WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Motel 7

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we hope that you have the day off and

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't, well we hope this makes it a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit better.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is the Second Date Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for being here. You found the

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, here you are permanently punished for life. That's right,

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<v Speaker 3>that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, welcome to the show, and we always love to

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<v Speaker 1>start with a good listener comment.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, And speaking of how they found us, we have

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<v Speaker 4>Danielle who commented and said, you guys practically raised me.

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<v Speaker 4>My mom and I used to listen in the car

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<v Speaker 4>every morning on the way to school throughout all of

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<v Speaker 4>middle school and high school. Now I'm in college and

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<v Speaker 4>still keep you guys a part of my daily commute.

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<v Speaker 3>Love y'all so much, My bonus parents.

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<v Speaker 4>Look at what Okay, come on, it was nice, but

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<v Speaker 4>not tear worse.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, daniel look what you did so fast? You made

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<v Speaker 3>your second mom cry, Danielle happy tears. So I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>proud of you.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, your second date starts right now. Brooke and

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 5>You ever been out with someone and thought what am

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<v Speaker 5>I doing? They are way out of my league?

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<v Speaker 6>Ah?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I've got.

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<v Speaker 5>Some liars in the room, because everybody's felt that maybe

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<v Speaker 5>one time. Have you ever had your own mother tell you, sorry, honey,

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<v Speaker 5>that girl is way out of your leaves? Oh, you

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<v Speaker 5>should give up and save yourself the embarrassment. My mom

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<v Speaker 5>thinks I'm the most handsome man of the world. There's

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<v Speaker 5>no way again. Another good liar there. But that's what

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<v Speaker 5>happened to one of our listeners, Alex. His own mom

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't believe that he's got game.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you relate to this so heavily, don't you, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 5>I do. But Alex proved her wrong by hanging out

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<v Speaker 5>with a solid seven according to him, and getting a

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<v Speaker 5>cheap hotel room with her. Alex or with some of

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<v Speaker 5>what I said exaggerated for entertainment.

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<v Speaker 6>Technically it wasn't my hotel, it was it was hers.

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, okay, make her pay for it. That's right.

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<v Speaker 3>He was at the hotel room.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she was out of town.

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<v Speaker 5>So it was a business.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, Jeffery, you painted it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that was exaggerated for entertainment purposes.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I was hoping that it was perfectly accurate. But

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<v Speaker 5>why don't you start from the beginning. Tell us about

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<v Speaker 5>this girl you met?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you said solid seven. I agree, but you know,

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<v Speaker 6>thought she was really beautiful and does she have it?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Does she have a name?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, her name is Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how'd you meet her?

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<v Speaker 6>So we went on a dating app. We were just swiping,

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<v Speaker 6>and I guess she was looking for something because she

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<v Speaker 6>came from out of town.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're like coming in from out of town and

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting on Tinder, are you just bored?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you looking for a one night like?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, let's not sell our man short that like she

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<v Speaker 5>just matched with him because she was bored looking to

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<v Speaker 5>kill Tom?

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<v Speaker 7>I think I think she saw something that she liked

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<v Speaker 7>on that dating press.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean that's what Yeah, that's what I'm going for.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I post a lot of like shirtless picks

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<v Speaker 6>and stuff. So if anyone comes out from out town

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<v Speaker 6>and they know what they're getting into, wow, I think

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<v Speaker 6>she definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Was only looking for what if she swiped right on

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<v Speaker 1>a shirtless dude, and she's in town for one night,

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of goes together.

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<v Speaker 5>How did the date go?

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<v Speaker 6>It was going it was going great. We're having a

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<v Speaker 6>good time at first.

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<v Speaker 3>Where did you guys meet? Just like at her hotel,

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<v Speaker 3>like at the bar?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, just kind of like at the bar across the

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<v Speaker 6>street kind of thing. Okay, I thought it was going

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<v Speaker 6>well because she did. Eventually she took me to her

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<v Speaker 6>hotel room. Oh yeah, not much, not much to do there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think he's being sarcastic.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not being sarcastic. There's not a lot of stuff

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<v Speaker 6>to do in a hotel room to do.

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<v Speaker 5>The last thing, okay, doing there, watch TV? Yeah, doing

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<v Speaker 5>any of these.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, why did you go to the hotel room?

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<v Speaker 5>Then? Please don't tell me to iron.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean I thought things were picking up at

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<v Speaker 6>that things were getting about to heat up, and I

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<v Speaker 6>was curious to see what the decor in her hotel

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<v Speaker 6>room looked like.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't tell what.

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<v Speaker 2>Is sarcasm and is what is not serious?

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, I mean I thought it was going well

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<v Speaker 6>and then she I think she tried to ditch me though.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, in the room or where are you at?

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<v Speaker 5>She pushed you out of the elevator and then shut

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<v Speaker 5>the door.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, we made it to the room. I checked out

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<v Speaker 6>the decor, and then she left me for four hours. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it's son bought. I think she wanted me to go

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<v Speaker 6>with her. She was going to go see a friend,

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<v Speaker 6>but she made it seem like it was going to

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<v Speaker 6>be real quick, like just to say hi. So I

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<v Speaker 6>was like, oh, I'll just stay.

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<v Speaker 5>So she left you in her hotel room to go

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<v Speaker 5>meet up with a friend real quick and then said

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<v Speaker 5>she was going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be back exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>She asked me to come with her a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 6>and I was like, no, I'll just chill. Hear you

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<v Speaker 6>say hi, and I'll I'll be ready when you're back.

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<v Speaker 4>So you you stayed for four hours, you're committed.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean she texted me a couple of times. I

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<v Speaker 6>was like, hey, what's going on, you know? And she said, no,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry, I want to I'll be back soon. She

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<v Speaker 6>wants texting me, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And she never once asked you to leave.

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<v Speaker 6>No, she didn't ask me to leave. She did say like,

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<v Speaker 6>if you want to leave, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Can, okay. So you didn't take that as like a

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<v Speaker 5>hint that maybe you should go.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean, I don't know why I leave. I

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<v Speaker 6>was I made the hotel room, I'm going to stay.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna wait it out this way for her to

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<v Speaker 6>come back.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't.

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<v Speaker 5>Get rid of you.

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<v Speaker 6>She is.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen the fact that she invited him, like, hey, come with.

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<v Speaker 3>Me out of the room. She tried out of the room.

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<v Speaker 1>She wanted him gone, and then she was gone for

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<v Speaker 1>four hours, just in hopes.

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<v Speaker 3>That he would actually be gone.

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<v Speaker 5>Shirtless body, and was intimidated and was like, I need

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<v Speaker 5>some more liquid courage in order to deal with this

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<v Speaker 5>hunk of a man.

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<v Speaker 3>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 2>Did she say that when she came back into the

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<v Speaker 2>hotel room.

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<v Speaker 6>Now with those words, no, she uh, you know, it

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<v Speaker 6>was about midnight at that point. She got back, and

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<v Speaker 6>at first she was apologizing and she's like, oh, my friend,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, we're just catching up. We had to talk, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>no worries. And then she finally was like, well I

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<v Speaker 6>have an early meeting and yeah, I think I finally

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<v Speaker 6>got the hint at that point.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's when you got the hints. Yeah, So how

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<v Speaker 5>did you leave it?

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<v Speaker 6>I just said, oh, yeah, no, worries and uh, kind

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<v Speaker 6>of left. But I feel like we had a good

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<v Speaker 6>time before that, you know, her friend kind of got

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<v Speaker 6>on the way.

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<v Speaker 3>J Yeah, wait, what do you what do you want?

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<v Speaker 3>Like you want to go out with her again?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I want to go out with her. I made it

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<v Speaker 6>to the hotel room. That's the only time I've ever

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<v Speaker 6>been invited to a hotel room because.

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<v Speaker 5>It is kind of a smooth line. Though, I thought,

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<v Speaker 5>what it's sincere Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 6>She could have said no.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she realized that.

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<v Speaker 2>Now have you texted or called her? Have you talked

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<v Speaker 2>to Tiffany at all?

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<v Speaker 6>I texted her, I said we should hang out some time.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you have her back? She just said sounds like

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<v Speaker 6>a plan.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, oh yeah, I think that's good. I don't think

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<v Speaker 5>that's good. She could have said, no, can I.

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<v Speaker 6>Can I confess something you all? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if I want.

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<v Speaker 6>I just there's one thing, you know, people always ask like,

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<v Speaker 6>is there anything that could have made it weird? I

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<v Speaker 6>do sometimes photoshop my pictures.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, hotel room, Let's let's come back and try and

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<v Speaker 8>get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Update Right after this hold on.

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<v Speaker 9>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, second date updates.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, we have a listener who has come to us

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<v Speaker 5>with a problem. Yes, he needs our wisdom, our encouragement.

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<v Speaker 5>And what we.

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<v Speaker 7>Don't need, Brook is your condescending size and oh honeys,

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't say Karen slamming his interest in hotel decor.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, he called for honesty, all right.

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<v Speaker 4>He did not.

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<v Speaker 5>He did not ask get another date. You have a responsibility, Brook,

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<v Speaker 5>to our listener. Here, we need to stand up and

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<v Speaker 5>be an advocate for the photoshop shirtless men of this world. Man,

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<v Speaker 5>not a lot of guys would have the willpower, the

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<v Speaker 5>mental fortitude to wait alone in a woman's hotel room

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<v Speaker 5>for four hours after she excused herself.

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<v Speaker 7>But Alex did, and we need to show him some respect.

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<v Speaker 5>Gosh, darn it. Tell him how impressed you are. He's

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, Alex.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Alex on an there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she did, buddy, But like, I think

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<v Speaker 1>she was missing an opportunity because I think you sound

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<v Speaker 1>like a nice person.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you think she might want to go for a

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<v Speaker 6>second date?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Alex, do you feel supported by Brook's words? There?

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like she's being nice boy. I'm glad she's

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<v Speaker 6>trying anyways.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, he.

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<v Speaker 5>Knows that you can't do your job or you aren't

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<v Speaker 5>willing to help him, but he's still going to stick

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<v Speaker 5>through it, just like he's stuck around in that girl's

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<v Speaker 5>hotel room. All right, let's call her and try and

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<v Speaker 5>get you a second date. You ready, Alex, I'm ready?

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<v Speaker 5>All right? What's doing?

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<v Speaker 9>Hello?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, we're looking for Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 9>This is she?

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<v Speaker 5>What's up, Tiffany? You're You're on the radio right now

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<v Speaker 5>with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 9>Uh, yeah, what what is this about?

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<v Speaker 5>This is about something we do on our show called

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<v Speaker 5>a second date up, where we try and help our

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<v Speaker 5>listeners reconnect with people that they met up with online

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<v Speaker 5>or went on a date with. And you met up

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<v Speaker 5>with a guy recently named Alex.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, yeah, I bet it was a memorable night.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah you could, you could say that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, sound out. Pretty fun from our end of

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<v Speaker 5>the conversation. That was our takeaway.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think the first half hour maybe when

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<v Speaker 1>they were actually hanging out.

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<v Speaker 5>There was definitely good moments we've heard.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I mean, look, I was just trying to have

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<v Speaker 9>some fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 9>It was a work trip. I popped on the apps

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<v Speaker 9>thought maybe we could hang out, have dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>Mission accomplished, Fun achieved.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so what did you think when you first saw Alex?

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<v Speaker 9>I could tell pretty quickly that, like he was a

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<v Speaker 9>nice guy, but we weren't necessarily a good match. And

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<v Speaker 9>you know, from even like in his picture as he

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<v Speaker 9>seemed like a kind of nice, wholesome guy. And when

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<v Speaker 9>we met up he was really nice and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 9>he seemed really interested in my trip and what hotel

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<v Speaker 9>I was staying at.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, he was mentioning that to us and that

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<v Speaker 5>he wanted to see what the decor in your hotel

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<v Speaker 5>looked like.

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<v Speaker 1>And we thought it was like just a line, but

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like he was truly interested in the passion wholesome.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, yeah, it wasn't a line. He like walked into

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<v Speaker 9>the room and was like caressing the curtains, like the

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<v Speaker 9>crown molding was mind blowing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that was actually fancy. I mean, what were you

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<v Speaker 2>thinking when he's doing all this?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean I mostly turned on. No, just you know,

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<v Speaker 9>when like you take a risk and you say, like

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<v Speaker 9>I was bringing this guy into my hotel room a

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<v Speaker 9>good idea and no, it really seems to be interested

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<v Speaker 9>in this, but it wasn't anyway. It wasn't much really,

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<v Speaker 9>and I was ready for the evening to be over.

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<v Speaker 9>So I said, oh, like, one of my friends is

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<v Speaker 9>also in town, so I'm going to meet up with

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<v Speaker 9>them in the lobby. Do you want to come with?

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<v Speaker 9>And he just said no.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, it's too early to be meeting the friends with

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<v Speaker 5>the people that you're dating. On night one, I think,

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<v Speaker 5>want to? I want to get acquainted with this crown

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<v Speaker 5>molding over here.

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<v Speaker 2>What wait, so the friend wasn't made up? The friend

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<v Speaker 2>was real.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh no, the friend was entirely made up.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, you lied to him. That's a sweet, innocent man.

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<v Speaker 3>Why would you ask him to go with you then?

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<v Speaker 3>Like what I mean?

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<v Speaker 9>At this point, I was just trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 9>a way to get him to leave the room because

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<v Speaker 9>it didn't feel like he was going to. So, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>I thought maybe I'd get in the elevator and I

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<v Speaker 9>jump off or something. I don't I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 4>The solution was off in the hallway, not like down

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<v Speaker 4>the elevator shafts.

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<v Speaker 5>So he was he was in there, he said, for hours,

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<v Speaker 5>and you never came back.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I was trying to figure out what I was

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<v Speaker 9>going to do to get this Pike free man of

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<v Speaker 9>my hotel room and out.

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<v Speaker 5>Of your own hotel room.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's not because you felt threatened by him or anything.

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<v Speaker 9>She was never mean, you know, he was he was persistent,

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<v Speaker 9>and obviously I made a mistake taking him there, but he,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, was polite when I came back, and he

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<v Speaker 9>didn't make a pass or anything. It was just kind

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<v Speaker 9>of a well overall in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, he's not good at picking up the hints,

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<v Speaker 5>but overall he sounds like a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah. I thought that until the next day when I

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<v Speaker 9>checked out of the hotel. What oh yeah. So apparently

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<v Speaker 9>he ordered a movie to the room while I was gone,

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<v Speaker 9>and I was like, well, I didn't watch anything, you know.

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<v Speaker 9>I saw the bill and they said, well it was

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<v Speaker 9>rented at this time to your room, and I looked

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<v Speaker 9>at it and it was I don't even know how

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<v Speaker 9>to describe this movie other than it's titled Flutter Island.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, hey, I can I have to say something here now, Planet.

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<v Speaker 5>Earth Butterfly Special Hold hold on, Tiffany. That that was

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<v Speaker 5>that's Alex. He's been on the other line listening this

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<v Speaker 5>whole time. I wanted to talk to you. But what

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<v Speaker 5>was the name of the movie?

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<v Speaker 9>Flutter Island.

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<v Speaker 5>Like Shutter Island? But it is not a documentary.

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<v Speaker 3>Why would you do that, Alex?

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<v Speaker 6>First of all, I went down and I paid the

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<v Speaker 6>guy with cash and I told him to take it

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<v Speaker 6>off the bill. So that should have never happened. That is,

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<v Speaker 6>like I wurst. I would have never made you pay

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<v Speaker 6>for that.

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<v Speaker 9>That's on the hotel.

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<v Speaker 3>No, gross, dude, you were in her broom.

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<v Speaker 5>Anything and there he just watched a movie. We don't

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<v Speaker 5>know what he did.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to know.

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<v Speaker 6>Nothing happened. Nothing happened, and she wouldn't have happened if

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<v Speaker 6>she had lied to me.

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<v Speaker 5>He was up there for four hours. What else is

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<v Speaker 5>he going to do?

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<v Speaker 6>Believe you were taken such a long time, and I thought,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I thought it maybe helped me get in

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<v Speaker 6>the mood, and you know, in case something did happen,

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<v Speaker 6>and it didn't. Nothing happened, which is fine. And that

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't even supposed to be on your bill.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm okay, it's not it being on my bill that

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<v Speaker 9>is the problem here. You get that right?

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<v Speaker 6>What did you want me to do? They said?

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<v Speaker 2>It.

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<v Speaker 6>Leave.

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<v Speaker 9>Leave, it's not your space. Why would you think it's

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<v Speaker 9>okay to rent a movie in the first place.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, he thinks something's gonna happen, though it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>It's her room. It's not his room. It's her room,

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<v Speaker 3>her space. You invaded it a little different.

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<v Speaker 6>I was invited, but yes, oh yeah, as.

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<v Speaker 5>A point, and I think he's still interested in seeing

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<v Speaker 5>you one more time, Tiffany, it's you're up for seeing

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<v Speaker 5>him again. We would pay for a date to go

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<v Speaker 5>out wherever you live.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll cover the flight. I just you know, Tiffany, I

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<v Speaker 6>think we did have a good time, and that part

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<v Speaker 6>of it was weird, but I think, you know, communication wise,

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<v Speaker 6>we'll get better at that and we should. We should

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<v Speaker 6>try again.

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<v Speaker 3>How could you be.

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<v Speaker 2>That clueless, Alex?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's called persistence, Brooks, it's called idioticy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not even a word.

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<v Speaker 3>Dumbness. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, she wasn't even supposed to know about that. It

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<v Speaker 6>was I asked the guy to pay. I paid him

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<v Speaker 6>with cash. Where does that go? You have to we

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<v Speaker 6>should make a complaint to the hotel.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually did hotel's fault?

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<v Speaker 3>Did he did? You are not going to ask this question.

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<v Speaker 5>Come on, give one more chance. Don't let that hotel's

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<v Speaker 5>mistake ruin a shot at love.

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<v Speaker 3>But just say this time you could invite him into

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<v Speaker 3>your apartment. You could just end up living there.

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<v Speaker 5>Plus, I just googled it. There's a Slutter Island too.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys have to watch that together. We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 9>Tiffany, you know, I think I'd rather sit in a

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<v Speaker 9>hotel lobby for three night STRAIGHTO.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, I don't know that that's clear to Alex. You

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<v Speaker 3>may just need to say.

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<v Speaker 5>No brooking Jeffrey in the morning, here's the question for

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<v Speaker 5>my co host. I want to know did renting the

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<v Speaker 5>movie sink his ship? Or was it the movie choice?

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<v Speaker 3>The movie choice? Yeah, jeff it was fully one.

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<v Speaker 2>The movie choice.

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<v Speaker 5>He was watching like Minions by himself. That would have

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<v Speaker 5>been okay.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you know this? Why are you even.

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<v Speaker 5>Asking seen Slutter Island? How can I say that it's

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<v Speaker 5>a bad movie if you've never even seen.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I won't allow myself to even say that title

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<v Speaker 1>out loud.

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<v Speaker 5>What was Martin Orse's best directly? I bet it was

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<v Speaker 5>almost nominated for an Oscar and here we are shaming

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<v Speaker 5>him for it. Just off the Tide Alone.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure starring Matt Damon.

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<v Speaker 5>Bader Ginsburg documentary. If he had watched that, he would

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<v Speaker 5>have been a freaking hero. On the same night, another

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<v Speaker 5>ship sunk by Slutter Island. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 5>the morning.