WEBVTT - Who Are You, Abby? 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:08.720 Sting microphone check one two, Hello. 0:00:09.520 --> 0:00:12.320 Okay, I'll project. 0:00:14.040 --> 0:00:15.560 Diamond or is your level coming out? 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:15.760 Oh? 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:19.200 Yeah it was? Yeah, okay, all right, what's up? It's 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:22.240 sauce on the side. I'm gandhi and I'm here with Diamond, 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:25.880 my faithful producer, the only faithful producer, by the way, 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:29.320 because where is Andy Kane? You know he's a loser. 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:31.280 It is what it is on a scale of one 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:32.559 to ten. How pissed off do you think he is 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:33.159 at me right now? 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:37.199 Seven and a half tap dancing on eight? 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:39.159 So we talk about why or so we just let 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:39.400 it go? 0:00:39.520 --> 0:00:39.720 Yeah? 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:40.720 Sure, make it a thing. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:45.000 So I hate being on camera in this room. It 0:00:45.080 --> 0:00:47.279 is the bane of my existence. Abby, you are one 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:49.199 of our trusty digital people. You know that about me? 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:49.639 Right? 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:50.000 Yes? 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:53.360 Hate it. It's the angles, it's the me, it's all 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:55.840 of it. I just don't like it. I thought when 0:00:55.880 --> 0:00:58.280 I got into radio that the best part about it 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:00.160 was we were behind microphone, so you never have to 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:01.400 look at me. So I could roll in here looking 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:03.120 like a bum if I wanted to. And then all 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:04.920 of a sudden, all these cameras got put up all 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:07.399 around I know. So now not only do I have 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:09.760 to kind of look nice. But these cameras are like 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:11.120 in my face all the time, and I swear as 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:12.800 soon as I protested and was like, I don't want 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:14.959 to be on camera. All they do is post clips 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:15.120 of me. 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:18.320 You just ask so many interesting questions. 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:20.680 That's a nice way to put it, Abby, It's so 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.040 nice of you. I don't know. I feel like it's 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:26.119 sort of warfare, but I'm unsure. So the other day 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:30.280 Andrew was like, Hey, so we're just gonna start recording 0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:32.520 the whole podcast and we're gonna put it on YouTube. 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:35.959 And I was like, no, what, absolutely not. I don't 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:38.000 want to do that, and he kind of made it 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:40.360 sound like it was initiative, an initiative coming from like 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:42.600 high above. So when I asked him, I was like, 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:44.600 where's this mandate coming from? Because I had a lot 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:46.320 of questions. Whenever you tell me anything, I have a 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:49.160 lot of questions. So I was like, I'm gonna follow 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:51.400 this to the end because if people are getting digital 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:54.840 bonuses or whatever not on my watch with my footage 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:56.640 and not including me in this. So I said Andrew, 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:58.840 where the hell is this coming from? He said, uh me, 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:01.640 And then I was like, oh, then absolutely not, definitely not. 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:06.520 And now he's not coming in for the fuckcast. So Andrew, 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:07.240 we think seven. 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:07.480 And a half. 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:10.440 Yeah, tap dancing on eight, tap. 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:12.239 Dancing on eight, which for Andrew, I think that's a lot. 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:12.680 Yeah. 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:13.160 Yeah. 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:15.919 You can tell when Andy Andy Kan gets mad because 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:17.919 his no shells flair a little bit and you won't 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.720 look you dead in the eye. It's fine, No, it's fine, 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:24.040 this is fine, it's fine. I don't care. He in 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:28.600 fact cares, he does in fact care, And I actually 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:30.320 think this is a podcast he would want to be 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:33.480 in on, because this one's gonna revolve around our lovely 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:38.400 Abbigail Hi hi, Hi, Okay, So Abby is you are 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:39.920 the newest member to the team. 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:41.680 Yes, she is. 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:45.640 Our head of digital, which, yeah, of course you are. 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:49.600 I don't really, I don't really know what my title is. Honestly, 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:50.480 join the club. 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.240 Nobody knows here, Diamond. What's your title? 0:02:53.320 --> 0:02:53.799 I don't know? 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:59.120 Are you a phone producer? You do seventeen other things? 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:02.240 Right like A I don't know what mine is. I 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:04.160 know it says co host, but I also know I 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.639 do a bunch of other things. So where you are 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:09.359 our for the show? You're our head of digital? 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:12.000 Amazing and you do a really good job. Thank you, Yeah, 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:12.440 thank you. 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:14.520 But you're so quiet, nobody knows you. 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:15.680 So that's for the best. 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.399 You are the last in my quest to get everybody 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:23.239 who doesn't have a microphone on the podcast. 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:24.560 My god, thank you for having me. 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:26.600 Thank you for coming because I think you're nervous. Are 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:27.040 you nervous? 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:29.280 Yeah, I just I was saying, I don't think I'm 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:32.520 interesting enough to talk for like more than three minutes. 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:35.480 This is the lie, Abby, I find it incredibly interesting. 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:37.760 So I wrote down things to know about have fun. 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:40.720 Oh my god, and correct. 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:41.040 Me on any of these. 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:45.240 Okay, she loves to sleep. I love to sleep the. 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:48.480 Other day, yes or no? Did you sleep from approximately 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:51.800 eleven pm? No, eight pm to four. 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:53.080 It was eleven pm to four pm. 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.360 Eleven pm to four pm. 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:56.640 Our Abby, it's clinical. 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:58.960 It's clinical. You did say you did get up and 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:00.000 eat something right and go back? 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.800 And I did. I got up around like one thirty twoish, 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:04.960 and I was like rough for the day, like so early. 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:08.040 I feel like a morning person. And I go to 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:10.480 eat breakfast sitting on the couch, and then I fell 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:12.080 asleep on a couch until four. 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:15.320 But this is pretty typical behavior for you. Yeah, to sleep. 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:17.520 I love to sleep, and sometimes it doesn't even feel 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.800 like an option. Sometimes it's just like I have to 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:23.279 or I could die. Yeah, you know. I think what 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:25.600 I've learned from traveling with the show is that you 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:28.279 all require a lot less sleep than I do. Like 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.480 it would be it'd be like almost one am, and 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:32.360 they're like, okay, so breakfast at eight, And I was like, 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:33.360 are you crazy? 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:37.039 And fuck you all? Because nobody wants to do Yeah, 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:38.640 that is sort of it's sort of a bad habit. 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:40.680 I think that we all have picked up Dan. Y'all 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:45.320 will sleep in Scary will sleep in Elvis. I believe 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:48.719 maybe part vampire, because not only does he not sleep in, 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:51.080 he rages the most out of everybody. 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:53.039 I envy that though, like I want, I want to 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:54.560 be that way. I feel like I miss so much 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:59.320 when I'm unconscious or just like opportunities of nothing else. 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:03.080 And then I think I wake up pretty much shortly 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:04.880 after him. But we are all early birds. We have 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.160 to be able. We wake up for this damn job 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:10.320 every morning. What time do you wake up for the job? Abby? 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:12.800 My alarm goes off at five twenty five am. 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:15.000 Okay, time all the time. You wake up. 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:22.160 Four okay four fifteen if I'm pushing it. Oooh yeah, 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:23.040 I've been pushing it. 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.120 I wake up at three fifty. No, oh, well, because 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.880 I get here early. I like to come in here 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:29.760 and like there's it's not that I like to I 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:31.800 have to come in here, and when I want to 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:33.640 do things, I have to do them by myself because 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:35.559 as soon as you guys know, as soon as people 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:37.840 come in game over, you can't really focus and get 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:39.640 things done. Yeah, because it's a good time. This is 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:42.679 a fun atmosphere, but you're not gonna be productive, that's true. 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:44.880 So I try and get here in the like wee 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:46.920 hours of the morning when only like the creatures of 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:48.559 the station for around here. 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:49.599 Some time you go to bed. 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:54.159 That is a topic of h bad news for me. 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:57.520 I try. I've been really trying to go to bed 0:05:57.560 --> 0:06:00.680 by nine thirty. That it doesn't work and hitting around 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:03.240 like eleven, which I go is awful. But I will 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:05.400 nap when I go home. Okay, that's good for a 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.560 short amount of time. I'm also sure not great for 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:08.120 your heart rhythm. 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:09.279 No, it's horrible. 0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:12.760 Yeah, it's horrible. Shut up, Diamond I know it. You're 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:13.440 a sleeper too. 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:16.240 I'm not like that, not like Abby. 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:20.000 I wish I am in the bed by eight o'clock 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:20.600 every day. 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:23.280 You're in your bed at eight in the bed. 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:24.320 The sun is still a bit. 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:26.680 I mostly a too in it. 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:28.159 I'm in it. I'm committed. 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:30.960 But now that Love Island is back, I can't go 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:34.200 to sleep until at least nine. It's serious. Yeah, I 0:06:34.279 --> 0:06:37.400 got Yeah, no sleep, no rest for the wicked. 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:40.680 It Diamond has been trying to get me to watch 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:44.040 Love Island for ever. I will try it. I'll try it. 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:46.560 I'm just really bad with TV, Like I try to 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:48.520 get into stuff and then I just find myself zoning 0:06:48.520 --> 0:06:50.720 out and looking at everything else and doing everything else, 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:51.120 and I'm being like. 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:52.799 What happened the reality TV? 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:53.200 Is? 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:54.159 That's what it's for? 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:55.760 Reality? 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:56.359 No? 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:59.919 These are there are cameras on these people all day lost. 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:07.080 Yeah, I really need to get into the season because 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:09.480 I also need to watch season six because that was 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:12.000 everyone's favorite. But I last one that I watched fully 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:14.080 was US season five, and I loved it, So I 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:14.520 need to. 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:19.040 Wait you back into it five. So there's US and ukkay. 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.600 UK, there's Australia there's sorry. 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.720 They got like islands everywhere South Africa. 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:26.960 Yeah, they get it popping, all right, So I will 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:30.400 try one episode to get myself hocked. Do you guys 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:32.280 think about it and tell me which season I should 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:32.720 start watching? 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:35.480 Probably six, and I haven't even seen six, but I 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.040 know that that's everyone's like favorite, which is why I'm 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:40.160 only like two episodes into season six and I already 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:40.880 really enjoy it. 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:44.120 The issue is is that going like going back to 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:49.480 watch can be boring, right, especially as someone who hasn't 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:51.880 watched Gandhi's never watched before. I think the best thing 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:54.200 for you to do is just start where everyone is 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:57.480 right now, right now, honestly, because then you open up Twitter, 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:01.400 you open up threads. Now has like full threads. It's 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:03.880 the funniest shit on the planet, just to see what everybody. 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:06.000 And we're all watching in real time too, so we're 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:07.960 all like posting at the same time. 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:09.720 We're watching it as a family. 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:12.840 Oh wow, Okay, so it's like a team event bonding 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:16.840 expl Okay, So Abby loves to sleep. Abby is of 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:17.880 Palestinian descent. 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:19.760 She is, she is, That's true. 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:21.760 How are you holding up these days? 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:27.080 I mean pretty well. I'm because I recognize that I 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:30.520 have a lot of privilege in the situation, my family 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:33.920 getting out in time, and the privilege that comes with 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:37.880 having a white father and white last name. Most of 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:40.040 my family got out in the seventies, but we still 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:42.440 have some family there. Thankfully they're safe. But it is 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:46.480 really scary and sad it is to see what is 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:46.920 going on. 0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:49.240 I have a lot to say about it. You already 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:51.000 know how I feel about this. It's crazy, but I 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:52.760 feel like that's such an important part of you and 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:56.199 who you are and what you are living with. Yeah, daily, 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:59.520 at least what's on your mind daily? Okay, she is 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:04.600 a gorgeous and single, that's true. Single as a pringle. 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:06.640 Single as a pringle, Like, we don't even have a 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:08.880 side piece, there's no hotation, there's nothing going on. 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:10.760 I really try to explain to people that, Like, when 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.280 I describe like being single, I'm like, no, I don't 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:15.920 even look at someone, like, we don't even I'm not 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:18.240 even in the vicinity of a man, Like why I 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:21.840 don't want Why would I do that? I just I don't. 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:23.400 Why would I mingle with my enemy? 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:28.360 Yeah? Exactly. So, Yeah, single for me is very different 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:29.480 than single for a lot of. 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:32.440 People, Devin, why are you tuckling like the demon that 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:32.920 you are? 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:36.440 Because Abby when she speaks about men, it's just so funny. 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:37.320 It's hilarious. 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:39.319 Abay straight, she is into men, but at the same 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:40.079 time she hates them. 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:42.120 Yeah, absolutely saying that. 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:43.080 Yeah, I love it. 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:45.840 That's why she's a very fine line the feelings that 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:49.200 I like, nobody does it like that, but she's like 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:50.120 just horrible. 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:53.400 I just don't really hold back these days, and maybe 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:55.240 I should because some people get really upset about it. 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:56.840 But I think if you're getting upset about. 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:58.600 It, you're proving the point. 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:00.880 Yeah, is the call coming from INSI the house? Because like, 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:04.160 there are men that I'm not talking about. It's it's 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:07.439 and it's not even it's not specific people as much 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:10.160 as it is the collective. 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:12.360 Group. 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:14.719 And just like I don't know, ideology is the way 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.199 they've been raised, the way that they function in society. 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:19.160 It just things they feel okay saying out loud, the. 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:21.120 Things I feel okay saying out with saying the way 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:25.480 that I have to hear some of them much older 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:27.280 than me to speak, and I'm like, that's so cool. 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:29.240 I had this realization when I was thirteen years old, 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:34.520 So I'm glad that you're just discovering empathy in your fifties. 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:36.560 Like eat a mushroom and you will have discovered this 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:41.559 decades ago. So abby, Are you okay? Are you looking 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:43.520 to date someone? Would you? Are you in the mindset 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:44.200 of dating anyone? 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:48.640 I think I'm just kind of like, if it happens, 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:51.160 I wouldn't push it away. I'd explore it. But I'm 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:53.040 not like actively searching. 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:54.640 So you're not only any dating apps right now? 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.400 No, Okay, I was for a minute, and then it 0:10:57.520 --> 0:11:00.600 just I was like, this is this is a humuily ritual, 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:02.640 is what this is? So let me get out of 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:04.760 here and enjoy my life. 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.520 Hinge, Okay, what was so bad about? Please tell me, 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:10.320 Please regale me with your horrible experience, because Diamond isn't 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:12.199 me with a couple of hers, and it makes me chuckle. 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:15.040 And I feel like I haven't liked I will say 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:17.839 I haven't for the most part, haven't had like really 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:20.920 horrible experiences. Most of them have just been like just 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:24.800 a waste of my time. And I'm so busy. Sorry, 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:25.800 I just put my face on this. 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:27.480 Fine people do it all the time. 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:30.560 I'm so busy. I work so much that my time 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:32.760 is so precious to me, and the thought of spending 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:35.880 it with a man, I mean, you could really end 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:38.040 the sentence there, but like a man from the internet 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:40.439 that I don't know that I don't care about that, like. 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:44.559 You may try to kill you, yeah exactly or not. 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:47.280 And just like there was there are people who I've 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:49.880 like started talking to and like they initiated it and 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:51.320 they were like, we should go out, and then I 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:52.960 just like never heard from them again, and I was like, 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.920 so like, why would you even suggest it in the 0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:56.439 first place. 0:11:57.200 --> 0:12:01.120 Why are you wasting my time? Yeah, so I'm just 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:04.880 I'm just like, I don't okay, But I mean is 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:06.880 single and she's a babe by the way, absolutely Sketch 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:09.920 Diamond is as well. Diamond just is sitting here with 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:23.640 her arms crossed, like completely and I want to ask 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:25.040 both of you a question. But I will tell you 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:28.360 the one dating app story that I have. I was 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:32.040 on for about five minutes, and two horrible things happened. 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:36.120 The first person that I talked to sent me flowers 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:39.800 to my job on my first day of work. Oh 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.760 so it looks like I sent myself flowers. I'm sure, 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:44.360 because like, who would do that? And they were long 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:47.440 stemmed roses. It was so embarrassing. I was like this, no, 0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:50.319 what icebreaker? I never met the man? 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:52.520 Well, how did he know where you were working? 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:55.760 Because I just moved to Boston and I was bored 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:58.000 in summertime, so I was like, you know, cruising around, 0:12:58.040 --> 0:12:59.240 I'm like, oh, I just moved here for this job, 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.880 blah blah. The job that I had, it's only one building, 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:05.080 so you know where it is roses to me. On 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:07.560 the first day, I was not feeling that. But in 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:09.679 the time that that happened, it was literally like two 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:12.080 days I was on here doing this. I talked to 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:13.600 another boy who I was like, oh, he's so cute, 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:15.120 and he's like, oh my gosh. It was such pretty eyes. 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:17.320 You look like a powerpuff girl. I'm like, oh, that's sweet, 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:19.520 and then he followed it up with I would love 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.040 to see my com dripping off your eyelashes. 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:23.040 Oh my god. 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:26.120 And I was like, you know, between the flowers at 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.599 work and the j's on my face? What happened to 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:29.640 hell days? 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:34.160 What happened are you? What happened to you? Look nice? 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:37.680 The old I can't shots. It was ridiculous. 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:41.360 It's insane, right, like just say you're pretty like the 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:42.920 old classics. They work. 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:45.240 It was a shock. 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:49.080 I felt assaulted, Like yeah, the app. I was like, 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:53.960 oh my god, what creoid? It was like two ends 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:57.880 of the spectrum. Was too much and far too little, 0:13:57.960 --> 0:14:01.520 like what is happening here? So that's why I will 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:03.960 ever use a dating app ever again in my life. 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:07.680 Also there's Brandon, so yeah, that's the thing. I guess. 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:11.000 All right, So to the two of you, my lovely, 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:14.480 beautiful single friends, who I am envious of many times. 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:16.719 I already I know Diamond's answer for the most part, 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:18.200 but I do want to get it again, Abby, build 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:20.800 your dream man? Who is he? 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:24.920 I know there's a brain function. Let's start there. 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:29.360 No, that's like a plant. That's well, wait you have 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:31.760 you have a celebrity crush? I have like so many 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:38.600 get all right now? Gladiator, love him love loveless here 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.320 number one probably okay, who are kind of rotating? 0:14:42.560 --> 0:14:46.560 Oh man, there's just so many. There's him suddenly, I 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:49.200 can't think of any of that. There's Matthew Gray Goobler, 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:50.160 who I love. 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:51.920 I don't know who that is he? 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:54.720 Have you ever seen criminal minds? He looks a little 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:55.520 like emaciated. 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:58.560 Okay, so you like a dainty. 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:00.440 Man fun way and sometimes not all the time, but 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:04.520 sometimes Matthew Grey Googler, Matthew Gray Googler, Okay. 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:09.320 Just like, oh there he is. Oh oh that is 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:11.520 not what I was expecting. He looks straight out of 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:12.160 Harry Potter. 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:14.080 Yeah, okay, have you seen this. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:20.200 Guy now talking about Okay, look hold on scarf and everything, Abigail. 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:23.440 Be for real. 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:27.600 I mean, like the heart wants what it wants. That's 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:29.600 the love of my life and I'll stand behind it. 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:31.640 Looks like his last name will be Googler. 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:36.320 Yeah, exactly, like a little whimsical, a little like he 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:39.240 lives in a treehouse and he like collects teeth. 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:42.000 Cast spells. Yeah, a lot of dungeons and I. 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:43.920 Need to see this in that. 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:46.280 Okay, Matthew Grey Googler, anyone else? 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:50.080 Why am I literally I'm just blanking right now. There 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:51.720 are so many people. 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:53.720 Diamond, we know your while you think about it, you 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:56.760 know your celebrity crushes used to be Carmelo Anthony, but 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:59.840 then you got over that one. Yeah, and Solomon Thomas. 0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:04.000 Yeah, when once they get girlfriends, it kind of takes 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:04.920 the cuteness out of them. 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:07.280 I'm like, okay, you're somebody else's problem now. 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:09.200 So I appreciate that because there are a lot of 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.960 people who go opposite, like a girlfriend now would be 0:16:11.960 --> 0:16:12.680 a creepy like that. 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:22.120 No, I really, no one excites me these days. Maybe 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:23.240 personality wise. 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:28.040 Yeah, personality is way more important if we're being honest. 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:32.360 You know who I think is really funny speedy from 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:36.640 complex I don't know, okay, like the guy who did 0:16:36.640 --> 0:16:38.600 the interview with Glorilla and he was making fun of 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:42.600 the way she said beautiful. Oh okay, okay, Like like he, 0:16:42.800 --> 0:16:46.320 I don't think he's like attractive, but like the his 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:48.760 his personality is cute, okay, like funny. 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:52.720 Should we address the rumors of you and Andrew. 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:54.680 We are getting married. 0:16:54.720 --> 0:16:57.800 They're engaged, they are already, Like. 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:01.440 The rumors can't be if it's a fact, honey. 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:04.080 Everybody's like, I know it. I can see it, the 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:10.399 sexual tension between them and Diamond, right. Somebody was like, 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:11.720 oh my god, are we just going to address that 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:13.040 Diamond has sat cush on Andrew? 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:13.600 Oh my god. 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:16.199 And I read it in that voice obviously, and I 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:19.720 chuckled because I'm like, she bullies this man so badly. 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:23.280 Every exactly like you. 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:26.560 Andrew and I are both asexual, so there is no 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:27.800 sexual tension, you. 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:28.280 Know what I mean? 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:33.600 Did you decide that, yes. 0:17:33.840 --> 0:17:35.760 I got I got a man. I wish he wasn't 0:17:35.760 --> 0:17:38.400 an eight mad at me right now because I got 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:45.320 a whole story about the way he lost his virginity 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:47.960 and the girl left the school. 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:50.840 She left the school. 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:57.920 Diamond is cackling. Yeah, apparently school also not sure. Come 0:17:57.920 --> 0:17:59.520 in here and talk about it, because again he's eight 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:00.800 mad at me right now. 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:03.399 And he's mad and then you're like, hey, will you 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:05.280 come in and talk about how you lost your virginity 0:18:05.280 --> 0:18:08.159 to this girl? And then she literally fled. She fled 0:18:08.160 --> 0:18:09.359 the premises he fled. 0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:11.680 Okay, So did you think about any more of your. 0:18:12.560 --> 0:18:14.960 Sometimes I'll think of them like as we get little 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:17.760 like notifications for who's coming in. 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:20.880 Okay, oh oh he's here, he came in. Okay, sit 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:23.040 over there at that microphone and you're gonna, oh, no, 0:18:23.080 --> 0:18:25.720 sit at Nate's microphone because they turned Daniell's down real 0:18:25.800 --> 0:18:27.440 quietly because she's so loud. It's so funny. 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:29.280 You look so defeated, are you, okay? 0:18:31.400 --> 0:18:33.120 Andrew on a scale of one to ten. How mad 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:34.160 are you at me right now? 0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:35.440 Why would I be mad? 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:36.439 Oh? 0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:37.440 They said eight? 0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:39.640 What? Why would I be at an eat? 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:42.080 Because of the videos? Because I said, I didn't want 0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:50.280 to record this for a video. Oh there you are, okay, Andrew? 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:52.720 Did Diamond tell you why we wanted you in here? 0:18:52.920 --> 0:18:53.360 No? 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:57.160 Okay. So we were talking about Abby being single, Diamond 0:18:57.200 --> 0:18:59.560 being single, what their dream guy is, and then I said, 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:01.840 would you like to address the rumors about you and Andrew 0:19:02.000 --> 0:19:04.560 because everybody's always saying how she's in love with you? Right, 0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:08.200 there's this love thing. And then Diamond said, Andrew and 0:19:08.280 --> 0:19:12.280 I are both asexual, and I said, does Andrew identify 0:19:12.280 --> 0:19:14.320 as asexual? Because I got a story about the way 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:17.360 he lost his virginity the other day and now she 0:19:17.440 --> 0:19:20.600 really needs look at her. She needs to do. 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:24.320 It was college. 0:19:24.440 --> 0:19:26.680 Wait, first of all, are you okay sharing this story? 0:19:26.800 --> 0:19:27.040 Sure? 0:19:27.080 --> 0:19:28.720 Okay, we don't need the first and last name that 0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:29.119 you gave me. 0:19:29.160 --> 0:19:36.440 No, she was like, I'm sad. 0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:40.439 She so, I never thought that she would actually go 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:42.720 for me in any way, shape or form. But it's 0:19:42.880 --> 0:19:47.800 I guess college and everybody is just exploring, exploring things 0:19:47.840 --> 0:19:50.760 and she explored and I. One day we were drinking 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:54.199 and I got dragged into her room and then she 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:57.240 literally like threw me on the bed, like she was 0:19:57.359 --> 0:19:59.880 very forceful, and I just kind of was sitting there 0:19:59.920 --> 0:20:04.960 like okay, okay. 0:20:04.760 --> 0:20:07.240 And that's that's about it. And when it was over, 0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:10.840 I was kind of like okay, I just like walked out. 0:20:17.680 --> 0:20:19.639 Am not seeing Diamond left this hard? 0:20:20.080 --> 0:20:23.480 Maybe Yeah, I was. 0:20:25.080 --> 0:20:27.560 Just kind of stunned that it was all happening, because, 0:20:27.880 --> 0:20:29.719 like I said, I never thought that she would be 0:20:29.720 --> 0:20:31.879 into me because she was a babe. She was a 0:20:31.920 --> 0:20:34.760 babe and like I'm not gonna nab that. And then 0:20:34.920 --> 0:20:37.840 she like then just the next thing I know, I'm 0:20:37.880 --> 0:20:43.200 just sitting like, oh wow, Oh. 0:20:43.119 --> 0:20:45.320 So that's crazy because everyone that I know is obsessed 0:20:45.359 --> 0:20:47.960 with you. Like my friends that have met him once 0:20:48.160 --> 0:20:49.720 texted me in a group chat last week when we 0:20:49.720 --> 0:20:52.160 were all going to the Greek Festival together and they said, 0:20:52.240 --> 0:20:53.960 give Andrew a forehead kiss for me. 0:20:54.280 --> 0:20:57.119 Oh see, I feel it's more of just like a 0:20:57.119 --> 0:20:59.640 little cute thing. This one was like when you gotta 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:02.480 get down like the business, I don't think that area 0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:06.119 is necessarily where people would be like, yeah, him literally 0:21:07.040 --> 0:21:08.040 the person would be there. 0:21:09.040 --> 0:21:10.000 I almost love that man. 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:13.000 Now, So start to finish. From the time you were 0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:14.639 dragged into the room, was there any conversation? 0:21:15.640 --> 0:21:19.119 It was literally just like I remember just getting like 0:21:19.240 --> 0:21:20.080 dragged in. 0:21:20.080 --> 0:21:22.920 By which like dragged by a hand by your throat. 0:21:22.960 --> 0:21:25.400 How did she drag you? It was like dead body. 0:21:25.200 --> 0:21:29.920 By your like very forceful, like when I say, like 0:21:29.920 --> 0:21:31.879 like up against the wall. 0:21:32.040 --> 0:21:33.760 It was like a like again. 0:21:33.680 --> 0:21:34.960 Was she a large woman? No? 0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:36.560 Okay, Like I. 0:21:36.640 --> 0:21:40.400 Was in there and I just wow, wow wowow in there? 0:21:40.480 --> 0:21:46.760 Literally Okay, So that start to finish. How long was 0:21:46.800 --> 0:21:47.560 this entire thing? 0:21:48.080 --> 0:21:48.800 In my head? 0:21:49.000 --> 0:21:54.200 It felt like it was like romantic passionate, But in total, 0:21:54.280 --> 0:21:56.439 I think probably two minutes. 0:22:02.240 --> 0:22:04.119 In my head it was romantic and passionate. But then 0:22:04.160 --> 0:22:06.280 he was also like and I was like okay. 0:22:07.520 --> 0:22:09.920 Because I just there's so much was swirling around and 0:22:09.960 --> 0:22:12.520 I'm like wow, wow, wow, wow. 0:22:14.520 --> 0:22:14.960 Wow. 0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:16.480 And then you just got up and walked out of 0:22:16.480 --> 0:22:19.800 the room. Yep. And then what happened to this lovely 0:22:19.960 --> 0:22:22.320 woman and the rest of your time together? 0:22:22.600 --> 0:22:24.840 Uh, literally it was like it never happened. It was 0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:28.440 never spoken of, never and she was the room next 0:22:28.480 --> 0:22:32.040 to my room. Oh yeah, and I remember also, this 0:22:32.160 --> 0:22:34.080 is just a side part to it that I remember 0:22:34.200 --> 0:22:40.280 was weird. At the moment, her roommate like maybe walked 0:22:40.320 --> 0:22:42.840 in for a second, which I feel bad because that 0:22:42.920 --> 0:22:47.600 girl did not deserve that. Her roommate was the sweetest person. 0:22:47.720 --> 0:22:51.160 She was stuck with this looney and we were all like, oh, no, 0:22:51.480 --> 0:22:53.400 not her. And then in my head, I'm like, oh no, 0:22:53.480 --> 0:22:55.640 not you love it. 0:22:56.600 --> 0:22:59.639 So did this person or did they not leave the 0:22:59.640 --> 0:23:01.000 school after this encounter? 0:23:01.160 --> 0:23:03.880 Yes, they left the No, No they didn't. They left 0:23:03.920 --> 0:23:08.040 the school like the year after I was gone. They 0:23:08.119 --> 0:23:10.560 like left mid semester. But they had a whole sketchy 0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:14.000 past history, Like they were saying that their family owned 0:23:14.040 --> 0:23:17.359 like penthouses, boats, yachts, you name it. Like she was 0:23:17.480 --> 0:23:19.920 rich and came from New York money. And then when 0:23:19.920 --> 0:23:21.679 it came down to it, my friend like went to 0:23:21.720 --> 0:23:23.520 her house and was like, why are we in the 0:23:23.520 --> 0:23:25.240 middle of the suburbs, Like I thought you lived in 0:23:25.240 --> 0:23:28.400 a penthouse. It's like, oh, no, it's getting cleaned. Oh 0:23:28.440 --> 0:23:30.560 apparently it was getting cleaned quite often because no one. 0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:30.919 Ever saw it. 0:23:33.200 --> 0:23:34.960 So your dinger didn't drive her to another school. 0:23:34.960 --> 0:23:36.080 It wasn't that it wasn't ing. 0:23:36.320 --> 0:23:38.160 It was other things. Yeah, oh, thank you for sharing 0:23:38.200 --> 0:23:38.680 your story. 0:23:38.800 --> 0:23:44.760 Maybe perhaps something diagnosable. Yeah, you have made Diamond's day. 0:23:45.440 --> 0:23:47.760 Between him this story and Love Island. 0:23:47.840 --> 0:23:50.520 I wanna high. 0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:54.120 I'm happy you could do. Now. Your sister is going 0:23:54.119 --> 0:23:55.960 to be listening to this podcast, right, yep? Does she 0:23:56.040 --> 0:23:56.879 know the story already? 0:23:57.000 --> 0:23:57.119 No? 0:23:57.400 --> 0:24:02.240 Oh, welcome to your brother's life. 0:24:02.960 --> 0:24:03.800 Sorry, Jackie. 0:24:05.640 --> 0:24:08.560 Thanks Andrew, you have a bunch of other stuff that 0:24:08.560 --> 0:24:10.000 you have to get into unless you want to stick around. 0:24:10.000 --> 0:24:10.600 We'd love to have you si. 0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:19.040 I think, just like that instance, I'm gonna go, Okay. 0:24:17.720 --> 0:24:20.280 You brought the thunder and I appreciate that. Andrew. 0:24:20.320 --> 0:24:26.160 Everybody see, that's more interesting than anything I'm gonna say 0:24:26.200 --> 0:24:28.359 in the next I don't know for many minutes. 0:24:28.160 --> 0:24:29.560 I don't know. I think you have a lot of 0:24:29.560 --> 0:24:32.639 interesting stuff about you. So okay, now let's build your 0:24:32.680 --> 0:24:34.440 dream man brain function number one. 0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:36.159 Well, yeah, I guess what I mean by that is like, 0:24:37.040 --> 0:24:40.440 like you have to know, you have to know, you 0:24:40.480 --> 0:24:46.040 have to like understand and grasp what anything like just 0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:49.880 truly anything, but like I like, emotional intelligence is definitely 0:24:50.400 --> 0:24:51.479 topping the charts for me. 0:24:51.560 --> 0:24:53.000 You have to that's a huge one. 0:24:53.119 --> 0:24:56.200 I think, like, I just I can't, like I said, 0:24:56.200 --> 0:24:59.119 I can't speak to somebody who I'm like, this is 0:25:00.119 --> 0:25:02.280 I was here. I was here in middle school, So like, 0:25:02.280 --> 0:25:04.160 why are you? 0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:06.359 You know, maybe you need like an older guy, have 0:25:06.400 --> 0:25:10.120 you thought, Googler, he's. 0:25:11.440 --> 0:25:12.000 Forty five. 0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:15.600 Oh okay, right there, okay, Matthew Grey Googler, if you 0:25:15.640 --> 0:25:17.040 are single, abby's here. 0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:18.840 I heard he was dating a twenty six year old 0:25:18.840 --> 0:25:21.120 that isn't me, and that's devastating. 0:25:21.440 --> 0:25:22.359 This is trash. 0:25:22.400 --> 0:25:24.679 So I mean, like, all the luck to them, but 0:25:24.960 --> 0:25:25.280 because he. 0:25:25.240 --> 0:25:26.399 Hasn't met you yet, it's true. 0:25:26.600 --> 0:25:27.359 Get him in here. 0:25:28.240 --> 0:25:30.840 We should. Oh my god. So I was thinking about 0:25:30.880 --> 0:25:33.200 how I could wield this podcast for my own personal benefit, 0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:35.000 and I think that these are the things we need 0:25:35.040 --> 0:25:37.120 to do. Like guys do it all the time, don't 0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:39.399 they Where they're like, hey, you want to be on 0:25:39.440 --> 0:25:41.080 my show? Yeah, and then boom, all of a sudden, 0:25:41.080 --> 0:25:43.240 they're dating someone. I think we should start doing that 0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:46.359 with a podcast, be more strategic. Matthew Grey Googler. 0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:49.280 I think you're a really fun host or a guest. 0:25:49.320 --> 0:25:51.840 I mean you're the host. I don't wow, just get 0:25:51.880 --> 0:25:52.640 rid of me that quickly. 0:25:53.240 --> 0:25:54.520 I think we can get him in here if you 0:25:54.560 --> 0:25:55.960 if you want to track that down, if he's ever 0:25:56.000 --> 0:25:59.040 doing any promotion, he's in the let's bring him in here. 0:25:59.119 --> 0:25:59.560 Let's do it. 0:26:00.160 --> 0:26:03.439 He's single, and we're not gonna be home wreckersity, but 0:26:03.440 --> 0:26:04.840 I would love for both of you to wield this 0:26:04.880 --> 0:26:06.760 podcast to do whatever you want with your lives. 0:26:07.080 --> 0:26:07.760 It's amazing. 0:26:08.200 --> 0:26:10.440 Well, I have to find someone I think is attractive first, 0:26:10.520 --> 0:26:11.960 and that's. 0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:15.280 The other part of the Yeah, okay, so so far, 0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:19.240 Abbey needs you to be breathing and a full functioning 0:26:19.400 --> 0:26:22.760 like intelligent, intelligent, emotionally intelligent. 0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:23.480 That's a big deal. 0:26:23.960 --> 0:26:27.520 I need you to be thoughtful as a person. 0:26:28.119 --> 0:26:28.560 You're asking. 0:26:29.000 --> 0:26:30.960 I know, that's the thing. It's really hard. I feel 0:26:31.000 --> 0:26:34.080 like I just I don't know, like consider someone else. 0:26:34.680 --> 0:26:36.720 Yeah, that's a big one. That's I know. That's really 0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:39.199 important to Diamond. We talked about that. Health alfulness is 0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:40.320 like top of your list, and. 0:26:40.280 --> 0:26:44.040 They lack and it's horrible. 0:26:54.400 --> 0:26:55.760 Do you think you're a thoughtful person? 0:26:56.840 --> 0:26:57.080 Yeah? 0:26:57.200 --> 0:26:58.359 Yeah, I think you are too abby. 0:26:58.440 --> 0:27:00.479 Do you think you're I think I'm a really thoughtful person. 0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:03.480 I think that's one of my best qualities. Honestly, not 0:27:03.520 --> 0:27:06.720 to toot my own horn, but I sometimes to, like 0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:09.600 a really negative extent, where then I just completely disregard 0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:10.359 my own well being. 0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:11.439 But let's not do that. 0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:14.600 Yeah, I try not to, but I do think I'm 0:27:14.600 --> 0:27:16.920 a really thoughtful person, and so when that's not reciprocated, 0:27:17.000 --> 0:27:19.000 even like a little bit, it doesn't, I'm. 0:27:18.880 --> 0:27:21.040 Just kind of like just mad shaking your fist at 0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:21.359 the sky. 0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:26.560 I'm just like, this is upsetting. What else? Little things 0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:28.520 like you need to be nice to wait staff. If 0:27:28.560 --> 0:27:29.080 you're not. 0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:30.080 Little, that's big. 0:27:30.160 --> 0:27:32.439 Yeah, I mean you're basically ahole. 0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:33.399 It's true, very important. 0:27:33.400 --> 0:27:35.520 If you're rude to wait staff, it's gonna immediately know. 0:27:38.520 --> 0:27:44.240 Looks wise, I'm pretty open minded, guys. He's so pretty. 0:27:44.720 --> 0:27:51.920 I think he's a gorgeous, gorgeous, tall, lanky being. I don't. 0:27:53.560 --> 0:27:56.320 Is the word for him. She loves it. 0:27:57.240 --> 0:27:59.800 Yeah, I love him. You guys need to watch Criminal Minds. 0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:01.920 I'm see what I see what I see. 0:28:02.560 --> 0:28:04.560 When do you have the time between working and sleeping 0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:05.520 to watch any TV? 0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:08.520 I know sometimes I watch it on the train or 0:28:08.600 --> 0:28:09.560 when I'm on the treadmill. 0:28:09.840 --> 0:28:12.240 Okay, good for you. Okay, so you think your best 0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:15.080 qualities are that you're thoughtful. What else we're selling? 0:28:16.200 --> 0:28:20.040 I think I'm thoughtful. I think I'm that's kind of 0:28:20.040 --> 0:28:20.600 the same thing. 0:28:21.600 --> 0:28:23.720 Well, we're gonna say caring, but like, no, I think 0:28:23.720 --> 0:28:25.280 those are different. Okay, you can be very caring and 0:28:25.320 --> 0:28:25.879 not be thoughtful. 0:28:25.920 --> 0:28:26.320 That's true. 0:28:26.400 --> 0:28:29.320 Yeah, I think I'm thoughtful and consider it carrying all 0:28:29.359 --> 0:28:33.520 of those things. I think I'm emotionally intelligent, and I 0:28:33.560 --> 0:28:37.960 think I'm really open minded and understanding and a good listener. 0:28:38.400 --> 0:28:41.040 I would say all those things about you. So yeah, Like, 0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:45.520 what's the hold up, Fellas, we're you at Matthew gray Googler. 0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:47.640 We are talking to you? 0:28:48.120 --> 0:28:49.960 Is this is my message in a bottle. It's Matthew 0:28:49.960 --> 0:28:50.520 grey Googler. 0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:54.960 If you if somehow in the world this works out, 0:28:55.320 --> 0:28:56.560 can I please come to your wedd. 0:28:56.480 --> 0:28:58.840 Absolutely you can officiate it. 0:28:58.880 --> 0:29:02.200 Oh my god, Now, Diamond, what do you think are 0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:04.440 your best qualities? We always talk about what you're looking 0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:06.280 for in someone else, But what's good about you? I 0:29:06.320 --> 0:29:07.640 know what I think is good about you? What do 0:29:07.680 --> 0:29:08.560 you think is good about you? 0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:11.360 I think above anything else I'm entertaining you are And 0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:11.960 that's true. 0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:18.040 High I'm easy to talk to. From what I've heard. Okay, yeah, 0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:20.000 that's about it. I can't. 0:29:20.040 --> 0:29:22.120 I don't entertaining and easy to talk to. That's your 0:29:22.120 --> 0:29:28.800 whole self. It's like, haha, I think you're much more 0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:29.200 than that. 0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:30.320 Well, thank you. 0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:32.520 I think you're a hard worker. 0:29:33.520 --> 0:29:34.400 Yeah, but who wants that. 0:29:35.080 --> 0:29:36.160 I think that's really important. 0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:38.400 Honestly, Ambition is really important to yeah. 0:29:38.560 --> 0:29:40.680 Guys, not just ambition, but being able to go get it. 0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:43.880 Guys say that, but it's not really a big deal 0:29:43.920 --> 0:29:44.600 to most of them. 0:29:44.880 --> 0:29:46.440 That's true that we are women. 0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:49.040 Yeah, we like I like a hard working guy, an 0:29:49.040 --> 0:29:51.240 ambitious guy. But I don't really think. I think men 0:29:51.280 --> 0:29:55.600 are conditioned to they don't care about that. They say 0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:57.400 that they do, but a lot of the times they 0:29:57.440 --> 0:30:00.640 resent women who are hard working and ambitious. So it's like, 0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:03.959 we gotta be honest. Oh I'm honest. 0:30:04.120 --> 0:30:05.240 Oh yeah that's true. 0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:05.720 We like it. 0:30:08.240 --> 0:30:10.040 Yeah, that's true. It's good. 0:30:10.160 --> 0:30:12.560 No, I appreciate it. I know that you're I know 0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:15.440 that you're not gonna You're not gonna lie if I 0:30:15.480 --> 0:30:19.480 ask you a question, clock which I really appreciate, and 0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:20.840 I know how to leave you alone. 0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:23.520 Okay, yolo, but you're not gonna get a cooker. 0:30:23.560 --> 0:30:25.760 You're not gonna get a cleaner. Don't get excited. It's 0:30:25.800 --> 0:30:26.480 not gonna happen. 0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:28.280 But you're gonna get a lot of fun. Yeah, and 0:30:28.280 --> 0:30:28.840 that's important. 0:30:28.880 --> 0:30:29.480 That's what matters. 0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:32.680 I actually think. Listen, the fun outweighs like I can 0:30:32.680 --> 0:30:34.640 cook and clean as I can hire people to cook 0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:37.520 and clean, So I can't hire someone that makes me 0:30:37.600 --> 0:30:39.480 laugh and I have fun with. I would take you, 0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:39.840 and you. 0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:44.280 Could, but it'd be difficult. It's like personal comedian. 0:30:43.960 --> 0:30:46.440 Who I don't know where do they even exist? 0:30:46.560 --> 0:30:48.360 I don't know. Maybe they're on like task rabbit. 0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:52.000 Hi, I need a personal comedian, learn me and make 0:30:52.040 --> 0:30:53.400 me laugh good. 0:30:53.320 --> 0:30:54.600 Spend all of your time with me. 0:30:54.960 --> 0:30:58.400 I read that more and more women are lying on 0:30:58.520 --> 0:31:01.760 dating apps about their level of success because it apparently 0:31:01.880 --> 0:31:04.680 drives men away if they are too successful. And it 0:31:04.680 --> 0:31:07.360 makes me laugh because this goes all the way back 0:31:07.400 --> 0:31:09.640 to an episode of the original Sex of the City 0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:13.840 where Miranda was on a speed dating thing. You remember this, yes, 0:31:14.040 --> 0:31:15.640 And every time she said she was a lawyer, the 0:31:15.640 --> 0:31:18.440 guy's tapped out, stopped being interested whatever. But as soon 0:31:18.440 --> 0:31:21.959 as she was like, I'm a flight it, she got 0:31:22.040 --> 0:31:25.560 all the masses interesting. Yeah, and on the flip side. 0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:27.920 The guy that she ended up matching with said he 0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:31.240 was a doctor and he was not a doctor. He 0:31:31.360 --> 0:31:33.440 lied up and she lied down. And I do think 0:31:33.440 --> 0:31:34.440 that that's happening a lot. 0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:37.400 Oh yeah for su. Yeah, people are very vague. 0:31:37.200 --> 0:31:41.640 About what they do on the apps, and some people 0:31:41.720 --> 0:31:43.360 make it seem like it's because they don't want people 0:31:43.400 --> 0:31:44.840 in their business. But I think a lot of the 0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:49.160 people are just lying, like, oh, I work in healthcare okay, 0:31:49.200 --> 0:31:50.880 and what do you do in healthcare? Right? 0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:52.400 Like you're over the counter GenZ. 0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:56.600 Literally, I'm kind of signing people into the emergency room. 0:31:56.680 --> 0:31:57.240 Just be honest. 0:31:57.400 --> 0:31:59.200 At my gym, there's someone that buzzes you in when 0:31:59.200 --> 0:32:01.000 you get there that could be healthcare. 0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:03.960 Yeah, come on, true, I feel like I'm going to 0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:08.280 expose myself with this hack yest tip. Yes, it's pretty 0:32:08.280 --> 0:32:11.560 easy to find people, not like physically find them, but 0:32:11.680 --> 0:32:14.920 find damn like find more about them online just based 0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:16.560 on their hinge profile, even if they only have a 0:32:16.560 --> 0:32:20.280 few things filled out. LinkedIn is a secret tool, especially 0:32:20.280 --> 0:32:23.280 if they have their college listed and they have their 0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:26.160 job listed. You just search their first name and you 0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:27.880 put in where they went to school, you put in 0:32:27.960 --> 0:32:30.600 new York or whatever city you're in. It works for 0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:31.280 me every time. 0:32:31.400 --> 0:32:33.320 Okay, good for you. 0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:35.440 I just sometimes I'm like, again, I don't want to 0:32:35.440 --> 0:32:37.680 waste my time. I need to go see especially if 0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:44.080 they don't have like political affiliation on their profile. Yeah right, 0:32:44.400 --> 0:32:46.719 I'm gonna go look through your followers on Twitter, like, 0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:48.880 what do you tweet about? 0:32:49.040 --> 0:32:50.160 What are you liking? 0:32:50.200 --> 0:32:50.760 What are you like? 0:32:50.840 --> 0:32:52.720 It me see one like for Candice Owens. Let me 0:32:52.720 --> 0:32:54.000 see it. 0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:57.760 It has saved me from conversations that I don't think 0:32:57.840 --> 0:33:01.160 I that would have been pretty diod for me to have. Okay, 0:33:01.200 --> 0:33:03.320 good for you, So you can check it. You can 0:33:03.400 --> 0:33:05.360 check them out if you don't think they're being honest, 0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:07.040 or tell me, oh, I love finding. 0:33:08.040 --> 0:33:10.000 Always let your friends do the digging. They'll dig way 0:33:10.040 --> 0:33:13.520 deeper and harder and faster, further all these things. 0:33:13.400 --> 0:33:14.240 Than you, guys are. 0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:18.240 You're giving me flashbacks twenty twenty one. Anytime a guy 0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:20.120 tried to match with me that looks like he was 0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:21.440 a little suspicious, I would. 0:33:21.280 --> 0:33:25.080 Say, and where were you on Julius? Did you vote 0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:29.280 for in the last election? Probably why I'm cool? 0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:33.680 Well, apparently one of the biggest cock blocks on dating apps, 0:33:33.720 --> 0:33:34.840 right now I feel like I know a lot about 0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:36.440 the dating apps or someone who's not on one. You 0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:36.880 really do? 0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:37.360 I love this? 0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:38.840 Yeah, give me all the advice. 0:33:38.960 --> 0:33:41.800 Oh yes, ladies, Well I heard that four guys. One 0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:43.800 of the biggest cock blocks is if they put conservative 0:33:43.840 --> 0:33:45.960 in their bio and they're like, no one wants to 0:33:46.000 --> 0:33:46.400 talk to me. 0:33:46.640 --> 0:33:49.640 Yeah, well will let's talk about what if it's not 0:33:49.760 --> 0:33:52.160 the consequences of your own actions exactly? 0:33:52.960 --> 0:33:54.280 And then they have the nerve to do it in 0:33:54.280 --> 0:33:56.960 the middle of New York City, Like I, now, go 0:33:57.200 --> 0:34:00.360 somewhere else, do that somebody would love that. There's not 0:34:00.480 --> 0:34:02.560 someone in the middle of midtown Manhattan. 0:34:02.640 --> 0:34:03.520 This is not the plan. 0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:06.040 There was this one guy who I he didn't have 0:34:06.320 --> 0:34:08.600 anything on his profile, but I forget why, but there 0:34:08.600 --> 0:34:10.279 were other things on his profile to suggest that he 0:34:10.800 --> 0:34:13.960 might be aligned with me, and so I was like 0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:16.520 having a conversation with him, and he dove into this 0:34:16.560 --> 0:34:19.319 whole thing about how we can't really judge anyone because 0:34:19.400 --> 0:34:22.360 his parents are good people, but he doesn't agree with 0:34:22.360 --> 0:34:24.600 who they vote for. And then he told me that 0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:27.640 he wanted to see me in only my glasses and 0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:31.319 as he put it, in my most natural he literally 0:34:31.400 --> 0:34:33.399 said I want to see you in your most natural form. 0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:36.040 And I said, okay, all. 0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:37.680 Right, why is that such a crazy way? 0:34:37.880 --> 0:34:41.360 It's the siest way you could ever hit on someone. 0:34:41.400 --> 0:34:44.759 Don't say that, No, Abby, don't ever say that you 0:34:44.800 --> 0:34:46.719 were with me. We talked about this. I think we 0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:48.400 talked about it on the podcast You were with Me 0:34:49.120 --> 0:34:51.640 when we were all a little too drunk not long ago, 0:34:52.400 --> 0:34:52.919 and we were. 0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:55.160 Medieval times, post medieval times, post medieval times. 0:34:55.200 --> 0:34:56.799 We're all dressed as assholes. 0:34:56.960 --> 0:35:00.239 And I had a pointy little princess hat, yes, which 0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:02.000 he broke. At some point I did break, and then 0:35:02.040 --> 0:35:03.240 I left there on the table. 0:35:03.640 --> 0:35:06.719 I had on a red like handmaid's tail cape, and 0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:08.759 I had blood all over my face because I was 0:35:08.920 --> 0:35:10.759 trying to be a vampire. But as the night went on, 0:35:10.800 --> 0:35:12.840 I think I just looked like a sloppy, drunk TVD. 0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:16.640 We all probably said Josh was just dressed like a peasant, 0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:19.640 and Josh is a massive human, so there was just 0:35:19.680 --> 0:35:21.960 a giant peasant in the mill, and Andrew was a 0:35:22.000 --> 0:35:25.080 gladiator like. It was just all of us forgot that 0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:28.239 we were dressed this way in a basement clerb. It 0:35:28.320 --> 0:35:30.880 was ridiculous, but some boys started talking to me, and 0:35:30.920 --> 0:35:32.240 in my head at the time, I was like, he's cute, 0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:34.359 talk to him whatever, And then he hit me with 0:35:34.840 --> 0:35:37.920 I voted for Donald Trump twice, and Abby, what happened? 0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:40.840 You ran up to us? Actually a few different times 0:35:40.920 --> 0:35:42.960 he ran up to us and you said, he voted 0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:44.480 for Donald Trump twice and we have to go. 0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:48.680 We have to go now, just not putting the guys, 0:35:48.680 --> 0:35:51.359 and he's not going away. He's right here. And Josh 0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:54.400 had some very weird choice words about it, because he's like, 0:35:54.440 --> 0:35:56.120 he's a good looking guyan. I was like, no, no, no, 0:35:56.360 --> 0:36:00.160 Josh in his giant peasant outfit, So, uh, what do 0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:02.560 you want me to do? I was like, I just 0:36:02.560 --> 0:36:03.319 think we should leave. 0:36:03.600 --> 0:36:06.000 You don't have to do anything, just follow me out 0:36:06.000 --> 0:36:06.319 the door. 0:36:06.600 --> 0:36:08.440 Also, at that point, in my head, it was like 0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:11.200 seventeen o'clock. I don't know what time I was girl. Yeah, 0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:13.120 we went back to my apartment, all of us. 0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:15.520 I thought we were in your apartment for like thirty minutes. 0:36:15.600 --> 0:36:18.120 We were there for two hours and hours where I 0:36:18.280 --> 0:36:19.480 sit it died on the floor. 0:36:19.600 --> 0:36:24.000 Yeah, yeah, I didn't see you once, not one time. 0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:25.600 We opened the door. I went to the bathroom, pe 0:36:25.800 --> 0:36:27.200 my guts out, went to sleep on the floor of 0:36:27.200 --> 0:36:29.480 my bathroom sick. Yeah, And they had a good time. 0:36:29.520 --> 0:36:31.040 And I walked out in the morning. And how did 0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:33.560 I know they had a good time Because the crumbs 0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:37.640 they ordered apparently multiple pizzas, and the crumb dust and 0:36:37.719 --> 0:36:39.960 garlic dust of all the pizza was across my couch 0:36:40.120 --> 0:36:41.799 and I didn't even realize until I sat on it. 0:36:44.080 --> 0:36:46.319 Right here, And I think it's hilarious. I really the 0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:48.600 worst part though, is that, like I really thought I was. 0:36:48.880 --> 0:36:51.200 I was like doing everything right because I got this 0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:54.040 napkin and I had it like kind of in a 0:36:54.120 --> 0:36:56.000 bowl on my lap that I was eating over and 0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:57.600 I was like, look at me, all my crumbs are 0:36:57.600 --> 0:37:00.759 going in my napkin, like I'm keeping her couch so clean. Oh, 0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:02.560 I think it was Josh, didn't work. 0:37:02.640 --> 0:37:05.200 I think you and your sister were afterwards, she like 0:37:05.280 --> 0:37:06.360 fluffed up the pillows. 0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:09.799 We like, we really thought we were doing something and 0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:10.360 we weren't. 0:37:10.520 --> 0:37:12.200 And I said, Andrew, what the fuck did you do 0:37:12.239 --> 0:37:15.000 over here? He's like, we couldn't find plates. I'm like, 0:37:15.000 --> 0:37:16.200 I have a whole kitchen. What do you mean you 0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:18.319 couldn't find plates? We just couldn't find them. I'm like, 0:37:18.360 --> 0:37:18.879 did you look? 0:37:19.000 --> 0:37:21.839 No, I I did a thing that I do. I'm 0:37:21.840 --> 0:37:24.719 not a big drinker. I don't get very drunk very 0:37:24.719 --> 0:37:27.680 often the same yeah, and so when I do, there's 0:37:27.880 --> 0:37:30.640 usually something that happens, which is I realize at some 0:37:30.680 --> 0:37:32.759 point that I'm too drunk, and I freak out and 0:37:32.760 --> 0:37:35.239 I'm like, I need water, I need water out. So 0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:39.160 for the like, from like midnight on, probably all I 0:37:39.200 --> 0:37:41.520 was doing was hugging water and just like trying to 0:37:41.560 --> 0:37:44.000 come back to reality. So I think I was kind 0:37:44.000 --> 0:37:46.439 of out of it when they were like not able 0:37:46.440 --> 0:37:47.200 to find the plates. 0:37:48.160 --> 0:37:49.919 I don't think they looked for the plates. I gotta 0:37:49.920 --> 0:37:53.719 be honest, because they're in the cabinet, multiple plates. There 0:37:53.719 --> 0:37:56.759 are glass plates or porcelain plates or paper plates, all 0:37:56.800 --> 0:37:57.200 the plates. 0:37:57.239 --> 0:37:59.720 Just anything would have been better than what occurred. 0:38:00.040 --> 0:38:02.120 Apparently the plate was my couch. It was a good time. 0:38:02.160 --> 0:38:03.560 I'm very sad you weren't their diamonds. 0:38:03.680 --> 0:38:07.759 Me too, No guys, scare me, Oh. 0:38:07.719 --> 0:38:09.839 Please, you were in my apartment earlier that night having 0:38:09.880 --> 0:38:10.440 a good old time. 0:38:10.520 --> 0:38:11.320 Oh yeah, it was great. 0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:14.440 It was great. I feel like my apartment. I was 0:38:14.480 --> 0:38:16.880 trying to turn it into like the party house, and 0:38:16.920 --> 0:38:18.600 I think I'm down the road like it's happening. 0:38:18.719 --> 0:38:20.200 Oh yeah, no, it's definitely it's happening. 0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:22.879 It happened, it did happen, It's gonna happen again. 0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:26.480 It was christened by that night. I feel like good times. 0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:28.719 One more note about the boy who voted for Donald 0:38:28.719 --> 0:38:33.280 Trump twice. He was brown. So that's why I was like, man, 0:38:33.440 --> 0:38:35.799 I was trying to say. I was like, we gotta 0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:37.239 get the fuck out of it, because if there's one, 0:38:37.239 --> 0:38:39.040 there could be many. It's weird. 0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:42.000 You don't know who we're surrounded by everywhere. 0:38:42.360 --> 0:38:45.480 Okay, So another fun fact about Abigail. I learned this 0:38:45.520 --> 0:38:48.359 moment to the Bahamas. She travels with a Mason jar 0:38:48.360 --> 0:38:49.080 off MiraLax. 0:38:49.520 --> 0:38:52.440 So it was just that time. Usually it's I just 0:38:52.680 --> 0:38:56.160 because I wasn't checking my bag, I had to. I 0:38:56.239 --> 0:38:58.319 felt putting it in a plastic bag you would have 0:38:58.360 --> 0:38:59.520 maybe like raised some red. 0:38:59.360 --> 0:39:01.759 White powder going into another country probably. 0:39:01.440 --> 0:39:03.040 So I was like, in a jar, They're just this 0:39:03.080 --> 0:39:05.560 looks like I don't know flower I'm going. This is 0:39:05.560 --> 0:39:07.480 like a sour dough starter. You know, you don't know 0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:10.239 why I'm coming to Maahamas. To take sourdough. That's my 0:39:10.360 --> 0:39:11.000 great dream. 0:39:11.800 --> 0:39:14.480 Makes sense, Yeah, it makes sense. Okay, so this let's go. 0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:16.279 Let's go back to the beginning really quickly with you. 0:39:16.400 --> 0:39:19.160 How did you end up getting this job? I heard 0:39:19.200 --> 0:39:21.319 something about. Was it like a tumblor account? What was it? 0:39:21.680 --> 0:39:23.920 I got laid off from my last job, which was 0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:27.560 I was doing social media for a lot of actors 0:39:27.760 --> 0:39:31.440 through this one marketing firm. It was during the strikes, 0:39:31.880 --> 0:39:35.640 and so I, yeah, my position got dissolved. So me 0:39:35.880 --> 0:39:38.480 and the girl who had my job in LA both 0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:41.239 got laid off and then I couldn't find another job 0:39:41.239 --> 0:39:42.120 for like nine months. 0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:43.320 Oh how did you survive? 0:39:43.560 --> 0:39:49.120 I was babysitting a lot, I was doing freelance social media. Yes, 0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:52.120 it was a rough it was. It was not easy. 0:39:52.200 --> 0:39:55.400 I had some what is that called? Why am I 0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:56.200 blanking right now? 0:39:56.360 --> 0:39:57.120 The unemployment? 0:39:57.200 --> 0:40:02.160 Yes, thank you hello? That for six months. So all 0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:05.319 of that came together and I somehow got by, and 0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:09.800 then I was just applying to this job. I was 0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:12.560 applying to like ten to twenty jobs every day though, 0:40:12.600 --> 0:40:15.279 so I don't even really remember applying for this job, 0:40:15.320 --> 0:40:18.720 mainly because they didn't say, like Elvis duranchosey one hundred 0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:21.520 like it was like iHeart video producer and it was 0:40:21.520 --> 0:40:23.279 basically just like social media, and I was like, okay, 0:40:23.280 --> 0:40:25.440 well that's what I've been doing since I got out 0:40:25.440 --> 0:40:28.080 of college. So I applied and then I remember I 0:40:28.080 --> 0:40:31.840 got an email from Tony and before I even opened it, 0:40:31.880 --> 0:40:35.279 I just saw it was like iHeart like some job 0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:38.000 at iHeart, and I was like another rejection. I can't 0:40:38.000 --> 0:40:39.400 do this. And then I clicked on it and it 0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:40.880 was like could we interview you? And I was like, 0:40:40.960 --> 0:40:43.280 oh my god, the light at the end of the tunnel. 0:40:44.040 --> 0:40:46.759 So then I interviewed with him. The Tumblr thing was 0:40:46.880 --> 0:40:49.120 I was talking about how I ran a Taylor Swift 0:40:49.120 --> 0:40:51.360 Tumblr account when I was fifteen or sixteen and she 0:40:51.440 --> 0:40:56.000 followed it and Taylor Swift yeah, essentially that like he 0:40:56.000 --> 0:40:58.560 he told me that that made me stand out more 0:40:58.640 --> 0:41:01.000 as an applicant because he was like, well, you clearly 0:41:01.080 --> 0:41:05.040 understand like fandoms and pop culture and top forties artists. 0:41:05.920 --> 0:41:06.919 Did you have to prove it? 0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:09.400 No? And I couldn't because it's been deleted because I 0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:10.560 got locked out. 0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:12.760 I know it's to make all kinds of claims. Remember 0:41:12.800 --> 0:41:16.520 this sure just lie all kinds of claims about Tumblr. 0:41:17.400 --> 0:41:19.480 I got locked out. I had one hundred billion fallows. 0:41:20.080 --> 0:41:34.520 It's crazy, huge, massive, amazing. And since you've been here, 0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:36.200 you've been here for about a year now, right over 0:41:36.200 --> 0:41:37.160 a year. 0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:39.960 Do you like the job? I do? I really do. 0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:42.279 And I love the people, which is so important. I 0:41:42.320 --> 0:41:45.680 think it really is. And I've never had a job postgrad. 0:41:45.760 --> 0:41:49.440 This is my third job postgrad. One of them I 0:41:49.480 --> 0:41:52.239 would kind of go to in person for a period 0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:53.719 of time, but this is my first, like fully in 0:41:53.760 --> 0:41:57.400 person job. And while it is a nice treat to 0:41:57.440 --> 0:42:00.239 work remote, sometimes I do enjoy the social asta backed 0:42:00.280 --> 0:42:02.120 up coming in and hanging out with everyone. I think 0:42:02.160 --> 0:42:05.200 it's good for me. I don't know. I just I 0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:07.200 feel like looking back on my last job, where it 0:42:07.239 --> 0:42:10.200 was pretty much completely remote, I was very isolated, Like 0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:12.440 I just sat in my apartment all day, every day, 0:42:12.840 --> 0:42:15.640 hours on end. Yes, sure, start. 0:42:17.000 --> 0:42:20.880 Being alone made me realize how fabulous it is. So 0:42:20.920 --> 0:42:22.840 you like it here and the people are good and 0:42:22.880 --> 0:42:23.759 we love having you here. 0:42:23.920 --> 0:42:26.360 I'm so glad. Every day I think everyone hates me, 0:42:26.440 --> 0:42:28.919 or and then my key card's not gonna scan. Every 0:42:28.960 --> 0:42:30.399 day I go to scan my key card and I'm 0:42:30.400 --> 0:42:31.640 like to take it be theme go here. 0:42:31.680 --> 0:42:32.520 Do you think hates you? 0:42:32.680 --> 0:42:35.000 I genuinely do. It's not even the specific person. I'm 0:42:35.040 --> 0:42:39.759 just like, they're gonna see, yeah, they're gonna know, they're 0:42:39.840 --> 0:42:40.480 just gonna hate me. 0:42:40.560 --> 0:42:42.120 Okay, you work with a lot of people here, a 0:42:42.160 --> 0:42:44.799 lot of big personalities, because that's what this show really is. 0:42:44.840 --> 0:42:47.440 There are I mean, speaking of the people, let's get 0:42:47.480 --> 0:42:50.560 down to nitty gritty Abby. Oh boy, it is the 0:42:50.560 --> 0:42:54.319 most difficult one of us to work with. Other people 0:42:54.560 --> 0:42:56.719 answered this question in other podcasts that don't feel bad. 0:42:57.560 --> 0:42:58.560 I'd have to think about that. 0:42:58.560 --> 0:42:59.920 There's really spleep the name too. 0:43:00.120 --> 0:43:03.479 There's really no one that I like dread working with. 0:43:04.080 --> 0:43:05.239 I'm trying to think you don't have. 0:43:05.239 --> 0:43:07.280 To drid but somebody could be more difficult than others, 0:43:07.320 --> 0:43:08.880 like say the person who's like, don't ever put me 0:43:08.880 --> 0:43:10.440 on camera? Maybe that one you. 0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:16.200 I don't know who's difficult. I just know who's easy, 0:43:16.280 --> 0:43:19.279 who's easy, scary, innate? They're my go tos oh because 0:43:19.280 --> 0:43:20.520 they'll always say yes. 0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:23.000 Scary, like camera where put it in my face? 0:43:23.000 --> 0:43:24.279 I will and they will like roll his eyes. But 0:43:24.280 --> 0:43:26.600 then I'll be like, Okay, what am I doing so 0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:27.960 I just always know I'm going to get a guess 0:43:27.960 --> 0:43:29.560 from them, but I don't. I don't really know that 0:43:29.600 --> 0:43:33.239 I've I feel like the most difficult people I've interacted 0:43:33.239 --> 0:43:34.800 with are like artist teams. 0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:37.560 Oh, I won't ask you to say, well, no, you 0:43:37.560 --> 0:43:38.680 could say, because I'll beleeve it. 0:43:38.920 --> 0:43:42.200 There are certain K pop teams of course. There was 0:43:42.200 --> 0:43:43.759 one time where there was a guest here and I 0:43:43.800 --> 0:43:49.200 was recording the wall signing and her person grabbed my 0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:51.399 phone out of my hands. It was like, I'll film it, 0:43:51.480 --> 0:43:52.200 absolutely not. 0:43:52.320 --> 0:43:53.799 I was like, oh, hell, don't touch me. 0:43:53.880 --> 0:43:56.279 I was like, what, It's the same thing, right, just 0:43:56.360 --> 0:43:57.480 you're holding it instead of me. 0:43:57.680 --> 0:43:59.280 Also, never touch me again. Yeah. 0:43:59.320 --> 0:44:01.160 And then the same thing happened when I was recording 0:44:01.160 --> 0:44:03.640 her doing a social video and I was like, does 0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:06.800 what what difference does it make who's holding the phone. 0:44:06.840 --> 0:44:09.520 That person's probably trying to justify why they're making probably 0:44:09.520 --> 0:44:12.919 a million dollars a year. Yeah, to do nothing but assault. Sure, 0:44:13.200 --> 0:44:14.920 digital teams different places. 0:44:14.640 --> 0:44:17.040 And like they're they were nice, but just that caught 0:44:17.040 --> 0:44:19.520 me off guard. And so sometimes that's really hard, or 0:44:19.520 --> 0:44:21.560 like if people don't want to accept collabs, that can 0:44:21.600 --> 0:44:25.800 be really hard. Oh, okay, or like share listening links. 0:44:25.800 --> 0:44:29.520 More so, I understand that with social media sometimes people 0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:31.640 have to keep up a certain like feed or aesthetic, 0:44:32.880 --> 0:44:35.480 but I'm just kind of like, well, don't you want 0:44:35.520 --> 0:44:36.839 to share this, Like if you went and you did 0:44:36.840 --> 0:44:39.040 this interview. Don't you want people to at least like listen? 0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:39.319 Right? 0:44:39.360 --> 0:44:40.600 And most of the time when they come in here 0:44:40.600 --> 0:44:42.200 to do an interview, they've got their hair and makeup 0:44:42.239 --> 0:44:44.759 like everything is going well. They're not rolling in here 0:44:44.800 --> 0:44:47.759 like they just not like I do. They're actually rolling 0:44:47.800 --> 0:44:49.000 in here like nice. 0:44:48.760 --> 0:44:51.920 They're ready, ready, camera ready. So it's always that's always 0:44:51.920 --> 0:44:53.600 I would say that's probably the biggest roadblock. 0:44:53.680 --> 0:44:55.759 Okay, okay, cool. So I was going to ask you 0:44:55.840 --> 0:44:57.319 what the hardest part of the job is, but you just. 0:44:57.239 --> 0:44:58.120 Probably at it. 0:44:58.400 --> 0:45:00.719 Yeah, I would say that. And also maybe sometimes youe 0:45:00.800 --> 0:45:03.280 on call all the time aspect that's crazy. 0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:04.520 Was that what they told you it would be like 0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:05.640 when you signed up for the job. 0:45:05.840 --> 0:45:07.640 Yeah, definitely suck. 0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:11.719 I'm just saying this now. Absolutely not for me. I'm 0:45:11.800 --> 0:45:12.480 not gonna do that. 0:45:12.560 --> 0:45:17.000 I definitely. I think for every social media job I've had, 0:45:17.000 --> 0:45:18.719 they're always just kind of like so sometimes out of 0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:20.480 work hours this is and I'm like, yeah, I know 0:45:20.600 --> 0:45:22.799 that comes with the territory, which is usually fine. But 0:45:23.120 --> 0:45:25.040 I go to bed at eight thirty, so you got 0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:26.120 to catch me before eight thirty. 0:45:26.120 --> 0:45:29.920 Babes, if someone were to call you after eight thirty, 0:45:30.520 --> 0:45:31.360 do you hear your phone? 0:45:31.400 --> 0:45:33.439 No, I'm dead to the world. I mean, you would 0:45:33.480 --> 0:45:34.880 have to call me a lot of times for me 0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:35.359 to wake up. 0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:38.960 I've learned that, Okaye, to self keep calling out, keep. 0:45:38.840 --> 0:45:40.920 Calling me or call my roommate and she'll come in 0:45:40.920 --> 0:45:41.960 my room and wake me up. 0:45:42.040 --> 0:45:43.160 How did you meet your roommate? 0:45:43.520 --> 0:45:45.799 We met. We went to college together, but we didn't 0:45:45.800 --> 0:45:47.320 really know each other. In college. We worked at a 0:45:47.360 --> 0:45:50.280 bakery together. Oh okay. And where did you go to college? Friends, 0:45:50.440 --> 0:45:55.520 Belmont University in Nashville. Oh that's right, very weird girls school. Okay, 0:45:55.719 --> 0:45:57.200 have a lot of love for it, but what a 0:45:57.239 --> 0:45:58.040 weird place. 0:45:58.560 --> 0:46:01.320 So we've definitely learned a bit about Abby today, Diamond, 0:46:01.320 --> 0:46:02.879 Did do you think I left anything out? Is there 0:46:02.880 --> 0:46:04.160 something that you want to know about Abby? 0:46:04.280 --> 0:46:04.320 No? 0:46:04.640 --> 0:46:04.839 One. 0:46:04.960 --> 0:46:06.880 One thing about Abby that I already know is that 0:46:06.920 --> 0:46:12.560 she's a virgo clock It's true, yes, yes, and she's 0:46:12.680 --> 0:46:14.839 like a serious virgo. 0:46:14.760 --> 0:46:17.239 Am I I feel like I am allergic to being 0:46:17.600 --> 0:46:18.520 serious about anything. 0:46:18.560 --> 0:46:20.280 No, no, no, no serious. 0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:22.400 I mean, like by the book. 0:46:22.160 --> 0:46:25.080 Almost I am a rule follower. I am a very 0:46:25.080 --> 0:46:25.880 big rule follower. 0:46:25.960 --> 0:46:29.880 Crickading and stuff. Abby is just like dark humor galore 0:46:30.040 --> 0:46:30.799 over there. You know. 0:46:30.840 --> 0:46:33.280 Abby does often reference all of our deaths. 0:46:33.360 --> 0:46:34.359 Oh, I love it. 0:46:34.440 --> 0:46:38.759 I mean they're coming. It's just we're all going to die. 0:46:39.200 --> 0:46:40.120 It's just a matter of when. 0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:41.840 She'll be eating like a brownie and I'm like, that 0:46:41.880 --> 0:46:43.440 looks good. I can't do it. She's like, well, we're 0:46:43.440 --> 0:46:44.000 all going to die. 0:46:44.200 --> 0:46:47.520 It's true, we're all going to die. And during the rapture, 0:46:47.560 --> 0:46:50.000 are you really going to be thinking about the sugar 0:46:50.000 --> 0:46:50.440 that you ate? 0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:53.480 No, during the raptor, I'm gonna try to grab it 0:46:53.480 --> 0:46:55.480 on the brownie. It's true. 0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:57.480 Exactly what do you have to lose? Exactly? 0:46:57.640 --> 0:47:01.480 But Abby? Also, did did you prepare questions for us? 0:47:02.080 --> 0:47:05.160 I wrote down a bunch of random things. Okay, none 0:47:05.200 --> 0:47:06.360 of which really makes sense. 0:47:07.080 --> 0:47:09.120 They don't need to make sense. If there's just something 0:47:09.160 --> 0:47:11.799 that you are actually interested in knowing, cool and if not, 0:47:11.880 --> 0:47:13.200 you don't have to ask anything. 0:47:19.400 --> 0:47:24.880 Sorry, What is like your dream prank to play? On Andrew, 0:47:24.920 --> 0:47:27.680 like what is your dream? Like if you could pull 0:47:27.719 --> 0:47:29.879 off some type of scheme and just like. 0:47:30.680 --> 0:47:35.239 I'm ready, Jamond, it looks like she Okay, So you 0:47:35.239 --> 0:47:40.000 know how like Andrew like drives himself crazy over podcast 0:47:40.040 --> 0:47:43.040 recordings and stuff. Yes, I would love for him to 0:47:43.160 --> 0:47:47.400 like lose his shit over like preparing for this insane 0:47:47.480 --> 0:47:49.640 podcast that's going to happen, and then he walks into 0:47:49.640 --> 0:47:52.200 the room and nobody's here and it's just like, you know, no, no, no, 0:47:52.280 --> 0:47:55.000 not even me. Like he comes up and like the 0:47:55.040 --> 0:47:57.239 building is closed for the day or something like that, 0:47:57.280 --> 0:47:59.160 and they're just cameras everywhere. 0:48:00.200 --> 0:48:00.840 That would be me. 0:48:01.520 --> 0:48:04.799 That would make my life. And honestly, the story of 0:48:04.840 --> 0:48:06.840 it wouldn't be enough. I would have to be watching 0:48:07.520 --> 0:48:11.520 on every camera that was available. Absolutely Okay. 0:48:11.600 --> 0:48:13.520 So now I have a couple ideas. They're all really 0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:17.600 mean though, so one sort of on like to what 0:48:17.680 --> 0:48:20.040 you said, But the flip side of it, I would 0:48:20.120 --> 0:48:26.719 love to delete his entire calendar. He dies by that thing, 0:48:26.800 --> 0:48:29.880 does he would panic like it would be I would. 0:48:30.120 --> 0:48:31.920 Just for him like that would wow. 0:48:32.200 --> 0:48:34.200 Not a perma delete, but just like oh my god, 0:48:34.440 --> 0:48:35.960 oh my god, Yeah, what am I supposed to be doing. 0:48:35.960 --> 0:48:37.840 Where am I supposed to be going? Like his calendars 0:48:37.840 --> 0:48:41.200 and gadgets are not telling him he would have no idea, 0:48:41.320 --> 0:48:44.279 and then as his his stuff has been deleted, call 0:48:44.400 --> 0:48:49.400 him like he urgently missed something from the l Yeah, 0:48:49.520 --> 0:48:51.759 you're supposed to be on floor twelve right now doing 0:48:51.800 --> 0:48:54.680 this podcast with Michelle Obama? How did you not know? 0:48:54.719 --> 0:48:57.279 This was I would love to do that sweat the sweat, 0:48:58.040 --> 0:49:00.279 and then the other one would be this is the 0:49:00.280 --> 0:49:01.880 one that would be mean. I guess that last one 0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:04.520 wanted to. I mean, pranks in general, they're kind of. 0:49:04.520 --> 0:49:06.880 Like, yeah, they are right, but this is it's fictional. 0:49:07.120 --> 0:49:12.080 This is fictional. Yeah, you weren't here on It's tough 0:49:12.120 --> 0:49:13.920 because we can't really talk about what he did. But 0:49:13.960 --> 0:49:22.120 there was a moment Andrew had a breakdown over a text. 0:49:22.640 --> 0:49:24.520 But I can't wait to hear the context later. 0:49:24.600 --> 0:49:30.319 Oh wait, he okay, maybe talking about someone and he 0:49:30.360 --> 0:49:34.560 texted me before the unsent feature exists. But it was 0:49:34.600 --> 0:49:39.319 like right before the unsend feature existed, and he was like, 0:49:39.360 --> 0:49:41.120 it's cool because they're not gonna it's gonna be fine. 0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:43.360 And then immediately that person was like, the fuck, what 0:49:43.440 --> 0:49:45.920 are you doing? So Andrew. If you can just imagine 0:49:45.960 --> 0:49:48.600 him like collapsing into himself like a star. 0:49:53.640 --> 0:49:54.200 Get tired. 0:49:54.960 --> 0:49:58.000 Thinking about it now, it's so funny, but like at 0:49:58.040 --> 0:50:00.239 the time when it happened, it was still funny, but 0:50:00.360 --> 0:50:02.120 wasn't as funny because I felt it for him. 0:50:02.200 --> 0:50:04.480 Yeah, I thought it was hious. 0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:07.480 I was like, he told me what happened, and I 0:50:07.520 --> 0:50:09.879 was like, that's not that big, oh ship, you sent 0:50:09.960 --> 0:50:14.400 it to them? Oh no, I would love to in 0:50:14.440 --> 0:50:17.320 some capacity like recreate that moment. 0:50:17.719 --> 0:50:18.840 Oh, that would be great. 0:50:19.560 --> 0:50:20.800 That shit was a funny Abby. 0:50:21.360 --> 0:50:24.239 I was there, panic, man, if only I had gotten 0:50:24.280 --> 0:50:25.480 hired a few months sooner. 0:50:25.440 --> 0:50:26.960 Only or like a year sooner. 0:50:27.840 --> 0:50:29.719 Thing about it was that he was like he thought 0:50:29.760 --> 0:50:30.600 he was gonna die. 0:50:31.120 --> 0:50:33.920 And my reaction, I really feel like I identify with 0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:35.520 Andrew in that way. I really see a lot of 0:50:35.560 --> 0:50:38.719 myself and him, and so when he something like that 0:50:38.760 --> 0:50:40.960 happens to him, I feel I feel it in my body. 0:50:41.080 --> 0:50:42.640 So I actually think I probably would have had him 0:50:42.640 --> 0:50:43.279 break down that day. 0:50:44.000 --> 0:50:45.600 I almost want to get him back in here just 0:50:45.600 --> 0:50:47.200 so we can bring it up to hear his reaction, 0:50:47.320 --> 0:50:48.840 because I think to this day he's still. 0:50:48.680 --> 0:50:51.520 Like, oh my god, even though nobody cares. 0:50:52.000 --> 0:50:54.120 The person I guarantee doesn't even remember that it happened, 0:50:54.680 --> 0:50:57.440 like and it was it wasn't even like that shitty 0:50:57.480 --> 0:51:00.080 of shit talk, right, It was just stupid. But it 0:51:00.160 --> 0:51:03.120 is directly in the moment to that person and band 0:51:03.200 --> 0:51:04.759 they saw and then approached him. 0:51:06.640 --> 0:51:12.239 He's like, you know, it's luster see it on his hair. 0:51:14.440 --> 0:51:16.480 I can see he's making like the skydiving face. 0:51:16.520 --> 0:51:19.759 And then he was like, oh my god, oh my god, 0:51:20.160 --> 0:51:20.879 something's gonna happen. 0:51:20.960 --> 0:51:22.319 And they could be like, this is bad, right, this 0:51:22.400 --> 0:51:22.919 is really bad. 0:51:23.080 --> 0:51:23.560 This is bad. 0:51:23.560 --> 0:51:24.239 This is really bad. 0:51:33.080 --> 0:51:33.520 I just. 0:51:35.000 --> 0:51:38.240 So Abby was just asking us. She prepared some questions 0:51:38.239 --> 0:51:39.759 for us, and she asked us, what will be our 0:51:39.880 --> 0:51:41.160 dream prank to do to you? 0:51:41.239 --> 0:51:44.160 And we both had a couple but so maybe be 0:51:44.239 --> 0:51:45.400 an alert. 0:51:46.440 --> 0:51:49.359 But nothing will outdo the prank you did to yourself 0:51:50.000 --> 0:51:52.120 back when you sent a text message to a person. 0:51:52.520 --> 0:51:54.560 The text message was about do you recall that. 0:51:57.239 --> 0:51:57.640 I do. 0:52:00.560 --> 0:52:03.759 The silence? He's grabbing his phone and holding its noo 0:52:03.880 --> 0:52:06.399 TI right now, are you biting the inside of your cheek? 0:52:06.400 --> 0:52:06.919 Are you kids? 0:52:06.960 --> 0:52:07.000 Like? 0:52:07.200 --> 0:52:10.160 Yeah, no, I'm good, I'm good. Things are fine. 0:52:11.680 --> 0:52:15.280 In that moment, years and years ago in that moment 0:52:16.160 --> 0:52:18.080 one to ten, How panicked were you? 0:52:18.160 --> 0:52:18.200 Like? 0:52:18.280 --> 0:52:20.399 I know the answer because I remember vividly. 0:52:20.760 --> 0:52:27.440 Six billion, five hundred and forty thousand, million quadrillion times fucked. 0:52:29.120 --> 0:52:29.439 I said. 0:52:29.440 --> 0:52:32.560 I just can't remember remembering him being like, this is bad, right, 0:52:32.640 --> 0:52:34.719 this is god, Oh God, this is bad. 0:52:34.760 --> 0:52:37.960 And I was really bad. It was really bad. I 0:52:38.040 --> 0:52:40.040 apologized profusely. It was so bad. 0:52:40.320 --> 0:52:42.439 But it wasn't that bad. Really, in the grand skime 0:52:42.440 --> 0:52:44.840 of things, it wasn't that bad. You didn't say anything 0:52:44.960 --> 0:52:45.680 that horrible. 0:52:46.080 --> 0:52:49.480 It's just I was stupid. It was just stupid. I 0:52:49.600 --> 0:52:50.320 was so dumb. 0:52:51.080 --> 0:52:53.000 No, I would have read the same way correctly. He 0:52:53.120 --> 0:52:55.120 called himself fucking dumb. 0:52:56.719 --> 0:52:57.359 Himself in the head. 0:52:57.560 --> 0:53:00.960 Yeah, I went into like a full like melt down. 0:53:03.280 --> 0:53:04.759 I think I threw my phone. 0:53:05.000 --> 0:53:10.440 If I remember it was, and the support sys to 0:53:10.480 --> 0:53:11.719 be had around us. What's right here? 0:53:12.920 --> 0:53:15.160 And Scott, what's he gonna do? 0:53:16.920 --> 0:53:21.800 See? Oh god, somebody should have really troubleshooted that, because 0:53:22.239 --> 0:53:25.680 you take that person's phone and you delete it from 0:53:25.760 --> 0:53:26.240 their phone. 0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:26.880 You couldn't. 0:53:26.960 --> 0:53:31.719 It was instantaneous like it was. It was bam bamped. 0:53:32.000 --> 0:53:35.800 And the response, yes, they saw it immediately yes and 0:53:36.000 --> 0:53:37.480 addressed it okay. 0:53:37.280 --> 0:53:40.759 Well, so like poor answer didn't even have time to 0:53:40.800 --> 0:53:43.200 like come up with a planet like actually what I 0:53:43.360 --> 0:53:45.160 was saying with like nothing, It was just like bam bam. 0:53:48.360 --> 0:53:50.080 That would I wish I was like. 0:53:50.560 --> 0:53:53.560 But also if I again, if I I don't, I 0:53:53.560 --> 0:53:55.600 wouldn't have been laughing because again I was just saying 0:53:55.600 --> 0:53:57.680 I see a lot of myself and you I am 0:53:57.760 --> 0:53:59.600 the same way like I would have been feeling that 0:53:59.760 --> 0:54:01.880 with you, like I would have been having sympathy pains. 0:54:01.920 --> 0:54:03.520 I would have I think I would have had to 0:54:03.560 --> 0:54:04.200 go to the hospital. 0:54:04.239 --> 0:54:05.920 And I didn't even do it. I felt it. I 0:54:06.000 --> 0:54:10.240 felt it for him. However, it was still like, oh girl, 0:54:10.400 --> 0:54:14.560 you are. But Andrew didn't laugh once. 0:54:14.719 --> 0:54:17.719 No, I bet not not once, not a single laughing. 0:54:17.840 --> 0:54:21.160 He didn't chuckle, not chuckle, single chuckle, crack a smile, 0:54:21.239 --> 0:54:22.479 the sweat upon his brow. 0:54:23.320 --> 0:54:24.759 And then I went for a walk, and I just 0:54:24.760 --> 0:54:26.520 remember while I went for the walk, I was like, okay, 0:54:26.640 --> 0:54:27.280 game plan. 0:54:27.239 --> 0:54:28.160 What am I going to do now? 0:54:29.120 --> 0:54:30.799 So where am I going to work when I leave 0:54:30.840 --> 0:54:32.520 this place? Because I can never show my face again? 0:54:38.880 --> 0:54:42.960 Thanks for coming in again, andrews Okay, no, that's I 0:54:43.000 --> 0:54:47.040 think we have successfully brought up your past issues in 0:54:47.120 --> 0:54:49.120 your life and we don't need to do it anymore, 0:54:49.160 --> 0:54:51.239 but we should wrap it up. So Abby, if people 0:54:51.280 --> 0:54:54.279 want to find you and nice gentleman with emotional intelligence 0:54:54.320 --> 0:54:56.719 that look like a character out of Harry Potter want 0:54:56.800 --> 0:54:59.840 to get a hold of you, please look up. 0:55:01.040 --> 0:55:02.040 Do you wantch cod lines? 0:55:02.200 --> 0:55:04.760 I don't, but my friend Alexa is also obsessed with Matthew. 0:55:04.920 --> 0:55:08.000 Thank you Alexa, Yes, thank you Alexa. 0:55:08.080 --> 0:55:09.680 Alt right now and said what do you think of 0:55:09.719 --> 0:55:12.200 Matthew grey Googler? She will literally go for. 0:55:12.320 --> 0:55:17.239 Like I have a prayer candle of him. I have 0:55:17.280 --> 0:55:18.960 a prayer candle of him in my living room. 0:55:19.719 --> 0:55:23.399 That's totally normal. So if someone wants that, Abby, where 0:55:23.400 --> 0:55:25.360 would they find you? On social media? You do you 0:55:25.360 --> 0:55:26.520 even is your page over? 0:55:26.640 --> 0:55:29.360 It's private? I mean like you could find it, but 0:55:29.440 --> 0:55:30.520 I don't usually accept people. 0:55:30.520 --> 0:55:30.840 I don't know. 0:55:31.000 --> 0:55:32.040 Okay, we're not even. 0:55:31.920 --> 0:55:32.279 Going to do it. 0:55:32.360 --> 0:55:33.920 Then I was going to try and you know, get 0:55:33.960 --> 0:55:35.920 you to the influencer level that Andrew has achieved. 0:55:36.360 --> 0:55:38.320 I don't think I should be influencing anyone. 0:55:38.480 --> 0:55:40.680 I think you should. I think we need more influences 0:55:40.760 --> 0:55:42.960 like you out there in general, it's all the good 0:55:42.960 --> 0:55:45.359 people who are quiet and all the assholes who are loud, 0:55:46.000 --> 0:55:48.719 says the loudest one in the room, Andrew, where can 0:55:48.760 --> 0:55:49.839 we find you on social media? 0:55:50.000 --> 0:55:51.920 To be clear, I'm not the asshole, right, No, you're 0:55:51.920 --> 0:55:53.520 not the loudest the loudest person in the room. And 0:55:53.560 --> 0:55:57.000 then you said, Andrew, you are an asshole. But no, 0:55:57.239 --> 0:56:00.839 go on, great, I'm at Andrew Puck, at Andrew Klugg. 0:56:02.120 --> 0:56:04.279 He could use some words of encouragement right now. 0:56:04.440 --> 0:56:08.480 He's had a hard day. Yeah, okay, just at diamonds 0:56:08.520 --> 0:56:10.319 and here on Instagram and threads. Now. 0:56:10.560 --> 0:56:12.799 Oh yeah, I told you you would love that dumpster fire. 0:56:13.040 --> 0:56:15.440 It's crazy over there. And I am at Baby Hot 0:56:15.520 --> 0:56:20.120 Sauce like follow, subscribe, and there's another one like oh, 0:56:20.239 --> 0:56:22.840 leave us a review one to five stars. We appreciate 0:56:22.960 --> 0:56:25.920 five talk backs, posh, a little microphone button, tell us 0:56:25.960 --> 0:56:28.759 what you think of how things are going. And I 0:56:28.800 --> 0:56:30.480 think those are all the instructions with that for you 0:56:30.560 --> 0:56:33.000 at the moment. Until next time, Say bye everybody. 0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:33.560 Byye