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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. The guy on the phone for today's
Speaker 1: second date Update is going through a problem that a
Speaker 1: lot of people go throughout their first date. You can't
Speaker 1: really tell if somebody's blowing you off, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: especially you go out with a girl and they're so
Speaker 1: mysterious all the time, you know, you can't really tell.
Speaker 1: And I read his email and it said after their date,
Speaker 1: she texted him and said don't ever talk to me again,
Speaker 1: and blocked him on social media. So I'm just not
Speaker 1: sure what she was hinting at with that. Dude, I
Speaker 1: can't tell, Graham, I'm so sorry she's being so mysterious
Speaker 1: with you. Well, thank you for that. I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: I'm really hoping I can count on you guys. Oh man, Yeah,
Speaker 1: us crazy ladies, I can't tell what we watched. Just
Speaker 1: can't tell what she means by don't ever talk to
Speaker 1: me and then blocking you on social media. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: say what you mean, say how you feel, you know.
Speaker 1: I can never fell with these girls no more joking
Speaker 1: starting to make me angry. So I know, definitely she
Speaker 1: doesn't want to see you again. Yeah, why are we
Speaker 1: calling her? She made it very clear she doesn't want
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Well, I liked this girl, and
Speaker 1: I thought I had a genuine connection with this person.
Speaker 1: You knew. We're obviously wrong. Well, it's confusing because there's
Speaker 1: a lot more to the story. Okay, how did you
Speaker 1: meet her? First of all, So I was commuting to
Speaker 1: work on the train, a daily thing that I do,
Speaker 1: and I see this beautiful girl just standing like five
Speaker 1: feet away from me, and I got that feeling, you know,
Speaker 1: the feeling when you just feel like you know somebody.
Speaker 1: So I'm like trying to figure out where I know
Speaker 1: this girl from and then you're like the train's standing.
Speaker 1: It's just one of those like gut feelings. And then
Speaker 1: I remembered that I saw her or like fifteen years
Speaker 1: ago at church. What good for real? Yeah, we used
Speaker 1: to go to church together. Oh okay, and I didn't
Speaker 1: have a crush on this girl back then, but I
Speaker 1: knew her. So cut to this moment in the train,
Speaker 1: and this girl is very good looking, like she's blossomed
Speaker 1: sounded creepy the way said that, yeah, sound creepy. Up.
Speaker 1: It sounded like you were the old pastor from the
Speaker 1: church had grown up. God is good, isn't he? He
Speaker 1: has bestowed some gifts upon you. All right? Sorry, go ahead.
Speaker 1: So I mustered up some courage and I went and
Speaker 1: talked to her, and I asked her how she was,
Speaker 1: and we ended up reconnecting. Yes, so it turns out
Speaker 1: that she works like two blocks away from me. We
Speaker 1: talked for the next several stops, and I asked her
Speaker 1: to lunch and she said sure, and it was kind
Speaker 1: of a little hurried because we were trying to get
Speaker 1: off the train. And so the next day we went
Speaker 1: to lunch and on the date, she starts asking some
Speaker 1: pretty general questions like first date questions. So it dawned
Speaker 1: on me that she doesn't remember who I was. Wait,
Speaker 1: you hadn't brought up like, hey, I remember you from church.
Speaker 1: You hadn't brought that up. She knew I was from church,
Speaker 1: but she didn't remember who I was exactly, Okay, And
Speaker 1: so anyway, it didn't really matter because the date was
Speaker 1: going really really well, which felt good. And then so
Speaker 1: I asked her if we could hang out and make
Speaker 1: plans for the weekend, okay, And she was like, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: of course that'd be great because it was going like
Speaker 1: we were having a good time. It didn't again, it
Speaker 1: didn't matter that she didn't remember me, because I felt
Speaker 1: like there was something that we could build on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and if you go from lunch to weekend plans, I
Speaker 1: mean obviously she was into it exactly. And so next
Speaker 1: day rolled along and again this is like where the
Speaker 1: train literally hit me because she sends me a text
Speaker 1: and in the text message, she says, and I quote,
Speaker 1: I just remembered who you are. Don't text me again,
Speaker 1: who don't come up to me on the train, don't
Speaker 1: communicate with me. Whoa. And then she proceeded to block
Speaker 1: me because I responded and never heard back from her
Speaker 1: again on text. And I had done a little reconnaissance
Speaker 1: on social media. I couldn't pull up her page, I
Speaker 1: couldn't find her. Blocked all of your stuff there too,
Speaker 1: straight up blocked me. Wow, what did you do? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What do you think you did? I was thinking about that,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't know what could I
Speaker 1: have done to her? When I was like twelve years old,
Speaker 1: I've been like racking my brain, like thinking what did
Speaker 1: I do? What did I do? And I can't come
Speaker 1: up with anything. I'm just I'm really confused. And you
Speaker 1: don't remember any sort of awkward interaction with her her none, never, none,
Speaker 1: So you have no idea what she is accusing you
Speaker 1: of doing to her back when you guys were in
Speaker 1: church as a kid. That sounds creepy too, but anyway,
Speaker 1: you have no idea what she's saying you did. Correct,
Speaker 1: and she remembers there must have been something bad. At
Speaker 1: first I thought you were some weird stalker, but I
Speaker 1: could see where you'd want to find out what that is.
Speaker 1: Maybe she's remembering the wrong person. Were you kind of
Speaker 1: a jerk when you were younger? Like any chance you
Speaker 1: gotta like, I don't know, bullied her or Bible shamed her,
Speaker 1: like you know, I hear that's the thing. If you
Speaker 1: don't know a Bible verse, man, and people will just
Speaker 1: shame you. Yeah she did you Bible shame her? Did?
Speaker 1: Is that what you did? Never? Okay, anything you guys
Speaker 1: can do to help me out, to like give me
Speaker 1: some clarity here, because I'm a really nice guy and
Speaker 1: I was a really nice kid, right and like I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm really confused. All right, Well we'll play a
Speaker 1: song and then come back and call her and get
Speaker 1: your second day up data. Okay, thanks guys. Okay, hang
Speaker 1: on looking jubil in the morning if you're just tuning
Speaker 1: in to today's second date update. Graham is on the
Speaker 1: phone and he wants to call a girl named Grace.
Speaker 1: They actually knew each other when they were younger. They
Speaker 1: used to go to church together, and he saw her
Speaker 1: on the train the other day, went up and talked
Speaker 1: to her. They ended up going out to eat lunch
Speaker 1: and made plans to go out again, but before they
Speaker 1: could actually go out again, she texted him and said
Speaker 1: that she never wanted to talk to him again because
Speaker 1: she remembered who he was, and then she blocked his
Speaker 1: phone number. She blocked him on social media, blocked him everywhere.
Speaker 1: And Graham has no idea what he did when he
Speaker 1: was twelve years old that is causing Grace to not
Speaker 1: want to talk to him at all today. Graham, I
Speaker 1: think I figured it out for you. Yeah, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: because I grew up in the church, right like old
Speaker 1: ladies would always get mad at me for we're in
Speaker 1: a hat in church that I was saying, I thank
Speaker 1: you half of your hat, and it would get really annoying.
Speaker 1: So to get him back, I would plan drugs on
Speaker 1: them and then call the police and then they would
Speaker 1: be out squared out of church. So I'm thinking he
Speaker 1: planted drugs on an old lady to get her kicked
Speaker 1: out of church, and that was her Grandma has to
Speaker 1: be figured it out. We don't need to call her anymore.
Speaker 1: I feel comfortable saying that's the most ridiculous thing I've
Speaker 1: ever heard. I do feel like you must have done
Speaker 1: something to someone in her circle of people, because if
Speaker 1: she didn't remember you initially, it's not something that you
Speaker 1: must have done to her. It must have been something.
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh my god, that's the guy that
Speaker 1: did something too my sister or whatever. That sounded bad,
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean. This could be on
Speaker 1: national TV at some point forty eight hours mystery. But
Speaker 1: I need to thank you guys. I'll be out of here. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna die her fun of her right now and
Speaker 1: see if we can figure out. Okay, fair enough, all right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, I canna speak to Grace, please speaking, Hey, Grace,
Speaker 1: how are you. This is Jebel from the radio show
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jebel in the Morning. What Brooke and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's a radio show. Um, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: going to help you familiar with I'm calling you today
Speaker 1: because we actually got an email about you from one
Speaker 1: of our listeners. Well you didn't, yeah, Well, because we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show it's called a second
Speaker 1: date update. And so you went out with a dude
Speaker 1: and he has no idea what he did, but apparently
Speaker 1: you don't want to see him again. Are you talking
Speaker 1: about Graham? Yes, I am talking about Graham. Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: He told us that you obviously, like Jubile said, you
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to him at all anymore. Like
Speaker 1: we understand that. No, I really don't. Yeah, but the
Speaker 1: question is why? Because Graham only at nice things to
Speaker 1: say about you. He said that you guys knew each
Speaker 1: other when you were kids at church, but he doesn't
Speaker 1: remember ever doing anything wrong. Oh really that's what he
Speaker 1: told you. Yes, Like he was honestly perplexed, like he
Speaker 1: has zero idea what, Like he even thinks that maybe
Speaker 1: you're confusing him with another person or something. No, I'm
Speaker 1: definitely not confusing him with another person. So do you
Speaker 1: mind telling us what he did more specifically so we
Speaker 1: can tell him what he did because he's super confused. Wow,
Speaker 1: what a jerk. He's really denying that he did anything wrong.
Speaker 1: We asked him a few times and even asked if
Speaker 1: he was like a bully or something when he was
Speaker 1: back ahead he was like twelve years old, and he
Speaker 1: said no. He said he couldn't think of anything. He
Speaker 1: said no to that. Yeah, yeah, does he mean to
Speaker 1: you when you were little? And he just doesn't remember.
Speaker 1: He basically ruined my life. WHOA, that's pretty dramatic, you
Speaker 1: know what. It's more like traumatic, Like I'm traumas hut,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what happened? So we're in choir huh,
Speaker 1: and we're singing our hymns and I was given a
Speaker 1: solo and I delivered it and I hit the note
Speaker 1: and it was beautiful and it rang through the church,
Speaker 1: and then it was punctuated by the loudest fart I
Speaker 1: have ever heard in my entire life, the loudest fart
Speaker 1: that everybody was you're laughing at me too, I'm not
Speaker 1: laughing at you. You farted during your solo. Nope, not me, Graham.
Speaker 1: Oh so he farted loudly. Everybody started laughing. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: why would that ruin your life? Because it was so
Speaker 1: embarrassing that I had to quit the choir, like I
Speaker 1: couldn't sing anymore with anybody, and I love to sing.
Speaker 1: All I can remember is looking down in the pews
Speaker 1: and Graham sitting there laughing his face off while he
Speaker 1: was ruining my life. You sound like still really upset
Speaker 1: about this fart, like you can't find humor in it?
Speaker 1: What fifteen years later? Yeah, I'm an accountant now, I
Speaker 1: don't find humor in anything honest about that. I think
Speaker 1: he did it on purpose. He and his friends were
Speaker 1: all laughing about it, like it was planned, like he
Speaker 1: meant to do it. Okay. Yeah, and you obviously have
Speaker 1: never forgiven him for that. No, and he never even apologized.
Speaker 1: I don't think he even remembers that that happened. Well,
Speaker 1: he would, and would he? You don't always remember when
Speaker 1: you ruined somebody's life, that's true. Yeah, people have told
Speaker 1: me that time. I'm like, oh, I have no idea.
Speaker 1: That's really sad. Well, Grace, I hesitated tell you this
Speaker 1: because I think it's gonna make you angry, but I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you anyway. Graham is actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're laughing. I'm sorry, I'm I'm sorry, Hi, Grace. Why
Speaker 1: are you calling me? I'm calling you because we had
Speaker 1: a good time. I'm sorry that I'm laughing now. First
Speaker 1: and foremost, that was not me. I did not do that.
Speaker 1: That was my buddy, Aggie. He was sitting right next
Speaker 1: to me, and I completely forgot about all of that,
Speaker 1: but I'm remembering. You remember the fart. It was not Aggie,
Speaker 1: it was you know, it was Aggie. I swear to you.
Speaker 1: It doesn't even matter. It doesn't even matter. But it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter because you were laughing then at my pain,
Speaker 1: and you're laughing now at it. So why would I
Speaker 1: want to go out with somebody who is just going
Speaker 1: to make fun of me for the rest of my life? Enough, Like,
Speaker 1: I get it. When you're a kid, it's easy to
Speaker 1: get traumatized about stuff like this. And everyone was laughing.
Speaker 1: It was an impressive part. But he did it, Aggie
Speaker 1: was He was impressive with that, Like I don't know
Speaker 1: how he did it, Like he could drop a fart whenever. However,
Speaker 1: all the time, that's the way that he did business.
Speaker 1: He could change the pitch, he could change the timber,
Speaker 1: he could have change the intensity. He had the right
Speaker 1: fart for every moment. Oh my god, bro, I do
Speaker 1: not think you're helping the situation right now, Buddy. All
Speaker 1: I want to do is no Aggie. I just want
Speaker 1: to meet Aggie now. I keep in touch with Aggie
Speaker 1: and he's an awesome guy. I mean, he said, it's
Speaker 1: so shared troubles, but he's a good guy. And I look,
Speaker 1: he's a good guy. Did you not hear what I
Speaker 1: just said. He completely embarrassed me on purpose, Grace. You
Speaker 1: cannot hold stuff against me or anybody when we were twelve.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can't, but for me, it was really traumatic.
Speaker 1: And I want to go out with somebody that taps
Speaker 1: people that way, Grace. Can they just ask you a question?
Speaker 1: First of all, when did you figure this out? Because
Speaker 1: when I met you on the train, I got the
Speaker 1: feeling that you didn't really remember who I was. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I didn't remember you until I got home and I
Speaker 1: started looking through my photos and then I saw you
Speaker 1: and it all just came flutting back Andy, Well, and
Speaker 1: it's like I've had to deal with this all over again.
Speaker 1: I had forgotten about it. But if you went home
Speaker 1: after our date and you were looking at photos of me,
Speaker 1: there must have been a reason for that, right, Like you,
Speaker 1: we got along really well, We had a good time
Speaker 1: on the date and all of this stuff when we
Speaker 1: were twelve years old aside, we had a great date,
Speaker 1: and I would really like to have another shot with you.
Speaker 1: You're not any different now than you were then twelve
Speaker 1: years old, Grace twelve. Yeah, when you're twelve years old,
Speaker 1: it's hard not to get caught up in the thrill
Speaker 1: of a fart. You know, I didn't get caught up
Speaker 1: in the thrill of it. I know, Grace. I know
Speaker 1: that that still hurts you. But maybe, I mean, maybe
Speaker 1: this will bring some sort of closure to all of it,
Speaker 1: Like for you to realize that they didn't do it
Speaker 1: to hurt you. They were just being immature boys. Now
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean it's excusable, but maybe you can like
Speaker 1: find some forgiveness and closure. Sure I forgive them, but
Speaker 1: I'm not going to forget it. What would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Graham? Will pay
Speaker 1: for it? No, sure, I get it. You're not well
Speaker 1: to get to know Graham. Now you're gonna stick with
Speaker 1: twelve year old Graham. He'll be forever young. In my mind,
Speaker 1: you did, I will say grab you did. Come out
Speaker 1: of that laughing right off the top, like maybe that
Speaker 1: wasn't the best move. I know, I know, I know.
Speaker 1: But soon as soon as you say part it's funny,
Speaker 1: don't laugh part part so funny, everybody fart totally jew
Speaker 1: bowl you fart right? No? Never yeah, never done it.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. How much Grace
Speaker 1: on this one. Thank you for your time, Grace, sorry
Speaker 1: for what happened to you in church, and Graham, sorry
Speaker 1: you didn't get a second date. Man, that's stakes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it does. That's a good way to put it. It's awkward. Now,
Speaker 1: this would be the perfect time for Augie to show
Speaker 1: up with a really perfect part like you calling broken
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