 00:41:55,960 --> 00:42:00,320 Speaker 1: a patience for that. Don't get tired. And never happens 762 00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:02,080 Speaker 1: when you think it's gonna be done. It's never done 763 00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 1: on time. And it never costs what they say it's 764 00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:07,800 Speaker 1: gonna cost. No, No, I'm gonna be gonna be broke forever. 765 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,840 Speaker 1: No you think you're gonna be robbins Um, what's it 766 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:16,839 Speaker 1: called nature? That hate about it? I'm so into that 767 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,360 Speaker 1: whole Robin and Juan, I'm all. I was all up 768 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 1: into the engagement. I was all up into buying the brain. 769 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:28,319 Speaker 1: I'm acting like it's my wedding, like you know, it's 770 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,439 Speaker 1: to see their story and their journey has been so 771 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,799 Speaker 1: inspiring and so much fun, and you know the love 772 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,640 Speaker 1: that they have for each other. It's just like you 773 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:42,400 Speaker 1: don't men, and we need to hold ourselves accountable. Women 774 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,520 Speaker 1: have decided a long time ago we don't do ride 775 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 1: it die no more like we brought a dies like 776 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:52,359 Speaker 1: not then said that we're diet is involved. I'm not 777 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 1: dying for nobody a ride but doesn't want to ride 778 00:42:56,200 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 1: it to run. It's uber right, Robin is right or die. 779 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 1: She is unconditional, like she is a bigger woman than me, 780 00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 1: because it ain't no way that I would have been 781 00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,319 Speaker 1: able to get married to a man and let him 782 00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,440 Speaker 1: move back in the house because he still wants to 783 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 1: be with his kids like where they do that. So 784 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 1: just to see their journey is is amazing. I think 785 00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,879 Speaker 1: people are really going to appreciate them so much more. 786 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,520 Speaker 1: It's as good I never I never thought they would 787 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 1: get to that point. So yeah, I feel like the 788 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 1: two women that they kind of shame the most on 789 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:35,399 Speaker 1: the show for their relationships got the strongest relationships right now, 790 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 1: which is so crazy, right right, So they need to 791 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 1: back up off me. Okay, word on the s Well, 792 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,520 Speaker 1: thank you a Ganges. I know we kept you over 793 00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:48,560 Speaker 1: there like you gotta wrap, but we appreciate you for 794 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 1: checking in for the first time I left service. Now 795 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 1: that you're comfortable with us, next time, we're gonna go 796 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:58,120 Speaker 1: even harder. Talk about three songs and some more stuff. Okay, Okay, yeah, 797 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:05,279 Speaker 1: love you stink any mat Y thinks you by