1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels Second d What happens if you go out 2 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: on a date and then don't call the person the 3 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: next day, okay, and then have a change of heart 4 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: a year later. What That's what we're talking about. In 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: today's second Date update, Philip is on the phone with 6 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: us right now. He met a girl named Hannah during 7 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: a karaoke night a year ago, okay, and it is 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: deciding just to get a hold of her. Now. Why, Philip, Well, 9 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: I recently served overseas in the Marine Corps. It's kind 10 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: of a long story with me and Hannah Early. Um. Yeah, 11 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: like you said, I met her in a karaoke bar, 12 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm not a good singer or anything, 13 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 1: but I just was so tempted to break the ice 14 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: in some way. I asked her to do a duet 15 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: with me, and despite my horrible voice, she she put 16 00:00:55,480 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: up with it and sang Summer Nights from Greece with her. Yeah, awesome. 17 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: It's actually an interesting story. Why you weren't able to 18 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: call her back for a year. Go ahead and tell 19 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: everybody what happened. But I had to ship out for 20 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: the Marine Corps, and you know, I told her i'd 21 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: call her I was very much attracted to this woman, 22 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: but I just couldn't let myself start something that I 23 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: knew I was going to have to put on hold, 24 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So, are you stationed back 25 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: here again or I mean your home? Yeah, I am back, 26 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: and that's kind of why I'm contacting you. Guys. You know, 27 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: your email says that you promised to call her and 28 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: you feel bad because you haven't. I do, but I 29 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: you know, I need to let her know that I 30 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: was doing that for the right reason, you know what 31 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 1: I mean. Yeah, it's kind of sweet. I mean, it's 32 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: like a little love story that could start some big 33 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: celebrities on the big screen. This could all work out amazingly. 34 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: Or she could be married and have four kids. Yeah, 35 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: I never know. I mean, I hope that's not the case. 36 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: But since you've been back from serving your tour, have 37 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: you heard anything about her at all? No? I as 38 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: soon as I got back and got comfortable, I realized 39 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: something that I left behind. You know, the old time 40 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: that I was overseas, she was all I thought about 41 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: the entire time. Are you worried that she didn't feel 42 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: the same, because I mean, I mean him worried I mean, 43 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: I have no idea what to expect in terms of 44 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: how she feels at this point. I mean, it has 45 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: been a while and she probably thinks that I was 46 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: rejecting her. What was it about her? Just the confidence 47 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: of her that was the biggest thing for me. You know, 48 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: when she was up there singing karaoke, it was like 49 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: she looked so comfortable, Like it blew my mind, and 50 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: I'm really awkward when it comes to doing stuff like 51 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: that in front of the big groups of people. But 52 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: as soon as I went up there and shared the 53 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: stage with her, it was like I felt like a 54 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: completely different person. I knew at any point after you 55 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: met her, did you tell her that night, like, Oh, 56 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be leaving soon to go overseas. I wasn't 57 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: sure what to say because I didn't want to ruin 58 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: the moment that night. I didn't want to let her 59 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: know that this was all for nothing, basically because I'm leaving. 60 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: I couldn't break it to her at that point. So 61 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 1: how did that end that night? I mean, you guys 62 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: hung out after you sang together, and then what happened. 63 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: You know, I didn't want to push things too far 64 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: because I didn't want there to be a big emotional 65 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: connection there, even though there wound up being one anyway 66 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: for me. But I mean, I kissed her, I said 67 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: good night, and I told her i'd call her. And 68 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: I feel really bad for not doing that. And you 69 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: haven't tried it all since you've been back to get 70 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: old her. No, I haven't. But I heard from my 71 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: friends about the whole second date update things that you 72 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: guys do, and I thought that might be a good 73 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: way to find out how she really feels. All right, perfect, 74 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. Play a song, come back, call 75 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. Okay, all right, 76 00:03:54,400 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: sounds good. Brooking jubil in the morning. Oh, it's the 77 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: age old story. Guy meets a girl at a karaoke night. 78 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: Guy promises to call her the next day. Guy disappears 79 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: for a year and now wants to reconnect with her. 80 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: How many times we heard that before? Hi? I think 81 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 1: I've seen that Ryan Gossip movie. That's what we're doing 82 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 1: right now. In the second day update, Philip is on 83 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 1: the phone. Philip met a girl named Hannah at a 84 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: karaoke night about a year ago. Now he is in 85 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: the Armed Services. Had to go overseas for a year, 86 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: He didn't call her the next day, ended up leaving, 87 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: and now he's back and wants to get in touch 88 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 1: with her. Philip, how are you feeling right now? To 89 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 1: be honest with you, I'm very nervous about this. You know, 90 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: I've been thinking about this for a while, and I'm 91 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: worried that I screwed up. I don't know. I mean, 92 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: you said you were thinking about her every day for 93 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: an entire year when you were overseas. Yeah, there are 94 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: points where I even considered trying to contact her, but 95 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: I was just worried that it would seem weird coming 96 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: out of the blue yet after one date. I don't know, 97 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: but I do feel very strongly about her. All Right, 98 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call her right now. Okay, you ready? All 99 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: right there? Hello? Hey? Is this Hannah? Is Hannah? How 100 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil in 101 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. What this is? 102 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: Jewil from Brooke and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving 103 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: ninety two point five? How you doing? Is this? Is 104 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: this a joke? What is this? No, it's not a joke. 105 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: I know this is gonna sound kind of weird. But 106 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: do you remember meeting a guy named Philip at a 107 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: karaoke night about a year ago? What? What? What's going on? 108 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: Does that story about meeting a guy named Philip a 109 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 1: year ago at a karaoke night sound familiar to you? 110 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: How do you know about Phil? Oh? Phil and I 111 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: go way back. Yeah, I've known him for longer than 112 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 1: and you have. Phil is back in town. I you 113 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: don't know this, but phil didn't call you after you 114 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: met because he was leaving to go overseas in the 115 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: Armed Services. Oh my gosh, he was overseas, but he 116 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: has emailed us and asked us to get a hold 117 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: of you. Why because he says that he really connected 118 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: with you that night a year ago. And now you 119 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: don't know this, but in his words, he said, he's 120 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: thought about you the entire time, and now he's back 121 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: and he wanted to get a hold of you. Did 122 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 1: you like Philip? Yeah? Oh my gosh, this is so 123 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: cute excited? Would you think when Philip didn't call you 124 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: back the next day after you met him? Wow? Um? 125 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 1: I mean this is like cheesy to say, but it 126 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: kind of broke my heart really really, you know, have 127 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: you ever had those moments in life for you, like 128 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: this is big, this is super important, this is like 129 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: magic right now? Yeah, and it was. And then I 130 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: never heard from him again, and it was like it 131 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: had a bit of dream or something. Okay, so let's 132 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: see where are you at now. So Philip has been 133 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: gone a year, he's back in town and he wants 134 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: to get a hold of you. Wow, I wish I had, don't. 135 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: I spent like four months pining over this one evening. 136 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: But then a couple of months ago, I a friend 137 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: set me up with a friend, and I've been seeing 138 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: him for a couple of months. Yeah, but how serious 139 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: is it? I mean, we're only a couple of months 140 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: in and you're obviously like, pining over a guy for 141 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: four months is crazy? After one night, trade up, trade 142 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: him in a guy that you met, a guy that 143 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: you met on one night you have no idea about. 144 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: But you've been seeing somebody for a little while. Yeah, 145 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: I've got a boyfriend. There's something so powerful that's happening here. 146 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: So you have a boyfriend. Yeah, okay, Now do you 147 00:07:56,400 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: want to talk to Philip at all? I don't know. 148 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: I asked the question because Philip is actually on the 149 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: other line right now, how are you? Oh my god, 150 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: are you there? High? Yes, I'm here, high Listen. Honestly, 151 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: right now, I'm really disappointed, not in not in you 152 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: by any means, just in myself for letting this go 153 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: as long as I did. And I didn't expect you 154 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: to wait for me. But I really need to tell 155 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:38,439 Speaker 1: you that that night it meant a lot to me. 156 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: That's the first time in my life where I've really 157 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 1: felt like I met someone that took me out of 158 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: my shell, you know, for the first time, I felt 159 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: like I was around somebody that I could be completely 160 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 1: honest with and and so I couldn't. I couldn't stop 161 00:08:55,600 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 1: thinking about it while I was overseas. But I felt 162 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: so guilty for not calling you and for not telling 163 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 1: you that I was going there in the first place. 164 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: And oh I wish you had. I wish you had. 165 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: I don't really wish I had. Didn't I didn't know. 166 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: I thought maybe you didn't even you didn't have the 167 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: experience that I had. I just know I want you 168 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: to know that I did. And I'm not doing this 169 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,439 Speaker 1: like at this point, all everything that I'm saying, I'm 170 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: not doing in spite of your boyfriend to try to 171 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,359 Speaker 1: steal you away from him or anything. I'm speaking completely 172 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: from my heart, and that night meant so much to me. 173 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: It really got me through my stint overseas you know, 174 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: But I understand if you have a boyfriend. I'm not 175 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 1: trying to intrude on that. I decided trying to know 176 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: how I feel. You're so You're so sweet and the 177 00:09:54,280 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 1: connection that we shared was so amazing. I I wish 178 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: you'd called me sooner. I know the chiming is horrible, 179 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: but I have to try, you know, I have to. 180 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 1: When I feel strongly about the person, I can't just 181 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: give up on that person. So both you guys felt 182 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 1: the same way about that night? Yeah, I think we did. Yeah. 183 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: And are you like in love with your boyfriend? I mean, 184 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 1: have you guys gone to that level? That's a really 185 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 1: hard question to answer, actually, And I mean and I 186 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: and I don't want to sound shallow, but sometimes you 187 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: meet people and it's just like everything lines up and 188 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: it just all clicks, and sometimes it takes time to 189 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 1: start to uncover that. And my boyfriend is definitely someone 190 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: that it takes time to uncover with. Is that what 191 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: you're saying? Hannah that like, you still don't really feel 192 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: as strongly about your boyfriend as you do about that 193 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:07,559 Speaker 1: night with Philip. I don't know. It's it's more complex 194 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 1: than that. I just know if I was in your situation, 195 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 1: I would go back to this boyfriend and all I 196 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: could think about was this man who's come back into 197 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 1: my life after a year and what what am I doing? Look, 198 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. That's this has gotten really complicated, 199 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: and really I'm not I'm not trying to create problems 200 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: for you. That's not something I want to do. That's 201 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: that was never my intention. But feelings or feelings, you 202 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: can't ignore them, Hannah. What if we send you guys 203 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: out on a on a second date, we will pay 204 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: for it, allowed that meet up with him. You guys 205 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 1: can have a conversation. You don't have to. It doesn't 206 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: even have to be called a date if you don't 207 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: want it to be. If you have a boyfriend. I mean, 208 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 1: that night is so it's like it's one of the 209 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: most vivid experiences of my life, and that feels like 210 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: it would be wrong to ignore that, and this could 211 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 1: get me in really big trouble. No, Hannah, you don't 212 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: ever have to tell your boyfriend. This isn't something we 213 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: can ignore. You know, we can't just go on with 214 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: our lives since pretend that didn't happen. I think it's 215 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: worth seeing if that was just a one off fluke 216 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: or if there actually is something there. And if there is, 217 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: then I have some hard decisions to make. So, Hannah, 218 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: you are going to go out with Philip again? Yeah? Awesome? 219 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: Are you going to tell your boyfriend? Yeah? I am. 220 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: I mean I want to. I want to be completely 221 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: upfront about this whole thing. I don't I don't want 222 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 1: to leave things to chance again. Okay, my next question, 223 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: we're running a little light on content. Can we do 224 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 1: it tomorrow seven ten? Can we do it on the 225 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 1: air in the morning.