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Speaker 1: Well, it is time to ask the CLO our chief

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Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Danica in Stamford.

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Speaker 1: Danaka writes, I had dinner with my coworkers and I

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Speaker 1: told my husband that I wasn't coming straight home. My

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Speaker 1: phone died while I was out, and my husband has

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Speaker 1: called me twelve times. He was an emergency. It was

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Speaker 1: not an emergency. He just wanted to know where I was.

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Speaker 1: I went off on him, and now he thinks I'm

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Speaker 1: hiding something.

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Speaker 2: Why is he mad?

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Speaker 3: Why did you go off on him?

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Speaker 2: He called twelve times.

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Speaker 3: You didn't answer your phone.

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Speaker 4: He was on her nerve, but you went off on him.

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Speaker 4: Reverse your husband tell you going out with his boys.

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Speaker 4: You call him, he don't answer his phone.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm mad. Double standard, double standard. Yeah, you can't

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Speaker 2: read her.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no. But then she flipped it.

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Speaker 5: She mad at him, Yeah for calling it girl bugging

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Speaker 5: her girl by just trying to have fun with her coworkers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, where your phone died? All right? What coworkers?

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Speaker 1: This is from This is from moving On to Teresia

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Speaker 1: and Brickel. Trisha writes, I've been dating a guy for

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Speaker 1: five months and we've had sex a few times, but

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Speaker 1: not as much as a new relationship should be doing it.

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Speaker 1: He laughs and calls me a sex bean. I don't

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Speaker 1: like that, he teases me about it. Why is he

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Speaker 1: the only one that can initiate sex?

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Speaker 2: Hmmm? Interesting?

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Speaker 3: Because he pacing hisself.

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Speaker 2: He's pacing himself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah what yeah? What? You you've been dating a man

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Speaker 3: five months?

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Speaker 2: Five months? Uh huh?

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Speaker 3: Before you met him, he wasn't having sex.

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Speaker 2: Well, she doesn't say.

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Speaker 4: That in the five months. Have you heard the word

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Speaker 4: we are exclusive?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: So he's a little tired.

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Speaker 3: He got paced hisself.

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Speaker 2: He can't he can't hang with the young lady.

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Speaker 3: But no, he can't hang with the young lady.

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Speaker 2: What you said pace himself? What does that mean?

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Speaker 3: That means he's he's peanut butter, he's bread. He booked

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Speaker 3: him busy.

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Speaker 2: Oh you don't get that. Isn't that you do? And

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Speaker 2: it's okay.

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Speaker 4: Why you're supposed to be asking the questions, not judge what.

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Speaker 2: I'm not judging. I just want to know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he can't, but he helen. No, he helen it.

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Speaker 2: I like my my answer better.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Moving on, moving on to our Linda and Chesterfield. Our

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Speaker 1: Linda writes, my husband had a birthday party at work.

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Speaker 1: He brought his cards and left over cake home and

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Speaker 1: said it's trash. I read the cards and one of

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Speaker 1: them said happy birthday, sweetie.

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Speaker 2: It was from his so.

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Speaker 1: Called work wife. He said she was joking and he

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Speaker 1: should have thrown the card away. Can they be trusted

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Speaker 1: at work?

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Speaker 3: How these cards? Okay? Okay, okay, I can't.

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Speaker 2: But happy birthday sweetie?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 2: Come on, how's he going to get out of that one? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why is he in it? And how does she know

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Speaker 3: about the work wife?

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Speaker 1: From his so called work wife, that's what she said,

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Speaker 1: so she does know about it?

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, what.

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Speaker 1: Tommy, I've never called him sweetie, I'm not worth watching

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Speaker 1: and I've never said happy birthday sweetie.

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Speaker 4: And Melbourne put it all I'm back is why did

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Speaker 4: he bring you damn cars home? I can't get past

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Speaker 4: that because we ain't answer none of these questions.

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Speaker 3: If you lead him down cars and it trash something?

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Speaker 2: But why does she call him sweetie?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 2: Is there more going on? That's just what the white wants.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well for starters, it damn show sounded.

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Speaker 2: Like it, Yes, that part does and.

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Speaker 4: It wouldn't even sound like it if his dumb ass

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Speaker 4: had to balk them cards home.

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Speaker 1: Back to your point, why did he bring the card home?

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Speaker 2: Does it mean nothing to him?

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Speaker 4: Because dudes who used to get nothing try to hang

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Speaker 4: on the stuff.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: It's like, hey, when I give my Father's Day cards,

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Speaker 4: they sit on my desk for a long time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, because they ain't gonna give me

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Speaker 2: nothing else.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know so well, Dad, when I'm gonna get

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Speaker 4: you, you got everything.

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Speaker 2: We'll try this become about him away.

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Speaker 4: Yes, comes back to Father's Day because I'm pushing the

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Speaker 4: good Father's Day taking off in twenty twenty six. I

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Speaker 4: bet if I go to Elon and can show how

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Speaker 4: much money you lose, I bet it won't beat.

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Speaker 1: Them on Dad if I come up so wow, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a real thing with you now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Father's Day, I know it's coming in.

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Speaker 2: From getting nothing. Yeah, it's in a few months.

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Speaker 1: You're right, Well, don't try it with Mother's Day because

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Speaker 1: we come up on Mother's Day, all right. Last one

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Speaker 1: Maurice and Philly. Maurice writes, my wife and my mom

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Speaker 1: are too close. He tells my mom all of our

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Speaker 1: business and it irritates me because my mom uses it

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Speaker 1: to scold me like I'm a kid. My wife does

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Speaker 1: not see how my mom is using her. How can

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Speaker 1: I get those two to stop gossiping?

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Speaker 3: Too late to late, It's too late.

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Speaker 2: They're too close.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 3: The only thing you could do is pull your mama

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Speaker 3: to the side. Let's say you're mad. You will. Let's

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Speaker 3: say your wife named treating just for purposes.

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Speaker 4: Just pull your mama to the side and see my

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Speaker 4: ma was talking to treating and treating just thanks.

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Speaker 2: You stupid.

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Speaker 3: You can't tell his mom and just walk out the room.

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Speaker 3: Got'll be in that relationship so.

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Speaker 4: Fast that Yeah, that's too that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you try.

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Speaker 3: Hey, you want to not be close? Kill it? I

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Speaker 3: like it.

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Speaker 2: You cannot do that close at all?

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Speaker 4: Hate other It'll be they ask your mama can you

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Speaker 4: can she watch the kids? And that No, I'm too

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Speaker 4: damn stupid to watch kids. Remember, we will be all

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Speaker 4: of that.

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Speaker 2: No, Wow, there's a white way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that's the other way.

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Speaker 1: Why is his mom scolding him like he is a

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Speaker 1: kid though? Why is she doing that?

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Speaker 4: And she using information that the wife giving him you

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Speaker 4: know what? And he can't check his mama. This up

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Speaker 4: the house all all, you can sit out and just

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Speaker 4: tell your wife, Hey, look baby, this stuff you're telling

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Speaker 4: your mama, she coming back and use it against me,

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Speaker 4: and I don't like that. Let's just not discuss our

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Speaker 4: business with her. Y'all want a gossip and talk about stuff.

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Speaker 4: Take me off the gossip, Colum. I don't want to

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Speaker 4: be in it no more.

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Speaker 1: She's gonna go right back to his mom and tell

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Speaker 1: her exactly what you just said.

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Speaker 4: Right, And then if you do that, then you know

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna just I'm gonna go get another thing.

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Speaker 3: I get another fan.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that'll solve the problem. Make you see Alo,