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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to a new

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Speaker 1: episode of Reasonably Shady. I am your girl here, Gizell Bryan.

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Speaker 1: What's up everyone, This is Robin Dixon. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for being here with us. I can't tell you

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Speaker 1: how good you all make us feel your feedback even

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Speaker 1: like you know, we were off Labor Day week and

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Speaker 1: people were like, oh my gosh, I missed my episode,

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Speaker 1: you know, so that's like so awesome for people to

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Speaker 1: just be anticipating us. I cannot thank you guys enough

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Speaker 1: for listening. Not yes, yes, thank you, thank you. And

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Speaker 1: we would be remiss if we did not mention that

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Speaker 1: The Real Housewives Potomac it's still airing. Can you believe?

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Speaker 1: It's season six? And for what I understand, y'all like

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Speaker 1: it because the ratings are through the roof, Thank you exactly.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the ratings are through the roof. People are

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Speaker 1: loving the season, you know, and I think it's so

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Speaker 1: cool about our show, Like, yes, we've been on for

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Speaker 1: six seasons, and I really feel like every season is different,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. There's just like a different dynamic.

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Speaker 1: There's like different things going on. You know, I think

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Speaker 1: last season was very dramatic drama, and it was kind

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Speaker 1: of like, okay, how do you like? Where do you

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Speaker 1: go from there? How do you top that? But it's

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Speaker 1: cool to see that, like we don't have to have

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Speaker 1: that same type of drama to be entertaining. So yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: I could put my box and gloves away, please do.

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Speaker 1: And you know, you guys have to go on a

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Speaker 1: journey with us every season and we really do appreciate

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Speaker 1: it because it is haghs and lows, ups and down exactly,

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Speaker 1: and speaking of a journey for the people who are

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Speaker 1: maybe watching on YouTube or if anything, just if the

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Speaker 1: audio sounds a little different. We're in a new location, yes, yes, yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: So to give your background, we have taped all of

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Speaker 1: our episodes in my house and Robin baltan new house

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Speaker 1: and she's like, I'm tired of driving to Yale house,

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Speaker 1: so we have to do it now in her house,

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Speaker 1: which I am totally fine with. Yes, I mean, we'll

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Speaker 1: like take turns, right, I think you know, at first,

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Speaker 1: when we when we thought about the podcast, we're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: we'll go one week to Jasille's, one week to mind

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Speaker 1: because we're literally probably like forty minutes thirty five to

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Speaker 1: So um yeah, So so up until today, UM, I

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Speaker 1: have been driving to Jasille's house and it's far. Today

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know what I'm not My house

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Speaker 1: is not furnished at all. You know, it's like we

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Speaker 1: have a long way to go with furnishing the house

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Speaker 1: and a lot of two dudes, and you know, I

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Speaker 1: felt like, oh, it's just too two echo e because

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Speaker 1: I didn't have enough furniture. But but I said, gosh,

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Speaker 1: damn it, I'm gonna make it work. I'll make it happen.

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Speaker 1: And I want to say it's her house is beautiful.

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Speaker 1: So there's that. There's that, all right. So we've got

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Speaker 1: to get to our reasonably shady moments of the week. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you go first. And I do have to admit the

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Speaker 1: girl had a birthday. Okay, she had little birthday. Um,

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Speaker 1: and I asked some of my friends to meet me

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Speaker 1: in Miami and they showed up and showed out. So

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Speaker 1: I like too, because Robin has told me that I

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Speaker 1: need to stay in several hotels. So I stayed a

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Speaker 1: couple of days in the four seasons. And then I

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Speaker 1: moved over to this Good Time Hotel good so you know,

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Speaker 1: and I was hip to the fact that their rooms

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Speaker 1: are kind of small. So just to f y, the

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Speaker 1: Good Time Hotel is Pharrell's hotel. And you know, Pharrell,

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Speaker 1: we love you, but we don't like your rooms. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I upgraded, upgraded, upgraded myself to the biggest room

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Speaker 1: in the whole damn hotel. And it's the smallest room

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Speaker 1: I've ever been in my entire life. Okay, the it's

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Speaker 1: the shadiest room ever, Pharrell. It is the shadiest room,

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Speaker 1: you know what. Okay, So I stayed there as well,

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Speaker 1: but I don't I stayed there the whole time. I

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Speaker 1: was only there for two nights, and I booked too late,

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Speaker 1: so I wasn't a was to get the largest room, right,

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Speaker 1: So I got the king room, which this could be

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Speaker 1: on the description it literally said four hundred something square

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Speaker 1: been in plenty of hotels because I because of basketball

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Speaker 1: and traveling, Like I've been in hotels. I've been in

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Speaker 1: the best Western I've been in the courtyard Marria and

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Speaker 1: when they say four hundred square feet, they mean four

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Speaker 1: hundred square feet, right, okay, this one you you literally

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Speaker 1: she typed it in, she typed it, typed all her

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Speaker 1: computer and was like, oh, no, yes, you're in the

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Speaker 1: four hundred square feed room. I said, no, no, I

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Speaker 1: am not no man, Pam, where are these four hundred

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Speaker 1: square feet? Like are you? Are you missing the ceiling

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Speaker 1: and the floor? Like watch out? Okay, So like shady

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Speaker 1: I don't even get it. Like why I get I

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Speaker 1: know what it is. It's because they don't the pool.

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Speaker 1: The hotel is called the good time hotel, so you're

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Speaker 1: there for a good time, so you are meant to

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Speaker 1: be at the pool, okay, and you know because the

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Speaker 1: pool is supposed to be like popping, it's the hot

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Speaker 1: supposed to be out. It's like, you're not supposed to

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Speaker 1: spend that much time in this hotel. But if you

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Speaker 1: had a man in that room with you, how are

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Speaker 1: you going to do a cart with you know, and

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Speaker 1: it took your roll shuffle. You can't do none of that? Okay? No.

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine if you're like on a girl's trip

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Speaker 1: and you were, like, you know, when you're younger in

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Speaker 1: your twenties, like you're okay, let's share a room. Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, like, no, no sharing. And actually, because I

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Speaker 1: went to Karen's room, that's how I saw, Um, not Karen,

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Speaker 1: you girl. I went to another girl named Karen's room,

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Speaker 1: It's like comedge, like college. It's definitely college. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 1: like I think my rooms in college were bigger. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so shady. Moment of the week is the rooms at

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Speaker 1: the Good Time Motel. Now, outside of the rooms, the

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Speaker 1: hotel is great, Oh yeah, it's tabulous. I mean the

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Speaker 1: pool was awesome. The music kind of but you know,

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Speaker 1: but so my shady moment, yes, is her shady moment too,

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Speaker 1: it's just like real life. I'm back home and back

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Speaker 1: So we got some hot topics out here in these

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Speaker 1: streets were it's like going on. It's like going on,

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Speaker 1: all right. So first, first and foremost, we got to

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Speaker 1: start with, um, the Pajama Party also known as the

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Speaker 1: met Gala. Okay, so I was very okay, what was

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Speaker 1: the What was the theme of this, Matcalen? The theme

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Speaker 1: was something about America and and the lexicon of visionary

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Speaker 1: art or fashion or alexicon of fashion. Now every time,

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Speaker 1: every year they come up with a theme that quite frankly,

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Speaker 1: you don't. I have to look up the words in

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Speaker 1: the dictionary, right, they do too much. Yes, So looking

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Speaker 1: you think of American fashion, yes, what is that? What

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Speaker 1: does that mean? So that's like Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren,

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Speaker 1: I mean there's only a handful of American established designers,

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Speaker 1: so everyone should have been wearing like polo shirts and

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Speaker 1: like j Loo. I love her. She never and she

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Speaker 1: never has a bad moment. But I'm sorry I did

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Speaker 1: not like that, matt Awam. I that was the one

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Speaker 1: j Lo was a jame. No, she was, but if

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Speaker 1: we're talking about the theme, she she was in line

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Speaker 1: with the American theme. Could look she looked more like

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Speaker 1: a like a oh to like a cow girl. But

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Speaker 1: she's j Lo. She never misses like we could always

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Speaker 1: I saw the picture of her, I literally was like,

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Speaker 1: what year is this? And I thought it was like

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Speaker 1: very confused by her and her little her new book

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Speaker 1: kissing each other with the why would you do that?

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Speaker 1: It's not even romantics? Yes, and Jo, your lipstick underneath

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Speaker 1: your mask was smushed all over the board. It's not cute.

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Speaker 1: This is not a good look that I cried laughing

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Speaker 1: when I saw that. Okay, So j Loo with the

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Speaker 1: Cowgirl theme. Um, Kim, were we being invisible? Kim's lot

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Speaker 1: was I am invisible? Yes, you cannot see me. You

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Speaker 1: cannot see any piece of skin on my body. But

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Speaker 1: I'm still gonna look good. And what does that have

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Speaker 1: to do with America? It wasn't like ghost, not ghost

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Speaker 1: because it because the ghost is white, right, yeah, ghost

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but could we have seen your eyeballs?

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Speaker 1: But where were your eyeballs? Could we have seen your lips? No? Nothing?

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Speaker 1: But she got some work done and she wanted ready

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Speaker 1: to show us her new face. That's what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 1: That's what that that is. You're very smart. But you know,

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Speaker 1: speaking of Kim, her sister Kendall, like she was my favorite.

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Speaker 1: I thought she was dead stunning. That dress was gorgeous

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Speaker 1: like she it was like simple, she kept it simple,

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Speaker 1: like she was my favorite. She did. I appreciated Mary J. Blige.

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Speaker 1: Mary J looked amazing. Yes, she looked great. Um Rihanna,

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Speaker 1: I was confused. Yeah, I one, I was excited about

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Speaker 1: that one or her or asap? Oh my god? Was

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Speaker 1: it was? It was? It was said it right, would

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Speaker 1: you come in? And what is that? What blanket? Look?

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Speaker 1: What srandmother's blanket? Did you steal? Right? I said it

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Speaker 1: looked like fruity pebble, And then I got a whole

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Speaker 1: bunch of people that said it looked like Captain Crunch. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it was. It was more Captain than fruity. I guess

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Speaker 1: I see how like fruit? Like, hey, Captain Crunch. And

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Speaker 1: if y'all don't know these looks that were talking about,

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Speaker 1: look them up there. They were just a hot mass

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Speaker 1: that was crazy? Okay? Who else was? Okay? So no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I was represented on the red carpet

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Speaker 1: because alc, you'all know who she is. On the back

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Speaker 1: of her dress it said tax the rich. Yes, years ago,

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Speaker 1: I had on a T shirt that said pay your tax.

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Speaker 1: She stole my look, and nobody got mad at her

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Speaker 1: for that. Nobody got mad at all. And I just

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Speaker 1: wanted people to pay their taxes. And I made a

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Speaker 1: T shirt on my own, and she had a designer

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Speaker 1: make a whole dress that said tax ch Alc. You're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Now wait, wait a minute, what about Russell Westbrook. He

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Speaker 1: was there, Yeah, he had a skirt on. Oh I

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Speaker 1: at people, and you know she is the same gen

421
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Speaker 1: show jail. I don't know, like she's like really talking

422
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 1: about it, where I feel like Erica is very guarded,

423
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 1: guarded and filtered and very careful about what she says,

424
00:21:56,760 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 1: very deliberate, um so, and and you know, it's so

425
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 1: funny to see how everyone has a different take on

426
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,719
Speaker 1: Erica and is she lying, is she telling the truth?

427
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: You know, every episode I watched, I'm like, I have

428
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 1: a different view from the last time I watched an episode, really,

429
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like if it flip flops

430
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: every time, I don't know where I am now. I

431
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 1: just okay, my take is she's human. Number one, Yes,

432
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 1: number two. I think she was so used to like,

433
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: I think this is like the most the hardest thing

434
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 1: that she's ever had to face, and it's probably very humiliating,

435
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,880
Speaker 1: very embarrassing, and she has to face this while filming

436
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,360
Speaker 1: and having to talk about it and having to talk

437
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 1: about it over and over and over again. And I

438
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 1: think when it's something that's like that serious, that's stressful,

439
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 1: that bad, like you don't want to talk about it

440
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: hell now. So I just think we're getting like the

441
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:51,199
Speaker 1: best that she can do in this situation. And she

442
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 1: kind of she's, you know, I think in most of

443
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,160
Speaker 1: yours as she's not handling it the best way but

444
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 1: at all. But I think you gotta put yourself in

445
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:05,399
Speaker 1: her shoe and not really I don't know, like just

446
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: not really be as harsh on her because I could

447
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: not imagine being in her position and having to film

448
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: a reality show and talk about that mess. LOLd time Lord,

449
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 1: Welcome to our lives, um and speaking of our lives,

450
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: we're very excited to announce coming up very soon because

451
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,479
Speaker 1: you guys have asked us over and over again do

452
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 1: we have reasonably shady merch? And we do. It's okay,

453
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: So it's you can't buy it today, but you're gonna

454
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 1: be able to buy it in about five more minutes. Yes,

455
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: be stay tuned. We've got some We're starting slow. We

456
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 1: want to see the response. Um, we're not you know,

457
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 1: we're not gonna have a whole bunch. It's going to

458
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: be limited quantities, so make sure you're paying attention. We're

459
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: gonna have some very cute, very warm hoodies, black hoodies

460
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: ready for you very soon. Yes. And it's it's about

461
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: to get cold, so a hoodie is what you need. Yes,

462
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 1: I love a hoodie. And when it's not cold, like

463
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 1: you know, when you're in the house with the a

464
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: c like, I love a hoodie. Yes. Okay, So we

465
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: it's time to get to like what this episode is about. Okay.

466
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:05,919
Speaker 1: So we realized that in relationships it's all kinds of

467
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: crazy and a lot of times you're fighting about nonsense. Okay.

468
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 1: And you know, I've been in several relationships. I remember

469
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:17,360
Speaker 1: one in particular, this guy Okay, fine, he was a preacher, Okay, fine,

470
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: it was Jamal and he you know, with him preaching,

471
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: he his clothes would sweat, and so he would just

472
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:27,439
Speaker 1: like take his clothes off and just like throw it

473
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 1: in the corner here, like this bag of like stinky clothes,

474
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 1: and then like after some time it would get like festering,

475
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 1: permeating through the home of like stinkiness, and he what

476
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: he would want to do is he would want to control,

477
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 1: making sure that he didn't wear clothes over and over again,

478
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: because he was like trying to control his wardrobe. But

479
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: I didn't want to clean him. So he was waiting

480
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 1: to take them to the cleaners until for like three weeks.

481
00:24:56,520 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: So I'm like, negro, Can I say, Negro, sure, okay, nigger,

482
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: you have a stack of stinky ass clothes in this

483
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 1: corner right here, and look, I know, because he felt

484
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: like if the clothes were cleaned and back into the house,

485
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: he might repeat. He didn't want to repeat too quickly,

486
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 1: so this was his way of not repeating. I don't

487
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 1: give a ship it stinks. It was. It was bad

488
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 1: because it was just like sweaty Okay, yeah, okay, I

489
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: mean I can I can picture that because remember talked

490
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: about one bringing home his player's clothes. Yes, yes, it

491
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: was horrible. So I would like sneak and take the

492
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: clothes to the cleaners, and he would get so mad

493
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 1: as an argument everything. It was really bad. It was

494
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 1: really bad. Okay. That and he hates Mexican food. Okay,

495
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: we've talked about that before, yes, and and okay, and

496
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: then one more what was one more that we were

497
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so we would have several cars, okay. So

498
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: he had an aversion to like going to the gas station. Okay,

499
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: so he would like drive one car until there was

500
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,639
Speaker 1: like no gas. Oh my god. Instead of going to

501
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 1: the gas station, he would just getting to the other car.

502
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: So I would be laughing with some non gas car

503
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 1: gas do eat? Oh my god, negro can negro? All

504
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: the cars have no gas in it. We don't eat

505
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 1: because you refused to go to the gas stage. Oh

506
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,120
Speaker 1: my gosh, Oh my gosh. This is why we're divorced. Yes,

507
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: this is why that was dropping me crazy. That would

508
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 1: drive me crazy. That would drive me crazy. So you

509
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: have to go pump the gas all the time. Yeah, okay,

510
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 1: So that that was an issue. Okay. And and by

511
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: the way, this uh, this episode is called stop Fighting,

512
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,719
Speaker 1: Stop Fighting because we put it out there for you

513
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: guys to let us know, like with the silly nonsense

514
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: that y'all fight over, and y'all came back with it.

515
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: But do you have any you want to you want

516
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: to talk, you want to tell the world. So I

517
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: I feel like we should have named this episode pick

518
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: your Battles. Okay, yes, we're changing the name right now.

519
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: It's now called pick your goddamn Battles. Pick your battles people,

520
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,360
Speaker 1: because I feel like when you're in relationships and you're

521
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: with someone for a long time, you have to choose

522
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: to pick your battles. You know, like certain things, it's like, okay,

523
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: this is not going to change, let me just do it.

524
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: So it's like, um, well, okay a few things. One

525
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: likes to take cash out of my wallet because he

526
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: doesn't want to go to the A T M. And

527
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I didn't think you're gonna say that

528
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: that it's funny to me. So he's like a little

529
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: kid stealing your money. Okay. He's literally taking cash for

530
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: a while. And then when I go to my wallet

531
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like I'm missing cash, and he's like you

532
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 1: blaming me, Yes, I'm blaming you. You took the cash

533
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: out of my wallet. Because he plays the video game.

534
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: He goes and plays video games with his buddy and

535
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 1: they bet and they have to, and so he doesn't

536
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: want to stop and go to the A t M.

537
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, I choose to go to the A

538
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: t M so that I can have cash in my wallet. No,

539
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 1: go go you stopped at the A t M and

540
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: get cash. It's like, it's late. I don't want to

541
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: be rapped. I'm like, I don't. You're a man. I

542
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: don't care. It's your fault. I mean, yes, we have that. Yes,

543
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: that's that's huge, as annoying as hell. I mean, girl,

544
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: I could I could go on and on and on um,

545
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: but I just choose to pick my battles like that battles. Okay,

546
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 1: So you guys came back with some all kinds of

547
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 1: some stuff. Okay, so a lot of you said that

548
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: you all fight over parenting styles, and that's actually a

549
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: huge thing. Yeah, that's not a small issue. So yeah,

550
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: you gotta work. And it's hard because even why don't

551
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: I have that issue because I'm like, I'm like the cool,

552
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: fun parent, but I'm still like my kids know, like

553
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: don't play with me. But one is like the stick

554
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: in the mud parents, right ah, And so like he

555
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 1: might say something to the kids and in front of

556
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: the kids, I'd be like why, like why are you

557
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: saying that right? And then he'll get so mad at

558
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: me for going against him in front of the kids,

559
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? So I feel like

560
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: maybe a lot of the issues that, you know, the

561
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: differences in parenting styles, like just try to handle them

562
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: behind closed doors, because when you do it in front

563
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: of the kids, it just, you know, it makes the

564
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: other parents defensive. And then the kids are sitting there

565
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: watching their parents arguing and it's like that's not good.

566
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: So so yeah, so parenting style is definitely that that's

567
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: I feel like that's something you gotta talk about before

568
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: you start having these kids. My my parents, you know,

569
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: Jamana co parent very well because my parents and he

570
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: just cos he just comes a lot of y'all said

571
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: that y'all are fighting about where to eat. Okay, so

572
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: this is double trouble. Okay, So y'are hungry and y'all

573
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: can't decide what to eat. My god, you know. But

574
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: so for me, I get frustrated when I'm like, Okay,

575
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: what do you want to eat for dinner? And it's

576
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: like oh no, And I'm like, oh my gosh, Like

577
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: I get so sick of feeding people. So you're lucky

578
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: you don't have to do with feeding another grown man.

579
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: But like I'm like, damn it, help me here, Like,

580
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: at least tell me what you want to eat, right,

581
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: and then when we fix, when we figure out something

582
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: to eat, then you're gonna complain, like you know what

583
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: I mean, Like what do you yes? Or you could

584
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: have hooked it right? How about you ask me what

585
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: I want to eat that I'm with you on that. Hey,

586
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: you gotta pick and choose your battles. Now, this person,

587
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 1: Keenan Dash, I mean Keenan Dot, Elijah said, the constant

588
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: discussion of their AX. Now, I just want to tell

589
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: you a little something something. If she constantly talking about

590
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: the X, she's having sex with the X gang or

591
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: she's trying to have sex with the X, she should

592
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: not be talking about the X. So that's actually not

593
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: something silly to silly. That's not a silly thing that

594
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: you're fighting over. That's a real thing. You got issues, bro.

595
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: I would say, um, yeah, that's not good. We don't

596
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: want that now, Okay. So, uh, sind Pie, please send

597
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 1: pay please. That's the name of the person, Send pay please. Okay,

598
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: says his ass hanging out with the wrong people. Now.

599
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: I don't know how old he is, but let me

600
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 1: tell you something. I used to deal with that with

601
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: one and I would tell him, show me your friends,

602
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: and I'll show you your future. Not robbing with the

603
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: Grandma quote. That's the quote from like the Mabel like quote.

604
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: But it's so true. But and he honestly, you know,

605
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: this is when he was when he was younger. And

606
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: it takes a little bit of maturing and growing up

607
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: for men to be like, you know what you were, right.

608
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,719
Speaker 1: So I feel like sometimes like just try to, you know,

609
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: you want to still kind of let them know, like, Okay,

610
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: you need to be careful, you don't want to you know,

611
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: fall dude, fall into bad things, blah blah blah. But

612
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: just hope that he'll mature and grow out of that,

613
00:31:56,360 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: because right. Okay, So Cassie Devon, Cassie Devon, let me

614
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: shake something your girl left my own heart because you

615
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: said he's snoring. Okay, so let me tell you something

616
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 1: about Gazelle. Gazelle likes to sleep. It's very important to me.

617
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: So when you are bothering my sleep, I have a problem. Okay,

618
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: So that sherman used to snore, really loud, like loud

619
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: loud to point where I would like wake him up,

620
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: because I heard that if you wake them up and

621
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: then like put them on aside, then they'll kind of stop.

622
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true, but I would wake

623
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: his ass up all the time and he'd be like,

624
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: what what, what's the problem. The problem is I can't

625
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: sleep because your ass's snoring so loud. So one day

626
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 1: I recorded it. I recorded how loud he was, so

627
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 1: then like the next day, I was like, let me

628
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 1: tell you why I can't sleep. He was like, what's

629
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: the problem? And I pleased. I pressed play and I

630
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: made him listen to it, and it sounded like a

631
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: train was cominant. It was horrible. He's like, just that

632
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: you lying, Stop lying. This ain't me, Yes it is,

633
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 1: You're ridiculous. Oh my gosh. Yeah, you know it's so

634
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: funny lately one who's been snoring loud and I'll just

635
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: like push him really hard. But he doesn't remember that

636
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: that happens like in the Can I tell you a

637
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: funny story about me? One told me that I would

638
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: sink in my sleep? What what are you singing? What

639
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: was I singing? No? I think it might have been

640
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: like Whitney Houston or something like. He literally was like

641
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,719
Speaker 1: he couldn't pull his phone out fast enough to like

642
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: record me, but he was like robbing. It was the

643
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 1: funniest thing. Like I was literally singing and like holding

644
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: a note. What let us find out? You need to

645
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 1: record you, but you gotta go to sleep first. So

646
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: you know, there's apps that like kim will record you

647
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: throughout the night, right, so it's like, you know, I

648
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 1: can like tell you like I don't know whatever is

649
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 1: going on. I used it one time and I was

650
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: like it was just so creepy to me. It was

651
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: like scary, So I didn't like. I used it one

652
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: time and I was like, I don't think I want

653
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: to know like what I'm saying at night or like

654
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: you know, so, yeah, that's creepy. But maybe you'll catch

655
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 1: myself singing one time if I do. Yes, let's see,

656
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: So this one's funny. Watching too much Real Housewives of Potomac.

657
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 1: Yeah who said that? Who said that? Um? Nas Kate Bailey,

658
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 1: nas Ka Bailey? We like you, Naskay Bailey. And yes,

659
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: if you have to fight with your boot over watching

660
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,479
Speaker 1: our hop, go ahead on and just take that fight

661
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 1: that's a fight you're gonna have to take. I know

662
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: you might have to like hide and watch it though,

663
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 1: you know, yes, because I'll be honest. So in my house,

664
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: I'm outnumbered. And when the show is on, you know,

665
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 1: we're supposed to be you know, watching it or tweeting

666
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: or whatever. Usually there's like a football game or a

667
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: basketball game or something else on in my house during

668
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: that time, because you gotta go somewhere else. Yeah, I

669
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 1: might have to go like hide. But if I try

670
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,439
Speaker 1: to hide, they come find me. That's the crazy part.

671
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: It's like I try to go hide for my privacy

672
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 1: and then they come find me. What you're doing. It's

673
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: Sunday at eight o'clock, you know what I'm doing? Okay,

674
00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: So Sadie Bird five one said then wanting to be

675
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: friends with an X it's a note for me, Okay.

676
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 1: Everything that y'all send us us EX related. Yeah, that's

677
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 1: that's a red flag. Well, that's a red flag that

678
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 1: should be in that relationship, right, because something's going on

679
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: that's a little creepy. Yeah, they're an EX for a reason.

680
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 1: They should be an X for a reason, and you

681
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: should should you should be done with them, Like no,

682
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be comfortable with that. No, I don't want that. Um,

683
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna assume that this is Florida girl in the

684
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: Cleveland Okay, his teenage kids not picking up after themselves. Yes,

685
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: that would drive me crazy that I would go like insane.

686
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: It's like the stinky clothes. Yeah, it's like the stinky clothes.

687
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: But I could imagine like if they're his, if there's

688
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,800
Speaker 1: someone else's kids and they're not your kids, it's even worse.

689
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: Like I hate to say it, but I can imagine

690
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 1: just being so annoyed that and then and then it

691
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: becomes a fight, and then it's like, oh, you're just mad.

692
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: Stop streating my kids like that. And Okay, this is

693
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: potential you stylists, okay. Also known as wand Dixon. This

694
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: is Wan Dixon's handle because it says timing. She is

695
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 1: always late, very annoying. Okay, fine, it's not why. It's

696
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,320
Speaker 1: not why I talk about Rob. Sometimes I'm late because

697
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: of him most of the time because he's making me late. Oh,

698
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: because he's playing damn video game. Like if we have

699
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: somewhere to be together, he's playing a damn video game

700
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 1: and can't and won't get dressed, you know soon enough. Yes,

701
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: he makes me late, so we're it's like we don't

702
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: we don't help each other in that area, right, But

703
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 1: but I can't say that being if one person is

704
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 1: like always late in a relationship, that's like a deal

705
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 1: breaker for you. Well no, not for me, but I

706
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: feel like about in our friendship. Well, we're not sleeping together,

707
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: so it's okay, but if you're late getting to the

708
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 1: bedroom for me to sleep with you, it's a problem.

709
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: It's a problem. It's rob you sleep, you sleep. Um Sawyer,

710
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: the hair Slayer says he hates that I have so

711
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: many clothes and continue to buy more. He will learn. Look,

712
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: he's that that he's just had to pick his battles

713
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: and that's not one of them. Because so you're the

714
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: hair slayer is going to continue to buy clothes. It's

715
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 1: so funny. The other day, I know I'm not the

716
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: only one, like I have to like hide my packages,

717
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 1: do you so you you still do that? I still

718
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: do that. The other day he called me and he

719
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: was like, you bought a Versachi bathing suit. I mean

720
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: actually she did, and she wore in Miami. It was

721
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: very nice. I was like, he's like I bathe the suit,

722
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: and you get on me about not spending money, and

723
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, said, but I worked hard in these

724
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: streets like Versaci. Oh my god, I have to hide

725
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: my stuff. I was like, damn it. I didn't know.

726
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: And it's funny because I had left my stuff on

727
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: the bed. Huh. And I didn't know he was coming home.

728
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: If I knew he was coming home, it would have

729
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: that ship would have been packed up. Son, So did

730
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: you did he open the box or was it already opened?

731
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: It was so the box was like open, like let

732
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: like he had to kind of like lift stuff up

733
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: in the box to see what was it. Yes, but

734
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: the box was already like opened. Okay, okay, okay. So

735
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: it wasn't being that nosy, but he was still, yeah,

736
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,879
Speaker 1: you might have to hide. He was hating. Okay. So

737
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,879
Speaker 1: somebody said, hold on, I'm trying to figure out who

738
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: you are. You are, Felicia. I feel like I know

739
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: this person, She said his mother. Okay, so when you

740
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: pick it and choosing your battles, miss Felicia, you just

741
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: let you gotta let it go. His mother ain't going nowhere. Nowhere,

742
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 1: she's going. She's actually going to move in next week, Okay,

743
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: and you don't you don't want that constant fight, like

744
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: and it's like you don't want horrible thanksgivings, horrible Christmas.

745
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: Is you gotta let it go. It is what it is.

746
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: Let go and guess what, You're probably not gonna win

747
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: that one. Yeah, you know, because who looks like the

748
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: asshole you? Yes, unfortunately, I'm sure his mother is horrible.

749
00:38:56,280 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: She's like they were so annoying, like in your business,

750
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: trying to tell you what to do. Let it go,

751
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: let it go, and like, don't try to like if

752
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 1: y'all have kids, and like you don't really want your

753
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 1: kids with her because you're mad at her. Yeah, don't

754
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:14,320
Speaker 1: do that either. Okay, fine, maybe I did that, Okay, whatever,

755
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: I lost that. What's that if you have kids, if y'all,

756
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 1: if the two if you and your man have kids

757
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 1: and you hate his mother and she's trying to spend

758
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 1: some time with her and the mama trying to spend

759
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: time with grandkids, but you hate her. Yeah, don't you

760
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: gotta let it go? You just gotta just woo sah

761
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: and drink like several shots and just let it go. Yeah.

762
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 1: I think you're speaking from I don't know, I don't know,

763
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, but a lot of people said, like

764
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 1: cleaning chores guys, like y'all, y'all just need to hire

765
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: a maid. What are y'all doing, Like, y'all get got

766
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: to get somebody else to clean these dude, like the

767
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: menial things that you'll fight over. No, that's true. And honestly,

768
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 1: it's like the amount of money you spent on cleaning people,

769
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 1: it's like it's so worth it. It is so word

770
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 1: that I remember when I was broke, okay, like when

771
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: we just you know, I had to scale everything back.

772
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: That was one thing that was like the last thing

773
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: I let go, the cleaning people. I was like, you

774
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: can have my Louis Vuitton, you can have my BMWC series,

775
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 1: you can chake that Maserati. But listen, if my clean

776
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: lady has been with me since before I got married, right,

777
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,359
Speaker 1: and I have said, like com and go, boyfriend's come

778
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: and go, but my cleaning lady will be with me.

779
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: And my cleaning people have been with us. They were

780
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: they were there with us before we got before we

781
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: got married, and then they saw us get divorced. And

782
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: then I remember, Enrique want was we were divorced or

783
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: going through something and they were cleaning and wanted something

784
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: like Enrique had to come in to me like, is

785
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: everything okay? You're okay? I'm like, oh, you're like every

786
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: k as we're going through every k and I can

787
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: only imagine the amount of ship that the cleaning people see. Yes,

788
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: you know, my lady's gaming me forever. She was way more.

789
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,799
Speaker 1: But now, mind you. We don't speak. Okay, that's that's wrong.

790
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 1: That's true. You don't converse. We don't have like conversations

791
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: about like how the kids, none of that. She just

792
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,280
Speaker 1: you know, handles her business. And it was so funny.

793
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: A hundred years ago she came to me and she

794
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 1: was like, she said, I went to tell you. I'm

795
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: so excited. I said what She was like, I got

796
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: to my visa. I said what God, damn, I didn't know.

797
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 1: You didn't no clue. So I was like, okay, thank guy,

798
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:31,439
Speaker 1: we are legal. You don't have to worry about Yes,

799
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: I see, I like what it is. That's what she

800
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 1: is legal now. I didn't know she wasn't. Sometimes it's

801
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: good we you don't know things. But I love her

802
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 1: and she ain't letting her go, all right, how about

803
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: this one having sex? He's eight years older than me,

804
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: and he's always tired. It's so annoying. He's eight years older,

805
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 1: he's always tired, so they gotta do it like in

806
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 1: the morning when he wakes up. Or what do you

807
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: mean like sleepy tired or you mean like out of

808
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: breath tired. He's probably both. He's probably both just eight

809
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: years older. I mean, I think sleepy tired. But then okay,

810
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: so but this is the this is in the reverse.

811
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,399
Speaker 1: So I was dating this guy who was like ten

812
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: years younger than me. Oh my gosh, listen, I didn't

813
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: have enough stand about stand I didn't I didn't take

814
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 1: my wheaties. I was like, dude, like, okay, first of all,

815
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: a good twenty eight minutes is good for me. But

816
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: he like it would be like our I'm like, you know,

817
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 1: that's no. I will never forget. I'm the worst, absolute worst.

818
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: There was one dude and this was not the young kid,

819
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 1: and I shouldn't be sharing this, but I'm gonna sare

820
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 1: this because we're getting towards the end of this, uh

821
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: this episode. So there was this one dude and he

822
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:53,399
Speaker 1: was like, I'm very fit okay, And it was going

823
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: on way too long, right, and I just was like,

824
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: oh my god, I cannot Somehow we ended up on

825
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: the floor, right. Guess what. I left his ass there?

826
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: I got up in the middle of the whole thing

827
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: and I literally put my clothes on the left. I

828
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: was like, dude, I gotta go. Oh my god. I

829
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: was like what I was like, I'm out? Oh my god.

830
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 1: I was like, and then did you continue? Like did

831
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: you see him again? After that? I've not done that

832
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: with him again? And that was probably why the pandemic.

833
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: But I just was like, I can't do this. I'm

834
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: not fit for this. But guess what I wanted to

835
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: go find. We were in a hotel. I wanted to

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Speaker 1: up because he was clearly not done. And I was, okay,

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Speaker 1: now are they like, you know, climaxing and then they

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Speaker 1: just want to go again? Or they just like so

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Speaker 1: the young dude would he would guess it would be

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Speaker 1: like ten is in a row and I'm like, dude,

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Speaker 1: who's got time for this? Because I'm done. I want

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Speaker 1: to go to sleep. I got three years. This was

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Speaker 1: a mess. But the other one no he was just

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Speaker 1: didn't even feel bad that I left his ass on

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Speaker 1: the floor for a hard one on those floors. I

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Speaker 1: don't know how he ended up on the floor. This

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Speaker 1: is terrible anyway, guys, that is our show today. As UM.

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Speaker 1: We have picked and choosed our battles, picked and chosen

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Speaker 1: our battles. Um, we do appreciate the fact that you

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Speaker 1: continue to listen to us every Monday. Reasonably Shady is

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Speaker 1: what we are. I'm shady, she's reasonable. Sometimes sometimes I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I can't. I can't even y'all, I'm done here. I can't.

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Speaker 1: So don't ever forget that throughout the course of your week.

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Speaker 1: Just find a little reasonable and find a little shady.

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Speaker 1: We love y'all so much. Next week. Reasonably Shady is

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Speaker 1: a production of the Black Effect podcast Network. For more

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