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Speaker 1: Funeral home staff was seen conducting CPR and a woman

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Speaker 1: who was taken to a local hospital. The woman was

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Speaker 1: identified as a seventy four year old lady named Constance.

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Speaker 1: Was declared dead at the nursing home, so she was

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Speaker 1: in a hospice. They called a family, They're like, you're hey,

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Speaker 1: She was still alive. No signs of criminal intent by

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Speaker 1: the nursing home, but the investigation is still ongoing. At last,

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Speaker 1: they're calling it a very unusual case. Can you imagine that, shady?

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Speaker 2: That's my biggest fear.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you.

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Speaker 1: Get the call, hey, you know me, mo has passed away.

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Speaker 1: We're very sorry. And then you go down there and

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Speaker 1: Mema was like walking around the place to playing pool

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Speaker 1: or whatever I mean, you know, hooking up with her

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Speaker 1: friend nestor you know, whatever whatever happens in these old

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Speaker 1: folks home. That's your biggest fear is what they pronounce

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Speaker 1: you dead and bury you but you're not.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I fear waking up in a casket like

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Speaker 2: I'm awake and I can't get the top, I can't

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Speaker 2: pop the trunk. I'm locked in there. And because they

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Speaker 1: We'll just go to the go to the graveyard where

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Speaker 1: move the headstone so you'll be able to get out easily.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe I won't even be down there. I don't

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Speaker 4: Just grab your phone on because you know you're gonna

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you're right, you're right inside.

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Speaker 3: Do you know that this is no joke? You are

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Speaker 3: You and my mom are the same person.

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Speaker 1: My mom wants to be buried with magazines and a

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Speaker 1: cell phone in addition to all of the animals, all

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Speaker 1: But this is not a joke, like she was very serious.

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Speaker 1: dig me up. Yep.

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Speaker 3: This is I'm not even kidding about it, and that's brilliant.

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Speaker 2: And now I'm thinking of cremation because I if I

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Speaker 2: just make it done, like even if I'm not all

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Speaker 2: I don't want to wake up and I'm in this

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Speaker 1: And it's because it sounds worse, Kiki. It sounds worse

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Speaker 1: if you're not all the way done and then they

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Speaker 1: cremate you. It's then you're done.

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Speaker 2: It's over with. She was almost there, she's just fully

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Speaker 2: there now, right, Rather that than me wake up just

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Speaker 2: in this hot box and I can't get out and

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Speaker 2: nobody knows.

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Speaker 3: What you're okay with?

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Speaker 1: You waking up in a in a real hot box

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Speaker 2: Three seconds is over Christy, Risty, you know what I know.

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Speaker 3: I mean I could use a tan, but I don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, that's what my mom's like, Well, what if

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Speaker 1: I wake up? I'm like, Mom, I'm gonna first of all,

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Speaker 1: But no, she wants magazines and the cell phone. So

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Speaker 1: have to provide service to this six months a year?

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Speaker 1: I don't write, but that's wild. Sorry she's dead. No,

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Speaker 1: we're just kidding. She's not actually back.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they talk better than these are the radio blogs

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Speaker 1: It's like we're writing in our diaries, except we say

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Speaker 1: the post birthday girl, Yeah, post birthday, I take it away.

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Speaker 6: She had a birthday, Thank you so much, dear blog. So,

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Speaker 6: as you guys know, I do have a little daughter.

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Speaker 6: As a Teresa Judy, she would say daughters, I can't

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Speaker 6: So like I had my ears pierce when I was

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Speaker 6: But of course her dad does not want that. I'm

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Speaker 6: It's a whole production. And I'm I want to do

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Speaker 1: But I think I would rather as an infant, Like,

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Speaker 3: I don't remember it, you don't remember, It'll be so temporary.

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Speaker 2: And I want to put cute ear rings on her

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Speaker 6: I mean, I had my ears pierce, and but then

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Speaker 2: Pierce, then I'll take her. But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I say, do it.

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Speaker 4: My nieces got theirs done when they were infants, literally, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I understand it's a cultural thing, but I mean you're

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Speaker 1: I don't mean to say it's like to be rude,

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Speaker 6: He just wants her to be a little bit older,

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Speaker 2: I was a baby, and to be honest, I don't

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Speaker 3: In their ears. You ain't putting on this?

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe I don't know, why not my baby? I

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Speaker 1: But I also feel like my dad had objections to

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Speaker 6: I get that completely, and I think that pertains more

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Speaker 6: I feel like with this, he does have a right

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Speaker 6: gonna see the ears Pierce, I can't lie. They're right

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Speaker 2: But I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I just feel like that's something I feel strongly about,

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Speaker 4: It's it's funny how your mom is against it, but

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Speaker 2: God, He's like, no, the clothes might get caught on.

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Speaker 2: I was screaming three months old. It was okay, yeah, No.

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Speaker 6: The things that she says now that she's so funny

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Speaker 3: Well, I see.

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Speaker 1: like it's true, it's totally true, Calin have any thoughts

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Speaker 1: It's like yo, you hey, maybe he does.

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Speaker 7: Oh? I well, first of all, anything about bringing up

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Speaker 1: your Tuesday. We'll do the fun fact. It's about grass today.

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Speaker 1: It's about grass. I love it. It's fascinating. Really is

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Speaker 1: You can't kill me. I'm not coming. You can't dumb me.

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Speaker 1: I dumped you, period. You can't fire me.

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Speaker 3: I quit. That's right. Good news, happy stories every day,

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Speaker 8: So deputies from the Hillsborough County Sheriff's Office responded to

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Speaker 8: I guess it had gone out and he just kept repeating,

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, did you know that the smell? Okay,

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Speaker 3: Time, I do at least twice a week for my grass.

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Speaker 2: Well you gotta go, but yeah, you gotta di sorry.

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Speaker 2: None of us know each other from like past, we

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Speaker 2: have no past history together. Everybody's just coming together, and

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Speaker 2: so I'm noticing that, Like I feel like I'm putting

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Speaker 2: an effort in to be a friend, but I'm not

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Speaker 2: necessarily getting that back exactly from certain people. And it's

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Speaker 2: like I don't know what. We don't have any history,

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Speaker 2: so like what what's not to enjoy? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But you know, just because I think I'm a good

447
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Speaker 2: time doesn't mean that other people I gotta think that

448
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Speaker 2: I'm a good time. But as an adult, like how

449
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Speaker 2: do you truly make friends with somebody if you don't

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Speaker 2: have like we don't have to work together, you don't

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Speaker 2: have to talk to one another.

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Speaker 1: I think it is hard to make friends as a girl. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you do it at church. I hear you do

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Speaker 1: it like in sports leagues. Join like a sports league. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that kind of thing. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But like, if you're in any situation where you don't

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Speaker 2: have to talk or don't have to interact with somebody,

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Speaker 2: how do you truly build a relationship Because I feel

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Speaker 2: like a lot of our relationships in in my lack

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Speaker 2: and speak for me, are work related. A lot of

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Speaker 2: my friends we've met through this journey of work, or

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Speaker 2: a lot of friends I've met from high school or

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Speaker 2: from college, and it's like, okay, outside of that, what

464
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Speaker 2: real friends have I just met along the way? And

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Speaker 2: how do you become friends with somebody if they don't see.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the majority of my good friends here

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Speaker 1: we're all friends before and I just injected myself and

468
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Speaker 1: their friend group because we all did charity work together. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and now I call them my friends, but they're really

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Speaker 1: they were friends like for twenty years before me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I'm the outsider, okay, but then I just now

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Speaker 1: they're my friends.

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Speaker 3: But it's hard.

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Speaker 1: No, it's hard because people, I think, as you grow up,

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Speaker 1: you know, people, they get married, they have kids, and

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Speaker 1: families in the circles become they become focused and other stuff,

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Speaker 1: and it can be harder to schedule times to meet

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Speaker 1: with new people and out with new people, and so

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Speaker 1: you wind up hanging out with the same folks. And yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I think it's because when you're younger and you're in

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Speaker 1: school or you know whatever. I don't know, and everyone's

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Speaker 1: single and sort of and there are children involved, I

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Speaker 1: think people can are more flexible. And you're right now,

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Speaker 1: it's hard to figure out, like who wants to hang

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Speaker 1: out with me?

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Speaker 3: Right? And what are we gonna do?

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Speaker 2: I'm a low maintenance friend, Like I don't need you

488
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Speaker 2: to call me every day. I don't need to go

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Speaker 2: we don't need to go out all the time. But like,

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Speaker 2: I just want to know what's not to like, what

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Speaker 2: are you not liking? I don't know, am I doing it?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 2: Like tell me if it's something that I'm doing or

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Speaker 2: somebody told you or it's just weird. And I'm just like,

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Speaker 2: I cannot think for the life of me, why this

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Speaker 2: person is not excited to be friends You probably you think.

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Speaker 3: So.

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Speaker 1: I find that as the guy, as the man who

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Speaker 1: is single with no children. I don't get invited to

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Speaker 1: a lot of stuff because people are like, well it's

501
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Speaker 1: couples and so you would would be the odd man out.

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Speaker 1: Or it's couples and kids and you don't have either,

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Speaker 1: So like, do you really want to come to my kids, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, third birthday party?

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Speaker 1: And no, not really, but like if it's the only

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Speaker 1: way that I'm going to see all you guys, then yeah,

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Speaker 1: then I want to go. But I think what happens is,

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Speaker 1: you know, people move away and they and live lives change,

509
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Speaker 1: and if yours doesn't change along with them, then you

510
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Speaker 1: kind of wind up getting excluded. And I don't think

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Speaker 1: it's on purpose. I hate that, it's just it just

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Speaker 1: is though. But you're the you have a husband and

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Speaker 1: a kid, so you're gonna get included in a lot

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Speaker 1: of that stuff and I don't.

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Speaker 6: But I better be included in girls' night and single

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Speaker 6: ladies hitting the street night.

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Speaker 2: Like I still want to do everything that.

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Speaker 6: You know, the old me would do as well, because

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Speaker 6: I cherish my friendships like I do water them. It's hard,

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Speaker 6: it's hard work, but to me, it's like super important

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Speaker 6: because like all my friends are on different levels.

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Speaker 2: Everybody's different living it for different life.

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Speaker 1: I think you're going to find the way as you

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Speaker 1: get older. There's less and less of the just lose

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Speaker 1: fun socializing. There's and it takes a little more effort

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Speaker 1: to make it happen. I mean, try and plant something

527
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Speaker 1: on this show. And we're all friends, and we all

528
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Speaker 1: like each other and we want to hang out with

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Speaker 1: each other. But try and from try and find one

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Speaker 1: day that all of us can do the same thing

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Speaker 1: at the same time.

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Speaker 3: It's impossible.

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Speaker 2: That's very true.

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Speaker 3: So it's really hard to do, and I think that

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Speaker 3: is a factor.

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Speaker 2: It is hard.

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Speaker 3: I mean, as a.

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Speaker 1: Forty year old man, there aren't a lot of other

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Speaker 1: forty year old men out there that are just like

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Speaker 1: chilling that are and I don't plan very well. So

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Speaker 1: like Friday at five o'clock, I know the group of

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Speaker 1: guys and where they're going to be, and I know

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Speaker 1: where to find them. But it's the same guys, and

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Speaker 1: they're guys who are just like me, single with nothing

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Speaker 1: else to do. But if I try and call one

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Speaker 1: of my married buddies at Friday at four o'clock and go,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing, They're like, y'all see the month

548
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Speaker 1: right when I can, you know, clear with my wife.

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Speaker 1: You know, how about how about six fridays from now?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't say fridays from now, might be

551
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Speaker 1: something will still come.

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Speaker 2: Up and exactly you got to cut your grass like this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah you found you found this too, though, haven't your roof?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I don't have any friends.

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Speaker 4: I have like one or two friends, and then you guys, Oh,

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Speaker 4: I mean I just have my family.

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Speaker 3: Are my friends?

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 3: Same?

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Speaker 1: It's just I think people's prayer around. I don't think

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Speaker 1: it's personal. I think it's just life is hard and

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Speaker 1: it takes a lot of effort, and when you're working

564
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Speaker 1: and you have kids and you have other you know,

565
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Speaker 1: projects and other things going on, then you, I don't know,

566
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Speaker 1: maybe you're just like it's just one more thing you

567
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Speaker 1: have to do.

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Speaker 3: And I don't think it's personal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah no, yeah, I mean everyone's everyone's lives are different

570
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 4: people you know, something's changed, and some people just stay

571
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Speaker 4: the same and you just go. You just that friendship

572
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Speaker 4: runs its course and sometimes it's done. Have you tried

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Speaker 4: talking to that person likes something in common with the

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Speaker 4: person you're talking.

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Speaker 2: I'll try to bring up conversation and it's just like

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Speaker 2: it's not clicking. It's just not clicking. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I love making friends. I don't get on that. They

578
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Speaker 2: got that bumble thing. I'm not that desperate, not friends.

579
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Speaker 2: People get on that for friends. She don't have big

580
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Speaker 2: Tim as a friend. Yeah, what is exactly in my roommate.

581
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Speaker 1: That pays half the bills? What is the entertainment report?

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Speaker 1: Is next friend show?