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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hi guys, Hi, Hi, I need a topic that's not

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Speaker 2: baby and go oh no pressure.

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Speaker 3: That's all I've been thinking about is your baby.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how sea section moms do it because

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Speaker 4: it's like Christmas, Like I have like my own advent

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Speaker 4: calendar for your baby, and so I'm like, who how

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Speaker 4: many's Like I get so excited.

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Speaker 3: At how we do it.

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Speaker 5: That's what's so fun about it that, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I will say you will be like the lamb and cute.

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Speaker 4: I'm just over the definitely not glam but yeah, did

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Speaker 4: you did you get ready?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean I put makeup on for.

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Speaker 4: The sea section. Uh huh yeah, oh, I definitely put

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Speaker 4: makeup on. It's a blind date. They've waited to meet

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Speaker 4: me too, but I have mass garon.

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Speaker 3: But and I love how we said let's talk anything

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Speaker 3: about I know.

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Speaker 5: I can find you didn't have a sea section no,

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Speaker 5: So I just never know, like in labor and you're

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Speaker 5: like doing your makeup, yeah in between contractions. Okay, well

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Speaker 5: at least we are like walking into the house.

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Speaker 4: I know, but I just couldn't do what you do

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Speaker 4: because I'm like so excited to know you know the day, right,

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Speaker 4: I love it. I wouldn't be able to sleep.

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Speaker 6: It's excited.

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Speaker 4: It's hard to sleep. I am so excited for this baby.

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Speaker 4: I voice memoed that to you today because I have

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Speaker 4: not been so excited for a friend's baby. I think

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Speaker 4: because you this is like a feels like a sister.

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Speaker 4: Like I feel like I could come to your house

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Speaker 4: and I could just like wash my hands and grab him.

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Speaker 4: Note that I said wash my hands for friends that

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Speaker 4: are listening. People have lost their minds, but like there's

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Speaker 4: not a lot of people I feel comfortable with doing that,

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Speaker 4: I think, so that's probably part of it.

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Speaker 2: Sure, I was going back on photos. Ok, I guess

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Speaker 2: we're talking about the baby here we are. It's the

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Speaker 2: last time to talk about it. Yeah, So the I

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Speaker 2: wish everyone could see her an gesture with my nails

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Speaker 2: that are gone because I have to. You had to

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Speaker 2: take your nails off. I know you have to go

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Speaker 2: short maternity short. It was like, like I have stuff.

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Speaker 2: Was when I'm on my little tree branches. So I

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Speaker 2: got emotional the other night because I was talking to

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Speaker 2: the photographer, So I did. I had a photographer with Jolie.

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Speaker 2: I didn't have them with Jase and with obviously baby.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to have those pictures again because one of

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Speaker 2: my favorite photos is the photo of you and Jolie,

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Speaker 2: you peering over and I got emotional because it's you know,

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Speaker 2: it's just happening again.

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Speaker 4: Happening again, God willing. Everything's great. Everything is great.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, so I'm excited about that. And now I'm

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Speaker 2: excited to have the queendom and everybody there and Royal Baby.

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Speaker 2: So we have I've prepped the day before, so I

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Speaker 2: got to go to the hospital the day before. I

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Speaker 2: get the blood ready in case, you know, all the

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Speaker 2: stuff that could happen might happen, who knows won't happen.

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Speaker 2: We'll be prepared, right, hopefully good.

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Speaker 3: We are prepared everything.

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Speaker 2: Then yeah, everything's happening in the morning and early. But

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Speaker 2: the makeup piece, I I still just have trauma from Jays.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I'm going to be vomiting from the

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Speaker 2: Anastasia and crying, you know.

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Speaker 3: So that is definitely gonna happen.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like you're if you have some makeup on,

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Weekend at Bernie's Legs, it's gonna be Okay,

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Speaker 4: I need you guys there.

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Speaker 3: We'll be there. Hey, we got to plan what time

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Speaker 3: we're going to be there. Yeah, going together.

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Speaker 4: I also have something else we're planning. Okay, great, great,

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Speaker 4: great great.

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Speaker 2: So okay, let's but also these next few days, I

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Speaker 2: just need to I feel like the days are moving

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Speaker 2: very slow. Yeah, moving up to that, because when you

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Speaker 2: have when you know when it's coming most likely. I

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Speaker 2: mean the only time with Jolie, I had it scheduled,

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Speaker 2: and I still my water broke before. But because I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna happen. But I'm here for it and I'm praying,

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Speaker 2: and it's going to be great. But let's not talk

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Speaker 2: baby the rest of the show.

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Speaker 4: I thought I got myself kicked out of my Christian

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Speaker 4: school because of the podcast Oh tell Us. More so,

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Speaker 4: usually I just lay as like I lay low is

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Speaker 4: a voice on here, you know, everyone will know who

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Speaker 4: you are, but not I mean, well they do two million,

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Speaker 4: that's why they're here at Kramer Girl. So it was

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Speaker 4: interesting because that one of the administrators came up to

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Speaker 4: me at school and she was like hey at cheer

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Speaker 4: She's like, hey you is that I need to ask you?

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Speaker 4: And I was like, uh oh, because Preston is not

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Speaker 4: Preston's songs are not down the Christian Alley sometimes, you know,

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Speaker 4: there's a lot of drink and that a lot of

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Speaker 4: country music, you know whatever, shuffling about whatever we're up to.

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Speaker 4: And so she said you on wine down and I

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Speaker 4: said it is yeah, and she.

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Speaker 4: So I was just listening and I thought that was

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Speaker 4: you and I'm not where is this going? I said,

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Speaker 4: are you going to dismiss me out of the school?

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Speaker 4: And she said no. She's like it's so cool. I

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Speaker 4: never know who people are, what they do, you know,

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Speaker 4: she just sees us shuffling with no makeup. But I

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Speaker 4: thought that was pretty funny. That was the first time

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Speaker 4: I've gone uh oh.

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, she listened so obviously. But that

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Speaker 3: also happened to me one time, only once, and I

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Speaker 3: was at a water park in a swimsuit.

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Speaker 4: I was like, absolutely, whimsuit. Oh, this wasn't her recognizing

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Speaker 3: This was just like a hey, I think social I'll

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Speaker 3: never forget it.

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Speaker 4: What happened.

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Speaker 7: Literally, I'm like running around after the kids, you know,

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Speaker 7: and a swimsuit.

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Speaker 3: Which is not you know, like I mentioned, I was not.

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Speaker 7: The most You don't want to be recognized, like you

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Speaker 7: truly don't in these situations. I don't write I definitely

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Speaker 7: this is the only time I've been recognized. But I mean, like,

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Speaker 7: I don't want to run into people I know. Right,

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Speaker 7: So I hear my name and I'm like turning around,

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Speaker 7: I'm I don't know anybody. They're like, hey, are you

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Speaker 3: A sweet but yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I'm the kind of line of kids I was

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Speaker 2: telling Kathus in the car earlier, and I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 2: you now with Jolie, she has gotten to the age

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Speaker 2: now where I have to be very careful. I've learned

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Speaker 2: my lesson that I now have to be careful what

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Speaker 2: I say because an instance.

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Speaker 4: Happens the other day. I don't think she listens to me,

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Speaker 4: you know, I know she loves me so much. Listen,

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Speaker 4: I'm almost I can almost verify my kids are never

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Speaker 3: Y'all are all wrong. They're listening.

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Speaker 2: They hear everything you said, because I when I asked

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, she must not just listen or whatever.

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Speaker 2: So I talk, you know, I'm I say things Alan,

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Speaker 2: we we talk and girlfriends. I mean, I have you

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Speaker 2: guys on speakerphone when you guys call. Catherine knows better

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Speaker 2: not to have me on speakerphone around her kids.

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Speaker 4: But you know, nobody fourteen year old.

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Speaker 8: Pam was on speakerphone when Jolie was in the car.

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Speaker 4: Little Auntie if on Pittsburgh Pam, So I don't. I

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Speaker 4: a text message from her teacher going, well, now I'm

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Speaker 4: crazy and this person and I'm like, oh, so she

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Speaker 4: overheard a conversation. Is it about me?

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Speaker 6: No way, I'm like, I'm about to pully.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to pick up Jollie after school.

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Speaker 2: A conversation in the house that we were and it

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Speaker 4: They are brainwashing. And then and I was just like,

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Speaker 2: So I was like, so I said to Joy like

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Speaker 4: She goes, I'm sorry. I said no, no, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm just curious, like what what you heard? And you know,

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Speaker 4: And it's also like I think it's crazy because I

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Speaker 4: But I there was certain things that I felt like

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Speaker 4: I feel like I keep dialogue pretty open, but.

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Speaker 7: I just have a conversation with them about it. That's

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Speaker 7: what I do, like have a conversation like, hey, you

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Speaker 7: you know. And just because I like to keep open

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I had to be like a little I had

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Speaker 4: to start to tailor what I say about family. Oh

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Speaker 4: well sure right, yeah, Well now that I know that

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Speaker 4: she's so actually really spot on to the what were

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Speaker 4: our adult conversations actually are now to that minute and

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Speaker 4: detail a library just clicking.

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Speaker 2: Now, I know, but those certain ones will have to

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Speaker 2: be tabled because I don't you know, it's again, it

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Speaker 2: wasn't like bad stuff, but I know it's also trinky because.

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Speaker 3: God, I'm like go home and be like my parents

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Speaker 1: You know what?

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Speaker 3: Makes me really laugh about that. Not to bring this up,

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Speaker 8: Fact, but I'm going to my favorite cat raise love

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Speaker 8: that act.

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Speaker 7: That people think you already had the baby and that

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Speaker 3: And I just it just dawned on me, like wouldn't

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Speaker 2: If it was Jollie, I would be that's the child

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Speaker 4: Now I just wish fine, like it on it the minimum,

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Speaker 3: Were a better locking system, or wait till they're sleep exactly.

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Speaker 2: We're going to take a break and then we're gonna

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Speaker 2: We're going to get onto something else, all right. So

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Speaker 2: I am super excited to get Mary on wind Down

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Speaker 4: So let's get it on.

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Speaker 10: Oh we mad, marry, Yeah, you guys are mad. This

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Speaker 1: I just did.

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Speaker 3: That's amazing, she said.

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Speaker 10: I tried to channel my inter Mary and we end

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Speaker 4: And there you go. I love it. How are you doing,

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Speaker 2: When I saw that we were gonna interview, my first

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: that are actually currently going through it, they're like, you know,

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00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 1: I just I have to have a DNC on Monday,

442
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: and and they're like, like, thank you so much. This

443
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:28,640
Speaker 1: actually helped me. And so I'm like, okay, just one

444
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 1: response like that makes it work sharing. But there have

445
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 1: been for so many responses.

446
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 2: Because I don't know when the actual filming was, but

447
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 2: how long has it been since you miscarried?

448
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:42,480
Speaker 4: Now?

449
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 1: About six months?

450
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 4: About six months have you guys started to try again?

451
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: Not yet. I needed a few months. I knew that

452
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 1: the chances of getting pregnant again, like whether they call

453
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,439
Speaker 1: it the rainbow baby or something like that, that was better.

454
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: I couldn't do it, yeah, because it was a septic

455
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: miscarage too. It took like a toll on my body

456
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 1: had to have like the surgery, and and then they

457
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 1: also found out and an MRI during the DNCY. She

458
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: wanted an MRI and I didn't really understand why, but

459
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: she saw. I guess the anatomy of my uterus is

460
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: it was seemed abnormal and it's not as cool as

461
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:31,400
Speaker 1: it sounds, but it's like Unicornian uterus and and it's

462
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: actually where there's only like one horn is what they say,

463
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 1: like where there's part of like the one side of

464
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 1: it isn't formed all the way and and so it's

465
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: going to cause some issues. I have like one fallopian

466
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 1: tube and stuff like that, so I'm able to carry

467
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: a child. I have my son, and so I am

468
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 1: able to carry a full term. So I needed just

469
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: to get through just kind of processing, healing, and tried

470
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: to decide what the next step is. Do we do

471
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,119
Speaker 1: IDF and just go straight into that since we know

472
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 1: that it's going to be more difficult. I did. I did.

473
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:14,680
Speaker 1: I tried to do embryo freezing before I would say

474
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 1: that's been about year and a half ago now, and

475
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: it didn't work out. The three embryos that did go

476
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,919
Speaker 1: into genetic testing, well, we did genetic testing and then

477
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: they did whatever it goes back to genetic testing, and

478
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,959
Speaker 1: they said all three were abnormal. So then I started

479
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 1: to do another round of it, and that's when I

480
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 1: had to cancel that round halfway through because of the

481
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 1: Home Springs trip, and then I think that's a lot

482
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: of what people didn't understand on that trip. I was

483
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 1: so hormonal too. I was like, it's at at the

484
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 1: end of it, I was like, yeah, I was like,

485
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 1: you guys, none of those crap matters. Oh my god. Yeah,

486
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 1: And I was so hormonal, and but I didn't get

487
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 1: to do around either. So then we got pregnant right

488
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 1: away and when we went to Bali, and so now

489
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: I guess I think I'm just trying to decide what

490
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 1: the best thing is to do because I just I

491
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: want to eliminate the chance of a miscarriage is as

492
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: much as possible. I don't know if that'd be even possible, but.

493
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 2: No for sure, because I just what it does mentally,

494
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,360
Speaker 2: because I remember when my fiance and I were talking

495
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,439
Speaker 2: about it, and you know, he was like, would you

496
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 2: want to have another kid? And it's like having had miscarriages,

497
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 2: I'm like, I the mental aspect of losing and what

498
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 2: that makes me feel as I'm not I'm not a woman,

499
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm I can't give you. I can't give

500
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 2: you this baby that you know. And I can't I'm worthless,

501
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: and like all those messages mess with you so much

502
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 2: as I don't know if I'm if I'm actually mentally

503
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 2: strong enough to go through a loss again. And that

504
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 2: was the hardest piece when I ended up getting pregnant.

505
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 2: That was my biggest fear, was losing it in feeling

506
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 2: that pain of a worthless woman.

507
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's that's I think so many people feel

508
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 1: the same way, and it's it's so messed up.

509
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 10: I can see this, but I think every woman feels

510
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 10: the same way. It's like it makes you feel better to.

511
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: Hear someone else's loss, which is like, how messed up

512
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: is that? But it makes you like understand, We're not

513
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: like We're not the only one feeling this way. It's

514
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: not like I'm not like feeling crazy and like depressed.

515
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: It's like, no, that's a normal feeling. But it shouldn't

516
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: be we shouldn't be shamed. We shouldn't be.

517
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 10: It's very common, but I think somehow it.

518
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: Just makes people feel better that there is hope and

519
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 1: a lot of people have gone through it many times

520
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: and then they do have their miracle baby.

521
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 4: And so would you do surrogacy if that came to

522
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 4: it too.

523
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 1: I think so yeah, I mean, I think that would

524
00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 1: be probably the last resort because it's sounds bad too.

525
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 10: But I'm not a cuge kid person.

526
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 3: After all that.

527
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 10: It's so bad because I love my son.

528
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: I love my like if I'm.

529
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 8: Very we get it.

530
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 4: We get yeah, it's you.

531
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 8: I like yours too.

532
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 4: But I would prefer like, like, mind the best.

533
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean, if I go to a restaurant, not like,

534
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 11: oh let me hold your baby.

535
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 10: You're screaming baby so cute, you know, I'm like, please

536
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 10: take your baby home.

537
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: Be scream I not. But I do appreciate and love

538
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 1: my children and my best friend's children and stuff like that.

539
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: So I feel like I would want that connection of

540
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: being pregnant. I feel like it just it really does.

541
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 1: You have this special bond like when you get pregnant,

542
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: And I think I really really want that because as

543
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 1: busy as I am and and as as like just

544
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 1: chaotic as my life is, I want that bond if

545
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: it is possible to be like, I don't care about

546
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: all these other goals and dreams and stuff. This is

547
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 1: my child, and I would do anything for my child

548
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: because I have that initial, immediate bond And so I

549
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: feel like, at least for me, everyone's different, but at

550
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: least for me, I I want to try.

551
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: To sure you want to and then go okay, yeah,

552
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 2: but so supportive too in everything that you do.

553
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: Get anything. Whatever makes me happy is what what he wants.

554
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: And he's already said too, because I'm like, I really

555
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if I if it's going

556
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: to work out, Like what would we do? Then we'll

557
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: spend time together and we'll have a wonderful life together.

558
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: So he's like, yeah, it would be great if we do.

559
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: But if not, he's like, I just want you and

560
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 1: you're my family. So I mean, he's like the best

561
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: die owner.

562
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 4: He really is so sweet sweet.

563
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 2: Okay, can we let's switch gears for a second because

564
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 2: I have to talk about obviously some aspects of the show.

565
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 3: Okay, don't tell me too much. I haven't watched the

566
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 3: new season.

567
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 8: Yeah it's so good.

568
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so from last season to this season, I really

569
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: one of my main my main goals of this while

570
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 2: I was watching the show is like find some empathy

571
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 2: or connection with Nicole. That was my I'm like, I'm

572
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 2: going to go into this because you know, you read

573
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 2: all the headlines. You see all the stuff, and I

574
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 2: know how I get the world of editing and them

575
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 2: trying to do all the things. But so I'm looking

576
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 2: at it from not from latroll, from those pages that

577
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 2: just want to hate hate hate. So I'm like, Okay,

578
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna really find something or connect with her, to

579
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 2: maybe relate to her or like her and uh a

580
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 2: little bit more, because at first I was always siding

581
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 2: with Krishelle, and I was like, well, because I'm friendly

582
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 2: with Krishelle, but I just am struggling and like, what

583
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 2: am I missing with the piece because I just am like,

584
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: just she won't especially with her not like Krishelle apologized. Fine,

585
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 2: I get it, she did it in front of Jason,

586
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 2: and you know she wished that she wouldn't have done

587
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 2: it in front of Jason. But at the same time,

588
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, well, can you just squash it and

589
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: stop it? Like that just feels like such old news.

590
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 4: Move on.

591
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 2: Yes, you're great, you're og, you were amazing, and you

592
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 2: took that one sale and you don't think she should

593
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 2: have taken it. Fine, okay, we're let's move on from that.

594
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 2: And now there's still this like I feel like she

595
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 2: just wants to keep going and she doesn't just drop

596
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 2: it and get over it. But is that also Krishelle

597
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 2: doing that too, and we're just seeing a one sided thing.

598
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 2: But I just am like, because I really want to

599
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 2: try to like her, but it's really frustrating because I'm like, girl.

600
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 4: Just stop.

601
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, and I'm like, I'm.

602
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 2: Really trying because I want to like her, but it's

603
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: frustrating when I'm watching it and it's just like, okay.

604
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 4: Enough, Yeah, it is helped me Mary.

605
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: For me, Yeah, I wish I could. You know, it's

606
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: frustrating for me too, because I honestly I love Nicole.

607
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: I mean, she officiated my wedding, and I think that

608
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: this is a very common response to what is happening

609
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 1: on the show. And she is a very stubborn, stubborn woman,

610
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: which can also be you know, like my husband's a

611
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: very stubborn man and so, and they remind me of

612
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: each other in certain ways where it's like that can

613
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: be a good thing in certain situations, and this one,

614
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, stop.

615
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 10: You are not helping yourself.

616
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: Just let it go. And so even when she wants

617
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: to let it go, it's like I think she something

618
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: happens or something said where she feels like she has

619
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: to defend herself, like because everyone has hated on her.

620
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: Soone she's like, I'm not this person, and so by

621
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: by defending herself more, it just makes it look worse.

622
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I feel like if you keep saying not

623
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: this person, but then you're still being this person, well

624
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 2: then I'm like you're kind of that person. Then you're

625
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 2: not showing anybody anything different. So then it's like is

626
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: it jealousy? Is it ownership? And like what piece is it?

627
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 10: I think she's just very prideful of her of real estate.

628
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 10: She's very good at what she does. She's prideful about that.

629
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: And and but she really is like a very fun, outgoing,

630
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: like chill person on Like like just when I go

631
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: to her house and we'll hang out at her pool

632
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: with her and Willys, like sit in a hot tub

633
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: for hours and just talk and.

634
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 10: And stuff, and she's really fun. And she's not she's

635
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 10: not there peron.

636
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: She's extreme. She is an extremist. She always has been,

637
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: but normally it's in a in a fun way where

638
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: it's hilarious. And and I think that in this situation,

639
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: I've been very honest with her about that. I'm like,

640
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: I've tried to be a friend to you. I've tried

641
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: to like tell you this is you are not doing

642
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: yourself any favors. Like, here's the reality, here's what's going on. Like,

643
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: this is an old situation. It's Jason's fault for doing it.

644
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: It's not Chrishelle's fault. You need to let it go.

645
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,959
Speaker 1: You need to drop it. It doesn't matter, you're not

646
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 1: going to go back to it. Focus on your current client,

647
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: focus on this. Leave Chrishell alone to stop. But then

648
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: and Chrischelle is like upset to where she's like she

649
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: will she's dead to her, She's like, I will, I

650
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: will move on and just try to coexist. And Krishell

651
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: did apologize and stuff, and Nicole didn't, and she says

652
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: she wanted to. I'm like, then, do it right, Just

653
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: do it. It doesn't have to be a perfect scenario. Just

654
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 1: do it.

655
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 4: I feel like you do such a good job though

656
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 4: of being.

657
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 2: It's it's a probably a very hard job because youve

658
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 2: got to play both sides. Yeah, but is there a

659
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 2: person on the show that you think has changed not

660
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 2: for the better?

661
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 4: While filming the show.

662
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 3: M hmm, good question, Jannet, look away.

663
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 4: Don't you give me the merry response to.

664
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 3: She clearly has someone.

665
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 2: I know you are because it's the managerial piece of

666
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 2: what you do.

667
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 4: I get it.

668
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 2: But also this these shows, this environment, it changes people,

669
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,240
Speaker 2: and I think it's that's not a bad thing to say, Okay,

670
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 2: this person is true. We have a friend that's going

671
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 2: through something. She's changed, and I think we could all

672
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 2: say that and go okay.

673
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 7: So maybe the question is who has changed, maybe not

674
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 7: so much, not for the better.

675
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I'm just trying to help. I'm I'm okay.

676
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to say this in a merry way.

677
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,760
Speaker 10: Okay. So, in my opinion, there is.

678
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: Someone on the show on season seven that I've noticed

679
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 1: throughout some of the seasons that that has been in

680
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: the middle of.

681
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 10: Many of the conflicts.

682
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 1: And arguments and and then projects that it's the other person.

683
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 4: And.

684
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: That would be Chelsea in my opinion, and I've seen

685
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 1: it multiple times.

686
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 10: And I think she's a great person, but.

687
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 1: The the kind of attacks and deflection on many other

688
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: people that I care about, it kind of reminds me

689
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,919
Speaker 1: of Pristine at certain times, like where it's like attacks

690
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: and and and I don't know that she's changed. I

691
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: don't know if it, but it's because she's always been outspoken.

692
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 1: But I think she's she's coming to Amanda and twisted

693
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: the story with Amansa on the season. I was like,

694
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: took a step back from mediating and stuff because my

695
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: pregnancy and I wasn't gonna get in the middle of

696
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: it stresses me out. And and but then she's come

697
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 1: after Heather, come after Bree, come after a Mansa recently,

698
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: come up for me. And I'm wait, I.

699
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 4: Don't remember, what did she do to come after you?

700
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 1: No, no, this is this is behind the scenes. Uh,

701
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,399
Speaker 1: And and I still don't know. I have no idea

702
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: what it's about. But so and so I'm just noticing

703
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: like a pattern. But I mean, but the thing is,

704
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,240
Speaker 1: I don't know that she's changed. I just think she's

705
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: This show does make people sensitive. It makes people because

706
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: you get attacks from everybody and the world, and you

707
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 1: get responses from everyone in the world. So then when

708
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 1: you see people and I guarantee I'll get an attack

709
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: over this one. But but it's just it's the truth.

710
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: And I don't think she's a bad person, but but

711
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 1: I just think that there's a a it's repetitive.

712
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, this response, Well, I was.

713
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,280
Speaker 7: Going to ask, but you said it was behind the scenes.

714
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 7: I mean, are people doing this just for the cameras

715
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 7: to cause drama or they're actually also doing That's that's

716
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 7: always my question. I'm like, it's hard to separate, Like

717
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 7: I want to know, like, is this really you orre

718
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 7: you just trying to come up with something to fight

719
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 7: about to argue about on the show out?

720
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't know. I mean I think that I

721
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 10: because I really don't know what it's about.

722
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 1: With me, I tried to think out, but I don't

723
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: know what it's about. But with Amanda, I know, like

724
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: where she was a poster, I was like, she was

725
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: just trying to help. And then like, but I mean,

726
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 1: maybe she didn't do it perfectly. I mean it's hard

727
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: hard to go between people and be I mean, I

728
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: do it, and it's very very difficult to only say

729
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 1: certain things and to make sure you're seeing both sides

730
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: of all times. You don't take side. You like to

731
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: try to help the situation. So maybe she didn't do

732
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: it perfectly, but she wasn't trying to start anything. Of course,

733
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: I'm going to defend her though she is my best friend.

734
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: But but.

735
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 10: Yeah, I just think like that that.

736
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't know and and I I don't know that

737
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 1: that's just my opinion, that's all I'm gonna sayment And

738
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 1: because I've said I do, I like to sit down,

739
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: I'd like to talk it through and figure out where

740
00:38:58,200 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: she's what she's.

741
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 10: Upset about, like what's happening? And no response, So.

742
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I think that says something more to do

743
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 2: on her because I think if you wanting to sit

744
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 2: down and have a conversation with her and go what

745
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 2: what is? Where's the disconnect? That's the growth on you.

746
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 2: That's weakness on her by not wanting to unless she

747
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 2: could be like, well I have a boundary up because

748
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 2: of X, Y and Z. But I still think you

749
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 2: can have a conversation so at least you know what happened,

750
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 2: what the ripple was, because that's the worst when you're like, well,

751
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 2: I have no idea why we're having at least let

752
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 2: me know and then we can. Then you don't have

753
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 2: to talk to me if you don't want to.

754
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 7: If well, being non responsive to me, it just seems childish.

755
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,439
Speaker 7: I mean, it's like you can at least say like, yes,

756
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,240
Speaker 7: I have a problem, I'm not ready to talk about

757
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 7: it or something, just respond right right?

758
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I question that came at me. I was like,

759
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: I mean, you're just gonna You're gonna send this and

760
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 1: then not respond Afterwards, I was like, what is going on?

761
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 10: I have no idea happening right now?

762
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 1: So I have no idea. But anyway, what do you

763
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: what do you do with that?

764
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 4: Does that stuff just keep you up?

765
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 2: Or how do you how do you not let it

766
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 2: affect your every day when there are so many other

767
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 2: more important things too, But it's still those things, those

768
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: those small things are the ones that eat me alive.

769
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 10: Yeah, normally, normally they do it.

770
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: It's a good friend. Then then that would really really

771
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 1: hurt me, and I would yeah, that would hurt me

772
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 1: that they really were this upset about something. I mean,

773
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 1: Chelsea and I were friends, I thought, but but not

774
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: that close. But just the response and the the the

775
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: way it was done. I was just like, you don't

776
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: talk to me like that. No, and we can have

777
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: a conversation, but you do not ever speak to me

778
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 1: like that, And and so I think it was just yeah,

779
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: I just don't care if she wants to sit down

780
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: have a conversation. Fantastic. I think we should, and I'm not.

781
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: I don't like having conversations about like when there's conflict

782
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 1: or something, I just don't know what the conflict is.

783
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: So I love to fix it if it's possible. If not, okay,

784
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: But I'm not going to waste my time. I have clients,

785
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: I have a lot of things going on. I'm not

786
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: gonna let it bother me. She could talk to me

787
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 1: about whatever it is, or if she doesn't want to, fine, Yeah,

788
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 1: not my problem.

789
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,919
Speaker 2: I mean, there's a lot of big personalities on that show.

790
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: Even this season. This season, I actually found myself leaning

791
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 2: more with At first, I liked Chelsea, but this season

792
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,720
Speaker 2: I was leaning more with Brie just because I loved

793
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 2: what she said at the very end where she goes,

794
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 2: I don't have to be this like just because you're.

795
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 8: The oh hi and hockey whatever.

796
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 2: I'm myself and I'm not gonna apologize for that. And

797
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, I love that, you know, and that's something

798
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 2: where I have respect for that over any other of

799
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 2: the other fake hugs and highs and everything.

800
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. I like free I really I do too. I

801
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: didn't get a chance to get to know her that

802
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: much on season six in the beginning, and the more

803
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: I'm around her, the more we talk, She's just very

804
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: real and just very Yeah, like you said, she is

805
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: who she is.

806
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 10: If you don't mess with her, she won't mess with you,

807
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 10: she said. She just is doing her things.

808
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 1: And and I just don't understand why why she's been

809
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: attacked for her life and who she has a baby with.

810
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: It's just like it's no one's.

811
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 2: Picture just because it doesn't fight someone else's agenda. Do

812
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 2: you don't need to be rude to the person.

813
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: It's not.

814
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's not. It's not traditional.

815
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: It's not.

816
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 10: But so what neither are we? I mean we're not

817
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,879
Speaker 10: traditional either are officely like it's nobody's business.

818
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: It's if she's happy, her child is happy, happy, and

819
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: while taken care of and and it works for her,

820
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: that is all that matters in my opinion. I mean, so,

821
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: I think you let people live their life if you

822
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: don't want to be attacked and criticized for who you

823
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: are and what you do to someone else.

824
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,720
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, moving on to real estate. So her husband

825
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 2: is a realtor. He's sold my houses and he's the best.

826
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 2: But we've always are obviously talking about real estate and

827
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 2: do you and on the show this season there was

828
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 2: a lot of listen, it's hard interest rates and the

829
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 2: now the mansion tax that obviously I have no idea about,

830
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 2: so but that you guys are having to deal with.

831
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 2: Do you do you see an end in sight or

832
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 2: no this time because it's like I I almost couldn't

833
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 2: move into my new home because of the new interest

834
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: rates because I just moved. I was actually talking texting

835
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 2: with the Mansa because I was going to have her

836
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 2: to one of my rooms for interior design's.

837
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 4: So she's so sweet. I love her, but she's the best.

838
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 2: And but yeah, I'm like this is this is crazy

839
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 2: because I'm like this, this needs to go down or

840
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to sell this place. You know, Like

841
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,399
Speaker 2: I'm like I need these rates down just as everybody else.

842
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 2: But I mean it's like better, yeah, because I'm like

843
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 2: I thought it was still good in La but I

844
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 2: know now watching the show, I'm like, oh, it looks

845
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 2: like it's it's bad there too.

846
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's bad. It is bad.

847
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,839
Speaker 10: It's probably it's the worst I've seen it in while.

848
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 1: In quite a while.

849
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,879
Speaker 10: Probably I thought my license in two thousand and eight, like.

850
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: When the market court And yeah, so I would say,

851
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: I mean it's still moving and certain price points it

852
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: would be under five million, it's still moving. I am

853
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 1: getting a new listing that's kind of flourish. But my

854
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: sellers don't worry about money at all. And then the

855
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: really high price points, a lot of people are cash anyway.

856
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: It's like around thirty million, so so that's it had

857
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: some like a lot of people are cash in that

858
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: price point, so and that so that makes it better.

859
00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: But but most people aren't selling right now because of

860
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: the mansion a tax.

861
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,320
Speaker 10: They're not going to pay the extra five and a

862
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 10: half percent to sell their house.

863
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: It's just it's insane. And but there is a petition

864
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 1: and a lawsuit against that, the mansion tax. So we'll

865
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: we'll see what happens with that.

866
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 10: Hopefully it gets overturned.

867
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: We won't find out until next year though, unfortunately, so

868
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: it's going to be around for a while.

869
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 3: And is that over sorry, is that over one million

870
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 3: or two? What is the mansion tax?

871
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:27,360
Speaker 1: Over five million?

872
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 3: Over five million?

873
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 4: What's the tacks on it?

874
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 10: It's they would be paying five like around five and

875
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 10: a half percent.

876
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 1: Jeez, yeah, five and a half percent something is what

877
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: people end up paying.

878
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 2: Do you think we'll ever see what we saw interest

879
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 2: rates be the last couple of years.

880
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a while, but hope, hopefully

881
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: they'll start going down. I was thinking they would go

882
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: down sooner, but we're not really seeing much right now.

883
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: But I think over the next couple of years hopefully. Yeah,

884
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 1: but it's it's in me a while. I don't think

885
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: it's going to be within the next few months.

886
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:03,359
Speaker 4: M hmm.

887
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: It's hard to say. I wish I had had a

888
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: magic right ball. Tell me my.

889
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 7: Husband's still gonna work.

890
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 4: He's got all these you know, he's like, hey, I

891
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 4: lost this much. We're just talking their days. I lost

892
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 4: this much.

893
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 2: And because I had to take the houses off the

894
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:25,280
Speaker 2: because they weren't selling.

895
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's like, oh.

896
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,919
Speaker 7: Well, and then you get into the holidays and it's

897
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,919
Speaker 7: like I might as well stay. I might as well.

898
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 7: So it's like, all right, you know that's what it is.

899
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, nothing happens from November until New Year's Anyway.

900
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 4: You guys should come open an office in Nashville.

901
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 10: I would love to, you know what I have not

902
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 10: been to Nashville in a while. But it's like, I

903
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 10: prot it's amazing there. Jason was just there.

904
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was, Yeah, Jason.

905
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 2: He would text it and he's like, hey, I'm you know,

906
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: let's all get together, but I'm not ready to pop

907
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,879
Speaker 2: and I'm like my house like love.

908
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like I'm not leaving that else.

909
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 2: But yeah, I was thinking about that because I mean,

910
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 2: Nashville is it's I think it's slowed down a little

911
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:06,839
Speaker 2: bit real estate wise, but there is a.

912
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 4: Lot of people from California. Yeah still.

913
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 1: Oh, a lot of people are moving from California. And

914
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 1: that's that's the other thing, because the mansion tax with

915
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:19,240
Speaker 1: everything combined, it's like why are people staying in California.

916
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: Everything is able, everything is like remote now anyway, and

917
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: so a lot of people, a lot of our rich

918
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: clients are just refusing to pay the taxes and stuff anymore.

919
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: They're like, no, we'll go, We'll buy and have our

920
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 1: primary home in Florida, Texas, Nashville, and like in Arizona

921
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: and Nevada.

922
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 10: There's a lot of options, and.

923
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: They're not going to hold their primary in California anymore

924
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,439
Speaker 1: because they refuse to pay the taxes. So I think

925
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 1: California needs to get with it and realize they're losing

926
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:52,320
Speaker 1: out by by like just being greedy and penny pinching.

927
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: They're losing out on all of the taxes that they

928
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: that they would be getting from from the majority of

929
00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:59,800
Speaker 1: the people that are paying all the taxes.

930
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 10: Understand, helping the least fort like helping people and lower.

931
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: Price brackets, but you're not doing that when you're Also,

932
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: they're out of jobs because of all these big construction

933
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: projects and developments there. They're not happening. So now all

934
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:18,919
Speaker 1: the construct workers aren't getting jobs on that right, they're

935
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 1: moving out, they're not selling, So you're not getting extra

936
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 1: money from so many resources that they would normally just

937
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 1: be getting this tax money. So I don't know.

938
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of Jason, I have a question because I

939
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 2: know how how close you guys are. Yeah, and the

940
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 2: other Mary is out. So is there a girl that

941
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: you go, Okay, this girl would be perfect for Jason.

942
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 10: Well that's Chrishelle, but he yeah, he did.

943
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: I still think he loves her every time, and I

944
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,720
Speaker 2: know the whole storyline watching too and like everything always

945
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 2: get his little like smile like wing thing. But I

946
00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 2: mean it's just it just reeks for me when I

947
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 2: watch it like that. He's just still I know, with her,

948
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:05,439
Speaker 2: But that's sad.

949
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 10: But he's he's come to terms where he I mean,

950
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 10: he will always love her.

951
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: If he always loved every every important woman in his life,

952
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 1: he will always love them and always be there for them.

953
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: But Kasha was special for him, she really was, and

954
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: and seeing that from being his ex, like I mean,

955
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm like it was their difference, and and he and

956
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:29,879
Speaker 1: I are very very close, but that was a whole

957
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: different situation. And but he is, I mean, he has

958
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: moved on, and he's very happy for her and her

959
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: relations to Wigi truly happy, and and he's friends with

960
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: g and and they have a really good relationship, all

961
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: all of them together now. And and I think that,

962
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: you know, he just knows that he is not the

963
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 1: best thing for her though, because she deserves more. And

964
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 1: so I think it comes from a very love in

965
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 1: place that when he realized he wasn't ready and didn't

966
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: know if he would be ready in a couple of years,

967
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 1: but if he wasn't, he just ruined her chances about

968
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 1: her having a kid, and that's.

969
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 10: Not fair to her.

970
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think it came out of the love.

971
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,879
Speaker 1: He has heard that that he was honest about that.

972
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 2: Right, Well, stand up, I mean that's that's that's good

973
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 2: for sure. Well, Mary, thank you for coming on. Love

974
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: you and just will be praying for you and we

975
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 2: know you're Everything is going to be great. Everything will

976
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 2: work out the way it's supposed to, and it'll all

977
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 2: make sense in the end.

978
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,240
Speaker 1: Thank you, and congratulations on yours.

979
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 4: Thank you appreciate it. Thank you so much. And anytime

980
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 4: you're in Nashville, let us know and we'll go out.

981
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 8: I will, okay, all right.

982
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 4: I love her.

983
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 3: She's precious.

984
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 4: She's so great. You have to watch the season and

985
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 4: I'm good, like I'm going to go back good.

986
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:02,320
Speaker 6: Tonight.

987
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 4: She's just.

988
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 5: I love how she gave us a little something though

989
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 5: I know she's she's like, I'm going to get a

990
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 5: hate for this, which she know.

991
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 4: I'm honest, liked her the entire time.

992
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 3: Chelsea, Chelsea, she is not my favorite.

993
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:17,760
Speaker 4: Sorry.

994
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 2: I get her values and I have respect her values

995
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 2: with things. But I don't think how she handled it

996
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 2: with Brie was.

997
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: Right.

998
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 3: I don't think I've seen that that was.

999
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 2: The last season, no, because she was very against the

1000
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 2: fact that she had a baby with Nick Cannon.

1001
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 4: They're not married. It's open relationship.

1002
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 2: Okay, just because it doesn't fit your you don't have

1003
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 2: to not like this person. You can still be kind.

1004
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 2: But I think Bree made such a good point this

1005
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 2: season where she because Chelsea brought another girl kind of

1006
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 2: in alliance with her, She's because everyone ended up liking Bree.

1007
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 2: She's like, so now that everyone likes me, now you're

1008
00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 2: trying to be my friend when that to me seems

1009
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 2: to which in red fake too, so you'll you'll pick

1010
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 2: up on that. But then there was this other girl

1011
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 2: that they kind of broughtened, I think Stirrup a little drama,

1012
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:13,719
Speaker 2: and she didn't like Brie. So then Chelsea and her

1013
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 2: buddied up. So she's like, you're just trying to fit

1014
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 2: again your narrative of someone else that does not like me. Yeah, no,

1015
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 2: but it's just she's a little But again, everyone has

1016
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 2: like big personalities, but hers, hers is of her.

1017
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, which I understand. I mean I get big personalities,

1018
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 7: but I don't know. Hers is just always kind rubbed

1019
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 7: me the wrong way. But we'll see how it goes

1020
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 7: this season. Can't wait to watch.

1021
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 4: Stay tuned For a lot of things coming up, see

1022
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 4: next Sweet