1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: If Carlos said something, it's like, oh my god, this 2 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: shit is hilarious. Then when we say they're like those 3 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,519 Speaker 1: bitches there, those. 4 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 2: Stupid bird brain bitches. Where did you find these wars? 5 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 3: The world hates women, I. 6 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 4: Know, especially like you said, wild women that don't that 7 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 4: live in our confidence and knowing who we are and 8 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 4: we're happy and we're talking and we're just relating to 9 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,319 Speaker 4: each other and we're trying to navigate life together and 10 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 4: figure this shit out. 11 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: We're trying to figure this out, just like you. Yeah, 12 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: So it's like they just don't like it. 13 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 4: They just want us to shut up and cook pork chops. 14 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 3: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and 15 00:00:54,840 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 3: I'm Mila. Happy Wednesday, Happy hump Day, bitches. What's up? 16 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 3: What's that? Bill? Just tan and fine and living my life. 17 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 3: You're tan and fine. 18 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 4: I'm really committed to keeping my melanin popping because this 19 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:10,399 Speaker 4: is as far as it goes. 20 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 3: Guys, this is me black as fuck. Baby. 21 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 5: You don't see nothing yet because we got a whole 22 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 5: summer Mexico. 23 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 3: I also took off my nails today. I felt like 24 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 3: all natural. I feel like. 25 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 4: I need to be step into my lesbian moment because 26 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 4: I feel like, finally I can put my fingers and 27 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 4: pussy without any sort of industry, like any like any 28 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 4: barrier of hurting or contamination. That's a good that's a 29 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:35,559 Speaker 4: good reason to go nails. 30 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 3: You know, I literally thought about this. I was thinking 31 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 3: of Mandy and her like two fingers. She always came short. 32 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 3: I hate those two fingers, and I was like, hmm, 33 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 3: maybe I need to step into my lesbian era. 34 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 5: I feel like once a year Erica has a moment 35 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 5: where she thinks she supposed to step in her lesbian era, 36 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 5: and then she attempts, and then it never goes lesbian. 37 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 3: It's it's always what is it what I call you? 38 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 3: Buy Fun? 39 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 5: You're always by fine. I don't really think you have 40 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 5: any lesbian but I'm here to support you. 41 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 4: Know, Okay, let's okay, you're right, I'm not going to 42 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 4: be lesbian, but I'm going to step back into my 43 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 4: buy Fun era because I've taken a little break. But 44 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 4: I think my fingers are ready. Did you tell your 45 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 4: nigga he's always ready? 46 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I'm just just curious, But okay, you know, 47 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 5: I keep trying to revisit my lesbian era. 48 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 3: But I don't really think it's in me. I think 49 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 3: you went so hard you're done. I think I drained 50 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 3: myself of all my lesbian juices. 51 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 5: And but you know, then I get drunk and I'm like, 52 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 5: I'm best friends, you know, and I want to make out. 53 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 3: But that's why I wanted to. I'm gonna bring back 54 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 3: my drinking this. I'll be thirty five in six days, 55 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 3: five days, four days. Jesus Christ, Happy birthday, Thank you. 56 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 5: But when this episode comes out, I'll already be thirty five. 57 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 5: But we recorded it. I'm almost thirty five. So this 58 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 5: is a snapchat snapchat snapchat and time Snapchat and time. 59 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 3: Snapchat and time. I'm feeling. I'm feeling they're grown and sexy. 60 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 3: You are grown and sexy, well grown and sexy. 61 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 5: I just can't believe that we started this when I 62 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 5: was twenty nine. Yep, I'm thirty five. 63 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 3: This is a long ass relationship. You did it, We 64 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 3: did it, committed, I loved it, finally committed. 65 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 5: It only took me my uh one platonic wife, and. 66 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 4: Now you're in a monogamous relationship. So look, I groomed you. 67 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 4: I roomed for monogamy. You did, You're welcome. You grewed 68 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 4: me for partnership. How did she become a monogamous? Well, 69 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 4: first I met Erica, then she knocked some sense into me. 70 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 3: Stop posting her pussy on Instagram in the middle of 71 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 3: the night. Bitch, it was my titty. You definitely post 72 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 3: a pussy on Instagram by accident. I did it, bitch. 73 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 4: Like, bitch, you were doing some wild dance moves drunk 74 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 4: one night and you were doing all types of and 75 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 4: I was like, that's a pussy And I was calling 76 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 4: her and she wasn't answering. She was drunk, passed out, 77 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 4: and I had to wait till like twelve o'clock the 78 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 4: next day. As everyone saw the story. 79 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 3: I was like, bitch, hey, so listen. I know you 80 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 3: want to do your sexy dancing Instagram put panties on. 81 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 3: At least you know. 82 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 5: Am I the only one who drinks aequila and it's 83 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 5: super sexy? 84 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 3: No? 85 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 5: Everythink everyone does, okay, because I'd be filling myself and 86 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 5: then I wake up at noon and I'm like, what 87 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 5: the fuck is wrong with me? 88 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 3: This is not sexy? But you couldn't tell me shit. 89 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 3: That night alone in my room, have come a long way. 90 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 3: Thank god. Growth, growth is real. 91 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 4: Well, speaking of sexy, we have two sexy bitches in 92 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 4: our studio today. We're in a good good studio, good 93 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 4: good media studios. If you haven't checked out our LA 94 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,119 Speaker 4: podcast studio, check us out. If you're in the LA area, 95 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 4: we record your podcast or do everything start to finish. 96 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 4: But bigger news is that we have two amazing women 97 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 4: that we love so much that we've never done an 98 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 4: episode in person with in our studio on. 99 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 3: Our show in our Hood Our Hood. 100 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 4: So I'm really really excited to introduce to the show 101 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 4: Lex Andrea of Poor Minds Podcast. 102 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: What I'm so excited. 103 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 4: I feel like this is a long time because we 104 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 4: have like we're friends, Like we at this point like 105 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 4: we're friends, we have a friendship. So it's like it's 106 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 4: crazy that it's taking this long for us to actually 107 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 4: like sit in person and do this. 108 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 3: So I'm really excited. Friends, y'all got on you Patreon? 109 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 4: We do so if you if you if you dig 110 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 4: deep into the Patreon you'll see me Andreas titties. 111 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 5: Are we lost our titties on Patreon. It was before 112 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 5: we knew how to blow anything out. Yeah, all our 113 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 5: titties are on there. 114 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 3: We need some hot tea. Did you hear that? 115 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 4: Titties on Patreon bitches patreon dot com back slash if 116 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 4: you can. 117 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 5: You know, when we went to the show this weekend, 118 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 5: I was thinking about that. I was thinking about that 119 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 5: in the back and I was like, I was thinking. 120 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 5: I was like, you know, the first time I really 121 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 5: remember like seeing you guys, it was during twenty twenty 122 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 5: when when everybody was there all those dumb ass TikTok 123 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 5: challenges or Instagram challenges, and it was the one like 124 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 5: the podcast version. 125 00:05:55,960 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 4: And I was like, don't rush, run and you're cute. 126 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 3: Nowhere to go because it's. 127 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 2: Twenty When I did do that, I totally forgot dropped 128 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 2: the bush. 129 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 5: Okay, some of that towed at you, and then I 130 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 5: didn't have even throw it at me. I was like, Luna, 131 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 5: I need to throw this at me. Wait, Carla, Carla 132 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:22,239 Speaker 5: put it together. 133 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 4: Drey of course had the longest clip, but she was 134 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 4: the first one was like no, I wasn't. 135 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 3: You were second. Your clip was like she was like this. 136 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 3: She was like, You're gonna get these looks, Oh my god. 137 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm so funny, so let me. 138 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 4: Like drop my brush, goofy and show my personality. 139 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 3: I'm gonna shine. I'm gonna shine with these podcasts. 140 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 1: Bitches. 141 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's so cringey, that's cracky. The pandemic 142 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 3: was a time. 143 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 5: It was. 144 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 3: I kind of miss it a little bit. It's kind 145 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 3: of fun you have shit to do. 146 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 5: But I literally had every excuse to do nothing nothing. 147 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 5: It was like make up for no reason. Okay, right. 148 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 3: Asked me to do ship. 149 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 5: I have some of the best self hair styles I've 150 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 5: ever had in my life. I was doing all my 151 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 5: hairstyles really. 152 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 153 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 4: I was doing a lot of jail workouts. I was 154 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 4: doing a lot of home signings. 155 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:24,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, now order like one of those little Jillicks machines, 156 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 2: and I was like doing my own acridmy. 157 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 3: Bitch, I was. 158 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 5: I was just sneaking in the back door when nails 159 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 5: were prohibition. I was just like finding I was like, do. 160 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 4: You'll remember when everybody started making like flyers and like, hey, 161 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 4: I'm going live at seven pm. 162 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: Everybody was like doing graphics to go live on Instagram. 163 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 3: I feel like live happened in the pandemic. Yeah, it 164 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 3: was a wild time. 165 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 5: It was a wild well I'm grateful for it, and 166 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 5: I'm grateful for that challenge because then we found you 167 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 5: was like, who these bitches, Let's dam them. 168 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 4: So before we start the show, we'll usually ask our 169 00:07:58,560 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 4: guests to share an aff for me. 170 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 3: I know, I didn't tell you about this at all. 171 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 3: We just gonna throw it at you. 172 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 4: So do you have any sort of affirmations that you 173 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 4: guys like to like, I don't know, hype yourself up, 174 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 4: tell yourself in the mirror where you're feeling low or 175 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 4: you're feeling good, whichever, let you go first. 176 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 3: But we love this shit. 177 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 2: I look in the mirror every day and I be like, 178 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 2: bitch you, mag girl, you look good as fuck, smart 179 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 2: as fuck, you, funnyest fucky, just fucking with you period. 180 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 2: And I just tell myself that every day when I 181 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 2: wake up, and it works for me because I mean, 182 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 2: I feel like every day you don't wake up in 183 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 2: the greatest mood realistically, you know, even I think I'm 184 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 2: a person to a lot of the time, I can 185 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 2: say with our listeners, they look at me and anythink 186 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 2: they're like, oh, she's super confident, she's overly confident. 187 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 3: And I am. 188 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 2: But everybody wakes up some days and you like, I'm 189 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 2: not feeling myself. 190 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: But I feel like it's important to speak that life. 191 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 2: Into yourself and tell yourself no matter what type of 192 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 2: mood that you're in, like no, I'm that bitch, Like 193 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:57,839 Speaker 2: I might not feel like it today, but tomorrow is 194 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 2: gonna be a bitter day and like it gonna make 195 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 2: it work. 196 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 3: So bitch, I'm that girl. Period. 197 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm that girl. Period. 198 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 3: Me I'm not. You can't tell me I'm not. 199 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 4: So when I first started doing my affirmations, I was 200 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 4: looking so deep into it and it was like so specific, 201 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 4: like you know what I'm saying. 202 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: But then I was like, Okay, you know what, keep 203 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: it simple. 204 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 4: I do this especially on the days that we record, 205 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 4: because you know, y'all know you never know what kind 206 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 4: of episode it's gonna be. Yeah, And I always get 207 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 4: so nervous because like with having a show, it's like 208 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 4: you don't want to release a bad episode, you don't 209 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 4: want to record a bad episode. But every time, especially 210 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 4: like I said on the day's record, always looking at 211 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 4: me and I'm like, you got this. Whatever today brings you, 212 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 4: you got it, like cause you're you, You're here, you're 213 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 4: doing this. No matter what, Like if I'm going to 214 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 4: the gym, if I'm no matter what I'm doing, I'm like, 215 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 4: you got this, you can do it. 216 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 3: Then at the end of the day, I'm like, but. 217 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: You did this shit. 218 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 4: So that's my affirmation that I always just like siting 219 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 4: like I can get through it, cause it'd be some 220 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 4: moments I'm just like. 221 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: I get overwhelmed. 222 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 4: I have bad anxiety, Like I'm an overthinker, and I'm 223 00:09:58,320 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 4: just like, what were you tipping about? 224 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:00,319 Speaker 1: You know I'm saying. 225 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 4: So that's my affirmation that I always don't like, you 226 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 4: got this. I look in the mirror, I'm like, look 227 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 4: at yourself, like you got. 228 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 3: It, you got it, you got missed. So girl, you 229 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 3: got this' that's affirmation. 230 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, do y'all be do y'all? Do you ever not 231 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 4: release an episode? Like, have you ever record an episode 232 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 4: and said like that one was trash, We're not releasing that. 233 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: What? 234 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 2: First of all, when we first started recording, like before 235 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 2: we had a team and was like in the studio 236 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: and it was just us doing everything. We would literally 237 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 2: be like thirty minutes into an episode and Lex would 238 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 2: be like, I hate the second episode, Let's start over. 239 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: And I would be like, bitch, are you dumb? 240 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 3: Are you serious? Right now? Start over? 241 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 2: And my y'all know we'll be getting sucked up on 242 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: our show too, So we done had a whole bottle 243 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 2: of wine. We're talking about let's start the episode over. 244 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 2: So many times we did that and then even now, 245 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: like it's a few episodes that we just have like 246 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: in the archives that I mean, it might see the 247 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 2: light of day if one of us get sick with 248 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 2: some but you. 249 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 4: Know, because how our personalities are, I think people think 250 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,559 Speaker 4: I'm more so like the care free, the funny. 251 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: I'm definitely like the somebody's getting fun up. 252 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 3: I don't play. 253 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 4: I'm very like, oh yes, I'm very hardcore, like like 254 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 4: when it comes to like like our staff and everybody 255 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 4: like Dreas, the more people that they like go to 256 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 4: her and they be like hey because they don't really 257 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 4: want to say ship to me because I'm like, I'm 258 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 4: very picky on specific I like things a certain way. 259 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 4: So there's definitely episodes where like, uhuh, we ain't doing that. 260 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 3: We will We'll burner that's yeah, we are here, we 261 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 3: right here. 262 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 1: I'm like, the lighting. 263 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 4: Needs to be this, this needs to be stopped. Like 264 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 4: before we do, we do a whole rehearsal before we 265 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 4: go on stage. 266 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 3: Are you talking about live shows? Yeah, oh yeah, you 267 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 3: have whole rehearsal. 268 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 4: And I'm like, okay, this needs to be this, this 269 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 4: need be and we're like okay, They're like okay, Damn. 270 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: I thought y'all just come up here to talk about 271 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 1: sucking men. 272 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 4: I don't think people don't recognize, like, yes, we pick 273 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 4: our productive tell our shows. 274 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 3: We I don't. We don't funk around y'all our production. 275 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 4: And that's why I was telling you when we went 276 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 4: to y'all show, we was like we step our ship. 277 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 3: Up, like this is a whole real prediction. 278 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 1: It was like that's why we took this first show 279 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: that we had in l A. Like associates were like. 280 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 4: Look at what everybody else is doing and we're just 281 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 4: going out here like winging it. 282 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 3: Like you know what I'm saying. I think most people 283 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 3: wing it. Yeah, we're wringing it with good production, with 284 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 3: with with structure, yes, structure winging it. It was like 285 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 3: a segment after segment was like this. 286 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: This It was I was entertained, but it was a 287 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: very good show. 288 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 3: Our show, our tour last year. 289 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: We was winging it the whole damn tour. 290 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 4: It was a one point the producers like, hey, the 291 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 4: next segment is not ready, y'all gonna have to do something. 292 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 3: I started doing the robot. I was like, drop that 293 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:49,439 Speaker 3: boom boom boom, whatever works. 294 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 2: Oh it was ever worked. I mean it was a 295 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 2: moment and y'all know me. I'll be like, I was like, 296 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 2: that was definitely entertaing because I even. 297 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 1: It's on brand, what is going on. 298 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 3: Something? And then our producer at the time in the 299 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 3: back like, oh. 300 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 5: My god, yeah I didn't say that, but okay, well yeah, 301 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 5: it's definitely episodes that we haven't released. It is it 302 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 5: because you're saying too much? Like you've said too much 303 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 5: and you're like, we're not saying that. 304 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 3: Oh boats. 305 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 2: We actually had this crazy asque episode. We ended up 306 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 2: posting it on Patreon. Remember we didn't post it on 307 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 2: our channel because our guest was saying the wildest shit. 308 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 3: You didn't post it because they were saying, well, yeah, 309 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 3: inappropriate ship dropping. 310 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 2: They were alluding to, like the fact that we fucked 311 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 2: with people that we never fucked with. 312 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,319 Speaker 5: Your show to call them out like now, but you're 313 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 5: not But y'all know how people are. 314 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 4: They already assumed things about you know, woman a woman. Yes, 315 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 4: but I'll say this though. The thing is me and 316 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 4: Drea we we obviously we drink a lot. You know, 317 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 4: we have a good time, but we know how to 318 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 4: drink and still have a show. 319 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 3: Right. 320 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: A lot of times people come on the show and 321 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: they not. 322 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 4: Ridgetting they be getting fucked up and they get so rowdy, 323 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 4: and it's sometimes we be like, okay, like we've had 324 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 4: a lot of people come through and get super like 325 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:14,959 Speaker 4: fucked up, Like. 326 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 3: We you for a good time. 327 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 1: But yeah, but like pipe down, bitch, I gotta get 328 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: to the next segment. 329 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 3: You gotta be careful with that. 330 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 5: Even even in regular life, you meet a new friend, 331 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 5: I'm goa to meet a new friend and like, yeah, 332 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 5: it's get fucked up. And then like halfway the night, 333 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, bitch, you're about to die, Like you're 334 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 5: showing up everywhere like friends. 335 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 3: Now, I'm telling you. 336 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 4: Because that's I've always give people the warning, like when 337 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 4: you go out with me Andre, like can you handle 338 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 4: your liquor? 339 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 3: First of all, that's don't do. 340 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 5: New friends in this age, not like like no, we're 341 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 5: getting fucked up. 342 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 3: I'm not about to. 343 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 5: I don't give anybody new drugs, too much liquor, I doubt. 344 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 3: I don't feel comfortable with that. 345 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 5: It's too risky, Like you better blame somebody else all 346 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 5: that shit, like, but yeah. 347 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 4: Because I feel like, because you said you're about to 348 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 4: turn thirty five, I'll be thirty four in August. So 349 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 4: I'm just kind of like, I know what I like. 350 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 4: I know the type of people I like to be around. 351 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 4: I get fucked up and have a good time, but 352 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 4: I don't like extreme. We were just talking about I 353 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 4: hate extremely drunk people. 354 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 3: I hate it. And I used to be that. 355 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 5: I mean, I wasn't like extreme, like I was a 356 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 5: bad drunk, but I did occasionally maybe should my pussy 357 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 5: on my Instagram story because I was really feeling myself. 358 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 3: But like I wasn't getting like sloppy, like throwing up drunk. 359 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 3: But even that was getting embarrassing. 360 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 5: And I was like, God, this is my new friend 361 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 5: who started this business, and she's telling me. 362 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 3: And then he like. 363 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: What she was like telling you yours. 364 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 5: She's like listen, I mean at least she told me gently. 365 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 5: I was like, this is kind of embarrassing. I should 366 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 5: probably stop. 367 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I just probably. 368 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 3: Put my fucking phone away. That had people. I had 369 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 3: my little cousins like, do you want me to show 370 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 3: you how to. 371 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: How to lock your phone after a certain time. 372 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 3: Or you can't? 373 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 5: Fuck I think there's like an age I mean, there's 374 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 5: not an age limit. I did some dumb shit recently, 375 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 5: but I just feel like there's only so many times 376 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 5: you can make the same mistake over and over until 377 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 5: you're like, until you're like, no one's gonna care to me, 378 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 5: Like you're thirty five not twenty five. 379 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 4: You're like, fuck times I be wrong, people are like, 380 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 4: oh she young, whatever, you're right these Sometimes I'll be like, bitch, 381 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 4: you sixty seven, get your ass up, take your walker, 382 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 4: and go sit your ass down for real. 383 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 5: I have less patience as the older you get, Like listen, 384 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 5: for sure, you gotta chill out, mom. 385 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 2: They say your patients like you gain more patients. I 386 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 2: feel like my patience is getting thinner. At thirty two. 387 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 2: My patients is way more thin than it was when 388 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 2: I was twenty five. 389 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 3: Because I know my limits. 390 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like when I feel myself getting there, 391 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 4: you know, when you take that little water in your mouth, 392 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 4: you're like. 393 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, then you know okay, I. 394 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 5: Appairly you drunk in my thirties because I know I 395 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 5: know you better, Like, yeah, I know you better. 396 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 3: Come that next morning you're like, bitch, you go home. 397 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 4: I got really drunk. And actually during our book launch 398 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 4: in New York, in New York, yeah, New York, after 399 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 4: we had that dinner YEP, which I was not well, 400 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, I forgot what this 401 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 4: feels like. This is not feel good. It does every 402 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 4: I was doing that every night. Yes, that hangover is 403 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 4: not the saying like I used to bounce back and 404 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 4: be ready. 405 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 1: It'd be taking me low key, like a whole day 406 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 1: to recovers. 407 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 408 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 4: Two three, Yeah, I can't drink and just I don't 409 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 4: get fucked up no more. I get a little buzz, 410 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 4: a little tipsy, but I don't get fucked up. 411 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. 412 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 1: We have a little lunch now, we did, we had, 413 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: we had to lunch. 414 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 3: I get shots to drinks. We don't drink number five no, 415 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 3: I support it. Well. 416 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 4: The theme of this month is wild women, and we 417 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 4: all know, you know, women, we get a little activated, 418 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 4: we become wild, we do activated like I'd like to 419 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 4: like take a moment to observe the word wild, because 420 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 4: I like the word wild. 421 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 3: I'll like, I'll describe myself that way. 422 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 5: But I think people have a negative, like a negative 423 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 5: association with the world wild. I feel like it's just 424 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 5: like primal and like free and like there's no rules, 425 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,199 Speaker 5: kind of like an animal not in a cage, so 426 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 5: like whatever you're gonna do freely naturally. I don't think 427 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 5: it's like I mean, you know, there's both. But so 428 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 5: just to clarify, I think wild women are free women 429 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 5: who do what the fuck they want. 430 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 4: No, I agree with the absolutely, but like you said, 431 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 4: there's a lot of misconceptions, and I wanted to ask 432 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 4: you guys, like, what are some misconceptions people have about you? 433 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 4: You know, because y'all a beautiful women. Y'all live in Atlanta. 434 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 4: I see your body body. 435 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 3: And okay, you don't know, now, spend a pretty penny 436 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 3: on it. That egg? Wait, you spend a pretty penny 437 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 3: on that? Ask oh that looks real? It does, doesn't 438 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 3: you know? 439 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 5: Are talking at the show and I was like, that's 440 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 5: her ass. He's like, I think, yeah, I think it 441 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:40,719 Speaker 5: is her ass, maybe not her boobs. He's like, I'm 442 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 5: not sure one of them. 443 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: They're both not mine. 444 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 3: But because he was he was, I was like, I 445 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 3: was like that technically. 446 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: Are mine, but they're not natural they are. 447 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 5: I mean, I got them reduced, I got I don't 448 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 5: think rection. I don't think reduction counsel. 449 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 3: Listen. 450 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:55,239 Speaker 4: I just feel like I don't want people to ever 451 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 4: look at my boos and be like, oh my god, 452 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 4: they're so nice and parking, but they used to sit. 453 00:18:58,440 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: On my belly. 454 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 4: But then so I do like to just be honest, Yeah, 455 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 4: I hate when people look at somebody's body and be like, 456 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 4: oh I want that, but like these aren't. I went 457 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 4: under the knife to make them look that way. That's hey, 458 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 4: it's not natural, right, But sorry, I didn't mean yeah, 459 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,199 Speaker 4: I'm going ahead a sorry, But to get back to 460 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:17,360 Speaker 4: your question, I think the biggest misconception that we have 461 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 4: is people like to tie our success in with how 462 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,119 Speaker 4: we look. They feel like we're only here because we 463 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 4: have the body who y'all fucked? 464 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: Which one of them? 465 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 4: Eighty five South niggas y'all fuck cause we're signed to 466 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,159 Speaker 4: eighty five side. And that's when like when we signed 467 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,919 Speaker 4: to them, you know, shout out to Carlos DC Chico, 468 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 4: everybody at eighty five because. 469 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 1: It completely changed our career. 470 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 4: But it's strictly business and they have done nothing but 471 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,159 Speaker 4: support us and show us the ropes and show us 472 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 4: how to navigate in this entertainment industry. So a lot 473 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 4: of people be like, who they fucked? Oh they only 474 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 4: hear because they do this, and they talk about this 475 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 4: and they showing this. It's like, no, at the end 476 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 4: of the day, looks can only get you so far, 477 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 4: especially as a black woman especially. 478 00:19:58,320 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 3: This ain't no script bit. 479 00:19:59,520 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 5: We got a. 480 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 3: Yes, you talk for a living. You can't just show up. 481 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 3: I gotta talk on this guy da. 482 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 2: But some people tell it this that's how they feel. 483 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 2: They feel like, oh, they only get listeners because they 484 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 2: look good. Ain't nobody about to watch you for an 485 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 2: hour and a half just listeners? 486 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 4: Mostly here you can't even see you, right, Okay, Then 487 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 4: go get another bitch is that looks just like you 488 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 4: and put on a mic and see what happened. 489 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,439 Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying, And so we say that all 490 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: the time. 491 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 2: I take another misconception too, is that people think we're 492 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 2: not gonna be nice in person. People always think that 493 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 2: we're gonna be like bitches and we're not gonna be cool. 494 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 3: It's fun. 495 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 2: Me and Lex are so cool. However, though, I definitely 496 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 2: am the one. If you say something crazy, I will 497 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: push you out. 498 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 3: What's your birthday? 499 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 2: I'm a toryus uh leo. Okay, so yeah, but we'll. 500 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 3: Keep it cute. 501 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 5: Tours will definitely curse you out my mom's tours and 502 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 5: she will curse me out my daughter. 503 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 3: There you said, who my daughter's the tours? You know. 504 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 3: She wanted to like, don't miss up my nails. 505 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,400 Speaker 2: I said, don't miss up my nails and don't miss 506 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 2: up my toe. 507 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 3: I know that's right. 508 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:18,640 Speaker 1: And even when Rale was telling us about her the role, 509 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: she was like I know. 510 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 3: She was like, she wants you to like not too much. Yeah. 511 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 3: I was like in the in the carpool line she 512 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,360 Speaker 3: got in one of the little girls, was like, did 513 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 3: you tell your mom? And she was like and then 514 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:32,719 Speaker 3: like a lot she got in the car. 515 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 4: I was like, did you tell me why? She's like 516 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,400 Speaker 4: nothing and I was like not nothing, what And She's 517 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 4: like I got the role of the princess child. 518 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 6: And I was like, she was like. 519 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: Like that's a big deal. 520 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 3: Was like that's a big deal. 521 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 4: And she was like, if you don't, could she could 522 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 4: say that, she would have said that. 523 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 1: I was like, when you're young and auditioning for a place, 524 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: it's got some stric competition. 525 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,120 Speaker 3: Ye hard, and it's curage. 526 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 4: I used to always auditioned for everything when I was little, 527 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:02,679 Speaker 4: and I never used to get I used to get 528 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 4: one line and my. 529 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: Mom would be like, god, bade. 530 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 3: My mom would be like, yes, you know. 531 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:11,639 Speaker 7: I'm like I was. 532 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,120 Speaker 3: I'm like yeah, She's like, yeah, look at you now 533 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,679 Speaker 3: got all the lines. I know, but I'm saying so. 534 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: As like being that young to get like the lead 535 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 1: in the school Player, that's a big dal. 536 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 3: It was big energy in the car. 537 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, it's definitely horst energy. 538 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,360 Speaker 2: I feel like we don't we don't clap for ourselves 539 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 2: enough when we have wins. One of my closest friends 540 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 2: tell me that all the time. She'd be like, bitch'll 541 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 2: do amazing shit like be you'll gonna you y'all went 542 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: on Breakfast Club. You were like, Yeah, that's great, that's cool. 543 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 2: What's next. 544 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: I'm like always looking for the next thing. 545 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like that's not really good because 546 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 2: I don't celebrate when amazing, huge things have been. 547 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I think it's hard. 548 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 5: I think it's hard, like when you're in it, like 549 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 5: even knowing you guys pre being signed, just in the beginning, 550 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 5: like twenty twenty, I remember, just like I mean, both 551 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 5: of us, just like trying to grow, Like growing in 552 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 5: the podcast is like trying to make it to the NBA. Yeah, 553 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 5: like it's it's close to none in this bitch. 554 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. But like when you start to get. 555 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 5: Into the mode of it and you're feeling you're doing 556 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 5: it and you get like one little acolade one, a 557 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 5: little accolade one, like it's still like tunnel vision because 558 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 5: it's still like it's not enough. 559 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 1: I gotta do more. 560 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 3: I got I gotta because. 561 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:23,360 Speaker 4: Every week, it's every week it's pressure producing something coming out, 562 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 4: you know. 563 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 2: And it's such a male dominated industry, as will so 564 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 2: it is. 565 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 3: That has a lot to do with it too, especially 566 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 3: with us. 567 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:32,439 Speaker 4: It's crazy because we actually said this when we went 568 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 4: on eighty five one time. It was like if Carlos 569 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 4: said something, it's like, oh my. 570 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 1: God, this shit is hilarious. And then when we say 571 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 1: they're like those bitches there those. 572 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 2: Stupid bird brain bitches. Where did you find these wars? 573 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 3: The world is sexist? 574 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 5: It is, Yeah, I saw somebody, I saw somebody comment 575 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 5: on I wonder of our something. 576 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 3: I don't fucking know, but I just this is this 577 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 3: is my bad habit. 578 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 5: I'll go look at the page because it's always like 579 00:23:56,359 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 5: an unattractive, fucking aspiring podcast as hate your ass. 580 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 3: Niggas and nigging comments. 581 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 5: And I looked and of course he was like trying 582 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 5: to be a podcaster, but like the entire feed was 583 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 5: about like how he hated Baby Mamas talking about Kevin 584 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,639 Speaker 5: SINGI was like talking about like calling women fat, and 585 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 5: it was like he was fat, yeah, And it was 586 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 5: just like this is so interesting that you had the 587 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 5: fucking audacity, But it was like, Baby Mamas, because you 588 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 5: chose this, this is your decision, like every single post, 589 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 5: and I've really come to the conclusion, like the world 590 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 5: hates women, I. 591 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 4: Know, especially like you said, wild women that don't that 592 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 4: live in our confidence and know one who we are 593 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 4: and we're happy and we're talking and we're talking and 594 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 4: we're just relating to each other and we're trying to 595 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 4: navigate life together and figure this shit out. We're trying 596 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 4: to figure this shit out just like you. Yeah, So 597 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 4: it's like they just don't like it. They just want 598 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:48,679 Speaker 4: us to shut up and cook pork chops. 599 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:53,200 Speaker 3: But we don't get you. Don't we getting no grace 600 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 3: nothing the university. 601 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 5: We have to make the right decisions every time, even 602 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 5: if we were nineteen twenty twenty five, it doesn't matter. 603 00:24:58,760 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 3: We have to make the right decisions. 604 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,159 Speaker 5: The live with them, with the land, the bed. If 605 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 5: the nigga leaves, it's your fault. If you're a single mom, 606 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 5: it's your fault. It's just like there's so much there's 607 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 5: such a high standard for women that it doesn't apply 608 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 5: to man and for moms and like even in this 609 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:14,640 Speaker 5: space and even. 610 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 2: Not being moms right because if you're. 611 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 3: Nobody wanted to wife you, right, Like what's going on. 612 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 1: It's just it's a lot. It's a lot. 613 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 5: Have you guys ever dated anyone and like had to 614 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,640 Speaker 5: overcome the obstacle of them understanding what you do? 615 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 3: Like, have you been shamed in like a dating situation? 616 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 2: Well, because I was gonna say this, I had a 617 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 2: situation happen like maybe in the it's been like the 618 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,119 Speaker 2: past year and a half, I didn't actually end up 619 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 2: dating the guy, but I didn't end up dating him 620 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,239 Speaker 2: because of some of the remarks that he said, Like 621 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 2: he saw our podcast and he was like, oh yeah. 622 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,040 Speaker 2: He was like, you know, I don't know how I 623 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 2: feel about being out with you, and you know, people 624 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 2: looking at me and looking at you, and people always 625 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 2: asking you for a picture, and even just some of 626 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:10,919 Speaker 2: the things that you talk about online. You don't ever 627 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 2: feel crazy for talking about the shit that you talk 628 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 2: about online. 629 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,159 Speaker 3: I said, no, I don't. Was he a politician, No, 630 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 3: he wasn't. 631 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 2: But it was just a weird conversation and he made 632 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,479 Speaker 2: me feel uneasy, and he was just like why, I mean, 633 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,120 Speaker 2: do you understand why maybe people would be apprehensive about dating? 634 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 3: You know, I just feel like. 635 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: You're not my person. 636 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 2: I feel like you're not a person who is compatible 637 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,399 Speaker 2: for me, because the type of man that I'm gonna 638 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,679 Speaker 2: be with is a man who's okay with me and 639 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 2: everything that comes with me. 640 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 1: I don't think. I do think we done say it 641 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:39,880 Speaker 1: some wild shit. 642 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,920 Speaker 2: However, I don't feel like I've said anything that or 643 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 2: did anything that I can't come back from. Nothing where 644 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 2: a nigga should be embarrassed to be with me, So 645 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,160 Speaker 2: it's just like, you're not my person. Maybe you want 646 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,399 Speaker 2: a more low key life, low key woman, and that's cool. 647 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,880 Speaker 3: Do you think it's jealousy? 648 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 1: I hell yeah. 649 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 2: Sometimes I definitely think it's that, But then that specific situation, 650 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:02,160 Speaker 2: I felt like. 651 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: It was more so him just maybe even project me 652 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 1: in security. 653 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 2: A lot of people don't be as comfortable with being 654 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,159 Speaker 2: theirselves as they try to make it seem. And I 655 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 2: think people who are really comfortable with being themselves, like 656 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,440 Speaker 2: us and like y'all, it makes a lot of people uncomfortable. 657 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 3: I agree. 658 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh, I was in a situation and I kind 659 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 4: of realized that he didn't support me. Like he would 660 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 4: say he supported me and he would act that way, 661 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 4: but like the actions. 662 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: Weren't meeting up. So we did the Houston show. 663 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 4: Our Houston show was probably like our biggest venue, most 664 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 4: people there House of Blues in Houston. Yeah, everybody pulled 665 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 4: up on us. It was just like it was lit. 666 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:45,680 Speaker 4: It was like a whole party. 667 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 2: And I remember like after the show, when we were talking, 668 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 2: he was like, cause he's he's. 669 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,560 Speaker 4: Kind of in the industry as well, and he does music. 670 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 4: He was like, yeah, damn, I was telling my homeboys. Shit, 671 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,120 Speaker 4: my girl can sell out the venue and I ain't. 672 00:27:59,160 --> 00:27:59,919 Speaker 3: I can't even do that. 673 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 2: And you know, in the moment, I'm like, okay, right, 674 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 2: but I'm back on. 675 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 3: I'm like it was a joke. He but but. 676 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,639 Speaker 4: It's kind of like in this moment, I'm like, damn, 677 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 4: near sold out House of Blues and you should be like, damn, babe, 678 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,679 Speaker 4: like sitting this moment because you've done You've done stuff 679 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 4: like this. 680 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, but he can, especially. 681 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,680 Speaker 1: Not Navid, you know what I'm saying. 682 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 3: But I mean to day old school rapper, Yeah. 683 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 2: I'm selling tickets. 684 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 3: Why why that energy? 685 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 4: It was it was very weird for me, Like in 686 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 4: the moment, I was like but as I like got 687 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 4: laid down, I'm like looking at him like damn. 688 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 1: And then it's like I'm looking at his story. He 689 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 1: didn't even like, you know, I want. 690 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 8: Somebody like you are laying on the side, he'd be 691 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 8: like doing amazing, you know what I'm saying, Like I 692 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 8: wanted that support, and it was just kind of like 693 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 8: he was just there and it's like it wasn't like, man, 694 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 8: I am so proud of you. 695 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 4: It was never that moment and it was never like 696 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 4: I walk in the dressing room to some roses and 697 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 4: like it was just never it was like a half 698 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 4: assed support And I was like, you know what, you 699 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 4: don't really support me, Like you be kind of like 700 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 4: acting like you do like. 701 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 2: You love key, kind of you be hating on me. 702 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 2: We're too old for that. You gotta nip that shit 703 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 2: in the bug. As long as a nigga give me energy. 704 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 2: And he's making me feel like you're not supportive or 705 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 2: you feel like this is a problem what I do 706 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 2: for a living. Let's not even go any further. Yeah, 707 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 2: that's why I only went on one day with the 708 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 2: guy that I was just talking about. 709 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 3: One day. I was like, m I'm cool on this action. 710 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 5: I mean, he basically told you he can't handle it. 711 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 5: Have you have you ever found yourself pulling back from 712 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 5: like your authenticity or you're like you're your transparency on 713 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 5: the show because of someone you've dated, Like, let me like, 714 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 5: have you compromised in that way? Because obviously we tell 715 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 5: a lot of we talk a lot of show. Have 716 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 5: you ever been like, okay, let me just bring it in. 717 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 2: Not because of nobody I updated, but honestly because of comments. 718 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 3: Do you read the comments a time or. 719 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 2: Getting used to in the beginning, but as the show 720 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 2: has started to grow, yes, sometimes, and I feel like 721 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 2: it was a certain point in time where I was like, 722 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 2: oh my god, they said I'm too mean or I'm 723 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 2: too blunt, Like maybe I shouldn't say this, or maybe 724 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 2: I need to retract that statement, or maybe I need 725 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 2: to like try to clarify it more instead of like 726 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 2: I think in the beginning, because we were so young too, 727 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 2: we just used to say whatever the fuck was on 728 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 2: our mind. I never gave a fuck whatever came to 729 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 2: my mind. I was gonna see me. Now, I feel 730 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 2: like I still say what's on my mind, but I'm 731 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 2: more conscious. Yeah, but not because of a partner though, No. 732 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 4: Because of just people, because of people. Do you feel 733 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 4: that way too, you know what's crazy? In the beginning, 734 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 4: I was more so kind of like in a character 735 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 4: like I was trying to give somebody something. So I 736 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 4: felt like I was trying to like not because of 737 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 4: a partner or anything else, but I was like trying 738 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 4: to give people what I thought they wanted to see. 739 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 4: Because we talked about this before we started recording. We 740 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 4: were like, oh, do you listen to podcasts at the beginning, 741 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 4: I was listening to other people's podcasts. 742 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, they do this, so I'm like 743 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 1: trying to put all this like let me do that, 744 00:30:59,280 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 1: let me do this. 745 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 4: And it was never because of a partner. But it's 746 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 4: crazy because right before we started really kind of doing it, 747 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 4: I was in a bad relationship when I first moved 748 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 4: to Atlanta, and he was like, oh, y'all doing this, 749 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 4: y'all doing that, So I really try to dial it back. 750 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 4: I like deleted all these pictures off my Instagram. I 751 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 4: was like, well, Drean, maybe we need to like calm 752 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 4: down and not do so much and this and that. 753 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,240 Speaker 4: And then it's like once I got out of that relationship, 754 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 4: then I was like going too hard. So but now 755 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 4: I just kind of feel like, look this is me. 756 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 4: I love my job, I love them my I do. 757 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 4: I literally sit on camera. I'm not acting like nobody. 758 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 4: So if you don't like my show, that means you 759 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 4: don't like me. You know what I'm saying, Like, of 760 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 4: course you know who I am in real life is 761 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 4: more complex than what y'all get on an hour a week. 762 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 4: But it's like this is a part of who I am. 763 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 4: So if you don't like the show. You don't like 764 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 4: me because I feel like, Okay, we talk about sex. 765 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 4: We're all having sex, Like let's be real, like why 766 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 4: is it so taboo? Yes, I suck some dick last night. 767 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 4: Who cares having sex? And that's the problems ise. 768 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 3: And they're unhappy? 769 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 5: Yeah? Do you do you feel like like you are 770 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 5: more aware or more conscious of the things you say 771 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 5: or don't say because the audience has grown, and like, 772 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 5: do you do you see a difference between like how 773 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 5: much you you disclosed now and before? 774 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 3: I feel like no, I feel like before. 775 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 4: I don't know, like when I when we first started, 776 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 4: I've gone it's been like, yeah, of like how I 777 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 4: feel because when I first started, we really didn't think 778 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 4: anybody was listening, so I just said whatever the fuck same, 779 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 4: and then people started listening, you were like, oh okay. 780 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 4: And then I've had I've dated people that have made 781 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 4: me feel weird about something certain shit I've said. So 782 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 4: I've been like, Okay, well, I've actually hurt people's feelings. 783 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 4: So I've had to also like adjust that as well, 784 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 4: like Okay, I don't need to share other people's business. 785 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 4: I want to share that show on Horrible decisions about 786 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 4: the guy he was. 787 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 3: It was, yeah, that was kind of funny. 788 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 2: It was funny, always good for entertainment, right, like the 789 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 2: expensive him. 790 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 3: You know, I knew who he was, but he heard it. 791 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,120 Speaker 4: He was like, damn, yes, I heard it and told 792 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 4: him because it was so specific, and he was. 793 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 3: Like, that kind of sounds like you. Yeah. 794 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 4: So I did that with my aunt. I did that 795 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,800 Speaker 4: with my family. Oh, y'all, it was so bad, and 796 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 4: that it was my favorite Oh no, And she was like, 797 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 4: you know, I stopped listening, she said, And I said, y'all, 798 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 4: I said something real bad. I remember it was y'all, 799 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 4: it was bad and I felt so and it's my 800 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 4: favorite aunt too. 801 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 3: But I was just like, you know, I think I'm 802 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 3: about you. 803 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 1: Were just talking, yeah, because I'm thinking because this gets 804 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 1: girl talking and we start talking. 805 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I stopped talking about my 806 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 2: family and realistically too, like Erica just said in the beginning, 807 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 2: when you talking about she'd be like anybody listening to 808 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 2: this shy wasn't the first time with eighty. 809 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: Five, So I'm like, I'm still on the motive. 810 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 4: We only getting two thousand listeners a week, and I'm like, 811 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 4: oh shit, I went back and look at that episode. 812 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 4: I think the episode had got like seventy thousand views 813 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 4: on YouTube. That's not even cluing the list, right. You know, 814 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 4: so I don't talk about family, no, mom. 815 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:16,359 Speaker 2: Well, well we don't get I talk about little sheet though. 816 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, like we don't get to too personally. 817 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 5: I used to think it was safe if we're not 818 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 5: saying anybody's name, but and it's like if they know, 819 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 5: then then it's a problem. But it's like and then 820 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 5: I almost tell them like that nobody knows what I'm 821 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,200 Speaker 5: talking about you, But no, I think I think you 822 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 5: evolved me, become more mature about what you've given, what 823 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 5: you take. 824 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,439 Speaker 3: But I'm the same as you. 825 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 5: Like I feel like, unfortunately this is this is my personality. 826 00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 5: I can't I can't fucking shut the fuck us. So 827 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 5: annoying but so yeah, but I also feel like it's 828 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 5: been a grand lesson in not giving a fuck because 829 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 5: sometimes you let it out and it's out. Because like 830 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 5: Eric and I, we have no saved, no saved episodes 831 00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 5: when we get sick, we have. 832 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:00,640 Speaker 3: We have no we don't time like. 833 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 4: We've ever deleted an episode, oh wow, never really edited anything. 834 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 1: We deleted the episode one time. 835 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,760 Speaker 4: Only time we've ever and you know, like we recently 836 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,440 Speaker 4: had some guests that like want things to be edited, 837 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,439 Speaker 4: and I'm like, I'm very anti that because I'm gonna 838 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 4: start having guests signed fucking like agreements. 839 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, but then then they's like they get in 840 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:22,919 Speaker 5: their heads, said what she said? 841 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 4: No you don' peop don't want to sign anything. But yeah, 842 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,520 Speaker 4: we haven't really edited much the same. 843 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:30,040 Speaker 3: Way we don't. 844 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 2: We don't eddy any of our shoot but we did 845 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 2: delete episode maybe twice. The deleted episodes, like after it 846 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 2: was up for months. 847 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we could probably delete. 848 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 4: We just have our second episode probably ever second or 849 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 4: second episode yet. 850 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,799 Speaker 5: But it's five ways to know if your man is 851 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 5: gay or bye, as if we're fucking experts. 852 00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 3: Oh my god, we did. 853 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 4: And I told a story about how I slept with 854 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 4: a man and I wasn't sure if he they were trends. 855 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 4: I think that I thought after I slept with him, 856 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I think he may be trends. 857 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 4: But I wasn't mad about it. I was just telling 858 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 4: and everything. Yeah, but I didn't know if it was 859 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 4: you know, I didn't know. I didn't know. I didn't know. No, 860 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 4: I never found out. To this day, I still don't know, 861 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 4: but I think maybe I think I was like, okay, 862 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 4: maybe it is a man because like I looked. 863 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 1: I mean, well, i'll say, like a biological man. 864 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 4: I guess because I found his Instagram like some years 865 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 4: ago and like he had a kid. But that still 866 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 4: doesn't mean anything, you know. But at the time when 867 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,799 Speaker 4: I had told the story, like we were laughing and 868 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 4: joking about it and I didn't care, but somebody was like, 869 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, this is so and I was like 870 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 4: I wasn't being a physic because I said on it. 871 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 4: I was like I didn't care because it didn't matter 872 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 4: to me. But I was just like, did I use 873 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 4: the correct term? 874 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: Did I did? 875 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 3: So? 876 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, we definitely had a delete thing and I talked. 877 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 2: About a nigga specifically, like I said that nigga name 878 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,400 Speaker 2: ye and I was follow him a fuck nigga. 879 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 1: I mean the facts of the sign everything. 880 00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, the facts of the fact yea. 881 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 5: Also realize like we started this right before everything, like 882 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 5: right before what you would say wouldn't get you completely. 883 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,759 Speaker 3: Niggas by niggas. Yeah, this is before like the like 884 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,120 Speaker 3: the she heard they him. 885 00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:18,720 Speaker 5: He like, yeah, so like you can just say whatever 886 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:20,000 Speaker 5: and then no one was counseling you. 887 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:20,399 Speaker 3: Yep. 888 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 5: I mean honestly, I feel like this is like the 889 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 5: best lesson I've ever had in public evolution. 890 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 3: Like guess what, guys, you haven't always said shit that's 891 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 3: that's agreeable. 892 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 5: Like this is the best example and the best lesson 893 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 5: for me. And like, and you grow and you evolve 894 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 5: and you leave some of you behind and shed and 895 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,439 Speaker 5: like if I can be that example for somebody else 896 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:44,319 Speaker 5: and someone's like, I. 897 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 3: Can't believe you said that. I was, like I did, 898 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 3: but I ain't. 899 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,279 Speaker 5: And you're gonna say some shit that you may not 900 00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 5: agree with a year from now. 901 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,439 Speaker 3: Like I'm a completely different bitch than I was when. 902 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 1: You just have to be growing in front of cameras. 903 00:37:58,600 --> 00:37:59,959 Speaker 1: But we're like, we're human just. 904 00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 5: Like you know, but we are growing in front of 905 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:03,800 Speaker 5: cameras because you see me once a week and you 906 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,839 Speaker 5: see a slither of who I am. But I read 907 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,080 Speaker 5: something on Lipstick Alley and they were like I used 908 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,320 Speaker 5: to like their show, but they're all they're all healed 909 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 5: and ship now I don't want to listen to it. 910 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 3: And I'm like, do we need to get more like, 911 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:15,640 Speaker 3: do we need to be more like ratchet? They do 912 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 3: the same to us, but he wants to. 913 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:22,439 Speaker 2: Stop reading lipstick all years ago, Like they're so brutal there. 914 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 4: I think that the beauty of what we do is 915 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 4: that we've never claimed to be experts. 916 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 3: Like there's a pod. 917 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 4: Cast, there's podcasts that are led by experts, literally and 918 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,359 Speaker 4: they literally have to be we want to we want 919 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 4: on a show recently and this white woman, she's great. 920 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,879 Speaker 3: She was so scared to say certain ship and she's 921 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,720 Speaker 3: super popping, Like she. 922 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,839 Speaker 4: She was like, oh, I like pause what I want 923 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 4: to tell you? She like wanted to tell us some 924 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 4: real ship, but wanted them to like pause that. 925 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 3: She was like just to cut this out. And then okay, now, no, 926 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:53,919 Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like that was I feel 927 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 3: that was a legitimate pause. I understood that. 928 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, but like even just her talk about like mushrooms and. 929 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I was surprised. I was like, well, there's 930 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:05,399 Speaker 3: no you're white, right. I was like, you can say it. 931 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:10,439 Speaker 4: But there's like there's like fear around brand sponsors partnerships 932 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,400 Speaker 4: and sponsorships and stuff like that. And like me and 933 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 4: Mila like accepted a long time ago that we're going 934 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 4: to be there. We're just not going to be brand 935 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 4: friendly for certain brands. 936 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 3: It's just not gonna work, you know. 937 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 4: Although now I feel like it's like the tide is 938 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:28,520 Speaker 4: turning and brands are to become more edgy. Yes, but 939 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 4: I think that that's the beauty is that we've never 940 00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 4: claimed to be perfect, right, right, they we're not experts 941 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 4: right motherhood and womanhood. And that's why we sit down 942 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 4: and talk to you guys. That's why I sit down 943 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:40,359 Speaker 4: and talk to our guess. That's why I sit down 944 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 4: and talk to my sister every day every week and 945 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 4: say like, hey, how can I be better? 946 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 3: Or I fucked up this week? Right, you know? 947 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 4: And so I think that's the beauty of it, and 948 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,320 Speaker 4: that's why people fuck with the message. 949 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:50,800 Speaker 7: Right. 950 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 4: It's crazy that y'all say that because you was like 951 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 4: people feel like, oh, they're they're healed. 952 00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 1: Now, we get that all the time, Like I like 953 00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:05,600 Speaker 1: when they y'all, but it's like, honestly, you want us 954 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: to be I'm just I'm not. 955 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,520 Speaker 2: I'm fucked up and get canceled because I used to 956 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,440 Speaker 2: be saying anything. 957 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:11,880 Speaker 1: But about that. 958 00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:13,840 Speaker 4: It's like you said, y'all don't want to see people 959 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 4: growing up this show. 960 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 5: Sometimes your audience is not always growing with you, but 961 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:25,360 Speaker 5: your audience who is also growing because they're also getting older, 962 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:26,239 Speaker 5: they're gonna. 963 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:27,279 Speaker 3: Come with you. Oh yeah yeah. 964 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 5: People who just want to talk about other people on 965 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,440 Speaker 5: the internet and they. 966 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,000 Speaker 3: They hate, they hate, they want us to be there. 967 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:34,880 Speaker 4: And we had a conversation this morning while we were 968 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,520 Speaker 4: getting ready, and I was saying, because a lot of 969 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,520 Speaker 4: people they just see the clips of Poor Minds, and 970 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 4: a lot of the clips of Poor Minds, the funny 971 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,239 Speaker 4: clips when we're talking about sex and things like that, 972 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,760 Speaker 4: Your Minds is not a sex podcast. We talk about 973 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:51,279 Speaker 4: mental health. We've talked about stocks, how to invest. We 974 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:53,120 Speaker 4: had a mother daughter dou don't come on and she 975 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 4: was talking about she used to abuse her daughter. 976 00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,359 Speaker 3: We talked, yes, like we talked how. 977 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 1: She doesn't drink anymore. I realized we. 978 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 3: Talk about so much. 979 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 1: It's a lifestyle podcast. 980 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,719 Speaker 3: We talk about all of this shit. 981 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,480 Speaker 1: And it's crazy because I'm like people on the internet, 982 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 1: if you like look at like the in. 983 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 4: Cels hate us. They're like, oh, these are just two 984 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,560 Speaker 4: big booty bitches who chased after men with money and 985 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,640 Speaker 4: this and that. But it's crazy because I'm like, it's 986 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,960 Speaker 4: crazy because on the Internet they can say what they 987 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:21,919 Speaker 4: want about poor minds, but in real life people fuck 988 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 4: with us because every time we have a. 989 00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:25,920 Speaker 1: Live show, we have people who do the VIP and. 990 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 2: They're like, they change my life, Yes, crying talking about 991 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 2: it's very like heartwarming. 992 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 1: And so she's not like girl me, yeah. 993 00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 4: We get the same thing. It's like, oh, you have 994 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,239 Speaker 4: a sex pole. We recently went on a we went 995 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 4: on a sex podcast and she wanted to talk about 996 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,000 Speaker 4: something I was like, I didn't really feel comfortable talking about. 997 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:46,440 Speaker 3: But I was like, well, she's like, you're on a 998 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 3: sit You're on my. 999 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:48,920 Speaker 4: Podcast, a sex podcast, to talk about this, and you 1000 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:49,720 Speaker 4: have a sex podcast. 1001 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 3: And I was like, you didn't have to. I don't 1002 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 3: have to talk. 1003 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 4: I feel pressure to I asked you, are you sure? 1004 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:58,799 Speaker 5: I know you felt pressure. That's why I looked at 1005 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,600 Speaker 5: you said are you sure? And you said that's fine? 1006 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 3: Are you to me? I felt pressure? 1007 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:11,799 Speaker 5: Did you talk about it any up front? 1008 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 1: That lets me yelling at me too, Well, bitch. 1009 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 3: Why you saying something? 1010 00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 4: Because the thing is though with Drea too though, because 1011 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,560 Speaker 4: Dre is believe it or not, the nicer one out 1012 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 4: of us. I don't want, especially because people look at 1013 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 4: Drea a certain way, and sometimes we sit on people's 1014 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 4: couches and they'll say things. They be like, oh yeah, 1015 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,759 Speaker 4: I'm gonna catch her slipping, and they try to get 1016 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,480 Speaker 4: a viral moment off her, like what you bring to 1017 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:37,600 Speaker 4: the table, miss batty. 1018 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,600 Speaker 1: Niggas pay for ship, and they be trying. 1019 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,920 Speaker 4: To not be like, hold on, Nigga, I'll do that 1020 00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:43,880 Speaker 4: all you can see so many times we're going on 1021 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 4: the podcast, I'd be like, hold on nigga, because let 1022 00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,239 Speaker 4: me tell you something that she's done. I bet you 1023 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,319 Speaker 4: you can't do do that, do what she's done as 1024 00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 4: a business person, and then we can talk about this 1025 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:55,839 Speaker 4: like stop like stop it. 1026 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,920 Speaker 5: People you in even try to play you when you're 1027 00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 5: when you're in their space, people will even try. 1028 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:02,280 Speaker 3: To play well, especially trying. 1029 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:07,719 Speaker 4: To play I was getting close to that brain. 1030 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:11,719 Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, it's synthetical now. 1031 00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, even on the show and 1032 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,080 Speaker 4: in the time that we've done it, like I've been 1033 00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,719 Speaker 4: in moments of transition in my life and in relationships, 1034 00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,959 Speaker 4: and like people like when you go on other shows, 1035 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,440 Speaker 4: they haven't caught up to where you're at or you 1036 00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,719 Speaker 4: haven't even really you aren't really caught up to where 1037 00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:28,000 Speaker 4: you're at. 1038 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:29,160 Speaker 3: But they want you. 1039 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 4: To perform for their show because they've seen you perform 1040 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 4: in a certain way on another show, so they want 1041 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,759 Speaker 4: that give me what you gave that other you know 1042 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:38,080 Speaker 4: what I mean? 1043 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 3: Tell that story. I well, at that moment, what did 1044 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,320 Speaker 3: you do? I told the story you did even. 1045 00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 1: But how did you feel about like how did you 1046 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 1: feel about you? 1047 00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:47,359 Speaker 3: After? 1048 00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 4: I gave it a much more like like like not 1049 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 4: the long extended version of the story. And granted it's 1050 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:54,480 Speaker 4: a story that we've shared a lot. It was just 1051 00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 4: I was going through something in my relationship that I 1052 00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,680 Speaker 4: knew was gonna this is gonna cause conflicts. But I 1053 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:01,239 Speaker 4: was like, in my mind, I was like, what's already 1054 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,319 Speaker 4: on the internet, So like if I say it again, 1055 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,879 Speaker 4: like does it actually really matter? And it was like, 1056 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,319 Speaker 4: it doesn't matter, but it does because we are we 1057 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,480 Speaker 4: are in transition, so it's going to cause drama. But 1058 00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,560 Speaker 4: I just didn't feel like explaining this to my friend, 1059 00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,200 Speaker 4: who is very open, and but. 1060 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:18,920 Speaker 5: You don't explain it to me because I knew that 1061 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,360 Speaker 5: you felt to me, and that's I said to you again, 1062 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 5: are you sure? 1063 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:23,719 Speaker 3: Because I knew. 1064 00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 1: Because don't ever feel pressure. 1065 00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 5: If you were like no, I'd be like, we can 1066 00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:28,360 Speaker 5: talk about something in the fuck ouse. 1067 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 2: I think people definitely try to box box you wing though, 1068 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,760 Speaker 2: because it's like even sometimes with us, like it's things 1069 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,759 Speaker 2: that we've talked about in the past, and it's like 1070 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,759 Speaker 2: sometimes I feel like when we go on podcasts, that's 1071 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:40,480 Speaker 2: all I love. 1072 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,560 Speaker 1: Y'all because we talk about so much other sheet. 1073 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:44,640 Speaker 2: I feel like every time we go on somebody podcasts, 1074 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,280 Speaker 2: they want to talk about relationships. 1075 00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, they want to talk about BDB. 1076 00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1077 00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 2: How do I get when you bring to the table? 1078 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 2: Are you a high value woman to talk about that? 1079 00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,160 Speaker 3: Today? I'm here, you know, I'm you know, that's. 1080 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:02,440 Speaker 4: Why he was blowing me up to come on his 1081 00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 4: mom my, let's get to the good. 1082 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:06,240 Speaker 3: Chit real, chit. You know what I'm saying. 1083 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 4: So I feel like and but you know what, at 1084 00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,520 Speaker 4: the beginning of the year, my therapist said, I need 1085 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 4: to work on boundaries. So I want us all to 1086 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 4: do that even as women as entertainers, work on your 1087 00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,719 Speaker 4: boundaries and being okay with being like no, because what 1088 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:21,400 Speaker 4: you're gonna do to me? 1089 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:23,320 Speaker 1: Like, you know when you went on the podcast. 1090 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:24,560 Speaker 3: Okay, what you gonna do to me? 1091 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 4: I'm usually the I've got a lot of boundaries. Yeah, 1092 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:29,040 Speaker 4: my boundaries is pretty legit. 1093 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1094 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:31,640 Speaker 4: But I think I was in like this weird space 1095 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 4: of like our brand feeling like very sex heavy, and 1096 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:37,960 Speaker 4: I was trying to like shift over because I was like, 1097 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 4: I just I don't want to be a sex podcast. 1098 00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 4: You do talk a lot about sex anyway, because yeah, 1099 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 4: I never would put you all in the category no, 1100 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,800 Speaker 4: but like I was feeling like we were like getting 1101 00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,759 Speaker 4: heavy on that, just every episode only talking about sex, 1102 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 4: like we need to, like, But then I went on 1103 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:53,879 Speaker 4: this other show and then I was in this space 1104 00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:55,920 Speaker 4: with my with my partner at the time, and I 1105 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,080 Speaker 4: was just like I was overwhelmed and I was just 1106 00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 4: like whatever, I don't care, I'll talk about it fine, 1107 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 4: right right right right. And then after that, I was like, 1108 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,640 Speaker 4: you don't want to be like a vibe killer, right right? 1109 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 3: I understanding only women worry about being vibe killers. Oh women, 1110 00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,919 Speaker 3: I don't think. No. Not Orlando over there shaking saying 1111 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:14,279 Speaker 3: some of you. 1112 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:19,080 Speaker 5: Orlando isn't give a fuck about anybody's opinion about anything. Yeah, 1113 00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 5: So he's like I mean, I was gonna say, I 1114 00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:22,399 Speaker 5: was gonna take back saying only women. But I think, 1115 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:26,239 Speaker 5: especially if you're an empathetic woman, and I think like 1116 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,880 Speaker 5: just being a water sign, being feeling, just being over, 1117 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:33,399 Speaker 5: like being aware. You're always thinking about am I being 1118 00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,720 Speaker 5: too much? Am I being too little? Am I not performing? 1119 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,839 Speaker 5: Because they expect me to talk about this, Like there 1120 00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 5: are so many expectations of us, especially as entertainers, especially 1121 00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:44,439 Speaker 5: as you. 1122 00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,120 Speaker 3: Know, women who talk about sex. 1123 00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:50,239 Speaker 5: Sometimes you're easily box into the idea that you talk 1124 00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,840 Speaker 5: about sex all the time, right right, you know, thirty 1125 00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:58,840 Speaker 5: percent of your episodes. You know, even though ninety percent 1126 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:02,160 Speaker 5: of adults are having sex. It's a universal thing that 1127 00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:07,719 Speaker 5: ties us all together. Emotions, feelings, fucking parenthood, womanhood, like 1128 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 5: these are universal things, and so people want to be like, oh, 1129 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:13,319 Speaker 5: they talk about sex with their sex podcast. We got 1130 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,439 Speaker 5: featured on Rolling Stone last year, which is a big deal, 1131 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 5: that is. 1132 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,279 Speaker 3: But then they were like their life what do they say? 1133 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:24,319 Speaker 5: They're lifestyle lifestyle and BDSM podcast. 1134 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:27,879 Speaker 4: And I was like, not BDSM, No, I was like, okay, 1135 00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,799 Speaker 4: what I would never even put y'all in their caategory 1136 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:35,640 Speaker 4: em but even like even saying just like this, the 1137 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,600 Speaker 4: sex because it's like, y'all talk about a lot, y'all 1138 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 4: are the same like us. 1139 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,480 Speaker 2: It's like the conversations they're trying to categorize us as 1140 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:43,440 Speaker 2: a sex podcast. 1141 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:44,520 Speaker 3: Well, I think it's I think it. 1142 00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 4: I think it becomes even more extreme because we're mothers, 1143 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 4: so it's not just that we're women, but we're moms 1144 00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:55,120 Speaker 4: super sex, talking about our one night stands, talking about 1145 00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:56,400 Speaker 4: our anal sex. 1146 00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,359 Speaker 3: Experience a kid. 1147 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:02,160 Speaker 4: The whole reason we're moms is right, but that concept 1148 00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 4: they don't like. They don't they don't marry it together, 1149 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,719 Speaker 4: and so it becomes like this even more shocking thing, 1150 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:09,880 Speaker 4: which I think is a testament to why me and 1151 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:13,960 Speaker 4: Miila have been successful because there weren't any mothers talking 1152 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:14,480 Speaker 4: about that. 1153 00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:16,840 Speaker 3: All moms are actually talking about. 1154 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:21,280 Speaker 4: Sex right behind closed doors, behind closed doors, it's supposed 1155 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 4: to be taboo, but it's like why. 1156 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,279 Speaker 5: Well, it's because even for you guys, neither of your 1157 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 5: mother's yet. But think about it realistically and answer honestly, 1158 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:33,839 Speaker 5: if you once you become a mom, do you think 1159 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:35,640 Speaker 5: that there'll be things that you feel like you have 1160 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:36,879 Speaker 5: to shift automatically. 1161 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. 1162 00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:43,360 Speaker 4: I feel like it's nothing that I want to necessarily shift. 1163 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,359 Speaker 4: But I feel like the reason I go so hard 1164 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,200 Speaker 4: is if I do have, you know, a child, if 1165 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,279 Speaker 4: I'm blessed to have a child one day, I don't 1166 00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 4: want them to have to do the shit that I 1167 00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 4: had to do, you know what I'm saying. So it's like, yeah, 1168 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 4: I'm it's not things that I'm gonna have to change, 1169 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,000 Speaker 4: but I'm gonna make sure that you don't have to. 1170 00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,160 Speaker 4: You know, like I said, do the like the shit 1171 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,279 Speaker 4: that I talked about, You don't have to do that. 1172 00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:03,120 Speaker 4: The biggest that I talked to just because they had 1173 00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:04,879 Speaker 4: money and I had to rent was due. You ain't 1174 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,359 Speaker 4: got to do all that shit, you know what I'm saying. 1175 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 4: So I'm gonna be honest, Well you're not. You're not 1176 00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:09,480 Speaker 4: doing that shit anymore. 1177 00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:10,399 Speaker 3: Do you want to know? Mom? 1178 00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,480 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But it's like as far 1179 00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: as like completely changing myself. 1180 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,880 Speaker 2: No, Yeah, maybe I'm unrealistic because I don't know. I 1181 00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,840 Speaker 2: just have this idea and maybe because I'm not a 1182 00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,120 Speaker 2: mom yet, But I just feel like I'm gonna be 1183 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:24,799 Speaker 2: able to like have a. 1184 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:28,080 Speaker 1: Kid and still be me and be able to be. 1185 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 2: A great mom and raise my child, but I can 1186 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:36,200 Speaker 2: still be authentically myself because at the end of the day, 1187 00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:39,720 Speaker 2: people do so much I feel like to I guess 1188 00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:43,520 Speaker 2: shield their children from certain shit, right, But like, no 1189 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:46,200 Speaker 2: matter what, once that child reached a certain age, they. 1190 00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:48,840 Speaker 3: Gonna know your tea facts. 1191 00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:50,800 Speaker 2: Like they don't know who they mom or they dad 1192 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 2: is no matter what I. 1193 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:56,640 Speaker 5: Like, who I saw you were, it's not who you were. 1194 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:02,160 Speaker 2: Eventually it's gonna them out anyways, as long as you're 1195 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,720 Speaker 2: a child. Of course, I'm gonna try to keep certain 1196 00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:08,239 Speaker 2: parts of I guess myself and my life from you, 1197 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,200 Speaker 2: Like you don't need to know I'm fucking, Like you 1198 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 2: don't need to know maybe who I'm fucking every time, 1199 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:17,520 Speaker 2: poor mind. I mean, like you don't need to know 1200 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,360 Speaker 2: cause let's be real here, sometimes you have relationships, so 1201 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,360 Speaker 2: you might not end up with this niggro or you 1202 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:24,240 Speaker 2: might not be taking. 1203 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:25,879 Speaker 1: Him serious, but you got a little dick real quick. 1204 00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 2: My daughter don't need to know about that every time 1205 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:32,680 Speaker 2: that happens. So of course I'm gonna hide certain parts 1206 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 2: of my life from you. Well, once you become old enough, 1207 00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:38,560 Speaker 2: once you're like an adult, certain conversations are gonna be 1208 00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:40,879 Speaker 2: had obviously you're gonna see poor minds. You wanna see 1209 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,880 Speaker 2: what's going on, and we can have those healthy conversations. 1210 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,400 Speaker 2: But I want to still be able to be Drea. 1211 00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:50,680 Speaker 2: I don't want me to change just because I'm a mom. 1212 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,399 Speaker 2: And I feel like sometimes a lot of the time, 1213 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:56,040 Speaker 2: from what I can see, people lose themselves and being mothers, 1214 00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,399 Speaker 2: like they lose their identity, They lose who they are 1215 00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:02,799 Speaker 2: and it becomes all about your child. And it does 1216 00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,480 Speaker 2: need to be about your child, but not to the 1217 00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,120 Speaker 2: point that you lose yourself, because you're still important too 1218 00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:09,439 Speaker 2: to have a life of food. 1219 00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:09,799 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1220 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,880 Speaker 4: And when I go hang out with moms, it's usually 1221 00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:15,760 Speaker 4: new moms though, and all they want to talk about 1222 00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:16,799 Speaker 4: is their fucking kid. 1223 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a friend. I'm like, bitch, I don't care. 1224 00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:23,560 Speaker 1: We don't want to talk about m kids. They don't care. 1225 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:24,360 Speaker 3: How are you? 1226 00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: How are so? 1227 00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:27,920 Speaker 3: What are you? Are? You and your husband? Fucking right? 1228 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,719 Speaker 3: I'm not that about that? Are you putting it down? 1229 00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:31,640 Speaker 1: What's going on there? 1230 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:32,520 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? 1231 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 4: You know, like, yeah, what else is happening in your life? 1232 00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,640 Speaker 4: It's true, women and moms, we do. We attach our 1233 00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:42,279 Speaker 4: identity to our children, because it's easy, especially if you 1234 00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 4: haven't really figured out what your identity is right, So 1235 00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:46,920 Speaker 4: it's really easy to lose yourself and your kids. It's 1236 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,919 Speaker 4: the best, greatest distraction of all time until you wake 1237 00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,759 Speaker 4: up and your kid is eighteen and they've moved out 1238 00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:55,799 Speaker 4: the house and you have no fucking life. 1239 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 3: Who am I right? You know? And we see that 1240 00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:58,399 Speaker 3: so much. 1241 00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:01,920 Speaker 4: I think, especially with like generations before us, that of like, 1242 00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:04,560 Speaker 4: and that's why they judge mothers like us, because they're like, 1243 00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:07,320 Speaker 4: why why is your kid not your number one priority? 1244 00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:10,160 Speaker 3: Why is why? Why? And why are you outside? But 1245 00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,799 Speaker 3: who is not my number one ride? Just because. 1246 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,400 Speaker 4: But like, why aren't you living and dying by what 1247 00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:19,720 Speaker 4: you know, what your kid's needs are at every moment? 1248 00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:23,840 Speaker 4: Like you know, it's crazy like having this conversation because 1249 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 4: I've always said I didn't want kids. 1250 00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:27,800 Speaker 1: I've always been like, oh, I don't want kids. I 1251 00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 1: don't want kids. 1252 00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:30,480 Speaker 4: As I've gotten older, I'm like, I think I do 1253 00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,399 Speaker 4: want a kid. Maybe I don't know. I'm still kind 1254 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 4: of like back and forth about it. I feel like 1255 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 4: I have to meet the right person. That kind of 1256 00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 4: makes me feel like, you know what I'm saying, But 1257 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,800 Speaker 4: because I was raising an environment of everything got to 1258 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,400 Speaker 4: be about your kids. You can't go on vacation. Why 1259 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,560 Speaker 4: are you on vacation? Where's your kid at? So I 1260 00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:49,239 Speaker 4: always felt like being a mom like you got. Of course, 1261 00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:50,879 Speaker 4: being a mom is a twenty four to seven job, 1262 00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 4: but I would always feel like, oh my gosh, am 1263 00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,799 Speaker 4: I ever going to have time to myself. But now 1264 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 4: seeing how there's more angles of parenting, I'm like, okay, 1265 00:52:59,320 --> 00:52:59,560 Speaker 4: I could. 1266 00:52:59,680 --> 00:52:59,959 Speaker 3: I can't. 1267 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,280 Speaker 1: I can still have a life. 1268 00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:04,520 Speaker 4: Because motherhood was always brought to me like oh, you 1269 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,479 Speaker 4: have to do everything and you don't have a life. 1270 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:07,920 Speaker 1: Everything has to be about the kid. 1271 00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:11,960 Speaker 4: So looking at y'all be mothers, and my mom my, 1272 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,239 Speaker 4: mom my sister be a mother and she still has 1273 00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 4: a life, and I'm like, okay, mother, don't let that bad. 1274 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 4: Like you can still live. So it's like it's definitely 1275 00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,040 Speaker 4: changed my views on it because it's like it's okay, 1276 00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:26,040 Speaker 4: you're still a human. Like we look at our moms like, oh, 1277 00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:28,640 Speaker 4: you're just mommy, but it's like, hey, she has a name, 1278 00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:30,160 Speaker 4: this is a person, This is a person. 1279 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,560 Speaker 3: She was a human. You should just go ahead and 1280 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 3: make us aunties. 1281 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:38,280 Speaker 2: Oh y'all gonna be aunties because. 1282 00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:48,200 Speaker 3: You have. Are you so crazy? 1283 00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,759 Speaker 4: Because I had a conversation with my nephew and I 1284 00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,759 Speaker 4: asked himseff and I said, oh yeah, Cause when I said, 1285 00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:54,839 Speaker 4: when me and mommy are your age? 1286 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,320 Speaker 1: She said, I said, I said what baby? He said 1287 00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:06,640 Speaker 1: mommy was nine. I was like yeah, but that's how 1288 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:07,080 Speaker 1: it is. 1289 00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:09,000 Speaker 4: It's like, you know, and I'm just kind of like, yeah, 1290 00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 4: like we had a life before you like we was 1291 00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,480 Speaker 4: my sisters to be outside and it's like now still 1292 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:16,920 Speaker 4: what she wants to do. But like I said, I 1293 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,479 Speaker 4: just look at motherhood completely different now than I did 1294 00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:22,440 Speaker 4: when I was like younger, you know. 1295 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,440 Speaker 3: So it's like, you know, pro'b be a little option. 1296 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:26,000 Speaker 3: Maybe we'll see you know. 1297 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:31,360 Speaker 4: Well, we play a little game on our show. Into 1298 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,000 Speaker 4: the game called Trigger. 1299 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 3: Okay, where's my phone? 1300 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,320 Speaker 4: And so wen to ask you a few questions to 1301 00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:41,040 Speaker 4: get to know our friends a little better. 1302 00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:48,040 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm drunk, you guys shot, let me take money 1303 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:49,239 Speaker 3: to bring another drink. Let's take a shot. 1304 00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:52,839 Speaker 5: I might as well get my vanilla backwood and go 1305 00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 5: all the way where's. 1306 00:54:55,480 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 3: My backwood at? That was right here? Okay, thank you girl, 1307 00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:11,920 Speaker 3: You're gonna hit this. Let's look get right. Mmm that 1308 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:13,719 Speaker 3: backwood is always hitting. 1309 00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:18,160 Speaker 5: Especially with a little cocktail on the side. 1310 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:21,560 Speaker 3: Oh bitch, how do I get high that fast? Man? 1311 00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 3: These backwards they be getting me there? 1312 00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:27,000 Speaker 4: Cool wick Uh, okay, y'all, it's time for trigger. 1313 00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:31,080 Speaker 3: Okay. So with trigger, you just we say a word. 1314 00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 4: You say the first thing that comes to mind, Okay, okay, fine, 1315 00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:37,480 Speaker 4: and don't overthink it, Okay, just go for it. So 1316 00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,399 Speaker 4: I'm gonna say the word, and maybe who's gonna go first? 1317 00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:41,160 Speaker 4: You want to go first? 1318 00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:45,240 Speaker 3: Spit or swallow? Swallow? 1319 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:46,960 Speaker 1: Swallow? 1320 00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:55,280 Speaker 3: Fingering ass or licking ass? Both? Like me be the one. 1321 00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:56,280 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. 1322 00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:07,400 Speaker 3: Fingering pegging? No, m Have you all ever pegged anybody? No, 1323 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:08,280 Speaker 3: I said. 1324 00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:10,480 Speaker 1: I used to say I would back in the day. 1325 00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:14,200 Speaker 4: I recently watched the video of a woman pegging a guy, 1326 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,279 Speaker 4: and then I've seen my friend peg a guy. She 1327 00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:17,759 Speaker 4: sent me a video of her doing it, and I 1328 00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:20,040 Speaker 4: was like, I don't know if I can do not 1329 00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:21,080 Speaker 4: to judge. 1330 00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:22,719 Speaker 2: People, but I'm just I know me either, it's not 1331 00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,160 Speaker 2: I don't it's not a judging me thing. I used 1332 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 2: to think that I I would want to do it time, 1333 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:31,400 Speaker 2: but then I was like, I don't know if I 1334 00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 2: want it to be my nigga tho be somebody else. 1335 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,160 Speaker 4: You know what the thing with pegging is, I feel 1336 00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:40,319 Speaker 4: like the act of putting on the equipment would like 1337 00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:41,280 Speaker 4: take me out. 1338 00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:46,480 Speaker 9: Of it, like I gotta put you absolutely once you 1339 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 9: get by the time you figured it out, like it's 1340 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,160 Speaker 9: just a good idea, like I. 1341 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 5: Need to do not putting the thing on. 1342 00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 4: But it's like before me and my mammy had sex, 1343 00:56:57,640 --> 00:56:59,239 Speaker 4: like he already be like rubbing his day, be like, yeah, 1344 00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:00,880 Speaker 4: you ready for this? Like am I supposed to do 1345 00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:05,000 Speaker 4: that to him? Like rub my little plastic like, you know, 1346 00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:06,440 Speaker 4: smack it on his booty. 1347 00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:12,839 Speaker 3: Okay, let's keep going with the guy. Yeah, you wasted up. 1348 00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:28,680 Speaker 4: Religion, Yes, praise the Lord, yes, okay. Non monogamy, no freakingly, 1349 00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 4: what'll freaky? 1350 00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:35,640 Speaker 3: I feel like I'll say this, let me say this. 1351 00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 2: In my ideal world, I would love to be in 1352 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:41,880 Speaker 2: a monogamy relationship. However, I feel like most people not monogamies. 1353 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:45,280 Speaker 3: They don't even know that's the that part, and they 1354 00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:47,040 Speaker 3: have a certain look. You mean that's cheap. 1355 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,160 Speaker 2: Do you think I feel like I feel like mad 1356 00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,640 Speaker 2: people be fucking each other like you be thinking you 1357 00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:52,720 Speaker 2: only with this nigga? 1358 00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,080 Speaker 3: But is he only with you? Do you take me 1359 00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:57,240 Speaker 3: in Atlanta? Monogamous? Yes? 1360 00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:01,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like your definition of monogamou because I feel 1361 00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:04,640 Speaker 2: like y'all probably like to have a little together, y'all, 1362 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 2: but I just feel like y'all are so obsessed with 1363 00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:11,880 Speaker 2: each other like a threesome like alone by like. 1364 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:13,480 Speaker 1: You know what, I think you and Orla are monogamous? 1365 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:19,120 Speaker 3: Have you had one without me in the room to 1366 00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:20,880 Speaker 3: say that alone? 1367 00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:21,640 Speaker 1: You do? 1368 00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:24,160 Speaker 3: Not heart? 1369 00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:29,640 Speaker 1: When that without me? 1370 00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 3: What's what's out? 1371 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:38,960 Speaker 1: Does she in rewind? I was not part of their 1372 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:41,520 Speaker 1: I was just pressing, but I was there. 1373 00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:48,480 Speaker 3: Now we have we have right? No, we haven't. He's counting. 1374 00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:50,360 Speaker 4: You know the reason I feel like y'all are monogamous 1375 00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:52,160 Speaker 4: because I feel like y'all are so obsessed with each 1376 00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:54,560 Speaker 4: other and I love each other like when you're in 1377 00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:57,760 Speaker 4: a poly relationship, it's like you love another person. Ain't 1378 00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,320 Speaker 4: nobody feeling to love you now like he loves love you? 1379 00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,240 Speaker 4: And it's like y'all love each other too much. That's 1380 00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:05,400 Speaker 4: why I'd be like, y'all are definitely monogamous, and I 1381 00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 4: feel like is it not being monogamies. If y'all fucking somebody. 1382 00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,120 Speaker 3: Together, I don't really feel like that's not I say. 1383 00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:14,960 Speaker 2: Yes to monogamous. That's anonymous, right, that's yeah, I think 1384 00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:15,600 Speaker 2: so right, But. 1385 00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 4: No, we'renogularly yes, exactly, my man, I nobody. But I 1386 00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:24,080 Speaker 4: feel like like poly relationships. I've never seen a poly relationship, 1387 00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:26,240 Speaker 4: like like, oh, yeah, that's lee. They be in one 1388 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:26,960 Speaker 4: house like it's. 1389 00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,720 Speaker 1: A dorm room. Everybody gotta go to work splitting bills. 1390 00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 4: No, wait, did you see that video of that that 1391 00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,600 Speaker 4: that ladyship, this black lady, and she was like she 1392 00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:38,560 Speaker 4: got four boyfriends. 1393 00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:39,560 Speaker 3: Someone literally just. 1394 00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:44,080 Speaker 5: She was so giddy. Wants to her coming to show. 1395 00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:46,840 Speaker 5: Her name is Kenya, and I actually I do want 1396 00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:48,000 Speaker 5: her to come to the show because she said like 1397 00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:49,720 Speaker 5: she has it all figured out. She I don't have 1398 00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,080 Speaker 5: that much attention. I don't have that much time. I 1399 00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:53,920 Speaker 5: don't got that much pussy. 1400 00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:53,920 Speaker 3: Pussy. 1401 00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:55,760 Speaker 1: I ain't got time nor pussy. 1402 00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:59,320 Speaker 5: I'm obsessed with my boyfriend like a psychopath. Yes, that's 1403 00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 5: I don't have to be obsessed with somebody else. 1404 01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:04,480 Speaker 3: I agree, I don't have enough obsessed with Yeah, I 1405 01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:13,800 Speaker 3: can't do that either. Married men, Well they're polling the 1406 01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:15,280 Speaker 3: other person don't know it. 1407 01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:17,440 Speaker 1: I'll say this. I'll say this. 1408 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,120 Speaker 4: I've had situations where I'm not gonna lie, like I've dealt, 1409 01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:21,800 Speaker 4: you know. 1410 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:26,640 Speaker 1: With that situation. Would I do it again? 1411 01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:27,120 Speaker 3: No? 1412 01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:29,479 Speaker 4: But well I don't have been like married men because 1413 01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:32,400 Speaker 4: they're like they know that it's safe, that they way, 1414 01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:33,000 Speaker 4: it's easy. 1415 01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:33,680 Speaker 3: Well, it was easy. 1416 01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:35,640 Speaker 4: It was kind of like you know, we we fucked 1417 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,480 Speaker 4: with each other. It was a cool understanding, you know. 1418 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,640 Speaker 4: But as I grow, no, I won't do it no more. 1419 01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 2: But it was, yeah, I don't know, I'm so selfish, 1420 01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 2: Like what you mean going home to that beach? 1421 01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,200 Speaker 4: They like, yeah, I guess at the time, I was like, Okay, 1422 01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:51,600 Speaker 4: he going to home to that bitch. 1423 01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:54,120 Speaker 3: But the single niggas be still going home to the 1424 01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:54,600 Speaker 3: other bitch. 1425 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:59,200 Speaker 2: But technically they still single though, I mean technically from 1426 01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,800 Speaker 2: what they tell you, niggas just be liars. 1427 01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,240 Speaker 1: But I don't be with God. 1428 01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:08,000 Speaker 2: I feel like y'all nemm with and I don't want 1429 01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:08,680 Speaker 2: no part. 1430 01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:12,000 Speaker 1: With the Lord about before getting married, you're playing with 1431 01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:12,320 Speaker 1: the Lord. 1432 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:14,160 Speaker 3: That was that was a typo in the Bible. 1433 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:22,160 Speaker 1: You gotta follow that. 1434 01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:26,640 Speaker 4: That was the type John our Sons type. 1435 01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,160 Speaker 3: The Bible. Because I see a couple of type, I 1436 01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:32,560 Speaker 3: think it's time for King James come out with it 1437 01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:33,680 Speaker 3: and said. 1438 01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:34,160 Speaker 1: I don't do it no more. 1439 01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,720 Speaker 4: But I don't judge men or women who do it, 1440 01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 4: because you know what, I've made mistakes in my past, 1441 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:39,840 Speaker 4: so I don't judge people. 1442 01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:40,000 Speaker 3: Who do it. 1443 01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:40,920 Speaker 1: That's what I have. 1444 01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:41,640 Speaker 3: I wouldn't do it. 1445 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't do it now going forward. 1446 01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:52,320 Speaker 4: You love her money, I said, But if she had 1447 01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,439 Speaker 4: to shoes, she gonna choose money. I'm gonna choose love. 1448 01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:57,040 Speaker 1: You can have both, but I don't think you can 1449 01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:57,520 Speaker 1: have both. 1450 01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:02,440 Speaker 3: Got both with me. Listen, we gotta love and money. 1451 01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:07,919 Speaker 5: Look at uscribing, look at all the love. 1452 01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:14,680 Speaker 3: What's your favorite trait about Lex? Oh? 1453 01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,240 Speaker 4: Girl, you are so and it is so because I 1454 01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:19,120 Speaker 4: know it's so many, so just try to narrit it 1455 01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:19,720 Speaker 4: down for her. 1456 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:23,000 Speaker 3: I love. 1457 01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:26,960 Speaker 2: One thing I love about Lex is that she's just 1458 01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:32,280 Speaker 2: very much always herself no matter who she's around. And 1459 01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:34,480 Speaker 2: I love that about you because I feel like, you know, 1460 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:38,600 Speaker 2: some people, they switch up who they are, they personality, 1461 01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,040 Speaker 2: all that stuff when they're around different people. They try 1462 01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:43,680 Speaker 2: to fit in in different settings. I feel like lex 1463 01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:48,160 Speaker 2: is just who she is always, and you love really hard. 1464 01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:51,120 Speaker 2: I have always admired that about you too, because I 1465 01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:54,040 Speaker 2: feel like when it comes to like relationships and daty, 1466 01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:56,680 Speaker 2: I have always been that person where it's like you 1467 01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:59,280 Speaker 2: ain't about to play me, and so I feel like I. 1468 01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,440 Speaker 1: Always have a guard. Leck's gonna fall in love with 1469 01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:05,160 Speaker 1: every nigga she my heart broke so bad, I'll be like, 1470 01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:10,280 Speaker 1: but two weeks later she find another nigga. 1471 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,880 Speaker 3: She'd be like, I love him, Drea, and I'd be like, 1472 01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:14,240 Speaker 3: oh my god, for real. 1473 01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,720 Speaker 1: Heart, and I'd be like, let's June again. 1474 01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,720 Speaker 2: And so I think those are my I know it's 1475 01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:22,400 Speaker 2: supposed to be one thing, but I think those are 1476 01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:26,840 Speaker 2: my two favorite things. Like you love fearlessly and you 1477 01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:28,840 Speaker 2: always yourselves no matter. 1478 01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:33,120 Speaker 3: What, okay, And what is your favorite thing about Drea? 1479 01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:35,080 Speaker 1: My favorite thing about Drea? 1480 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:40,120 Speaker 4: My main thing is her confidence, like it don't matter, 1481 01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:41,880 Speaker 4: like I know what you said earlier, like you know 1482 01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:45,000 Speaker 4: you're like still human. But Draa's like she knows she 1483 01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:47,280 Speaker 4: that girl, and not just even with her looks, like 1484 01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 4: her personality, like she is just like so confident, like 1485 01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:56,120 Speaker 4: in everything and every aspect, Like people can say the 1486 01:03:56,200 --> 01:04:00,240 Speaker 4: worst ship about her. She'd be like, oh you be 1487 01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:02,960 Speaker 4: for real, like somebody could just rip her apart. She'd 1488 01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:06,200 Speaker 4: be like, girl and not get you thought, you don't 1489 01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:07,320 Speaker 4: even believe that yourself. 1490 01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,040 Speaker 3: So it's like it kind of like. 1491 01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:11,080 Speaker 4: Bleeds on to people like you can't help but feel 1492 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,120 Speaker 4: like she look in the mirror she walk out, you 1493 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:20,440 Speaker 4: be like you look at yourself slight Okay, you know 1494 01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:26,919 Speaker 4: you can't help it. You cannot help it, Like it's 1495 01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:31,120 Speaker 4: literally like contagious. That's like one thing for sure. And 1496 01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:34,120 Speaker 4: the second thing is like her work ethic, Like she 1497 01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:37,720 Speaker 4: is a hustler. She's always like on her shit. Like 1498 01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 4: seeing her start muse beauty and really just pour herself 1499 01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,360 Speaker 4: into that, because I feel like poor Minds is like 1500 01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:45,560 Speaker 4: it's kind of its own machine now and we did 1501 01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:46,040 Speaker 4: this together. 1502 01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:47,760 Speaker 3: But the fact that she does muse beauty on. 1503 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:49,720 Speaker 4: Her own, it's a whole nother entity that she's just 1504 01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:53,440 Speaker 4: really dove in on. I love the factcause dre one 1505 01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:55,720 Speaker 4: thing about dress. She gonna start a business beach. She 1506 01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:58,920 Speaker 4: just started about fourteen businesses and that was yesterday. So 1507 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:03,040 Speaker 4: for me, I love, Yeah, she's very serious about her 1508 01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,040 Speaker 4: money and her hustle. Those are like the two favorite 1509 01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:09,600 Speaker 4: things about her, I love What's your most toxic trait? 1510 01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:11,840 Speaker 3: Oh, child? 1511 01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:15,360 Speaker 1: I like she said, I love hard? 1512 01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:15,800 Speaker 3: You know. 1513 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,720 Speaker 4: So I think a lot of times men fall in 1514 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:20,120 Speaker 4: love with me and I be making them think I'm 1515 01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:20,800 Speaker 4: in love back. 1516 01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:22,200 Speaker 3: They don't know that. 1517 01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:24,560 Speaker 4: You're gonna be loved next week too. Yeah, so I 1518 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:27,160 Speaker 4: fall in love, but this is normal for me. I 1519 01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:30,560 Speaker 4: love everybody, so that's probably my toxic thing. Like now, 1520 01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:31,360 Speaker 4: it's a difference. 1521 01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,760 Speaker 1: I love people. I've been in love. 1522 01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 4: I can honestly say in love twice, so I know 1523 01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:39,080 Speaker 4: the difference. 1524 01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:39,840 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 1525 01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:42,600 Speaker 4: But a lot of times I think men can't decipher 1526 01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:44,840 Speaker 4: which one it is with me. So I do have 1527 01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:46,840 Speaker 4: a lot of people that be like falling for me hard, 1528 01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:47,360 Speaker 4: and I'd be like. 1529 01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:51,760 Speaker 1: Oh, I fuck with you though, you know. 1530 01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,120 Speaker 3: What I'm saying. So I think that's my biggest toxic 1531 01:05:54,200 --> 01:06:04,800 Speaker 3: trait for real. Hmmm, I'm a Ghoster track star, a ghost. 1532 01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:10,280 Speaker 2: No, literally, I will I will avoid having conversations with people. 1533 01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:12,800 Speaker 2: I just won't never talk to you again, like ever, 1534 01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 2: and we never will discuss what happened, what went wrong. 1535 01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:20,600 Speaker 2: You just never gonna hear from me again and I'm 1536 01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,040 Speaker 2: doing I'm currently doing this to someone right now, a 1537 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:27,320 Speaker 2: friend of mine, a friend, oh my god, a female. 1538 01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:30,560 Speaker 3: But they're not your friend anymore, No, she's not. 1539 01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,320 Speaker 2: But then it's like, I do feel like it's a 1540 01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:38,600 Speaker 2: toxic trait, right, because sometimes you need to have conversations. 1541 01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 2: But then sometimes I feel like people know why they 1542 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:42,360 Speaker 2: got you fucked up and they't know why you're not 1543 01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:42,920 Speaker 2: fucking with them. 1544 01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:45,320 Speaker 1: And bitch, you've played on my top? Do we really 1545 01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:47,439 Speaker 1: need to talk about it? She played on that top 1546 01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:51,280 Speaker 1: super hard and in exactly like situation. 1547 01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:53,320 Speaker 2: Of course, I'm like, I'll tell you all about it 1548 01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:54,800 Speaker 2: off camera, but I'm not gonna say what it is. 1549 01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:57,920 Speaker 2: But like this person, bitch, you know you tried me, 1550 01:06:58,440 --> 01:07:00,520 Speaker 2: you know you need some fuck shit, and we friends 1551 01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:02,280 Speaker 2: for a long time, do we really need to have 1552 01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:04,800 Speaker 2: a conversation about it? Because I think sometimes when you 1553 01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:08,320 Speaker 2: open the floodgates of the conversation, people are always gonna 1554 01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:10,040 Speaker 2: try to make it seem like, oh, no, well I 1555 01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:11,720 Speaker 2: didn't mean it like that alreadydn't. 1556 01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:15,480 Speaker 3: Do it like whatever did you mean? 1557 01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:15,960 Speaker 4: Not? 1558 01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:19,560 Speaker 3: What did you mean? Because what did you mean? Because 1559 01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:22,600 Speaker 3: you could have just not Wait. 1560 01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:24,240 Speaker 4: So I have a question about that because we talk 1561 01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:27,000 Speaker 4: a lot about how a lot of times women we 1562 01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:29,959 Speaker 4: don't give other women the grace that we give male 1563 01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:33,919 Speaker 4: partners or or suitors. Right Like a nigga can play 1564 01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:36,520 Speaker 4: you three or four times and you'll still go back, 1565 01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:38,280 Speaker 4: or you'll at least have a conversation with him. 1566 01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:43,400 Speaker 3: Do you feel you seem like you're not You're on 1567 01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:43,959 Speaker 3: both side. 1568 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:45,680 Speaker 1: So, because I was. 1569 01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:47,480 Speaker 4: Gonna say, like, do you think that if if it 1570 01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:49,120 Speaker 4: was a male partner, would you give him? 1571 01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:50,120 Speaker 3: Gives grace to her. 1572 01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:53,840 Speaker 4: Friends more than she does niggas, but she goes work quicker. 1573 01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:58,480 Speaker 4: I give everybody, but Draga gives grace to her friends 1574 01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:00,520 Speaker 4: for sure, because I'm not lie. 1575 01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:01,360 Speaker 3: I am a. 1576 01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:03,400 Speaker 4: Great friend, but I fuck up, and I fuck up 1577 01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:05,080 Speaker 4: a lot, especially with her because me and her met 1578 01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:07,040 Speaker 4: so young and I was just still trying to and 1579 01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:09,160 Speaker 4: it was just a lot like I have drug this 1580 01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:11,560 Speaker 4: girl through the dirt a lot. She's like, okay, bitch, 1581 01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:15,439 Speaker 4: I'm like, bitch, you know what I'm saying. But oh 1582 01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:17,799 Speaker 4: they she don't give nobody no second chances. 1583 01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:19,280 Speaker 1: And I think that's. 1584 01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:21,679 Speaker 2: Something that I'm trying to work on as I get older, 1585 01:08:21,760 --> 01:08:23,960 Speaker 2: because if you want to be in a long lasting 1586 01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:27,040 Speaker 2: partnership or I have a long lasting friendship. 1587 01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,599 Speaker 1: You have to give people a little more great. 1588 01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:39,120 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Harry pussy No, yeah. 1589 01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:44,000 Speaker 3: Recently, like on you or somebody else. 1590 01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:45,080 Speaker 1: You know what. 1591 01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:48,479 Speaker 4: I've waxed my whole pussy for a long I'm sorry, 1592 01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:50,439 Speaker 4: we have a story with it. I've watched my whole 1593 01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:52,640 Speaker 4: pussy for a long time. I was recently asked to 1594 01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:55,400 Speaker 4: leave a little little triangle and not naked. 1595 01:08:56,800 --> 01:09:00,320 Speaker 2: You know, I got a little you know, it's not 1596 01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:04,439 Speaker 2: like I'm talking about a whole no, not a whole bush, 1597 01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:05,400 Speaker 2: but I feel like a little hair. 1598 01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:09,679 Speaker 3: Alright, Look, it's cute. Yea. What's your love language? 1599 01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:18,200 Speaker 2: Minus words of affirmat go ahead minus words of affirmation 1600 01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:22,200 Speaker 2: and gives for sure. Those are like my tops. 1601 01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:25,200 Speaker 4: I know it sounds cliche to say all of them. 1602 01:09:25,360 --> 01:09:27,760 Speaker 4: I like to be loved in every aspect. I want 1603 01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:30,880 Speaker 4: to feel everything I want to go in. I'm a 1604 01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:34,360 Speaker 4: passionate person. I don't have one. It's no order for me. 1605 01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:37,240 Speaker 4: I want to feel all that shit. I need all 1606 01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:44,000 Speaker 4: of them. Favorite sex position missionary hmm. 1607 01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:47,439 Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm fine as fuzzed, like look 1608 01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:50,599 Speaker 2: at me, look at me, and I just think It's 1609 01:09:50,600 --> 01:09:53,920 Speaker 2: something so intimate about missionary too. And also when I 1610 01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:57,440 Speaker 2: have sex, like whenever our orgasm, that's how I always orgasm. 1611 01:09:58,120 --> 01:09:58,640 Speaker 3: Missionary. 1612 01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:01,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm the same missionary and but Doggie is a 1613 01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:03,960 Speaker 4: close it is it is. 1614 01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:04,479 Speaker 3: I agree. 1615 01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:08,040 Speaker 4: I feel like my best videos though, you can get 1616 01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:10,760 Speaker 4: the best videos, like my best video like I have 1617 01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:12,639 Speaker 4: with my niggas like them Doggy. 1618 01:10:15,360 --> 01:10:16,479 Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, this is what. 1619 01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:17,080 Speaker 3: You be saying. 1620 01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:21,320 Speaker 1: Okay, you got you like, no wonder. 1621 01:10:24,960 --> 01:10:31,599 Speaker 4: Oh uh favorite porn category lesbian girl, Oh my god. 1622 01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:34,599 Speaker 5: Yes, I feel like lesbian is like the most straight 1623 01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:35,520 Speaker 5: girl category. 1624 01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:36,559 Speaker 1: I don't want to see. 1625 01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:40,120 Speaker 4: I don't like looking at penises and other men like men. 1626 01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:44,680 Speaker 4: Just I just like a certain type of nigga. So 1627 01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:47,439 Speaker 4: a lot of times, like the porn men don't be 1628 01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:49,960 Speaker 4: giving that. It's very rare you see a nigga and 1629 01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:53,200 Speaker 4: porn that you're like, okay, you're talking about outside of porn. Yeah, 1630 01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:56,200 Speaker 4: But the women always give. They always give what it's 1631 01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:56,760 Speaker 4: supposed to give. 1632 01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:59,439 Speaker 1: I be watching squirt videos a lot too. 1633 01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:02,519 Speaker 2: I like work videos like I'll be typing in creamy 1634 01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:06,120 Speaker 2: Black you guys. 1635 01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:08,280 Speaker 1: You guys, creamy black ebony Queen. 1636 01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:15,920 Speaker 2: Squirts I'm very specific when I type in what I'm 1637 01:11:15,920 --> 01:11:17,240 Speaker 2: looking for, because I'll. 1638 01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:22,240 Speaker 5: Be needing to see what. You gotta be specific. If 1639 01:11:22,240 --> 01:11:23,960 Speaker 5: you're too specific, I think it will come up. Though, 1640 01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:26,360 Speaker 5: I'll be like, damn, no time this. 1641 01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:35,840 Speaker 3: Creating. I gonna create this and specific. Oh my god. Okay, 1642 01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:43,439 Speaker 3: if you are pet Peeve name droppers, oh my god, 1643 01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:46,759 Speaker 3: I hate that You've read a lot of those in Atlanta, 1644 01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:49,439 Speaker 3: in l A and l A l A. 1645 01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:50,519 Speaker 1: That's the l A thing. 1646 01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:56,120 Speaker 4: I said this earlier. My pet peeve is extremely extremely drunk. 1647 01:11:56,120 --> 01:12:00,479 Speaker 4: People like it's really bad. I get an attitude, it mad, 1648 01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:05,120 Speaker 4: it ruins my night. That's my peppy therapy, yes. 1649 01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:12,280 Speaker 3: A thousand times. Yeah, I just love therapy therapy. 1650 01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:13,280 Speaker 4: Love. 1651 01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:17,559 Speaker 3: It's hard, though, he'll podcasters hell. 1652 01:12:18,439 --> 01:12:24,120 Speaker 4: Love the love that masturbation Yes, hell yeah, I masturbate 1653 01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:25,240 Speaker 4: too much sometimes though. 1654 01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:28,559 Speaker 3: Okay, can I ask you a question? Always use toys? Yes? Now? 1655 01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:31,240 Speaker 1: Sometimes if I'm like, I can do a little Ricky 1656 01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:35,840 Speaker 1: Rickett real quick. You know what I'm saying, Ricky. 1657 01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:36,640 Speaker 3: How how quick does it take your like you to 1658 01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:37,280 Speaker 3: make you come? 1659 01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:39,400 Speaker 1: If I use a toy a minute? 1660 01:12:39,520 --> 01:12:45,320 Speaker 5: Yes, one minute, Ricky Rickets it takes about three minutes. 1661 01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:48,639 Speaker 3: It takes me a little longer than ten minutes. Yeah, 1662 01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:49,760 Speaker 3: it's taking a lot longer. 1663 01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:53,200 Speaker 1: With once it's like a spot and once I feel 1664 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:54,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh there, do. 1665 01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:58,040 Speaker 5: You manually masturbate or do you use technology? 1666 01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:04,640 Speaker 3: Are you out of mad? Manual? And I don't know. 1667 01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:06,880 Speaker 2: I think Also, it depends on what I'm doing, Like 1668 01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:10,720 Speaker 2: I feel like when I'm thinking about it, Like when 1669 01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:13,559 Speaker 2: I'm thinking about my sixth partner, I come quicker than 1670 01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:14,479 Speaker 2: like when I watch. 1671 01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:16,400 Speaker 1: I watch my videos. 1672 01:13:18,040 --> 01:13:20,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hard. I get distracted by people, but they 1673 01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:23,600 Speaker 3: look too. I start with the porn and then I 1674 01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:26,439 Speaker 3: usually divert to my meal. 1675 01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:29,800 Speaker 1: I'm mad at my man. I'll watch porn. When I'm 1676 01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:31,080 Speaker 1: not I'll watch us. 1677 01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:32,280 Speaker 3: But it's better. 1678 01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:34,639 Speaker 1: I always know it better when i'm watching us. 1679 01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:36,520 Speaker 3: Are you guys? You guess both in a relationship? 1680 01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:48,200 Speaker 7: What this it's. 1681 01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:50,840 Speaker 3: You would say my nigga a few times. 1682 01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:55,200 Speaker 4: It's definitely like we're we're it's like we're like we 1683 01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:56,479 Speaker 4: don't date other people. 1684 01:13:57,560 --> 01:13:59,639 Speaker 1: But it's not like my boyfriend for real. 1685 01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:04,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, he called me while we've been sitting here. 1686 01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:08,880 Speaker 4: Yeah it's that, you know, so you both have niggas, Yeah, 1687 01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:13,880 Speaker 4: but not boyfriends. Yeah, okay, I mean hers is definitely 1688 01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:15,000 Speaker 4: more her boyfriend. 1689 01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:16,320 Speaker 1: He's my boyfriend. 1690 01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:21,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he's your boyfriend. 1691 01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:22,679 Speaker 1: Now that's forgot. 1692 01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:31,080 Speaker 5: Damn she didn't claimed it celebrity crush. 1693 01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:32,120 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 1694 01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:35,200 Speaker 2: So my celebrity crush I thought was my celebrity crush 1695 01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:37,600 Speaker 2: until last night till I found out how tall he was. 1696 01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:39,559 Speaker 1: Oh no, yes, I was really upset. 1697 01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:43,920 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, about to say, but my new celebrity crush, 1698 01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:44,519 Speaker 4: I'll say it. 1699 01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:47,040 Speaker 1: I don't mind like out as Hodge. 1700 01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:48,639 Speaker 4: I thought he was tallering when he was I found 1701 01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:51,280 Speaker 4: out he was low key like the actor. 1702 01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:52,240 Speaker 1: He's the actor. 1703 01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:58,240 Speaker 4: No no, yeah, no no, So I like I like 1704 01:14:58,360 --> 01:15:01,920 Speaker 4: to like, yeah, just just google him, real real, real cute. 1705 01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:02,960 Speaker 3: So my new one. 1706 01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:05,799 Speaker 4: Have y'all seen the New White Man Can't Jump movie 1707 01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:07,839 Speaker 4: with Jack Harlow. 1708 01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:10,880 Speaker 3: So, so what's his name? 1709 01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:14,600 Speaker 4: Sinquel Walls? Oh this man? Yeah all this harsh I 1710 01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,559 Speaker 4: was that. That was my old celebrity crush. So my 1711 01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:18,320 Speaker 4: new one is Cinquel Wall. He played in. 1712 01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:21,000 Speaker 1: The new one. 1713 01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:24,759 Speaker 4: Have y'all seen what's the Christina Million movie with Jay Farroh? 1714 01:15:25,360 --> 01:15:25,880 Speaker 3: What's his name? 1715 01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:29,760 Speaker 1: I know, y'all. 1716 01:15:29,800 --> 01:15:32,360 Speaker 4: I like the I like the Hollywood niggas. That's like 1717 01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:34,560 Speaker 4: low key and they just mind the inside. 1718 01:15:34,560 --> 01:15:37,880 Speaker 3: E q u A. I like that name. 1719 01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:40,320 Speaker 4: So he the White Man Don't Jump movie with Jack Harlow, 1720 01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:44,040 Speaker 4: he played opposite kind of looks like tasty chocolate. 1721 01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:50,360 Speaker 3: He kind of looks like what yes exactly Harry. 1722 01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:53,360 Speaker 5: I saw him in something recently and I was He 1723 01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:55,479 Speaker 5: said it like three times beautiful man? 1724 01:15:55,800 --> 01:15:57,559 Speaker 3: You think so? I would love to get my hands. 1725 01:15:57,600 --> 01:16:01,960 Speaker 2: That's a bad picture, she said, you think I'm having 1726 01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:02,519 Speaker 2: my man? 1727 01:16:03,600 --> 01:16:07,879 Speaker 4: Okay, girl, okay, you gotta that was a bad picture. 1728 01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:12,479 Speaker 3: That's better. Okay, let me watch his movie. You know what? 1729 01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:16,599 Speaker 4: Give my man his oscar stopped playing with us like shirt. 1730 01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:22,639 Speaker 3: You know he's not he's track. 1731 01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:24,000 Speaker 1: But that's my type. 1732 01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:28,640 Speaker 4: I love tall, dark skinned beard, full hairline. 1733 01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:35,240 Speaker 3: It's given. Yeah, that's my celebrity, A celebrity cush. I 1734 01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:38,120 Speaker 3: know yours is, but well no, it's not him no more. 1735 01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:40,320 Speaker 3: He's been. That's what I was gonna say. 1736 01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:42,240 Speaker 1: I don't really think I have one anymore? 1737 01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:44,559 Speaker 3: What happens to one? 1738 01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:46,559 Speaker 2: If y'all would like to know who my old celebrity 1739 01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:49,720 Speaker 2: crish was. I used to be like I used to 1740 01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:50,320 Speaker 2: love Drake. 1741 01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:52,320 Speaker 3: I still love. 1742 01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:55,720 Speaker 1: No, I still love him as like an artist. 1743 01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:57,800 Speaker 4: And like it was when he posted a picture he 1744 01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:00,880 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, he that's when you lost it, or 1745 01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:01,680 Speaker 4: that's when he liked it. 1746 01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:03,559 Speaker 1: She lost it when the. 1747 01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:07,160 Speaker 3: Baby face like people are baby. He always post pictures 1748 01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:08,439 Speaker 3: like that. But that's what. 1749 01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:13,280 Speaker 1: Recently this is, Like it's been a lot. 1750 01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:15,479 Speaker 4: I was literally thinking about him yesterday because I saw 1751 01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:19,920 Speaker 4: Rihanna or asap Rocky. He's always of Rihanna pregnant, and 1752 01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:21,519 Speaker 4: I was like, wow, look at this, like look at 1753 01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:23,680 Speaker 4: Rihanna's little family. And then I couldn't help but think 1754 01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:25,760 Speaker 4: about Drake and remember that Award show where he like 1755 01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:29,280 Speaker 4: confesses she was like she was so uncomfortable and she 1756 01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:30,920 Speaker 4: was like, nigga, you don't shut the fuck up. 1757 01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:32,760 Speaker 3: Yes, she was like. 1758 01:17:35,160 --> 01:17:37,640 Speaker 4: I don't remember that. She was like getting like a 1759 01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:41,680 Speaker 4: lifetime achievement and ship. For some reason, Drake was the 1760 01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:43,240 Speaker 4: one that was giving it to her and it was 1761 01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:44,920 Speaker 4: like a love letter to her and it was like 1762 01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:46,880 Speaker 4: supposed to be her moment, but he made it about 1763 01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:47,880 Speaker 4: their love. 1764 01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:51,040 Speaker 1: But the video that SA like, look at he said, 1765 01:17:51,120 --> 01:17:52,080 Speaker 1: he rolled it up the weed. 1766 01:17:52,280 --> 01:17:54,400 Speaker 3: He's just so cool, like he's. 1767 01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:57,560 Speaker 4: Man, I'm not saying Drake, I'm not saying that, but 1768 01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:00,000 Speaker 4: I'm saying, like a SAP, his swag a little different, 1769 01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:00,640 Speaker 4: like he. 1770 01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:04,439 Speaker 3: Got that New York He don't he doesn't care. Yeah, 1771 01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:06,960 Speaker 3: cares enough, Yeah, cares a lot. 1772 01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:08,559 Speaker 1: We want to know. 1773 01:18:08,680 --> 01:18:12,400 Speaker 3: A SAP definitely cares like Drake don't care. 1774 01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:16,000 Speaker 1: He don't give a fuck, but he's still like I 1775 01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:16,880 Speaker 1: don't mean about women. 1776 01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:19,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he has I just mean about it. 1777 01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:23,960 Speaker 4: Just I just hes stiff nigga too, pretty boy, just 1778 01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:26,599 Speaker 4: care he I mean. Also, I feel like he's had 1779 01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:29,559 Speaker 4: to he really he doesn't really have street cred, so 1780 01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:30,560 Speaker 4: he really. 1781 01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:32,519 Speaker 3: Has I don't need you to have street cred, but 1782 01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:37,360 Speaker 3: he like he does killing niggas. Yeah, he's falling in 1783 01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:40,800 Speaker 3: love and like the song with Future, and he's a 1784 01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:41,360 Speaker 3: drug dealer. 1785 01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:44,840 Speaker 1: I'll say this, I think a SAP single pat in 1786 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:47,800 Speaker 1: his life. A SAP seems like a stiff nigga, like 1787 01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:49,320 Speaker 1: he he hard to talk to. 1788 01:18:49,439 --> 01:18:51,320 Speaker 4: He had just talked. And I'm not saying Drake does. 1789 01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:54,160 Speaker 4: I'm just saying a SAP he just you never hear 1790 01:18:54,240 --> 01:18:56,920 Speaker 4: stories about him fucking this girl fucking I'm we know, 1791 01:18:57,040 --> 01:18:59,080 Speaker 4: like probably in his past or whatever, but you don't 1792 01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:02,559 Speaker 4: hear that about him even before Rihanna. We love stiff 1793 01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:07,680 Speaker 4: ass niggas around here, like my man Sinqua. You know 1794 01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:10,520 Speaker 4: he still because I ain't heard nothing about my man 1795 01:19:11,600 --> 01:19:13,959 Speaker 4: well and had never heard. 1796 01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:17,040 Speaker 1: Of him pipe down. 1797 01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:18,880 Speaker 3: Like no. 1798 01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:21,320 Speaker 1: Stiff means like it's hard to hard to well trade 1799 01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:23,240 Speaker 1: like he's he don't see a bad bitch and be. 1800 01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:26,400 Speaker 4: Like, oh my god, every time you see a big 1801 01:19:26,439 --> 01:19:29,839 Speaker 4: booty bitch, he not moved, you know, Stiff. 1802 01:19:31,640 --> 01:19:34,560 Speaker 3: Well, that concludes our game, ladies, thank you for participating. 1803 01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:39,439 Speaker 3: That was before we get out of here. But did 1804 01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:41,840 Speaker 3: you pick a card? I did? Y'all? Don't tell us 1805 01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:45,599 Speaker 3: about the car. Okay, it's terrort time day. We're about 1806 01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,080 Speaker 3: to get drunk. I mean, I'm like, I think that 1807 01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:49,800 Speaker 3: this Phil didn't have to kill it. 1808 01:19:50,040 --> 01:19:51,600 Speaker 1: That was hitting. 1809 01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:56,520 Speaker 3: Hit hit the No, not you. 1810 01:19:56,000 --> 01:19:56,599 Speaker 1: I'm just playing. 1811 01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:59,960 Speaker 3: No, I'm good, I'm scared. I'm doing a little one 1812 01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:06,679 Speaker 3: two no no, no, we go right now. Go it's across 1813 01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:09,479 Speaker 3: the street. The Magician Tarot card meaning. 1814 01:20:12,160 --> 01:20:15,759 Speaker 5: I got the Magician as a master manifestor. The Magician 1815 01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:18,320 Speaker 5: brings you the tools, resources, and energy you need to 1816 01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:21,800 Speaker 5: make your dreams come true. Seriously, everything you need right 1817 01:20:21,840 --> 01:20:25,519 Speaker 5: now is at your fingertips. You have the spiritual, physical, mental, 1818 01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:29,280 Speaker 5: emotional resources to manifest your desires, and when you combine 1819 01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:31,759 Speaker 5: them with the energy of the spiritual and earthly realms, 1820 01:20:32,200 --> 01:20:35,840 Speaker 5: you will become a manifestation powerhouse. The key is to 1821 01:20:35,840 --> 01:20:39,519 Speaker 5: bring these tools together synergestically so that the impact of 1822 01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:42,320 Speaker 5: what you create is greater than the separate parts. 1823 01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:44,679 Speaker 3: This is alchemy at its best. 1824 01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:47,160 Speaker 5: Now it's the perfect time to move forward in an 1825 01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:50,640 Speaker 5: idea that you have recently conceived. The seed of potential 1826 01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:53,639 Speaker 5: has sprouted, and you are being called to take action 1827 01:20:53,800 --> 01:20:55,320 Speaker 5: and bring your intention to fruition. 1828 01:20:57,640 --> 01:20:59,760 Speaker 3: I love that. 1829 01:20:59,680 --> 01:21:02,320 Speaker 4: That really answered something that I've been kind of like. 1830 01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:05,920 Speaker 4: You have some ideas trying to bring to fruition, Go 1831 01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:06,280 Speaker 4: for it. 1832 01:21:06,360 --> 01:21:13,360 Speaker 3: That's good. Okay. Seven of swords. 1833 01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:17,799 Speaker 1: He holding him how though he's period. 1834 01:21:19,680 --> 01:21:22,400 Speaker 3: That's a fact. 1835 01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:29,280 Speaker 5: Traditionally, the seven of swords indicates theft, betrayal, deception, and trickery. Oh, 1836 01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:31,760 Speaker 5: you may be trying to get away from something and 1837 01:21:31,800 --> 01:21:37,680 Speaker 5: are sneaking around behind other people's backs, hoping to go underdetected. 1838 01:21:38,080 --> 01:21:40,080 Speaker 5: If you're lucky, you might get away with your secret 1839 01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:43,439 Speaker 5: and intact, but if you're unlucky, others will soon find 1840 01:21:43,439 --> 01:21:47,000 Speaker 5: out what you have done, causing you shame and embarrassment. 1841 01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:51,200 Speaker 5: I don't think you ever got this one before. Maybe 1842 01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:54,439 Speaker 5: it's refers. Be aware that anytime you use cunning or 1843 01:21:54,479 --> 01:21:58,080 Speaker 5: dessuption to gain an advantage over someone or something else, 1844 01:21:58,160 --> 01:22:00,639 Speaker 5: you are at risk of being found out, and even 1845 01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:03,080 Speaker 5: if you are not, the cover up will require a 1846 01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:07,640 Speaker 5: tremendous amount of effort and it may not be worth it. Alternatively, 1847 01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:11,280 Speaker 5: you may be the victim of someone else's betrayal. Okay, 1848 01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:14,000 Speaker 5: others are not being candid with you, and you may 1849 01:22:14,080 --> 01:22:17,040 Speaker 5: be unaware of their lies and deception. You may trust 1850 01:22:17,120 --> 01:22:19,599 Speaker 5: someone who then turns out to be running their own agenda, 1851 01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:22,839 Speaker 5: leaving you high and dry. Look out for any sneaky behavior, 1852 01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:25,519 Speaker 5: and listen to your intuition when something does not feel 1853 01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:27,519 Speaker 5: or seem too good to be true. 1854 01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:32,240 Speaker 3: On a positive note, Good God jan. 1855 01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:35,640 Speaker 5: The Seven of Swords points out that you need to 1856 01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:38,679 Speaker 5: be strategic in what you do. You know you cannot 1857 01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:41,080 Speaker 5: do everything at once, nor should you. Instead, you must 1858 01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:44,839 Speaker 5: prioritize what's important and you in to you and direct 1859 01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:47,240 Speaker 5: your focus and attention on a few tasks that will 1860 01:22:47,280 --> 01:22:50,000 Speaker 5: move you closer to your goals. It's the eighty twenty 1861 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:51,920 Speaker 5: year oll. Twenty percent of your work will account for 1862 01:22:51,960 --> 01:22:55,120 Speaker 5: eighty percent of your results, so focus on the twenty. 1863 01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:56,639 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. 1864 01:22:58,439 --> 01:23:02,400 Speaker 2: I feel like she especially when you said the last 1865 01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:03,959 Speaker 2: part that's that, beach. 1866 01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:06,240 Speaker 3: I was just I was just, you know, I was 1867 01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:07,320 Speaker 3: just thinking that too. 1868 01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:10,759 Speaker 2: Because I'm really not like a sneaky or deceptive person. 1869 01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:13,720 Speaker 2: You're sneaky, well not deceptive though, yeah, but you're not 1870 01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:17,000 Speaker 2: dist and I'm not like I'll be using my I 1871 01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:19,080 Speaker 2: am cunning, but I'll be using that ship for good, 1872 01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:27,320 Speaker 2: not evil. Yes, the cards have spoken, the car cars 1873 01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:36,479 Speaker 2: and I'm on your ass, Beach. Do do any of 1874 01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:39,559 Speaker 2: you ladies have a horry that we can share with 1875 01:23:39,800 --> 01:23:41,080 Speaker 2: us any hotel? 1876 01:23:41,760 --> 01:23:42,759 Speaker 1: You said you got a worry? 1877 01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:44,880 Speaker 3: No I do. 1878 01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:47,719 Speaker 4: It's a bad it's like a bad, like an upsetting 1879 01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:50,160 Speaker 4: though it's kind of a lot of stories are like 1880 01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:52,080 Speaker 4: it can be scary, spooky traumatics. 1881 01:23:52,160 --> 01:23:55,240 Speaker 1: I see, It's just it's a little quick one too. 1882 01:23:55,600 --> 01:23:57,920 Speaker 4: So I like at the beginning of the year, I 1883 01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:00,759 Speaker 4: got out of the relationship I was in last year, 1884 01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:03,120 Speaker 4: and it was like a long time coming for me 1885 01:24:03,120 --> 01:24:03,960 Speaker 4: to end in with this nigga. 1886 01:24:04,040 --> 01:24:08,120 Speaker 2: So I am really sad. I really be sitting here 1887 01:24:08,200 --> 01:24:09,960 Speaker 2: thinking about shit. You know how you just start thinking. 1888 01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:13,360 Speaker 2: I know y'all are like super spiritual. Have y'all ever 1889 01:24:13,479 --> 01:24:17,760 Speaker 2: had a reading by like a prophet or like talk 1890 01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:23,040 Speaker 2: to a prophet? So I had a reading with like 1891 01:24:23,080 --> 01:24:27,439 Speaker 2: a prophet like maybe like six or seven months ago. Yeah, 1892 01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:29,719 Speaker 2: and he told me that I need to start watching. 1893 01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:31,439 Speaker 2: He was like, you really need to be more protective 1894 01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:34,400 Speaker 2: of your energy and like watch yourself with people. So 1895 01:24:34,640 --> 01:24:43,000 Speaker 2: I'm really just thinking about like my Yeah, I don't want. 1896 01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:47,400 Speaker 3: To about the thirteenth six months. 1897 01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:54,920 Speaker 2: Anyways told me that people. 1898 01:24:56,280 --> 01:25:00,559 Speaker 3: He did trying to portray me. Somebody is because firing 1899 01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:06,679 Speaker 3: to just seven months ago was correct, now I. 1900 01:25:06,680 --> 01:25:09,559 Speaker 5: Know for she didn't even go through her phone tonight, 1901 01:25:09,720 --> 01:25:14,800 Speaker 5: like nope, investigative. 1902 01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:22,240 Speaker 6: Is not loyal, stuck on the damn say well you 1903 01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:24,679 Speaker 6: know what, now you got the confirmation that you need, 1904 01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 6: so your go your your toxic trade is actually rat point. 1905 01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:33,559 Speaker 1: I the sworn in the stone. 1906 01:25:34,680 --> 01:25:37,240 Speaker 5: Let's clarify, we did not say don't trust these house 1907 01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:38,599 Speaker 5: we believe in sister. 1908 01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:44,200 Speaker 3: Don't trust that. Don't trust all hose trust that specific 1909 01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:46,400 Speaker 3: all host don't have your best interest in mine. 1910 01:25:46,439 --> 01:25:48,519 Speaker 5: But the hose that accept you unless you and don't 1911 01:25:48,560 --> 01:25:50,599 Speaker 5: have hater energy, those are your hose. 1912 01:25:50,640 --> 01:25:59,400 Speaker 3: There's many of those are my hose? Are you crying? Oh? 1913 01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:01,040 Speaker 3: He is a tour sticking someones out together. 1914 01:26:03,400 --> 01:26:04,519 Speaker 1: Don't forget nothing. 1915 01:26:04,640 --> 01:26:06,680 Speaker 4: Some bitches something to her probably when I first moved 1916 01:26:06,680 --> 01:26:09,519 Speaker 4: to Atlanta twenty seventeen. Something happened to her recent. She 1917 01:26:09,640 --> 01:26:12,040 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, because the farmer. 1918 01:26:13,920 --> 01:26:18,400 Speaker 3: I was like, what not sixtys later? No, literally, she's like, yeah, 1919 01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:21,920 Speaker 3: the same way. I feel the same way. I don't forget. 1920 01:26:23,240 --> 01:26:24,719 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's hilarious. 1921 01:26:24,800 --> 01:26:28,559 Speaker 3: It's like unhealthy. I'd be like, oops, you see me now? 1922 01:26:29,080 --> 01:26:34,639 Speaker 5: Sorry, sorry, boots, Oh my god, we're drunk. 1923 01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:37,240 Speaker 3: We are ladies. Thank you guys so much for. 1924 01:26:39,400 --> 01:26:40,360 Speaker 1: Such fun. 1925 01:26:41,280 --> 01:26:45,880 Speaker 2: I always when we come hang out, yes, yes, Then 1926 01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:48,000 Speaker 2: when y'all come to Atlanta, because y'all got officially sit 1927 01:26:48,080 --> 01:26:48,920 Speaker 2: on our couch. 1928 01:26:48,920 --> 01:26:51,960 Speaker 3: We come in. Yes, so y'all gotta come in. Can 1929 01:26:52,000 --> 01:26:53,639 Speaker 3: you tell the people where they can find you? 1930 01:26:54,160 --> 01:26:57,480 Speaker 4: Yes, so y'all can find us on all the platforms 1931 01:26:57,479 --> 01:26:58,519 Speaker 4: that you watch Good Moms on. 1932 01:26:58,600 --> 01:27:01,559 Speaker 3: I'm sure, poor mind. P oh, you are in my 1933 01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:02,240 Speaker 3: n d s. 1934 01:27:02,320 --> 01:27:04,799 Speaker 4: We're actually on tour right now, so get your tickets 1935 01:27:04,840 --> 01:27:08,120 Speaker 4: at poor Minds dot com. You can find us on 1936 01:27:08,200 --> 01:27:10,080 Speaker 4: Instagram at poor Underscore. 1937 01:27:10,160 --> 01:27:11,160 Speaker 3: In my n d s. 1938 01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:14,479 Speaker 4: You can find me personally at lex Underscore p Underscore 1939 01:27:14,479 --> 01:27:17,040 Speaker 4: on Instagram. 1940 01:27:16,120 --> 01:27:19,479 Speaker 1: Dre and the Call with three e's and. 1941 01:27:20,840 --> 01:27:25,400 Speaker 3: Twitter. I mean yeah, it's the same. 1942 01:27:25,479 --> 01:27:28,040 Speaker 4: We will link everything in the episode. We link everything 1943 01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:28,960 Speaker 4: in the episode description. 1944 01:27:29,360 --> 01:27:34,440 Speaker 2: How and follow my business page muse Beauty on Instagram 1945 01:27:34,520 --> 01:27:35,280 Speaker 2: with two y's. 1946 01:27:35,760 --> 01:27:39,200 Speaker 3: I'm a little tips. You got us beauty cult on 1947 01:27:41,520 --> 01:27:42,880 Speaker 3: beauty is it lips or yeah? 1948 01:27:43,080 --> 01:27:47,000 Speaker 2: Lip and lipt liner and Matt Liquid lipstick. And I'm 1949 01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:48,559 Speaker 2: about to come up with some rig because I. 1950 01:27:48,479 --> 01:27:49,680 Speaker 1: See you like that. 1951 01:27:50,280 --> 01:27:50,800 Speaker 3: She look. 1952 01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:52,920 Speaker 4: I always be telling her she's bring bringing stuff. We 1953 01:27:52,960 --> 01:27:56,920 Speaker 4: do the things, but we're gonna make sure she's little pr. 1954 01:27:58,439 --> 01:27:58,840 Speaker 3: For sure. 1955 01:27:59,600 --> 01:28:02,360 Speaker 4: But yeah, New episodes of Poor Minds drop every Friday. 1956 01:28:02,400 --> 01:28:04,240 Speaker 4: If you've never tuned in, just give it a chance. 1957 01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:06,559 Speaker 4: Y'all gonna like it. It's cool, dope, and thank y'all 1958 01:28:06,600 --> 01:28:07,519 Speaker 4: again for having us. 1959 01:28:07,680 --> 01:28:08,800 Speaker 3: We love you, ladies. 1960 01:28:09,040 --> 01:28:11,200 Speaker 1: We had our first LA show, so thank y'all for 1961 01:28:11,240 --> 01:28:11,680 Speaker 1: pulling up. 1962 01:28:11,720 --> 01:28:14,320 Speaker 3: That was so much proud of you guys. 1963 01:28:14,200 --> 01:28:18,000 Speaker 5: It's so good and the house was full, and you 1964 01:28:19,040 --> 01:28:19,879 Speaker 5: gave us confidence. 1965 01:28:19,880 --> 01:28:21,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, we got to do more tours. 1966 01:28:22,200 --> 01:28:25,599 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, Well y'all know where to find us. 1967 01:28:25,680 --> 01:28:27,760 Speaker 4: Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel. If you're 1968 01:28:27,760 --> 01:28:30,040 Speaker 4: watching this on YouTube, hit the subscribe. Make sure you 1969 01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:32,920 Speaker 4: leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. You guys were 1970 01:28:32,960 --> 01:28:36,719 Speaker 4: going back to Costa Rica February first through the sixth 1971 01:28:36,880 --> 01:28:39,960 Speaker 4: and the eighth through the thirteenth for the Good Vibe Retreat. 1972 01:28:40,400 --> 01:28:43,960 Speaker 4: So this is your call to prioritize yourself. Come hang 1973 01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:44,759 Speaker 4: out with us. 1974 01:28:45,120 --> 01:28:45,680 Speaker 3: Got you go. 1975 01:28:45,920 --> 01:28:48,560 Speaker 4: We've taken over an entire property. We take over the 1976 01:28:48,680 --> 01:28:51,080 Speaker 4: entire property. It's beautiful. 1977 01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:53,960 Speaker 5: You work out, you can smoke weed, you drink your 1978 01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:56,679 Speaker 5: truck by the pool, you do some healing. 1979 01:28:56,200 --> 01:28:57,240 Speaker 1: We're coming. 1980 01:28:57,840 --> 01:29:00,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really it's really fun. And it's the side 1981 01:29:00,680 --> 01:29:02,559 Speaker 3: of Costa Rica where the black people are at. Yeah. 1982 01:29:02,800 --> 01:29:09,920 Speaker 4: Okay, Nicholas, yep, yep, yep. Anyway, we love you guys, 1983 01:29:09,960 --> 01:29:11,040 Speaker 4: and we'll see you next week. 1984 01:29:11,360 --> 01:29:15,040 Speaker 3: Bye. 1985 01:29:13,360 --> 01:29:18,599 Speaker 4: Mm hm. 1986 01:29:20,840 --> 01:29:30,240 Speaker 3: Hm h m hmm. Yeah,