Speaker 1: Second date. How are the thousands of phone calls that
Speaker 1: we've done over the years, I've never heard of a
Speaker 1: couple meeting the way that Jacob met his date. Oh really,
Speaker 1: I love that. It's a good meat story. And the
Speaker 1: cool thing is they both made money off their own dates. Okay,
Speaker 1: so double winning here. Let's find out more, Jacob, welcome
Speaker 1: to the show. Hey, I'll be going to hear me.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you sound richer from wherever whatever you did
Speaker 1: to meet your Yeah, money bags. We'll find out where
Speaker 1: the dates started in just a second. But first, tell
Speaker 1: us about the girl. What's her name? I mean, the
Speaker 1: first time you met Brendley, Like, the first moment you
Speaker 1: laid eyes on her, did you know you were like
Speaker 1: into her? Not a media of heavy How many babies
Speaker 1: do you want to have? It's like more than that.
Speaker 1: It's like chemistry, you know, like do you instantly know?
Speaker 1: Like no, but instantly no. I instantly knew that Yes
Speaker 1: was in a relationship. At the time, I did not
Speaker 1: know that. Okay, let's focus on all right, Yeah, Jacob,
Speaker 1: where the butterflies going off? Did rainbows shoot across the sky?
Speaker 1: What happened? I saw the picket fans and the minivan.
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, look he was really pretty
Speaker 1: but I didn't know yet. Okay, normal, where were you guys?
Speaker 1: How did you meet? So this is the weird part.
Speaker 1: We met at one of those health research study. What
Speaker 1: is that? You know? You kind of go in for
Speaker 1: a few days and they do like medical test thing
Speaker 1: and the sleepy kind of like that. No, no, it
Speaker 1: was like six hours a day. We still were able
Speaker 1: to go home. Okay, but what did you okay? So
Speaker 1: are you were one of the test subjects? Yeah? Look
Speaker 1: I was laid off at the time, and my friend
Speaker 1: was like, hey, you can make a few of the
Speaker 1: bucks for a few days. I was like, dude, I mean,
Speaker 1: hold on, are they like giving you medicine and see
Speaker 1: if you have an allergic reaction? Like what do you do?
Speaker 1: I don't even know what it is. It was called
Speaker 1: a BPS study. What's up? What does it stand for?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I Google, like you did your research
Speaker 1: too well. It was supposed to be about anonymity, right,
Speaker 1: and they didn't want us to know anything or it
Speaker 1: could ruin the study. So all we were doing was
Speaker 1: more like athletics things. So it was like go to
Speaker 1: this side of the room, walk here or walk to
Speaker 1: the other end, and they do it, and then we
Speaker 1: do it, and then we maybe run a little bit weird.
Speaker 1: Did you feel like a lab rat? Um? I felt
Speaker 1: like a hamster. Okay, they did make us run on wheels. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I mean it's pretty crazy. So you're in this
Speaker 1: group and she's there too. Yeah, yeah, so we we
Speaker 1: we're in a room, a waiting room at the beginning,
Speaker 1: and she was sitting across from me and we chatted
Speaker 1: a little bit and she's like it was kind of
Speaker 1: similar situations, like, oh, I got laid off too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was kind of boring, but I got to know
Speaker 1: her better later because we got split up in like
Speaker 1: groups of eight and she happened to be in my group. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I just have to ask, like, is the test study
Speaker 1: is that considered your date? That was not the first,
Speaker 1: I guess date. That was just us being forced to
Speaker 1: be together. Okay, so romantic studies, kissing stif At what
Speaker 1: point in this like medical exercise, do you make your
Speaker 1: move to ask her out? Well, right before it ended,
Speaker 1: I was saying, hey, maybe we can grab a cup
Speaker 1: of coffee after we get out, and she was like cool,
Speaker 1: so we went to a coffee shop nearby and were
Speaker 1: able to shit chat a little bit. Got to know
Speaker 1: where better than you know, lab rat talk. So I know,
Speaker 1: I just keep picturing you guys in like an all
Speaker 1: white room and white jumpsuits. You know. I'm yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like some two way mirror and everybody's watching it climb
Speaker 1: the road. So there was the weirdest part was when
Speaker 1: we were are forced to lay down face first on
Speaker 1: a bean bag. What yeah, what study? I just heard
Speaker 1: like you said, I heard the voice. Now there's a
Speaker 1: bean bag. Maybe this is like some sort of intelligence
Speaker 1: Stuffy did, like a hospital, he'sa a number in a
Speaker 1: bathroom or rest up, it's no the room, Yo, that
Speaker 1: sounds more fun. Now I was wondering where the love
Speaker 1: connection was happening, and now it's coming in. Okay. I
Speaker 1: know we're concentrating a lot about this experience for you.
Speaker 1: It's interesting, it is, But I want to know about coffee.
Speaker 1: How is that coffee was good? I mean it was
Speaker 1: definitely normal. Now we were addressed like normal humans and
Speaker 1: d you know, when you bond over something traumatic, easier
Speaker 1: to bond. Yeah, you know, we both were talking about
Speaker 1: like we wanted to go to college but didn't go.
Speaker 1: We both were like in the Mexican food specifically, I
Speaker 1: love burritos, like jazz music. Brindley's not calling you back, Like,
Speaker 1: I can't believe you experience this all with her. You
Speaker 1: go to coffee, even if she only wanted to be friends, Like,
Speaker 1: it seems like you guys are so connected at this point.
Speaker 1: Well that's what I'm thinking, because I did vibe enough
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, let me be a
Speaker 1: little bit more straightforward, and it's like, I'd like to
Speaker 1: see you again for a second date. And she was like, well,
Speaker 1: you text me because I'm a little busy right now,
Speaker 1: and so I did, which was cool. I didn't hear
Speaker 1: anything for a few days, but I was like, let
Speaker 1: me not keep jumping the gun and text all the time.
Speaker 1: But it's been like five days and I text maybe
Speaker 1: two more times and I still haven't heard anything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that busy. Are you worried that she's like laying down
Speaker 1: face first and someone else's being back. Let's call friendly.
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song first, we'll come back. We'll
Speaker 1: give her a call, and we'll try and get your
Speaker 1: second day up. Dat. I'm all right, don't hold on.
Speaker 1: How is Hallmark not doing this love story right now?
Speaker 1: Two people down on their luck volunteer for a clinical
Speaker 1: study together to make some quick cash, and the scientist's
Speaker 1: goal was to find out if they have BPS whatever
Speaker 1: that is. For all we know it's a made up acrony.
Speaker 1: They never explained it to them, and why was a
Speaker 1: bean bag involved? That's what they found at the end,
Speaker 1: that the two of them were both great at laying
Speaker 1: face down in beanbags. Yeah, so they have that going
Speaker 1: for them, But what about love? Is that a factor here?
Speaker 1: That's our job to be the researchers. That's right, We're
Speaker 1: gonna figure this out. I'm glad that they left that
Speaker 1: to the real scientists. Jacob, how's your face? How's your heart?
Speaker 1: Oh buddy? Oh lord. Jeff's taking this very seriously. He's
Speaker 1: actually about to put on Latex club. I'm invested in there. Yeah. Actually,
Speaker 1: I actually am surprised she's like ghosting you saw. I
Speaker 1: think we can get this one back on track. I hope. So.
Speaker 1: I mean, we've definitely started in worse places when we're
Speaker 1: calling people before. There actually seems like there might be
Speaker 1: something here. So I'm gonna doll her number right now,
Speaker 1: you feel ready, I'm ready? All right, let's do this
Speaker 1: mane Hello. Hey is this brend Lee? Uh? This is
Speaker 1: I was going to say something. We're saying send. We're
Speaker 1: still doing this. I'm sorry. Who are you? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So we're a radio show called Brooken Jeffrey in the Morning. Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: I'm jeff and we're doing something called a second Date Update. Okay,
Speaker 1: are you calling me? Because we're doing the second Date
Speaker 1: Update thing. That's where we help our listeners reach out
Speaker 1: to someone that they met out in the world that
Speaker 1: they had a connection with. It's kind of like a
Speaker 1: love study. Recently, we heard that you were involved in
Speaker 1: a little bit of a study with a guy named Jacob. Okay,
Speaker 1: job Jacob Jacob. That's a joke, all right, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: know him, super fun. Yeah, I mean he seemed to
Speaker 1: think that you guys made a real connection, like one
Speaker 1: during the study. But then afterwards it sounds like you
Speaker 1: guys went to coffee. Um, I probably shouldn't talk about
Speaker 1: this is gonna get in trouble. We don't need to
Speaker 1: know about like the medical stuff. Yeah, we're just calling
Speaker 1: because Jacob said he had a great time with you,
Speaker 1: and he hasn't been able to reach you since you
Speaker 1: guys hung out and he doesn't really know why. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I don't really think I should be talking
Speaker 1: to you about this. Are you Why are you single?
Speaker 1: I'm not involved with anybody. Okay, Okay, We're not trying
Speaker 1: to delve too deep into your personal life. We're just
Speaker 1: trying to help Jacob understand what's going on between you two.
Speaker 1: I mean, from his perspective, you guys spent a lot
Speaker 1: of time together, and then he thought that you had
Speaker 1: a lot of shared interest, like when you actually got
Speaker 1: to go to coffee and talk about your lives, like
Speaker 1: it seemed like you to him, made a real connection. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but um, everybody had to sign a believer. So well,
Speaker 1: you also told us about the strong connection you felt
Speaker 1: while Lyne faced down in bean bags. He told you that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he definitely wasn't supposed to talk about the bean bags
Speaker 1: or anything like that. Oh well, sorry, we don't mean
Speaker 1: to break bean bag code on the show. But I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: we don't know who did the study. We don't know
Speaker 1: where you were signed up. We don't care. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean it's true, like we don't know what it was
Speaker 1: for like we're just talking about like playing clothes, non
Speaker 1: medical baits. Yeah, we're just focused on Jacob. Can you
Speaker 1: tell us what you thought of Jacob? Okay? Well, um,
Speaker 1: I was attracted to him. Okay, huge tie. It's a
Speaker 1: good person. But that's great. A cute behind that works fine?
Speaker 1: Oh kind Okay, I don't know. I'm sure you couldn't
Speaker 1: see her face was in the bean bag. Very nice behind.
Speaker 1: So wait, why aren't you calling him back? Then? He
Speaker 1: really likes you too, It sounds perfect well, to be
Speaker 1: honest with you, I even though it was part of
Speaker 1: the study, I'm really a researcher. I was researching him
Speaker 1: the whole time, and they weren't supposed to know that.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you worked for the study. Why don't
Speaker 1: you have to write down in a beanbag? This has
Speaker 1: been driving me crazy. I can't really talk about that.
Speaker 1: It's still looking their buds. You said yourself though, that
Speaker 1: you thought that Jacob was attractive. Well, that's the thing, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm attracted to him, but I feel like it's uneffable
Speaker 1: to go out with him. But you already went out
Speaker 1: to him to coffee. Why did you agree to that? Well,
Speaker 1: the study was a two day study and he asked
Speaker 1: me out halfway through, and I felt like I had
Speaker 1: to follow through with it. But even that was crossing
Speaker 1: the line. I mean, that makes sense though if you
Speaker 1: say no, then you probably won't be able to But
Speaker 1: it's such a good love story, you know, like the
Speaker 1: researcher with the lab Brad that she's not supposed to
Speaker 1: stay here. I don't know, trying to be the rat
Speaker 1: that situation kind of love story. I think it did
Speaker 1: get a little bit juice here. And before you go
Speaker 1: back to the lab Brindley, we do need to let
Speaker 1: you know that Jacob has been listening on the other
Speaker 1: line this entire time here and he wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Jacob, Hello, not a rat at hamster. Yeah
Speaker 1: that's right, that's right, you felt like a hamster. I
Speaker 1: forgot sorry, buddy. Now I'm a little confused. Did anything
Speaker 1: that you said? Was it any of it true? Or
Speaker 1: was it all made up? Oh? Well, the quote unquote
Speaker 1: facts were made up about me. But I do enjoy
Speaker 1: your company, and I do like you, and I like
Speaker 1: hanging out with you. And you don't like Mexican food.
Speaker 1: I like Mexican food, but like you know the whole
Speaker 1: part about in not going to college and well, I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously you you had. It's an education since you're a researcher. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not a huge fan of jazz, but
Speaker 1: I do like you and I would like to get
Speaker 1: to know you. But at this point, I just don't
Speaker 1: you feel like it's completely an athlicol, Like, well, isn't
Speaker 1: the study over? His part is over, but my part
Speaker 1: is not. I still have work to do in researcher
Speaker 1: do It's how long does it go on for? I mean,
Speaker 1: are we talking this thing will wrap up in a
Speaker 1: couple of months or we you know, well, these things
Speaker 1: take hears I mean, is bps really that big of
Speaker 1: a problem. I'm not little never heard of it. Okay,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't even be saying that on the radio. I
Speaker 1: understand that you think it's not ethical, but love isn't
Speaker 1: always ethical, Okay, Sometimes you just have to follow your
Speaker 1: heart and ignore the ethics. And I would go, it's
Speaker 1: always ethical, Yeah, especially especially when you travel to Thailand.
Speaker 1: There is no ethics. It's all love over there. And
Speaker 1: I would like to offer that. Okay. I think that
Speaker 1: we're trying to get Brentley to go out with you again.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I say this, like, weird things start
Speaker 1: from the strangest places, and you just don't always have answers.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just go with the flow, right, But I say,
Speaker 1: I thought we had a connection to I still think
Speaker 1: you're you're extremely gorgeous and you had a nice personality.
Speaker 1: And if that's true, hey, what the heck? Right? I mean,
Speaker 1: but that's again of the day, dude, you're making this hard.
Speaker 1: I can't see us in the radio, but I do
Speaker 1: want to ask you, like just to save me an
Speaker 1: email to say about is there anything weird going on
Speaker 1: with your urine at all? Like waver like okay, the
Speaker 1: relationship or subt I'm not allowed to answer over the air. Okay, see,
Speaker 1: you can ask him about his urine on your first
Speaker 1: date and we'll pay for it. Well, I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's really kind of like I get a new job. Yes,
Speaker 1: you know. It's just like what I was saying is like,
Speaker 1: do it ask for forgiveness later one of the other
Speaker 1: scientists will figure out bps gosh, here's what I can
Speaker 1: agree to you right now? Okay, you can text me
Speaker 1: and we can discuss things off air. Oh yes, it's
Speaker 1: like a BP. Yes, I feel like she was a
Speaker 1: little it's at least a BP. Maybe that's good enough
Speaker 1: for me. I think we're going to try and send
Speaker 1: you guys on another date. An agreeing to that, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying we can't talk about things. Yeah, yeah, are
Speaker 1: you excited to go? I can only not agree or agree,
Speaker 1: so I can't say on the air either, Yes, I
Speaker 1: don't know if you fully study. I think that's broken.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning