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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. The guy on the phone for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date Update is going through a problem that a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people go throughout their first date. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>really tell if somebody's blowing you off, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>especially you go out with a girl and they're so

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<v Speaker 1>mysterious all the time, you know, you can't really tell.

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<v Speaker 1>And I read his email and it said after their date,

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<v Speaker 1>she texted him and said don't ever talk to me again,

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<v Speaker 1>and blocked him on social media. So I'm just not

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<v Speaker 1>sure what she was hinting at with that. Dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't tell, Graham, I'm so sorry she's being so mysterious

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Well, thank you for that. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really hoping I can count on you guys. Oh man, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>us crazy ladies, I can't tell what we watched. Just

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<v Speaker 1>can't tell what she means by don't ever talk to

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<v Speaker 1>me and then blocking you on social media. Yeah, just

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<v Speaker 1>say what you mean, say how you feel, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I can never fell with these girls no more joking

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<v Speaker 1>starting to make me angry. So I know, definitely she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to see you again. Yeah, why are we

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<v Speaker 1>calling her? She made it very clear she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Well, I liked this girl, and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I had a genuine connection with this person.

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<v Speaker 1>You knew. We're obviously wrong. Well, it's confusing because there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more to the story. Okay, how did you

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<v Speaker 1>meet her? First of all, So I was commuting to

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<v Speaker 1>work on the train, a daily thing that I do,

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<v Speaker 1>and I see this beautiful girl just standing like five

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<v Speaker 1>feet away from me, and I got that feeling, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the feeling when you just feel like you know somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like trying to figure out where I know

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<v Speaker 1>this girl from and then you're like the train's standing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just one of those like gut feelings. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I remembered that I saw her or like fifteen years

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<v Speaker 1>ago at church. What good for real? Yeah, we used

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<v Speaker 1>to go to church together. Oh okay, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have a crush on this girl back then, but I

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<v Speaker 1>knew her. So cut to this moment in the train,

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<v Speaker 1>and this girl is very good looking, like she's blossomed

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<v Speaker 1>sounded creepy the way said that, yeah, sound creepy. Up.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounded like you were the old pastor from the

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<v Speaker 1>church had grown up. God is good, isn't he? He

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<v Speaker 1>has bestowed some gifts upon you. All right? Sorry, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mustered up some courage and I went and

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<v Speaker 1>talked to her, and I asked her how she was,

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<v Speaker 1>and we ended up reconnecting. Yes, so it turns out

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<v Speaker 1>that she works like two blocks away from me. We

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<v Speaker 1>talked for the next several stops, and I asked her

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<v Speaker 1>to lunch and she said sure, and it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a little hurried because we were trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>off the train. And so the next day we went

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<v Speaker 1>to lunch and on the date, she starts asking some

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<v Speaker 1>pretty general questions like first date questions. So it dawned

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<v Speaker 1>on me that she doesn't remember who I was. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you hadn't brought up like, hey, I remember you from church.

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<v Speaker 1>You hadn't brought that up. She knew I was from church,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't remember who I was exactly, Okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>so anyway, it didn't really matter because the date was

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<v Speaker 1>going really really well, which felt good. And then so

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her if we could hang out and make

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<v Speaker 1>plans for the weekend, okay, And she was like, yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>of course that'd be great because it was going like

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<v Speaker 1>we were having a good time. It didn't again, it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't matter that she didn't remember me, because I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like there was something that we could build on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you go from lunch to weekend plans, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean obviously she was into it exactly. And so next

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<v Speaker 1>day rolled along and again this is like where the

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<v Speaker 1>train literally hit me because she sends me a text

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<v Speaker 1>and in the text message, she says, and I quote,

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<v Speaker 1>I just remembered who you are. Don't text me again,

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<v Speaker 1>who don't come up to me on the train, don't

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<v Speaker 1>communicate with me. Whoa. And then she proceeded to block

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<v Speaker 1>me because I responded and never heard back from her

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<v Speaker 1>again on text. And I had done a little reconnaissance

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<v Speaker 1>on social media. I couldn't pull up her page, I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't find her. Blocked all of your stuff there too,

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<v Speaker 1>straight up blocked me. Wow, what did you do? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think you did? I was thinking about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I don't know what could I

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<v Speaker 1>have done to her? When I was like twelve years old,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been like racking my brain, like thinking what did

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<v Speaker 1>I do? What did I do? And I can't come

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<v Speaker 1>up with anything. I'm just I'm really confused. And you

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember any sort of awkward interaction with her her none, never, none,

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<v Speaker 1>So you have no idea what she is accusing you

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<v Speaker 1>of doing to her back when you guys were in

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<v Speaker 1>church as a kid. That sounds creepy too, but anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>you have no idea what she's saying you did. Correct,

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<v Speaker 1>and she remembers there must have been something bad. At

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<v Speaker 1>first I thought you were some weird stalker, but I

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<v Speaker 1>could see where you'd want to find out what that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's remembering the wrong person. Were you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a jerk when you were younger? Like any chance you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta like, I don't know, bullied her or Bible shamed her,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I hear that's the thing. If you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know a Bible verse, man, and people will just

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<v Speaker 1>shame you. Yeah she did you Bible shame her? Did?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you did? Never? Okay, anything you guys

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<v Speaker 1>can do to help me out, to like give me

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<v Speaker 1>some clarity here, because I'm a really nice guy and

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<v Speaker 1>I was a really nice kid, right and like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just I'm really confused. All right, Well we'll play a

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<v Speaker 1>song and then come back and call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day up data. Okay, thanks guys. Okay, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on looking jubil in the morning if you're just tuning

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<v Speaker 1>in to today's second date update. Graham is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and he wants to call a girl named Grace.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually knew each other when they were younger. They

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<v Speaker 1>used to go to church together, and he saw her

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<v Speaker 1>on the train the other day, went up and talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her. They ended up going out to eat lunch

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<v Speaker 1>and made plans to go out again, but before they

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<v Speaker 1>could actually go out again, she texted him and said

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<v Speaker 1>that she never wanted to talk to him again because

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<v Speaker 1>she remembered who he was, and then she blocked his

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<v Speaker 1>phone number. She blocked him on social media, blocked him everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>And Graham has no idea what he did when he

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<v Speaker 1>was twelve years old that is causing Grace to not

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to him at all today. Graham, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I figured it out for you. Yeah, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>because I grew up in the church, right like old

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<v Speaker 1>ladies would always get mad at me for we're in

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<v Speaker 1>a hat in church that I was saying, I thank

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<v Speaker 1>you half of your hat, and it would get really annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>So to get him back, I would plan drugs on

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<v Speaker 1>them and then call the police and then they would

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<v Speaker 1>be out squared out of church. So I'm thinking he

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<v Speaker 1>planted drugs on an old lady to get her kicked

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<v Speaker 1>out of church, and that was her Grandma has to

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<v Speaker 1>be figured it out. We don't need to call her anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel comfortable saying that's the most ridiculous thing I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard. I do feel like you must have done

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<v Speaker 1>something to someone in her circle of people, because if

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't remember you initially, it's not something that you

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<v Speaker 1>must have done to her. It must have been something.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, oh my god, that's the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>did something too my sister or whatever. That sounded bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what I mean. This could be on

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<v Speaker 1>national TV at some point forty eight hours mystery. But

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<v Speaker 1>I need to thank you guys. I'll be out of here. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna die her fun of her right now and

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can figure out. Okay, fair enough, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, I canna speak to Grace, please speaking, Hey, Grace,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you. This is Jebel from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jebel in the Morning. What Brooke and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. It's a radio show. Um, okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to help you familiar with I'm calling you today

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<v Speaker 1>because we actually got an email about you from one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners. Well you didn't, yeah, Well, because we

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show it's called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. And so you went out with a dude

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<v Speaker 1>and he has no idea what he did, but apparently

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to see him again. Are you talking

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<v Speaker 1>about Graham? Yes, I am talking about Graham. Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us that you obviously, like Jubile said, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to talk to him at all anymore. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we understand that. No, I really don't. Yeah, but the

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<v Speaker 1>question is why? Because Graham only at nice things to

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<v Speaker 1>say about you. He said that you guys knew each

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<v Speaker 1>other when you were kids at church, but he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>remember ever doing anything wrong. Oh really that's what he

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<v Speaker 1>told you. Yes, Like he was honestly perplexed, like he

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<v Speaker 1>has zero idea what, Like he even thinks that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you're confusing him with another person or something. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not confusing him with another person. So do you

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<v Speaker 1>mind telling us what he did more specifically so we

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<v Speaker 1>can tell him what he did because he's super confused. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>what a jerk. He's really denying that he did anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>We asked him a few times and even asked if

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<v Speaker 1>he was like a bully or something when he was

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<v Speaker 1>back ahead he was like twelve years old, and he

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<v Speaker 1>said no. He said he couldn't think of anything. He

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<v Speaker 1>said no to that. Yeah, yeah, does he mean to

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<v Speaker 1>you when you were little? And he just doesn't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>He basically ruined my life. WHOA, that's pretty dramatic, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. It's more like traumatic, Like I'm traumas hut,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, what happened? So we're in choir huh,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're singing our hymns and I was given a

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<v Speaker 1>solo and I delivered it and I hit the note

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<v Speaker 1>and it was beautiful and it rang through the church,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it was punctuated by the loudest fart I

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<v Speaker 1>have ever heard in my entire life, the loudest fart

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<v Speaker 1>that everybody was you're laughing at me too, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>laughing at you. You farted during your solo. Nope, not me, Graham.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so he farted loudly. Everybody started laughing. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>why would that ruin your life? Because it was so

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing that I had to quit the choir, like I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't sing anymore with anybody, and I love to sing.

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<v Speaker 1>All I can remember is looking down in the pews

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<v Speaker 1>and Graham sitting there laughing his face off while he

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<v Speaker 1>was ruining my life. You sound like still really upset

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<v Speaker 1>about this fart, like you can't find humor in it?

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<v Speaker 1>What fifteen years later? Yeah, I'm an accountant now, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't find humor in anything honest about that. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he did it on purpose. He and his friends were

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<v Speaker 1>all laughing about it, like it was planned, like he

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<v Speaker 1>meant to do it. Okay. Yeah, and you obviously have

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<v Speaker 1>never forgiven him for that. No, and he never even apologized.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think he even remembers that that happened. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he would, and would he? You don't always remember when

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<v Speaker 1>you ruined somebody's life, that's true. Yeah, people have told

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<v Speaker 1>me that time. I'm like, oh, I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really sad. Well, Grace, I hesitated tell you this

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<v Speaker 1>because I think it's gonna make you angry, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you anyway. Graham is actually on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're laughing. I'm sorry, I'm I'm sorry, Hi, Grace. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling me? I'm calling you because we had

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. I'm sorry that I'm laughing now. First

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<v Speaker 1>and foremost, that was not me. I did not do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That was my buddy, Aggie. He was sitting right next

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and I completely forgot about all of that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm remembering. You remember the fart. It was not Aggie,

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<v Speaker 1>it was you know, it was Aggie. I swear to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't even matter. It doesn't even matter. But it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter because you were laughing then at my pain,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're laughing now at it. So why would I

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with somebody who is just going

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<v Speaker 1>to make fun of me for the rest of my life? Enough, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. When you're a kid, it's easy to

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<v Speaker 1>get traumatized about stuff like this. And everyone was laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an impressive part. But he did it, Aggie

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<v Speaker 1>was He was impressive with that, Like I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how he did it, Like he could drop a fart whenever. However,

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, that's the way that he did business.

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<v Speaker 1>He could change the pitch, he could change the timber,

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<v Speaker 1>he could have change the intensity. He had the right

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<v Speaker 1>fart for every moment. Oh my god, bro, I do

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<v Speaker 1>not think you're helping the situation right now, Buddy. All

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do is no Aggie. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to meet Aggie now. I keep in touch with Aggie

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<v Speaker 1>and he's an awesome guy. I mean, he said, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so shared troubles, but he's a good guy. And I look,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a good guy. Did you not hear what I

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<v Speaker 1>just said. He completely embarrassed me on purpose, Grace. You

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<v Speaker 1>cannot hold stuff against me or anybody when we were twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you can't, but for me, it was really traumatic.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to go out with somebody that taps

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<v Speaker 1>people that way, Grace. Can they just ask you a question?

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, when did you figure this out? Because

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<v Speaker 1>when I met you on the train, I got the

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<v Speaker 1>feeling that you didn't really remember who I was. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't remember you until I got home and I

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<v Speaker 1>started looking through my photos and then I saw you

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<v Speaker 1>and it all just came flutting back Andy, Well, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I've had to deal with this all over again.

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<v Speaker 1>I had forgotten about it. But if you went home

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<v Speaker 1>after our date and you were looking at photos of me,

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<v Speaker 1>there must have been a reason for that, right, Like you,

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<v Speaker 1>we got along really well, We had a good time

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<v Speaker 1>on the date and all of this stuff when we

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<v Speaker 1>were twelve years old aside, we had a great date,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would really like to have another shot with you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not any different now than you were then twelve

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<v Speaker 1>years old, Grace twelve. Yeah, when you're twelve years old,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard not to get caught up in the thrill

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<v Speaker 1>of a fart. You know, I didn't get caught up

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<v Speaker 1>in the thrill of it. I know, Grace. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that that still hurts you. But maybe, I mean, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>this will bring some sort of closure to all of it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like for you to realize that they didn't do it

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<v Speaker 1>to hurt you. They were just being immature boys. Now

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't mean it's excusable, but maybe you can like

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<v Speaker 1>find some forgiveness and closure. Sure I forgive them, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to forget it. What would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Graham? Will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it? No, sure, I get it. You're not well

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know Graham. Now you're gonna stick with

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<v Speaker 1>twelve year old Graham. He'll be forever young. In my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>you did, I will say grab you did. Come out

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<v Speaker 1>of that laughing right off the top, like maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the best move. I know, I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But soon as soon as you say part it's funny,

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<v Speaker 1>don't laugh part part so funny, everybody fart totally jew

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<v Speaker 1>bowl you fart right? No? Never yeah, never done it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you're talking about. How much Grace

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<v Speaker 1>on this one. Thank you for your time, Grace, sorry

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<v Speaker 1>for what happened to you in church, and Graham, sorry

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't get a second date. Man, that's stakes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it does. That's a good way to put it. It's awkward. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>this would be the perfect time for Augie to show

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<v Speaker 1>up with a really perfect part like you calling broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jubil in the Morning Move at ninety two point five,