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Speaker 3: At all at all, So don't given them back a

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Speaker 4: And Steve has ye listening.

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Speaker 3: To me to hand, I.

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Speaker 5: Don't joy, Yeah, enjoy.

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Speaker 1: You don't you love?

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Speaker 5: You've probably got to turn mouth turn out, turn the

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Speaker 2: Come come on, you're got it, ah, I sure will.

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Speaker 7: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice. Come on,

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Speaker 7: come on, y'all dig me now. One and only Steve

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Speaker 7: Harvey got a radio show man. Is God good to me? Unbelievable?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he is. And I can only attribute it to

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Speaker 2: one thing. It's just been a turnaround in my life.

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Speaker 7: It's been me finally making decision to see what all

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Speaker 7: to be more God want me to be instead of

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Speaker 7: more of what I want to be.

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Speaker 2: That's the trade off.

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Speaker 7: You know, you gotta do something now, you know you

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Speaker 7: know you want God's blessings, You got to be willing

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Speaker 7: to do something on his behalf. And I'm not saying

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Speaker 7: I got it right right now because I'm just being

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Speaker 7: get better in several areas. I'm praying about it, I'm

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Speaker 7: I've grown to accept the process. But I'm improving in

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Speaker 7: a lot of areas from day to day. But I'll

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Speaker 7: tell you what, man, my success, all that's going on

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Speaker 7: with me I can only attribute to this turnaround. And

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Speaker 7: the turnaround was simple. I turned around and started looking

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Speaker 7: I just turned around and started looking at him, and

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Speaker 7: I was going, Okay, I get it. Now, you created me.

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Speaker 7: You're the creator. You have a purpose for me. I

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Speaker 7: Now let me just walk in that purpose and let

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Speaker 7: me get to doing that purpose. Now, my purpose and

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Speaker 7: your purpose and their purpose and anybody's purpose could be different,

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Speaker 2: And that's the part that I've really grown up to.

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Speaker 7: I've opened up my mind to understanding that everybody's different,

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Speaker 7: to forgive me. See that's the key. That's the key, y'all.

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Speaker 7: So when you're out here and you stuck on this unforgiveness,

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Speaker 7: debts as we forgive our debtors. It's two different versions,

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Speaker 7: I handle people when they cross the line with me.

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Speaker 7: You feel what I'm saying to you, See you understand that.

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Speaker 7: you how it's paid off, because now God's mercy and

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Speaker 7: grace is all over me, because I've learned to become

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Speaker 2: I just got sick of me. Man, you mad at me,

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Speaker 2: now I'm mad at you. You hating on me? Now

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Speaker 2: I'm more hate on you. I ain't got time for that.

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Speaker 7: You look here, you got somewhere to go. Hate take

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Speaker 7: It take up way too much of your time to

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Speaker 7: Vengeance is mine, saith the Lord. It ain't yours. So

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Speaker 7: now when you go to seek it to take it out,

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Speaker 7: you're supposed to, you didn't take out time for vengeance.

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Speaker 7: I'm a hater. I'm a be a blogger. I'm a

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Speaker 7: blog about so and so. When you're blogging about somebody,

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Speaker 7: you're blogging about somebody, what you're doing, what you hating.

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Speaker 2: It takes time to hate.

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Speaker 7: I just decided, Man, I got to take all my

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Speaker 7: time and instead of have doing time and being active,

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Speaker 7: I got to be proactive. See some people get that confused,

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Speaker 7: being active and being proactive. Pro is positive. Pro means

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Speaker 7: You know, there's the pros and the cons. The pros

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Speaker 7: I'm no English teacher or grammatical god. The word pro

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Speaker 7: telling you God can make that change for you if

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Speaker 7: be willing to do something. You got to give God

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Speaker 7: me God with what what are you working with?

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Speaker 2: He can't have the people hire you if you ain't

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Speaker 7: When you make a proactive step, when you try to

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Speaker 7: quit messing around with all these people. I'm gonna start

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Speaker 7: You got to say, all right, man, I ain't going

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Speaker 2: I just ain't gonna get Then God can work with you.

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Speaker 2: God help me stop seeing all these women. But you

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Speaker 2: steady going.

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Speaker 7: Over there calling them setting up stuff. Can't nobody help

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Speaker 7: you because once you get over there, you already know. See,

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Speaker 7: So come on, y'all.

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Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, listen to me. This

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Speaker 7: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and listen to this.

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Speaker 7: God is really really amazing. God is tremendous that really

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Speaker 7: there are no superlatives for this. The words I'm using,

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Speaker 7: I done found out is how good he really is.

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Speaker 2: That just ain't no words for me.

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Speaker 7: He's amazed, and I get all that. When you get

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Speaker 7: He is available for everybody, no matter who you are,

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Speaker 7: you done fail, God can get you. Know that in

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Speaker 7: twenty twenty six. Please put that in your weaponry, your arsenal.

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Speaker 7: Put that in your bag of tricks. God is the ultimate.

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Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica

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Speaker 2: How you doing this morning?

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Speaker 12: Man?

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 13: I can't ask you something, Uncle. I got to ask

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Speaker 13: cause my wife said gonna go to work with your

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Speaker 13: cute self, and I believe do I look cute to y'all?

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Speaker 10: Am? I?

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Speaker 2: Well see you listen to me. You don't have to

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Speaker 7: She's the one to say it, I do, and all

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Speaker 7: this here, and that's how women are to encourage people

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Speaker 7: you feel better about yourself. Now, if you're asking me,

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Speaker 7: are you cute? Definitely not. I thank your odd looking.

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Speaker 7: I think your shot. I don't know how she said

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Speaker 2: I have said. No, I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Hey, will you marry me?

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Speaker 1: That is sexy?

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Speaker 11: You know he did?

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Speaker 2: You think he did?

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, why she's here, junior, But listen to me.

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Speaker 7: That's the purpose of a good wife. A good wife

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Speaker 7: and man, they really lead a lot of times. They

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Speaker 7: if you don't follow this suggestion, you're gonna get it wrong.

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Speaker 7: So I know you're saying that really hurt your feelings.

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Speaker 7: But that's what your wife is ford to counter.

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Speaker 13: People like me, Well, I've been married three years, and

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Speaker 13: that's the first time she said it in three years.

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Speaker 13: He just said it today.

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Speaker 1: Well, well, you know, but does ain't Margie tell you?

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Speaker 3: Does she tell you cute?

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Speaker 7: Yeah all the time, handsome all the time. But but

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Speaker 7: but can I tell you something? No, John, it's the

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Speaker 14: You coming up At thirty two minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, is Carla Ferroll kick that old mopping bucket aside?

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for a mop.

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Speaker 1: It is time now for the nephew to run that

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Speaker 1: prank back. Nephew, what you got for us? The doctor's busy?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Rogic Belting.

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Speaker 15: Please, he's not here.

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Speaker 16: I take a message.

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Speaker 11: My name is Mark, ma'am. I'm calling from the clinic.

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Speaker 11: Rood Music down.

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Speaker 16: Hold on, I'm sorry. Say that again.

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Speaker 11: Okay, can you hear me?

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Speaker 16: I can hear you now.

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Speaker 11: I'm trying to reach Rogers.

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Speaker 16: He's not here.

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Speaker 11: Okay. I'm calling from the clinic, from doctor Robert's office

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Speaker 16: Actually I don't.

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Speaker 16: Okay, well I don't. I don't know when I can.

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Speaker 16: He's supposed to be here now. I'm not sure when

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Speaker 11: I'm sorry I didn't ask you earlier. Man, who am

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Speaker 16: No, it's trying to make me kind of give a

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Speaker 16: I'm you're making my stomach is getting nervous right now?

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Speaker 16: What is what is the problem?

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Speaker 11: Well, actually you know what it is, ma'am is mister

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Speaker 11: Rogers came in for UH to take a few tests,

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Speaker 16: Do you know anything about I'm sorry, I didn't mean

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Speaker 16: He hasn't told me anything about going to a clinic

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Speaker 11: Well, I mean, ma'am, I'm not really not at liberty

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Speaker 16: You do know you I do, and I'm pretty certain,

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Speaker 11: So would you see the Let pull up Roger stuff

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Speaker 15: That is me.

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Speaker 16: I mean, everybody called me, but that's me Janis.

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Speaker 15: Okay, tell me your name again.

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Speaker 16: I'm sorry, what's your name again?

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Speaker 11: Mark? Mark? This is like I said, I'm the clerk

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Speaker 16: Please do.

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Speaker 11: Mister Roger came in and took some STD test STD yes,

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Speaker 16: No, no, no, no, no no, I need you to

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Speaker 11: Well, no, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 12: Man.

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Speaker 11: What has happened is he's been diagnosed with as well as.

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Speaker 16: You got to be kidding me. You have got to

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Speaker 16: he has been dipping somewhere else? Because I have been

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Speaker 16: not doing anything that would even come close to bringing

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Speaker 11: Man, I'm not at liberty and making any accusations like that.

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Speaker 11: I cannot say anything like that. All I can say

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Speaker 11: They will tell you though this is something treatable, it

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Speaker 16: Care about it being treatable or curable. What I care

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Speaker 16: That's what I care about.

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Speaker 11: I do understand that, missus Janis. I do, but you

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Speaker 11: have to understand my position and what I'm trying to do.

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Speaker 11: I'm just trying to reaching.

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Speaker 16: Out and well, listen, you happen to call my household,

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Speaker 16: you just have to have to be on the on

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Speaker 16: the other side of it. I'm sorry you're getting most

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Speaker 16: of it, but I tell you what what you need

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Speaker 16: to do is you need to make him an appointment

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Speaker 16: and I will meet him there he will be.

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Speaker 11: When he sleeps. A minute, Wait a minute, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 16: You need to make him an appointment to come out

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Speaker 11: Me that I think you pet. I mean, since you're

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Speaker 11: tell him what's going long?

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Speaker 16: Since I've never you know, this is the plan you

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Speaker 11: You have, Yes, I have a pin. Okay, I got it.

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Speaker 16: You call him a set of twelve new appointment. Trust me,

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Speaker 16: when I tell you when he walks through that door

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Speaker 11: Okay, okay, But miss Minchells, I'm not trying to create

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Speaker 16: I could give to about the call. All I know

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Speaker 16: is you make that appointment. I will get there before

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Speaker 16: he gets there and his own I'm telling you that's

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Speaker 11: Do you understand me, miss miss Minzets. I can't allow

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Speaker 16: Let me tell you something I don't care. I could

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Speaker 11: Looking for mister Rogers and you called him soon.

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Speaker 17: To be white?

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Speaker 15: What correction?

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Speaker 16: Correction?

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Speaker 12: Soon to not be white?

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Speaker 11: I got one more thing I do need to tell you, though,

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Speaker 16: I can't deal with another thing. I swear to God

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Speaker 16: don't tell me everything out, but I do have a

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Speaker 16: make your appointment. That's all I care about.

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Speaker 17: You make your.

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Speaker 11: Apartment, will make your point. But I need you to

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Speaker 16: Who do I need to ask for us?

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Speaker 11: Okay, you need to ask for nephew Tommy from the

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Speaker 11: Steve Harvey Morning Show, because that's who I am. You

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Speaker 11: just got pranked by your husband Roger. You know what?

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Speaker 15: Oh my god, it tell me, Temmy.

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Speaker 16: I listened to you everyone.

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Speaker 11: I said, no, Oh my.

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Speaker 16: Goodness, I'm so embarrassed. Way are you all right? Oh

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Speaker 16: my gosh, I am.

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Speaker 17: I am old.

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Speaker 16: I'm done, I'm done.

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Speaker 11: I got one more thing I got asked. Okay, what

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Speaker 11: is the baddest that I mean, the baddest radio show

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Speaker 11: in the land, the.

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Speaker 16: One I wake up to every morning, The Steve Harvey

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Speaker 16: Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you.

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Speaker 14: Coming up next it is ask the CELO or Chief

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Speaker 14: Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside?

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Speaker 4: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? And

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Speaker 18: Coming up at the top of the hour, we have

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Speaker 18: two special guests from the Lighthouse Church in Houston, Texas.

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Speaker 14: It is Pastor Keon and First Lady Shawnie Henderson. They

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Speaker 14: will be joining us to talk about their not your

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Speaker 14: typical tour. The Hendersons are coming up at the top

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Speaker 14: of the hour. We'll talk to them, but right now

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Speaker 14: it is time to ask the clo our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 14: Steve Harvey Ready.

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Speaker 1: Steve Colo, Yes, yes, yes, yes, all.

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Speaker 14: Right, thank you. This is from Charmaine and Calumet. Charmain writes,

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Speaker 14: I was a side chick a few years ago. I

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Speaker 14: left that situation and got married. The married man from

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Speaker 14: my past got saved and confessed to having an affair.

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Speaker 14: His wife called me to talk about it. Why would

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Speaker 14: he do that? Do I owe his wife an explanation?

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Speaker 15: No?

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Speaker 2: You don't, No, you don't, and I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: Y'all don't do like me and did. If his wife

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Speaker 2: call you, just what are you talking about? I noticed?

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Excuse me. I'm married and don't

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Speaker 2: call me anymore. You should.

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Speaker 7: You don't have to give people closure. That's him and her,

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Speaker 7: that's him and her. Stay out of that. You found

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Speaker 7: out you shouldn't have been in it. You made your mistake.

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Speaker 1: Move on right, and we're gonna move on too.

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Speaker 14: To Justine and port Arthur, Justine writes, my husband sent

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Speaker 14: a DM to his ex wife and it said happy birthday.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful.

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Speaker 14: He said, there's nothing wrong with what he did. We're

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Speaker 14: friendly with our exes. But he crossed the line. If

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Speaker 14: it's cool, why did he choose to DM it to

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Speaker 14: her and not text it?

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Speaker 2: Well, he know it wasn't cool. We friendly with our exes?

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Speaker 15: What that?

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Speaker 2: What that mean anyway?

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Speaker 10: Right?

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Speaker 2: I'm that poor. I don't really know. I don't really know.

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Speaker 1: You have kids.

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Speaker 2: If you have kids, you share kids all them. I

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Speaker 2: got kids all night.

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Speaker 1: But you would still just say if you said anything,

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Speaker 1: happy birthday. He put that beautiful.

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Speaker 7: Elbow ever said happy birthday to it. I'm friendly with

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Speaker 7: the kids. I'm just being real with you. I'm just

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Speaker 7: from friendly with the kids. There ain't nothing wrong with them.

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Speaker 7: You know, I don't blame nobody for nothing.

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Speaker 10: But I'm.

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Speaker 2: Once, I'm out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm oh you.

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Speaker 2: Here, I ain't got none for you.

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Speaker 7: Ain't got to worry about me DM and your texting,

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Speaker 7: your face, face booking you.

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Speaker 1: But if you're friendly, you wouldn't just say happy birthday.

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Speaker 1: I mean, why is we friendly?

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Speaker 12: Though?

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying if you were from.

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Speaker 2: See, that's an impossibility for friendly.

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Speaker 4: All he's saying is he said happy birthday. She doesn't understand.

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Speaker 4: It's the beautiful beautiful?

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Speaker 2: What's happy about beautiful? Well, here's here's the other part.

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Speaker 7: Here's what women should all use this technique and just

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Speaker 7: ask your husband whenever you're talking to him, when you're

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Speaker 7: trying to get the right answer from him about what

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Speaker 7: he did and he's trying to justify, just ask him,

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Speaker 7: say this, what if it were reversed, suppose I did this,

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Speaker 7: how would you feel?

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Speaker 2: That shuts the argument down.

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Speaker 7: Completely, because he's not Finn say he'll be cool with it. Hey, Hey,

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Speaker 7: what's so with your sexyself? You text your eggs.

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Speaker 19: Now?

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Speaker 7: See you need to get in the car head on

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Speaker 7: over that end, wow, because that's where you stay now.

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Speaker 1: Condition you can't take it right and you so you

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Speaker 1: agree with Justine in this one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if it was, well, you know, because he was.

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Speaker 7: He was wrong for that. What's the DM for. We're

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Speaker 7: friendly with our exes, Well, get unfriendly with.

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Speaker 2: Him, send another birthday shout out. Let's see where that look.

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Speaker 7: If you didn't need him in your life in the

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Speaker 7: relationship part, what you need him in your life as

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Speaker 7: a friend for I'm gonna tell you right now. See,

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Speaker 7: we can't be in a full blown relationship, become divorced

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Speaker 7: for whatever the reason, because something went wrong, and in

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Speaker 7: that divorce it wasn't nobody laughing in court.

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Speaker 2: Now we're back to being friends again.

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Speaker 1: What the children, that's all. It's just for the sake

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Speaker 1: of it all my kids.

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Speaker 2: And got over get yourself in therapy, dude, do whatever

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Speaker 2: you got to do.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna move on.

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Speaker 14: This is Maurice and Compton who writes, my wife's male

509
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Speaker 14: best friend was over overweight and missing a few teeth

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Speaker 14: when I met my wife. He's lost weight and works

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Speaker 14: out daily and he's got new teeth. I can honestly

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Speaker 14: admit that I'm jealous when he's with my wife? Now,

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Speaker 14: is it cool to break them up?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Boy? When got that stuff done?

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Speaker 1: He got his swag on that.

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Speaker 7: See, I forewarned you all all this time about these

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Speaker 7: male friends and female friends.

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Speaker 2: I just don't you know.

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Speaker 7: He was overweight with no TV. He got some teeth

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Speaker 7: and got that weight off. You don't think he looking

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Speaker 7: at your girl a little bit different? He been looking

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Speaker 7: at it different. He just ain't have a chance. I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna tell you something like that, best friend. If a

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Speaker 7: fat man who got a raggedy mound, yeah, fix his

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Speaker 7: mouth and get in shape. The only way to flex

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Speaker 7: that is to use it. And he fit to use it,

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Speaker 7: all of.

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Speaker 2: It for evil purposes.

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Speaker 5: Evil.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's evil purposes. He find to be up to

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Speaker 2: no good?

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Speaker 12: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Who won't this.

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Speaker 1: Splashing his grill?

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Speaker 2: He what's so beautiful?

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Speaker 11: Beautiful?

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Speaker 12: Wow?

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Speaker 1: So should the husband break them up?

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Speaker 7: Then that's what I ain't got to break them up?

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Speaker 7: And see, I would have never allowed I don't allow it,

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Speaker 7: So I'm not having that man you.

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Speaker 9: Like?

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, all right.

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Speaker 14: Last one finds in Philly. I borrowed a suit from

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Speaker 14: a friend to impress a lady on a first date.

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Speaker 14: My friend knows a lady too, and after our date,

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Speaker 14: he told her that I wore his suit. I was embarrassed,

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Speaker 14: but luckily she didn't care. My friend said it was

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Speaker 14: a joke. Was he joking or was he hating?

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Speaker 2: So uncool to do that? So uncool to do that, man,

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Speaker 2: you don't shade your boy like that.

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Speaker 7: He borrowed his suit. Then you told, yeah, he wore

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Speaker 7: my suit. Okay, man, So what you in her face

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Speaker 7: for telling her that? Why are you trying to get

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Speaker 7: her to know that that was your suit? If I

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Speaker 7: was you, my man, I checked the friendship meet on

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Speaker 7: this boy right here. Yep, I would check the friendship

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Speaker 7: because man, hey man, you don't do that to your dudes.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna give you an example, like when I'm clearing

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Speaker 7: my claws out. You know, I give away clothes, right

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Speaker 7: and I start with the people who work around me closer,

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Speaker 7: and some of the guys on my size can wear

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Speaker 7: my clothes. So I have a giveaway and I let

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Speaker 7: him have it. I will see them in it with

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Speaker 7: a wife or their girlfriend. I'll see am in it.

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Speaker 7: I never mentioned it, right.

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Speaker 18: You have class, You're all right, It's crazy, all right,

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Speaker 18: Thank you, sir, coming up next Pasta Khan and Shannie Henderson.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, welcome back to the ride. As promised, we

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Speaker 2: got a couple of special guests.

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Speaker 7: I can't even tell you what this dude means to me,

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Speaker 7: Man when I first met him, Man, I was able

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Speaker 7: to tell him how much he meant to me and

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Speaker 7: so many brothers in the culture. Man, because we catch

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Speaker 7: him on on Instagram, on YouTube, on all these clips

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Speaker 7: and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Just words of inspiration, Man, just for brothers like myself,

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Speaker 2: that just just me AND's men. You know we need

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Speaker 2: cats like this in the ministry.

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Speaker 7: Well, he's here today and he's got his wife with

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Speaker 7: him and they are special guest this morning. She's the

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Speaker 7: first Lady of Lighthouse Church and Ministries. She's a philanthropist,

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Speaker 7: she's an executive producer. He is a senior pastor of

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Speaker 7: Lighthouse Church and Ministries and a best selling author.

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Speaker 2: They joining us today. They're gonna talk about.

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Speaker 7: Their new tour, they own tour, and it kicks off

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Speaker 7: Friday in La. It's the It's not your typical tour

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Speaker 7: and they're here to tell us all about it. Please

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Speaker 7: welcome to the show Pastor Kean Henderson and first Lady

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Speaker 7: Shawnnie Henderson.

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Speaker 1: Hello, what's up, y'all? How y'all feeling amazing?

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Speaker 9: Amazing, so honored to be.

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Speaker 7: On This is a tour this could I'm not saying

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Speaker 7: this the first of its kind, but we've never promoted

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Speaker 7: one like this on this show, and at twenty some

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Speaker 7: years we've been on the ass, so this is deep

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Speaker 7: for us. It's called the Notch Your Typical Tour. It

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Speaker 7: launches this Friday.

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Speaker 2: First stop is out at LA and the tour is

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Speaker 2: summarized as faith that meets culture where it is, and

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Speaker 2: its aim is to take faith out of traditional boxes

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Speaker 2: and bring it into real life. So what was the

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Speaker 2: inspiration for this tour of y'all?

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Speaker 10: One day I was sharing with her what my heart

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Speaker 10: was trying to represent religion in a way where folks

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Speaker 10: of different generations would accept it, and she had her

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Speaker 10: own experience with it and her own response to it.

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Speaker 10: So she came over this idea.

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Speaker 15: So, Baby, gonna tell him what you told me.

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Speaker 19: I always say that church folks do a great job

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Speaker 19: at talking.

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Speaker 11: To other church folks, right, But I don't know that.

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Speaker 19: Church folks do a great job at talking to the

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Speaker 19: or those of us who have stepped.

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Speaker 9: Out for a little while for many different reasons.

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Speaker 19: And our goal is to be disciples and go out

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Speaker 19: there and reach the people that aren't unreached. So that

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Speaker 19: circle that almost a hamster will of church folks continuing

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Speaker 19: to talk to church folks they.

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Speaker 9: Got it or should have it, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 9: or just be sharpening their tools. What about all the

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Speaker 9: other folks they feel like coming inside the church walls

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Speaker 9: is judgmental or you know, you got all the protocols

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Speaker 9: and the rules, so to speak, But creating an environment

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Speaker 9: for people who love God, want a relationship with God,

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Speaker 9: want to be able to worship and come together with

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Speaker 9: folks that aren't looking at them for what they have

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Speaker 9: on or if they're able to recite the Bible scripture

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Speaker 9: when the pastor says and then blah blah blah it

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Speaker 9: says blah blah, they're not able to say it, you know,

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Speaker 9: like where's the for those folks?

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Speaker 17: So not your typical is just a space.

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Speaker 9: Where the church and the unchurched can meet in the

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Speaker 9: middle and everybody feel comfortable and everybody feel welcome, and

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Speaker 9: there's no levels to it. You know, everybody fits in,

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Speaker 9: and everybody's gonna come one way and leave different. And

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Speaker 9: I'm hoping and praying that they have their own experience

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Speaker 9: with God in that moment that can transform lives in general, just.

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Speaker 10: In the long run.

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Speaker 12: But that's the goal of not your typical Wow.

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Speaker 7: Okay, now, okay, I'm listening to you, Shanni. Now the

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Speaker 7: not so typical tool. I'll tell you what else is

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Speaker 7: not so typical about it is free. It's free public.

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Speaker 7: That's not so typical. That's gangster because I ain't never

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Speaker 7: heard it. So what I'm now trying to get. Okay,

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Speaker 7: so you open it up to the public is free

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Speaker 7: key And I've heard what Shani said. What's the takeaway

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Speaker 7: that you want people to have one state get inside.

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Speaker 10: Well, that's partly the reason why we made it free,

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Speaker 10: because we'd be lying if we didn't say we didn't

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Speaker 10: pay attention to social media and what the climate in.

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Speaker 11: The world is.

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Speaker 10: And there is this crazy notion that everybody who's involved

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Speaker 10: with ministry is trying to swindle people and take advantage

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Speaker 10: of them and you know, live on the backs of

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Speaker 10: the less fortunate so that they can be singularly astute.

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Speaker 10: And my wife, and I was like, you know that

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Speaker 10: ain't true, and were about to try our best, you know,

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Speaker 10: with all the corner and prove that. For us, it's

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Speaker 10: about the mission and it ain't about the money, and

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Speaker 10: so we gonna take the risk. I mean, don't nobody

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Speaker 10: do nothing starting in the negative. Obviously, we believe in

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Speaker 10: God that when it's all over, will will be you know,

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Speaker 10: at a break even point in some folks to come

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Speaker 10: around and you know, see what their contribution could be

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Speaker 10: to it. But we didn't start it for that, and

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Speaker 10: we didn't start it from that, And so that's the takeaway.

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Speaker 10: Number one is like, you know, it's some people out

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Speaker 10: here really really trying to do this thing for the

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Speaker 10: right reason. And you can't group everybody in to one group.

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Speaker 10: If you can't say all comedians are funny, that's a lot.

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Speaker 11: You can't put everybody in the same group.

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Speaker 10: So you know, that's our first takeaway.

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Speaker 11: The second thing is.

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Speaker 12: We're really trying.

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Speaker 10: My primary goal is to help people to form a

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Speaker 10: relationship with God that isn't based on emotional reinforcement. Like

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Speaker 10: I want people to know that there are people in

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Speaker 10: the Bible who had a straight up bona fide real

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Speaker 10: relationship with God, and they encountered him in places outside

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Speaker 10: of a typical church. Certain and we believe that wherever

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Speaker 10: we go, He's going to meet us, so we can

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Speaker 10: help people to transform their lives and develop a strong

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Speaker 10: relationship with Him.

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Speaker 2: Man, Hey, listen, let's take a break.

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Speaker 7: When we come back, I want to ask you all

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Speaker 7: a couple of things, because you made a statement about

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Speaker 7: social media and the views that people have on religions.

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Speaker 2: So we'll get into that when we come back.

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Speaker 7: We'll be back with more when Keon and Shannie Henderson

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Speaker 7: right after this Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Hey, welcome back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Special

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Speaker 7: guest this morning, Kean and Shannie Henderson out at.

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Speaker 1: The Lighthouse Church and Ministry.

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Speaker 2: Shannie.

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Speaker 7: Shannie just said in her intro the people who grew

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Speaker 7: up in the church and for some reason slid away

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Speaker 7: and it's coming back.

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Speaker 2: I can get cussed down in front of the pastor.

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Speaker 12: If the thing and comedy come out.

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Speaker 11: We're in trouble.

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Speaker 2: Hey man, let me ask you something. What was y'all's

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Speaker 2: opinion of the Drewski skit.

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Speaker 10: My opinion was, you know, initially I didn't watch it

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Speaker 10: because you know, I knew what it was, what it

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Speaker 10: was alluding to, and you know, I didn't want it

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Speaker 10: in my in my space, in my head space because

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Speaker 10: I'm a defender of the faith. I believe, like, yeah,

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Speaker 10: we got some pastors that you know, make mistakes. Hell,

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Speaker 10: I'm one of them. We all make mistakes, you know,

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Speaker 10: we we we're not We're not perfect. But I'm like

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Speaker 10: the same thing with police officers, the same thing with comedians,

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Speaker 10: the same things with actors. We have a guild, there's

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Speaker 10: a fraternity, and so I don't want to see anybody

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Speaker 10: go through anything, uh that that's terrible. So My first

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Speaker 10: reaction was not to watch it, so that way, I

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Speaker 10: didn't let it in my head space. But then, you know,

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Speaker 10: you used to come to the pressure, and I watched it,

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Speaker 10: and quite frankly, I knew exactly what he was talking about.

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Speaker 10: He didn't he didn't create anything that didn't exist. You know,

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Speaker 10: he he traced an art form that that really does exist.

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Speaker 10: And it is unfortunate that those of us who represent

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Speaker 10: God in some spaces and this doesn't just current throughout history,

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Speaker 10: have given him laws for the fire. But the truth is,

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Speaker 10: it's just like everything. Yeah, it's a bad apple in

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Speaker 10: every bunch, but all of us an't like that. A

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Speaker 10: majority of a are not like that, and so you

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Speaker 10: can't you can't see that and say that's what all

741
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Speaker 10: of them do. That's not what all of us do.

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Speaker 10: And so you know, my initial thought was don't watch it.

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Speaker 10: To come to the pressus smiled a couple of times,

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Speaker 10: but you know, I just I just hate that, over

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Speaker 10: the history of the world and organized religion, that we

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Speaker 10: have given him the spots for that flame. And you know,

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Speaker 10: we're just trying to that's what we can on our

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Speaker 10: end of the spectrum, in our portune of the vineyard

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Speaker 10: is to throw a wire on that fire and know that, Yeah,

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Speaker 10: we'll be wrapped in it. We'll be judged from what

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Speaker 10: people don't understand. But I'm never I'm never dissuaded by

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Speaker 10: people looking through binoculars. I'm only dissuaded aby those who

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Speaker 10: can look me up close. And if you get close

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Speaker 10: enough to us and you come away with that idea,

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Speaker 10: then we've got some changes to do. But if you

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Speaker 10: get close to us and you see that we're not

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Speaker 10: you know, we're not monolithic, and you can see the difference,

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Speaker 10: and I'm pleased with that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, hey man, listen, Uh, we were gonna have two breaks,

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Speaker 7: but we're gonna We're gonna keep you all again. I

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Speaker 7: got a couple of questions for you about the tour

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Speaker 7: coming back up, and we'll be back with more of

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Speaker 7: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Steve Harvey Morning Show. Everybody, welcome back to the ride.

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Speaker 12: Well.

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Speaker 7: Special guest this morning is Kean and Shawnnie Henderson, who

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Speaker 7: are uh the pastor and the first lady after Church

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Speaker 7: in Light House Church, Lighthouse Church and Ministry. I got

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Speaker 7: the paperback.

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Speaker 4: What happened?

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Speaker 7: Because I knew Tom was gonna say something, so I

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Speaker 7: hear him trying to stroll to him, right Pastor and

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Speaker 7: the first Lady of Lighthouse Church and Ministry. Hey, Shaannie,

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Speaker 7: I wanted to ask a question because you know, you've

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Speaker 7: been in the spotlight for some time now, yes, now

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Speaker 7: being married to a man of faith. What's been the

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Speaker 7: experience for you?

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Speaker 10: Wow?

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Speaker 9: One thing about being married to Kion specifically is that

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Speaker 9: he honestly makes me want to be a.

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Speaker 17: Better person every day.

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Speaker 9: I know, you know this Steve Like he is just

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Speaker 9: genuinely and consistently a good human being.

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Speaker 10: Like all day every day.

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Speaker 9: He's just a good human being, and he inspires me

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Speaker 9: to just do better, be better, uh you know, make

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Speaker 9: better decisions, just be a better human and an example.

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Speaker 17: Now he's a much better person than I am, because

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Speaker 17: I assu you know. I sometimes will go to him

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Speaker 17: and just be like, you know, we need to say

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Speaker 17: something and so and so, you know, and he'll just

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Speaker 17: be like, you know, so it's okay, just go a

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Speaker 17: little great sho a little more. So again, he just

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Speaker 17: inspires me to be a better person.

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Speaker 9: My experience, though, as this first Lady is.

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Speaker 17: It's interesting because I.

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Speaker 9: Think it came at the right time in my life

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Speaker 9: to where I'm mature enough to be able to adapt,

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Speaker 9: but not adapt to people's expectations.

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Speaker 17: So I'm able to take on this role without completely

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Speaker 17: changing my identity and losing myself.

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Speaker 9: I take on being a first lady my way, and

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Speaker 9: I believe that.

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Speaker 10: I respect the space.

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Speaker 17: I support my husband.

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Speaker 12: I have his front back and size.

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Speaker 9: I'm going to represent him the best that I possibly

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Speaker 9: can at all times. But I'm still remaining me and

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Speaker 9: bringing my who I am to this space, if that

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Speaker 9: makes sense right.

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Speaker 2: We've all seen everybody's growth in this whole process.

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Speaker 7: You know, you know this, ain't you know? Running across

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Speaker 7: the table throwing drinks? But that was never you anyway,

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Speaker 7: that was you always kept yourself away from that. The

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Speaker 7: other ones would run across the table throw a drink,

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Speaker 7: which is always interesting to me, throw a drink in

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Speaker 7: my face. We're not fit to be on TV next Friday,

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Speaker 7: not your typical Listen, hey listen. So this tour, this

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Speaker 7: tour that's gonna kick off this Friday in Los Angeles,

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Speaker 7: and it's called the Not Your Typical Tour. Hey, Kean,

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Speaker 7: howk can people find out where all the cities are

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Speaker 7: to this tour? Is there a website or something?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you can go to not your Typical dot org.

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Speaker 10: That's the website. You can also go to my wife's page.

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Speaker 10: I am Shawnee on my page at pastor Teon. So

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Speaker 10: we'll be posting right now. We're in doing La next

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Speaker 10: week February of sixth. We will next month, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 10: next month of February the sixth, we will be in Nashville, Tennessee.

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Speaker 10: So those are the two cities that we've announced, and

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Speaker 10: as the key rolling, we'll just keep announcing them. Houston

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Speaker 10: is in there, Chicago's in there, New York is in there,

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Speaker 10: Charlotte is in there. Baby, Im'm missing anybody.

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Speaker 2: Hey, look y'all. Go to not your Typical tour dot org.

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Speaker 2: Go there.

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Speaker 7: You can go to Kean's website or Shawne's either one,

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Speaker 7: and you can get all the ticket information. We're gonna

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Speaker 7: post it on our page so people who are listening

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Speaker 7: can know where you are.

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Speaker 2: I think it's something, man, I think it's great.

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Speaker 7: And then it's really no typical because it's absolutely free

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Speaker 7: together and maybe you could learn something in there for

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Speaker 7: yourself Kean and Shaannie. We appreciate you all this morning.

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Speaker 9: Thank you for having us.

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Speaker 7: Thanks, thank y'all for sure. All right, thank y'all. Steve

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Speaker 7: Harby Morning Show. We'll be back right after this.

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Speaker 14: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up

848
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Speaker 14: at about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry

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Speaker 14: letter for today and the subject is I want him

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Speaker 14: to talk to me. M Okay, we'll get into that

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Speaker 14: fund out what that's all about. Right now, it is

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Speaker 14: time for the nephew and today's phone call.

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Speaker 1: Nephew, what you have for us? Gotta feeling, y'all, y'all

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Speaker 1: gotta being stupid?

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Speaker 19: Is the bi.

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Speaker 3: What's your pledging?

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Speaker 4: Stupid?

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Speaker 10: He did.

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Speaker 2: This shoe?

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Speaker 6: Stupid?

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Speaker 15: What is going on?

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Speaker 8: Yes, I'm starting a new fraternity stupid pipe? So yes,

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Speaker 8: this right here, get ready to get ready. This right

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Speaker 8: here is called my Auntie's bike. My Auntie's bike, got

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Speaker 8: rub I gotta I'm gonna wait, I'm gonna wait. I'm

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Speaker 8: gona wait till later. I'll ask him later. I ain't

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Speaker 8: gonna hurt this feelings right now. Oh okay, see, don't

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Speaker 8: don't worry about it. Okay, take a jene take a

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Speaker 8: side five.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. We'll talk about Steven A. Smith later.

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Speaker 1: That's right, my boy?

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Speaker 11: That cut? Wow?

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Speaker 2: What is y'all gonna do with him?

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Speaker 10: All right?

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Speaker 2: Dog, let's go my aunt bike?

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Speaker 12: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach bond. Hey man, just

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Speaker 12: this this K dub Man. Listen. Do you know somebody

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Speaker 12: to live on? Yeah?

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Speaker 15: My mama, my mama, stay on?

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Speaker 7: Who is this?

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Speaker 11: Hey?

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Speaker 12: This this K dub Man. My auntie, Miss Tinsley, she

883
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 12: live on now. My auntie, say you came over here

884
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 12: and stole a bicycle and some other stuff out of

885
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 12: her garage? Told all, first of all, who is you?

886
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:43,360
Speaker 15: Man? I stole a bike somebody garage?

887
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 8: Who is this?

888
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 12: Who is Kate?

889
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 16: I don't know K do this?

890
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 12: This is Kate dub Man. My auntie, Miss Tinsley, lived

891
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 12: down the street from your mama and my auntie. Just

892
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 12: you the one came over here and took a bike

893
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,320
Speaker 12: and a toolbox or somebody that garage?

894
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 11: Man?

895
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 15: First of all, I don't even know, no chance. And

896
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 15: second right, I don't steal your your aunt team, Miss Tenseley,

897
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 15: say I stole somebody other row put the put on

898
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 15: the phone, man, put your amy on the phone. I

899
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 15: ain't stolen nothing from nowhere.

900
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 12: I ain't got she can't talk. My anti can't talk

901
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 12: to you.

902
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 15: Why she can't talk? She said, I stole something.

903
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 12: No, my ain't my auntie death. She signed languaged me and.

904
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 15: Told me that you once stole stole the bike your

905
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 15: auntie death. And she told you she signed languaged you

906
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,760
Speaker 15: and said I stole the bike. On wait just a minute,

907
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:27,760
Speaker 15: how you get my number?

908
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 12: Hold on sign language and me not hold on? Okay,

909
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 12: she says, quit all that line. You know, well you're

910
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 12: the one that stole the bike. He may hold it up.

911
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 15: So your auntie is cutting me out through you in

912
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 15: side language that you're telling me that I have stole

913
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 15: the bike. Say man, first of all, hell you even

914
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 15: get my number?

915
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 11: Man?

916
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 12: I got the number that live do the street? That

917
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 12: ain't your mama? Miss yeah, miss my mama. Okay, okay,

918
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 12: Well look man, the people down the street are but

919
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 12: then the new your number. I told them I needed

920
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 12: to talk to.

921
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:01,879
Speaker 11: You soon that I ain't.

922
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 12: He told me that that you was the one that

923
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 12: stole the bike out the garage. Now look, I ain't

924
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 12: trying to tell you.

925
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 16: Can you can all right?

926
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 15: Can you silent back to your ain't it yeah?

927
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 12: I can sign was back to her, tell.

928
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 15: Her that I said that I ain't stole no bike.

929
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 12: How about this?

930
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 15: Tell you ain't I ain't stolen no right now?

931
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 12: Man, hold on, grown man, I'm trying to tell her

932
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,919
Speaker 12: right now. Wait a minute. Okay, hold on. She's saying something.

933
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 12: She said, you're black, just lying and you know well

934
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 12: you got this.

935
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 15: May look here, man, you your death painted that street

936
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 15: with nobody on this street except for my mama. I'm

937
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 15: a grown man. I gotta seal a bike for your death.

938
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 15: She must be dumb too, She's death had doug. She's like,

939
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:48,959
Speaker 15: I stole something?

940
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 11: Ye do?

941
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 15: I mean, I don't even know, y'all are you?

942
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,399
Speaker 12: Ain't he ain't deaf and dumb, dude, Okay, I ain't.

943
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 12: He don't never lie. And if miss Tingley saying that

944
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 12: that that somebody took something, that dog, she can in

945
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 12: the truth. I ain't even gonna be lying. And just

946
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 12: to be lying. Watch you just gonna lie on you

947
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 12: Why you're gonna get you out?

948
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 18: Man?

949
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 11: You know what.

950
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 15: I don't know what's going on, but I ain't got

951
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 15: no reason to steal no bike. Now, I got a

952
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 15: car that ain't paid for I got. I'm a gone man.

953
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:15,800
Speaker 15: I'm trying to get cussed it in my son, So

954
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,479
Speaker 15: I'm gonna come into somebody garage instead of Mike.

955
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 17: Is you pray it?

956
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 15: You crazy? Is mank get out my line with that?

957
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 12: Hold on? Hold on, hold on, I ain't a talking

958
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 12: what she's saying. Wait a minute, man, I trying to

959
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 12: see what she was saying. You say that black No,

960
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,359
Speaker 12: well he took that bike and he better bring that bike.

961
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 15: Looking man, I don't know what you still on my line? Man,

962
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 15: I ain't took no bike. Themth ain't his line. Its

963
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 15: even SI.

964
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 12: Hey dog, you needna tell you something. You're gonna respect Miami.

965
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 15: Say man, you're gonna respect me?

966
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 12: You call my phone with him?

967
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 15: I mean you're trying to get my together. You call

968
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 15: me some who gonna aren't you?

969
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 12: What are you?

970
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 15: I don't know this is I don't know.

971
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 12: I'm gonnau man. I'm K Dub. Everybody know kay Dub.

972
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 15: I ain't never heard of no K dub in my life.

973
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 15: My mama been saying on for fifteen years. I ain't

974
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 15: never heard no K Doug. I heard no Miss Tinsley.

975
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 15: I ain't hear everybody, no death, lady, I ain't seen

976
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,240
Speaker 15: no white Get the off my line.

977
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 12: Man, ain't man see said you're gonna make me go

978
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 12: down and steal something out of miss house if you

979
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 12: don't bring that bike back?

980
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 15: Got me bring somebody come my mama if you want

981
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 15: to tell them on my way over there, find somebody

982
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 15: come on my my house for my family is gonna

983
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 15: be over for you.

984
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 12: That just dumb.

985
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 15: Ain't you got whoever down there gave you my number?

986
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 12: Everybody you got me?

987
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 15: Wenna go this cop, I'm that street up. You come

988
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 15: by my mama house. You better not stepping my mama playing.

989
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 15: You come by my mama playing some of them you want?

990
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 15: You got me stuff? You're gonna turn me to the

991
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 15: doork side. Come on my way right now. I don't

992
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 15: know we sit on the phone.

993
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 12: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute. What

994
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 12: you saying, ain't I ain't Sayin't nobody scared of your.

995
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 15: Oh cray say tell yo death. I ain't need to

996
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 15: bring up outside and I'll bless you. She hit him,

997
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 15: I'm gonna be putting on your yo. I'll be so

998
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 15: she gonna be undeath today. I best she get cured

999
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 15: when you see me whooping yo.

1000
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 12: Man, Literally, I ain't coming by myself. Only Tommy gonna

1001
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 12: be there with me. Tommy gonna help me. Whoop ya.

1002
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 12: It's time to tell me Tommy man, nephew, Tommy from

1003
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 12: the Steel Harby Morning Show, you just got pranked by

1004
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:29,959
Speaker 12: your mama, Miss beerau.

1005
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 15: Ah, that said, great tall man my mama. No, I

1006
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 15: don't like nobody with him.

1007
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 12: Man, guys, your mama mama say, my son loved me

1008
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 12: to death. He don't let nothing you take care of me.

1009
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 12: He don't let nothing go wrong with me. I don't

1010
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 12: let nobody mess with me. He said. All you got

1011
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 12: to do that like you're gonna do something to his mama.

1012
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 15: Oh man, well, I don't share. I don't see me

1013
00:53:56,880 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 15: because like I be Man's God, I'm in the mirror. Sweet,

1014
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 15: I'm mad for real, y'all.

1015
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 11: Did this so? Man?

1016
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,319
Speaker 15: I swear to God that wasn't myself. Oh yeah, you man,

1017
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,720
Speaker 15: tell my mama she's wrong for that to dude.

1018
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 11: What up?

1019
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 12: Nephew, U baby, you do it. You have to change, boy,

1020
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 12: You have to change you, just like me. For you

1021
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 12: know your mama. I ain't mad at hey, I gotta

1022
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 12: ask you man, one more thing. What is the baddest

1023
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 12: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. Man,

1024
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 12: without a doubt. Man, it's the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1025
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 12: Man will be a few timing man without doubt. Hey, man,

1026
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 12: tell miss beerro I said, hey, al right.

1027
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 11: I go.

1028
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 15: I'm a little two hundred dollars she wanted. She want

1029
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 15: to play games though, you know no on now.

1030
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 8: Catch that nephew, straight ignorant, straight stupid. You know how

1031
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:53,360
Speaker 8: I do, and I will be doing it, Yes, you do.

1032
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 8: I will be doing it. Valentine's weekend, all weekend long

1033
00:54:56,680 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 8: Levity Live. Baby, It's called Nayak Naiack New York. Tickets

1034
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 8: are on sale right now. The Nephew is coming to

1035
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 8: town Levity Live thirteen fourteen, fifteen one on the thirteenth,

1036
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 8: Who on the fourteenth?

1037
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 2: Who on the fifteenth? The Nephew come in to town?

1038
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 1: Be off on the sixteenth.

1039
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 2: Y'all know how you get down?

1040
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 12: You know how?

1041
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 2: Okay, God.

1042
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 1: Get to say he's gonna be hey, he can say it.

1043
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 2: Hey, you just suck Hey, I mean put is that

1044
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 2: just like I'm putting it in.

1045
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 1: It's like I'm putting in my notice, all right, thank you,

1046
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: thank you.

1047
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:37,399
Speaker 14: Coming up next, it is the Strawberry Letter for today

1048
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 14: and the subject is I want him to talk to me.

1049
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this.

1050
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 4: Hey, it's Carla Farrell. Kick that old mopping bucket aside?

1051
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 4: Are you ready for a moping bucket?

1052
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:49,759
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1053
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1054
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1055
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1056
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1057
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1058
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1059
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 14: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is

1060
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 14: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

1061
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 14: advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit

1062
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 14: your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVEYFM dot com and click submit

1063
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 14: Strawberry Letter.

1064
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 1: We could be reading your.

1065
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 14: Letter live on the air, just like we're going to

1066
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 14: read this one right here, right now, and you never know,

1067
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 14: it could be yours.

1068
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 2: It could be yours. Bugle up and hold on time.

1069
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Speaker 2: We got it.

1070
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 19: For you.

1071
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 2: Here it is strawberry lot of.

1072
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject. I want him to talk to me,

1073
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley.

1074
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 14: I've been with my boyfriend for twelve years and we

1075
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 14: live together and we've been living like a married couple.

1076
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 14: We have two children, ages ten and nine. We argue

1077
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 14: a lot, and mostly over our parenting styles. He was

1078
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 14: raised by a single mother and I was raised by

1079
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:12,640
Speaker 14: my grandmother who was very strict. He does not discipline

1080
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:15,400
Speaker 14: the kids, so when I do it, the kids end

1081
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 14: up hating me, and he gets pleasure from that. He

1082
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 14: makes the majority of the money, and I have to

1083
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:22,959
Speaker 14: ask him for money by the end of the month,

1084
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 14: and he also gets pleasure from that, and that's his

1085
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 14: little way of controlling me. For the past months, he

1086
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 14: hasn't talked to me. I cook dinner and he eats

1087
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 14: in silence unless he's talking to the kids. We have

1088
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 14: movie night and he asks the kids what they want

1089
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 14: to watch, but he never asked me. He will answer

1090
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 14: me if I address him, but he does not ever

1091
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 14: initiate conversation with me. I don't remember why he got

1092
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 14: mad at me in the first place, because he's a

1093
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 14: master at holding grudges for a long time. He can

1094
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 14: turn the passion on for sex, and then he rolls

1095
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 14: over and goes back to ignoring me. Brother called me

1096
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 14: his wife the other day, and my man quickly told

1097
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 14: him that we're not married. My daughter heard it, and

1098
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 14: later that day she told me that she hates it

1099
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 14: when her dad says ugly things about me. I had

1100
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 14: no idea he talked about me to the kids. She

1101
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 14: said I should leave him and she and her brother

1102
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 14: will stay and take care of him. I bet he

1103
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 14: put that idea in her head. He's turning the kids

1104
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 14: against me. I wish he would talk to me so

1105
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 14: we can figure this out. How can I get him

1106
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 14: to communicate? Well, it's kind of late for all of that,

1107
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 14: right now. You don't have two children. You mentioned you

1108
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 14: had two dren You have three children. That man is

1109
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 14: the third child, and you've been there, the recipient of

1110
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 14: his bad behavior for twelve long years.

1111
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:48,439
Speaker 1: Now, twelve long years.

1112
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 14: It's time for you to take a stand, some kind

1113
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 14: of way for yourself, you know, reevaluate this whole situation,

1114
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 14: because it's not getting any better, it's getting worse. You've

1115
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 14: allowed him to treat you this way because he makes

1116
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 14: the money and then he rations it out to you. Yeah,

1117
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 14: that's his way of control. He pits the kids against

1118
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 14: you too, but even they see the horrible way he

1119
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:14,439
Speaker 14: treats you and wants you to leave. So it's time

1120
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 14: for you to realize that you need to stop worrying

1121
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,440
Speaker 14: about him and now worry about yourself.

1122
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: What are you going to do about you and your future?

1123
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 18: You take care of everyone, But you said this man

1124
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 18: will eat what you cook, have sex, and then roll

1125
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 18: over and not.

1126
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 14: Even talk to you. That's mean he's not concerned about you.

1127
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 14: He doesn't even like you. At this point, you need

1128
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 14: to start putting yourself first. That means you got to

1129
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 14: stop cooking, no sex, no nothing until he sits down

1130
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 14: like an adult and talks to you. Then let him

1131
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 14: know how you really feel and stop letting him use you.

1132
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 14: Stop letting the kids see him do this to you

1133
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 14: as well. And you need to get a plan together

1134
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 14: because it looks like this is over and you're somebody's

1135
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 14: gonna have to leave.

1136
00:59:56,160 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 7: Steve great response. Only let me tell you something. This

1137
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 7: is a completely unhealthy relationship. There's nothing in here of

1138
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 7: redeeming quality for you, the woman.

1139
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:18,480
Speaker 2: After all you've done. And do see you hear the

1140
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 2: saying you can't change horses in the middle of the stream.

1141
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, ladies. You have to in

1142
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 2: act your rights.

1143
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 3: You have to in act.

1144
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 7: You have to play your trump card. You have amazing power.

1145
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 7: But once you relinquish that power and don't use it,

1146
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 7: and we see that you're not using your power, then

1147
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 7: we run rough shod all over you. And this is

1148
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 7: what he's doing to this woman. He's running rough shod

1149
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:56,600
Speaker 7: all over this woman, and it's giving her no no

1150
01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 7: good in return. And it's crazy. You been with your

1151
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 7: boyfriend for twelve years.

1152
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 2: Why see, you.

1153
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 7: Got two kids ten and nine, two kids. You ain't

1154
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:15,479
Speaker 7: see marriage in here nowhere. Before we got to ten

1155
01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 7: and nine, you didn't call in your your requests to

1156
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 7: be the wife. We argue a lot, and it's over

1157
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 7: your parent and skills because he was raised by a

1158
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 7: single mother and you was raised by your grandmother who

1159
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 7: was very strict.

1160
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 2: And then when you do discipline the kids, they hate it,

1161
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 2: and he relishes in that.

1162
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 7: And then you say, he makes the majority of the

1163
01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 7: money and you got to ask him for money at

1164
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 7: the end of the month. And he also gets pleasure

1165
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:52,520
Speaker 7: from that that's his little way of controlling me. No, no, no,

1166
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 7: that's not the little way. That's the way he controls you.

1167
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 7: That's his little way. No, he's turning the kids. See,

1168
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 7: first of all, when you get a parent, that relash

1169
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 7: is in the fact that the kids hate the other

1170
01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 7: person's discipline and he try to play the good guy role.

1171
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 7: That in divorce is in the voice and the alimonic

1172
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 7: cases and the child support cases. There's a term for that.

1173
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 7: It's called the Disney dad. They call it the Disney

1174
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 7: dad because when let's say a man goes over there

1175
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 7: and he picks up the kid, he gives them everything

1176
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 7: they want, prize and shoes, everything. So when you come

1177
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 7: see him as all about everything. But then when you

1178
01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:37,960
Speaker 7: take them back home, then the mother has to do

1179
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 7: the work. To do your homework, do your chores, do

1180
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 7: like I say, finish this issue our punishments. But when

1181
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 7: you go over dad's house, it's all roller coasters and

1182
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 7: happy time. It's called the Disney dad. That usually happens

1183
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 7: in divorce and child custody cases with alimony.

1184
01:02:56,080 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 2: This is happening in your marriage. That's crazy.

1185
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 14: Hang on, Steve, we'll have part two, whol of your

1186
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:07,439
Speaker 14: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

1187
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 14: Today's Strawberry letter subject I want him to talk to me.

1188
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 14: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1189
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:22,800
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1190
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,640
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1191
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:29,439
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1192
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:31,880
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1193
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:35,640
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1194
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:39,840
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1195
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:43,439
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1196
01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:45,120
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1197
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:46,480
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1198
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:49,160
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1199
01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:52,439
Speaker 14: All right, come on, Steve. Let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

1200
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 14: The subject is I want him to talk to me.

1201
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, well, him talking to you at I think y'all

1202
01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 7: might be a little bit past that because I'm not

1203
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:06,920
Speaker 7: understanding what you're talking about. You've been with this man

1204
01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:10,840
Speaker 7: twelve years. Hit your boyfriend, y'all not married, you got

1205
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:15,440
Speaker 7: two kids ten and twelve. You argue a lot because

1206
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 7: of your parenting styles. You were raised by your grandmother.

1207
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 7: He was born raised by single parents. He don't have

1208
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 7: no discipline you do. When you discipline the kids, they

1209
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 7: hate it, and then they go to him and he

1210
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 7: relishes in that moment that you hate that. He relishes

1211
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 7: in the moment that the kids hate you for doing that.

1212
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 7: He's being a Disney dad in the house. Like I

1213
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 7: explained earlier, that's usually an alimony and child support cases.

1214
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 7: When the man goes over to get cuseity for the

1215
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 7: kid for the weeknd on the two days and they

1216
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 7: take them back and they get cotton can they get

1217
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 7: eat all the cookies and ice cream and sneakers and

1218
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 7: trip to the mall and movies. Then when you go home,

1219
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 7: it's all work. He ain't putting no work in the

1220
01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 7: raising the kids. But now he won't give them there

1221
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 7: with that's a di Disney dad. But this Disney dad

1222
01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 7: is in your house and that's trouble. And then at

1223
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 7: the end of he makes the majority of money. At

1224
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 7: the end of the month, you need to ask him

1225
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:11,800
Speaker 7: for money. He relatives in that too, and you say

1226
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 7: he gets pleasure by that, and that's his little way.

1227
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 2: Of controlling it. Well, ma'am, he's controlling you in more ways.

1228
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 7: Than that, because this dude, man, you are in an

1229
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 7: unhealthy relationship. Then let's finish out the rest of it.

1230
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 7: I cook dinner, He eat in silence. What you live

1231
01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 7: in a house with a person that don't talk to you?

1232
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 7: How long this has been going on?

1233
01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 2: And says?

1234
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 7: And then unless he's talking to the kids, we got

1235
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 7: movie night. He asks the kids what they want to watch,

1236
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 7: but he don't ask me what I want to watch.

1237
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 7: Wait a minute, man, so he can just do you

1238
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,440
Speaker 7: any way he wants to, and there's no consequences.

1239
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 1: You mean you have to cook.

1240
01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 2: He get to eat and don't talk to you while

1241
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:01,360
Speaker 2: he eating.

1242
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 7: He'll answer me if I address him, but he doesn't

1243
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 7: ever initiate conversation with me. I don't remember why he

1244
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:12,200
Speaker 7: got mad at me in the first place, because he's

1245
01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:13,160
Speaker 7: a master at.

1246
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 2: Holding grudges for a long time. Man, You just.

1247
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 7: Can I tell you something. These ain't real man traits.

1248
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 7: Most men want peace in their house. Most men try

1249
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:30,600
Speaker 7: to be accommodating to their girl. He ain't trying to

1250
01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 7: do nothing with.

1251
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:35,120
Speaker 2: You, but he can turn on the passion for sex,

1252
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 2: and then he rolls over and go right back to

1253
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 2: knowing me. Why you still having sex with him? What

1254
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:41,479
Speaker 2: is that about?

1255
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 7: Well, you can't do that to her, fluud, those of

1256
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 7: us men just's listening. Try that in real life and

1257
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 7: see how that worked for you.

1258
01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 11: Man.

1259
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 2: Shut up, I'm sleeping.

1260
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,800
Speaker 7: His brother called me his wife the other day, and

1261
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 7: my man quickly told him we ain't married, so he

1262
01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 7: ain't got no plans of marrying you. He don't like

1263
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 7: the concept of y'all saying y'all married, But he's getting

1264
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 7: the aught. Lady, what's happening here is you've allowed this

1265
01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 7: man to get all the benefits.

1266
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 2: Of the marriage and you get nuh.

1267
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:31,240
Speaker 7: He cooks for you, you have children for him, He

1268
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 7: has sex with you, and don't talk to you after that,

1269
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 7: and don't talk to you during dinner.

1270
01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1271
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 7: One of your kids, one of your kids, says that

1272
01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 7: she hates when her dad says ugly things about it.

1273
01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:52,840
Speaker 2: Who does that?

1274
01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 7: She said, I should leave him and she and her

1275
01:07:57,160 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 7: brother will stay and take care of him. I bet

1276
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 7: he put that idea in her head. How did you

1277
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:05,880
Speaker 7: miss what she said?

1278
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 2: Though?

1279
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 7: What are you talking about? He put that idea in

1280
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 7: her head, and that idea with me and him will

1281
01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 7: stay with him and take care of him. You didn't

1282
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 7: hear her say you should leave him because she don't

1283
01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 7: like when her daddy say ugly things about her mama.

1284
01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 2: You didn't hear that part all you do. What's wrong

1285
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:24,760
Speaker 2: with you?

1286
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 9: Now?

1287
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 7: You condition to accept bad behavior, and now you're sitting

1288
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 7: up in there talking about I bet they put that

1289
01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 7: in here that will stay with him and take care

1290
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:38,720
Speaker 7: of him. Lady, if you don't get out of there

1291
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:43,640
Speaker 7: and take them kids, I have nothing else for you

1292
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 7: in this letter. He's turning the kids against me. I

1293
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:50,719
Speaker 7: wish he would talk to me so we can figure

1294
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:53,880
Speaker 7: this out. How do I get him to communicate you're

1295
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 7: not He doesn't even talk to you after sex. He

1296
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 7: don't talk to you when y'all eating. He don't talk

1297
01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 7: to y'all y'all movie night.

1298
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:02,479
Speaker 2: He don't have a.

1299
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 7: Conversation with you unless you initiate it. I wish you

1300
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:08,439
Speaker 7: would talk to me so he can figure this out.

1301
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 7: Let me help you figure this part out. He don't

1302
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 7: want to figure it out. You want to talk so

1303
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:17,360
Speaker 7: y'all can figure it out. He'll want to talk to

1304
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 7: you period at all.

1305
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:27,599
Speaker 2: Ma'am, you've been beat so long by this man, you've

1306
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:28,560
Speaker 2: accepted it.

1307
01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:33,760
Speaker 7: As normalacy. You can't accept bad behavior and think this

1308
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:36,720
Speaker 7: is normal. Do you know what is what you're really

1309
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:39,640
Speaker 7: supposed to do. You really supposed to wake up and

1310
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:43,840
Speaker 7: be happy. You're really supposed to wake up with a plan.

1311
01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 7: You're really supposed to wake up in a relationship with

1312
01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:48,880
Speaker 7: somebody and y'all playing a future together. That's what y'all

1313
01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:50,560
Speaker 7: supposed to do. You're really supposed to wake up, go

1314
01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 7: to bed and love. You're supposed to wake up and

1315
01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:54,840
Speaker 7: feel warm, safe and secure. You have none of that.

1316
01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 2: Leave him and leave y'all's poor an alimony.

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Speaker 14: Bounce onto today Strawberry Letter on Instagram and Facebook at

1318
01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 14: Steve HARVFM, and check us out on the Strawberry Letter

1319
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 14: podcast on the free iHeartRadio app coming up next to

1320
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:12,839
Speaker 14: his Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening

1321
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:14,679
Speaker 14: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1322
01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 4: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside.

1323
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:24,800
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Speaker 1: Of scrubbing strips on the pads.

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Speaker 1: It is time now for junior and sports talk. Which

1332
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:52,559
Speaker 1: you got junior?

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Speaker 20: Well, first show the January thirties, Jacksonville, Florida. We're gonna

1334
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 20: be the Legits of Laughter comedy Tour. We're gonna be

1335
01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:00,640
Speaker 20: at the Moria Theater. I'm gonna do that at Go

1336
01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 20: to ticketmaster dot com to yall your tickets. All right,

1337
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 20: let's talk about the division rounds of the playoffs, all right.

1338
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 20: The Broncos beat the Bills thirty three to thirty. The

1339
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:14,719
Speaker 20: Seahawks beat the forty nine Ers forty one to six.

1340
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:18,719
Speaker 20: The Rams beat the Bears twenty seventeen.

1341
01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 1: That's all we got.

1342
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:23,200
Speaker 2: That all we got. That's it. You missing a joke.

1343
01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 2: I felt bad for Buffalo. It was only three games,

1344
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:27,760
Speaker 2: that was it.

1345
01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 1: Well, New England played, New England played.

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01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:34,920
Speaker 2: We're not talking about on this show. We're not talking

1347
01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 2: about that game. Not hearing this, man, No, we're not

1348
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:42,519
Speaker 2: talking about that over here? How are you missing this?

1349
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:46,559
Speaker 2: Miss what he didn't bring up the New England versus

1350
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 2: Texans who he was playing?

1351
01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 1: Who We're not talking about that on this show.

1352
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you didn't mention it.

1353
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 1: What game you talking about, sir?

1354
01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:05,280
Speaker 2: You the Texans Texas to the Super Bowl? Texas?

1355
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 11: That was.

1356
01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:19,519
Speaker 2: Come on playing playing hold Junior, drank it, drank it, junr.

1357
01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:29,519
Speaker 7: Yes, I told you, I told you. I told you,

1358
01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:34,800
Speaker 7: I told you playing dry play drank it, drank it.

1359
01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 7: You ain't got to talk about it.

1360
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:47,200
Speaker 2: It still happened. Texas is gone, Yes, Texas is gone.

1361
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 8: It is so hard.

1362
01:12:54,160 --> 01:13:00,719
Speaker 2: Say goodbye to win yesterday. Hatreds over the Texas.

1363
01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 3: Wow, you'll see when we get into super Bowl.

1364
01:13:06,680 --> 01:13:09,960
Speaker 2: You'll see what I do when you don't get in the.

1365
01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 1: Four.

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Speaker 7: Boy you sitting there, home boy boy, you had your

1367
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:21,439
Speaker 7: little Texas had on jersey and everything.

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01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 2: Hell now, yeah, much patient.

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01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 1: I just want to win something.

1370
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 2: I just want to win something.

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01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 7: We need to win in a new quarter. But I

1372
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 7: wonder how broken you are right now. Had you did

1373
01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:41,640
Speaker 7: like I told you too, because I'm from Cleveland, I

1374
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:43,920
Speaker 7: know how to do this. Had you did like I

1375
01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:46,280
Speaker 7: told you to in the beginning, you wouldn't be feeling

1376
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 7: this way. Playing on Out Dave.

1377
01:13:49,520 --> 01:13:51,640
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the out Union. My

1378
01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 1: wife found so hard.

1379
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:03,000
Speaker 3: Texas is no.

1380
01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 14: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is

1381
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:14,000
Speaker 14: from Nicki and Coral Gables. Nicki says, I'm forty two

1382
01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 14: and I've been married for ten years. I just met

1383
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,880
Speaker 14: my husband's son that is twenty two years old. A

1384
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:22,519
Speaker 14: few years ago, my husband mentioned that he was mentoring

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01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:25,599
Speaker 14: a young man that joined his fraternity. I found out

1386
01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:28,800
Speaker 14: on Christmas Day that he was lying. The young man

1387
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 14: showed up at her home asking to speak to his father.

1388
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:34,760
Speaker 14: My husband had to admit that he's an outside child

1389
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 14: that he had while he was married to his first wife.

1390
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:40,600
Speaker 14: I acted like, is not a big deal, but I

1391
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:43,840
Speaker 14: feel sick every time I think about it. That's a

1392
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 14: huge secret to keep from me. Can I trust this man?

1393
01:14:47,960 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 14: Can I question him to see what else he's hiding?

1394
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:54,120
Speaker 14: That's what NICKI wants to know.

1395
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:59,120
Speaker 7: Coral Gable, well, see, I don't know. That's a tough

1396
01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 7: one because I don't know why he didn't want to

1397
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:08,760
Speaker 7: mention the sun in the beginning. In the beginning, I

1398
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:14,280
Speaker 7: just don't know why he kept that information out. Maybe

1399
01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 7: it was still up for dispute. You know, maybe he

1400
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:21,519
Speaker 7: wasn't sure he.

1401
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:24,240
Speaker 2: Quite has I don't know. I don't know. But he

1402
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:26,439
Speaker 2: told you he was a mentoring a young man from

1403
01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:27,040
Speaker 2: a fraternity.

1404
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:32,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, you say some matter fraternity, don't Yeah, young man?

1405
01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 2: Young man had joined his return? Was it sec side?

1406
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:39,439
Speaker 2: I'm just.

1407
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:42,519
Speaker 3: Why sing that?

1408
01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 1: Why who said that?

1409
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:48,719
Speaker 2: He going? Because my uncle is gonna have to address

1410
01:15:48,800 --> 01:15:50,240
Speaker 2: this at some point. I'm sorry.

1411
01:15:55,680 --> 01:16:01,080
Speaker 7: It's like I'm assuming that you referred to you know what,

1412
01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:12,200
Speaker 7: he's steven A Smith figure, miss step I know it's

1413
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 7: probably a lot of bruhs listening, so I got to

1414
01:16:14,960 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 7: walk right there hill.

1415
01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:22,640
Speaker 2: Plus, I know stephen A, you would be doing me

1416
01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:24,960
Speaker 2: right now. This is on the other foot. You would

1417
01:16:24,960 --> 01:16:25,559
Speaker 2: be Dad.

1418
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,160
Speaker 1: You know, he would, you know he would.

1419
01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:39,639
Speaker 7: I've been shamed before. He's texted me twice. I haven't

1420
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:40,880
Speaker 7: returned either text.

1421
01:16:41,840 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 3: You haven't.

1422
01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 1: Gotta return to text. See that's a frat brother.

1423
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 2: No, I don't you know you don't have to do that.

1424
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:55,960
Speaker 1: He needs some guidance or something, maybe some advice.

1425
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:03,360
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, what the what the bru saying he got?

1426
01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 11: That?

1427
01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 2: Can't even repeat that. I can't even repeat this on

1428
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 2: the hand that boy man.

1429
01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:16,160
Speaker 1: They're upset. It's safe to save.

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01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 7: God.

1431
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:18,760
Speaker 10: Man.

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01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 7: Let me just say this one thing I think I

1433
01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 7: beat okay, because this is kind of a unless you're

1434
01:17:24,960 --> 01:17:27,160
Speaker 7: in there, you don't even know what I'm talking about.

1435
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:30,720
Speaker 7: But I look, the safest comment that I got from

1436
01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:36,280
Speaker 7: a bro was you can can always tell when they

1437
01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:41,920
Speaker 7: ain't been in the cut. That's That's the safest thing

1438
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 7: I can say on this show.

1439
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:46,640
Speaker 11: That that was.

1440
01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:51,560
Speaker 1: Man, So are you gonna help this?

1441
01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 11: Uh?

1442
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 1: Are you gonna take some backs? Nikki and Coral Gable?

1443
01:17:58,000 --> 01:17:58,040
Speaker 11: No?

1444
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah yeah yo Oh. Back to Nikki, what does

1445
01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 2: she want now?

1446
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 4: Tommy?

1447
01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:10,200
Speaker 14: She wanted to know can she trust her husband because

1448
01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:12,559
Speaker 14: he didn't tell her about the son, this twenty two

1449
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:17,760
Speaker 14: year old son. They've been married for ten years and

1450
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:18,680
Speaker 14: he never told her.

1451
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:22,400
Speaker 7: I don't know why he didn't tell her. I think

1452
01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:24,519
Speaker 7: you got to get into the why he didn't tell it,

1453
01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:28,080
Speaker 7: because there's got to be a backstory behind that man.

1454
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:31,280
Speaker 7: Because the boy came over to the house on Christmas

1455
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:32,400
Speaker 7: and wanted to talk to it.

1456
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:36,760
Speaker 2: He knew where he lived, Yeah, he know where he lived.

1457
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 2: I need to talking to my daddy.

1458
01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:43,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna tell you a great story about fatherhood

1459
01:18:43,240 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 7: when we come back.

1460
01:18:44,360 --> 01:18:47,880
Speaker 14: All right, more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

1461
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:51,160
Speaker 14: up to twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening

1462
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:57,920
Speaker 14: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, guy's a sweeping

1463
01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 14: glass of winter. Weather is grip being most of the

1464
01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:04,880
Speaker 14: country this week. A whole stretch of the US is

1465
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:08,680
Speaker 14: dealing with back to back waves of Arctic coal, and

1466
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:12,560
Speaker 14: forecasters say a potentially disruptive winter storm could follow and

1467
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 14: linger into the weekend. As of yesterday, over seventy seven

1468
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 14: million people were under cold weather alerts, with lower temperatures

1469
01:19:20,960 --> 01:19:22,960
Speaker 14: expected throughout the rest of the week.

1470
01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 1: So here's the question.

1471
01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:27,680
Speaker 14: Have you, guys done any kind of preparation. Have you

1472
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 14: gone to the store. Have you stocked up on food yet?

1473
01:19:30,520 --> 01:19:32,599
Speaker 14: Have you done anything? I'll start with you, Junior.

1474
01:19:33,200 --> 01:19:36,000
Speaker 2: No, nothing can't go by five, No way, he can't go, sir.

1475
01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:37,800
Speaker 1: I worry about you.

1476
01:19:40,040 --> 01:19:40,360
Speaker 2: Eighty.

1477
01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:45,560
Speaker 4: All right, listen to the broadcast of forecasters. You know

1478
01:19:45,760 --> 01:19:49,120
Speaker 4: Texas Tommy, you know with their own power grid.

1479
01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:52,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know who told him he could do that,

1480
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:53,880
Speaker 2: but yeah, we all own that. Five.

1481
01:19:54,520 --> 01:19:57,200
Speaker 8: Well, while y'all at home and can't go to work, listen,

1482
01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 8: why don't y'all go in and vote for Ready love

1483
01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:02,559
Speaker 8: for the na ACP image y'all. I mean y'all ain't

1484
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:09,599
Speaker 8: doing y'all, you know, doing that NAACP Image Awards dot

1485
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:09,840
Speaker 8: and it.

1486
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 2: I mean you ain't doing that. You ain't got to

1487
01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:12,720
Speaker 2: go in the work.

1488
01:20:15,120 --> 01:20:17,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, but he did it though.

1489
01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:23,920
Speaker 1: All Greeks out there, are you Greeks both for them?

1490
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:31,280
Speaker 14: Including Yeah, all right, Nephew, congratulations again on your nomination.

1491
01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:33,920
Speaker 14: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

1492
01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:36,559
Speaker 14: up at thirty three minutes after we'll play around him.

1493
01:20:36,560 --> 01:20:39,640
Speaker 14: Would you rather right after this you're listening to the

1494
01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:41,160
Speaker 14: Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1495
01:20:46,040 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 4: Hey, it's Carla Farroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside?

1496
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:52,160
Speaker 4: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean and

1497
01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 4: half the time? Make the swap to Swifter Power Mop

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Speaker 4: that breaks down and grime like magic. With hundreds of

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Speaker 4: scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes with ease.

1501
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Speaker 4: Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning.

1502
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Speaker 4: Get yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power.

1503
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Speaker 14: Mop It's time now for a round of would you

1504
01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 14: rather would you rather have church folks mad at you?

1505
01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 1: Or would you rather have fifty cent mad at you?

1506
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:31,679
Speaker 2: Which one give the church folk?

1507
01:21:32,800 --> 01:21:33,080
Speaker 14: Theo?

1508
01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 3: Netflix?

1509
01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:39,920
Speaker 8: All right?

1510
01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 14: Would you rather the cheese cheesecake Factories brown bread or

1511
01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:50,040
Speaker 14: would you rather Olive Gardens breadsticks? M Olive god, uh

1512
01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:55,600
Speaker 14: huh the bread sticks at Olive Garden with yep, unlimited.

1513
01:21:57,040 --> 01:21:59,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that has to be the less healthy version that

1514
01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:02,760
Speaker 2: hat bread. But it is so delicious.

1515
01:22:05,040 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 1: I love that you say it.

1516
01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:09,280
Speaker 2: Hey man, this is how good them bread sticks? He

1517
01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:13,320
Speaker 2: is at all at all Olive Garden.

1518
01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:15,439
Speaker 7: I was telling a friend that we were talking about

1519
01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 7: what they made of and they may not be healthy, and.

1520
01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:20,600
Speaker 2: We was going through this whole thing. You know what

1521
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:24,240
Speaker 2: his response was, you got to die from something.

1522
01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:30,680
Speaker 1: Okay, delicious.

1523
01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:34,719
Speaker 2: Obviously he's on his way to Olive Garden this weekend.

1524
01:22:35,400 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 1: Yes, all right.

1525
01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 14: Would you rather eliminate Valentine's Day or would you rather

1526
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 14: eliminate President today?

1527
01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:43,800
Speaker 9: Oh?

1528
01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:45,479
Speaker 1: That's sweet? Okay.

1529
01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 12: Yeah.

1530
01:22:50,560 --> 01:22:53,840
Speaker 2: Back in two thousand it meant nothing to me, so.

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Speaker 1: Obama was in office.

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01:22:57,960 --> 01:23:03,439
Speaker 14: Yeah, all right, Would you rather rub vic vapor rub

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01:23:04,080 --> 01:23:07,400
Speaker 14: in your eye? Or would you rather call your ex

1534
01:23:07,600 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 14: to say hello?

1535
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:11,120
Speaker 1: Which one I just gonna be saying?

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01:23:11,800 --> 01:23:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, just if you I can wrense my eye about

1537
01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:18,439
Speaker 2: twenty minutes, I'll be fine.

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01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:21,760
Speaker 1: Yeah you just my eye.

1539
01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 2: I take my eyes out and run some water on him.

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01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 14: Yeah, it's to all your face? Wowha, all right? Which

1541
01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:44,400
Speaker 14: Valentine's song? Would you rather Always and Forever by heat Wave?

1542
01:23:45,120 --> 01:23:48,040
Speaker 14: Or Because I Love You by Lenny Williams?

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01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:53,320
Speaker 2: Lenny No, No, ain't nobody got cold of sold.

1544
01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:55,519
Speaker 1: And Lenny A little bit of Steve?

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01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 2: Who is Lenny?

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01:23:56,880 --> 01:23:57,120
Speaker 19: Girl?

1547
01:23:57,280 --> 01:23:57,640
Speaker 11: You know?

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01:23:58,840 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 2: I love you?

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01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:00,320
Speaker 3: Oh?

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01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:00,719
Speaker 8: Yoh?

1551
01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:03,360
Speaker 1: Wait a minute? Did you hear what Junior said?

1552
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:05,800
Speaker 15: Say it?

1553
01:24:05,920 --> 01:24:13,839
Speaker 1: Jr? Who is Lenny? You might get back slap? Nick Williams?

1554
01:24:14,280 --> 01:24:15,720
Speaker 2: Why why is he looking at me like that?

1555
01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:18,280
Speaker 3: Because he about to back slap?

1556
01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:22,719
Speaker 1: Why did you think you never heard this song?

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01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:23,280
Speaker 6: Jr?

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01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:24,240
Speaker 11: Oh?

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01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:32,960
Speaker 1: Sing us out? Steve Girl? You know, let's break in

1560
01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:35,200
Speaker 1: the day coming up. We'll close out the show with

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01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:36,559
Speaker 1: the one and Meadow?

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01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:37,760
Speaker 9: What you do?

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01:24:38,040 --> 01:24:41,479
Speaker 1: Right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:24:45,760 --> 01:24:49,080
Speaker 4: Hey, it's Carla Farrell. Kick that old mop and bucket aside?

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01:24:49,240 --> 01:24:51,880
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Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are last break of the day.

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01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:19,639
Speaker 1: It's been a good day.

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01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:23,160
Speaker 14: Thanks to our audience as well for listening every single

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01:25:23,280 --> 01:25:25,000
Speaker 14: day for all these years.

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01:25:25,080 --> 01:25:26,000
Speaker 1: We appreciate you.

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01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:30,200
Speaker 7: Ste Yeah, hey, I was I was gonna share with

1579
01:25:30,280 --> 01:25:32,640
Speaker 7: y'all a little while ago a great father moment that

1580
01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:36,880
Speaker 7: I had my youngest son Winter. We're out of town

1581
01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:40,600
Speaker 7: and we're getting ready for this gala. One of his

1582
01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:43,080
Speaker 7: friends is going to the gala too.

1583
01:25:43,120 --> 01:25:44,920
Speaker 2: In its former so.

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01:25:47,160 --> 01:25:52,640
Speaker 7: He had a tuxedo shirt and a tie, and I

1585
01:25:52,760 --> 01:25:55,719
Speaker 7: guess Winter was trying to help him tie tie to tie,

1586
01:25:56,280 --> 01:26:00,760
Speaker 7: but it wasn't working. So I get a call, he said, Dad.

1587
01:26:01,560 --> 01:26:04,960
Speaker 7: He said, hey, man, I got a problem. I'm trying

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01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:10,320
Speaker 7: to help Sean get his tie tied. He said he

1589
01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:15,519
Speaker 7: got one of them tucks. See those shirts that ain't

1590
01:26:15,560 --> 01:26:18,040
Speaker 7: got no collar on it, But I'm trying to put

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01:26:18,080 --> 01:26:20,800
Speaker 7: a tie on it and it ain't working. And so

1592
01:26:20,880 --> 01:26:23,120
Speaker 7: I had to get an understanding from I said, tuxedo

1593
01:26:23,240 --> 01:26:26,960
Speaker 7: shirt without no. I said, you mean a wing tip? Yeah, yeah,

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01:26:27,000 --> 01:26:30,040
Speaker 7: a wing tip. And then the dude he was he

1595
01:26:30,160 --> 01:26:33,760
Speaker 7: had me on speaker and the young dude said, man,

1596
01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:37,160
Speaker 7: how he know that? And then he said, so, Dad,

1597
01:26:37,360 --> 01:26:39,400
Speaker 7: what I'm trying to do is I'm trying to tie

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01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:41,880
Speaker 7: the tie, but I can't get to right. I can't

1599
01:26:41,920 --> 01:26:45,080
Speaker 7: get to not right because it's all one side slant it.

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01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:47,800
Speaker 7: I said, son, you're trying to tie a bow tie.

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01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:50,040
Speaker 7: He said, man, can I bring him to your room

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01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 7: and you do it? I said, hold on, man, yeah

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01:26:52,320 --> 01:26:54,280
Speaker 7: I could do it, but let me you trying to No,

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01:26:54,400 --> 01:26:56,880
Speaker 7: it ain't a bow tie, it's a regular tie. I said,

1605
01:26:56,920 --> 01:26:58,800
Speaker 7: you're trying to put a tie on with a wing

1606
01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:01,840
Speaker 7: tip shirt. He said yeah, but I can't get to

1607
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:05,000
Speaker 7: not even a slant it. I said, son, you got

1608
01:27:05,080 --> 01:27:08,720
Speaker 7: to tie a double windsor not. So the dude, now,

1609
01:27:09,880 --> 01:27:15,040
Speaker 7: Sean is thirty, Winton's twenty eight. Seawan said, I don't even.

1610
01:27:14,920 --> 01:27:20,720
Speaker 2: Know what that is. But that sound right. So a

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01:27:20,840 --> 01:27:21,639
Speaker 2: double windsors.

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01:27:21,640 --> 01:27:24,479
Speaker 7: When you tie the tie one time, that's a single

1613
01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:27,320
Speaker 7: windsor not when you wrap it around twice, it becomes

1614
01:27:27,360 --> 01:27:30,120
Speaker 7: a double windsor and the knot becomes more in the

1615
01:27:30,280 --> 01:27:34,800
Speaker 7: shape of a w is wider. If you tie a

1616
01:27:34,920 --> 01:27:39,040
Speaker 7: single slot, it looks more like a V. So that's

1617
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:42,000
Speaker 7: to give you how And he tied it and it worked.

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01:27:42,479 --> 01:27:45,920
Speaker 7: He said, man, this must be cool to have a

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01:27:46,080 --> 01:27:49,000
Speaker 7: father like that. Now he thought he had taken me

1620
01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:52,559
Speaker 7: off speaker, but he didn't, and they thought they had

1621
01:27:52,680 --> 01:27:55,960
Speaker 7: hung up. So I'm finished getting dressed, and he said, man,

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01:27:56,040 --> 01:27:57,880
Speaker 7: it must be cool to have a dad like that.

1623
01:27:58,000 --> 01:28:02,040
Speaker 7: I ain't never had that. Winton's said to him, Hey, man,

1624
01:28:02,360 --> 01:28:07,200
Speaker 7: I have never ever called my father in my life.

1625
01:28:08,360 --> 01:28:10,600
Speaker 7: And he told me he ain't had no answer for me.

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01:28:11,520 --> 01:28:13,640
Speaker 7: He said, Man, when I when I get something and

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01:28:13,720 --> 01:28:16,559
Speaker 7: I don't care what it is, man, he has never

1628
01:28:16,720 --> 01:28:19,639
Speaker 7: told me he did an answer, ain't no go figure

1629
01:28:19,640 --> 01:28:23,680
Speaker 7: it out. My dad always has an answer. And I

1630
01:28:23,760 --> 01:28:24,600
Speaker 7: hung the phone up.

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01:28:24,680 --> 01:28:24,840
Speaker 8: Man.

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01:28:24,920 --> 01:28:29,400
Speaker 7: I got emotional because I said, Wow, that's really really

1633
01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:32,800
Speaker 7: cool man, that you can raise a son to feel

1634
01:28:32,880 --> 01:28:35,200
Speaker 7: that way about you. You know what I'm saying, and

1635
01:28:35,320 --> 01:28:37,640
Speaker 7: that was just a cool fatherhood moment because he was

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01:28:37,680 --> 01:28:41,560
Speaker 7: telling another dude, I ain't never called this man, and

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01:28:41,680 --> 01:28:43,800
Speaker 7: he told me he ain't had no answer. He said, Man,

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01:28:43,880 --> 01:28:45,559
Speaker 7: my dad figured anything out.

1639
01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:45,840
Speaker 12: Man.

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01:28:46,400 --> 01:28:49,400
Speaker 2: He said, that's my dude. And I hung the phone

1641
01:28:49,479 --> 01:28:51,640
Speaker 2: up because I ain't know what else he was gonna say.

1642
01:28:51,640 --> 01:28:53,560
Speaker 2: And I ain't feel like crying because I'm trying to

1643
01:28:53,600 --> 01:28:55,560
Speaker 2: get ready to go to this show. So I just

1644
01:28:55,680 --> 01:28:58,000
Speaker 2: had a real fatherhood moment, man. So I'm saying that

1645
01:28:58,640 --> 01:29:00,720
Speaker 2: to say to all the men out there as being

1646
01:29:00,880 --> 01:29:06,400
Speaker 2: fathers to their daughters, to they sons, and man, keep

1647
01:29:06,479 --> 01:29:09,439
Speaker 2: up the good work, brothers, because you don't know it.

1648
01:29:10,479 --> 01:29:13,200
Speaker 2: But I bet you, madam, I bet you.

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01:29:13,320 --> 01:29:16,280
Speaker 7: Man, when you ain't around, man, they're remembering some words

1650
01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 7: that you said, I bet you when they ain't around, man,

1651
01:29:19,280 --> 01:29:23,080
Speaker 7: they're remembering some lessons that you taught them, or or

1652
01:29:23,560 --> 01:29:27,519
Speaker 7: some advice that you gave them. I bet you somewhere man,

1653
01:29:27,640 --> 01:29:30,479
Speaker 7: when they get the chance to talk about what you

1654
01:29:30,680 --> 01:29:33,240
Speaker 7: mean to them to their friends that they probably doing it.

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01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:35,400
Speaker 2: You may never get a chance to hear it. For

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01:29:35,520 --> 01:29:38,080
Speaker 2: me to hear it was like a real blessing.

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01:29:38,200 --> 01:29:38,320
Speaker 14: Man.

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01:29:38,400 --> 01:29:42,519
Speaker 7: It was just like it just happened the other day. So, man,

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01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:44,640
Speaker 7: I just wanted to say to all the men out there,

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01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:45,639
Speaker 7: that's being fathers.

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01:29:45,720 --> 01:29:45,920
Speaker 12: Man.

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01:29:46,240 --> 01:29:49,519
Speaker 2: Keep doing what you're doing. Keep doing what you're doing.

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01:29:50,320 --> 01:29:53,040
Speaker 2: I know it seems sometimes like they ain't listening. I

1664
01:29:53,160 --> 01:29:55,680
Speaker 2: know it seems like they seem to be taking you

1665
01:29:55,840 --> 01:30:00,519
Speaker 2: for granted, but it's not always. It's the case.

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01:30:01,000 --> 01:30:04,519
Speaker 7: Now, I will say this though. I was talking to

1667
01:30:04,600 --> 01:30:06,320
Speaker 7: a group of men that I went to college with.

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01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:10,880
Speaker 7: We've been friends now since nineteen seventy four, this group

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01:30:10,960 --> 01:30:14,080
Speaker 7: that I still run when it's fifteen of us, and

1670
01:30:15,600 --> 01:30:19,360
Speaker 7: all of us are frat brothers. Were all pledged at

1671
01:30:19,439 --> 01:30:23,040
Speaker 7: one point in time with each other, all of us,

1672
01:30:23,320 --> 01:30:27,519
Speaker 7: and so we have a special bond. But I've after

1673
01:30:27,640 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 7: talking with these men who are now some of them

1674
01:30:31,160 --> 01:30:34,080
Speaker 7: in their seventies, some of them really close to seventy,

1675
01:30:34,160 --> 01:30:37,840
Speaker 7: like I'm sixty nine. Right, here's the one thing I

1676
01:30:37,920 --> 01:30:42,880
Speaker 7: want to say to people out there. Most men will

1677
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:51,639
Speaker 7: leave this world underappreciated. Most men will die and never

1678
01:30:51,760 --> 01:30:56,000
Speaker 7: get the flowers. Most men will get up out of

1679
01:30:56,080 --> 01:30:59,679
Speaker 7: here and not really know what they meant to the family.

1680
01:31:01,720 --> 01:31:05,120
Speaker 7: If you can, I'm just talking to me and women

1681
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:07,200
Speaker 7: deserve everything. They getting in more.

1682
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:07,680
Speaker 2: Right.

1683
01:31:08,479 --> 01:31:10,960
Speaker 7: But I'm just talking about men right now. If you

1684
01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:13,320
Speaker 7: got a man in your life just being a good father,

1685
01:31:13,840 --> 01:31:15,479
Speaker 7: if you got a man in your life just being

1686
01:31:15,520 --> 01:31:17,120
Speaker 7: a good man, if you got a good man in

1687
01:31:17,200 --> 01:31:20,880
Speaker 7: your life just being a good husband, tell him you

1688
01:31:21,000 --> 01:31:24,000
Speaker 7: appreciate it. Tell him you proud of it, Tell him

1689
01:31:24,080 --> 01:31:26,680
Speaker 7: thank you, because a lot of men are out there

1690
01:31:26,800 --> 01:31:31,360
Speaker 7: feeling so underappreciated and the cold thing about being a man.

1691
01:31:31,439 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 7: I heard this quote and it really ripped me. The

1692
01:31:33,960 --> 01:31:39,400
Speaker 7: quote was this, a man spends his entire life providing

1693
01:31:39,520 --> 01:31:45,400
Speaker 7: for people he can't live without, to make sure that

1694
01:31:45,560 --> 01:31:51,120
Speaker 7: they can live without him. Ugh, Okay, tell you man,

1695
01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:53,840
Speaker 7: you appreciate it. Y'all, have a great day today. Talk

1696
01:31:53,880 --> 01:31:55,720
Speaker 7: to God today. He absolutely loved to.

1697
01:31:55,720 --> 01:31:56,240
Speaker 2: Hear from you.

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