1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Is I want to know why you're rubbing cabbage on yourself? Well, 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, are you rubbing it on yourself or 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: are you wearing it? I'm wearing it. You're wearing hot cabbage. 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: This because I think I learned coming to work. I mean, 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: I really don't know. 6 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 2: But anyway, well, so as you guys know, I was pumping, right, 7 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 2: I'm breastfeeding my kid. 8 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 3: I don't do the breast. I do just pumping breast. 9 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: I don't put her on for a drink, right, I mean, 10 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 2: but after after thinking about it, I was like, I'm 11 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 2: just gonna pump give her some breast milk, right, So 12 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 2: we're hitting the three month mark. 13 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 3: I stored enough for her to hit that. 14 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 2: And now I'm like, well, I think I'm gonna put 15 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: me first a little bit and for my mental health 16 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 2: and just for myself, and so I could like just 17 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 2: you know, be me. I am going to we enough 18 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 2: of it now that we en ofp of it. As 19 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 2: a process, you can't just stop. And if you guys 20 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: saw me last night, my shirt was soaked because a 21 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: lot of you know, like it just comes out unfortunately, 22 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 2: but anyway. 23 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: So it just keeps coming out, even if no one's yes, 24 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: I say, no one if the baby's not there to partake, 25 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: right right? No. 26 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 2: And it's not that it's like pouring out, it's just 27 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 2: you know, you like there's just like blotches on your shirt, 28 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, so it looks like ridiculous and like 29 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 2: you're like leaking. You just be standing there and all 30 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 2: of a sudden you just see it come up. 31 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: Now, yeah, you just got it. 32 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 3: And I'm like, well, this is like really like uncomfortable. 33 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 2: But they say that it's a process to wean off 34 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 2: of it, which is totally fine. But I read that 35 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 2: you could put cabbage, which I have in my. 36 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 3: Bra My god, you do I do? 37 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: You just you you just pulled a leaf of cabbage 38 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 1: out of your brad. 39 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 4: She was like, I don't know what I thought. 40 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 2: You want to try it, not believing it looks like 41 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: that's cabbage, cabbage, it doesn't matter, so you put you 42 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 2: I didn't realize this, so you put cabbage there. Yeah, 43 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: it's supposed to like dry that area, so basically it 44 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 2: would stop happening, you know what I mean? And like 45 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 2: I still have the pump to kind of get it out, 46 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 2: but I can't give it to her because I'm like 47 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 2: on medication now, so I'm like, here you go, you 48 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 2: know whatever, throw it out, which kind of makes me sad, 49 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 2: But it's fine, it's fine. 50 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 3: And how long do you have to wear the cabbage around? 51 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 2: I mean really until like it stops because you're just 52 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 2: drying everything up so and there's like tea I could take. 53 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 2: I mean, it could take weeks for this to go away. 54 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 2: I know I'm still gonna have to be pumping, pumping 55 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 2: and dumping. Do you have to replace the cabbage? 56 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 5: Maybe? 57 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 3: I got a couple of hours. 58 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 6: I don't know. 59 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 2: My mom gave me a whole thing of cabbage, so 60 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 2: don't worry. I'm gonna I'll stock up rufio. 61 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: I'll switch it out, don't I'd never heard of this 62 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: before me neither. 63 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 3: Is this some Eastern European uh? 64 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: Sort of like what do they call that when it's 65 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: like old like a remedy or yeah, home Remedy edition. 66 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: I thought it was until our friend Nicky bar Nikki, 67 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:47,959 Speaker 2: I mean, she's an American Italian girl and she told 68 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 2: me do this, and I was like, what. 69 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: Italian? When I had that old man eating shrim no 70 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: had just Italian American talks. 71 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know the commercial. 72 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 1: Ruvier knows the commercial I'm talking about is an old 73 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: man and he goes to Olive Garden and he celebrates 74 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: with his family like it's the greatest, like like he's 75 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: never had food that authentic since, you know, since his 76 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 1: old country. His mama made it for him, you know, wherever. 77 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: But he's sure to describe himself in the commercial as 78 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: an Italian American because he's both, you know, So it's 79 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: important to distinguish. 80 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, facts. So anyway, this Polish American. 81 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,239 Speaker 2: Okay, this Polish American. But they I googled it to 82 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 2: you and they say to use cabbage. I don't know 83 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 2: what it is about cabbage. When it's cold, you're supposed 84 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 2: to put in the freezer or the fridge. It's supposed 85 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 2: to be cold, and then you just put it in 86 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 2: your bra and you're supposed to just. 87 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 3: Wow every time. I learning a hole to lead in 88 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 3: the leaves to keep the nipples dry. 89 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: Okay, but what doesn't that tat the purpose? If you 90 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: kind of hole in the thing, then it doesn't go 91 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: right through, I would think. 92 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: So I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. 93 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 2: My mom said to back in the day because she 94 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: called me. She's like, go get the shot, and I 95 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 2: was like, the shot. And I guess that was like 96 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 2: the old school thing. So our parents, if they don't 97 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 2: want a breastfeed or they wanted to stop, they would 98 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: get a shot. I guess they don't do that anymore. 99 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 2: Sounds easier than cabbage on my boobs. 100 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,119 Speaker 3: You can put that back if you one. Okay, yeah, 101 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 3: I'm like, don't mind me. 102 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 6: I want one dried up and the other one. 103 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 3: I can't have that. 104 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: Doubling up on tight bras will help. Somebody said to you, 105 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: if it will dry you up, put the cabbage in 106 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: the freezer first. 107 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 3: Wow. Okay, I know right. The more you know, the 108 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 3: more you truly. 109 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: This is your fun fact. You forget about it. What 110 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: we should do in every hour. Everyone gets their own 111 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: fun fact, Paul, it's fun fact. And then there was 112 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: and then Rufio can have his own. 113 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 3: Wow. 114 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 6: You to get hungry, I mean right right, get hungry. 115 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 3: Let me know, yeah, corn beef and the other the 116 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 3: other browser. 117 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 1: No, boy, you know what, I'm gonna push a button 118 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 1: because I know where this is going and I need 119 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: Rufio to stop. So I'm going to place the green 120 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: Carpeter to make him stop trending story in our knife. 121 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, they talk better than they. 122 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs like we're writing in our diaries, 123 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: except we say them aloud. We call them blogs. Roofie, 124 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: we got a dental update. We do the people must know. 125 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 1: Thank you, yes, dear blog. 126 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 7: So on Friday, I had my I finally had my 127 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 7: appointment to get this root canal finished, because I've been 128 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 7: following along. I went to get a root cannoal from 129 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 7: my dentist and they left the little piece of a 130 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 7: file in my tooth. The in the tooth, so they 131 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 7: recommended me to go to this other place to see 132 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 7: if they can remove it. And then this guy's like, oh, 133 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 7: they didn't even finish the root canal. So I made 134 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 7: that appointment to finish said root canal from the original 135 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 7: one and try to remove the piece. The root canal's done, 136 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 7: it is finished, well, it's temporarily just have the temporary 137 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 7: the seals temporary. So got to get the crown and 138 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 7: everything like that. But the piece of the tooth, the 139 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 7: piece of the file is still in there that he 140 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 7: couldn't remove it. So that is something that I. 141 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 3: Have to leave. A chainsaw down. 142 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 7: Yeah right, okay, but the experience was a hundred times 143 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 7: better than the first time. 144 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: Uh so you're just gonna walk around with half of 145 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 1: a drill bit in your mouth for the rest of. 146 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 7: Your life, according to what people tell me when they 147 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 7: message me and they comment that it happens, like I don't. 148 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 3: I don't. 149 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 7: I've gone through metal detectors since and nobody's gone off. 150 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 3: But you know, like that's my biggest fear. 151 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 7: Like I've go I gotta go catch a flight and 152 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 7: I go through the TSA one where they scan you 153 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 7: and they're. 154 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 3: Like, no, no, no, there's a drill bit in my tooth. 155 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 7: You're like, yeah, right, bro right, take it all off, right, 156 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 7: Or when I go visit my friends in prison and 157 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 7: they're like, what is that in your tooth? 158 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I was trying to. 159 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 6: That is a fun fact. You can share it parties though. 160 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 3: It is. 161 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 7: But yeah, so the experience was one hundred times better. 162 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 7: This guy was super professional, and he's just like, all right, 163 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 7: we're gonna take a break. He took breaks because you're 164 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 7: sitting there for a long time with your mouth excuse me, 165 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 7: with your. 166 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: Mouth smoke breaks. Dennis is taking smoke breaks. He's like, 167 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: I'll be back in a minute. 168 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, but he finished it, and then I still got 169 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 7: to Now I have to go back to the original dentist. 170 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: He's like, do you want to go back to you? 171 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 7: Like, because he has to send the he has to 172 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 7: send the file and the photos to the dentist to. 173 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 3: Say, like, no, I think I'll get someone else. 174 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 7: I might, but I but like, I'm trying to get 175 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 7: them to do it for free, you know what I'm saying? 176 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 7: Like that, at least the Crown part, because I had to, well, 177 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 7: I had to contact them to reverse the charge for 178 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 7: the root canal because the new guy couldn't charge it 179 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 7: because they're like two root canals, We're not gonna We're 180 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 7: not going to pay for two roo canals, so for 181 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 7: the same tooth. So they had to reverse the charge 182 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 7: so the other people can charge it. So I still 183 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,239 Speaker 7: had to pay for the root canal, but at least 184 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 7: I didn't get double charged in that way. So but 185 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 7: I still have to talk to them and see if 186 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 7: there's anything they could do to when I go back 187 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 7: to get this crown done, get. 188 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 3: Rufio walking around with a drill bit in his mouth. 189 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: The rest I mean that you're right, that is a 190 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: that is a party conversation stuff. 191 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 7: Right, it doesn't there's no I don't have any payin 192 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 7: nothing like thing out of the ordinary. But I don't 193 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 7: want it to happen like one day and be like 194 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 7: some shark pain comes and was like, oh, that's the 195 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 7: I'm also going. 196 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: To have you no rufio that there's a controversy on 197 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: a local dental book group, right because you went on 198 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: the air and talked about how your dentist made a mistake, 199 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: told you he made a mistake and then sent you 200 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: somewhere else to fix it. Yes, and then when you 201 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: got there, that guy was like, yeah, this is not great, 202 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: this is done. 203 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 3: This is a mistake and he didn't really even do 204 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 3: that good of a job. 205 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: So then on this a dentist friend of mine sent 206 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: me this post from a dentist to Facebook group with 207 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 1: a dentist saying that the second guy never should have 208 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 1: told you. He basically he should have covered for the 209 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:45,319 Speaker 1: first guy that like his professional courtesy. According to this person, 210 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: that you cover the other dentists and you just fix it. No, 211 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: I disagree, right, the second guy thinks the first guy 212 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: didn't do a good job. I think you have every 213 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: right to know, Hey, I don't think this guy did 214 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: a great job on this, and I think we're going 215 00:08:57,640 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: to fix it. And I'm not saying he's a bad 216 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: person or you know, he's a bad dentist, but like 217 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: this particular you know work he did is not great 218 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: or she and we're gonna have to redo it. I 219 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: think you have every right to know it's your body, 220 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 1: especially because the original dentist recommended this guy to me, 221 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: so yeah, he's not He's not saying like this dude 222 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 1: is like a terrible human being at a party, like 223 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to hang out with him. He's just 224 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:20,839 Speaker 1: saying like, hey, look this I don't I'm going to 225 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 1: have to redo this because it doesn't meet my standard. 226 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 3: Right, So we're supposed to tell you nothing. It's your too, 227 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 3: that you're right. 228 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 7: It just it wasn't the fact that the original dentist 229 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:32,719 Speaker 7: was like, hey, the root canal's done. You just have 230 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 7: this little piece of whatever the file in your te 231 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 7: Yeah not so fast, right, But then the new guys like, dude, 232 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 7: this root canal is not even finished. I have to 233 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 7: finish the root canal and then attempt to try to 234 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 7: wonder if you call this boy and was like, bro, 235 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 7: Eddy was going to talk to him, and then but 236 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 7: I haven't heard from original dentist at all, so maybe 237 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 7: it's not for a new dentists and maybe we just 238 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 7: start fresh. I'll send you to my person. 239 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 3: It's fine. No, you're not in network. Yes, she's not 240 00:09:58,480 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 3: in network. 241 00:09:59,040 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: I'm not. 242 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm paying for that. 243 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: But my good buddy's wife who guilted me for years 244 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 1: for not going to were only for me to go 245 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 1: in there and find I gotta pay cash for this 246 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: lady because she's not in the network. I'm like this, 247 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: Why is this called me so much? Maybe I don't 248 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: want to be friends with you guys, give me a discount. 249 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 7: But there is a dentist that reached out on the 250 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 7: last video. He was actually a contestant on a show 251 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 7: that I watched. He was on Master Chef with Gordon Ramsey. Well, 252 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 7: then that makes him a great dents name is he's 253 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 7: a dentist. His name is Farhan. He was a contestant. 254 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 7: He was he was in dental school on the show. 255 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 7: But now he's a dentist and he's like, hey, how 256 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 7: come like if you want to stop by like he's 257 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 7: a fan of the show. 258 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 3: On the program. 259 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: This guy's gonna cook you a two flags, yes, and 260 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: then he's gonna fix your teeth. 261 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:43,959 Speaker 3: Yes, there you go, perfect, I have that. Let me 262 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 3: say here go in two minutes. You've got some way. 263 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 3: Fred's show is on now, Honest Morning Show. 264 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 1: Warning everybody to use tuesdage t and eighteenth. The Fred 265 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 1: Show is not Hi Kaitlin Hi Chasing Brown, Hi, Hi Rufio. Hello, 266 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: Hello Paulina n Kiki in New York for the Gracia 267 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 1: warns Today getting her getting her Gracie. 268 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:13,839 Speaker 3: Getting her big statue? Does this get a statue for 269 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 3: a Gracy? 270 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're putting one in the lobby's next to a 271 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: big gumball machine. 272 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 3: Ah, it's a statue of Kiki. Wow. 273 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know today was coming. Didn't take long. No 274 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: intern bened me, not Benjamin s she obit, Shelley, everyone's here. 275 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: Good news stories in just a second, waiting by the 276 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: phone from the vault. 277 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 3: RUFFI girl, call some tech. 278 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,599 Speaker 1: Okay, the Entertainer Report trend I don't even know what 279 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: the hell you're talking about, and I think I did it. 280 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: Entertainer Report trending story is fun fact all coming up 281 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: Today's fun fact? 282 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 3: Guys, what do I have for you every day? 283 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: I have to scroll to find it, even though I 284 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: do the same thing every day. Kangaroos back to the animals, yep. 285 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: I mean there are lots of animal facts out there, 286 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 1: and this is one. And I didn't know this one either. 287 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 5: What's coming up in the port ka Well, Paulina just 288 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 5: ran in the writer's room. You could hear her pencil 289 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 5: skirt and her heels clicking down the hallway. She had 290 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 5: a stack of papers and she had breaking news. 291 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 3: About Jacks timber from the fac simile from. 292 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 5: The fact simily, I don't know what that is, but 293 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 5: she has breaking okay from a fact I did breaking 294 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 5: news and we've got a telegram about justin Timberlake. 295 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 3: Justin Timberlake. Facts has been received. Yes, it's off the 296 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 3: U what is it the news? Yeah, it's off of 297 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 3: that thing whatever. Yeah, but teletype it's not looking good. 298 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: Do we know anybody? Does anyone who listens to the program? Uh, 299 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: make like have like an awards shop or make trophies 300 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: or anything. Because our friend been close personal friend of 301 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: the program. Mojo of Mojo in the Morning in in Detroit, 302 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 1: Michigan in detoy uh sadly and somehow miraculously was not 303 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: inducted into the Radio Hall of Fame, which is a travesty. 304 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: It really is. The man should be in the radio 305 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 1: Hall of Fame. In my opinion, some of these people, 306 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: I don't even know who they are. They got in 307 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:07,559 Speaker 1: the radio because I think there were like twenty people 308 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: that could have been and then six people got in. 309 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 1: I don't know who votes. I called Shenanigans on the 310 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: whole thing to be I want to see who voted 311 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: for this thing. I want to see the voting erect Yeah, 312 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 1: I want to see the results. I got a lot 313 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 1: of problems with this radio Hall of Fame. 314 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 3: I demand to recount. 315 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: I got a lot of problems with the radio Hall 316 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: of Fame because for a long time you could get 317 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 1: in the radio Hall of Fame if you just campaign 318 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: your listeners to win. So like a bunch of douchebag 319 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: radio people who had we're on a lot of cities, 320 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: they would just get on the radio and say vote 321 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: for me for the Hall of Fame, or they would 322 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: play this game and go, well I got nominated, you know, 323 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 1: which is their way of saying, please go google this 324 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 1: and find out how to vote for me. And I 325 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 1: don't know how you can be in a Hall of 326 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: fame for anything while you're still doing it. I will 327 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 1: say that, except that Mojo has been doing this for 328 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,959 Speaker 1: like twenty five years in Detroit. He's an institution and 329 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 1: he is a legend. And we have Kalin because of Mojo. 330 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: But I want to send Mojo the most obnoxious trophy. 331 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 1: I would like him to be the first entrance or 332 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: the first inductee into the Fred Show Hall of Fame. 333 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 1: We only we don't have one. We have one that 334 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 1: we're inventing one now, and we have a constitution. I 335 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: think we should have a Hall of Fame, and I 336 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: would like him to be, you know, the first person 337 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: in it. But my vision is something about as tall 338 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: as me, a trophy about as tall as me, maybe 339 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: like a big strong man on the top of it. 340 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean obnoxious, though I want this 341 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 1: to be just ridiculous. Maybe maybe there's an led component 342 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 1: to it. 343 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know where they can do 344 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 3: with trophies these days. I have no idea. 345 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm thinking Stanley Cup, but bigger. I mean, 346 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, just something just plus. Once we send 347 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: it to him, he's going to have to display in 348 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: his home somewhere, which is my favorite part because where 349 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: the hell you're going to put this thing? And Chelsea, 350 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: his wife, you know, a beautiful home. It's all designed, 351 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: you know, because he's very rich, so he has like 352 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: you know, just rich people stuff everywhere. I mean, you'll 353 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: probably put it in like the you know, poolhouse or 354 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 1: something away from where everybody can. 355 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 3: Maybe in the West Wing. I don't know. There are 356 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 3: parts of his house. 357 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 1: I don't think he's ever been in, honestly, Like when 358 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: I go stay with Mojo in his home in Detroit, 359 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: I stay in a part of his house. He don't 360 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: even know where it is, Like he's like wherever you sleep, 361 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 1: just come up later for breakfast. The maids will be 362 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: making it later or whatever. But so, but it needs 363 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: to be obnoxious. So if we know anybody who makes trophies, 364 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: I'll plug you. Take that management. I don't care, I'll 365 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: plug you. And I need something just insanely ridiculous sent 366 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 1: to Detroit. It just it has to be I mean just, 367 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: I mean just ugly ridiculous. Anticipation trophy. You can that's 368 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: what I mean, that's what. 369 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 6: Sorry, sorry sorry, if we know anybody who. 370 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: Can do that, the text us or call us or 371 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: or email us or access or something anyone. Do people 372 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: make trophies, don't they have trophies stories, trophies. Yeah, I 373 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: know you can get them online and yeah, no, I'm 374 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: gonna get him a locket. 375 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 3: Yeah with a picture of me, picture of me. 376 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: And here's the good news about the Hall of Fame 377 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: is like in fifteen or twenty years or whenever, world 378 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: enough to be in there, like there is no one left, 379 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: so they'll have. 380 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 3: To put us in. 381 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 6: It'll be like an AI universe. 382 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 3: Ye, you can visit with. 383 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: Like like honestly, like there's his generation and then there's 384 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: us and there's no like, no one behind us. Like 385 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 1: that's why we keep getting opportunities because like there is 386 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: no one else to do it. So we're probably going 387 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: to get in somedays simply because you will. 388 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 3: For sure you might. There's no way after we lose 389 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 3: to AI a couple of times. That's what I mean. 390 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: Man, Yeah, I can't even win the State of Illinois 391 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: Radio Award. You're talking about Hall of Fame. There's no way, 392 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: and I'm not nearly political enough. I don'tkiss anywhere near 393 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 1: enough asked for that. 394 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 6: I love that about you, I really do. 395 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 3: That's why I'll never get in, because like I just don't. 396 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 3: I just don't. I don't. 397 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: My nose is not brown enough for it. Again, I'm 398 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 1: probably I probably don't deserve it. But the point is 399 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 1: we need something. We need to send something just obnoxious 400 00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: over to our friend. And if anyone can help us 401 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: do that, I would appreciate it. Yeah, all right, good? 402 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 1: Should we just some good news stories like free? Surely 403 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: someone can help us with this past and the more 404 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 1: inappropriate the better. Like I don't know if we can 405 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: put like a sex way on top of it, or 406 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just something, you know what I mean, 407 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 1: just like you're just stuff around. 408 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 3: I don't care. Just whatever. What about like an edible arrangement? 409 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 1: You know, this needs to be something that he needs 410 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: to put on display. It needs to go on his 411 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: mantle piece. Okay, yeah, one of the man I don't 412 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: have the man the eighth fireplace. Yeah, one of the 413 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: fireplaces maybe in the maybe in the maid's quarters or something. 414 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 3: I don't know. You should see this guy at this 415 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 3: guy's house it's crazy. 416 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: Oh, I've been there. I slept over Not wait, you 417 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: slept at Mojo's house. That's right, you and Joe were 418 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 1: dating for a week. 419 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 3: We're not reading lives right down the road. 420 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 2: My sister's across the clocks. 421 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 1: I've been to your sister's house, but not inside. We 422 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: just drove it, sat in front of the place. 423 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 3: You saw the house or I amazing. 424 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 1: Do you guys have any friends like my friend Mojo. Well, 425 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 1: most of us in this business have severe add Mine's 426 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,959 Speaker 1: a little bit more under control than most. But a 427 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: lot of my friends in radio need constant, constant entertainment, 428 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 1: Like they constantly have to be either moving or talking 429 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: to someone on the phone or in doing they have 430 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,159 Speaker 1: so like I'll go to his house in the weekend 431 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, I'm gonna get up around noon 432 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 1: and then like let's go to your country club and 433 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: drink on your tab. You know, I want to go 434 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 1: to the country club he's a member of, because like, 435 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 1: there's the most amazing thing about country clubs. I'm not 436 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: a member of one. There's no bill. I mean it 437 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: goes to him, but like literally there's no bill. Like 438 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: I walked in a gift shop and he was like, 439 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: do you want this hat? I'm like, sure, I want 440 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: this hat, and he just we just walk out with 441 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 1: it and someone just sends him a bill like you, 442 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 1: what do you want to eat? I'll take a Tomahawk Okay, 443 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: Tomahawk shows up like, I don't know who's paying for this. 444 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 1: It's not me, it's him. You know, I'll take seven drinks. Okay, 445 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: you're seven drinks. I'm not paying for this. 446 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 3: Is that he is? But anyway, do with you? Fred? 447 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:00,360 Speaker 7: Right? 448 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 1: I know, except that I'm not allowed to be any 449 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: member of any kind of country club. 450 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 3: No one will accept me. 451 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: But but then we get up one day on there 452 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 1: and he's like, hey, do you want to see Paulina's 453 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 1: sister's house? And I'm like not, not, like does she 454 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: know we're coming? Or are we gonna go say hi? 455 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 3: No? 456 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: No, So we go to Starbucks and then we drive 457 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,119 Speaker 1: and we literally take this black suv that he drives 458 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:25,399 Speaker 1: and park it in front of your sister's house and 459 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:26,679 Speaker 1: just sit there and drink coffee. 460 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 3: I'm like, should we go knock on the door. He's like, oh, 461 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 3: well no, they don't know we're coming. 462 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 1: I'm like, well then We're just gonna sat here like 463 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: we're the FBI surveillance man. 464 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 5: Like the biggest Detroit radio personality sits outside of her 465 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 5: house sometimes and just takes a gander. 466 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: We literally sat in front of her home and just 467 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: looked out the window. Yeah that sounds fine, Like, hey, motive, 468 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 1: can we leave now because I think she's gonna call 469 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: the police? Yeah, if she doesn't think we are the police. 470 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's interesting. It's good to know he just lurks. 471 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 3: It's a beautiful, beautiful neighborhood she lives in. Oh, it's 472 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 3: so nice, very nice. 473 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: But my guy, the guy's got to be going all 474 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 1: the time's got to be moving all the time. Which 475 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: is why I can't believe he didn't get into this thing, 476 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: because I figured he called every person. There's nine hundred 477 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 1: people who get to vote for it. I figured he'd 478 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 1: talked to all of them already for sure. 479 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 3: And also, do you how does he even know where 480 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 3: my sister lives? I don't know. 481 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 7: I don't even know where she lives because I don't 482 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 7: know because her husband was friends with Cougar with Joe. 483 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 3: I'm aware of that. But telling you right, that's brother 484 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 3: in law. I know my brother in law. Sir, anyway, 485 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't ask how did you know 486 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 3: where he lives? Answered? 487 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 2: But like address wise, you know what I mean? Like that, 488 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 2: but I heard that Mojo's like that. Love the man, 489 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 2: but he knows everything. He knows all your secrets. 490 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 1: I'm a welder at a sheep Mattal factory. I can 491 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 1: build him a trophy now, now we're talking. I don't 492 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: have a trophy shop. But what about a custom granite 493 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:50,159 Speaker 1: monument from Zoe the Mortician? Hello, Oh, I want to 494 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: know is Zoe the mortician? Is Zoe the mortician that 495 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: this is another story? I want to know if this 496 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: is the same mortician. Do you remember this was a 497 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: little bit strange actually, but our well, uh, I don't 498 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 1: mean to, you know, be weird about it. But Benjamin's father, 499 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 1: who was a great friend of our show, who passed 500 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 1: away many years ago. I went to his funeral and 501 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 1: I walked into the funeral home and one of the 502 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 1: first people to gree to me was a very nice 503 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: young lady who is the listener of our show, who 504 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 1: was the mortician in charge of the day. I thought, 505 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:25,399 Speaker 1: this is weird, yeah, but like, hey, it's nice to 506 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 1: meet you. I wonder if that's the person Zoe the Mortician. 507 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: Is that the same person who so thoughtfully took care 508 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 1: of our friends? But that was a weird, like you 509 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: don't normally I don't normally meet that person. Yeah you 510 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, but yeah, that was just ranging. 511 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,959 Speaker 1: But yeah, sure, why not? How about a granite monument, Jason? 512 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: Can you arrange for that? Sure? So can you imagine 513 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 1: like meeting a very influential person in your life and 514 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,120 Speaker 1: it's like but not in the way that you would 515 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 1: have ever expected. 516 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,919 Speaker 3: Like, also, yeah, I know that. Yeah, it was very awkward. 517 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 1: You know. Oh I thought you were like I did 518 00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,399 Speaker 1: not shoot my shot with Zoe the Mortician. I wasn't like, 519 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: oh oh you helped out, Oh what's up girl? Like no, no, 520 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 1: I was just like, oh oh hi, nice to meet you. 521 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 3: I'm extremely sad right now. 522 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 1: But okay, yeah, I mean a granite monument would be nice, 523 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 1: but it's gotta be something I can ship, you know, 524 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: so heavy anyway, Yeah, they talk better, very nasty. These 525 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: are the radio blocks on the Fresh Shot, like you're 526 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: running in our diaries, except we say to them aloud, Kaylin, 527 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: we would discuss. 528 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 3: This up there we did. 529 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 6: I'm trying to Oh yeah, yeah, you're right. 530 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 5: So you know what I was singing about my favorite 531 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 5: winning song and my love is your Love, and I 532 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 5: got distracted. 533 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 1: No, that is not one that you would always hear. 534 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: Yeah that's a hot take, I could listen. 535 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that song. I don't think that would 536 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 3: be on most people's top three. 537 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 6: Maybe, yeah, that's true because she has the big bangers. 538 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 1: I think I think most people will go like the 539 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: classics and then maybe it's not right, but it's okay. 540 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 6: And the remix of that song, Oh Chef's Kiss, you know, for. 541 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 3: Like a newer generation anyway, Yeah, you're right, you're right, 542 00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 3: because three get three people listen to the show tomorrow. 543 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 3: We'll do it on this. 544 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 1: Don't worry. 545 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 3: It'll be exciting. Calen take it away with the blog. Yes, 546 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 3: dear blog. 547 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:09,239 Speaker 5: So I saw a TikTok the other day and then 548 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 5: I had a conversation about this with some of my friends, 549 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:15,400 Speaker 5: and I never really thought of this. So to test 550 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 5: my theory, Paulina, if I were to walk up to 551 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 5: you at a bar, I'm. 552 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 6: A dude, Okay, picture it, and I said, are you single? 553 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 5: Mmm? 554 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 6: How would you answer. 555 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 3: I feel like most girls do this. I already know 556 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 3: the answer. 557 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 2: We would first say I'm sorry, I'm not or sorry 558 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 2: I have a boyfriend, or sorry whatever. But rya is 559 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 2: we say sorry or we feel bad that we have 560 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 2: a boyfriend, Am I wrong one hundred percent, you're right, 561 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 2: you're not wrong, or we. 562 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 5: Give some sort of explanation like I'm flattered and I 563 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,440 Speaker 5: love this. Apparently, according to you know, doctor whatsoever, on TikTok, 564 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 5: you are. 565 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 6: Supposed to say one word and no other words. 566 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,640 Speaker 5: You are supposed to say no because if you say 567 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 5: other words, that could lead to more. 568 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 6: Questions and opening and apparently. 569 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,120 Speaker 5: That gives people the idea that there's you're saying there's 570 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 5: a chance. 571 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 6: Yes, right. 572 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 5: Really, I never thought of it because I am, you know, 573 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 5: a people person, and I am really flattered if someone 574 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,719 Speaker 5: hits on me, you know, and I don't ever want 575 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 5: to be there liss like ell, don't talk to me, 576 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:18,959 Speaker 5: because I do think we make men feel like they 577 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 5: can't approach us a lot of the time, and I 578 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 5: do feel bad for that. 579 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 6: But a lot of women apologize for First of. 580 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 1: All, don't do that. A lot of women apologize for 581 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 1: a lot of things. I didn't realize that's condition and 582 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: it makes me sad. Yeah, you don't need to apology, 583 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 1: but it's taken eight years of knowing Paulina to get 584 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 1: her to stop apologizing for just asking a question around 585 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 1: here like nuts, you don't need to do that, You 586 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 1: don't need to apologize for being in a relationship. I 587 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: would agree though, that there there's some kindness and some 588 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: grace that should probably come with a with a cold 589 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 1: approach from a guy who's not being lecherous or creepy 590 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: or disrespectful, who's asking you out. Because I do hear 591 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: it from women all the time. I wish guys would 592 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: come up to me. The truth is, though, I think 593 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: a lot of guys have had a bad experience going 594 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: up to people and being shamed or like I don't know, 595 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,400 Speaker 1: getting a roote response, or people are kind of mean. 596 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 3: It's like, well, there's no need for that. 597 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 1: If I'm being respectful of you and asking you out, 598 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: and then you can say yes or no, and then 599 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,880 Speaker 1: I need to shut the hell up as a man. 600 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:19,719 Speaker 1: After that, I don't get to go whoa, oh, then's screwed, 601 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 1: because I've seen a lot of stuff where like dudes 602 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 1: then say crappy stuff, right, Oh, you're too good form. No, 603 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 1: we all need to approach us with grace like you need. 604 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 1: You need to be like, you know what, I'm seeing somebody, 605 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 1: thank you, and I need to be like, absolutely, good luck, 606 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: good luck to you. You know that that was wonderful. 607 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: Now I got it, you know, thanks for being cool 608 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,199 Speaker 1: whatever it is. But like and then that's it, and 609 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 1: then we're done now. And it could go both ways. 610 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 5: So what would you guys say if someone asked if 611 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,120 Speaker 5: you were single at a bar. 612 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,640 Speaker 1: I would say if I were were not, I would 613 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:55,679 Speaker 1: just say, hey, you know I'm seeing somebody or I'm not. 614 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:56,679 Speaker 1: And it would be that simple. 615 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 3: Okay. How do you guys answer? 616 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 7: Oh, and be like, yeah, my wife's right here, even 617 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 7: if she's no, I'm always with my wife. 618 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 619 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 5: If someone approached you, like downstairs, it just salad, Yeah, 620 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 5: he would say. 621 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 3: That didn't happen because he wasn't. 622 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 7: Sid right, I'm McDonald's. Yeah, I would say no, sorry. 623 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 7: I would say sorry, I'm married. 624 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 3: Okay, see you would say sorry, right, Yeah. I would 625 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 3: do the same thing. 626 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 4: I would say sorry, I'm not but I don't think 627 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 4: it's necessarily sorry that you have a boyfriend or husband 628 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 4: or whatever. You're just sorry because it's an awkward situation 629 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,159 Speaker 4: and you like wanted to end. That's what may I 630 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 4: look at. I'm like, I'm sorry that I have to 631 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 4: do this year because it's going to be very awkward 632 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 4: for me to say. 633 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 3: No, I'm not like that's what I'm saying. Sorry. 634 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 5: Apparently sorry is like making people feel like, oh, like 635 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 5: maybe it's not you know, is it a good relationship? 636 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:44,439 Speaker 6: Are you? 637 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 5: How are things? How long has it been? Like it 638 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 5: opens the door for more questioning. Apparently so. 639 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 3: Right, I don't know. I don't know about the sorry. 640 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,159 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I don't know that it's to 641 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 1: me that it would send that message, But like I 642 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 1: think he does. I think if anything, it's like sorry 643 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: for you. You could spin it a lot of different ways, 644 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 1: depending how it's like oh yeah, no, I mean I look, 645 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 1: I don't see it that way, but I guess somebody 646 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,120 Speaker 1: could see it as like antagonistic in some ways, like sorry, 647 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 1: you know, sorry for you. 648 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 3: I'm seeing somebody. 649 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 1: The answer is either yes or no, And I think 650 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: there's a nice way to be like, oh yeah, I 651 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 1: am seeing somebody. I don't think you have to say 652 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: you're sorry, but like I am seeing somebody, why do 653 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 1: men keep going? Then they'll be like, oh. 654 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:27,880 Speaker 3: It's a challenge. 655 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,119 Speaker 7: It's a challenge to men because they want to do 656 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 7: what they want what they can't have, And it's always 657 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 7: a challenge to men to be like I could, I 658 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 7: don't care. 659 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 3: I think that to a certain extent that can be true. 660 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 3: You can't score yikes. 661 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Yeah, but I won't tell you. And 662 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: this is it's not great, but I know, I know 663 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 1: why it was instilled in me as a young person. 664 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,919 Speaker 1: It was more of a confidence thing than anything. But 665 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 1: like I remember people in my life, men in my life, 666 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 1: good good men, used to say to me, if they're 667 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 1: not married, is there's still a chance. And they didn't 668 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 1: mean it like cheat or get someone you know, dissuade 669 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,719 Speaker 1: someone from being in a relationship, or steal them away. 670 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: I think it was more like don't give up, you 671 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 1: know what I mean, or like don't write somebody off 672 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: because they have a boyfriend, because boyfriends and girlfriends don't 673 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 1: always stick around forever. And I think it so it's 674 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 1: like if if you're interested in somebody and they're seeing 675 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 1: somebody like, don't be an a hole about it because 676 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 1: and don't necessarily write them off as a friend or something, 677 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: because it does sometimes happen where they're seeing someone at 678 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 1: the time, and if you're cool about it and you're 679 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: not like a prick and you're not creepy, then who knows. 680 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: Sometimes it comes back around where that person does become 681 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: available if they're married. 682 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 2: That's different, right, like says you're single until you're married. 683 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: But like, yeah, I don't think that the invitation is 684 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: to then just never take no for an answer. But 685 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 1: I think it's also like, well, just make sure you're 686 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 1: an idiot about how you respond to that, because you 687 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: never know, maybe you'll have a shot. I think what 688 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,160 Speaker 1: what's more interesting to me in this day and age 689 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,239 Speaker 1: is how people respond to whether they're married or not. 690 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: People people tend to have various responses to that, and 691 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 1: I often think you can tell the status. You can 692 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: get an idea subliminably of what they're subliminally of what 693 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 1: they're trying to tell you the way they answer that question. 694 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 6: Can you think of one that was like weird or 695 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 6: what they would say. 696 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I think when people are like, there's a 697 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 1: way to answer that question that that leaves no doubt 698 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 1: in somebody's mind whether you're happy or unhappy in your marriage. 699 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 1: That doesn't necessarily mean that I get to poach you, 700 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 1: but I mean I think it's I feel like that 701 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: that's a wild card these days. You know what, I'll 702 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 1: be like, you know, hey, are you married? Like well, yeah, 703 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 1: you know? Or I mean technically or whatever whatever. It's 704 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 1: just before it's like sometimes that answer, that answer, that 705 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 1: answer can be more problematic because what as a man, 706 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 1: as a single man, sometimes what I'm trying to decipher 707 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 1: is are you giving me an ind like are you 708 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 1: tell telling me that you you don't want to be 709 00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 1: married anymore? 710 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 2: Like? 711 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: Are you telling me that you want me to flirt 712 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 1: with you? 713 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 3: Are you? 714 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: Are you telling me without telling me that you're not 715 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 1: happily married or that you're out of your marriage or whatever. Yeah, 716 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 1: I think that's where it can be a little blurry. 717 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes it is like, well, what are you saying to me? 718 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 3: That's crazy? 719 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 1: And and and I will say those answers are are 720 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 1: more indirect than ever. I've gotten some wildness. I've gotten 721 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 1: some wild responses to like, well, technically, like I've gotten 722 00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 1: that one a lot. So you're married, like technically how 723 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: long you've been married? 724 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 3: Well? 725 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: Wow, oh wow. Anytime it like the tone goes like that, 726 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: it's like, we are you telling me that? Are you 727 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: like waving the white flag? Are you are you asking 728 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: me to engage or disengage? 729 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 3: I don't really know? Or yeah, we. 730 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 6: Need to see a signature on divorce papers these days. 731 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 8: Okay that that part, that part, yes, Yeah, that's excellent. 732 00:30:55,760 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 8: So yeah, that's excellent. What a great has some great insight, Kaylen, 733 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 8: thank you. 734 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, should be step one. But you know, all of 735 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 1: a sudden, this turned into an NPR segment. I'm like, 736 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: thank you, Camin Roberts. Everyone back to you, all right. 737 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: Next on the program, The Entertainment Report. I don't know 738 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: why I had a difficult time getting out of that one, 739 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,360 Speaker 1: but anyway, let's push the button more Fred Show. 740 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 3: Next,