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Speaker 2: Can't believe this dad kicked him out the back door

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Speaker 1: My ex wife and I had our son right out

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Speaker 2: He did it.

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Speaker 1: I've had the primary care of our son throughout his life,

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Speaker 2: All throughout his life. My son has had a.

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Speaker 1: Big rebellious streak from trouble at school to lying to teachers, stealing, bullying,

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Speaker 3: He's literally done everything at some point.

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Speaker 1: This is prolific a little He's like the Socrates of

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Speaker 1: getting in trouble like God. We've tried therapy sessions, but

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Speaker 2: What's this man stealing? That's a good question, except people's opportunity? Yeahual,

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Speaker 1: The streak also continued at home, though at his mother's

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Speaker 1: he's always manipulated her and presented himself as a victim,

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Speaker 2: Did you really try to be interested in everything? He

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah he would. Yeah, he like a good dad.

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Speaker 1: He's supposed to be. I've gotten to therapy myself and

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Speaker 2: My man is literally running that off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it sounds like it sounds like he's always

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Speaker 1: ungrateful to anything I did. He wanted to join a

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Speaker 2: Abusive. That's a little bit tweet.

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Speaker 1: It's much last. See, he wanted to drive. I bought

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Speaker 3: I mean, he just he just ain't ain't happy with

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Speaker 2: He might need a new daddy. Happy catch what I drift?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? Penis in the butt? Penis in

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Speaker 1: On Brilliant Idiots, there was one line where someone was

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Speaker 1: No matter how hard I've tried, nothing has been good

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Speaker 1: So six months ago everything reached a boiling point. He

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Speaker 2: I asked him where my car was? Where is it? No?

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Speaker 1: He told me to f off. He had obviously been drinking,

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Speaker 1: I found out that he had completely wrecked the car. Totaled. No, donezo, No,

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Speaker 1: That's like you're faster, You're going fast, crazy, reckless?

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Speaker 1: We got into a huge argument where he let me

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Speaker 2: I really want to hear what this kid is saying.

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Speaker 2: it can be for like both parents, right, and so

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Speaker 1: The argument ended with me kicking him out and him

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Speaker 1: Apparently what he told or happened is that he came

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Speaker 1: And it's so sad because it's, like, dude, so many

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Speaker 1: people struggle yeah with that, like hemping it out for

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Speaker 2: He's like, not only is that TRD for the entire community,

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Speaker 2: it's just it sucks up everyone you know that is

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Speaker 2: I was pissed, understandable, not because he was gay.

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Speaker 1: That had actually been very obvious since he hit puberty,

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Speaker 2: Why are you trusting this little asshole? Bro?

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Speaker 3: You know what I think?

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Speaker 1: You know what he has to do now? He has

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Speaker 1: I'd be homophobe my son is gay?

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Speaker 2: How that would everything?

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Speaker 1: Even my stick want to see a man topless, good gravy.

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Speaker 1: Something in me with this last thing just made my

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Speaker 2: It's it's go time, It's go time. Let's hear this

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Speaker 1: I'm not homophobic. My son is gay, having even had

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Speaker 2: Little inside here. Interesting. I like that. I like that edition.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, spicy detail, spicy detail, I wrote back, confirming

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Speaker 3: We're I'm gonna it's gonna, it's gonna become clear.

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Speaker 2: So there's some forty chess going on here that I'm

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Speaker 1: I wrote back and said I couldn't morally accept him

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Speaker 1: My texts got put online by both him and my

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Speaker 2: Wait, like because he's just like saying, oh, I'm a homophobe,

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Speaker 1: now everybody is basically finding out that he's claiming to

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Speaker 2: He's just right in that ball, straight into That's insane.

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Speaker 2: That's like an insanc level of commitment. Dude. I salute

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Speaker 1: Also, I have another theory on this, but I will

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Speaker 1: I'll save it till him. I'll save it to the end.

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Speaker 2: Dude. That's that's I'm just baffled that he leaned into it.

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Speaker 2: I know it's it's completely insane.

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Speaker 1: public crucifixion, I feel happy, like I can breathe again. Now,

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Speaker 2: Hey yeah, brother, fuck yo, I don't think I've ever

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Speaker 2: Bullshit? Yes, bs BSPs, BSPs.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now she even had that experience in high school

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Speaker 2: Okay, I got it. We gotta like I think we

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Speaker 2: And so if you think it's fishy comment fish below.

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Speaker 2: Let it bro I want to see an ocean.

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Speaker 1: I want to see an ocean in ocean speaking of

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Speaker 2: What are you speaking?

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Speaker 3: There is a great place where people can share their stories.

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Speaker 2: Is there? Where is that place? R slash okay o

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Speaker 1: Share your stories with us, and we read it right

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Speaker 2: That's your little little cock muffin. Why are you holding

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Speaker 3: We're just leaning in so so hard and long.

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Speaker 2: Today I FD up by making my dad punch a

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Speaker 2: It's a funny story though. When I was young, my

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Speaker 2: We are playing video games. We spent days hold in

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Speaker 2: Right, you know you're religious when you're reviewing tapes of

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