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Speaker 1: Second date up dated.

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Speaker 2: I just saw a dating study that found eighty six

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Speaker 2: percent of women who make the first move will end

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Speaker 2: up marrying that person who isn't that crazy.

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Speaker 1: On me recently? This is great. Guys.

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Speaker 2: If you ever see a girl walking towards you at

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Speaker 2: a bar making eye.

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Speaker 1: Contact, you need to run, okay.

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Speaker 2: Or throw a glass of beer against the wall, pull

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Speaker 2: the fire alarm, whatever distraction you need to make, because

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Speaker 2: if she does successfully make contact, science says you're about

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Speaker 2: to be tied to that woman.

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Speaker 1: For reference, No, let me bring it up.

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Speaker 2: Because one of our listeners, Julia, says that she recently

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Speaker 2: made the first move on a guy for you, and

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Speaker 2: now she needs our help. So Julia, can I assume

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Speaker 2: you're also ready to walk down the aisle with him and.

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Speaker 3: Say I do my gosh, yes, yes?

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Speaker 4: Did you really just agree to that, Julia?

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Speaker 1: Julia?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 4: Is she being sarcastic? Are you being sarcastic?

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Speaker 1: No? Not?

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Speaker 3: I mean I'm getting older and I also saw this

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Speaker 3: study and I was like, you know what, I'm going

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Speaker 3: to make it happen. I'm gonna be more proactive, all right?

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Speaker 1: So who was your victim?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So good choice of words there.

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Speaker 3: I was going out with my girlfriend and I have

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Speaker 3: this thing that I do where I go up to

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Speaker 3: a guy and I'll ask him to take a photo

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Speaker 3: of us. Okay, yes, dude, you're going to be a

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Speaker 3: good photo.

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Speaker 1: But that doesn't sound like it's the point. Is not

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Speaker 1: a photo. Yeah, he's going to delete it immediately.

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Speaker 2: But it helps you, like have a good icebreaker, I guess,

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Speaker 2: in order to meet him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. And I think this was the third time

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Speaker 3: I had done this, and we had this kind of chemistry,

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Speaker 3: kind of awkward chemistry, but you can see, Okay, you guys.

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Speaker 4: Are in a bar, he takes your photo.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So then I was like, oh, he already has

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Speaker 3: my phone. I was like, do you wanna go for pie?

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Speaker 3: And he was like what I thought we were going

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Speaker 4: Put your phone number in my son?

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Speaker 2: Have we even have we even learned what his name

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Speaker 2: is yet? Or are you just immediately asking him out

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Speaker 2: to pot?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: We did names first.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what is his name?

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Speaker 3: Travis?

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Speaker 1: Travis? Travis?

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Speaker 4: Is the pie move what you did on the other

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Speaker 4: two guys too?

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Speaker 3: No, No, this was a new one for me. I

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Speaker 3: was like, I saw the viral video of this cute

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Speaker 3: little pie shop in our area, I don't think.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but you're at a bar.

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Speaker 4: Is it open still like pie shops are usually.

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Speaker 3: We got our numbers and we were texting back and forth.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you're not doing pie that night, you're asking

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Speaker 2: for a later date.

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Speaker 1: You can meet up and get pot Okay, Yes, So.

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Speaker 3: I picked him up because I was the one that

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Speaker 3: suggested the dates.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the leaders, she knows where the pie is. Okay.

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Speaker 3: And we come upon this house and I was like,

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Speaker 3: this can't be it. We made a wrong turn at

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Speaker 3: a house. Yeah, at a house, like a cute house

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Speaker 3: It says pies and with the arrow, and I was like, huh,

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Speaker 3: this must be it.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. It feels even more.

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Speaker 1: Legit now speak easy pie shop. That's awkward, weird? Oh,

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Speaker 1: I think it's so exciting.

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Speaker 2: You're just gonna walk into somebody's house and ask for

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Speaker 2: her pies food.

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Speaker 3: This is like when a grandma has tamales on the

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Speaker 1: You want to buy those tamales.

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Speaker 5: Bro.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you guys think this is so normal

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Speaker 4: I don't think it's normal. That's why I want the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, what is it like inside? Was it sketch?

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Speaker 3: We opened the door? Yeah, and it's a living room

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Speaker 3: full of pies because like, I bet that smells.

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: And what is there like an employee there that's there

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Speaker 4: Employee?

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Speaker 3: That was the weird part. There was no one there.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, So you broke into someone's empty home and

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Speaker 2: stole their pies.

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Speaker 4: Actually at this point, yeah, there was a sign jef

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Speaker 1: Yeah, as long as there's a welcome mat on the

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Speaker 1: ground anywhere, any house, you can go into. My idea,

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Speaker 1: this is sketchy. It's a pie with an arrow. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So what do you do now that you're in this

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Speaker 3: Well, we're looking around, we're getting a little freaked out

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Speaker 3: a little bit, and then we see this sign that

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Speaker 3: says honor system. Yeah, okay, I go back to my car,

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Speaker 3: gets the stag because we bought three three pie pies.

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Speaker 1: Wow, a lot of pie? So do you take the pie?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you take the pies out? Like what do you do?

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Speaker 1: Where do you eat them?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? They had these plastic forks theras. Then I'll say, okay, well,

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Speaker 3: I guess we'll just eat in the car, like because

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Speaker 3: there's nowhere to sit.

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Speaker 2: Wait, now you're having car pie.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I think it's really cute and romantic romantic state.

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Speaker 1: Maybe for women, this is sounding very romantic.

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Speaker 2: As a guy, I don't know if this is the

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Speaker 2: hottest date I've ever seen.

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Speaker 1: Romantic.

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Speaker 3: It's fun.

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Speaker 2: It is fun again for women, that sounds like a

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Speaker 2: great time. I'm just not a sit in a car

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Speaker 3: It was a little awkward?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Why Why was it awkward.

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Speaker 3: Because both of us are holding a pie and like

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I mean did it end like did you eat

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Speaker 3: No? The problem I actually didn't really know how to

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Speaker 3: end it, so I just went back to the beginning

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Speaker 3: of how we first met, and I was like, can

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Speaker 3: you take a picture of me eating this pie? That kind.

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Speaker 1: I want to see this photo so bad. How did

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Speaker 3: He was like, oh my gosh, yeah, it.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like there was like a brief, awkward moment, like,

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Speaker 4: it's not like he didn't do anything either.

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Speaker 1: Sure, so how is it between you and Travis now?

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Speaker 3: Question? Well, I dropped him on and I texted him

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Speaker 3: and spent like cordial, but nothing like, Hey, let's go

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Speaker 4: Okay, you should take him on a pastry tour of

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Speaker 4: the city.

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Speaker 1: I think we've had. You've done enough of like the

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Speaker 1: bakery theme for once. Yeah, maybe just like Netflix and

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Speaker 1: chill or a bar and like, I don't know, maybe

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Speaker 3: I can't even get him to ask me for another date,

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Speaker 3: so let's just start there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see what he has to say when we

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Speaker 2: come back and give him a call and try and

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Speaker 1: Okay, second date update.

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Speaker 2: You know what's more romantic than a quaint little pie

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Speaker 2: shop in someone's empty living room?

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Speaker 1: What, yeah, is taking.

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Speaker 2: Those pies and walking twenty feet outside to the driveway

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Speaker 2: like a scene from the TLC show My four hundred

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Speaker 2: Pounds Life.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but it's not.

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Speaker 2: It's actually a date that our listener Julia went on

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Speaker 2: with a guy named Travis, and she probably ended up

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Speaker 2: throwing up from eating so much pie. And she didn't

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Speaker 2: say that, but we do know that the guy she

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Speaker 2: went out with is not initiating another hangout, which is.

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Speaker 1: Disappointing to her. So she's turned to us for a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, have you texted him or anything? You

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's just kind of neutral. Hmmm.

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Speaker 4: Did you introduce him to the best pie of his

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Speaker 4: life and you get neutrality back?

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Speaker 1: How dare he?

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Speaker 3: I mean, he didn't go off on the pie like

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Speaker 1: You maybe a food and he's not.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna find out when we call Travis right now.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully he answers the phone and has some explanation.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I want to know.

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Speaker 3: I want to know what's up because I can fix

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Speaker 1: You can. Yeah, I like it. I like that attitude.

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Speaker 4: That's attitude.

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Speaker 1: I just hope his mouth isn't full when he picks

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Speaker 1: up the phone. Here we go.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna dillas number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Travis? Yes,

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Speaker 2: May I ask yes, you may. Thank you for asking

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Speaker 2: permission for that. My name is jeff and I'm part

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Speaker 2: of a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: In the Morning. And you are on that radio show

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 3: What what can I do for it?

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Speaker 2: I was wondering, have you heard of a segment that

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Speaker 2: we do on the radio sometimes called audio first Nobody?

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Speaker 4: Nobody has heard of.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's a great segment. You should listen to our

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Speaker 4: But that's not that's not the segment you're on, Travis.

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Speaker 2: We're doing a less fun segment than that called second

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Speaker 2: Date Updates.

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Speaker 1: Or or most Successful. But that's okay.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, but this is where we try and help

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Speaker 2: out our listeners if they've gone out with somebody and

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Speaker 2: they're not getting a call back afterwards, we try to

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Speaker 2: help figure out the reason why.

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Speaker 5: Well, okay, I'm a little little confused here, but yeah,

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Speaker 5: I get.

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Speaker 2: But really, to make it really simple, you went out

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Speaker 2: a second date yet.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and she's just wondering if maybe you're not interested,

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Speaker 4: or if it's something maybe she could fix.

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Speaker 1: Her name's Julia, Oh god, all right, that's a reaction. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to read what you meant by that. What

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Speaker 1: what did you think of Julia?

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Speaker 5: I mean she was nice and all nice? Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: mean it was definitely a first Well.

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Speaker 1: The part of your date.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, man, she told us about what you

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Speaker 1: Go into the house that was a shop.

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Speaker 4: It was like famous on TikTok and it was just

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was definitely a first time for that.

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Speaker 1: I've never well, that's good.

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Speaker 2: I would hope you don't go into a lot of

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Speaker 4: Was that kind of cool or what'd you think?

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Speaker 3: No? I was like, what is going on here?

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Speaker 1: It was just weird and no one was home.

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Speaker 5: I feel like even though we left the right amount

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Speaker 1: Still.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and Julia was beat adventurous, try and set

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Speaker 3: That's definitely new.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Well, clearly that made you very uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Was that more uncomfortable than going and eating car pie?

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Speaker 1: Because we heard about that too about the city.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, like you can find a park. You

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Speaker 5: When Nigo we were eating them in the car.

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Speaker 4: Well, then why didn't you suggest that you could change something?

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Speaker 4: I mean, if that was an idea of yours, why

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Speaker 4: let's go somewhere and eat these.

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Speaker 5: Because it was her date, she picked all of this stuff.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to sit here and be like, all right,

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Speaker 5: let's completely change your date. You know that you had

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Speaker 4: A good time, Like she didn't realize that you weren't

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Speaker 5: I mean, it was definitely all right, but then it

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Speaker 1: Oh why yow what?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 5: She asked me for some reason to take a picture

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Speaker 5: with her and this pie, and I'm like, okay, So

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Speaker 5: She's got another picture with some.

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Speaker 1: Dude eating cake. What I'm like, what is going on here?

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Speaker 1: A slice of take or a whole cake? Hit the

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Speaker 3: In front of them, and I'm like, yo, this is

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Speaker 4: Girl's think wait, wait, wait, wait, wait a friend, a

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Speaker 4: brother you don't know? Thank you, alexis you don't know

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Speaker 1: Did you ask her?

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Speaker 5: No, I don't want to know who she's eating other confections.

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Speaker 2: I can understand why you would feel uncomfortable, but maybe

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Speaker 2: there's a better explanation for it, and we can actually

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Speaker 2: get that right now from Julia, who I need to

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Speaker 3: Great Hi, I'm a little confused, like we were having fun.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think the part that he's upset about is

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Speaker 1: Is that? Who is that?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is what I don't get with people

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Speaker 4: It's like, I don't think he's mad that he's dating

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Speaker 4: other people. I think that maybe he feels like you're

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Speaker 4: it's like if you saw a guy's picture taking someone

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Speaker 4: else to the same place he took you, like that

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Speaker 3: Listen, I'm trying to get out there by somebody that

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Speaker 3: I can eat high with and right now with you, Travis, Like,

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Speaker 3: I'm looking to get married like I want to kids,

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Speaker 3: I want to have a life like I'm not around here.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot.

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Speaker 4: So let's tell a guy I don't know at least,

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Speaker 4: But isn't it aren't you appreciative of when people tell

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Speaker 1: It's not going to be a suppri if they tell

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Speaker 4: They've wasted nine months when they're ready to get married

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Speaker 4: Jeff spoiler.

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Speaker 1: Guys don't like to hear I want to marry you

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Speaker 1: one day in Well.

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Speaker 3: You know what, I know what I want. I know

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Speaker 3: You don't need to, because if I took anybody's last

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Speaker 3: name would be your.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you already know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: I guess it's a good conversation.

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Speaker 1: Like, are you guys on the same plane and your

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 4: Is that something you're looking for right now?

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Speaker 1: Travis? Is marriage?

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Speaker 5: I mean eventually, but not on the first date and not?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Good, Well we're going to step away so that you

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Speaker 2: can officially propose to her right now.

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Speaker 1: Travis, are yours? Whatever you want to say? Everyone this

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Speaker 1: is romantic. Hold on, there.

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Speaker 5: Ain't nothing coming from me on this side.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 4: I think you should give her some grace here, Like

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Speaker 4: she gets nervous. It's hard to approach people and ask

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Speaker 4: them out and go on dates and come up with

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Speaker 1: As a guy, you should know that.

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Speaker 4: Like, so, she has a plan and it has been

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Speaker 1: Her, and no one really sticks to one person.

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Speaker 4: She's not playing you or anything. She told you exactly

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Speaker 5: The picture was from two days prior.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well it didn't work out, did it. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't be dating you if it worked out.

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Speaker 2: And Julia, well, Julia has not asked us to call

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Speaker 2: the other guys that she's taking photos within her phone.

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Speaker 5: How many guys does she withing?

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh, wow?

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Speaker 3: Well how many girls are you with? How many girls

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Speaker 3: are you dating?

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Speaker 2: These are great questions to ask each other on your

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Speaker 1: How many girls are you dating? Romantic? Or after you

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Speaker 1: say I do whatever it is, we wouldn't like you

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Speaker 1: are not setting her up for success. We're kidding too much.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm just gonna ask because we're running out of

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Speaker 2: time here, Travis, would you like to meet up with

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Speaker 2: Julia one more time and we will pay for that

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Speaker 2: next date.

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Speaker 1: I'm good, dude.

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Speaker 5: There's gotta be some muffin guy out there.

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Speaker 1: And out there, so it's a no. You're intimidated by

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Speaker 1: the other guys in.

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Speaker 3: The band, Judge, intimidated by Pie.

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Speaker 5: It's just weird that she's got confessions with every guy

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yoh, I say girls to dinner. It's a

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Speaker 4: She doesn't want to marry you right now. She just

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Speaker 1: It's her goal.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I know what I want. Like, you're not

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Speaker 2: Cake and as much sugar as possible. Well, look, I'm sorry, Julia.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like it's going to be a no from Travis.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, we'll have fun with the girl who doesn't

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Speaker 1: I think he actually will.

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Speaker 4: Boy, is it rude if I ask for those addresses

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Speaker 4: to the pie.

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Speaker 5: I'm definitely always thinking of you when I eat.

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Speaker 4: Pieing Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: I mentioned that a lot of guys get scared off

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Speaker 2: I understand that instinct to immediately pull back at the

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Speaker 2: a big red flag and that she's completely obsessed and

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Speaker 1: Validating It. Might just mean that.

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Speaker 2: She's confident in who she is right now and knows

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Speaker 2: exactly what she's working towards, and that might actually be

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if anything, this call highlights the downside of

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Speaker 2: kids in a pantry full of pastry.

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Speaker 1: She would have posted it right there.

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Speaker 2: So I think the lesson here is don't meet people

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Speaker 1: That's a weird way to get there. I don't think

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Speaker 1: that's okay, what's the lesson? There's a lesson. I think

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Speaker 1: that they weren't right for each other. I think that's

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Speaker 4: Okay, communication, we can go with yourself as funny as yours.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay to share it.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is we are always willing to be

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no matter how dire it.

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Speaker 4: May, see, dude, And if it doesn't work out, I'll

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Speaker 4: come and meet you for cake and eat some Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's a more loser situation.

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Speaker 1: It almost seems like a threat from I really like

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Speaker 1: to make good. Yeah, but we will.

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Speaker 2: We will come help you whatever you need, especially call

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Speaker 2: that person who's.

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Speaker 1: Not calling you back. Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.