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<v Speaker 1>Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi everyone walk on The Mother Knows Death. Let's get

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<v Speaker 2>started with the story of the day. This fast story

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<v Speaker 2>is really disturbing. So a twenty six year old was

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<v Speaker 2>taking what was believed to be, you know, a simple

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<v Speaker 2>routine Uber drive from her job to her house, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's on her phone, as most people are when they're

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<v Speaker 2>riding in the back seat, and notices some movement going

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<v Speaker 2>on in the front So she looks away from her

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<v Speaker 2>phone and notices that the Uber driver is masturbating in

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<v Speaker 2>the front seat. Can you even imagine being in this situation?

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<v Speaker 2>I was in a situation I don't know, you claim,

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<v Speaker 2>but luckily I had luckily I had people around me.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I mean, it's so weird. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>how to explain it. It's just it's something that's so

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<v Speaker 2>private usually, and when someone just does something like that

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<v Speaker 2>in public, you're just absolutely shocked. You can't even believe

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<v Speaker 2>what you're actually looking at. You're just looking like, is

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<v Speaker 2>this really happening right now? And then when you realize

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<v Speaker 2>it's happening, you get kind of grossed out that a

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<v Speaker 2>person would feel comfortable enough to do that in front

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<v Speaker 2>of a complete strain, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Like your case with the airplane, it's like you're in

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<v Speaker 3>a public space, but you're still somewhat in this private

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<v Speaker 3>little section, you know. So this girl's like trapped in

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<v Speaker 3>this car, panicking about what to do. She doesn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to call the cops, and she doesn't necessarily want to

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<v Speaker 3>speak up because I mean, clearly, if he's doing this,

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<v Speaker 3>he's not right. So she's afraid she's gonna get raped

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<v Speaker 3>or assaulted or something. So you know, she's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>sitting there like, I don't know what to do. She

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<v Speaker 3>notices the doors are locked. It's really scary to be

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<v Speaker 3>in this position as a woman. So she ends up

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<v Speaker 3>texting her boyfriend and her mom her location, and she

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<v Speaker 3>texts her mom and says, I'm gonna be home in

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<v Speaker 3>about ten minutes. Can you please wait for me outside

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<v Speaker 3>because this uber driver's penis is out and I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what to do.

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<v Speaker 2>So I can't imagine getting that call from you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, first of all, you have your notifications off, so

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking, in this situation I texted you probably

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't even get it.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll way later. I know. I am really bad with that,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just don't like hearing my phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you know, they pull up to the house

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<v Speaker 3>and she had to ask him to unlock the doors,

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<v Speaker 3>and then when he gets out, he just said thank

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<v Speaker 3>you so much in a creepy tone, which absolutely disgusting.

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<v Speaker 3>So she reported this to Uber, to which they wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>let her know immediately or not if he was fired

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<v Speaker 3>or banned from the app because of their quote privacy policies,

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<v Speaker 3>which she was like, well, I certainly don't feel safe

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<v Speaker 3>ordering one ever again in this area because what if

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<v Speaker 3>she got him again, not knowing if he still.

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<v Speaker 2>Had a job or not.

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<v Speaker 3>But she also reported it to the police and he

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<v Speaker 3>ended up getting arrested for indecent behavior. But the worst

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<v Speaker 3>part of this story is that he pled guilty and

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<v Speaker 3>was sentenced to four weeks, which in my opinion is

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<v Speaker 3>definitely not enough time, and then they ended up just

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<v Speaker 3>scrubbing the whole sentence.

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<v Speaker 2>And he got a fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if I was hard that I would be

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<v Speaker 2>most scared that he I mean, he knows that it

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<v Speaker 2>was her that reported I'm sure, and now he knows

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<v Speaker 2>where she lives, and he's embarrassed. He had to well,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe had to do some time, but not even that

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<v Speaker 2>he just had a good accord. He'd hire a lawyer,

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<v Speaker 2>and you don't want him coming back and retaliating because

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<v Speaker 2>of that. So I would be scared just in that circumstance,

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<v Speaker 2>and I would actually love to hear in the comments

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<v Speaker 2>section of YouTube how you guys feel about this, if

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<v Speaker 2>you've ever had an experience with Uber or a ride share,

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<v Speaker 2>in particular of a situation where you didn't feel safe.

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<v Speaker 2>It does make me think of something that I've thought

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<v Speaker 2>of before on several occasions that I wish that nine

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<v Speaker 2>to one one somehow had a texting well so they do, so,

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<v Speaker 2>oh okay, where because I don't know about it? Uber does,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>So this case was in Australia, so I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if this feature is rolled out in every country that

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<v Speaker 3>Uber is available, but in the US at least they

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<v Speaker 3>have a safety toolkit so you can open Uber when

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<v Speaker 3>you're on the ride, and there's a safety toolkit so

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<v Speaker 3>you could open it, and a couple options are you

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<v Speaker 3>could like I could share my location with you so

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<v Speaker 3>you could follow the track of the ride, because you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if you're in an Uber it's geo tracking your entire drive,

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<v Speaker 3>So that's an option. You can send it to a

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<v Speaker 3>loved one, or there's an option to call nine one one.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm assuming if you're in an accident. There's another option, however,

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<v Speaker 3>to contact nine one one via a texting system. So

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<v Speaker 3>I believe at first it matches you with somebody that

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<v Speaker 3>works at ADT the security system, and you talk to

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<v Speaker 3>them until you feel like you're dropped off and you're safe.

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<v Speaker 3>But if the situation is more severe and you feel

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<v Speaker 3>like you're in immediate danger, they can set you up

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<v Speaker 3>with this nine to one one texting service where it'll

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<v Speaker 3>then give the the police department your location of the

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<v Speaker 3>ride and follow them.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm assuming in.

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<v Speaker 3>Really severe situations they will track down the ride and

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<v Speaker 3>pull the car over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean that's I was just talking in general,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I think about if somebody breaks into your house

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<v Speaker 2>at night and you hear someone in your house when

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<v Speaker 2>no one's supposed to be downstairs or something, if you

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<v Speaker 2>could just text some nine one one system and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>can you send an officer to my house? I think

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<v Speaker 2>someone's in my house. Yeah, Because once you make a

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<v Speaker 2>phone call and you have to talk to someone, you're

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<v Speaker 2>making noise, right, And there's probably lots of situations where

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<v Speaker 2>you can't make a phone call because even think about

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<v Speaker 2>that in cases of domestic abuse or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just it would be kind of a cool thing

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<v Speaker 2>to have. I don't know, I always think about that,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, I mean with Uber, it's so it's just

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<v Speaker 2>it's scary because you are going in the car with

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<v Speaker 2>a complete stranger, which is what we've been told our

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<v Speaker 2>whole life not to do. Yeah, and you know it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It is really weird because you know, Uber says they

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<v Speaker 3>do background checks and everything, and even if that's true,

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<v Speaker 3>somebody doesn't have to have committed something in the past

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<v Speaker 3>to commit something in the future, so we have to

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<v Speaker 3>think about that. People can very well have ill intentioned

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<v Speaker 3>their entire life and not have technically committed a crime

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<v Speaker 3>or not been caught enough to have it come up

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<v Speaker 3>on a background check.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's scary.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was even at a party last month where

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<v Speaker 3>I had taken an Uber to my husband's work, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like a month or two ago, and the driver I

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<v Speaker 3>had was fine enough, but I got in the car

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<v Speaker 3>and he said, getting into trouble tonight, And I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, he was an older guy, and Ricky

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<v Speaker 3>was like he was probably just being a boomer about it,

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<v Speaker 3>like a dad exactly. And you know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like, you don't understand what it's like to

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<v Speaker 3>be a girl and just have somebody say a comment

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<v Speaker 3>like that, because I'm like, great, this guy picked me

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<v Speaker 3>up at my house.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's like, I'm Maria, Let's let's give it some context.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually that ever since Maria was like legit ten years old,

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<v Speaker 2>she has accused every single person in her presence of me.

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<v Speaker 3>But I have not accused them a stranger. I've not

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<v Speaker 3>accused every single person, like to their face.

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<v Speaker 2>Well in your head, yeah, like you're always just like

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<v Speaker 2>that person was outside of our apartment and I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 2>well they live next door. No, they're a pedophile.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm overly cautious of people. So I just think, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know. It just didn't set a good tone for

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<v Speaker 3>my ride. So then I mean, and then the guy

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<v Speaker 3>proceeded to dump his entire life story on me the

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<v Speaker 3>forty minute drive, so when I just wanted to read

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<v Speaker 3>my kindle. So I'm at a party later that night

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<v Speaker 3>just talking about how funny it is that the situation happened,

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<v Speaker 3>and every girl at this party is like proceeding that.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody's telling their own version of a creepy Uber story,

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<v Speaker 3>one of which where this girl said she was a

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<v Speaker 3>little tipsy after going out. She was being responsible, called

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<v Speaker 3>an uber and you know, she was in this car

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<v Speaker 3>and then he went down a really weird alleyway which

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<v Speaker 3>is off the normal trajectory of their ride, so much

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<v Speaker 3>so that she got out of the car in the

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<v Speaker 3>middle of a bad neighborhood at three o'clock in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like, I'm not getting back in there with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. We need to do we have to

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<v Speaker 2>say if we could figure out how to get phone

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<v Speaker 2>calls and do like a creepy Uber Confessions Hour or

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<v Speaker 2>something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>So, I mean, obviously a bunch of incidents had to

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<v Speaker 3>happen for them to unroll this feature, or yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 3>what I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know if this, like, if you're from

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<v Speaker 3>Australia and you take Uber, let us know if this

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<v Speaker 3>is a feature. I even understand from her perspective, if

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<v Speaker 3>it was a feature, just still being so scared to

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<v Speaker 3>even you know, attempt to fix this in the car,

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<v Speaker 3>being scared that he might turn around and assault her

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<v Speaker 3>between the time somebody got to the car and that

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<v Speaker 3>she doesn't know if they're going to contact him or something.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just think this is really scary and we

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<v Speaker 3>don't realize how vulnerable we are in these ride chair situations.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes we're on airplane. Yes, all right, let's get let's

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<v Speaker 2>get into the celebrity.

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<v Speaker 3>N Na dough Brev, most popularly known for being a

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<v Speaker 3>Vampire Diaries. She's recovering after getting an accident with an

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<v Speaker 3>e bike.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's in a.

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<v Speaker 3>Relationship with Olympic snowboarder Sean White, who I will say

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<v Speaker 3>was my first ginger celebrity crush. Everw aka he is, like,

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<v Speaker 3>so not the flying tomato. He's way vetter now that

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<v Speaker 3>he got a short haircut. But they're always posting. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>he's an Olympic snowboarder and a skateboarder too, so he

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<v Speaker 3>is an adventures guy and they're always posting online about

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<v Speaker 3>these inventurous things they're doing. So she went on Instagram

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<v Speaker 3>and posted a series of pictures saying how it started

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<v Speaker 3>versus how it's going. So the first picture was her

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<v Speaker 3>on this e bike, and the second picture of her

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<v Speaker 3>was in a hospital with a neck brace, a leg

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<v Speaker 3>brace and IV and everything. So she hasn't really come

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<v Speaker 3>forward into the exact details of this accident, but we

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<v Speaker 3>know she was involved in the accident related to this bike.

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<v Speaker 2>These bikes are they're kind of a misconception of a

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<v Speaker 2>bike when really it's kind of a low grade motorcycle

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<v Speaker 2>in a way, and people, especially like parents, buy them

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<v Speaker 2>for their kids, and they can go up to thirty

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<v Speaker 2>miles an hour almost, which is which is double of

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<v Speaker 2>the fastest you could do on the bike by yourself

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<v Speaker 2>or an average person, right, And of course, like emergency

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<v Speaker 2>rooms and stuff are just seeing more severe injuries with

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<v Speaker 2>these e bikes because they go so fast. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you look at this picture of her on a bike,

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<v Speaker 2>it looks like she's on a motorcycle that's not a bike.

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<v Speaker 2>It's frickin huge, so just the weight of that could

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<v Speaker 2>hurt you too. And then there's this other weird phenomenon

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<v Speaker 2>going on that people aren't wearing helmets as much as

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<v Speaker 2>they used to, so hospitals are seeing this huge increase

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<v Speaker 2>in head trauma because people are especially falling off of

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<v Speaker 2>these e bikes, So it's essentially like being on a

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<v Speaker 2>motorcycle that's going twenty five or thirty miles an hour

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<v Speaker 2>and falling off to the ground and hitting your head,

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<v Speaker 2>So of course you're gonna have major head troubles.

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<v Speaker 3>The same could be said. There's these e scooters and

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<v Speaker 3>popping up all over cities.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate those time.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually fell off one in Venice like five years

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<v Speaker 3>ago and hurt my leg pretty bad because Ricky decided

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<v Speaker 3>to do a flip trick right in front of me

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<v Speaker 3>as an inexperience. And we all know I'm like the

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<v Speaker 3>most uncoordinated person in our family, so when I had

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<v Speaker 3>just stop quickly, it didn't go well. But yeah, they're

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<v Speaker 3>all over cities, and you know, when you're you have

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<v Speaker 3>to download an app. I think Lyft actually has a

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<v Speaker 3>feature on it where you could get a scooter, and

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<v Speaker 3>then there's other ones. But when you are setting up

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<v Speaker 3>the app to unlock the bike to ride around, it'll

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<v Speaker 3>tell you to wear a helmet.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm like, I'm in.

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<v Speaker 3>A different city. Where am I getting a helmet right now?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't give a shit, right, So I think that's

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<v Speaker 3>most people's atague.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and they're weird, like the only thing I could.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think it would just be totally improbable. Because

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<v Speaker 2>even if you made helmet liners, let's say, and just

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<v Speaker 2>hung them on every one of the scooters like we

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<v Speaker 2>just saw them in LA and they do look fun.

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<v Speaker 2>But I said to the kids, like, I can't in

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<v Speaker 2>good conscience let you do this because you're gonna get hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>And I can't put you on here with me, like

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna fall and get hurt. And this is everything

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<v Speaker 2>I talk about all the time. We can't do this.

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<v Speaker 2>But helmets are different sizes for different heads, so you

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't even be able to really do something like that

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<v Speaker 2>with the ride share thing. So it's just you just

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<v Speaker 2>have to take your chance.

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<v Speaker 3>But it also just be worried about like lice and

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<v Speaker 3>whatever else and just them not proper.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's why I was saying, like if they had liners,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, but not that that would

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<v Speaker 2>really I don't know what I'm even saying, but I

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<v Speaker 2>think about that too. I see I saw so many

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<v Speaker 2>people on them, and I'm just like, God, they're in

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<v Speaker 2>the street there, you know. It just makes me nervous

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<v Speaker 2>and probably overall, if you did the statistics how many

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<v Speaker 2>are used a day versus like how many injuries there are.

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<v Speaker 2>It's probably not that bad, but the medical associations actually

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<v Speaker 2>recommend that, especially if children get them, that they should

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<v Speaker 2>take like specific classes for e bikes because they're different

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<v Speaker 2>than regular bicycles that parents don't usually understand. Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 2>get into freak accidents.

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<v Speaker 3>So a flight going from London to Singapore experienced such

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<v Speaker 3>severe turbulence that one person died and thirty people were injured.

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<v Speaker 3>So on the trip, the Boeing seven seven seven shocker

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<v Speaker 3>hit an air pocket over Thailand and requested to make

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<v Speaker 3>an emergency landing in Bangkok. So we like, I always

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<v Speaker 3>hear this term air pocket, but what is it? So

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<v Speaker 3>according to Google, it's a disruption in the air current

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<v Speaker 3>that could cause a plane to shake or may result

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<v Speaker 3>in a temporary loss of attitude like total new fear unlocked.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, add a loss of attitude?

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<v Speaker 3>We had change the freak accidents to be gone fear unlocked.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like no, Well, yeah, because I was listening

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<v Speaker 2>to our local New Jersey radio today and a pilot

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<v Speaker 2>called and was talking about these things and was just

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<v Speaker 2>saying like he was he was making it equivalent to

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<v Speaker 2>driving in black ice. Like it's something that you really

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<v Speaker 2>can't see come in and it just happens, and it

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<v Speaker 2>could be really severe and there's kind of nothing that

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<v Speaker 2>they can do about. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So the plane was carrying two hundred and eleven passengers

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<v Speaker 3>and eighteen crew members, so thirty of them were injured,

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<v Speaker 3>some of them with some life threatening injuries, mostly to

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<v Speaker 3>the head. I can only assume based on previous stories

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<v Speaker 3>we reported on that they weren't wearing seatbelts, which caused

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<v Speaker 3>them to lift and smack their heads on the ceiling.

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<v Speaker 3>And then well apparently it was when they were being

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<v Speaker 3>served breakfast. So there's a high probability that at that time,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, when you're on the plane and they start

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<v Speaker 3>giving you stuff pretty early in the morning, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>maybe people are just waking up or they want to

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<v Speaker 3>get up and go to the bathroom. So if the

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<v Speaker 3>seatbelt sign wasn't on, like, it's totally probable that people

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<v Speaker 3>were standing up and going to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 3>So, Yeah, a seventy three year old British National head

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<v Speaker 3>was the one that died, and they believe it was

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<v Speaker 3>due to a heart attack. So yeah, I mean they

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<v Speaker 3>said he had a history part problems, but they didn't

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<v Speaker 3>really determine what his cause of death was. I think

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<v Speaker 3>they also were saying that this was one of the

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<v Speaker 3>first cases of a death caused in the case of severely.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was gonna say that.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't necessarily consider myself a nervous flyer, but

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<v Speaker 3>you know, everybody's been on a flight where there's been

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<v Speaker 3>some you know, shady turbulence situation that doesn't make you

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<v Speaker 3>feel good.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've always had.

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<v Speaker 3>This internal peace that I've heard that nobody's ever died

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<v Speaker 3>from turbulence. It's always just a weird thing that happens.

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<v Speaker 3>And now, I mean, I guess maybe if this guy

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<v Speaker 3>had a heart attack, you could say he died from

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<v Speaker 3>the turbulence setting on the heart attack. Maybe, but nobody's

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<v Speaker 3>ever died from like something happening during turbulence besides having

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<v Speaker 3>a heart attack. So yeah, and they're saying, like you

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<v Speaker 3>should in that case, like if you ever I never

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<v Speaker 3>had an experience of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully I never do. But I don't want to look

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<v Speaker 2>around at people around me to be like, is this normal,

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<v Speaker 2>because I've only been on a plane like under ten

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<v Speaker 2>times in my life probably, So I want to be like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>looking at people, is this something that typically happens or

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<v Speaker 2>are we about to die? Like what's going on here?

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<v Speaker 2>But maybe you should just look at the flight attending

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<v Speaker 2>because they're the ones that are on planes all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, and nothing's where. When we were just flying

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<v Speaker 3>into Denver a couple of weeks ago, there was basically

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<v Speaker 3>no turbulence the entire flight except when Ricky was in

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<v Speaker 3>the bathroom, and then when I was in the bathroom

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<v Speaker 3>like two hours late, and then when we were landing,

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<v Speaker 3>they were like, oh, the weather's a little rough down there,

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<v Speaker 3>so landing's gonna be a little shaky. It was like, so, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still gonna hold my somewhat piece that nobody's really

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<v Speaker 3>died from turbulence besides a heart condition that might have

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<v Speaker 3>been set off from it.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, but just because people don't die, they've had

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<v Speaker 2>like major head trauma, concussions, brain bleeds. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not like I could be life affecting thing, yeah, altering thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So In another plane related incident in Indonesia, there was

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<v Speaker 3>a passenger ladder against an airbus plane due to an

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<v Speaker 3>alleged miscommunication. The workers on the ground had moved the

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<v Speaker 3>ladder away from the plane even though the door to

0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:19.359
<v Speaker 3>the plane was opened, which is against aviation rules. So

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<v Speaker 3>inside of the plane, another worker was standing by the door,

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<v Speaker 3>didn't realize the ladder had been moved, just innocently took

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<v Speaker 3>a step backward and fell several feet until he hit

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<v Speaker 3>the ground. He's okay, but he has injuries related to it,

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<v Speaker 3>and there's an investigation happening as to exactly why the

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<v Speaker 3>ladder was moved, even though they're saying it was just

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<v Speaker 3>a simple miscommunication.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it looks so terrifying though it's I

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<v Speaker 2>think I looked at it like there's a guy standing

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<v Speaker 2>right underneath. So just estimating it's definitely high. It's around

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<v Speaker 2>twelve feet probably maybe even a little bit higher of

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<v Speaker 2>a fall, but that's like a huge fall, and I

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<v Speaker 2>just can't imagine how scared he was. Luckily, it happened

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<v Speaker 2>so quickly and he didn't fall and hit his head,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm sure he probably has a broken leg or something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so the whole thing was caught on video, which is

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<v Speaker 2>kind of nuts. But yeah, you should check the link

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<v Speaker 2>out and click on the video because it is. It

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<v Speaker 2>is rather frightening, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Next, an Amtrak train that was heading from NYC to

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<v Speaker 3>Niagara Falls struck a pickup truck, killing three people. The

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<v Speaker 3>three people were a sixty nine year old male, a

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<v Speaker 3>sixty six year old female, and a six year old male.

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<v Speaker 3>So on my assumption, I'm gonna say it's grandparents with

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<v Speaker 3>their grandchild.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't. I don't know. I did see that they

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<v Speaker 2>identified them, but they didn't really say, at least in

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<v Speaker 2>the articles. I saw what their relationship was. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>it seems as if they were trying to cross the

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<v Speaker 2>tracks and the horn was beeping. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 2>they tried to cross the tracks, but the arms of

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<v Speaker 2>the to protect the tracks went down and kind of

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<v Speaker 2>trapped the car there.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it seems like the arms started going down and

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<v Speaker 3>then simultaneously the car like broke down, which is why

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<v Speaker 3>they couldn't get out fast enough, or it stuttered or

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<v Speaker 3>something where it couldn't get past the gate in time,

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<v Speaker 3>and then the train hit it on the tracks. But

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<v Speaker 3>this is actually the second accident that's happened in this

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<v Speaker 3>small town in New York where a train where a

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<v Speaker 3>train has hit a car this year.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's it's like, if you don't go on

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<v Speaker 2>the tracks, this doesn't happen. So I wouldn't even consider

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<v Speaker 2>this to be Amtrak's no.

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<v Speaker 3>But like if you yeah, but like if you're just

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<v Speaker 3>you know, if you're just driving and your car just

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<v Speaker 3>happens to break down, like that's not that's not your

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<v Speaker 3>fall either.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know, I just I think I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what happened. Like when we just drove

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<v Speaker 2>from we were in Las Vegas and drove to Joshua Tree.

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<v Speaker 2>From there, we were driving through like the old Route

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<v Speaker 2>sixty six, and there were all these kinds of railroad

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<v Speaker 2>tracks there with no sign of other lifelike gas stations

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<v Speaker 2>or houses or anything. And it would start flashing really

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<v Speaker 2>fast before this huge train was coming. Like luckily it

0:20:08.520 --> 0:20:10.880
<v Speaker 2>was so far there was nothing around so you could

0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:14.040
<v Speaker 2>see the train coming. But I did think, like, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>this came on pretty fast in relation to how fast

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<v Speaker 2>the train approached where we needed to cross the street.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like I'm wondering if it I don't know, because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm only thinking more into it because they said there

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<v Speaker 3>was a second car this year that it also happened to.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm wondering if it's a case where you know you're

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<v Speaker 3>crossing over and then the bar drops before like the

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<v Speaker 3>sound comes down or something, which then makes you get stuck, right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's what it seems like happened. They said

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<v Speaker 3>that they were stuck in between the bar. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just wondering if the car just so happened to

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<v Speaker 3>break down at the same time, or if there was

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<v Speaker 3>a signaling issue and maybe the bars lowered before the

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<v Speaker 3>sound went off so they didn't know not to cross

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<v Speaker 3>at that exact moment. It's just really terrible. They were

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<v Speaker 3>all pronounced dead at the scene, and Amtraks reported that

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<v Speaker 3>none of the passengers were affected or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>I would hate to have been just I do feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I was on a Paco train once when someone

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<v Speaker 2>jumped in front of it and it was like shut down,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was like this big thing, and just being like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you take the train every day, that's just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of bound to happen, I feel, you know, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>a frequent user of a train. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I even when we were driving or when we were

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<v Speaker 3>on the Zephyr train, there was a lot of branches

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<v Speaker 3>along the train tracks and a couple cows had like

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<v Speaker 3>broken out of the fenced area near the track, and

0:21:39.320 --> 0:21:42.399
<v Speaker 3>we almost slammed into one, like on the side. It

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<v Speaker 3>was literally walking up towards the train and it almost

0:21:45.119 --> 0:21:47.399
<v Speaker 3>hit it. And I would have felt horrible if we

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<v Speaker 3>hit it farm animal, let alone plowed into an entire

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<v Speaker 3>car full of people.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just so scary, especially a little kid. That sucks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So our next one, a fifteen year old girl

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<v Speaker 3>and her friend were wakeboarding in bisc Bay and Florida

0:22:01.160 --> 0:22:04.399
<v Speaker 3>when another boat suddenly hit her and then left the scene.

0:22:04.840 --> 0:22:08.000
<v Speaker 3>So the boat she was wakeboarding from retrieved her body,

0:22:08.040 --> 0:22:10.159
<v Speaker 3>which was covered in blood. It was too late and

0:22:10.200 --> 0:22:14.119
<v Speaker 3>she had died. Witnesses gave police a detailed description of

0:22:14.160 --> 0:22:16.080
<v Speaker 3>the boat that had hit her, which led them to

0:22:16.160 --> 0:22:18.520
<v Speaker 3>this seventy eight year old man who claims he had

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<v Speaker 3>no idea his boat was involved in the accident until

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<v Speaker 3>police came to question him.

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<v Speaker 2>He I mean, I don't know. I almost kind of

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<v Speaker 2>believe this just because of and this is just the

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<v Speaker 2>story that his lawyer's given, so you have to always

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<v Speaker 2>take that. But he's seventy eight, he's been boating for

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<v Speaker 2>like fifty years. He doesn't drink alcohol, and when there's

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<v Speaker 2>video footage of him pulling up to the dock and

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<v Speaker 2>everything after the accident happened, he pulled his boat in

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<v Speaker 2>and it was in plain sight of everybody to see

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<v Speaker 2>and kind of like strolled around like nothing happened. He

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't trying to hide evidence or or looked panicked in

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<v Speaker 2>any way. I mean, but he's he's an older guy,

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe that's part of the problem, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Like, we know some people that are seventy

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<v Speaker 2>eight that are really sharp and some that are like

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<v Speaker 2>really old. So maybe you know, that's why they don't

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<v Speaker 2>put in writing what age you have to take someone's

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<v Speaker 2>driver's license or boating license away because they may not

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<v Speaker 2>see well anymore, or just may not have their it

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<v Speaker 2>may not be as alert as they once were.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I was just I'm trying to think of

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<v Speaker 3>all angles because I'm like, boats are really loud, right,

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<v Speaker 3>so if people were screaming immediately, would he even be

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<v Speaker 3>able to hear them? And then are their policy is

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<v Speaker 3>as far as driving close to other boats or was

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<v Speaker 3>the boat that they were wakeboarding from following policy. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just really curious what they're going to find in this case.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like I would think if there's boats where people

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<v Speaker 2>are getting off the boats and either swimming in the

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<v Speaker 2>water or wakeboarding or anything, that there should be a

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<v Speaker 2>rule that moving boats should be nowhere near those. They

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<v Speaker 2>agree with it, because this would happen off the right,

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<v Speaker 2>Like was there a speed limit and you wasn't going

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<v Speaker 2>to speed lit Like, I don't know. I'm not familiar

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<v Speaker 2>with I don't know anything about the boating world. I

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<v Speaker 2>am interested in it. We went on a boat in

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<v Speaker 2>Cape Cod a couple of times, and we went on

0:24:12.440 --> 0:24:14.280
<v Speaker 2>the fire boat and it was so awesome and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, if I lived here, I could totally get

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<v Speaker 2>into this. It's kind of fun because it's cool, like

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<v Speaker 2>they have restaurants there that you could just leave your

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<v Speaker 2>dock at your house and go to the to the

0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:26.439
<v Speaker 2>restaurant and get food and go back and never have

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<v Speaker 2>to go on the street. It's just kind of that

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<v Speaker 2>super cool, like another way to move around. It's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 2>will see there. Let's get into violent crime.

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<v Speaker 3>So in Brazil, a woman has been sentenced to jail

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<v Speaker 3>for about four and a half years after cutting her

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<v Speaker 3>husband's penis off and fleshing it down the toilet. So

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<v Speaker 3>this one's a doozy, so buckle up. After learning her

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<v Speaker 3>husband had sex with her fifteen year old niece multiple times,

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<v Speaker 3>the woman then learned her husband to bed promising him.

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<v Speaker 2>Quote.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, the age of consent in Brazil is

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<v Speaker 3>fourteen years old. So at first I was thinking this

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<v Speaker 3>story was like your sex predator, so I'm going to

0:26:10.280 --> 0:26:13.159
<v Speaker 3>cut your dick off, But this article is painting it

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<v Speaker 3>out to be it was just an incident of jealousy.

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<v Speaker 3>So she tied his arms and legs to the bed

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<v Speaker 3>with her underwear, turned the lights off, and then bust

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<v Speaker 3>it out a razor and cut his dick off. She

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<v Speaker 3>said she flushed it down the toilet so surgeons couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>reattach it. And shockingly, after the trial and she was sentenced,

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<v Speaker 3>they made up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is just a pure story of like how

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<v Speaker 2>do people live? Right, this lady looks insane. You could

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<v Speaker 2>tell she's insane just by the way her eyebrows look. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>if you look at the article, she just looks like

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<v Speaker 2>you don't want to mess with this stick, right? But

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<v Speaker 2>I mean when I we actually covered this story, Ray,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you remember when it first happened,

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<v Speaker 2>when we were doing the podcast in the gross room,

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<v Speaker 2>and now she just got sentenced recently, and that's why

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking about this again. But of course my first

0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 2>thought is like, okay, a grown man's having sex with

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<v Speaker 2>a fifteen year old. Good. I don't care, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't feel bad about this, But the legal age

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<v Speaker 2>of consent is fourteen years old in Brazil, so that

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like a brazil problem. And it's actually terrible for

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<v Speaker 2>women that live in Brazil because I'm sure they're getting

0:27:20.640 --> 0:27:23.600
<v Speaker 2>young women especially are getting taken advantage of all the

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<v Speaker 2>time by older dudes like this. But I love that

0:27:27.720 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 2>she flushed his penis down the toilet. I mean, that's

0:27:30.760 --> 0:27:32.919
<v Speaker 2>that's just pretty amazing. And she had it thought out

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<v Speaker 2>because she didn't want it to be able to be reattached.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she's she is, like, she's kind of a

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<v Speaker 2>crazy person. But even more of a crazy person is

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<v Speaker 2>the next story. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So in the next case, police in Grand Junction, Colorado

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<v Speaker 3>got a call from a local hotel from a hysterical

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<v Speaker 3>woman saying she believed her boyfriend was dead, but could

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<v Speaker 3>not provide any more context.

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<v Speaker 2>On what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>So police get to the hotel and notice there's blood

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<v Speaker 3>all over the bed. They said his naked, a naked,

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<v Speaker 3>unresponsive mail was lying on his back with his feet

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<v Speaker 3>under the bed, so they started to perform CPR on

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<v Speaker 3>him and then noticed that his penis was missing and

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<v Speaker 3>it had apparently been cut off his body.

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<v Speaker 2>He also had a stab.

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<v Speaker 3>Wound in his leg, so he was pronounced dead at

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<v Speaker 3>the scene. Officers found then a Quote severed penis in

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<v Speaker 3>the trash can inside of the hotel bathroom. So the

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<v Speaker 3>woman told an officer that she and the boyfriend had

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<v Speaker 3>previously got into an argument because at first he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>let her go to sleep and she had threatened to

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<v Speaker 3>stab him. Then the next morning she thought he had

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<v Speaker 3>maybe gotten her pregnant again and they were arguing about

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<v Speaker 3>the paternity of the baby, to which she then stabbed

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<v Speaker 3>him in the leg and then cut his penis off.

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<v Speaker 2>So she said, throughout the day.

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<v Speaker 3>He started getting cold and was worried he was gonna die.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, she went to the store. She bought

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<v Speaker 3>rubbing alcohol, antibiotics, and beer, but she said she forgot

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<v Speaker 3>to buy bandages, like I don't think that was fixing

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<v Speaker 3>this situation. And then after he started getting more cold

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<v Speaker 3>throughout the day, she gave him ibuprofen, water and Quote

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<v Speaker 3>greens and then he eventually died. So she was arrested

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<v Speaker 3>and charged with second degree murder.

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<v Speaker 2>This is actually so psychotic, like she stabbed the guy

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<v Speaker 2>and everything and then she kind of kept them, tried

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<v Speaker 2>to keep them alive a little bit, and while he

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<v Speaker 2>was suffering and bleeding to death. It's and that doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>happen either. Well, I lie, if he gets stabbed in

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<v Speaker 2>the leg in the femeral artery, that could happen pretty fast,

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know where the stab one was. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if it went into a major artery. But

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<v Speaker 2>even amputating the penis, it wouldn't cause someone to bleed

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<v Speaker 2>to death really fast like it would if you cut

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<v Speaker 2>off somebody's leg or arm or something like that, or

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<v Speaker 2>slip slit their neck. But I just don't I don't see,

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<v Speaker 2>like I feel like she's seriously having some kind of

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<v Speaker 2>mental breakdown. Went to the store alcohol on that that

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<v Speaker 2>probably felt real great. I can't even imagine, and just

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, just think about you know, you're in CBS

0:30:09.280 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 2>and you're and you're buying tampons or something, and the

0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:14.760
<v Speaker 2>girl next to you, you just see, oh, she's got

0:30:14.760 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 2>a guy at the hotel room that she's buying alcohol

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<v Speaker 2>for to put on his penis that she just I

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<v Speaker 2>also imagine.

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<v Speaker 3>Her putting one little normal sized band aid like over

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<v Speaker 3>the area and then like walking in on that scene

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<v Speaker 3>of just this tiny band aid like covering where she

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<v Speaker 3>just cut his entire penis off.

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<v Speaker 2>It's well and think that's the first thing I thought

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<v Speaker 2>of when I heard of this story, Like these poor

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<v Speaker 2>cops and first responders just walk into this crazy shit,

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<v Speaker 2>like what like all the time, we hear it every

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<v Speaker 2>single week that they're just walking into these crazy situations.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just the story is even weirder because if

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<v Speaker 2>the guy got injured, like why didn't he try to

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<v Speaker 2>call nine one one when she left? Was he did

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<v Speaker 2>he lose that much blood that he just was too

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<v Speaker 2>weak to move?

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<v Speaker 3>Or I mean, you don't know, maybe he had some

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<v Speaker 3>mental things going on, or yeah, maybe he was too

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<v Speaker 3>weak and he couldn't move, or she made sure like

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<v Speaker 3>the phone was disconnected.

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<v Speaker 2>We just don't know what was going on. They were

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<v Speaker 2>in a hotel, right, so I mean there is a phone.

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:16.920
<v Speaker 3>She might have disconnected it, like you just don't Also

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<v Speaker 3>lengths she went to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like another thing too write, So you're what happens

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<v Speaker 2>in hotel rooms that you don't even know about? So

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:30.200
<v Speaker 2>did these people leave? You know, she gets arrested, he

0:31:30.280 --> 0:31:33.200
<v Speaker 2>goes to the morgue. You have this big blood spot

0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:36.760
<v Speaker 2>on the floor because of a penis bleeding out, And

0:31:36.880 --> 0:31:38.680
<v Speaker 2>what do they do just rip up the carpet and

0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:40.960
<v Speaker 2>put in a new one, and then the next you know,

0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:43.080
<v Speaker 2>they're running it out like the next week or something.

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<v Speaker 3>So actually, when we were in Vegas, when we were

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<v Speaker 3>on the elevator, two of the cleaning people got on

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<v Speaker 3>with us and they were just like clearly exhausted, and

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:53.760
<v Speaker 3>you know, Ricky just has to talk to everybody, so

0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:56.040
<v Speaker 3>he was like, oh, do you guys see some wild shit?

0:31:56.200 --> 0:31:58.080
<v Speaker 3>And they were like, you have no idea what we

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<v Speaker 3>see here. We could write novels about stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I know, in Vegas especially, I can't even imagine.

0:32:03.680 --> 0:32:06.200
<v Speaker 2>They said, just I'd actually really like to know some

0:32:06.280 --> 0:32:08.320
<v Speaker 2>of the stories they said just that morning, because it

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:10.520
<v Speaker 2>was Sinco de Mayo the day before that. They were

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<v Speaker 2>just like, we just found They're like, so many people

0:32:13.480 --> 0:32:16.719
<v Speaker 2>were so beyond blackout drunk the day before that. They

0:32:16.760 --> 0:32:19.800
<v Speaker 2>found like underwear and ice buckets and just like really

0:32:19.840 --> 0:32:22.840
<v Speaker 2>weird stuff in people's rooms. Oh my god.

0:32:23.040 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 3>But I would love to read a book written about

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:28.560
<v Speaker 3>what they find. I think that would be so interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, cause it's just you hear all these stories about

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<v Speaker 2>even I don't remember what it was, some like older

0:32:35.720 --> 0:32:38.120
<v Speaker 2>rockstar bon Jovi or like one of those kinds of people.

0:32:38.160 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it was specifically them, but just

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<v Speaker 2>like getting these hotel rooms back in the eighties with

0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 2>these crazy parties and like having live animals there and

0:32:46.520 --> 0:32:51.440
<v Speaker 2>just like just just complete mayhem like and then you

0:32:51.520 --> 0:32:53.760
<v Speaker 2>have to think, like some poor persons coming in in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning and having to clean that up. I feel

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:58.560
<v Speaker 2>terrible just because my hair falls out everywhere or something.

0:32:58.600 --> 0:33:01.480
<v Speaker 2>And they probably loved getting just like normal rooms to

0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:03.520
<v Speaker 2>clean up after all.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, So our next story. In nineteen ninety eight, a

0:33:06.440 --> 0:33:10.400
<v Speaker 3>teenager had gone missing in Algeria during the Algerian Civil War.

0:33:11.200 --> 0:33:14.120
<v Speaker 3>When he never returned, his family believed he was just

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<v Speaker 3>simply a casualty of war, although they never had confirmation

0:33:17.360 --> 0:33:19.880
<v Speaker 3>of this, and his mother believed for the rest of

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:23.280
<v Speaker 3>her life that he was still alive, maybe even close

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:27.120
<v Speaker 3>to them, and she died in twenty thirteen without any answers.

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<v Speaker 3>So now, at forty five years old, twenty six years later,

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<v Speaker 3>he has been rescued from a neighbor's house only six

0:33:33.360 --> 0:33:37.400
<v Speaker 3>hundred and fifty feet from his family's home. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so. I mean, it's a good story, but is

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:42.240
<v Speaker 2>he is he okay?

0:33:42.280 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 3>Like, mentally, I doubt he's okay if he's been kidnapped

0:33:45.560 --> 0:33:46.960
<v Speaker 3>for twenty six years and.

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<v Speaker 2>They said they found them under hay or something. Yeah,

0:33:49.560 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 2>so a sixty one year old man was arrested in

0:33:51.800 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 2>connection with the kidnapping. Somebody, This is what's kind of

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:58.800
<v Speaker 2>unclear to me. Somebody who knew the suspect posted on

0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:02.080
<v Speaker 2>social media saying they believed this guy was involved in

0:34:02.120 --> 0:34:04.960
<v Speaker 2>the kidnapping, which then caused police and the family to

0:34:05.000 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 2>go to the property and look for him. So I'm

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:11.200
<v Speaker 2>kind of unclear how the association was made or if

0:34:11.239 --> 0:34:13.839
<v Speaker 2>he was at the house and saw something where it

0:34:13.880 --> 0:34:17.000
<v Speaker 2>was like a year's long, this guy's a creeper, blah

0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:17.759
<v Speaker 2>blah blah. You know.

0:34:18.480 --> 0:34:21.240
<v Speaker 3>So anyway, they go to the house and they found

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:24.080
<v Speaker 3>the guy in a haystack in the backyard, and when

0:34:24.120 --> 0:34:27.400
<v Speaker 3>they found him, the suspect tried to flee the scene,

0:34:27.440 --> 0:34:30.520
<v Speaker 3>although when they first arrived, he seemed really calm and collected.

0:34:32.280 --> 0:34:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Well, think about this, a grown man is kidnapping a

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:37.359
<v Speaker 2>teenage boy. Like, nothing good is coming of that, right?

0:34:37.440 --> 0:34:37.520
<v Speaker 3>No?

0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 2>And what I don't even want to think about what

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:40.400
<v Speaker 2>that kid's life was.

0:34:40.440 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 3>No, and what's even the weirder to add to the

0:34:44.120 --> 0:34:47.560
<v Speaker 3>story is that the family of the victim their dog

0:34:47.880 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 3>was constantly sniffing around this guy's property and then one

0:34:51.239 --> 0:34:53.160
<v Speaker 3>day showed up dead from a poisoning.

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:58.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I and it's weird that the family didn't kind

0:34:58.040 --> 0:35:00.839
<v Speaker 2>of pick up on I mean, maybe they did. They

0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:03.400
<v Speaker 2>could have possibly even searched around there and just been like,

0:35:03.480 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 2>why is this dog always on this person's property. It's

0:35:06.520 --> 0:35:08.000
<v Speaker 2>a little wit I think just when you're in.

0:35:08.000 --> 0:35:10.840
<v Speaker 3>A level of grief like that of losing somebody, just

0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:14.640
<v Speaker 3>really obvious signs just go by you. And there also

0:35:14.760 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 3>just has to be this complete disbelief that it could

0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:20.000
<v Speaker 3>quite literally be happening in your backyard.

0:35:21.800 --> 0:35:24.080
<v Speaker 2>It's such a shame, and it's more a shame that

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:27.640
<v Speaker 2>the mom died before getting any peace with this. Yeah,

0:35:27.640 --> 0:35:29.239
<v Speaker 2>but I mean, at the end of the day, at

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:32.600
<v Speaker 2>least he's been rescued and hopefully he could go through

0:35:32.680 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 2>some treatment to try to have somewhat normal quality of

0:35:35.600 --> 0:35:37.719
<v Speaker 2>life after this. Yeah.

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:41.080
<v Speaker 3>All right, So our last violent crime. Last week, an

0:35:41.120 --> 0:35:45.240
<v Speaker 3>investigation uncovered that an HIV positive sex worker made contact

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:48.680
<v Speaker 3>with over two hundred clients after a positive diagnosis in

0:35:48.719 --> 0:35:49.640
<v Speaker 3>twenty twenty two.

0:35:51.800 --> 0:35:56.200
<v Speaker 2>I have a lot of questions about this because they're

0:35:56.280 --> 0:35:58.839
<v Speaker 2>trying to say that this person figured out that they

0:35:58.840 --> 0:36:02.200
<v Speaker 2>were HIV positive and they were still continuing to be

0:36:02.239 --> 0:36:05.400
<v Speaker 2>a sex worker. And I don't know what the rules

0:36:05.440 --> 0:36:12.120
<v Speaker 2>are because now a days, there's anti retroviral medications that

0:36:12.680 --> 0:36:16.480
<v Speaker 2>they can lighten your load of HIV so much that

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:20.440
<v Speaker 2>it's not even detectable. And let's say a husband and

0:36:20.680 --> 0:36:23.239
<v Speaker 2>wife are together and the husband as HIV and the

0:36:23.280 --> 0:36:27.239
<v Speaker 2>wife doesn't. If they're on the proper medication and their

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:30.480
<v Speaker 2>viral load is so low that you can't detect it anymore,

0:36:30.840 --> 0:36:33.719
<v Speaker 2>they're considered to be safe to have sex with each

0:36:33.760 --> 0:36:36.960
<v Speaker 2>other at that point. So I'm wondering if she was

0:36:37.000 --> 0:36:40.120
<v Speaker 2>diagnosed two years ago, I'm assuming that she hasn't gotten

0:36:40.160 --> 0:36:43.560
<v Speaker 2>any treatment for it, and that's why they're still considering

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:46.239
<v Speaker 2>this to be That's why we put it in the

0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:51.359
<v Speaker 2>violent crime section, because this is you're giving someone a

0:36:51.400 --> 0:36:54.320
<v Speaker 2>disease that could be deadly without letting them know about it,

0:36:54.440 --> 0:36:56.080
<v Speaker 2>especially when you do know about it.

0:36:56.400 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So they determined through phone records that she was

0:36:59.600 --> 0:37:02.800
<v Speaker 3>in kind with at least two hundred and eleven people

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:07.160
<v Speaker 3>in business transactions with them. So now they're working to

0:37:07.239 --> 0:37:10.120
<v Speaker 3>contact all two hundred and eleven individuals that may have

0:37:10.200 --> 0:37:12.680
<v Speaker 3>been affected by this, and they're encouraging them to all

0:37:12.680 --> 0:37:15.640
<v Speaker 3>be brutally honest. So they could, you know, follow the

0:37:15.680 --> 0:37:17.640
<v Speaker 3>line of exactly how far this is gonna go.

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:21.239
<v Speaker 2>I just don't. I don't really know why this is

0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:23.480
<v Speaker 2>much of a story. Like, if you're having sex with

0:37:23.520 --> 0:37:26.640
<v Speaker 2>the sex worker, are you assuming that they that they're

0:37:26.680 --> 0:37:29.520
<v Speaker 2>like really clean and safe? I mean there has to

0:37:29.560 --> 0:37:33.239
<v Speaker 2>be some level of You're you're having sex with a

0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:35.360
<v Speaker 2>person that you knows have sex with so many people

0:37:35.400 --> 0:37:37.879
<v Speaker 2>that there's a certain level of risk associated with it, right,

0:37:38.640 --> 0:37:41.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah don't. I don't really, I don't. I mean, it's

0:37:41.920 --> 0:37:44.000
<v Speaker 2>messed up if she knows about it and she's doing it,

0:37:44.040 --> 0:37:46.560
<v Speaker 2>But like you shouldn't. You really shouldn't be having sex

0:37:46.600 --> 0:37:48.080
<v Speaker 2>with a sex worker without protection.

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:51.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I agree with that. I just yeah, I don't really,

0:37:51.800 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I guess there's a lot more to this.

0:37:54.719 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 3>Maybe we don't even understand yet, but yeah, maybe I don't.

0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:01.879
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm just kind of like, isn't isn't

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:04.319
<v Speaker 2>not like because they also said is not why it's frown.

0:38:04.480 --> 0:38:08.040
<v Speaker 3>They also said this sex trafficker, this sex worker came.

0:38:08.640 --> 0:38:11.480
<v Speaker 3>They found this sex worker because she was part of

0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:15.200
<v Speaker 3>a sex trafficking organization. So I'm sure there's a lot

0:38:15.280 --> 0:38:17.839
<v Speaker 3>more to have to do with this, which is what

0:38:19.000 --> 0:38:20.280
<v Speaker 3>makes the criminal charges.

0:38:20.360 --> 0:38:23.759
<v Speaker 2>So all right, medical news, all right.

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:26.760
<v Speaker 3>An NYC law student is claiming her addiction to eating

0:38:26.840 --> 0:38:29.040
<v Speaker 3>cheese got so bad that she had to go to

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:33.480
<v Speaker 3>a six thousand dollars per week rehab. So in twenty eighteen,

0:38:33.560 --> 0:38:36.440
<v Speaker 3>this girl says she started craving cheese and binged on

0:38:36.480 --> 0:38:39.880
<v Speaker 3>the quote cheapest bricks of white cheddar and parmesan almost daily.

0:38:40.239 --> 0:38:43.279
<v Speaker 3>Although I'm gonna like, let's take it in perspective for

0:38:43.320 --> 0:38:45.560
<v Speaker 3>a second. She said she used to buy her cheese

0:38:45.560 --> 0:38:49.480
<v Speaker 3>out Whole Foods, which if you're looking's if you're looking

0:38:49.560 --> 0:38:52.800
<v Speaker 3>for the cheapest cheese, you're not going to Whole Foods.

0:38:53.120 --> 0:38:57.160
<v Speaker 3>So she started off her addiction with white cheddar and

0:38:57.239 --> 0:39:00.400
<v Speaker 3>parmesan almost daily. She said she would just straight up

0:39:00.440 --> 0:39:02.560
<v Speaker 3>eat the block of cheese with her hands and let

0:39:02.680 --> 0:39:05.360
<v Speaker 3>and eventually was eating five and a half blocks of

0:39:05.440 --> 0:39:10.360
<v Speaker 3>cheese per week, which is so much, so she rapidly

0:39:10.440 --> 0:39:13.320
<v Speaker 3>gained weight until she hit one hundred and seventy two pounds.

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:15.759
<v Speaker 3>I guess her normal weight is around one hundred and

0:39:15.760 --> 0:39:18.560
<v Speaker 3>twenty three pounds, which she's now at now. But she

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:21.239
<v Speaker 3>had stopped menstruating for five months during her binge and

0:39:21.280 --> 0:39:24.080
<v Speaker 3>became at risk for type two diabetes. It got so

0:39:24.160 --> 0:39:26.239
<v Speaker 3>bad that her mother sent her to a reheb in

0:39:26.320 --> 0:39:29.200
<v Speaker 3>Hilton Head, costing nearly six thousand dollars per week to

0:39:29.239 --> 0:39:30.440
<v Speaker 3>treat the eating disorder.

0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:36.319
<v Speaker 2>This story just reeks of what you would say privilege, right, like, oh,

0:39:36.360 --> 0:39:38.920
<v Speaker 2>you went to you went to Hilton Head for a

0:39:38.960 --> 0:39:42.120
<v Speaker 2>couple of weeks. That's six thousand dollars for retreat because

0:39:42.160 --> 0:39:46.279
<v Speaker 2>of your gourmet cheese addiction. Like it's serious. And the

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:49.080
<v Speaker 2>reason that I'm even more annoyed is because when you

0:39:49.120 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 2>look at the article, there's like these weird pictures of

0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:55.600
<v Speaker 2>her all over it, like lambed up, like like posing

0:39:55.680 --> 0:39:58.680
<v Speaker 2>with cheese and then like with her dear bag and

0:39:58.719 --> 0:40:01.400
<v Speaker 2>the cheese and stuff, and you're like, you kind of suck, lady,

0:40:01.880 --> 0:40:06.640
<v Speaker 2>and she really does. But there's this doctor who authored

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:10.200
<v Speaker 2>a book called The Cheese Trap, who he wrote that

0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:14.680
<v Speaker 2>cheese contains opiate opiates that attached to the same brain

0:40:14.719 --> 0:40:18.480
<v Speaker 2>receptors as fetanoyl or other narcotics, and you actually could

0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:22.320
<v Speaker 2>get addicted to the caseyin in cheese, and it's called

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 2>a dairy like a dairy addiction, but they will call

0:40:25.680 --> 0:40:27.719
<v Speaker 2>it like a what do they call it crack? They

0:40:27.760 --> 0:40:33.799
<v Speaker 2>call dairy crack, dairy crack. Yeah, so yeah, I don't

0:40:33.840 --> 0:40:36.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I just think this, but don't worry.

0:40:36.080 --> 0:40:38.640
<v Speaker 2>She took ozempic and lost the fifty pounds and now

0:40:38.719 --> 0:40:40.640
<v Speaker 2>she only has it when she's stressed out.

0:40:41.120 --> 0:40:44.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this story just freaks a bullshit to be so like,

0:40:44.800 --> 0:40:45.359
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well you got an article on the New York Post,

0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:49.720
<v Speaker 2>So this.

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:51.600
<v Speaker 3>Is what you you really want to be around for

0:40:51.719 --> 0:40:55.240
<v Speaker 3>the girl that went to rehab because of geees. Like people,

0:40:56.480 --> 0:41:02.200
<v Speaker 3>it's it's giving desperate onto the next. I don't think

0:41:02.239 --> 0:41:05.239
<v Speaker 3>we covered this on Mother Nose Death because of when

0:41:05.280 --> 0:41:07.279
<v Speaker 3>it came out in September of last year. I know

0:41:07.320 --> 0:41:10.040
<v Speaker 3>we did on the grocer Room podcast, but a tenth

0:41:10.080 --> 0:41:13.000
<v Speaker 3>grader had died in September of last year after eating

0:41:13.040 --> 0:41:15.600
<v Speaker 3>the Pockey chip as part of the One Chip Challenge.

0:41:16.160 --> 0:41:18.959
<v Speaker 3>So the challenge god for participants to eat this chip

0:41:19.000 --> 0:41:21.040
<v Speaker 3>and then see how long they could go without consuming

0:41:21.120 --> 0:41:25.640
<v Speaker 3>other food and water. It was really to see how

0:41:25.680 --> 0:41:28.839
<v Speaker 3>well you could tolerate the spice level. So now the

0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:31.239
<v Speaker 3>autopsy results are in saying he died from eating a

0:41:31.320 --> 0:41:34.200
<v Speaker 3>large quantity of chili pepper extract and also had a

0:41:34.200 --> 0:41:36.839
<v Speaker 3>congenital heart defect. So what are your thoughts on this?

0:41:38.239 --> 0:41:45.480
<v Speaker 2>So sometimes a tenth grader is like cow old, it's fifteen, fifteen, sixteen. Yeah,

0:41:45.719 --> 0:41:49.359
<v Speaker 2>so there's sometimes that kids that are teenagers might have

0:41:49.480 --> 0:41:52.720
<v Speaker 2>a heart defect that wasn't bad and off their entire life.

0:41:52.719 --> 0:41:55.280
<v Speaker 2>That clearly like they made it to tenth grade without

0:41:55.320 --> 0:41:58.640
<v Speaker 2>anybody knowing, So it's not it's not like they can't

0:41:58.719 --> 0:42:04.920
<v Speaker 2>live with it, but something can trigger it that could

0:42:04.960 --> 0:42:08.400
<v Speaker 2>make it cause death, like in this case, this capstation

0:42:09.239 --> 0:42:13.680
<v Speaker 2>that's used with these chips, these extra strong chili powder,

0:42:14.239 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 2>that's causing these people to get really sick. This isn't

0:42:17.560 --> 0:42:21.120
<v Speaker 2>actually the only person that's gotten sick of doing this challenge,

0:42:21.200 --> 0:42:24.360
<v Speaker 2>which is why they eventually pulled it off of the

0:42:24.440 --> 0:42:28.120
<v Speaker 2>market at this point. But he was born so when

0:42:28.120 --> 0:42:30.680
<v Speaker 2>they did the autopsy, they found that his heart was big,

0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:33.279
<v Speaker 2>or he had cardio megle, and he also had a

0:42:33.320 --> 0:42:36.719
<v Speaker 2>condition that was called myocardio bridging of the left anterior

0:42:36.800 --> 0:42:41.279
<v Speaker 2>descending artery, which normally the coronary arteries are above the

0:42:41.320 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 2>heart muscle and in this case it's within the heart muscle.

0:42:44.520 --> 0:42:47.920
<v Speaker 2>And obviously the kid's been living with this and this

0:42:47.960 --> 0:42:51.080
<v Speaker 2>has been fine, and maybe if he didn't have any

0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:54.399
<v Speaker 2>kind of super traumatic body events the rest of his life,

0:42:54.400 --> 0:42:57.040
<v Speaker 2>he could have lived with this and lived to be

0:42:57.080 --> 0:43:00.359
<v Speaker 2>an older person. But or even had an issue where

0:43:00.400 --> 0:43:02.520
<v Speaker 2>he went to the hospital and they detected it and

0:43:02.760 --> 0:43:06.160
<v Speaker 2>were able to repair it. But in this case, it

0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:09.719
<v Speaker 2>was it seems so innocent because it's a chip, but

0:43:09.800 --> 0:43:12.040
<v Speaker 2>it's it's trauma to your body. I mean, do you

0:43:12.800 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 2>I had we went to that restaurant for Gabe's graduation

0:43:17.760 --> 0:43:20.040
<v Speaker 2>and I had you know how they gave us two things,

0:43:20.040 --> 0:43:22.080
<v Speaker 2>a horse radish and one was like a creamy one

0:43:22.080 --> 0:43:24.799
<v Speaker 2>and one was like the high octane one. Well, I

0:43:24.880 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 2>had the high octane one by accident. It's essentially like

0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:31.920
<v Speaker 2>was sabi. I took such a big spoonful of it though,

0:43:31.960 --> 0:43:33.879
<v Speaker 2>because I thought it was like the water down one,

0:43:34.400 --> 0:43:37.239
<v Speaker 2>and it gave my body, like the weirdest reaction, like

0:43:37.280 --> 0:43:40.400
<v Speaker 2>my nose was burning so bad, and I was like,

0:43:40.440 --> 0:43:42.719
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, if that feeling never went away, I

0:43:42.719 --> 0:43:45.200
<v Speaker 2>would I would want to die. It's like terrible, like

0:43:45.280 --> 0:43:48.319
<v Speaker 2>I felt like I was drowning underwater or something. And

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:52.200
<v Speaker 2>this spice could have the same that kind of effect

0:43:52.239 --> 0:43:54.080
<v Speaker 2>on a person and on their heart, and it was

0:43:54.160 --> 0:43:56.400
<v Speaker 2>just too much for the heart to take. And in

0:43:56.760 --> 0:44:00.920
<v Speaker 2>the literature they said that this capstation can cause toxicity

0:44:01.000 --> 0:44:03.600
<v Speaker 2>and caused the schema eschemia to the heart muscle, which

0:44:03.640 --> 0:44:05.359
<v Speaker 2>is death to the heart muscle or like a heart

0:44:05.360 --> 0:44:11.000
<v Speaker 2>attack essentially. So maybe if another kid had something like

0:44:11.000 --> 0:44:13.239
<v Speaker 2>this that didn't have an underlying heart defect, But like

0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:16.600
<v Speaker 2>you're marketing these towards kids, they're all stock.

0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:19.800
<v Speaker 3>So they came out and said they the labeling says

0:44:19.880 --> 0:44:22.440
<v Speaker 3>it's not for children and not for people with underlying

0:44:22.560 --> 0:44:25.160
<v Speaker 3>health conditions, which how was this boy supposed to know

0:44:25.239 --> 0:44:26.400
<v Speaker 3>he had an underlying health condition?

0:44:26.480 --> 0:44:28.960
<v Speaker 2>But it's on TikTok. So they go to the store.

0:44:29.200 --> 0:44:31.920
<v Speaker 3>Exactly, It's kind of what we're talking about with vaping,

0:44:32.080 --> 0:44:35.680
<v Speaker 3>Like their labels say it's not for kids, but their

0:44:35.760 --> 0:44:39.560
<v Speaker 3>marketing really isn't saying the same thing, especially when you're

0:44:39.600 --> 0:44:42.759
<v Speaker 3>turning to TikTok, which is primarily used by children and

0:44:42.880 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 3>gen z and younger.

0:44:44.080 --> 0:44:46.279
<v Speaker 2>It should it should be locked up behind like with

0:44:46.320 --> 0:44:49.920
<v Speaker 2>the cigarettes. Then, I mean, really, how do you if

0:44:49.920 --> 0:44:53.600
<v Speaker 2>it's just in the aisle with with like lazed potato chips,

0:44:54.160 --> 0:44:57.440
<v Speaker 2>because it was I saw it before this happened, because

0:44:57.440 --> 0:44:59.560
<v Speaker 2>my kids actually pointed out to me and said, oh,

0:44:59.560 --> 0:45:01.880
<v Speaker 2>that's the on chip challenge they showed me when we

0:45:01.880 --> 0:45:06.480
<v Speaker 2>were traveling last year. They could have bought it, yeah right,

0:45:06.520 --> 0:45:08.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean, like, I mean, it was just there on

0:45:08.440 --> 0:45:11.040
<v Speaker 2>the counter with everything, especially if you're like a little

0:45:11.440 --> 0:45:13.080
<v Speaker 2>not a little little kid, but if you're like a

0:45:13.160 --> 0:45:16.960
<v Speaker 2>kid or a teenager and you're out by yourself without

0:45:17.000 --> 0:45:19.080
<v Speaker 2>your parents there, and you're at like the store and

0:45:19.160 --> 0:45:20.759
<v Speaker 2>you might just be like, oh, I'll just grab it.

0:45:21.520 --> 0:45:24.880
<v Speaker 2>It happens very innocently. They don't understand the severe effects

0:45:24.880 --> 0:45:28.799
<v Speaker 2>this could have. So I understand, like the company did

0:45:28.840 --> 0:45:30.440
<v Speaker 2>what they're supposed to do, which is putting out on

0:45:30.440 --> 0:45:32.919
<v Speaker 2>the label. But do you think a fifteen year old's

0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:35.680
<v Speaker 2>gonna give a shit what's on a label when all

0:45:35.719 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 2>they see is not even a TikTok challenge and all

0:45:38.080 --> 0:45:39.600
<v Speaker 2>their friends are talking about it. They just want to

0:45:39.600 --> 0:45:43.080
<v Speaker 2>be cool and do the challenge exactly all right. Next,

0:45:43.080 --> 0:45:45.760
<v Speaker 2>a husband and wife were having sex when the husband

0:45:45.760 --> 0:45:49.400
<v Speaker 2>noticed discoloration on the wife's flulva. She immediately made an

0:45:49.440 --> 0:45:52.320
<v Speaker 2>appointment with her doctor, who suggested she go to the hospital,

0:45:52.360 --> 0:45:55.120
<v Speaker 2>fearing she might have cancer, and after four biopsies, she

0:45:55.280 --> 0:45:58.759
<v Speaker 2>was told the lesions were pre cancerous and slow progressing.

0:46:00.560 --> 0:46:03.319
<v Speaker 2>So the best part of this story is that it's

0:46:03.320 --> 0:46:05.480
<v Speaker 2>so cute because they're like an older couple and she's like,

0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 2>I haven't looked down there in a long time. I

0:46:09.239 --> 0:46:11.879
<v Speaker 2>love it. So yeah, he was just like, ah, something,

0:46:11.920 --> 0:46:14.000
<v Speaker 2>they'll look right down there and they buy upsted in.

0:46:14.120 --> 0:46:18.720
<v Speaker 2>She had what's called VIN or evolva into epithelial lesion,

0:46:18.800 --> 0:46:21.520
<v Speaker 2>which is it's the same thing that you can get

0:46:21.560 --> 0:46:24.200
<v Speaker 2>in the vagina on the cervix, and it's due to

0:46:24.640 --> 0:46:29.200
<v Speaker 2>HPV changes and when you have viral changes in the cells,

0:46:29.320 --> 0:46:32.400
<v Speaker 2>it could start making them look a little bit funny

0:46:32.480 --> 0:46:36.640
<v Speaker 2>and it could be pre cancerous changes that eventually, if

0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:39.239
<v Speaker 2>you don't get it treated, can turn to cancer. So

0:46:39.840 --> 0:46:42.319
<v Speaker 2>most of the cases of VIN are caused by an

0:46:42.480 --> 0:46:47.080
<v Speaker 2>HPV infection with a higher risk of HPV and hopefully

0:46:47.200 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 2>she's able to just get it treated. And usually if

0:46:50.000 --> 0:46:53.160
<v Speaker 2>you go and get treatment, then you're good, and they'll

0:46:53.160 --> 0:46:55.720
<v Speaker 2>do testing too to see if it's a high restrain

0:46:55.800 --> 0:46:59.279
<v Speaker 2>of HPV or a low restrain of HPV. And but

0:46:59.400 --> 0:47:01.520
<v Speaker 2>it's kind of cool because if she wasn't going to

0:47:01.560 --> 0:47:04.879
<v Speaker 2>look down there for another couple years, right, it could

0:47:04.880 --> 0:47:07.720
<v Speaker 2>have eventually turned to something a little bit more severe,

0:47:07.800 --> 0:47:12.600
<v Speaker 2>either like a higher inner epithelial lesion or even cancer.

0:47:12.760 --> 0:47:16.480
<v Speaker 2>So this is say see something, say something, husband, Yeah, I.

0:47:16.840 --> 0:47:18.840
<v Speaker 3>Do want to say I don't think we stress the

0:47:18.880 --> 0:47:22.320
<v Speaker 3>importance enough of our sexual partners. If you notice something's

0:47:22.360 --> 0:47:25.440
<v Speaker 3>not normal in these areas, like I don't have the

0:47:25.520 --> 0:47:28.080
<v Speaker 3>flexibility to bend down and really look up in there,

0:47:28.080 --> 0:47:29.000
<v Speaker 3>and a mirror.

0:47:28.640 --> 0:47:30.120
<v Speaker 2>Can only show you so much.

0:47:30.200 --> 0:47:33.520
<v Speaker 3>So if you see a mole or anything that looks weird,

0:47:33.600 --> 0:47:36.319
<v Speaker 3>it's definitely better to say something and have it checked

0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:39.239
<v Speaker 3>out than just be like, ah, maybe that's whatever you

0:47:39.280 --> 0:47:42.120
<v Speaker 3>know for sure? All right, our next one. A new

0:47:42.160 --> 0:47:44.799
<v Speaker 3>study has come out suggesting it may be beneficial if

0:47:44.840 --> 0:47:48.000
<v Speaker 3>people wait longer to pull the plug on life support.

0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:51.480
<v Speaker 2>This is kind of my favorite story of the week

0:47:51.560 --> 0:47:55.120
<v Speaker 2>because it's it's something that a lot of people have

0:47:55.160 --> 0:47:57.399
<v Speaker 2>to deal with, is you have a loved one and

0:47:58.000 --> 0:48:01.040
<v Speaker 2>they either they get injured or they're all or whatever happens,

0:48:01.080 --> 0:48:02.799
<v Speaker 2>and they end up going into a coma and then

0:48:02.840 --> 0:48:05.960
<v Speaker 2>they go on life support and they come to you

0:48:06.080 --> 0:48:09.240
<v Speaker 2>and say, Okay, your family member is on life support

0:48:09.320 --> 0:48:11.880
<v Speaker 2>right now, they cannot live on their own. When would

0:48:11.880 --> 0:48:14.160
<v Speaker 2>you like to kind of pull the plug and end

0:48:14.200 --> 0:48:18.080
<v Speaker 2>their life? And this study, so this study was done

0:48:18.160 --> 0:48:22.920
<v Speaker 2>by the Journal of Neurotrauma, and it included three hundred

0:48:22.920 --> 0:48:26.120
<v Speaker 2>and ninety two traumatic brain injuries, and of these they

0:48:26.160 --> 0:48:30.960
<v Speaker 2>compared eighty patients that had severe injuries who died after

0:48:31.040 --> 0:48:34.720
<v Speaker 2>life support was withdrawn, so that's when the family decided

0:48:34.719 --> 0:48:38.359
<v Speaker 2>to pull the plug, and then eighty similar patients whose

0:48:38.400 --> 0:48:42.480
<v Speaker 2>life support was not withdrawn, which would be me somebody

0:48:42.520 --> 0:48:46.080
<v Speaker 2>that's like, I'm not I'm not pulling the plug ever, right,

0:48:46.840 --> 0:48:50.120
<v Speaker 2>So they did want to emphasize that most of the

0:48:50.200 --> 0:48:54.400
<v Speaker 2>patients whose life support was continued still ended up dying

0:48:54.600 --> 0:48:58.320
<v Speaker 2>anyway in the hospital within about six days, but forty

0:48:58.440 --> 0:49:01.440
<v Speaker 2>two percent of them, which is a lot in my opinion,

0:49:02.360 --> 0:49:06.719
<v Speaker 2>who continued life support eventually recovered and they either had

0:49:06.760 --> 0:49:09.520
<v Speaker 2>some degree of independence after their injury, and some of

0:49:09.520 --> 0:49:12.400
<v Speaker 2>them even went on to have a completely like resume

0:49:12.440 --> 0:49:16.800
<v Speaker 2>their normal huge number. I know it is, and it's

0:49:16.920 --> 0:49:20.320
<v Speaker 2>it's like, oh my god, now, I mean I don't

0:49:20.680 --> 0:49:23.200
<v Speaker 2>I kind of regret ever seeing this because now if

0:49:23.200 --> 0:49:25.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm ever forced to be in this situation, I'm going

0:49:25.360 --> 0:49:27.680
<v Speaker 2>to be like, yeah, but incently, I'm not going to

0:49:27.719 --> 0:49:30.520
<v Speaker 2>ender to wait even if it ends up not being

0:49:31.040 --> 0:49:34.200
<v Speaker 2>like you'd rather wait and see if it works out

0:49:34.320 --> 0:49:37.839
<v Speaker 2>then just be like, well, I guess this is it. Yeah.

0:49:37.920 --> 0:49:39.759
<v Speaker 2>I just it's just sad because you're like, well, how

0:49:39.800 --> 0:49:42.919
<v Speaker 2>many people decided to do this because they were told

0:49:42.960 --> 0:49:45.960
<v Speaker 2>to do it and then like maybe they could have recovered.

0:49:46.080 --> 0:49:48.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean maybe with this study and some more

0:49:48.120 --> 0:49:52.160
<v Speaker 3>additional research, the kind of qualifications for it will alter

0:49:52.400 --> 0:49:57.120
<v Speaker 3>over time. That's a huge number of people I know.

0:49:57.560 --> 0:50:00.439
<v Speaker 2>And and and when they say, I mean you don't

0:50:00.520 --> 0:50:02.719
<v Speaker 2>want your family me, because sometimes they'll come to you

0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:04.960
<v Speaker 2>and say like listen, even if they do survive, they're

0:50:05.000 --> 0:50:07.279
<v Speaker 2>going to be a vegetable their whole life. And they

0:50:07.280 --> 0:50:08.839
<v Speaker 2>say things like that, and you're like, well, I don't

0:50:08.840 --> 0:50:10.360
<v Speaker 2>want to do that to my loved one. Of course,

0:50:10.400 --> 0:50:13.520
<v Speaker 2>that's you don't want to do that. But they're saying

0:50:13.560 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 2>that some people like completely resume their regular life, Like,

0:50:16.840 --> 0:50:18.120
<v Speaker 2>oh my god. Okay.

0:50:18.160 --> 0:50:22.480
<v Speaker 3>The EU has opened a formal investigation into Meta over

0:50:22.600 --> 0:50:25.400
<v Speaker 3>concerns that it isn't doing enough to safeguard the mental

0:50:25.480 --> 0:50:28.799
<v Speaker 3>and physical health of children who use Facebook and Instagram.

0:50:29.320 --> 0:50:31.120
<v Speaker 3>This is not really surprising to me.

0:50:32.680 --> 0:50:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Why is it only in the EU? Why is it

0:50:34.960 --> 0:50:35.759
<v Speaker 2>in America too?

0:50:35.880 --> 0:50:40.360
<v Speaker 3>Because everything, like, think about everything, think about processed foods,

0:50:40.360 --> 0:50:44.279
<v Speaker 3>for example, in Europe, they have such strict regulations over

0:50:44.320 --> 0:50:46.520
<v Speaker 3>there about what can be in the food and everything

0:50:46.560 --> 0:50:49.360
<v Speaker 3>that we have seen over studies over so many years

0:50:49.719 --> 0:50:52.959
<v Speaker 3>that they have way less health problems associated with things

0:50:53.000 --> 0:50:56.400
<v Speaker 3>like that, And you know, it just kind of shows

0:50:56.440 --> 0:50:59.239
<v Speaker 3>that they care a lot more about people over there

0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:03.319
<v Speaker 3>physical and mental help, seeing as they put their resources

0:51:03.320 --> 0:51:04.560
<v Speaker 3>into checking these things.

0:51:05.520 --> 0:51:07.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean, I don't know, you might be able

0:51:07.320 --> 0:51:09.520
<v Speaker 2>to talk to people over there that might disagree with that,

0:51:09.560 --> 0:51:12.840
<v Speaker 2>but I see what you're saying. I just think that,

0:51:14.320 --> 0:51:17.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, how like the World Health Organization got together

0:51:17.719 --> 0:51:21.000
<v Speaker 2>for the whole COVID situation, Like, why why isn't this

0:51:21.160 --> 0:51:23.279
<v Speaker 2>considered a public health crisis as.

0:51:23.160 --> 0:51:25.960
<v Speaker 3>Well, really just because we have different calls in different countries.

0:51:26.040 --> 0:51:30.600
<v Speaker 2>So it's yeah, I mean, I just we talk about

0:51:30.600 --> 0:51:34.799
<v Speaker 2>this all the time, and I mean it's like all

0:51:34.800 --> 0:51:36.719
<v Speaker 2>I could say is kids are fucked, Like what else?

0:51:37.160 --> 0:51:40.520
<v Speaker 2>What else could you say? At this point, it's it's

0:51:40.560 --> 0:51:43.440
<v Speaker 2>not going away, right, So we're gonna have to teach

0:51:43.520 --> 0:51:46.080
<v Speaker 2>the kids how to use it. But just we you know,

0:51:46.160 --> 0:51:48.640
<v Speaker 2>we have kids now that are nine and eleven years old,

0:51:48.719 --> 0:51:51.360
<v Speaker 2>and it's like we don't we're not getting them phones,

0:51:51.400 --> 0:51:53.680
<v Speaker 2>but they have iPads and this and that, and they're

0:51:53.680 --> 0:51:55.560
<v Speaker 2>getting to the age where they want to text their

0:51:55.600 --> 0:51:57.319
<v Speaker 2>friends and this and that, and we have to sit

0:51:57.360 --> 0:52:00.480
<v Speaker 2>them down all the time and say, like this is

0:52:00.640 --> 0:52:01.720
<v Speaker 2>forever on the phone.

0:52:01.719 --> 0:52:03.839
<v Speaker 3>If you send a picture, you sent a talking about

0:52:03.840 --> 0:52:07.000
<v Speaker 3>a couple of stories ago. So like the girls don't

0:52:07.000 --> 0:52:09.320
<v Speaker 3>have TikTok, right, But how did they know about the

0:52:09.360 --> 0:52:12.520
<v Speaker 3>one chip challenge? Because somebody they know will always know

0:52:12.600 --> 0:52:15.399
<v Speaker 3>what's going on on the internet and bad things going on, right,

0:52:15.800 --> 0:52:17.040
<v Speaker 3>so you have to think of just that.

0:52:17.120 --> 0:52:20.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or they just put it on YouTube or whatever.

0:52:20.239 --> 0:52:23.400
<v Speaker 2>Like I mean, it's it's the same, it's all the

0:52:23.440 --> 0:52:26.319
<v Speaker 2>same thing. They yes, exactly. They knew about it. They

0:52:26.360 --> 0:52:29.560
<v Speaker 2>heard it in school wherever. Like they also heard about

0:52:29.560 --> 0:52:33.040
<v Speaker 2>the Kylie Jenner lip challenge, which we know that one

0:52:33.040 --> 0:52:35.360
<v Speaker 2>of my kids did that with the stupid water bottle,

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:40.200
<v Speaker 2>and like, I can't but this is I know. But

0:52:40.800 --> 0:52:45.120
<v Speaker 2>it's just like you can't teach their own because think

0:52:45.160 --> 0:52:46.920
<v Speaker 2>about when you were a kid and your parents were

0:52:46.960 --> 0:52:48.960
<v Speaker 2>talking to you and you were just like whatever, Like

0:52:49.320 --> 0:52:53.480
<v Speaker 2>I was so scared of you that I listened everything. Yeah, well,

0:52:53.520 --> 0:52:57.080
<v Speaker 2>you're not normal with kid because because that's not normally

0:52:57.120 --> 0:53:00.480
<v Speaker 2>how kids react. But I think I don't know, And

0:53:00.520 --> 0:53:02.759
<v Speaker 2>this wasn't really an issue with you when you were

0:53:02.800 --> 0:53:04.880
<v Speaker 2>a kid because it wasn't as much as but now

0:53:05.360 --> 0:53:08.879
<v Speaker 2>it's like kids could send stuff now and it could

0:53:08.920 --> 0:53:12.239
<v Speaker 2>affect them in twenty years from Loudly, they don't understand

0:53:12.280 --> 0:53:15.600
<v Speaker 2>how Like it's the same thing we talk about with

0:53:15.719 --> 0:53:18.879
<v Speaker 2>boomers on Facebook. They don't understand how the internet works.

0:53:18.880 --> 0:53:21.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh my good. Literally they don't understand that like everybody

0:53:21.920 --> 0:53:24.720
<v Speaker 2>could see everything that they're saying and doing and stuff.

0:53:24.760 --> 0:53:28.359
<v Speaker 2>It's like we're in this weird situation of life where

0:53:28.360 --> 0:53:31.319
<v Speaker 2>we're sandwiched in the middle of two generations that don't

0:53:31.400 --> 0:53:33.800
<v Speaker 2>understand how the internet works.

0:53:33.840 --> 0:53:36.120
<v Speaker 3>Kindly interesting when you put it that way, because it's

0:53:36.160 --> 0:53:38.760
<v Speaker 3>like you think a sixty year old that has lived

0:53:38.960 --> 0:53:41.960
<v Speaker 3>life would just grasp the concept, but they just cannot.

0:53:42.040 --> 0:53:44.160
<v Speaker 3>And it's funny to they don't see them with a

0:53:44.200 --> 0:53:45.600
<v Speaker 3>ten year old child's brain.

0:53:46.560 --> 0:53:49.440
<v Speaker 2>And if you talk to any friend. I think I

0:53:49.520 --> 0:53:52.560
<v Speaker 2>was talking to Aunt Kara about this and they live

0:53:52.600 --> 0:53:55.400
<v Speaker 2>in Minnesota and her mother and stuff, and it's just

0:53:55.440 --> 0:53:58.280
<v Speaker 2>like you could talk to any person that has parents

0:53:58.320 --> 0:54:00.360
<v Speaker 2>that are on Facebook and they will all say the

0:54:00.400 --> 0:54:03.680
<v Speaker 2>same shit about like, oh my god, my mom posted

0:54:03.719 --> 0:54:06.600
<v Speaker 2>this or this, that and the other. The best story

0:54:06.680 --> 0:54:08.400
<v Speaker 2>is that we have to tell the story about mo

0:54:08.480 --> 0:54:11.080
<v Speaker 2>Mom and her bras I was gonna say, I was

0:54:11.160 --> 0:54:13.279
<v Speaker 2>gonna tell about there's a lot of there's a lot

0:54:13.280 --> 0:54:14.840
<v Speaker 2>of stories with mo Mom, but the one with the

0:54:14.880 --> 0:54:18.399
<v Speaker 2>bro I was gonna talk about fuck Tiery. No, Oh,

0:54:18.640 --> 0:54:20.160
<v Speaker 2>you could talk about that really quick.

0:54:20.239 --> 0:54:23.480
<v Speaker 3>That it was some post that was like change your

0:54:23.520 --> 0:54:26.239
<v Speaker 3>first name to the word fuck and the first four

0:54:26.360 --> 0:54:28.680
<v Speaker 3>letters of your last name to fuck. So I get

0:54:28.680 --> 0:54:34.000
<v Speaker 3>this suggestion on my feed with my grandmother posting fuck

0:54:34.120 --> 0:54:37.279
<v Speaker 3>fuck Tiery instead of Beth qual Tiery. I was like,

0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:38.640
<v Speaker 3>what are you doing.

0:54:39.280 --> 0:54:43.080
<v Speaker 2>Now all the time, and it's and and like, got my,

0:54:43.280 --> 0:54:46.560
<v Speaker 2>it's somewhat something I don't know. I don't really even

0:54:46.640 --> 0:54:49.239
<v Speaker 2>understand why how Facebook works, is why I don't use

0:54:49.280 --> 0:54:52.120
<v Speaker 2>it that much. Talk to any single person that has

0:54:52.200 --> 0:54:55.040
<v Speaker 2>parents that are on Facebook, and they probably all, well,

0:54:55.160 --> 0:54:57.680
<v Speaker 2>we'll share the story with about the brother. Yes.

0:54:57.840 --> 0:55:02.359
<v Speaker 3>Wait, so mama, like whatever, you get notifications for any

0:55:02.440 --> 0:55:04.120
<v Speaker 3>activity somebody you're friends with does.

0:55:04.520 --> 0:55:07.160
<v Speaker 2>So we get a notification that she's she's gonna kill

0:55:07.200 --> 0:55:07.880
<v Speaker 2>us for saying this.

0:55:09.480 --> 0:55:12.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure I'm gonna get a text MFM me in

0:55:12.880 --> 0:55:15.719
<v Speaker 3>a couple hours after we drop this. So then we

0:55:15.760 --> 0:55:18.680
<v Speaker 3>get a notification that she's listed her bras for sale

0:55:18.760 --> 0:55:21.320
<v Speaker 3>on Facebook Marketplace. So we're like, what are you doing?

0:55:22.719 --> 0:55:26.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? And and actually that's another thing that my father

0:55:26.680 --> 0:55:30.239
<v Speaker 2>in law did too, Like you list stuff on Facebook marketplace, right,

0:55:30.800 --> 0:55:34.200
<v Speaker 2>and everybody that you're friends with can see what you're selling,

0:55:34.719 --> 0:55:38.680
<v Speaker 2>so which they don't think about that. Actually it's actually

0:55:38.719 --> 0:55:41.400
<v Speaker 2>there is a box you can click when you're listing

0:55:41.440 --> 0:55:45.600
<v Speaker 2>something on Facebook Marketplace that says hide from friends. Yeah,

0:55:45.600 --> 0:55:48.239
<v Speaker 2>but they don't know that shit, they would never do that.

0:55:48.360 --> 0:55:51.920
<v Speaker 2>So it's like your your idea for the for the

0:55:52.000 --> 0:55:55.040
<v Speaker 2>Instagram called Boomer's Gone Wild is just genius. So you

0:55:55.120 --> 0:55:57.560
<v Speaker 2>really you could get submissions all day long because this

0:55:57.680 --> 0:55:59.800
<v Speaker 2>is Beth. We love you so much, but your Internet

0:55:59.800 --> 0:56:04.440
<v Speaker 2>behavior is out of control. And it's it's not just

0:56:04.520 --> 0:56:07.799
<v Speaker 2>those two things. It's like we we screenshots ship to

0:56:07.840 --> 0:56:09.840
<v Speaker 2>each other every day. It's like me and Maria and

0:56:09.880 --> 0:56:13.440
<v Speaker 2>Louis have a text group text because all like I

0:56:13.480 --> 0:56:16.040
<v Speaker 2>even see it, like in my town Facebook group, it'll

0:56:16.040 --> 0:56:20.080
<v Speaker 2>be like tiger friend that does this, or did you

0:56:20.239 --> 0:56:22.000
<v Speaker 2>remember this when you were a little kid, And it's

0:56:22.040 --> 0:56:24.200
<v Speaker 2>always shit that like I don't even remember the toys,

0:56:24.239 --> 0:56:26.160
<v Speaker 2>so it has to be geared towards like sixty year

0:56:26.160 --> 0:56:29.160
<v Speaker 2>old people and stuff, you know. And then they're all

0:56:29.200 --> 0:56:31.719
<v Speaker 2>commenting underneath, and you read all the comments underneath, and

0:56:31.760 --> 0:56:33.920
<v Speaker 2>you're like, oh my god, do these people know that

0:56:33.960 --> 0:56:36.520
<v Speaker 2>their first and last name is attached to these comments?

0:56:36.520 --> 0:56:37.200
<v Speaker 2>Really don't?

0:56:37.760 --> 0:56:40.000
<v Speaker 3>They just don't get it and they and they also

0:56:40.080 --> 0:56:43.000
<v Speaker 3>don't know when they troll on our Facebook page that

0:56:43.080 --> 0:56:45.920
<v Speaker 3>I also can see their name, So maybe be a

0:56:46.000 --> 0:56:50.800
<v Speaker 3>nice person adult troll us in the comments, thank you anyway,

0:56:50.880 --> 0:56:53.839
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, they're getting investigated. They're kind of just gonna

0:56:53.920 --> 0:56:56.120
<v Speaker 3>check out the you know, a couple of years ago,

0:56:56.239 --> 0:56:59.040
<v Speaker 3>this whistleblower came forward saying that they knew that there

0:56:59.120 --> 0:57:03.040
<v Speaker 3>was all these problems with younger people and behavior associated

0:57:03.080 --> 0:57:05.080
<v Speaker 3>with the apps, and they said that wasn't true and

0:57:05.560 --> 0:57:07.959
<v Speaker 3>all this stuff. Oh, but they're gonna take a deep

0:57:08.000 --> 0:57:10.600
<v Speaker 3>dive into their back end and look at their algorithm

0:57:10.640 --> 0:57:14.080
<v Speaker 3>and their suggested content. I've spoken about this many times that, like,

0:57:14.480 --> 0:57:18.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't necessarily consider myself to have a problem with

0:57:18.480 --> 0:57:20.000
<v Speaker 3>the way I look right now. But when I was

0:57:20.000 --> 0:57:22.400
<v Speaker 3>a teenager, you know, as most teenage girls do, I

0:57:22.400 --> 0:57:25.240
<v Speaker 3>was very self conscious about my appearance and that I

0:57:25.280 --> 0:57:28.240
<v Speaker 3>would be constantly being fed ads about making my stomach

0:57:28.360 --> 0:57:31.720
<v Speaker 3>flatter and taking weight loss drugs and dieting. And I

0:57:31.720 --> 0:57:35.360
<v Speaker 3>don't really appreciate that, considering I've never really googled that stuff,

0:57:35.360 --> 0:57:37.840
<v Speaker 3>and I think I look okay right now. So like,

0:57:38.240 --> 0:57:40.680
<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, is it scanning my pictures and telling

0:57:40.720 --> 0:57:43.360
<v Speaker 3>me I need to be skinnier or is this just

0:57:43.760 --> 0:57:45.800
<v Speaker 3>their fucked up way about going about things.

0:57:45.840 --> 0:57:49.160
<v Speaker 2>So it's just it's just like, listen, me and Gabe

0:57:49.200 --> 0:57:51.440
<v Speaker 2>send videos to each other on Instagram back and forth,

0:57:51.480 --> 0:57:55.480
<v Speaker 2>all day long and it's cats, plants and baseball, like

0:57:55.640 --> 0:57:57.600
<v Speaker 2>all the time. Both of our feeds are just filled

0:57:57.600 --> 0:57:59.480
<v Speaker 2>with that, Like it's just like you just get what

0:57:59.520 --> 0:58:02.120
<v Speaker 2>you look at and the whole like listening to you.

0:58:02.640 --> 0:58:05.560
<v Speaker 3>I mean, people can't even deny anymore that they listen

0:58:05.640 --> 0:58:07.520
<v Speaker 3>to you through your phone. But there was even an

0:58:07.720 --> 0:58:11.000
<v Speaker 3>entire storyline on suc Session about this where they had

0:58:11.000 --> 0:58:14.080
<v Speaker 3>a similar app and they were gonna make some motto

0:58:14.160 --> 0:58:16.480
<v Speaker 3>called We're listening, and they were like, we can't put

0:58:16.560 --> 0:58:18.840
<v Speaker 3>we're listening because then they'll know what's going on behind

0:58:18.920 --> 0:58:19.440
<v Speaker 3>the scenes.

0:58:20.160 --> 0:58:23.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly. Well I was gonna say that too that

0:58:23.520 --> 0:58:27.439
<v Speaker 2>there's this Netflix documentary which I think everybody should watch.

0:58:27.440 --> 0:58:31.320
<v Speaker 2>It's called like The Social Experiment or something, you know,

0:58:31.520 --> 0:58:34.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember the Social Project, I don't know, something

0:58:34.320 --> 0:58:37.280
<v Speaker 2>like that, but it's about Network, which is the movie

0:58:37.720 --> 0:58:41.160
<v Speaker 2>No No, No. This is like a documentary about social

0:58:41.200 --> 0:58:45.840
<v Speaker 2>media and kids especially and people that run that work

0:58:45.880 --> 0:58:48.479
<v Speaker 2>for these companies and run these companies. In the very

0:58:48.640 --> 0:58:50.880
<v Speaker 2>end of it, after your life is totally ruined from

0:58:50.920 --> 0:58:53.120
<v Speaker 2>watching it, at the very end of it, they're like,

0:58:53.200 --> 0:58:57.000
<v Speaker 2>would you does your child have social media? And they're like, no,

0:58:57.080 --> 0:58:58.840
<v Speaker 2>I would never let them get it until they're eighteen.

0:58:58.880 --> 0:59:01.240
<v Speaker 2>Like every one of them says that it's so crazy.

0:59:01.520 --> 0:59:03.880
<v Speaker 2>The people that created it and that are living like

0:59:03.920 --> 0:59:07.440
<v Speaker 2>billionaires off of it say that. So Mark Zuckerberg, for example, like,

0:59:07.480 --> 0:59:09.200
<v Speaker 2>do you think that his kids are going on that?

0:59:10.720 --> 0:59:12.640
<v Speaker 3>And if they go on it, they probably have their

0:59:12.640 --> 0:59:15.640
<v Speaker 3>own special version that he codd himself, you know, like

0:59:16.040 --> 0:59:17.680
<v Speaker 3>they get special treatment in it.

0:59:17.720 --> 0:59:19.480
<v Speaker 2>Also, I don't know.

0:59:19.560 --> 0:59:22.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm honestly not surprised by this at all. I wish

0:59:22.600 --> 0:59:25.360
<v Speaker 3>the United States, well, the United States is taking some

0:59:25.520 --> 0:59:28.680
<v Speaker 3>actions towards them, but it's just taken a lot longer here.

0:59:29.760 --> 0:59:31.040
<v Speaker 2>So whatever.

0:59:31.320 --> 0:59:33.160
<v Speaker 3>I could talk about this for hours, but I'm sure

0:59:33.200 --> 0:59:34.080
<v Speaker 3>people don't want to hire.

0:59:34.000 --> 0:59:36.680
<v Speaker 2>Out for kids do a whole and like I get

0:59:36.760 --> 0:59:39.640
<v Speaker 2>so pissed off about it, really, I just do. I

0:59:39.720 --> 0:59:42.040
<v Speaker 2>just don't even want to talk about it anymore. All right,

0:59:42.120 --> 0:59:43.560
<v Speaker 2>let's talk about other death news.

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<v Speaker 3>Our last story today is local to us, and it's

0:59:46.120 --> 0:59:49.280
<v Speaker 3>absolutely crazy. So a few days ago, no news broke

0:59:49.320 --> 0:59:52.640
<v Speaker 3>in our area that a few cars and human remains

0:59:52.640 --> 0:59:55.080
<v Speaker 3>have been pulled from the Cooper River in Camden, New Jersey.

0:59:55.320 --> 0:59:57.600
<v Speaker 3>So my friend Rachel actually sent this to me first,

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<v Speaker 3>and I had no idea this was going on. And

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<v Speaker 3>then I sent it to you and you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, which I was sitting at the softball field talk

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<v Speaker 2>you were like, I'm all over this. Yeah. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's because it's what ten minutes not even ten

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<v Speaker 2>minutes away from our house, and yeah, it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we pulled a couple of cars out of the water

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<v Speaker 2>and one of them had human remains, And you're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what And then when you hear the story, which isn't

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent official yet because officials have not given

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<v Speaker 2>a statement on this, but what happened was basically, this

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<v Speaker 2>woman went missing fourteen years ago that lived in Camden

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<v Speaker 2>and she had a history of depression and it was

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<v Speaker 2>thought that she that she had possibly killed herself, and

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<v Speaker 2>the family went to the police to try to find her.

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<v Speaker 2>They knew what car she had, and like, she never

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<v Speaker 2>came up and neither did her car. Like they just

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<v Speaker 2>totally fell off the face of the planet. And of course,

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<v Speaker 2>like your mom goes missing and stuff, you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>fight for years and try to find out where she

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<v Speaker 2>is and what happened, and like, is she still alive somewhere?

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<v Speaker 2>Did she die, Is she okay? Whatever? And the police

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<v Speaker 2>didn't help at all. So they ended up hiring this

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<v Speaker 2>really cool organization that I ever heard of called the

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<v Speaker 2>United Search Corps, and these people got together with the

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<v Speaker 2>family and well, secret, we're probably going to interview these

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<v Speaker 2>people soon so we could get more detailent on exactly

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<v Speaker 2>how this went.

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<v Speaker 3>I spoke to Doug this morning to try to get

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<v Speaker 3>him on the show. He was an absolute sweetheart. So

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna hope to try to We're gonna manifest their

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<v Speaker 3>interview with them on this show because their organization is

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<v Speaker 3>absolutely incredible. This story is really incredible. I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 3>to hear about, you know, the background, how he got

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<v Speaker 3>to have this job, other cases they've worked on, and

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<v Speaker 3>especially how they led to this. So, I mean, we

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<v Speaker 3>now know the We don't know officially because they're waiting

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<v Speaker 3>on DNA and everything like that, but we suspect that

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<v Speaker 3>the one vehicle and the remains belonged to this woman

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<v Speaker 3>who was missing. But where did the other two cars

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<v Speaker 3>come from? Well that's right behind the pub and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like the sketchiest area ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, I'm talking.

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<v Speaker 3>I know exactly what drives I used to drive. So,

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<v Speaker 3>but I used to drive by there every single day

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<v Speaker 3>when I was going to school.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like there's always murders happening, I'm certain, but

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm not surprised that that that happened in that area.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just it's kind of cool to know that there's

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<v Speaker 2>an organization out there that that will listen to you

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<v Speaker 2>and will help you. Yeah. So, I mean, and we

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<v Speaker 2>don't know the story behind it because like the authority

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<v Speaker 2>is of being a little hush hush about it right

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<v Speaker 2>now because they probably feel like a little dumb that

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<v Speaker 2>some company found this car in the water with human

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<v Speaker 2>remains and was like, Hi, you can come now, job's done. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so and assuming that there was barely anything left, just

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<v Speaker 2>skeletonized remains at that point after being in the water

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<v Speaker 2>for fourteen years, but they definitely know it's her car

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<v Speaker 2>with her license plate on it. So, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>guess there's a small you have to for forensics and

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<v Speaker 2>everything do DNA just to confirm, but it's it's a

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<v Speaker 2>great story for the family at least that they have

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<v Speaker 2>closure now because just imagine, like we always say this,

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<v Speaker 2>if one of your loved ones dies, it would be horrible,

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<v Speaker 2>But it'd be even more horrible if they were missing

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<v Speaker 2>and you didn't know what really happened. So I can't

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<v Speaker 2>even imagine.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So on to Question of the Day. Every Friday

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<v Speaker 3>at the at mother nos Death Instagram account, we put

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<v Speaker 3>a little question box up in the story. We even

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<v Speaker 3>put a little box up yesterday asking for suggestions of guests.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, this show is tailored for you, guys, so

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<v Speaker 3>we want to know what you want on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>So first question is what is the best part of

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<v Speaker 3>working in a hospital pathology lab. First, let's say that

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people said they want to Gabe on

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<v Speaker 3>the show, and we just want to know. Y, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>like what he could be on the show if you want,

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<v Speaker 3>But like, what are we going to talk about?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what we could talk to him about? Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>because we wrote in the grocer Room yesterday this is

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<v Speaker 2>a good article if you guys are interested in joining

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<v Speaker 2>for our sale, which starts on Sunday at the grocerroom

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<v Speaker 2>dot com. We wrote an article about spontaneous human combustion

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<v Speaker 2>and he was actually helpful in uh some of my

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<v Speaker 2>theories as to why I didn't think that it was

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<v Speaker 2>possible for that. You weren't taken.

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<v Speaker 3>It didn't take a whole day to explain it.

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<v Speaker 2>It did. He's he's the worst at explaining things. But

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<v Speaker 2>I did. I did text him and got the answer

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<v Speaker 2>out of that I wanted out of him, and it

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<v Speaker 2>only took maybe a half hour instead of five hours.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, we will. We would have him on here

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<v Speaker 2>if you have some questions you would like to us

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<v Speaker 2>to ask him or just talk about random fire stuff

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever. But so sorry, I wasn't listening to what's

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<v Speaker 2>your question.

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<v Speaker 3>What is the best part of working in a hospital

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<v Speaker 3>pathology lab?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, listen, everything's great about working in a hospital pathology lab,

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<v Speaker 2>except working for a corporation like a hospital. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just great. It's you work. For the most part,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like some of my my best friends forever I

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<v Speaker 2>I've worked with or went to school with, And it's

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<v Speaker 2>like such a weird little part of the hospital because

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<v Speaker 2>we don't have the same thing in common, like if

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<v Speaker 2>you work in radiology or you work in nursing, on

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<v Speaker 2>the floor anything, it's like you all have patience, you

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<v Speaker 2>all have the same kind of thing. And when we

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<v Speaker 2>go it's just we go in the lab. We don't

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<v Speaker 2>see patients. We just see each other where it's very dark,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes there's no windows. It's just like a different kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a vibe. And sometimes you work with a really

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<v Speaker 2>great group of people because lots of times they're like

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<v Speaker 2>really weirdos, which is cool because it makes life interesting

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<v Speaker 2>and you just I mean, some people you work with

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<v Speaker 2>are always going to be douche or whatever, but you

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<v Speaker 2>just you normally just get to meet a really great

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<v Speaker 2>group of people. And just seeing pathology every day is

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<v Speaker 2>just is just so cool. And then being able to

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<v Speaker 2>figure stuff out when people are having problems and help

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<v Speaker 2>them get a diagnosis and stuff. It's just really it's

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<v Speaker 2>just really rewarding and it's a great job and it's

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<v Speaker 2>a shame that it's ruined by a corporation. Bullshit.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Next, Maria, what's your favorite thing to do

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<v Speaker 3>with your sisters? Well, I was Prince Tea. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 3>go there the Prince Teahouse, which is a chain of

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<v Speaker 3>tea places opened up near us. So I like to

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<v Speaker 3>take them to do that. That's really fun for I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I took Lillian by myself for the first time, and

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<v Speaker 3>then you and Lulu came the next time. So I

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<v Speaker 3>like doing out, all four of us, because we could

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<v Speaker 3>just all get our little pot of tea in a

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<v Speaker 3>little dessert and just talk. And that's always fun to

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<v Speaker 3>hang out. I love the occasional nights when I come

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<v Speaker 3>over and watch movies and Lillian gets so hyper that

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<v Speaker 3>she reads the word loser.

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<v Speaker 2>As lost or she was so annoying.

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<v Speaker 3>She was extra annoying that day a couple of weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 3>I took them to play pickleball, which Lulu had absolutely

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<v Speaker 3>no interest in participating in it all. But Lilian, like me,

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<v Speaker 3>is very uncoordinated, so it was just hilarious trying to

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<v Speaker 3>see he hit the ball. But yeah, I just I

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<v Speaker 3>like taking them to do little fun I cactivities. I

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<v Speaker 3>used to when they were younger, take them to the movies,

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<v Speaker 3>but they just never really see that into it, so

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<v Speaker 3>they'd probably be into it now they're a little older, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>because they really.

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<v Speaker 2>Like going to the movies now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I also feel like they just think they're too

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<v Speaker 3>cool for me sometimes, so that's that.

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<v Speaker 2>But well, they're just cool in general. They're at that

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<v Speaker 2>age where you have to like knock them down a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit because you're like, you're just not cool, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I just have to keep telling them they're not. I

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<v Speaker 2>would say my favorite thing that was going to the

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<v Speaker 2>tea place because that's something that Mo Mom took me

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<v Speaker 2>to do a couple of times with the Deity, my

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<v Speaker 2>cousin when I was little, so I like doing it

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<v Speaker 2>with them. It reminds me of being their age and

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<v Speaker 2>mom I taking us to that place in Haddonfield, but

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<v Speaker 2>it being like a slightly better selection and having more

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<v Speaker 2>fun desserts. So that place is good. They have such

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<v Speaker 2>good green milk tea. It's oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the rose tea I got last time was awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Their desserts are so good. I get some like coconut

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<v Speaker 3>panacatta with strawberry ice cream.

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<v Speaker 2>It Yeah, that's delicious.

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<v Speaker 3>All right. Last question, Nicole, how have you changed as

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<v Speaker 3>a mother from Maria to the current kids?

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<v Speaker 2>A lot and then not a lot. Really, I definitely

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<v Speaker 2>like cook better. Yeah, Maria unfortunately was you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>was a single mom when I had her, and I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't really making a ton of money, so we ate

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of just you know, like she said, mactt.

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<v Speaker 2>We had we had our favorites like pastine, mac and

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<v Speaker 2>cheese ham steak. I didn't know how to really.

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<v Speaker 3>Cook at McDonald's dakhove.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I don't even think we had I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>think Chick fil a was well that was really there

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<v Speaker 2>was the one in Defford, so it wasn't near us,

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<v Speaker 2>but if we went to the different mall, we would

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<v Speaker 2>get it and that was like the ultimate treat.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we got that one in Audubon, so then

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<v Speaker 3>we were having it all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think there was one at different mall. There

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<v Speaker 2>was in the yeah, oh yeah, yeah there was, you're right,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah that we used to get that, but that we didn't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there wasn't one around, so we didn't get it that much.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, yeah, I mean she she just was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like I would get down from work at six

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<v Speaker 2>o'clock and then drive her at to her after school

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<v Speaker 2>program and pick her up, and we would stop at

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<v Speaker 2>the grocery store or stopping a food or something Boston

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<v Speaker 2>Market whatever, like it was just kind of really fast.

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<v Speaker 2>So now I have more time that I could like

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<v Speaker 2>cook better food and stuff like that, And I mean

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<v Speaker 2>that's kind of it, Like what do you what do

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<v Speaker 2>you think? Like we still do the same stuff, like

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<v Speaker 2>we like watch movies and stuff, and I do their

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<v Speaker 2>homework with don't just like regular stuff. I mean, Maria

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<v Speaker 2>was pretty good about doing her homework by herself. She

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<v Speaker 2>just was a good kid and like did what she

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<v Speaker 2>was supposed to do.

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<v Speaker 3>I jokingly refer sometimes that I got you during your

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<v Speaker 3>fun phase because you were in like your early twenties,

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<v Speaker 3>so meaning that like you would be more willing to

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<v Speaker 3>take me to concerts and be out late or like

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<v Speaker 3>pick me up from somewhere too in the morning. And

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<v Speaker 3>I know you would do that for them now, but

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I wouldn't. I am not like when they sit

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<v Speaker 2>there and say, oh, can we go to the Tayler

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<v Speaker 2>Swift tour, I'm just like I would rather give you

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<v Speaker 2>five thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Than good and well that would be my worst nightmare

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<v Speaker 3>because I absolutely don't want to listen to her music.

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<v Speaker 3>I would take them to that, like I would be

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<v Speaker 3>the one to take them to do things like that,

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<v Speaker 3>Whereas when I was their age, you were young, you were.

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<v Speaker 2>My age, Yeah, I mean I took I took you, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I took you to places like that all the time,

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<v Speaker 2>because that was like, It's just weird how you change

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<v Speaker 2>as you get older, Like when I was your age,

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<v Speaker 2>I had no problem eating dinner at nine o'clock at night.

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<v Speaker 2>Like if a reservation was available at nine, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh cool, like let's go. I don't want to, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I want to be in bed at nine o'clock at

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<v Speaker 2>night now, and I want to eat no later than

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<v Speaker 2>five point thirty. Like This's just there's certain things like yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really not fun anymore, to be honest you, but

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<v Speaker 2>there's like stuff like that that's just different because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a way older person, like I did. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>Lilian until Maria was eighteen years old, so it's just

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so much older now and there's just like different things.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm married now, so I have like help with that,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's just there's just different things. But overall, it's

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<v Speaker 2>we still do the same traditions like we watch we

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<v Speaker 2>have movie night and and things like that and we

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<v Speaker 2>go down the shore. Just yeah, you there's not there's

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<v Speaker 2>nothing like different in that.

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<v Speaker 3>From my perspective, you are pretty similar with them. We

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<v Speaker 3>just also had a different situation, which I understand, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like they they live in the same house their whole life.

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<v Speaker 3>We moved a lot, like you know, I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>kept to myself and you respected that, where like sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>like they need a little more guidance in that area,

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<v Speaker 3>especially because there's two of them.

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<v Speaker 2>So like if they're I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Have anybody to like fight with, for example, So like

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<v Speaker 3>if they're fighting, you got to step in and stop it,

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<v Speaker 3>and you got to be kind of more on their

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<v Speaker 3>ass a little bit than I had to be.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's just yeah, but it's it's kind of the

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<v Speaker 2>same though. Like it's like we like, especially when Gabe

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<v Speaker 2>has work at nights, like we will watch like a

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<v Speaker 2>series of a show or something we just had, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the same with you, Like we had our things that

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<v Speaker 2>we did all the time. And it's it's basically, from

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<v Speaker 2>my observation, the same thing with like little things adjusted

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<v Speaker 2>just simply based on life circumstances. So I would say,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's funny that your motherhood style has had it

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<v Speaker 2>really changed in a twelve year or twenty year difference.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, it worked out well with you, so I

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<v Speaker 2>figure I'm thinking to change things up too much.

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<v Speaker 3>No, all right, guys, well, thank you so much. We'll

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<v Speaker 3>see you Thursday for our next episode.

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