1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here 3 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: to give you a device on anything and everything you 4 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or 5 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: having issues with your family, or maybe you have a 6 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I 7 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts 8 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious 9 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: the sound of the beeB. 12 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 2: Hello, he needs submit advice from someone who doesn't know me. 13 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: I'm in a twenty one year relationship with my high 14 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 2: school sweetheart. We have four amazing children, and throughout the 15 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 2: duration of a relationship we've endured I've endured multiple extramarital 16 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: affairs on his behalf, and I've always forgiven him. He 17 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 2: swears that he doesn't know why he does these things, 18 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 2: and I kind of believe him, and I have faults 19 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: of my own. I'm a little emotionally withdrawn from the relationship, 20 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 2: which I know does an excuse, but it can contribute 21 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 2: to the symptoms. I just don't know what to do. 22 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 2: I love him and I could definitely continue on with him, 23 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 2: but I don't think I can continue on with this 24 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: type of life. It's not fair for me, it's not 25 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: fair for my children. And I've seen him on his 26 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 2: knees recently begging, not begging for forgiveness, but he definitely 27 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 2: wants to change, and I just don't know how we 28 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: go forward. You know, how do we start all over? 29 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: Even though I love him? 30 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: Ooh, this is tough. First off, thank you for trusting 31 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: me enough to give you advice. Look, when they say 32 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: love is not enough, this is what they mean in 33 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: this situation. And you know, I'm all about love. I 34 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,839 Speaker 1: am like love. Even the people that hurt us send 35 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: them love and light. I really believe in the power 36 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: of love. But in a situation like this, twenty one years, 37 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: four children later, multiple infidelities, in my personal opinion, this 38 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: is what they mean when they say love isn't enough. 39 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: I know you love him, and I'm sure he loves you, 40 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: but not enough for him to stay faithful. I know 41 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: you love him, but do you love him more? Do 42 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: you love yourself more and your children more? You have 43 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: to ask yourself that question, and only you can answer 44 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: that staying in a relationship because oh I love him, 45 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: or I'm used to him, or I I have four 46 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: kids with him. In my opinion, that's not enough. Babe. 47 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: This is the only life that you get, and it 48 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: happens so quickly, and the years go by very quickly. 49 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: How do you want to spend the rest of your 50 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: life back and forth. I just don't think he has 51 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: self control. If he says, I don't know why I 52 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: do this. If you have no self control and no 53 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: discipline as a man, that's pretty heavy. Again, in my opinion, 54 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to deal with it. It's different. 55 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: I don't have children, but even then, I've seen so 56 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: many relationships around me that stay in their marriages because 57 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: of the children. And then the children grow up and 58 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: they move out and they start their lives, and then 59 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: you're left empty, completely empty and empty shell. So you 60 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: have to think of the future, not only your future, 61 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: but your children's future, because you are said the example, 62 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure you have daughters, but even if it's just boys, 63 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: what are you teaching them by saying in a relationship 64 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: like this. I know it's hard it's a hard decision, 65 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: which is why you came on here and asked me. 66 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 1: And I'm sure a lot of people around you have 67 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: probably given you the same advice, but we don't like 68 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: to hear it from people so close. So I think 69 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: you know the answer. Deep down inside. You know the answer. 70 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 1: But if you need me to tell you what Cheekys 71 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:34,160 Speaker 1: would do, I would excuse myself from the situation personally, 72 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: because life is beautiful and I'm not saying that the 73 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: separation is not going to be difficult. It's going to 74 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 1: be difficult one hundred percent. It's going to be difficult, 75 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 1: but you have to choose what difficult you want. You 76 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 1: also said that you're emotionally withdrawn, so it's like you 77 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: have to think, got to pick my poison. It's going 78 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: to hurt either way. Do I stay and hurt or 79 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: do I leave hurt and feel free. That's something that 80 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: you have to really think about. But I already told 81 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: you what I would do. Having four children with someone, 82 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: I know it's not easy to just get up and go, 83 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: but this is your life. And when they say or 84 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: it says in the Bible somewhere I don't know where, 85 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: but where they say ayudyayue. Okay, God is saying, help yourself, 86 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: and I will help you. You have to make and 87 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: take that action step and then he will guide you 88 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 1: and help you. But if you stay in that, he's like, well, 89 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: that's where she wants to be. I mean, I can't 90 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,119 Speaker 1: really do much about it, you know, and he's gonna 91 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: be sorry, and he's gonna beg Yeah, but you obviously 92 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: don't love me enough to stop putting your penis other places. 93 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: I mean, that's just the truth, babe. I mean, straight up, 94 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: he loves you, But does he love you the way 95 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: you deserve? Does he value you and your children, your 96 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 1: family unit? Because if he did, he wouldn't do that 97 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 1: kind of shit over and over and over once. I 98 00:05:56,880 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: get okay, people make mistakes, so we can forgive, but 99 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 1: over and over and over and over, no, no one 100 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 1: deserves that. 101 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 3: Babe. 102 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 1: What do you want ten years from now, say I 103 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: stayed in this relationship and I'm older and time has passed, 104 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: and all these five ten years that I could have 105 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: just been a little happier and freer, and you're carrying that. 106 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 1: I could hear it in your voice. It's heavy, and 107 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: I know what that feels. Like, I'm sure you are 108 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: in bed at night crying and he's right beside you 109 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 1: and you feel lonely. I know the feeling. It's hard, 110 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: but when you get out of it, it is so 111 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 1: freeing and so liberating. Trust me, but that's just my opinion. 112 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: I will respect whatever you decide, but you know the answer, 113 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: and I know you know deep down inside. And I'm 114 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: getting chills on my body right now because I'm like, 115 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: I know it's heavy, but you came on here and 116 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: I'm always going to keep it a hundred with you. 117 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: I'm always going to keep it a hundred. I hope 118 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: that helps, babe, and please keep me updated. And if 119 00:06:56,640 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: you decide to excuse yourself from the relationship, I can 120 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 1: also help you and guide you on what are the 121 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: next steps because it's not going to be easy, but 122 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: you got this. It will pass. Pain doesn't last forever. 123 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:18,559 Speaker 1: So thank you for coming on here again. Okay, guys, 124 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: moving on to Emily. 125 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 4: Hey, Cheeky's I am rewatching the series Mariposa. That's basically 126 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,119 Speaker 4: the novella have your Mom. I'm sure you know it. 127 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 4: I know that a lot of things are more. How 128 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,239 Speaker 4: can I say more? I don't know if it's fake 129 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 4: or just more dramatic, because again it is a telenovella, 130 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 4: but I wanted to know if majority of this stuff 131 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 4: was true. Like, for example, I know there's a scene 132 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 4: where when Mikey is born, your mom had to deliver 133 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 4: by herself because the hospital stuff was negligent. Was that 134 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 4: true or was that something that just to like, you know, 135 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 4: make more drama novela. There was also other stuff that 136 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 4: I was wondering but that was true, but I can't 137 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 4: really think of them right now. So just in general, 138 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 4: were a lot of the things like fabricated or was 139 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 4: most of it real things that happened? 140 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: Ooh, thank you for your question, miss Emily. Okay, so 141 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: Mari is one that I like more than a lot 142 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: of the stuff that has come out about my mom's story. 143 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: It is the closest to the truth. Again, it is 144 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 1: a novela, so it is over dramatized. But that part, 145 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: specifically about Mikey, I know my mom had to deliver 146 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: him alone because my dad left the hospital to go 147 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: take a nap. But my mom never believed that. She 148 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: thought that he went out to do bad things. So 149 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 1: when he came, my dad was not in the room. 150 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: As far as the hospital being negligent, I don't know 151 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 1: that to be honest, Like, I think the foundation of 152 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 1: it is mainly like close to reality. It's just it 153 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: was decorated with a little bit more drama and a 154 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: lot of it was just like over just done in 155 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: my opinion. But I would say seventy percent of what's 156 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:27,439 Speaker 1: on there is the truth because they interviewed each one 157 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 1: of us in the family, like the Core family, like 158 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: my grandparents, my siblings, my uncles, like the Core family, 159 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: what their experience was with my mom. So that's what 160 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: they went based off of. So we were involved in 161 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: the process a little more. But yeah, I think it's 162 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 1: just fluffed and plushed a little bit, if you know 163 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: what I mean. But I'm glad you're watching and I 164 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: hope that you're loving it or loved it. Thank you 165 00:09:53,800 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: Emily for your question. Okay, guys, last question comes from 166 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: Maria ge Geez. 167 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 3: First, I want to let you know how much I 168 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 3: admire you and your mother. Both are amazing. My question 169 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: is in regards to endometriosis. I know you have mentioned 170 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 3: before that you dealt with endometriosis in the past and 171 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 3: that you have had surgeries for this. I'm currently dealing 172 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 3: with it myself right now, and I'm just like so 173 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 3: lost with you know, dealing with this disease and what 174 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 3: it comes with it. Do you mind sharing, like what 175 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 3: you do to cope with pain with flaars, because I 176 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 3: see that you're always out and about and I haven't 177 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 3: been able to do that myself. 178 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 1: Hi, Maria, I'm so sorry to hear that you're not 179 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: feeling well. You know. I'll be honest, I do have endometriosis, 180 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: but I never have had a symptom well I read it. 181 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: I Mean, the only reason I know I have indometriosis 182 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: is because when I went to my fertility doctor and 183 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: we were doing the IVF process and all that, when 184 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 1: he went in there to remove a system my ovary, 185 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: he said, you have endometriosis all over your uterus. I'm like, 186 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: what the heck is that? The first time I had 187 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,839 Speaker 1: ever heard it. He's like, oh, do you have like 188 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: heavy bleeding? Do you have heavy crams? And I started 189 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: looking at the symptoms and I'm like, well, I don't 190 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: have any of that. So I've always doubted if I 191 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: have it, but I do have it. Because he's not 192 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 1: the only doctor that told me, I guess where it 193 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 1: shows up. Is it being more difficult for me to 194 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: get pregnant withindometriosis and I get poly ups and stuff 195 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:40,079 Speaker 1: like that. But as far as the symptoms, Babe, I 196 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: don't really like have like heavy cramping or heavy bleeding 197 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: or anything like that. I will tell you this though, 198 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: I stay away from a lot of things that I've 199 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: heard can give you flare ups, certain foods, So I 200 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: would suggest for you to look that up, like what 201 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: foods to avoid, what foods actually help it? Teas A 202 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: lot of teas, herbal teas are good for endometriosis, to soothe, 203 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 1: heating pads are amazing. And also there is this product. 204 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 1: Again I'm not a doctor, so this is just a suggestion, 205 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 1: but I just came across it the other day. It's 206 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: called Life Purpose, okay, and it's Chinese medicine. So an 207 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 1: herbal tea that you put in warm water, not hot water, 208 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: and you drink it every day on an empty stomach, 209 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: and then later on a day, so it's twice a day. Anyway, 210 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 1: go look it up. It'll ask for your symptoms, and 211 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 1: it's supposed to regulate your hormones. I think another reason 212 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: why I don't get a lot of the symptoms is 213 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: because I've been doing hormone therapy for a long time. 214 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: So I do suggest you looking into that as your doctor, 215 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: as your obgyn and see what they suggest. But these 216 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: are the things that I have done and that I 217 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 1: think have helped me just regulate my hormones a little bit. 218 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 1: So yeah, look into that. I am sending you a 219 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: big hug because I have heard that it's very painful. 220 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if like later on it's going to 221 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: like I don't know, but definitely hormones and keeping them 222 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 1: leveled and balance is going to help a lot. So 223 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 1: thank you, Maria, and I hope that you feel better soon, babe, 224 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: because yeah, anything that has to do with our reproductive 225 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: area is always just so sensitive and a vulnerable thing 226 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,559 Speaker 1: to talk about. So thank you for trusting me too. 227 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 1: Do you know answer your question? Na? Thank you guys, 228 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:29,559 Speaker 1: thank you for listening, Thank you for being here. I 229 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: love you, I appreciate you. And again, if you have 230 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 1: a question, I am here for you. 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