WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Change Him Back 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.600 Welcome to a brand new Awkward Tuesday episode. It's Brooke 0:00:03.640 --> 0:00:06.119 and Jeffrey and you have found the Second Day podcast. 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:08.800 Today's really a lesson and the grass is not always 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:11.600 greener my friends. You know, on the other side, she 0:00:11.720 --> 0:00:13.640 wanted something before she fully thought it out. 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:16.720 Yeah, and I'd be the first woman to ever change 0:00:16.720 --> 0:00:21.560 a man successfully. That's all right. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:22.880 What do we got in the comments? 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:26.680 Jazz A lou Baby said, I finally learned how to 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:30.320 leave a rating and comment after listening for years. 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:31.080 I listened to. 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:33.879 Y'all every day, and one time I hugged Jose outside 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:37.280 in the parking lot of a casino. 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:39.879 I love it. 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:42.400 I think I lugged Jose in a parking lot outside 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:44.839 of casino before that thing you. 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:45.400 Do with Jose. 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:46.000 I love it. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:49.600 Hey, thanks for leaving your comments and figuring them out. 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:54.680 Yeah, your brand new Awkward Tuesday starts right now. 0:00:56.080 --> 0:00:59.200 One of our listeners came on the show to complain 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:05.560 about her boy friend, saying he is super hot, super successful, 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:11.319 and super put together. And I know what you're all thinking, 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:16.560 but no, she's not dating me. You're all thinking. The 0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:19.959 thing is her boyfriend. It's he's kind of too perfect 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:25.440 and she says it's all her fault because it's causing 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:29.520 actual problems in their relationship. You're going to understand why 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:31.800 she had no choice but to reach out and ask 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:36.000 for help the problems. You'll hear it in your brand 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:42.679 new Awkward Tuesday phone call. Next It's Awkward Tuesday. It's 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:47.000 awkward Tuesday phone call. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.080 and I just want to ask my co host Brooke 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:52.920 real quick, is it ever okay for a woman to 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:57.440 try and change a man. I don't know if. 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:58.120 It's okay or not. 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:03.600 It doesn't work, just I mean it wasted energy. 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:05.760 Well, yeah, what if I told you one of our 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:10.480 listeners tried it and it did work immediately wrong? 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:12.640 Would she be on the phone with us? 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:15.680 Well, if it works, that's a fair question. I'm a 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:18.520 firm believer in that women always know what's best for 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:21.960 a guy. Oh, yes, you do, jeff Okay do all 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:26.560 of life. And our listener Alexandra did the impossible. She 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:30.880 changed her man and regrets it, and she's coming to 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:34.320 us for help. Alexandra, Luckily you've come to the right place. 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:35.280 Welcome to the show. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:37.760 Thank you built them up. 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:38.399 He's too good. 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.640 Now he's doing too many dishes and fling too much laundry, 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:43.160 too productive. 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:45.640 It's a hard life, I'm sure, but we don't know 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:48.000 the details of your situation. Tell us what's going on 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:48.760 with you and your guy. 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:53.440 So I've been dating my boyfriend for like two years now. 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:53.880 What's his name? 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:55.080 Ted? 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:55.800 Ted? 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:56.960 Ted? 0:02:57.120 --> 0:03:00.400 Okay, And I realized six months ago he was like 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:03.600 too comfortable in the relationship, like he wasn't working out anymore. 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:06.400 He was dressing kind of sloppy, and I was like. 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:08.040 I have to do something here. 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.160 That's not You don't want a man to be comfortable. 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:12.480 I always like to fatten my man up a little 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:14.160 bit because I don't want them to be hotter than 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:14.760 me with me. 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:19.720 Always try to sneak some butter into my husband's meal. 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:22.160 Yeah all right, And I mean it's not like I'm 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:24.040 not saying like you weren't attracted to him anymore, but 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:27.440 it's like he was becoming a different type of boyfriend 0:03:27.480 --> 0:03:28.160 than you wanted. 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:30.040 Yeah, exactly. 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:33.080 So I told him I had a special birthday. 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:34.720 Plan for him, like a birthday gift, and. 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:36.920 I gave him a full makeover. 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:38.880 So, oh wow, he used to. 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:41.880 Cut his own hair Oh, you got it. 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:45.480 That's resourceful. Yeah. He took him to like a nice barber. 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:48.600 I got him like a real actual barber. 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:51.760 I got him a spaw treatment, I got him new clothes. 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:53.120 I even got. 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:55.520 Him like four sessions with a personal trainer. 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.080 Oh my god. 0:03:57.880 --> 0:03:59.480 It'd be one thing if you said, hey, honey, you 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:01.360 gotta hit the But if you were like, here's a 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:03.000 plethora of gifts to improve your life. 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:04.960 I would love that, wouldn't you feel? I mean, you 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:06.520 would make you feel really taken care of. 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:11.520 I don't know, it's a little bit insulted. If I'm like, 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:13.920 by the way I set you up with a personal trainer, 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:14.920 you're welcome. 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:16.000 Have you ever watched a. 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:16.680 Make over show? 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:20.160 Nobody's insulted ever excited about him? 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:22.240 We should ask how did Ted take it when you 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:24.719 were basically showing him how to be a different person. 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:27.480 I mean, he was fine, He's like, yeah, I'll do it. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:28.360 He was excited. 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:31.680 He did it, and it was the worst possible thing 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:33.359 that I could have ever done. 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:35.960 Oh no, is he hooking up with a trainer? 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:36.839 Oh? 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:39.800 Well, he just like he looks really good. He's getting 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:42.360 a lot of attention from a lot of people. He 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:43.040 kind of just. 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:43.680 Ran with it. 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:47.400 So he's like buying himself more new clothes, he's working 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:48.360 out on his own. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:52.599 God what ay, I get it that was your whole 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:57.359 goal though. He sounds like he's confident, Like isn't that 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:58.800 the type of man you want to be with? 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.680 Yeah? I just I kind of even to like tourne 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:04.960 it back and go back to being like sloppy, Like 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:08.560 maybe he could just do like sloppy weekends or like 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:10.880 I don't know, he's even dressing really nice on the 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:12.960 weekends and going for runs at six. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:13.839 Am on Saturdays. 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:14.520 Like we used to. 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:17.800 Go to the bakery and get stones and coffee and I. 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.359 Missed that and we can't do that anymore. 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:20.520 Oh wow, is. 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:22.680 He getting you up to to go on runs with him? 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:27.960 For you're not like a fit couple now? No? 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:29.479 No, God, no, absolutely not. 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:33.600 It takes a shower trying to get a stone. 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:38.719 Okay, have you talked to him about this at all 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:39.679 to this point? 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.120 No? No, I don't even know how to tell him 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.279 because it's like it's so awkward. 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:47.400 That I accidentally created this, Like how do I reverse 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:48.240 what I just did? 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:48.880 Okay? 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:51.800 Wait, so that's the advice that you're looking to get 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.520 from us here is how do you get him to 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:57.960 backtrack on the progress that he's made. 0:05:58.040 --> 0:05:59.640 Yes, and just be normal again. 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:03.520 It feels like it's going to backfire. 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:06.440 I mean if you're putting all this energy into making 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.800 yourself what you think is a better person, and then 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:12.200 your partner comes and says, eh, don't. 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.680 Like, well, maybe if to take Brooks tactic and go 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.040 a little sneaky with it, put some butter into his 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:19.880 food and not looking at cooked with large. 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.760 It's not that I don't like the new version of him. 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.360 I just need him to like take his foot off 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:26.400 the gas a little bit. 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:29.320 Okay. It's like it's like if you renovated the kitchen 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:31.960 of your house and it looks great, and then your 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.240 husband's like, oh, well, let's also redo the living room 0:06:34.279 --> 0:06:36.280 and let's add in a pool, and let's like the 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:37.320 whole other second house. 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:38.520 He's doing all good things. 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:41.640 Well, I know, it's like he's taking the project too 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:44.280 far out, like I want a pool. I mean, sure, 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:47.200 maybe it was a bad metaphor, but he's gone farther 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:48.080 than what she wanted. 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:51.039 Do we need to talk, like, are you maybe just 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:53.560 like a little insecure at this point? 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:55.719 No, I just want to get my coffee and my 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:57.040 stones on the weekend. 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:59.479 Okay, good, okay ask Yeah. 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:01.480 I understand that was like, it sounds like one of 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:04.120 the precious moments of your guys' relationship or those like 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:04.920 lazy Sunday. 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:08.000 Yeah, and they just aren't happening anymore. 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:09.920 And we're gonna try to bring those back for you 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:11.679 when we give you solid advice. 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:15.200 Is that what we're gonna get. 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:18.440 Yeah, We'll figure out a way to get your boyfriend 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:20.200 Ted to go back to his old ways. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:21.720 Yeah, just a little bit. 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:25.520 Yeah, yeah, Yes, we made ten steps forward, we need 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:28.360 to take two steps back when we do an awkward 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:32.680 Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward. 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:34.000 It's Tuesday. 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:39.600 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. They say you can't change 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:45.000 a man, Well they were wrong, and our listener Alexandra 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:48.960 is living proof because after a couple of years together, 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:52.280 she wanted to help her boyfriend Ted just lock. 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:53.960 It up a little bit, that's a good way to 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:54.320 say it. 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:55.920 And you'll get in a better shave, take care of 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.080 himself a little more. So. She set him up with 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:01.480 a haircut, spa treat, mints, a few sessions with a 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:07.160 personal trainer, and now she regrets it of sort of 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:10.840 because she's happy that he's making positive changes, but her 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:14.320 feeling is maybe he's taken this to the extreme, to 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:18.640 the point he's jogging at six am every Saturday. 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:20.560 Who likes a person like that? Right? 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:23.680 I like running, and even I don't like that. 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:26.640 That's why Alexandra wants our help on how to convince 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:30.640 her boyfriend to just balance out his new persona a 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:33.360 little bit with the old, sloppy ones she fell in 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.040 love with. So it just needs a little balance. Is 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:38.120 it possible? We don't know, but we're going to try 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:39.800 to give her a little bit of advice. Brooke, what 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:40.320 do you think? 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:42.720 Okay, I think you need to make him a little 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:46.760 jealous of what you're doing. What do you mean, well, 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:50.000 I mean I think that you tell him that the 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.600 guys at work have started this brunch boys club and 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:58.079 you are finally invited. And since he's busy on a 0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:01.440 run every Saturday morning, I can't get scones with you. 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:04.040 You might as well join the hotties from work for 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:05.800 their bottomless mimosas. 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:10.120 Then he'll want to stay home and snuggle you and 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:11.280 get you scones again. 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:13.560 I was kind of sold on brunch Boys. 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:15.640 The group. 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:17.400 I don't know, but what do you think, Alexandra? 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:20.280 You know what, I'm desperate. I'll go with anything at 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:20.679 this point. 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:23.079 I'm going to take that as a compliment for my advice. 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:26.720 Yeah, I love a little desperation on the show, Jose 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:27.760 any advice for her? 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.000 Well, if you think about it, six months ago, when 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:32.120 you asked him to change, he was open to it, 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:33.880 and that's really rare with guys. 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.840 So that's why you just have to feel. 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:40.120 Positive in this conversation because you're asking him to just 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:42.240 slightly change, you know what I mean. 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:44.280 Which is a way easier convo than the first one. 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:46.720 So you just wanted to openly ask, Yeah. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.880 Be confident if he if he received the first one, 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:49.880 well he'll receive this one. 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:50.160 Great. 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:52.439 Okay, maybe if you bring up the first change. 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:53.560 Yeah, and the first. 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:55.880 One came with like one hundreds of dollars worth of stuff. 0:09:55.520 --> 0:10:00.440 So okay, do a little Yeah, So al Xandra, this 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:02.640 advice comes with a little bit more scones, maybe, do 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:06.080 you think, Yeah, maybe you could toss that in there. Yeah, 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:09.480 just asking him to change, yeah, well and bringing up 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:12.760 how how much he has changed the first time you asked? 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:14.440 And how proud you are of him? 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:16.959 Did she ask him? She kind of sneakily. 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:20.400 I mean you forced him, but that's okay. 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:22.800 Yeah, I mean I can definitely bring up his change 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:26.040 because it is dramatic, but I am proud of him. Yeah. 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:31.000 Tickets like an anti fitness camp, you know what I mean? Wait? 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:34.280 Yeah, they force you to eat cakes every Yeah, all right, 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:36.080 that'll be our backup plan, plane. 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:37.600 I want to go to that camp. 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:42.640 Yeah, it's not for you, cake camp. Yes, it's right 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:46.400 after the brunch boys made all right, great, we gave 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:48.080 you all the device that we have. You can choose 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:49.560 to use as much of it as you want or 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:51.360 none of it. It's up to you. But I'm going 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:54.199 to dial your boyfriend's number. Let you make your awkward 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:54.560 call here. 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:55.840 Good luck, thank you? 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:56.720 All right, here we go? 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:12.000 Hellop, Hey Dan? Sorry, who's what it's me? 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:13.200 Hi? 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:19.360 Oh? Sorry? Your phone cut out? And I don't know 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:20.600 you're not calling from your numbers. 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:24.680 What's going on? Oh that's weird. I don't know. 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:25.160 What do you do? 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:31.560 I am at the moment, making lunch and getting ready 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:32.840 for my afternoon jag. 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:37.520 You're going for a run again, didn't you go this morning? 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.280 So I've been reading something online that says you can 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:45.640 kind of do shorter runs more often, kind of boost 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:48.400 your endurance. I'm experimenting with that this week. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:54.120 Oh no, wow, Okay, you're really going for with this 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:54.920 healthcare kong? 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:56.200 Yeah? 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.480 Yeah, I mean you get me started on something that 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:01.440 has really a good change my life, you know the 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:01.920 best word. 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.800 And you have worked so hard and I am so 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:12.400 proud of you, and you were doing so good. But 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:17.560 what if you just did like the same but like less? 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:22.600 What I don't get it, like. 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:26.640 Instead of two runs a day, maybe like two runs 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:30.480 a week or like two runs a month, you know, 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:31.360 stuff like that. 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:34.520 Maybe what's what's going on? What is this? 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:39.240 Like you're just always so busy with this health thing? 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:41.520 Like do you even remember that we used to have scones? 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:42.840 Like do you know what that tastes like? 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:43.160 Still? 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:44.000 Did you forget? 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:47.640 Like they were so buttery and they had like blueberries 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:49.240 and chocolate chips and like. 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:51.280 They were warm and you put jam on them, Like 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:51.959 do you know that? 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:54.280 Like did you do you forget? 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:58.040 I haven't forgotten, but I mean the way you just 0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:00.600 described that sounds awful. 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:05.000 At this point, the blueberries are organic, like, get over it. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:08.400 Whoa, Oh, I feel like I've kind of hit a 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:13.679 stride in this sort of new, less butter more vegetables 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:14.679 part of my life. 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:15.880 You know. 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:19.640 They say like look good, feel good, and man, I 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:24.560 feel real good. I mean I might getting compliments from people, 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:27.000 you know, like even your sister said, I look really cute. 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:28.559 Oh wait what. 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.800 When we were at your cousins for the baby shower 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:35.959 of and he texted me after her said it was 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.120 like nice to meet me and I looked really cute. 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:42.680 No, she did not, she did no, she no, she 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:44.960 did not. She never said that to anyone. 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:49.439 What are you talking about here? She never says anybody's attractive. 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:54.680 Nobody, no, nobody, Like she is up to something. 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:57.080 Are you serious? What's going on? 0:13:57.520 --> 0:13:59.319 You don't know her like I know her? Okay. 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.400 In high school they called her the Medusa of men. 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:09.720 Like you look at her once and you're done. 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:13.720 What is going on? What was that? 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:15.880 That's a sound effect that we played because you're on 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:19.000 the radio right now, Ted, why. 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:21.960 Well, we're trying to save you from the Medusa of men. 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:23.680 Apparently, I guess that. 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:25.680 Wasn't the that's a real thing. 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:26.720 She wants you Ted? 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:31.480 Well, yeah, yeah, you're jumping to a lot of conclusions here, Alexandra. First, 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:33.160 we need to tell Ted that this is a segment 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.320 we do. It's called an awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:38.480 That doesn't matter. Okay, It matters that he's gotten too 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:40.360 hot and he knows it and she knows it. 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:40.720 Okay. 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:44.400 Do you really think your sister's trying to steal your man? 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:47.640 Why would she text him and not have me on 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.560 the thread and then tell him that he's cute? 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:53.960 Question? Why are we on the radio? 0:14:58.200 --> 0:14:58.400 Yeah? 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:01.480 Do you want want me to explain to Alexandra or 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:02.280 do you want to tell. 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:04.840 You can tell him it's fun. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.040 Well, yeah, it's like a group chat. 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:07.800 Yeah. 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:11.280 So Alexandra reached out to us because, first of all, 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:13.680 she is so proud of you on the progress that 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:17.080 you've made in the last six months in the lifestyle changes, 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:22.120 like obviously you're looking good and everybody's noticing. She does, though, 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:26.600 miss a little bit of your relationship before when you 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:30.000 used to, like she said, go get scones together, and the. 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:32.160 Relaxed part of your relationship is missing. 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:34.880 You may have over indexed just like a touch for her. 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:38.080 But I mean isn't it better to avoid the process 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:39.880 cards than the all that craft? 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:42.640 No, but it's like everything in moderation, right, like a 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.080 little bit here, a little bit there. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:47.120 Yeah, So I don't know. I said, you want me 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:48.720 to go back to the way I was. 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:51.960 I mean a little bit because I'm getting asked up 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:55.680 by these people called like the brunch boys, and I 0:15:55.720 --> 0:16:00.800 don't think you want me to go out with them? 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:04.760 Always deduced? Are these real things? 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:07.720 She just wants you to hang out on a Saturday 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:09.240 morning and be lazy with her for. 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.560 A little bit. She would you be so serious about 0:16:11.560 --> 0:16:12.040 the working out? 0:16:12.040 --> 0:16:14.480 Apparently she also doesn't want you to text her sister now. 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:17.160 Yeah, I'm not trying to be like the sidon do 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:17.960 anything over here? 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:23.440 Whoa drake mccaldi went too far? She can make up 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:24.360 words and he can't. 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:26.120 Yeah, what the hell? Man? 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:29.680 Well we're on the radio, is all that? Yeah? 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:31.440 Have we accomplished anything here? 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:31.560 Like? 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:32.840 Where are we at? 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:36.120 I just want to hang out and have a scone 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:37.800 without veggies on the side. 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:42.080 And without her sister present anywhere nearby. 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:46.200 Yes, I will come home. We will block your sister 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:50.200 on all of the social media. We will I will 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:53.520 eat the pastry with you and enjoy the heck out 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:54.240 of it. 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:57.520 Okay, Well, we set out trying to find the healthy 0:16:57.600 --> 0:17:00.240 balance in the life that you were going to words 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:02.200 in the life that you had, Alexandra. Do you feel 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:02.880 like we found it? 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:04.400 I think we're good. 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:04.720 Yeah. 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:07.000 Yeah. 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.240 You a really awesome boyfriend. 0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:10.680 Yeah, so like a great dude. 0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:10.840 Bro. 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:14.960 Oh no, Brooks trying to slide in. Hang Up, Hang 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:24.040 Up the Men Part two, look Out Part number. Brook 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:26.840 and Jeffrey in the morning. It's Brook and Jeffrey in 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:29.639 the morning. Can someone remind me to make my reservation 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.040 for six with the brunch Boys this weekend? I would 0:17:33.280 --> 0:17:35.119 really hate to miss it. 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.119 Is it a brunch Boys club? Because it just is 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:38.120 such a good name. 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:41.280 Don't Yeah? I think we need to start it if 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:42.320 it doesn't exist. 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:42.960 Can I be invited to? 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:46.840 Absolutely? Not only the hot guys of the studio get in? 0:17:47.000 --> 0:17:49.159 Brook You gave the best advice you've given in years. 0:17:49.440 --> 0:17:52.679 I did what Yeah? The brunch Boys? Oh okay, that 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:55.199 was amazing. It didn't help them at all, but it 0:17:55.240 --> 0:17:57.520 sounds like they didn't need it anyway. They're one of 0:17:57.560 --> 0:18:01.040 those couples that actually listens to each other. Can compromise, 0:18:01.280 --> 0:18:04.960 and plus they're getting scones together. I mean it's pretty. 0:18:04.800 --> 0:18:06.240