WEBVTT - Pick Your Battles!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to a new

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<v Speaker 1>episode of Reasonably Shady. I am your girl here, Gizell Bryan.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up everyone, This is Robin Dixon. Thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much for being here with us. I can't tell you

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<v Speaker 1>how good you all make us feel your feedback even

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, we were off Labor Day week and

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<v Speaker 1>people were like, oh my gosh, I missed my episode,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so that's like so awesome for people to

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<v Speaker 1>just be anticipating us. I cannot thank you guys enough

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<v Speaker 1>for listening. Not yes, yes, thank you, thank you. And

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<v Speaker 1>we would be remiss if we did not mention that

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<v Speaker 1>The Real Housewives Potomac it's still airing. Can you believe?

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<v Speaker 1>It's season six? And for what I understand, y'all like

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<v Speaker 1>it because the ratings are through the roof, Thank you exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the ratings are through the roof. People are

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<v Speaker 1>loving the season, you know, and I think it's so

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<v Speaker 1>cool about our show, Like, yes, we've been on for

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<v Speaker 1>six seasons, and I really feel like every season is different,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. There's just like a different dynamic.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like different things going on. You know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>last season was very dramatic drama, and it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like, okay, how do you like? Where do you

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<v Speaker 1>go from there? How do you top that? But it's

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<v Speaker 1>cool to see that, like we don't have to have

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<v Speaker 1>that same type of drama to be entertaining. So yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I could put my box and gloves away, please do.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, you guys have to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>journey with us every season and we really do appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>it because it is haghs and lows, ups and down exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>and speaking of a journey for the people who are

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<v Speaker 1>maybe watching on YouTube or if anything, just if the

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<v Speaker 1>audio sounds a little different. We're in a new location, yes, yes, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So to give your background, we have taped all of

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<v Speaker 1>our episodes in my house and Robin baltan new house

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, I'm tired of driving to Yale house,

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<v Speaker 1>so we have to do it now in her house,

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<v Speaker 1>which I am totally fine with. Yes, I mean, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>like take turns, right, I think you know, at first,

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<v Speaker 1>when we when we thought about the podcast, we're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll go one week to Jasille's, one week to mind

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<v Speaker 1>because we're literally probably like forty minutes thirty five to

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<v Speaker 1>forty minutes, and then who knows what traffic is like.

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<v Speaker 1>So um yeah, So so up until today, UM, I

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<v Speaker 1>have been driving to Jasille's house and it's far. Today

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what I'm not My house

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<v Speaker 1>is not furnished at all. You know, it's like we

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<v Speaker 1>have a long way to go with furnishing the house

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of two dudes, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like, oh, it's just too two echo e because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have enough furniture. But but I said, gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>damn it, I'm gonna make it work. I'll make it happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to say it's her house is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's that. There's that, all right. So we've got

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<v Speaker 1>to get to our reasonably shady moments of the week. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you go first. And I do have to admit the

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<v Speaker 1>girl had a birthday. Okay, she had little birthday. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and I asked some of my friends to meet me

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<v Speaker 1>in Miami and they showed up and showed out. So

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<v Speaker 1>I like too, because Robin has told me that I

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<v Speaker 1>need to stay in several hotels. So I stayed a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days in the four seasons. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>moved over to this Good Time Hotel good so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was hip to the fact that their rooms

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<v Speaker 1>are kind of small. So just to f y, the

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<v Speaker 1>Good Time Hotel is Pharrell's hotel. And you know, Pharrell,

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<v Speaker 1>we love you, but we don't like your rooms. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I upgraded, upgraded, upgraded myself to the biggest room

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<v Speaker 1>in the whole damn hotel. And it's the smallest room

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever been in my entire life. Okay, the it's

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<v Speaker 1>the shadiest room ever, Pharrell. It is the shadiest room,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what. Okay, So I stayed there as well,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't I stayed there the whole time. I

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<v Speaker 1>was only there for two nights, and I booked too late,

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<v Speaker 1>so I wasn't a was to get the largest room, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I got the king room, which this could be

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<v Speaker 1>by shady women too. I had the king room that

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<v Speaker 1>on the description it literally said four hundred something square

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<v Speaker 1>feet right, So to me, like y'all all know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in plenty of hotels because I because of basketball

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<v Speaker 1>and traveling, Like I've been in hotels. I've been in

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<v Speaker 1>the best Western I've been in the courtyard Marria and

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<v Speaker 1>when they say four hundred square feet, they mean four

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<v Speaker 1>hundred square feet, right, okay, this one you you literally

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<v Speaker 1>opened the door and the bed like you can touch

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<v Speaker 1>the bed from the hallway. That was that was not

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<v Speaker 1>four square feet. So I literally walked to the front

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<v Speaker 1>desk and I was like, um, I think you gave

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<v Speaker 1>me the wrong room because the description said four hundred

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<v Speaker 1>square feet. She was like, let me see. She's like

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<v Speaker 1>she typed it in, she typed it, typed all her

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<v Speaker 1>computer and was like, oh, no, yes, you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>four hundred square feed room. I said, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>am not no man, Pam, where are these four hundred

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<v Speaker 1>square feet? Like are you? Are you missing the ceiling

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<v Speaker 1>and the floor? Like watch out? Okay, So like shady

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<v Speaker 1>upon shady for rail for you making them rooms that's small.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even get it. Like why I get I

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is. It's because they don't the pool.

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<v Speaker 1>The hotel is called the good time hotel, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>there for a good time, so you are meant to

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<v Speaker 1>be at the pool, okay, and you know because the

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<v Speaker 1>pool is supposed to be like popping, it's the hot

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<v Speaker 1>spot Um, you're supposed to be at the pool. You're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be out. It's like, you're not supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>spend that much time in this hotel. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>had a man in that room with you, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you going to do a cart with you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>it took your roll shuffle. You can't do none of that? Okay? No.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you imagine if you're like on a girl's trip

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<v Speaker 1>and you were, like, you know, when you're younger in

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<v Speaker 1>your twenties, like you're okay, let's share a room. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, like, no, no sharing. And actually, because I

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<v Speaker 1>went to Karen's room, that's how I saw, Um, not Karen,

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<v Speaker 1>you girl. I went to another girl named Karen's room,

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<v Speaker 1>just because she wants to show me how small the

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<v Speaker 1>small rooms are. And it was the most absurd thing

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<v Speaker 1>I had ever seen. It's like camp. It's like summer camp.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like comedge, like college. It's definitely college. I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like I think my rooms in college were bigger. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so shady. Moment of the week is the rooms at

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<v Speaker 1>the Good Time Motel. Now, outside of the rooms, the

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<v Speaker 1>hotel is great, Oh yeah, it's tabulous. I mean the

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<v Speaker 1>pool was awesome. The music kind of but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but so my shady moment, yes, is her shady moment too,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll just give my shade another shady moment. Um. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like real life. I'm back home and back

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<v Speaker 1>to real life. We were in Miami, had a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I had to come back home to real life. Yes, yes, yes, yes, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got some hot topics out here in these

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<v Speaker 1>streets were it's like going on. It's like going on,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. So first, first and foremost, we got to

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<v Speaker 1>start with, um, the Pajama Party also known as the

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<v Speaker 1>met Gala. Okay, so I was very okay, what was

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<v Speaker 1>the What was the theme of this, Matcalen? The theme

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<v Speaker 1>was something about America and and the lexicon of visionary

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<v Speaker 1>art or fashion or alexicon of fashion. Now every time,

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<v Speaker 1>every year they come up with a theme that quite frankly,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. I have to look up the words in

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<v Speaker 1>the dictionary, right, they do too much. Yes, So looking

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<v Speaker 1>at it, okay, I felt like the only okay, when

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<v Speaker 1>you think of American fashion, yes, what is that? What

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean? So that's like Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's only a handful of American established designers,

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<v Speaker 1>so everyone should have been wearing like polo shirts and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like me, so the only one. Okay, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like j Loo. I love her. She never and she

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<v Speaker 1>never has a bad moment. But I'm sorry I did

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<v Speaker 1>not like that, matt Awam. I that was the one

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<v Speaker 1>time I looked at the picture and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>j Lo was a jame. No, she was, but if

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about the theme, she she was in line

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<v Speaker 1>with the American theme. Could look she looked more like

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<v Speaker 1>a like a oh to like a cow girl. But

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<v Speaker 1>she's j Lo. She never misses like we could always

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<v Speaker 1>count on her to like killing and I was. When

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the picture of her, I literally was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what year is this? And I thought it was like

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<v Speaker 1>an old picture, rightsointed. I was very confused. I was

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<v Speaker 1>very confused by her and her little her new book

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<v Speaker 1>kissing each other with the why would you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not even romantics? Yes, and Jo, your lipstick underneath

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<v Speaker 1>your mask was smushed all over the board. It's not cute.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not a good look that I cried laughing

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<v Speaker 1>when I saw that. Okay, So j Loo with the

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<v Speaker 1>Cowgirl theme. Um, Kim, were we being invisible? Kim's lot

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<v Speaker 1>was I am invisible? Yes, you cannot see me. You

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<v Speaker 1>cannot see any piece of skin on my body. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still gonna look good. And what does that have

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<v Speaker 1>to do with America? It wasn't like ghost, not ghost

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<v Speaker 1>because it because the ghost is white, right, yeah, ghost

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<v Speaker 1>is white. So it was just like spirits from the dead.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but could we have seen your eyeballs?

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<v Speaker 1>But where were your eyeballs? Could we have seen your lips? No? Nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>That was she got see. I was actually thinking she

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<v Speaker 1>got some work done and she was hiding her face.

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<v Speaker 1>But she got some work done and she wanted ready

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<v Speaker 1>to show us her new face. That's what I'm thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what that that is. You're very smart. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of Kim, her sister Kendall, like she was my favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was dead stunning. That dress was gorgeous

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<v Speaker 1>like she it was like simple, she kept it simple,

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<v Speaker 1>like she wasn't doing too much, but she looked beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>like she was my favorite. She did. I appreciated Mary J. Blige.

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<v Speaker 1>Mary J looked amazing. Yes, she looked great. Um Rihanna,

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<v Speaker 1>I was confused. Yeah, I one, I was excited about

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<v Speaker 1>that one or her or asap? Oh my god? Was

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<v Speaker 1>it was? It was? It was said it right, would

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<v Speaker 1>you come in? And what is that? What blanket? Look?

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<v Speaker 1>What srandmother's blanket? Did you steal? Right? I said it

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<v Speaker 1>looked like fruity pebble, And then I got a whole

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of people that said it looked like Captain Crunch. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was more Captain than fruity. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I see how like fruit? Like, hey, Captain Crunch. And

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<v Speaker 1>if y'all don't know these looks that were talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>look them up there. They were just a hot mass

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<v Speaker 1>that was crazy? Okay? Who else was? Okay? So no, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I was represented on the red carpet

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<v Speaker 1>because alc, you'all know who she is. On the back

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<v Speaker 1>of her dress it said tax the rich. Yes, years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>I had on a T shirt that said pay your tax.

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<v Speaker 1>She stole my look, and nobody got mad at her

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<v Speaker 1>for that. Nobody got mad at all. And I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted people to pay their taxes. And I made a

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<v Speaker 1>T shirt on my own, and she had a designer

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<v Speaker 1>make a whole dress that said tax ch Alc. You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Now wait, wait a minute, what about Russell Westbrook. He

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<v Speaker 1>was there, Yeah, he had a skirt on. Oh I

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<v Speaker 1>missed that he had a skirt on with pleats at

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<v Speaker 1>the at the Macallan. Yes he was. It was. He

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<v Speaker 1>was at the Macallerry. He was on the corner in

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<v Speaker 1>the street. Okay, so it was the same weekend, but

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<v Speaker 1>he was maybe he was an He wasn't abode, so

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<v Speaker 1>he just stod on the corner because okay, I did

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<v Speaker 1>not see him at the Macallut, but I did see

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of him in a skirt, and I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he's copying off the Um, the guy from the British

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<v Speaker 1>band Um. Yeah, he wore a skirt too, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a trend. And so now I saw a

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<v Speaker 1>recent picture of him. He has like stars cut into

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<v Speaker 1>his head or something like died in his head. He's

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<v Speaker 1>going through something midlife christ I see. Okay, some of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they they're like so rich and they just

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<v Speaker 1>get bored and they're just like what else can I do?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's all copying my man? What's my man? Who?

0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:03.120
<v Speaker 1>Dennis Robi Dennis Dennis and they copy in Dennis robbing Dennis. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>you let them know you did it first. Okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>just think they're so bored, and they're just like what

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<v Speaker 1>else can I do? What I'm telling When I was

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<v Speaker 1>in the NBA, he had these little skinny ass pants

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<v Speaker 1>with these I mean, he literally looked like pee wee Herman.

0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:20.120
<v Speaker 1>He said, why don't used to just like peee Herman?

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<v Speaker 1>Why because he could, because he could go intro and

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<v Speaker 1>pay thousands of dollars for some pee wee Herman looking clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they were bored. All they do just what they

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<v Speaker 1>do when they go on the road. They shop, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what they shop on the day, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the day before the game or the day of the game,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're going about its ridiculous, as expensive as ship.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they wear and they look like an idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>But they think. I mean, think about how many of

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<v Speaker 1>these players you see who come into the you know

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<v Speaker 1>when they showed like the them walking in the stadium

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<v Speaker 1>and they look ridiculous. There there was this NBA player

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<v Speaker 1>used today and he had like a closet full of

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<v Speaker 1>very colorful suits and he swore and Danny were bad.

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<v Speaker 1>He used to be like to sell one should I

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<v Speaker 1>rock tonight, and I would think to myself, none, like

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<v Speaker 1>they're all horrible. But I didn't say that. I just

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, whatever you wear, it's gonna be great.

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<v Speaker 1>And I lied. They get bored and they think they're little.

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<v Speaker 1>Walking through the stadium is a runway, and they got

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<v Speaker 1>so much money they bought a stupid as ship. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>enough of what people were, Okay, because we've got to

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<v Speaker 1>move on to some other very important things called versus. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so a couple of there's been a couple of things

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<v Speaker 1>out there with regards to several people. Number one, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>has said that Kanye and Drake should have a versus

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<v Speaker 1>that will wait. Let me tell you you lied. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>what did she say? When it was like I was

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<v Speaker 1>never talking about Kanye and look what she did? What

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<v Speaker 1>did I say? I said, yes she will, Okay, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>yes you will. Look at this. I know we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>talk about briefly. I lied. Okay, so briefly. Let's people

0:13:57.480 --> 0:14:00.400
<v Speaker 1>have put it out there and none of them said

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<v Speaker 1>that they want to participate. But recently Kanye did say

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<v Speaker 1>he's down for it. Really he wants to battle Drake.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that he said that, or maybe his people

0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:10.200
<v Speaker 1>said that because he doesn't really talk, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's happening. I don't think it's happening either. But do

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<v Speaker 1>you think it would be? Do you think that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good match? First of all, I think it it would

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<v Speaker 1>be the most watched versus ever. I don't watch them,

0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:24.880
<v Speaker 1>um so I probably would watch or listen whatever. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what you do like whatever, Um, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it's going to happen. I just don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it is either. But I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here for it, here for it. I don't know.

0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:37.960
<v Speaker 1>But you never know, Like their eagles are so bad,

0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:40.120
<v Speaker 1>they might just be like, you know what, let's make

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<v Speaker 1>this you know what. It's almost like that, remember like

0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:44.520
<v Speaker 1>a long time ago, jay Z and Nas had that

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<v Speaker 1>beef and it almost was like really a fake beef.

0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.240
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't even real beef. It was like they made

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<v Speaker 1>up the beef just for the hype. Like maybe this

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<v Speaker 1>is maybe it's but let me just say building up

0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:57.400
<v Speaker 1>to that, Kanye's new stuff should never be played against anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's got to be like old kind against all

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<v Speaker 1>of Drake. So Kanye, you're gonna lose right exactly. Can

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you. I tried walking around the track one

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<v Speaker 1>day and I said, okay, let me let me switch

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<v Speaker 1>up from my certified LoVa Bull and let me put

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<v Speaker 1>on Donda and let me see. And I was like who,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like next, and then it was more.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, I can't do these. I cannot

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<v Speaker 1>do this three thousand songs like this, So this, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I do appreciate. So did he? Somebody said

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<v Speaker 1>that did he and Jay Jermaine Dupries should do it

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<v Speaker 1>versus right, so and like all the hits that they

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<v Speaker 1>like produced exactly, so that that's actually kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>a good matchup. But but Sean paffy Comb said that

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<v Speaker 1>Jermaine dupri your arms are too short to box with God.

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<v Speaker 1>Did those words come out? That's a quote? That's a quote. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a quote. Your arms are too short to

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<v Speaker 1>box with God. Now, I don't I don't know whether

0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:57.520
<v Speaker 1>he's referring to Jermaine's actual arms or if he's referring

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<v Speaker 1>to the fact that his stack of music cannot compare.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure either way. That should not have come

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<v Speaker 1>out Puffy's mouth. That is some shade maybe and maybe

0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:16.840
<v Speaker 1>um did he wants to be shady and be a

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<v Speaker 1>part of reasonably shady because he might get the shady

0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:20.560
<v Speaker 1>moment of a week. Because that was good. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>wrote that down. I might use that at the reunion.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, too short to box. It's

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<v Speaker 1>too short now. That was funny. Okay. So last one,

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<v Speaker 1>not least, was the actual verses that did happen the

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<v Speaker 1>other day between John Room and we're not talking about

0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.280
<v Speaker 1>it because we're really interested in all this music. However,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about it because Fat Joe he decided to

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<v Speaker 1>get up on that microphone and he said, as music

0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:48.280
<v Speaker 1>was playing, okay, we got it. We got to reenact

0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:52.120
<v Speaker 1>because the music is playing. And Ja Rue was like

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<v Speaker 1>mad because remy Ma had come out and killed it,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like and then so he made a

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<v Speaker 1>comment and if Fat Joe was like, man, you got

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<v Speaker 1>them dusty bitches in the back, and he was referring

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<v Speaker 1>to a little mo and Vita via yes, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he said, you found him in the crack house. You

0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:12.080
<v Speaker 1>found him dusty bitches in the crack crack and they

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<v Speaker 1>need they need to check. That's why my he said,

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<v Speaker 1>my bitches is rich they don't need this, like he went.

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<v Speaker 1>He went full throttle, like he went and explained dusty bitches, right,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly right, you're a dusty bitch because you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>crack house and you need money. Like okay, now, I

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<v Speaker 1>never I always appreciate a good shape moment. But he

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<v Speaker 1>went to phar no, no, no, that was ridiculous. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, that's embarrassing, like that's that, like why why?

0:17:36.160 --> 0:17:39.359
<v Speaker 1>And then he's like literally literally humiliating them because they

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<v Speaker 1>were there. Like I was thinking when I heard about it,

0:17:41.760 --> 0:17:43.560
<v Speaker 1>I was thinking like, Okay, they weren't there, and then

0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I saw like, oh no, they were actually really there. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then so all of it. So now he's apologizing

0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:53.560
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sorry, Like that apology would never fly with me,

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<v Speaker 1>Like okay, you know this, this little fake apology, you

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<v Speaker 1>can keep it and keep him more he can apologize,

0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:01.840
<v Speaker 1>would bends like just just send him some right, send

0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:03.879
<v Speaker 1>him like a diamond bracelet or something. But you know

0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:07.840
<v Speaker 1>that was that's horrible that it's not cool. It wasn't necessary.

0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:10.520
<v Speaker 1>You just wasn't necessary. And especially you know like little Mo,

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<v Speaker 1>I know she had struggles with like oh I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like opioid addiction. So it's like and very recently,

0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:20.960
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, wow, like you're literally kicking a woman

0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:24.160
<v Speaker 1>when she's when she was, you know not I mean

0:18:24.280 --> 0:18:27.480
<v Speaker 1>hopefully she's not still down, but like that is like that,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. That just was horrible. It was very

0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:31.879
<v Speaker 1>bad and bad. Joe, You're wrong for that. But I

0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:34.000
<v Speaker 1>do want to admit I don't I don't know what

0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:36.359
<v Speaker 1>a vida is. I've never heard of a vida she

0:18:36.560 --> 0:18:40.119
<v Speaker 1>was either. So I was like, well, it's there's not

0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:42.000
<v Speaker 1>think to this, but I'm just so who was a vida?

0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:43.960
<v Speaker 1>Just explained to me what vida is? Yeah, I didn't

0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:46.160
<v Speaker 1>know who she was either. Okay, do we know now?

0:18:46.440 --> 0:18:49.439
<v Speaker 1>We still don't know? That's fine, I still I don't know.

0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Maybe she was like a background singer or something. But

0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, clearly we know who little Mo is

0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:56.440
<v Speaker 1>and she was on a ton of hits for job

0:18:56.560 --> 0:18:59.080
<v Speaker 1>rules so or with job rules or whatever. And that's

0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:01.480
<v Speaker 1>how homegirl, Like, you're not gonna talk about Mo now, Vita,

0:19:01.520 --> 0:19:02.959
<v Speaker 1>we can't vouch with you because we don't know who

0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:05.560
<v Speaker 1>you are and you're not a dusty bitch but you

0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:08.479
<v Speaker 1>but it's just leaving it. So can you imagine, like,

0:19:08.880 --> 0:19:11.720
<v Speaker 1>imagine if somebody says that and you're like in the building,

0:19:12.560 --> 0:19:16.880
<v Speaker 1>like how do you even like? What? Yes? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>so we do. Before we get too far into this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>we do have to give so much love to Charlemagne

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<v Speaker 1>vot Goal because he's now going to be late night,

0:19:26.280 --> 0:19:30.080
<v Speaker 1>so he's definitely ruling the morning hours with the Breakfast Club.

0:19:30.119 --> 0:19:33.000
<v Speaker 1>So he's now going to be on Comedy Central late night.

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<v Speaker 1>And the show is called the show was called I

0:19:37.040 --> 0:19:40.040
<v Speaker 1>know what it's called. The show was called um, the

0:19:40.080 --> 0:19:43.080
<v Speaker 1>God's Honest Truth, Okay. And the reason why I remembered it,

0:19:43.119 --> 0:19:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even have to look it up, y'all. It's

0:19:44.520 --> 0:19:47.520
<v Speaker 1>because I love that that net that title, The God's

0:19:47.560 --> 0:19:50.000
<v Speaker 1>on his Truth. That's amazing. So it's gonna be a

0:19:50.080 --> 0:19:53.239
<v Speaker 1>comedic take on like what's happening in the world, I

0:19:53.240 --> 0:19:57.360
<v Speaker 1>think yes. So is it okay? So is it like

0:19:57.480 --> 0:20:00.600
<v Speaker 1>a late night show with guests or is it just him?

0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:02.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't like when we say comedic. To be honest,

0:20:02.800 --> 0:20:06.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't put Charlemagne in comedy together. He's a little funny,

0:20:06.560 --> 0:20:09.200
<v Speaker 1>you think so, or maybe there'll be funny people coming

0:20:09.240 --> 0:20:12.080
<v Speaker 1>to the show. I don't know either way, or I

0:20:12.080 --> 0:20:15.840
<v Speaker 1>think his view might be a funny view of what's

0:20:15.880 --> 0:20:19.520
<v Speaker 1>happening that's serious, right. Either way, I'm here for it.

0:20:19.560 --> 0:20:21.280
<v Speaker 1>I want to see it. I mean, you know, I

0:20:21.359 --> 0:20:23.280
<v Speaker 1>love I love late night TV. I don't know so

0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I think you're gonna have the tv R that I'm

0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:29.119
<v Speaker 1>gonna be sleeping, but I'm gonna watch it during the day, um,

0:20:29.160 --> 0:20:32.560
<v Speaker 1>from like eleven to two when the children are at school. Now,

0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:35.640
<v Speaker 1>I am in love and I know we are very

0:20:35.640 --> 0:20:38.440
<v Speaker 1>happy getting back to our brival world that The Real

0:20:38.480 --> 0:20:42.880
<v Speaker 1>Housewives of Salt Like City is back on. I'm gonna

0:20:42.920 --> 0:20:44.840
<v Speaker 1>be honest, I did not see the first couple of episodes,

0:20:44.880 --> 0:20:47.320
<v Speaker 1>but I want to binge it. But I'm so super

0:20:47.359 --> 0:20:51.159
<v Speaker 1>excited about the season. These ladies are crazy. They for

0:20:51.280 --> 0:20:54.480
<v Speaker 1>it to be their second season. They know what they're doing. Yes,

0:20:54.560 --> 0:20:57.480
<v Speaker 1>they're They're a great cast. And it's so funny because

0:20:57.480 --> 0:21:00.720
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like you look at Erica Jane on

0:21:00.760 --> 0:21:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Beverly Hills and well, I'm sorry Erica Girardi and Beverly

0:21:04.920 --> 0:21:11.280
<v Speaker 1>Hills and how she's handling her public you know, issues,

0:21:11.400 --> 0:21:16.400
<v Speaker 1>legal issues versus Jen Show on Salt Lake City and

0:21:16.400 --> 0:21:18.960
<v Speaker 1>how she appears to be handling her legal issues. And

0:21:19.000 --> 0:21:21.120
<v Speaker 1>it's like so interesting because it seems like totally two

0:21:21.200 --> 0:21:24.720
<v Speaker 1>totally different reactions to it. And Jen shot from what

0:21:24.760 --> 0:21:26.840
<v Speaker 1>we know from reading the blogs and you know, just

0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:30.840
<v Speaker 1>reports like she's literally facing federal jail time huge, where

0:21:30.920 --> 0:21:33.240
<v Speaker 1>Eric is not facing any jail time. So like, but

0:21:33.440 --> 0:21:35.720
<v Speaker 1>Jen from what it looks like, you know, from what

0:21:35.840 --> 0:21:37.560
<v Speaker 1>you can see on the show and the trailer, and

0:21:38.200 --> 0:21:41.760
<v Speaker 1>it's like she's like addressing it full on. She's screaming

0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:45.200
<v Speaker 1>at people, and you know she is the same gen

0:21:45.280 --> 0:21:48.879
<v Speaker 1>show jail. I don't know, like she's like really talking

0:21:48.920 --> 0:21:52.280
<v Speaker 1>about it, where I feel like Erica is very guarded,

0:21:52.400 --> 0:21:56.679
<v Speaker 1>guarded and filtered and very careful about what she says,

0:21:56.760 --> 0:22:01.639
<v Speaker 1>very deliberate, um so, and and you know, it's so

0:22:01.640 --> 0:22:03.760
<v Speaker 1>funny to see how everyone has a different take on

0:22:03.920 --> 0:22:06.719
<v Speaker 1>Erica and is she lying, is she telling the truth?

0:22:07.400 --> 0:22:10.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, every episode I watched, I'm like, I have

0:22:10.840 --> 0:22:13.760
<v Speaker 1>a different view from the last time I watched an episode, really,

0:22:13.760 --> 0:22:15.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like if it flip flops

0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:17.240
<v Speaker 1>every time, I don't know where I am now. I

0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:21.240
<v Speaker 1>just okay, my take is she's human. Number one, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>number two. I think she was so used to like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is like the most the hardest thing

0:22:26.840 --> 0:22:29.440
<v Speaker 1>that she's ever had to face, and it's probably very humiliating,

0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:32.880
<v Speaker 1>very embarrassing, and she has to face this while filming

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<v Speaker 1>and having to talk about it and having to talk

0:22:35.400 --> 0:22:39.000
<v Speaker 1>about it over and over and over again. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think when it's something that's like that serious, that's stressful,

0:22:42.000 --> 0:22:44.160
<v Speaker 1>that bad, like you don't want to talk about it

0:22:44.280 --> 0:22:48.000
<v Speaker 1>hell now. So I just think we're getting like the

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<v Speaker 1>best that she can do in this situation. And she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of she's, you know, I think in most of

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<v Speaker 1>yours as she's not handling it the best way but

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<v Speaker 1>at all. But I think you gotta put yourself in

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<v Speaker 1>her shoe and not really I don't know, like just

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<v Speaker 1>not really be as harsh on her because I could

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<v Speaker 1>not imagine being in her position and having to film

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<v Speaker 1>a reality show and talk about that mess. LOLd time Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to our lives, um and speaking of our lives,

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<v Speaker 1>we're very excited to announce coming up very soon because

0:23:22.560 --> 0:23:24.479
<v Speaker 1>you guys have asked us over and over again do

0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:28.760
<v Speaker 1>we have reasonably shady merch? And we do. It's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's you can't buy it today, but you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be able to buy it in about five more minutes. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>be stay tuned. We've got some We're starting slow. We

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<v Speaker 1>want to see the response. Um, we're not you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not gonna have a whole bunch. It's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be limited quantities, so make sure you're paying attention. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have some very cute, very warm hoodies, black hoodies

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<v Speaker 1>ready for you very soon. Yes. And it's it's about

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<v Speaker 1>to get cold, so a hoodie is what you need. Yes,

0:23:53.160 --> 0:23:55.159
<v Speaker 1>I love a hoodie. And when it's not cold, like

0:23:55.200 --> 0:23:56.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, when you're in the house with the a

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<v Speaker 1>c like, I love a hoodie. Yes. Okay, So we

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<v Speaker 1>it's time to get to like what this episode is about. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So we realized that in relationships it's all kinds of

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<v Speaker 1>crazy and a lot of times you're fighting about nonsense. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I've been in several relationships. I remember

0:24:11.880 --> 0:24:17.360
<v Speaker 1>one in particular, this guy Okay, fine, he was a preacher, Okay, fine,

0:24:17.359 --> 0:24:21.760
<v Speaker 1>it was Jamal and he you know, with him preaching,

0:24:22.160 --> 0:24:26.040
<v Speaker 1>he his clothes would sweat, and so he would just

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<v Speaker 1>like take his clothes off and just like throw it

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<v Speaker 1>in the corner here, like this bag of like stinky clothes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then like after some time it would get like festering,

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<v Speaker 1>permeating through the home of like stinkiness, and he what

0:24:39.640 --> 0:24:42.639
<v Speaker 1>he would want to do is he would want to control,

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<v Speaker 1>making sure that he didn't wear clothes over and over again,

0:24:47.680 --> 0:24:49.639
<v Speaker 1>because he was like trying to control his wardrobe. But

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to clean him. So he was waiting

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<v Speaker 1>to take them to the cleaners until for like three weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, negro, Can I say, Negro, sure, okay, nigger,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a stack of stinky ass clothes in this

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<v Speaker 1>corner right here, and look, I know, because he felt

0:25:08.160 --> 0:25:10.520
<v Speaker 1>like if the clothes were cleaned and back into the house,

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:13.399
<v Speaker 1>he might repeat. He didn't want to repeat too quickly,

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:15.880
<v Speaker 1>so this was his way of not repeating. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>give a ship it stinks. It was. It was bad

0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:22.680
<v Speaker 1>because it was just like sweaty Okay, yeah, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I can I can picture that because remember talked

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<v Speaker 1>about one bringing home his player's clothes. Yes, yes, it

0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:30.800
<v Speaker 1>was horrible. So I would like sneak and take the

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<v Speaker 1>clothes to the cleaners, and he would get so mad

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<v Speaker 1>as an argument everything. It was really bad. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really bad. Okay. That and he hates Mexican food. Okay,

0:25:39.760 --> 0:25:42.520
<v Speaker 1>we've talked about that before, yes, and and okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>then one more what was one more that we were

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so we would have several cars, okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>he had an aversion to like going to the gas station. Okay,

0:25:56.160 --> 0:25:58.320
<v Speaker 1>so he would like drive one car until there was

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<v Speaker 1>like no gas. Oh my god. Instead of going to

0:26:00.640 --> 0:26:02.280
<v Speaker 1>the gas station, he would just getting to the other car.

0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:04.840
<v Speaker 1>So I would be laughing with some non gas car

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<v Speaker 1>gas do eat? Oh my god, negro can negro? All

0:26:11.080 --> 0:26:13.040
<v Speaker 1>the cars have no gas in it. We don't eat

0:26:13.240 --> 0:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>because you refused to go to the gas stage. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, Oh my gosh. This is why we're divorced. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is why that was dropping me crazy. That would

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<v Speaker 1>drive me crazy. That would drive me crazy. So you

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<v Speaker 1>have to go pump the gas all the time. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So that that was an issue. Okay. And and by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, this uh, this episode is called stop Fighting,

0:26:32.320 --> 0:26:34.719
<v Speaker 1>Stop Fighting because we put it out there for you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to let us know, like with the silly nonsense

0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:39.720
<v Speaker 1>that y'all fight over, and y'all came back with it.

0:26:39.760 --> 0:26:41.280
<v Speaker 1>But do you have any you want to you want

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:44.680
<v Speaker 1>to talk, you want to tell the world. So I

0:26:44.680 --> 0:26:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like we should have named this episode pick

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<v Speaker 1>your Battles. Okay, yes, we're changing the name right now.

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:52.560
<v Speaker 1>It's now called pick your goddamn Battles. Pick your battles people,

0:26:53.560 --> 0:26:56.360
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like when you're in relationships and you're

0:26:56.400 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 1>with someone for a long time, you have to choose

0:26:59.000 --> 0:27:02.320
<v Speaker 1>to pick your battles. You know, like certain things, it's like, okay,

0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:04.560
<v Speaker 1>this is not going to change, let me just do it.

0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 1>So it's like, um, well, okay a few things. One

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 1>likes to take cash out of my wallet because he

0:27:16.600 --> 0:27:18.000
<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to go to the A T M. And

0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:23.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, I didn't think you're gonna say that

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:25.480
<v Speaker 1>that it's funny to me. So he's like a little

0:27:25.520 --> 0:27:28.119
<v Speaker 1>kid stealing your money. Okay. He's literally taking cash for

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:29.320
<v Speaker 1>a while. And then when I go to my wallet

0:27:29.320 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like I'm missing cash, and he's like you

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:35.399
<v Speaker 1>blaming me, Yes, I'm blaming you. You took the cash

0:27:35.440 --> 0:27:38.320
<v Speaker 1>out of my wallet. Because he plays the video game.

0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:40.480
<v Speaker 1>He goes and plays video games with his buddy and

0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:43.920
<v Speaker 1>they bet and they have to, and so he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to stop and go to the A t M.

0:27:45.480 --> 0:27:47.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, I choose to go to the A

0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:50.480
<v Speaker 1>t M so that I can have cash in my wallet. No,

0:27:50.720 --> 0:27:53.199
<v Speaker 1>go go you stopped at the A t M and

0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:55.240
<v Speaker 1>get cash. It's like, it's late. I don't want to

0:27:55.280 --> 0:27:57.480
<v Speaker 1>be rapped. I'm like, I don't. You're a man. I

0:27:57.480 --> 0:28:01.560
<v Speaker 1>don't care. It's your fault. I mean, yes, we have that. Yes,

0:28:01.800 --> 0:28:07.400
<v Speaker 1>that's that's huge, as annoying as hell. I mean, girl,

0:28:07.440 --> 0:28:09.680
<v Speaker 1>I could I could go on and on and on um,

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:14.080
<v Speaker 1>but I just choose to pick my battles like that battles. Okay,

0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:16.800
<v Speaker 1>So you guys came back with some all kinds of

0:28:16.840 --> 0:28:20.119
<v Speaker 1>some stuff. Okay, so a lot of you said that

0:28:20.200 --> 0:28:25.840
<v Speaker 1>you all fight over parenting styles, and that's actually a

0:28:25.960 --> 0:28:30.920
<v Speaker 1>huge thing. Yeah, that's not a small issue. So yeah,

0:28:30.960 --> 0:28:33.760
<v Speaker 1>you gotta work. And it's hard because even why don't

0:28:33.760 --> 0:28:37.000
<v Speaker 1>I have that issue because I'm like, I'm like the cool,

0:28:37.119 --> 0:28:39.160
<v Speaker 1>fun parent, but I'm still like my kids know, like

0:28:39.200 --> 0:28:42.840
<v Speaker 1>don't play with me. But one is like the stick

0:28:42.880 --> 0:28:49.200
<v Speaker 1>in the mud parents, right ah, And so like he

0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:52.480
<v Speaker 1>might say something to the kids and in front of

0:28:52.520 --> 0:28:54.760
<v Speaker 1>the kids, I'd be like why, like why are you

0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:56.880
<v Speaker 1>saying that right? And then he'll get so mad at

0:28:56.960 --> 0:29:00.120
<v Speaker 1>me for going against him in front of the kids,

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:02.400
<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? So I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a lot of the issues that, you know, the

0:29:05.320 --> 0:29:08.400
<v Speaker 1>differences in parenting styles, like just try to handle them

0:29:08.440 --> 0:29:11.000
<v Speaker 1>behind closed doors, because when you do it in front

0:29:11.000 --> 0:29:12.960
<v Speaker 1>of the kids, it just, you know, it makes the

0:29:13.000 --> 0:29:16.000
<v Speaker 1>other parents defensive. And then the kids are sitting there

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:18.000
<v Speaker 1>watching their parents arguing and it's like that's not good.

0:29:18.320 --> 0:29:21.360
<v Speaker 1>So so yeah, so parenting style is definitely that that's

0:29:21.720 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's something you gotta talk about before

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:27.400
<v Speaker 1>you start having these kids. My my parents, you know,

0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:30.800
<v Speaker 1>Jamana co parent very well because my parents and he

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<v Speaker 1>just cos he just comes a lot of y'all said

0:29:42.640 --> 0:29:46.120
<v Speaker 1>that y'all are fighting about where to eat. Okay, so

0:29:46.160 --> 0:29:48.880
<v Speaker 1>this is double trouble. Okay, So y'are hungry and y'all

0:29:48.920 --> 0:29:51.720
<v Speaker 1>can't decide what to eat. My god, you know. But

0:29:52.080 --> 0:29:55.240
<v Speaker 1>so for me, I get frustrated when I'm like, Okay,

0:29:55.280 --> 0:29:56.880
<v Speaker 1>what do you want to eat for dinner? And it's

0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:59.680
<v Speaker 1>like oh no, And I'm like, oh my gosh, Like

0:30:00.360 --> 0:30:02.840
<v Speaker 1>I get so sick of feeding people. So you're lucky

0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:05.160
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to do with feeding another grown man.

0:30:05.760 --> 0:30:08.120
<v Speaker 1>But like I'm like, damn it, help me here, Like,

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:10.000
<v Speaker 1>at least tell me what you want to eat, right,

0:30:10.440 --> 0:30:12.600
<v Speaker 1>and then when we fix, when we figure out something

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 1>to eat, then you're gonna complain, like you know what

0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:19.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like what do you yes? Or you could

0:30:19.720 --> 0:30:22.400
<v Speaker 1>have hooked it right? How about you ask me what

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:25.720
<v Speaker 1>I want to eat that I'm with you on that. Hey,

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 1>you gotta pick and choose your battles. Now, this person,

0:30:29.040 --> 0:30:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Keenan Dash, I mean Keenan Dot, Elijah said, the constant

0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:36.880
<v Speaker 1>discussion of their AX. Now, I just want to tell

0:30:36.920 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 1>you a little something something. If she constantly talking about

0:30:39.760 --> 0:30:44.440
<v Speaker 1>the X, she's having sex with the X gang or

0:30:44.520 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 1>she's trying to have sex with the X, she should

0:30:47.640 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>not be talking about the X. So that's actually not

0:30:50.400 --> 0:30:52.800
<v Speaker 1>something silly to silly. That's not a silly thing that

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:55.640
<v Speaker 1>you're fighting over. That's a real thing. You got issues, bro.

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:59.520
<v Speaker 1>I would say, um, yeah, that's not good. We don't

0:30:59.520 --> 0:31:04.520
<v Speaker 1>want that now, Okay. So, uh, sind Pie, please send

0:31:04.560 --> 0:31:07.400
<v Speaker 1>pay please. That's the name of the person, Send pay please. Okay,

0:31:07.600 --> 0:31:11.800
<v Speaker 1>says his ass hanging out with the wrong people. Now.

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how old he is, but let me

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:15.320
<v Speaker 1>tell you something. I used to deal with that with

0:31:15.400 --> 0:31:19.120
<v Speaker 1>one and I would tell him, show me your friends,

0:31:19.120 --> 0:31:23.560
<v Speaker 1>and I'll show you your future. Not robbing with the

0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Grandma quote. That's the quote from like the Mabel like quote.

0:31:28.720 --> 0:31:31.640
<v Speaker 1>But it's so true. But and he honestly, you know,

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:34.120
<v Speaker 1>this is when he was when he was younger. And

0:31:34.640 --> 0:31:37.040
<v Speaker 1>it takes a little bit of maturing and growing up

0:31:37.080 --> 0:31:40.160
<v Speaker 1>for men to be like, you know what you were, right.

0:31:40.680 --> 0:31:43.719
<v Speaker 1>So I feel like sometimes like just try to, you know,

0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:47.600
<v Speaker 1>you want to still kind of let them know, like, Okay,

0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:49.600
<v Speaker 1>you need to be careful, you don't want to you know,

0:31:49.680 --> 0:31:53.120
<v Speaker 1>fall dude, fall into bad things, blah blah blah. But

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 1>just hope that he'll mature and grow out of that,

0:31:56.360 --> 0:32:01.280
<v Speaker 1>because right. Okay, So Cassie Devon, Cassie Devon, let me

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:03.360
<v Speaker 1>shake something your girl left my own heart because you

0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:06.680
<v Speaker 1>said he's snoring. Okay, so let me tell you something

0:32:07.000 --> 0:32:11.160
<v Speaker 1>about Gazelle. Gazelle likes to sleep. It's very important to me.

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:15.520
<v Speaker 1>So when you are bothering my sleep, I have a problem. Okay,

0:32:15.520 --> 0:32:19.400
<v Speaker 1>So that sherman used to snore, really loud, like loud

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<v Speaker 1>loud to point where I would like wake him up,

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:23.480
<v Speaker 1>because I heard that if you wake them up and

0:32:23.520 --> 0:32:26.760
<v Speaker 1>then like put them on aside, then they'll kind of stop.

0:32:27.280 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's true, but I would wake

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:30.560
<v Speaker 1>his ass up all the time and he'd be like,

0:32:30.760 --> 0:32:34.000
<v Speaker 1>what what, what's the problem. The problem is I can't

0:32:34.000 --> 0:32:37.280
<v Speaker 1>sleep because your ass's snoring so loud. So one day

0:32:37.280 --> 0:32:40.920
<v Speaker 1>I recorded it. I recorded how loud he was, so

0:32:40.960 --> 0:32:42.520
<v Speaker 1>then like the next day, I was like, let me

0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:44.080
<v Speaker 1>tell you why I can't sleep. He was like, what's

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:46.920
<v Speaker 1>the problem? And I pleased. I pressed play and I

0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:49.160
<v Speaker 1>made him listen to it, and it sounded like a

0:32:49.320 --> 0:32:51.440
<v Speaker 1>train was cominant. It was horrible. He's like, just that

0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:54.600
<v Speaker 1>you lying, Stop lying. This ain't me, Yes it is,

0:32:55.520 --> 0:32:57.880
<v Speaker 1>You're ridiculous. Oh my gosh. Yeah, you know it's so

0:32:57.920 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 1>funny lately one who's been snoring loud and I'll just

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:03.480
<v Speaker 1>like push him really hard. But he doesn't remember that

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:05.760
<v Speaker 1>that happens like in the Can I tell you a

0:33:05.760 --> 0:33:11.840
<v Speaker 1>funny story about me? One told me that I would

0:33:11.880 --> 0:33:18.160
<v Speaker 1>sink in my sleep? What what are you singing? What

0:33:18.240 --> 0:33:21.360
<v Speaker 1>was I singing? No? I think it might have been

0:33:21.360 --> 0:33:24.120
<v Speaker 1>like Whitney Houston or something like. He literally was like

0:33:24.480 --> 0:33:26.719
<v Speaker 1>he couldn't pull his phone out fast enough to like

0:33:26.760 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>record me, but he was like robbing. It was the

0:33:28.680 --> 0:33:32.080
<v Speaker 1>funniest thing. Like I was literally singing and like holding

0:33:32.120 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>a note. What let us find out? You need to

0:33:35.680 --> 0:33:38.400
<v Speaker 1>record you, but you gotta go to sleep first. So

0:33:38.760 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, there's apps that like kim will record you

0:33:42.200 --> 0:33:44.160
<v Speaker 1>throughout the night, right, so it's like, you know, I

0:33:44.160 --> 0:33:46.200
<v Speaker 1>can like tell you like I don't know whatever is

0:33:46.200 --> 0:33:48.440
<v Speaker 1>going on. I used it one time and I was

0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:51.120
<v Speaker 1>like it was just so creepy to me. It was

0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:53.600
<v Speaker 1>like scary, So I didn't like. I used it one

0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:54.960
<v Speaker 1>time and I was like, I don't think I want

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:57.840
<v Speaker 1>to know like what I'm saying at night or like

0:33:57.960 --> 0:34:00.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, so, yeah, that's creepy. But maybe you'll catch

0:34:00.480 --> 0:34:04.200
<v Speaker 1>myself singing one time if I do. Yes, let's see,

0:34:04.440 --> 0:34:08.480
<v Speaker 1>So this one's funny. Watching too much Real Housewives of Potomac.

0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:14.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah who said that? Who said that? Um? Nas Kate Bailey,

0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:17.759
<v Speaker 1>nas Ka Bailey? We like you, Naskay Bailey. And yes,

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:20.200
<v Speaker 1>if you have to fight with your boot over watching

0:34:20.200 --> 0:34:22.479
<v Speaker 1>our hop, go ahead on and just take that fight

0:34:22.560 --> 0:34:24.080
<v Speaker 1>that's a fight you're gonna have to take. I know

0:34:24.120 --> 0:34:26.080
<v Speaker 1>you might have to like hide and watch it though,

0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:29.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, yes, because I'll be honest. So in my house,

0:34:30.239 --> 0:34:32.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm outnumbered. And when the show is on, you know,

0:34:32.880 --> 0:34:35.400
<v Speaker 1>we're supposed to be you know, watching it or tweeting

0:34:35.480 --> 0:34:38.239
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. Usually there's like a football game or a

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:42.839
<v Speaker 1>basketball game or something else on in my house during

0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:45.000
<v Speaker 1>that time, because you gotta go somewhere else. Yeah, I

0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:47.239
<v Speaker 1>might have to go like hide. But if I try

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:49.439
<v Speaker 1>to hide, they come find me. That's the crazy part.

0:34:49.480 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 1>It's like I try to go hide for my privacy

0:34:52.080 --> 0:34:55.279
<v Speaker 1>and then they come find me. What you're doing. It's

0:34:55.280 --> 0:34:57.560
<v Speaker 1>Sunday at eight o'clock, you know what I'm doing? Okay,

0:34:57.560 --> 0:35:02.040
<v Speaker 1>So Sadie Bird five one said then wanting to be

0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:05.719
<v Speaker 1>friends with an X it's a note for me, Okay.

0:35:05.760 --> 0:35:09.239
<v Speaker 1>Everything that y'all send us us EX related. Yeah, that's

0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:11.840
<v Speaker 1>that's a red flag. Well, that's a red flag that

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:14.719
<v Speaker 1>should be in that relationship, right, because something's going on

0:35:14.840 --> 0:35:17.920
<v Speaker 1>that's a little creepy. Yeah, they're an EX for a reason.

0:35:18.200 --> 0:35:19.560
<v Speaker 1>They should be an X for a reason, and you

0:35:19.560 --> 0:35:21.520
<v Speaker 1>should should you should be done with them, Like no,

0:35:21.640 --> 0:35:25.239
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be comfortable with that. No, I don't want that. Um,

0:35:25.320 --> 0:35:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna assume that this is Florida girl in the

0:35:27.680 --> 0:35:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Cleveland Okay, his teenage kids not picking up after themselves. Yes,

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:37.839
<v Speaker 1>that would drive me crazy that I would go like insane.

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>It's like the stinky clothes. Yeah, it's like the stinky clothes.

0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:43.719
<v Speaker 1>But I could imagine like if they're his, if there's

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:46.800
<v Speaker 1>someone else's kids and they're not your kids, it's even worse.

0:35:46.960 --> 0:35:48.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I hate to say it, but I can imagine

0:35:49.000 --> 0:35:53.080
<v Speaker 1>just being so annoyed that and then and then it

0:35:53.120 --> 0:35:55.080
<v Speaker 1>becomes a fight, and then it's like, oh, you're just mad.

0:35:55.160 --> 0:35:59.319
<v Speaker 1>Stop streating my kids like that. And Okay, this is

0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:02.960
<v Speaker 1>potential you stylists, okay. Also known as wand Dixon. This

0:36:03.040 --> 0:36:05.960
<v Speaker 1>is Wan Dixon's handle because it says timing. She is

0:36:06.000 --> 0:36:12.359
<v Speaker 1>always late, very annoying. Okay, fine, it's not why. It's

0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:15.320
<v Speaker 1>not why I talk about Rob. Sometimes I'm late because

0:36:15.320 --> 0:36:18.600
<v Speaker 1>of him most of the time because he's making me late. Oh,

0:36:19.160 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 1>because he's playing damn video game. Like if we have

0:36:21.120 --> 0:36:23.600
<v Speaker 1>somewhere to be together, he's playing a damn video game

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:26.319
<v Speaker 1>and can't and won't get dressed, you know soon enough. Yes,

0:36:26.440 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 1>he makes me late, so we're it's like we don't

0:36:28.280 --> 0:36:30.520
<v Speaker 1>we don't help each other in that area, right, But

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:32.920
<v Speaker 1>but I can't say that being if one person is

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:35.359
<v Speaker 1>like always late in a relationship, that's like a deal

0:36:35.400 --> 0:36:37.400
<v Speaker 1>breaker for you. Well no, not for me, but I

0:36:37.640 --> 0:36:41.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like about in our friendship. Well, we're not sleeping together,

0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:46.719
<v Speaker 1>so it's okay, but if you're late getting to the

0:36:46.719 --> 0:36:48.680
<v Speaker 1>bedroom for me to sleep with you, it's a problem.

0:36:48.719 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 1>It's a problem. It's rob you sleep, you sleep. Um Sawyer,

0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:55.520
<v Speaker 1>the hair Slayer says he hates that I have so

0:36:55.560 --> 0:36:58.840
<v Speaker 1>many clothes and continue to buy more. He will learn. Look,

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:00.960
<v Speaker 1>he's that that he's just had to pick his battles

0:37:01.080 --> 0:37:03.239
<v Speaker 1>and that's not one of them. Because so you're the

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:05.279
<v Speaker 1>hair slayer is going to continue to buy clothes. It's

0:37:05.320 --> 0:37:08.360
<v Speaker 1>so funny. The other day, I know I'm not the

0:37:08.400 --> 0:37:10.719
<v Speaker 1>only one, like I have to like hide my packages,

0:37:11.400 --> 0:37:13.719
<v Speaker 1>do you so you you still do that? I still

0:37:13.760 --> 0:37:15.680
<v Speaker 1>do that. The other day he called me and he

0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:19.239
<v Speaker 1>was like, you bought a Versachi bathing suit. I mean

0:37:20.760 --> 0:37:22.920
<v Speaker 1>actually she did, and she wore in Miami. It was

0:37:23.120 --> 0:37:28.480
<v Speaker 1>very nice. I was like, he's like I bathe the suit,

0:37:28.640 --> 0:37:31.160
<v Speaker 1>and you get on me about not spending money, and

0:37:31.280 --> 0:37:34.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, said, but I worked hard in these

0:37:34.760 --> 0:37:38.680
<v Speaker 1>streets like Versaci. Oh my god, I have to hide

0:37:38.719 --> 0:37:40.480
<v Speaker 1>my stuff. I was like, damn it. I didn't know.

0:37:40.719 --> 0:37:42.520
<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because I had left my stuff on

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:45.719
<v Speaker 1>the bed. Huh. And I didn't know he was coming home.

0:37:46.280 --> 0:37:48.560
<v Speaker 1>If I knew he was coming home, it would have

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 1>that ship would have been packed up. Son, So did

0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:53.600
<v Speaker 1>you did he open the box or was it already opened?

0:37:53.719 --> 0:37:56.719
<v Speaker 1>It was so the box was like open, like let

0:37:56.800 --> 0:37:59.799
<v Speaker 1>like he had to kind of like lift stuff up

0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:04.040
<v Speaker 1>in the box to see what was it. Yes, but

0:38:04.120 --> 0:38:07.960
<v Speaker 1>the box was already like opened. Okay, okay, okay. So

0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:10.200
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't being that nosy, but he was still, yeah,

0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:12.879
<v Speaker 1>you might have to hide. He was hating. Okay. So

0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:15.879
<v Speaker 1>somebody said, hold on, I'm trying to figure out who

0:38:15.880 --> 0:38:18.120
<v Speaker 1>you are. You are, Felicia. I feel like I know

0:38:18.200 --> 0:38:23.239
<v Speaker 1>this person, She said his mother. Okay, so when you

0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:27.560
<v Speaker 1>pick it and choosing your battles, miss Felicia, you just

0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:31.080
<v Speaker 1>let you gotta let it go. His mother ain't going nowhere. Nowhere,

0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:36.920
<v Speaker 1>she's going. She's actually going to move in next week, Okay,

0:38:37.239 --> 0:38:39.680
<v Speaker 1>and you don't you don't want that constant fight, like

0:38:39.880 --> 0:38:43.680
<v Speaker 1>and it's like you don't want horrible thanksgivings, horrible Christmas.

0:38:43.680 --> 0:38:46.600
<v Speaker 1>Is you gotta let it go. It is what it is.

0:38:46.719 --> 0:38:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Let go and guess what, You're probably not gonna win

0:38:48.960 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 1>that one. Yeah, you know, because who looks like the

0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 1>asshole you? Yes, unfortunately, I'm sure his mother is horrible.

0:38:56.280 --> 0:39:01.160
<v Speaker 1>She's like they were so annoying, like in your business,

0:39:01.280 --> 0:39:03.600
<v Speaker 1>trying to tell you what to do. Let it go,

0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:06.319
<v Speaker 1>let it go, and like, don't try to like if

0:39:06.400 --> 0:39:08.360
<v Speaker 1>y'all have kids, and like you don't really want your

0:39:08.440 --> 0:39:10.879
<v Speaker 1>kids with her because you're mad at her. Yeah, don't

0:39:10.880 --> 0:39:14.320
<v Speaker 1>do that either. Okay, fine, maybe I did that, Okay, whatever,

0:39:15.400 --> 0:39:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I lost that. What's that if you have kids, if y'all,

0:39:17.560 --> 0:39:19.360
<v Speaker 1>if the two if you and your man have kids

0:39:19.960 --> 0:39:22.359
<v Speaker 1>and you hate his mother and she's trying to spend

0:39:22.400 --> 0:39:23.839
<v Speaker 1>some time with her and the mama trying to spend

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 1>time with grandkids, but you hate her. Yeah, don't you

0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:30.000
<v Speaker 1>gotta let it go? You just gotta just woo sah

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:35.520
<v Speaker 1>and drink like several shots and just let it go. Yeah.

0:39:36.440 --> 0:39:39.400
<v Speaker 1>I think you're speaking from I don't know, I don't know,

0:39:39.640 --> 0:39:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but a lot of people said, like

0:39:41.640 --> 0:39:46.200
<v Speaker 1>cleaning chores guys, like y'all, y'all just need to hire

0:39:46.239 --> 0:39:48.960
<v Speaker 1>a maid. What are y'all doing, Like, y'all get got

0:39:49.000 --> 0:39:51.480
<v Speaker 1>to get somebody else to clean these dude, like the

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:54.440
<v Speaker 1>menial things that you'll fight over. No, that's true. And honestly,

0:39:54.520 --> 0:39:57.320
<v Speaker 1>it's like the amount of money you spent on cleaning people,

0:39:57.760 --> 0:40:00.799
<v Speaker 1>it's like it's so worth it. It is so word

0:40:00.840 --> 0:40:03.640
<v Speaker 1>that I remember when I was broke, okay, like when

0:40:03.680 --> 0:40:06.759
<v Speaker 1>we just you know, I had to scale everything back.

0:40:07.080 --> 0:40:09.359
<v Speaker 1>That was one thing that was like the last thing

0:40:09.400 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I let go, the cleaning people. I was like, you

0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:16.400
<v Speaker 1>can have my Louis Vuitton, you can have my BMWC series,

0:40:18.000 --> 0:40:22.040
<v Speaker 1>you can chake that Maserati. But listen, if my clean

0:40:22.120 --> 0:40:25.480
<v Speaker 1>lady has been with me since before I got married, right,

0:40:25.520 --> 0:40:28.359
<v Speaker 1>and I have said, like com and go, boyfriend's come

0:40:28.400 --> 0:40:30.440
<v Speaker 1>and go, but my cleaning lady will be with me.

0:40:31.120 --> 0:40:33.560
<v Speaker 1>And my cleaning people have been with us. They were

0:40:33.600 --> 0:40:36.319
<v Speaker 1>they were there with us before we got before we

0:40:36.360 --> 0:40:39.480
<v Speaker 1>got married, and then they saw us get divorced. And

0:40:39.520 --> 0:40:44.400
<v Speaker 1>then I remember, Enrique want was we were divorced or

0:40:44.400 --> 0:40:47.160
<v Speaker 1>going through something and they were cleaning and wanted something

0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 1>like Enrique had to come in to me like, is

0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:52.000
<v Speaker 1>everything okay? You're okay? I'm like, oh, you're like every

0:40:52.080 --> 0:40:55.640
<v Speaker 1>k as we're going through every k and I can

0:40:55.680 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 1>only imagine the amount of ship that the cleaning people see. Yes,

0:40:59.360 --> 0:41:03.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, my lady's gaming me forever. She was way more.

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:05.799
<v Speaker 1>But now, mind you. We don't speak. Okay, that's that's wrong.

0:41:05.880 --> 0:41:08.480
<v Speaker 1>That's true. You don't converse. We don't have like conversations

0:41:08.520 --> 0:41:10.480
<v Speaker 1>about like how the kids, none of that. She just

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:13.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, handles her business. And it was so funny.

0:41:13.320 --> 0:41:15.120
<v Speaker 1>A hundred years ago she came to me and she

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:17.120
<v Speaker 1>was like, she said, I went to tell you. I'm

0:41:17.160 --> 0:41:19.560
<v Speaker 1>so excited. I said what She was like, I got

0:41:19.560 --> 0:41:21.960
<v Speaker 1>to my visa. I said what God, damn, I didn't know.

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:27.120
<v Speaker 1>You didn't no clue. So I was like, okay, thank guy,

0:41:27.200 --> 0:41:31.439
<v Speaker 1>we are legal. You don't have to worry about Yes,

0:41:32.560 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 1>I see, I like what it is. That's what she

0:41:35.800 --> 0:41:38.759
<v Speaker 1>is legal now. I didn't know she wasn't. Sometimes it's

0:41:38.800 --> 0:41:41.000
<v Speaker 1>good we you don't know things. But I love her

0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:43.400
<v Speaker 1>and she ain't letting her go, all right, how about

0:41:43.400 --> 0:41:47.000
<v Speaker 1>this one having sex? He's eight years older than me,

0:41:47.080 --> 0:41:51.600
<v Speaker 1>and he's always tired. It's so annoying. He's eight years older,

0:41:51.640 --> 0:41:53.320
<v Speaker 1>he's always tired, so they gotta do it like in

0:41:53.400 --> 0:41:56.360
<v Speaker 1>the morning when he wakes up. Or what do you

0:41:56.360 --> 0:41:59.040
<v Speaker 1>mean like sleepy tired or you mean like out of

0:41:59.080 --> 0:42:02.799
<v Speaker 1>breath tired. He's probably both. He's probably both just eight

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:06.680
<v Speaker 1>years older. I mean, I think sleepy tired. But then okay,

0:42:06.719 --> 0:42:08.960
<v Speaker 1>so but this is the this is in the reverse.

0:42:09.000 --> 0:42:10.399
<v Speaker 1>So I was dating this guy who was like ten

0:42:10.480 --> 0:42:13.279
<v Speaker 1>years younger than me. Oh my gosh, listen, I didn't

0:42:13.280 --> 0:42:15.640
<v Speaker 1>have enough stand about stand I didn't I didn't take

0:42:15.680 --> 0:42:19.879
<v Speaker 1>my wheaties. I was like, dude, like, okay, first of all,

0:42:20.440 --> 0:42:28.520
<v Speaker 1>a good twenty eight minutes is good for me. But

0:42:29.040 --> 0:42:34.680
<v Speaker 1>he like it would be like our I'm like, you know,

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:40.480
<v Speaker 1>that's no. I will never forget. I'm the worst, absolute worst.

0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:42.279
<v Speaker 1>There was one dude and this was not the young kid,

0:42:42.320 --> 0:42:43.880
<v Speaker 1>and I shouldn't be sharing this, but I'm gonna sare

0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:45.839
<v Speaker 1>this because we're getting towards the end of this, uh

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:48.600
<v Speaker 1>this episode. So there was this one dude and he

0:42:48.680 --> 0:42:53.399
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm very fit okay, And it was going

0:42:53.440 --> 0:42:55.480
<v Speaker 1>on way too long, right, and I just was like,

0:42:55.520 --> 0:42:58.000
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I cannot Somehow we ended up on

0:42:58.040 --> 0:43:03.279
<v Speaker 1>the floor, right. Guess what. I left his ass there?

0:43:03.440 --> 0:43:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I got up in the middle of the whole thing

0:43:05.280 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 1>and I literally put my clothes on the left. I

0:43:07.160 --> 0:43:08.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, dude, I gotta go. Oh my god. I

0:43:09.239 --> 0:43:12.040
<v Speaker 1>was like what I was like, I'm out? Oh my god.

0:43:12.080 --> 0:43:14.879
<v Speaker 1>I was like, and then did you continue? Like did

0:43:14.880 --> 0:43:17.480
<v Speaker 1>you see him again? After that? I've not done that

0:43:17.560 --> 0:43:22.560
<v Speaker 1>with him again? And that was probably why the pandemic.

0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:24.520
<v Speaker 1>But I just was like, I can't do this. I'm

0:43:24.560 --> 0:43:26.960
<v Speaker 1>not fit for this. But guess what I wanted to

0:43:26.960 --> 0:43:28.840
<v Speaker 1>go find. We were in a hotel. I wanted to

0:43:28.840 --> 0:43:30.759
<v Speaker 1>go find another girl in the lobby and send her

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:36.440
<v Speaker 1>up because he was clearly not done. And I was, okay,

0:43:36.960 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 1>now are they like, you know, climaxing and then they

0:43:40.960 --> 0:43:43.040
<v Speaker 1>just want to go again? Or they just like so

0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 1>the young dude would he would guess it would be

0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:49.800
<v Speaker 1>like ten is in a row and I'm like, dude,

0:43:50.080 --> 0:43:52.919
<v Speaker 1>who's got time for this? Because I'm done. I want

0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:55.400
<v Speaker 1>to go to sleep. I got three years. This was

0:43:55.440 --> 0:43:58.120
<v Speaker 1>a mess. But the other one no he was just

0:43:58.200 --> 0:44:01.800
<v Speaker 1>ready to go, and I was like wow, And I

0:44:01.800 --> 0:44:03.800
<v Speaker 1>didn't even feel bad that I left his ass on

0:44:03.840 --> 0:44:07.400
<v Speaker 1>the floor for a hard one on those floors. I

0:44:07.440 --> 0:44:09.879
<v Speaker 1>don't know how he ended up on the floor. This

0:44:09.920 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 1>is terrible anyway, guys, that is our show today. As UM.

0:44:15.719 --> 0:44:18.600
<v Speaker 1>We have picked and choosed our battles, picked and chosen

0:44:18.680 --> 0:44:21.680
<v Speaker 1>our battles. Um, we do appreciate the fact that you

0:44:21.800 --> 0:44:25.960
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0:44:26.000 --> 0:44:31.040
<v Speaker 1>what we are. I'm shady, she's reasonable. Sometimes sometimes I'm like,

0:44:31.080 --> 0:44:34.719
<v Speaker 1>I can't. I can't even y'all, I'm done here. I can't.

0:44:34.840 --> 0:44:38.040
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0:44:38.320 --> 0:44:40.680
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