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Speaker 1: wedding news. I got two things. So, first of all,

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Speaker 1: when did it ever become a thing for someone to

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Speaker 1: that ever become something that that that anyone thought was

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Speaker 1: guest named Alyssa her boyfriend Josh. I love how now

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Speaker 1: So now we can go to your LinkedIn find out

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Speaker 1: where you work and like harassed you there too, like

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Speaker 1: the problem. So Josh, he's Alyssa's boyfriend. He dropped to

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Speaker 1: one knee and proposed right on the dance floor at

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Speaker 1: someone else's wedding without asking the bride or groom for permission.

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Speaker 1: The bride was caught off guard, where there was a

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Speaker 1: the mum wash here on TikTok where when viral, of course,

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Speaker 1: sparking a very heated debate. Critics slammed the moves disrespectful

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Speaker 1: They argue that it overshadowed the couple. Special day supporters

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Speaker 1: saw it as spontaneous, an active love, knowing that weddings

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Speaker 1: are about celebrating unity. Yes, the unity of the person

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Speaker 1: who paid for the wedding, not you. You do not get

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's kind of what it is.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, like, what are people thinking, Like, in

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Speaker 1: what world has had a good idea? I'm honestly, I'm

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Speaker 1: I waited for this day, We planned it, we invited everybody,

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Speaker 1: this entertainment and everything, and now you somehow trying to

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Speaker 1: make it about you, this about me today, Well, really

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Speaker 4: Know whoever I'm marry, I know someone who shared their

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Speaker 4: engagement during the wedding weekend of someone else's and even

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Speaker 4: I think even that's like a little bit off, just

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Speaker 4: to just maybe another time, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: So the group of friends were there and they announced

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Speaker 1: But I guess if you show up with a ring

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Speaker 1: and people are like, what's that? But then again, your

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Speaker 1: friends don't know you got engaged until you all get

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Speaker 1: let's say you get engaged on a Wednesday or even

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Speaker 1: The least you could do is let everybody know before

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Speaker 1: you go to somebody else's wedding weekend and now everyone's like,

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Speaker 1: not that it has to be all about you, but like,

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Speaker 1: why would you do something to intentionally take the shine

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I feel like I wouldn't even as somebody

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Speaker 3: Like emergency like your arm fell off.

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Speaker 4: Someone in one of the wedding parties because that takes

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Speaker 3: The couple over a wedding weekend. Are we cool with that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I've been on both sides of that one where

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Speaker 1: what have you done? What did you Paul?

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Speaker 2: Well, good morning, love you, love your show.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, love you too, well, I love you too,

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Speaker 1: But what's this story? What did you do?

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Speaker 2: So I actually got engaged at my sister's wedding.

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Speaker 1: You better have a good reason for this.

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Speaker 2: I do, I do. I had planned it out with

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Speaker 2: so we were surrounded by everybody we loved. My sister

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Speaker 1: I love you, Paul, but you went ahead and just

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Speaker 1: a ninety degree turn on someone else's wedding. Now, I

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Speaker 1: appreciate that you asked for permission, But do you truly believe, Paul,

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Speaker 2: It was something that my sister and I are very close,

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Speaker 1: So I mean you asked. You asked. This person that

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Speaker 2: You know, yes, absolutely, When I said I do agree

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Speaker 2: with that, I well, you asked, I did ask and

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Speaker 1: All right, well you you ran you ran it by it.

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Speaker 1: It's good Paul. Hey, thanks for Sarah man. Have a

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Speaker 1: good day. H right you man? Oh this is good.

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Speaker 1: Hey Shaannie? Hello Shannie? What your mom did? What? This

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Speaker 7: Yes, so this is my wedding. My mom had been

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Speaker 1: Partner is a very nice way of saying, you're a

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Speaker 1: fair partner in the affair. Wow, wow, this all happened.

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Speaker 3: That's good luck though if that happens on your wedding day.

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Speaker 1: So you're going wow, oh, no, have you forgiven your

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Speaker 1: Have you? Have you guys discussed it? Are you talking?

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Speaker 1: Are you over it? Like? How are you feeling? It's complicated? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And and I you know, I hate to judge, Johnny,

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Speaker 3: She's very nurse?

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Speaker 1: Ah, yes, the Yeah, you know, I'm not. I'm not

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Speaker 1: hear it. Thank you, Johnny, you have a good.

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Speaker 3: Day you too, Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is amazing. What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 3: And betrayal your own mom?

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Speaker 1: Right? What is wrong with you? And then my second

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Speaker 1: week on TikTok. But during a wedding reception, a groom

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Speaker 1: him with his best man. Now, we find out this

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Speaker 1: is a bit. It still isn't whatever. But the father

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Speaker 1: of the bride concluded his speech. At the wedding, the

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Speaker 1: groom stood up and asked attendees to open envelopes placed

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Speaker 1: on their tables. Inside were photos exposing the affair that

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Speaker 1: this guy's wife was having with the best man. He

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Speaker 1: then announced he was leaving, dropped the mic, and his

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Speaker 1: entire family walked out with him. The bride's family, who

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Speaker 1: had funded the wedding, was left to deal with the aftermath.

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Speaker 1: This was shared on a UK podcast, The Unfiltered Bride

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Speaker 1: in a sense gone viral. Now here's my thing. Did

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Speaker 1: he marry her? So he went through with the actual

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Speaker 1: said the bride. The father of the bride had a

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Speaker 1: went through with the ceremony. So he married her, and

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Speaker 1: then I guess you can get an annulment. But like

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Speaker 1: this was obviously you know, there was forethought here. This

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Speaker 1: was planned. I mean somebody went to FedEx Kinkos and

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Speaker 1: got everything printed out and put it all your envelopes

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Speaker 1: on the tables and stuff, and then and the family

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Speaker 1: talked about this. So my thing is, yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: of course, you have every right to be scorned and

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Speaker 1: angry that you're being cheated on with your presumably best

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Speaker 1: the whole thing, But like, does it make you look

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Speaker 1: worse as the person who scorned to make everybody come

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Speaker 1: to this wedding and then plan this big production?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I love this too, I think he this is chef's kiss.

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Speaker 6: This is how you expose somebody and you build it

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Speaker 6: all up. You have this big ceremony, you go into

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Speaker 6: the reception and then boom, and then you drop the

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Speaker 3: I think he did a phenomenal job.

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Speaker 1: Now, except for the story that I would have had

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Speaker 1: for the show. I mean, if you'd made me fly

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Speaker 1: so wait a minute, you knew a week ago when

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Speaker 1: you were at you know, at Kinko's copies of the

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Speaker 1: seven a thing anymore. It's the photoshop, but you know whatever,

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Speaker 1: you you were in there the copying stuff and making

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Speaker 1: envelopes of things, you knew that, and I still had

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Speaker 1: to fly across the country to Tuscaloosa, you know, to

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Speaker 1: go to your wedding, only for you to know this

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Speaker 1: wasn't gonna happen to be a big production walk out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I guess if your team groom, then

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have a great night at the bar later. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and it's a good story, but I who does this

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Speaker 1: actually make look worse though? I mean, of course it's

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Speaker 1: the cheater, but then this is pretty like I don't know,

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Speaker 1: this is like, this is not the best. Look like

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Speaker 1: you look you look like mad, mad mad, like like.

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Speaker 3: Like Penny mad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but how about just cancel the wedding, keep the

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Speaker 1: money and then put on the wedding website these pictures

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Speaker 1: and then for the link to everybody. So it's it's

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Speaker 1: time saving, it's cost effective, and you're accomplishing the same thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, So you would have if this happened, and

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Speaker 1: God forbid, Big Tim were this guy, you would we'd

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Speaker 1: all go to your wedding. We'd have the flowers and

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Speaker 1: the you know, we'd have the whole thing and catering

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Speaker 1: and the bar and we'd have the DJ there, the

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Speaker 1: whole thing. Oh yes, and then you'd blow it up.

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Speaker 6: I would blow it up. Yes, yes, because it just

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Speaker 6: makes it that more dramatic. Everybody's in the same room,

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Speaker 6: everybody's reacting at the same time.

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Speaker 3: The bride is stunned, the.

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Speaker 6: Best man is stunned, everybody that needs to be this

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Speaker 6: is this is phenomenal.

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Speaker 3: I love it. So I did a slide show.

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Speaker 8: I would have the power point PA, whatever you need.

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Speaker 8: Really yeah, yeah, because I like to embarrassed people that

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Speaker 8: deserve to be embarrassed. I really, I really enjoy that,

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Speaker 8: like thoroughly, especially if you hurt me in that way.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm marrying you, and it's it's.

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Speaker 5: My best friend and my husband right in my scenario,

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Speaker 5: like creeping around like yeah, that hurts, and we're both

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Speaker 5: gonna be hurt together. I know it's not great. My

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Speaker 5: therapist doesn't like, let I do that. But if I'm hurt,

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Speaker 5: you're gonna be hurt too.

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Speaker 1: Oh neat, Well, okay, keep.

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Speaker 3: Very pretty keep that I'm marking on it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess you paid for everything, so like you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're committed. I get I suppose, but again,

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Speaker 1: you know, if I had a flight of Dallas for

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Speaker 1: this right, you.

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Speaker 3: Would love this. This was the best story ever, I guess.

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Speaker 6: But I you know, I can't pay for this type

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Speaker 6: of entertainment, Like there's no movie that would entertain you

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Speaker 6: more than being at a wedding, opening up an envelope

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Speaker 6: and seeing the groom or the bride with somebody else.

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Speaker 1: You're like, what, And I'm not saying it's right, but

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Speaker 1: sometimes I think the petty person winds up looking dumber,

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Speaker 1: looking a little foolish. Like so you you took all

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Speaker 1: that time and energy to come up with your with

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Speaker 1: your response. The best response probably would have been just

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Speaker 1: to embarrass them and then just bounce. But like you

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Speaker 1: thought about it, man, you stewed on it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you gotta. You cheated on me exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I guess stories of the day next