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Speaker 1: Hello, my beautiful people.

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Speaker 2: It's Monday, which means it's time for a brand new

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Speaker 2: episode of your favorite podcast, Cheese in Chill. I don't

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Speaker 2: know if I've mentioned this before, but I actually love Mondays.

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Speaker 2: I know a lot of people don't because it means

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Speaker 2: the weekend is over. But I really like Mondays because

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Speaker 2: it's a fresh start, and I love fresh starts. Today

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Speaker 2: we're talking about a topic that was inspired by a

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Speaker 2: listener named Tony. He left a voice note for us

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Speaker 2: on Dear Cheeky's asking me about my thoughts on Latino

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Speaker 2: toxic culture, specifically when it comes to comparing and contrasting

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Speaker 2: family members. And since this is something I've personally experienced

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Speaker 2: and something I've tried to put a stop to in

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Speaker 2: my own family, I thought it would be a good

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Speaker 2: idea to do a longer episode on this topic because

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Speaker 2: I do have quite a bit to say about it.

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Speaker 2: Let's start with my personal experience guy as a Latina,

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Speaker 2: as a public figure, as an entrepreneur, as a daughter,

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Speaker 2: a sister, a friend, I have felt the sting of

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Speaker 2: being talked about, compared, and torn down, not just by strangers,

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Speaker 2: but sometimes by people in my own community. I've heard

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Speaker 2: and I've read comments like gin Secre, she thinks she's

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Speaker 2: all that cuma ma saigulin to get there, you know,

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Speaker 2: the whole thing, or yes, Vienne, Like I have heard

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Speaker 2: so many different things, guys, I have felt it, and

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Speaker 2: I know I'm not alone. And sometimes the hardest battles

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Speaker 2: aren't with outsiders, they're with our own people, and that

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Speaker 2: kind of pain, it just it cuts different. I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to figure out where to start because I don't want

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Speaker 2: to make anyone look bad. But this whole idea also,

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Speaker 2: like after listening to Tony's question on to your Cheeky's

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Speaker 2: also has been something that I have kept within and

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Speaker 2: I have only talked to people that I absolutely trust.

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Speaker 2: But I've noticed with a lot of Latina influencers, how

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Speaker 2: there's like this competition or like this mean girl like

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Speaker 2: group and they expect you to support their stuff, but

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Speaker 2: when it comes to them supporting your stuff, they don't.

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Speaker 2: And I'm talking about me my stuff because I am

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Speaker 2: not one to just talk.

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Speaker 1: I am about my people.

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Speaker 2: I am want to always support small businesses, whether they're

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Speaker 2: Latino or not, Especiallyatino women, small businesses, women owned businesses,

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Speaker 2: and I love to see other latinas grow and I've

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Speaker 2: been in the game for a long time. And if

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Speaker 2: you guys go back on my YouTube page on Cheeky's Online,

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Speaker 2: I have videos. In two thousand, oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 2: was living at my mom's house and Encino in two

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Speaker 2: thousand and nine twenty ten, I can honestly say I

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Speaker 2: was one of the pioneers in the influencer space. It

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Speaker 2: didn't have a label then, but I was sharing all

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Speaker 2: my secrets. I would even call it Cheeky Secrets or

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Speaker 2: Cheeky's Approved, and I would share things that work for

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Speaker 2: me and it could be fajas, it could be a

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Speaker 2: self tanning thing like I did so many of them.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about it the other day and anyway,

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Speaker 2: Then I went into becoming a singer, and apparently, or supposedly,

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Speaker 2: you can't do both. It's one or the other. And

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Speaker 2: if you're an influencer, quote unquote, you can't be a

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Speaker 2: respected singer. I've broken all the rules. I've bet them.

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Speaker 2: I've been like, no, I'm going to do whatever I

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Speaker 2: want to do. All this to say that since I

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Speaker 2: know what it's about and I wasn't getting paid then

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Speaker 2: I was on YouTube and I wasn't making a lot

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Speaker 2: of money, like I was just like wanting to share,

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Speaker 2: like I've always wanted to share everything, like you know,

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Speaker 2: like my personal experiences and just everything that works for me.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm not a gatekeeper, and I've noticed

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Speaker 2: that now it's different. Sometimes I feel like certain influencers

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Speaker 2: think they are better or bigger or more famous, or

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Speaker 2: they think that they are, yeah, like more than an artist,

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Speaker 2: like I not mean particular, like I don't, I really

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Speaker 2: don't care. It just makes me that instead of coming

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Speaker 2: together and making the Latino community and highlighting each other

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Speaker 2: and uplifting each other, it's like a one way street

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Speaker 2: and it's not cool and it's sad because I feel

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Speaker 2: like God has given me this platform to help other people,

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Speaker 2: and I really truly believe in sharing the blessings because

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Speaker 2: it's paying it forward. It's an energy, it's an energy exchange, guys.

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Speaker 2: And the reason I'm bringing this up because it's just

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Speaker 2: recently happened. With my book, I helped out a certain

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Speaker 2: respect for her, and I'm not going to say her name,

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Speaker 2: it's not necessary, but she personally reached out and said, Hey,

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Speaker 2: I'm coming out with so and so product and I

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Speaker 2: want to send it to you, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: of course.

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Speaker 1: She sent it to me.

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Speaker 2: I posted it, and I was happy to post it.

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Speaker 2: I loved what she sent me. She did that twice.

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Speaker 2: She yeah, we'll just leave it at that.

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Speaker 1: She did it twice.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say more because I don't want you, guys,

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Speaker 2: speculating or trying to put things together.

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Speaker 1: It's not important.

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Speaker 2: The important part is how we are going to heal this,

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Speaker 2: because it's not cool anyway.

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Speaker 1: I did it.

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Speaker 2: I supported her with her brands wholeheartedly. She didn't ask

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Speaker 2: me to necessarily, but when it came around, and I

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Speaker 2: never do this, guys, it's hard for me to. I

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Speaker 2: feel like people should do it out of the kindness

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Speaker 2: of their heart. But since she had already asked me

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Speaker 2: and reached out personally, I thought, Okay, well, my book

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Speaker 2: is coming out. She has kids. I'm going to send

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Speaker 2: her the book because it makes sense. I'll send her

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Speaker 2: a little pr package. I asked for her address. I

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Speaker 2: sent it to her and that was a month ago

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Speaker 2: and she hasn't posted it. And that's fine. I don't

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Speaker 2: need her to post it. Thank god it did well.

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Speaker 2: It's the principle, and I think why why? And this

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Speaker 2: is not the first time it happens, And it had

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Speaker 2: me thinking, am I the problem? And here I go

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Speaker 2: back to these like toxic things that we were taught

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Speaker 2: and that were.

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Speaker 1: Instilled in us.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh wait wait, I'm not going

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Speaker 2: to let this affect me in that way. I know

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Speaker 2: who I am, I know where my heart is. That's

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Speaker 2: not a me problem, that's a them problem. And it's

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Speaker 2: not my business. I have to just out of mine,

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Speaker 2: out of sight and just say okay, cool now I know.

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Speaker 1: Now. Am I not going to support her next thing?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to cross that bridge when I get there,

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Speaker 2: but I will tell you I'm not going to necessarily

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Speaker 2: forget that because it wasn't like it's a children's book.

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Speaker 1: It's something beautiful. It's not like a product.

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Speaker 2: Like I understand they can't post certain things because I'm

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Speaker 2: that they need to prioritize. But this is a children's

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Speaker 2: book and you have kids. So it just made me sad,

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Speaker 2: and it got me thinking about this question that Tony

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Speaker 2: of the of the gangakos, which are crabs in English,

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Speaker 2: right that if you put them in a bucket and

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Speaker 2: once trying to get out, another crab comes and pulls

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Speaker 2: and very sadly, I have noticed, especially in my industry

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Speaker 2: or a domino effect, should I say a domino effect,

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Speaker 2: we pull each other down, either by actions or words

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Speaker 2: or talking bad. And I'm not even gonna put myself

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Speaker 2: in that because I'm not because I'm not like that,

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Speaker 2: and I do my best not to like, I'm not

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Speaker 2: gonna say we. But I have seen in the Latino community,

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Speaker 2: and I have experienced that you make it to a

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Speaker 1: That's tight.

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Speaker 2: Heck, yeah, that's awesome, it's more of like, oh, y,

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Speaker 2: you know, they're not like about it anymore. They're lost

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Speaker 2: seen it, you know, but it's not with everyone. And

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Speaker 2: I think we could say, hey, if someone made it

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Speaker 2: whatever you want to call it. And I've noticed that.

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Speaker 2: And it's not only with that guys, it's also with

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Speaker 2: can't accomplish more than I've accomplished, and it should be

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Speaker 2: the complete opposite. I want my little sister Jenica to

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Speaker 2: And this is a very delicate subject because obviously my

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Speaker 2: mom was going to support my career as a singer,

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Speaker 2: a lot in the industry, especially in my genre. In

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Speaker 2: is why it was so hard for me. Not only

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Speaker 2: because when I first started, I wasn't the best at singing.

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Speaker 1: I was just.

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Speaker 2: Starting, duh, but but because my mom was this monster

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Speaker 2: that people constantly compared me to her, and they weren't

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Speaker 2: giving me the opportunity of like, Okay, my mom had

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Speaker 2: twenty years under her belt. Of course she's sang beautifully,

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Speaker 2: but she didn't always sing that way, and so people

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Speaker 2: you want to like take your mom's place. No, I don't,

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Speaker 2: and I never will, and no one will ever take

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Speaker 2: Selena's place or Juan Gabrielle's place, or Michael Jackson's place

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Speaker 2: or John Lennon, like it just will never happen. Those

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Speaker 2: be me and my mom be her? And putting that

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Speaker 2: she would freaking be the first to defend me, the

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Speaker 2: first to support me, like I know it. But then

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Speaker 2: I get in the industry, and then there are other

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Speaker 2: I get you, like, we don't always have the funds

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Speaker 2: Lighter skin is praised. We've talked about that before. I

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Speaker 2: this is inherited, it's learned, but it can be unlearned. Okay,

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Speaker 2: You know, we hear a lot like or Prieto or

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Speaker 2: a way of showing my love Esuncarino. It's like a

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Speaker 2: I can't even think about what. But anyway, gossip is

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Speaker 2: over that judging someone for how they talk, how they dress,

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Speaker 1: None of your business.

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Speaker 2: That's one thing that my life coach is teaching me again,

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Speaker 2: it's not your business what they say, what they think

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Speaker 2: And it's not my business. How they do their thing

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Speaker 2: Before we conclude this episode, how do we heal some examples. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we shift the culture by shifting ourselves. We shift ourselves first.

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Speaker 2: It starts with ourselves. We celebrate others even when we're

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Speaker 2: still on our own journey. Check your own jealousy. Do

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Speaker 2: am I jealous?

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Speaker 1: And it's okay. We all feel a little bit of jealousy.

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 2: I understand sometimes you feel little insecure because there's a

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Speaker 2: in our own way. Okay, support Latina owned businesses. Music

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Speaker 2: are healing spaces. Catch yourself when you compare and choose

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Speaker 2: curiosity instead. Go to therapy. Y'all know I'm a huge

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Speaker 2: advocate for therapy. Journal love, journaling, you pray, and we

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: We have to be intentional in wanting to break these

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Speaker 2: but for the generations to come. We have to keep

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Speaker 2: that in mind. Guys, and just know that our success

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Speaker 2: or your success does not threaten mine. Your success does

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Speaker 2: not threaten mine. In fact, when you win, we all win, guys.

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Speaker 2: And I know this might sound a little cliche and

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Speaker 2: a little bit like, I don't know, mystical or whatever

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Speaker 2: you want to call it, but it's true, guys, Like

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Speaker 2: we got to see it that way, Like it's like

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Speaker 2: when someone in the community wins.

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Speaker 1: Like that's tied.

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Speaker 2: We all freaking win, Like that's amazing, and there is

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Speaker 2: room again, there is room for all of us, and

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Speaker 2: we are so much stronger when we rise together united,

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Speaker 2: we stand divided, we fall. So anyway, guys, that's it.

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Speaker 2: That's this episode. I hope you guys enjoyed it. I

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Speaker 2: know I have a lot to say, but all these

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Speaker 2: topics are very important and very true to me, and

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Speaker 2: I just I'm here to help in any way that

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Speaker 2: I possibly can. And yeah, I mean, my vision for

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Speaker 2: our culture, starting with myself, is ending the fake support guys,

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Speaker 2: ending silent envy, and healing what our parents and grandparents

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Speaker 2: never could. Now to conclude, guys, if you have ever

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Speaker 2: felt unsupported, judged, or criticized by your own people, I

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Speaker 2: want you to know it's not your faults and you're

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Speaker 2: not alone. I see you, I love you, I'm proud

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Speaker 2: of you. I'm here, and I'll be waiting here, right

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Speaker 2: here on this chair for the next episode of Cheeky's

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Speaker 2: and Chill. Let's do better guys together, Love you.

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