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Speaker 1: Good morning, god, afternoon. Maybe it's a good night wherever

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Speaker 1: or whatever time you're listening to this voice note. But Hi, hello,

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Speaker 1: dear listener, it's me again, and I just wanted to

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Speaker 1: share something with you. I just got so triggered right now.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know where this is coming from, but

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Speaker 1: I'm sure i'll figure it out. So I was walking

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Speaker 1: out of the gym right now and a guy was

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Speaker 1: walking in front of me and he saw me walking

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Speaker 1: right behind him, and I just thought, common courtesy, He's

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Speaker 1: going to hold the door. Well he didn't. The door

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Speaker 1: literally almost hit me, and I was just so surprised

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Speaker 1: that I was like, oh my god, how rude. I

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Speaker 1: just chuckled a little bit, and I almost wanted to

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Speaker 1: say something because I'm very like that, like if something

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Speaker 1: is just unjust to me, like I will kind of

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Speaker 1: let it be known in one way or another, trying

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Speaker 1: not to be passive aggressive. I'm really working on that.

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Speaker 1: And anyway, I just chuckled. I didn't say anything, but

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Speaker 1: it definitely triggered me. It was just like, oh, hewth

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Speaker 1: freaking ruined. It doesn't matter if it's a guy or

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Speaker 1: a girl. I just feel like common courtesy should just

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Speaker 1: be more common, you know, And I find that it's not.

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Speaker 1: But I guess I shouldn't let that change me, you know.

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Speaker 1: And I think that's probably what this voice note is

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Speaker 1: going to turn into, because I'm processing as I'm speaking

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Speaker 1: with you, is that we can't stop being ourselves and

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Speaker 1: what feels good to us, even if other people aren't

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Speaker 1: the same way. And it's not reciprocated. Granted with certain things, yes,

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Speaker 1: in certain relationships, in order for it to be a

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Speaker 1: healthy relationship, there has to be a common ground and

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Speaker 1: reciprocation an understanding. But I'm talking about this type of situation.

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Speaker 1: For instance, let's just talk about littering. I'm like, huge

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Speaker 1: on like, I don't like people that litter. I don't

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Speaker 1: like to litter like It's just a thing that has

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Speaker 1: always been a thing for me for as long as

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Speaker 1: I can remember. And sometimes i think, I'm like, well, damn,

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Speaker 1: I see a piece of paper or some trash on

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Speaker 1: the floor, and I'm like, well, it's not my responsibility

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Speaker 1: to pick it up. I'm like, I'm gonna pick it

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Speaker 1: up anyway. And then sometimes it crosses my mind and

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Speaker 1: I think, damn, like what is that gonna do? There's

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Speaker 1: trash everywhere. Like if everyone were to just pick up

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Speaker 1: trash and like not throw trash, we wouldn't have such

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Speaker 1: a huge problem with it. But then I'm like, I

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Speaker 1: still can't stop myself from doing it because everyone else

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Speaker 1: isn't doing it. Does that make sense? We just have

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Speaker 1: to know there's different types of people. And maybe that

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Speaker 1: guy was just having a bad day and it was

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Speaker 1: in a bad mood, and I get that should happens,

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Speaker 1: you know, but it did kind of just make me

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Speaker 1: feel something and it was like a little jolt. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: we can't allow people to change our essence. And it's

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Speaker 1: a daily reminder. We get reminders like these all the time.

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Speaker 1: Just because someone's rude to you doesn't mean you have

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Speaker 1: to be rude. And not just because someone or you're

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Speaker 1: having a bad day, does that mean you have to

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Speaker 1: be rude to everyone else? You know, it's it's just

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Speaker 1: a little something that prompted me to send you a

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Speaker 1: voice note, And yeah, I hope it made sense. But

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Speaker 1: the point is, and the conclusion here is continue being you,

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Speaker 1: be nice, be kind, be giving whatever it is that

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Speaker 1: feels right to you, even if others don't do it. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: don't allow disrespect. I don't like disrespect. I'm not saying that,

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Speaker 1: but you get what I mean, right, You feel me?

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Speaker 1: I hope so, because I don't even know if I'm

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Speaker 1: making sense right now, but that's why I have this.

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Speaker 1: And you guys are awesome because you listen and I

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Speaker 1: appreci shade you. So AnyWho have an amazing rest of

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Speaker 1: your day, have a good night, Go ramcoanitos if you're

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Speaker 1: going to go to sleep, and if you're just starting

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Speaker 1: your day, kick ass today ten Ton. Sincerely, Jeanne