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Speaker 4: Danielle who commented and said, you guys practically raised me.
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Speaker 3: Love y'all so much, My bonus parents.
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Speaker 2: All right, your second date starts right now. Brooke and
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Second date updates.
Speaker 5: You ever been out with someone and thought what am
Speaker 5: I doing? They are way out of my league?
Speaker 6: Ah?
Speaker 5: I don't think.
Speaker 3: No, I've got.
Speaker 5: Some liars in the room, because everybody's felt that maybe
Speaker 5: one time. Have you ever had your own mother tell you, sorry, honey,
Speaker 5: that girl is way out of your leaves? Oh, you
Speaker 5: should give up and save yourself the embarrassment. My mom
Speaker 5: thinks I'm the most handsome man of the world. There's
Speaker 5: no way again. Another good liar there. But that's what
Speaker 5: happened to one of our listeners, Alex. His own mom
Speaker 5: doesn't believe that he's got game.
Speaker 3: I mean, you relate to this so heavily, don't you, Jeffrey.
Speaker 5: I do. But Alex proved her wrong by hanging out
Speaker 5: with a solid seven according to him, and getting a
Speaker 5: cheap hotel room with her. Alex or with some of
Speaker 5: what I said exaggerated for entertainment.
Speaker 6: Technically it wasn't my hotel, it was it was hers.
Speaker 5: But yeah, okay, make her pay for it. That's right.
Speaker 3: He was at the hotel room.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was out of town.
Speaker 5: So it was a business.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, Jeffery, you painted it.
Speaker 2: Yes, that was exaggerated for entertainment purposes.
Speaker 5: Okay, I was hoping that it was perfectly accurate. But
Speaker 5: why don't you start from the beginning. Tell us about
Speaker 5: this girl you met?
Speaker 6: Well, you said solid seven. I agree, but you know,
Speaker 6: thought she was really beautiful and does she have it?
Speaker 3: Wait?
Speaker 2: Does she have a name?
Speaker 6: Yeah, her name is Tiffany.
Speaker 2: Okay, how'd you meet her?
Speaker 6: So we went on a dating app. We were just swiping,
Speaker 6: and I guess she was looking for something because she
Speaker 6: came from out of town.
Speaker 1: If you're like coming in from out of town and
Speaker 1: you're getting on Tinder, are you just bored?
Speaker 3: Are you looking for a one night like?
Speaker 5: Well, let's not sell our man short that like she
Speaker 5: just matched with him because she was bored looking to
Speaker 5: kill Tom?
Speaker 7: I think I think she saw something that she liked
Speaker 7: on that dating press.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean that's what Yeah, that's what I'm going for.
Speaker 6: You know, I post a lot of like shirtless picks
Speaker 6: and stuff. So if anyone comes out from out town
Speaker 6: and they know what they're getting into, wow, I think
Speaker 6: she definitely.
Speaker 1: Was only looking for what if she swiped right on
Speaker 1: a shirtless dude, and she's in town for one night,
Speaker 1: like kind of goes together.
Speaker 5: How did the date go?
Speaker 6: It was going it was going great. We're having a
Speaker 6: good time at first.
Speaker 3: Where did you guys meet? Just like at her hotel,
Speaker 3: like at the bar?
Speaker 6: Yeah, just kind of like at the bar across the
Speaker 6: street kind of thing. Okay, I thought it was going
Speaker 6: well because she did. Eventually she took me to her
Speaker 6: hotel room. Oh yeah, not much, not much to do there.
Speaker 2: I think I think he's being sarcastic.
Speaker 1: I'm not.
Speaker 6: I'm not being sarcastic. There's not a lot of stuff
Speaker 6: to do in a hotel room to do.
Speaker 5: The last thing, okay, doing there, watch TV? Yeah, doing
Speaker 5: any of these.
Speaker 3: Wait, why did you go to the hotel room?
Speaker 5: Then? Please don't tell me to iron.
Speaker 6: No, I mean I thought things were picking up at
Speaker 6: that things were getting about to heat up, and I
Speaker 6: was curious to see what the decor in her hotel
Speaker 6: room looked like.
Speaker 3: I didn't tell what.
Speaker 2: Is sarcasm and is what is not serious?
Speaker 6: But yeah, I mean I thought it was going well
Speaker 6: and then she I think she tried to ditch me though.
Speaker 3: Wait, in the room or where are you at?
Speaker 5: She pushed you out of the elevator and then shut
Speaker 5: the door.
Speaker 6: Oh, we made it to the room. I checked out
Speaker 6: the decor, and then she left me for four hours. Yeah,
Speaker 6: it's son bought. I think she wanted me to go
Speaker 6: with her. She was going to go see a friend,
Speaker 6: but she made it seem like it was going to
Speaker 6: be real quick, like just to say hi. So I
Speaker 6: was like, oh, I'll just stay.
Speaker 5: So she left you in her hotel room to go
Speaker 5: meet up with a friend real quick and then said
Speaker 5: she was going to.
Speaker 1: Be back exactly.
Speaker 6: She asked me to come with her a couple of times,
Speaker 6: and I was like, no, I'll just chill. Hear you
Speaker 6: say hi, and I'll I'll be ready when you're back.
Speaker 4: So you you stayed for four hours, you're committed.
Speaker 6: I mean she texted me a couple of times. I
Speaker 6: was like, hey, what's going on, you know? And she said, no,
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I want to I'll be back soon. She
Speaker 6: wants texting me, okay.
Speaker 2: And she never once asked you to leave.
Speaker 6: No, she didn't ask me to leave. She did say like,
Speaker 6: if you want to leave, you.
Speaker 5: Can, okay. So you didn't take that as like a
Speaker 5: hint that maybe you should go.
Speaker 6: No, I mean, I don't know why I leave. I
Speaker 6: was I made the hotel room, I'm going to stay.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna wait it out this way for her to
Speaker 6: come back.
Speaker 3: I can't.
Speaker 5: Get rid of you.
Speaker 6: She is.
Speaker 5: Listen the fact that she invited him, like, hey, come with.
Speaker 3: Me out of the room. She tried out of the room.
Speaker 1: She wanted him gone, and then she was gone for
Speaker 1: four hours, just in hopes.
Speaker 3: That he would actually be gone.
Speaker 5: Shirtless body, and was intimidated and was like, I need
Speaker 5: some more liquid courage in order to deal with this
Speaker 5: hunk of a man.
Speaker 3: What did she say?
Speaker 2: Did she say that when she came back into the
Speaker 2: hotel room.
Speaker 6: Now with those words, no, she uh, you know, it
Speaker 6: was about midnight at that point. She got back, and
Speaker 6: at first she was apologizing and she's like, oh, my friend,
Speaker 6: you know, we're just catching up. We had to talk, okay, yeah,
Speaker 6: no worries. And then she finally was like, well I
Speaker 6: have an early meeting and yeah, I think I finally
Speaker 6: got the hint at that point.
Speaker 5: Oh that's when you got the hints. Yeah, So how
Speaker 5: did you leave it?
Speaker 6: I just said, oh, yeah, no, worries and uh, kind
Speaker 6: of left. But I feel like we had a good
Speaker 6: time before that, you know, her friend kind of got
Speaker 6: on the way.
Speaker 3: J Yeah, wait, what do you what do you want?
Speaker 3: Like you want to go out with her again?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I want to go out with her. I made it
Speaker 6: to the hotel room. That's the only time I've ever
Speaker 6: been invited to a hotel room because.
Speaker 5: It is kind of a smooth line. Though, I thought,
Speaker 5: what it's sincere Jeffrey.
Speaker 6: She could have said no.
Speaker 3: I think she realized that.
Speaker 2: Now have you texted or called her? Have you talked
Speaker 2: to Tiffany at all?
Speaker 6: I texted her, I said we should hang out some time.
Speaker 6: Do you have her back? She just said sounds like
Speaker 6: a plan.
Speaker 5: Oh, oh yeah, I think that's good. I don't think
Speaker 5: that's good. She could have said, no, can I.
Speaker 6: Can I confess something you all? Yeah?
Speaker 5: I don't know if I want.
Speaker 6: I just there's one thing, you know, people always ask like,
Speaker 6: is there anything that could have made it weird? I
Speaker 6: do sometimes photoshop my pictures.
Speaker 8: Okay, hotel room, Let's let's come back and try and
Speaker 8: get you a second date.
Speaker 5: Update Right after this hold on.
Speaker 9: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, second date updates.
Speaker 5: Look, we have a listener who has come to us
Speaker 5: with a problem. Yes, he needs our wisdom, our encouragement.
Speaker 5: And what we.
Speaker 7: Don't need, Brook is your condescending size and oh honeys,
Speaker 7: I didn't say Karen slamming his interest in hotel decor.
Speaker 2: Listen, he called for honesty, all right.
Speaker 4: He did not.
Speaker 5: He did not ask get another date. You have a responsibility, Brook,
Speaker 5: to our listener. Here, we need to stand up and
Speaker 5: be an advocate for the photoshop shirtless men of this world. Man,
Speaker 5: not a lot of guys would have the willpower, the
Speaker 5: mental fortitude to wait alone in a woman's hotel room
Speaker 5: for four hours after she excused herself.
Speaker 7: But Alex did, and we need to show him some respect.
Speaker 5: Gosh, darn it. Tell him how impressed you are. He's
Speaker 5: I mean, Alex.
Speaker 2: Okay, Alex on an there.
Speaker 1: I don't think she did, buddy, But like, I think
Speaker 1: she was missing an opportunity because I think you sound
Speaker 1: like a nice person.
Speaker 6: Okay, you think she might want to go for a
Speaker 6: second date?
Speaker 5: Yeah, Alex, do you feel supported by Brook's words? There?
Speaker 6: I feel like she's being nice boy. I'm glad she's
Speaker 6: trying anyways.
Speaker 3: All right, he.
Speaker 5: Knows that you can't do your job or you aren't
Speaker 5: willing to help him, but he's still going to stick
Speaker 5: through it, just like he's stuck around in that girl's
Speaker 5: hotel room. All right, let's call her and try and
Speaker 5: get you a second date. You ready, Alex, I'm ready?
Speaker 5: All right? What's doing?
Speaker 9: Hello?
Speaker 5: Hey, we're looking for Tiffany.
Speaker 9: This is she?
Speaker 5: What's up, Tiffany? You're You're on the radio right now
Speaker 5: with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 9: Uh, yeah, what what is this about?
Speaker 5: This is about something we do on our show called
Speaker 5: a second date up, where we try and help our
Speaker 5: listeners reconnect with people that they met up with online
Speaker 5: or went on a date with. And you met up
Speaker 5: with a guy recently named Alex.
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, I bet it was a memorable night.
Speaker 9: Yeah you could, you could say that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, sound out. Pretty fun from our end of
Speaker 5: the conversation. That was our takeaway.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think the first half hour maybe when
Speaker 1: they were actually hanging out.
Speaker 5: There was definitely good moments we've heard.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, look, I was just trying to have
Speaker 9: some fun.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 9: It was a work trip. I popped on the apps
Speaker 9: thought maybe we could hang out, have dinner.
Speaker 5: Mission accomplished, Fun achieved.
Speaker 1: Okay, so what did you think when you first saw Alex?
Speaker 9: I could tell pretty quickly that, like he was a
Speaker 9: nice guy, but we weren't necessarily a good match. And
Speaker 9: you know, from even like in his picture as he
Speaker 9: seemed like a kind of nice, wholesome guy. And when
Speaker 9: we met up he was really nice and I don't know,
Speaker 9: he seemed really interested in my trip and what hotel
Speaker 9: I was staying at.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he was mentioning that to us and that
Speaker 5: he wanted to see what the decor in your hotel
Speaker 5: looked like.
Speaker 1: And we thought it was like just a line, but
Speaker 1: it sounds like he was truly interested in the passion wholesome.
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, it wasn't a line. He like walked into
Speaker 9: the room and was like caressing the curtains, like the
Speaker 9: crown molding was mind blowing.
Speaker 2: Oh that was actually fancy. I mean, what were you
Speaker 2: thinking when he's doing all this?
Speaker 9: I mean I mostly turned on. No, just you know,
Speaker 9: when like you take a risk and you say, like
Speaker 9: I was bringing this guy into my hotel room a
Speaker 9: good idea and no, it really seems to be interested
Speaker 9: in this, but it wasn't anyway. It wasn't much really,
Speaker 9: and I was ready for the evening to be over.
Speaker 9: So I said, oh, like, one of my friends is
Speaker 9: also in town, so I'm going to meet up with
Speaker 9: them in the lobby. Do you want to come with?
Speaker 9: And he just said no.
Speaker 5: Okay, it's too early to be meeting the friends with
Speaker 5: the people that you're dating. On night one, I think,
Speaker 5: want to? I want to get acquainted with this crown
Speaker 5: molding over here.
Speaker 2: What wait, so the friend wasn't made up? The friend
Speaker 2: was real.
Speaker 9: Oh no, the friend was entirely made up.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, you lied to him. That's a sweet, innocent man.
Speaker 3: Why would you ask him to go with you then?
Speaker 3: Like what I mean?
Speaker 9: At this point, I was just trying to figure out
Speaker 9: a way to get him to leave the room because
Speaker 9: it didn't feel like he was going to. So, you know,
Speaker 9: I thought maybe I'd get in the elevator and I
Speaker 9: jump off or something. I don't I don't know what.
Speaker 4: The solution was off in the hallway, not like down
Speaker 4: the elevator shafts.
Speaker 5: So he was he was in there, he said, for hours,
Speaker 5: and you never came back.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I was trying to figure out what I was
Speaker 9: going to do to get this Pike free man of
Speaker 9: my hotel room and out.
Speaker 5: Of your own hotel room.
Speaker 2: And it's not because you felt threatened by him or anything.
Speaker 9: She was never mean, you know, he was he was persistent,
Speaker 9: and obviously I made a mistake taking him there, but he,
Speaker 9: you know, was polite when I came back, and he
Speaker 9: didn't make a pass or anything. It was just kind
Speaker 9: of a well overall in the morning.
Speaker 5: I mean, he's not good at picking up the hints,
Speaker 5: but overall he sounds like a nice guy.
Speaker 9: Yeah. I thought that until the next day when I
Speaker 9: checked out of the hotel. What oh yeah. So apparently
Speaker 9: he ordered a movie to the room while I was gone,
Speaker 9: and I was like, well, I didn't watch anything, you know.
Speaker 9: I saw the bill and they said, well it was
Speaker 9: rented at this time to your room, and I looked
Speaker 9: at it and it was I don't even know how
Speaker 9: to describe this movie other than it's titled Flutter Island.
Speaker 6: Hey, hey, I can I have to say something here now, Planet.
Speaker 5: Earth Butterfly Special Hold hold on, Tiffany. That that was
Speaker 5: that's Alex. He's been on the other line listening this
Speaker 5: whole time. I wanted to talk to you. But what
Speaker 5: was the name of the movie?
Speaker 9: Flutter Island.
Speaker 5: Like Shutter Island? But it is not a documentary.
Speaker 3: Why would you do that, Alex?
Speaker 6: First of all, I went down and I paid the
Speaker 6: guy with cash and I told him to take it
Speaker 6: off the bill. So that should have never happened. That is,
Speaker 6: like I wurst. I would have never made you pay
Speaker 6: for that.
Speaker 9: That's on the hotel.
Speaker 3: No, gross, dude, you were in her broom.
Speaker 5: Anything and there he just watched a movie. We don't
Speaker 5: know what he did.
Speaker 3: I don't want to know.
Speaker 6: Nothing happened. Nothing happened, and she wouldn't have happened if
Speaker 6: she had lied to me.
Speaker 5: He was up there for four hours. What else is
Speaker 5: he going to do?
Speaker 6: Believe you were taken such a long time, and I thought,
Speaker 6: you know, I thought it maybe helped me get in
Speaker 6: the mood, and you know, in case something did happen,
Speaker 6: and it didn't. Nothing happened, which is fine. And that
Speaker 6: wasn't even supposed to be on your bill.
Speaker 9: I'm okay, it's not it being on my bill that
Speaker 9: is the problem here. You get that right?
Speaker 6: What did you want me to do? They said?
Speaker 2: It.
Speaker 6: Leave.
Speaker 9: Leave, it's not your space. Why would you think it's
Speaker 9: okay to rent a movie in the first place.
Speaker 6: Well, he thinks something's gonna happen, though it doesn't.
Speaker 3: It's her room. It's not his room. It's her room,
Speaker 3: her space. You invaded it a little different.
Speaker 6: I was invited, but yes, oh yeah, as.
Speaker 5: A point, and I think he's still interested in seeing
Speaker 5: you one more time, Tiffany, it's you're up for seeing
Speaker 5: him again. We would pay for a date to go
Speaker 5: out wherever you live.
Speaker 6: I'll cover the flight. I just you know, Tiffany, I
Speaker 6: think we did have a good time, and that part
Speaker 6: of it was weird, but I think, you know, communication wise,
Speaker 6: we'll get better at that and we should. We should
Speaker 6: try again.
Speaker 3: How could you be.
Speaker 2: That clueless, Alex?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's called persistence, Brooks, it's called idioticy.
Speaker 2: That's not even a word.
Speaker 3: Dumbness. I don't know.
Speaker 6: Hey, she wasn't even supposed to know about that. It
Speaker 6: was I asked the guy to pay. I paid him
Speaker 6: with cash. Where does that go? You have to we
Speaker 6: should make a complaint to the hotel.
Speaker 5: Actually did hotel's fault?
Speaker 3: Did he did? You are not going to ask this question.
Speaker 5: Come on, give one more chance. Don't let that hotel's
Speaker 5: mistake ruin a shot at love.
Speaker 3: But just say this time you could invite him into
Speaker 3: your apartment. You could just end up living there.
Speaker 5: Plus, I just googled it. There's a Slutter Island too.
Speaker 5: You guys have to watch that together. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 9: Tiffany, you know, I think I'd rather sit in a
Speaker 9: hotel lobby for three night STRAIGHTO.
Speaker 3: Hey, I don't know that that's clear to Alex. You
Speaker 3: may just need to say.
Speaker 5: No brooking Jeffrey in the morning, here's the question for
Speaker 5: my co host. I want to know did renting the
Speaker 5: movie sink his ship? Or was it the movie choice?
Speaker 3: The movie choice? Yeah, jeff it was fully one.
Speaker 2: The movie choice.
Speaker 5: He was watching like Minions by himself. That would have
Speaker 5: been okay.
Speaker 3: How do you know this? Why are you even.
Speaker 5: Asking seen Slutter Island? How can I say that it's
Speaker 5: a bad movie if you've never even seen.
Speaker 1: Because I won't allow myself to even say that title
Speaker 1: out loud.
Speaker 5: What was Martin Orse's best directly? I bet it was
Speaker 5: almost nominated for an Oscar and here we are shaming
Speaker 5: him for it. Just off the Tide Alone.
Speaker 2: I'm sure starring Matt Damon.
Speaker 5: Bader Ginsburg documentary. If he had watched that, he would
Speaker 5: have been a freaking hero. On the same night, another
Speaker 5: ship sunk by Slutter Island. It's Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 5: the morning.