Speaker 1: Alexis on a scale of one to ten. How uncool
Speaker 1: am I going to sound if I call today's brand
Speaker 1: new Second Date update a doozy doozy?
Speaker 2: Oh that's not even gonna rank. I don't even know
Speaker 2: where that's hut.
Speaker 3: I mean it was though, welcome to the podcast. We're
Speaker 3: so glad you're here, and I was.
Speaker 1: Sorry, put your hands in the air when this woman
Speaker 1: describes what she quote unquote does for a living.
Speaker 3: I am sorry, I am sorry.
Speaker 4: Go home.
Speaker 3: Well, that's not even the right thing on a scale.
Speaker 2: I'm eleven for jealous of her job.
Speaker 3: Lexus, all right, you're gonna hear it in just a second.
Speaker 3: But first the comments, what do you got? Alexis?
Speaker 2: All right? Megel Doney said, my seven year old absolutely
Speaker 2: loves your show and asked if he could be the
Speaker 2: new host and if it could be brooking Charles in
Speaker 2: the morning.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, immediately, I mean, Charles feels like we should
Speaker 1: do a real, like fancy show, same as Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: Jeff should be cut out. I agree. I'm just imagining
Speaker 2: jeff in a little year old in a suit.
Speaker 3: It's just kicking over and they're both wearing crowns and suits. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and they have the same level of potty humor. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I think it'll work. I like it all right, here's
Speaker 3: your second date update right now.
Speaker 4: Second date update date.
Speaker 5: An important part of any blossoming relationship is the first
Speaker 5: time a woman corrects her man and tells him he
Speaker 5: messed up. You need to do better.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, this has to happen.
Speaker 5: It's such a special moment because we need that as guys.
Speaker 5: If left to our own devices, we'll wear four gallons
Speaker 5: of axe body spray and think it smells good. We'll
Speaker 5: wash our cashmere sweaters in hot water.
Speaker 3: Oh, we love.
Speaker 1: Jeff?
Speaker 3: Is that what you do?
Speaker 5: Are we not supposed to?
Speaker 3: Can we be mothers to every man?
Speaker 5: Goodness for women being there to correct us so we
Speaker 5: can learn and go.
Speaker 3: Oh, that's how it works.
Speaker 6: You never have.
Speaker 3: To use your own brain.
Speaker 5: Well, a lot of women will wait a few dates
Speaker 5: to correct there man, but not our listener, Monica. She
Speaker 5: told the guy he messed up on night one, yikes
Speaker 5: for his benefit.
Speaker 4: Broke.
Speaker 3: No, it's nice, it is.
Speaker 5: That's what happened, Monica. Welcome to the show. Was that
Speaker 5: intro to your liking? Or could I have done better?
Speaker 4: No? You hit it?
Speaker 5: Ye Wow, that's not just made my day, Monica, Thank.
Speaker 4: You so much.
Speaker 1: I'm always so curious why someone says a guy messes
Speaker 1: up and then still wants to call him for.
Speaker 3: Another date all that.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll get into that, but let's start with what's
Speaker 5: this guy's name?
Speaker 4: Who did you go out with? Okay, so I met
Speaker 4: Isaac online and he seemed really cool. I like his personality,
Speaker 4: I like his looks definitely.
Speaker 3: So there's a lot of potential there.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I really liked him because there's a lot of
Speaker 4: guys on this app that there will catch you forever.
Speaker 4: I don't do the back and forth, back and forth thing,
Speaker 4: but he came right down with it. He's like, I
Speaker 4: want to take you out o.
Speaker 1: Confident Yeah, and all the action that is just living
Speaker 1: in this weird world of like what are we doing?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Right, that's a good note for men, because the more
Speaker 5: you talk, the more opportunities you're giving yourself to say
Speaker 5: something stupid and we will do that. Yes, Okay, good
Speaker 5: for Isaac. Now I'm not going to say much more,
Speaker 5: just keep.
Speaker 4: Going what happened? Yes, he says, pick me up and
Speaker 4: take me to the nice restaurant, So you know, I
Speaker 4: got up in my nice little dress, thinking yeah, hey,
Speaker 4: and then he came close up, he got out, he
Speaker 4: opened my door. Oh okay, yeah, he was a very
Speaker 4: nice I got lie. He was nice.
Speaker 1: Okay, so everything's working in his favor right now.
Speaker 5: I'm wondering where things start to turn and you have
Speaker 5: to step in.
Speaker 4: And as soon as we got off the highway and
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh no, because I see Buffalo wow Wings.
Speaker 2: I love you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, let go.
Speaker 3: Are you excited about that or not excited?
Speaker 4: I'm not excited at all. I'm just paying from Buffalo
Speaker 4: woweing to my cold go with my whole girls, excited
Speaker 4: for now.
Speaker 3: Okay, so that he's taking you there for a date
Speaker 3: and you're not feeling.
Speaker 4: That you expect okay, a lot better, not a little look.
Speaker 4: He puts it in park. He gets out of a car,
Speaker 4: comes around and opens my door like a perfect gentleman
Speaker 4: he is. And I said, please close my door.
Speaker 5: You said close, You said close the door while you're still.
Speaker 1: In the car.
Speaker 4: I said, please close my door.
Speaker 3: Well it's nice to reply, let's close my door.
Speaker 4: And I think that he thought I was kidding, because
Speaker 4: he was like, be there.
Speaker 1: I'm like hello, So you're going to force him to
Speaker 1: take you somewhere else.
Speaker 4: I don't force anybody do anything. I'm letting him know.
Speaker 4: Please close my door, because I don't do buffalow wild
Speaker 4: wings at a date.
Speaker 3: That is that a messy food. It's a terrible first date.
Speaker 2: It sucks your address and stuff together. Also, especially uncomfortable, uncomfortab.
Speaker 5: I don't want to like sit and drink beers and
Speaker 5: watch sports and scream and spilled beers.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you what I don't want to do
Speaker 4: on a day. I don't want to watch the whole
Speaker 4: grown man lick his fingers.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna write that down sexy when we sucked on
Speaker 5: the bone.
Speaker 3: So did he finally listen to you and shut the door?
Speaker 4: Yes, he did. He shut the door. I said, I
Speaker 4: got three choices for you, and he picked a nice
Speaker 4: cocktail bar and I said, okay, cool. I thought, okay,
Speaker 4: he didn't know, right, he didn't know. I told him,
Speaker 4: let's go.
Speaker 5: Also, and he adapted and he would offended by the way.
Speaker 4: Like he seemed more confused than offended.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's that's a standard. You know, mental headspace for
Speaker 5: mens constant.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 3: How was it though?
Speaker 1: When you got to the cocktail bar? Were you able
Speaker 1: to still keep a good energy together?
Speaker 4: Yes? He asked me questions about what had just happened.
Speaker 4: I'm like, yo, I'm a lady for real, I want
Speaker 4: silk aware, I don't want plastic utensils. So he was like, okay,
Speaker 4: I never thought of that something what a real lady like.
Speaker 5: I'm sure he actually appreciated the education on how to
Speaker 5: properly woo a woman.
Speaker 1: I don't know he appreciated it because he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh man, that's a good question. Appreciate it, And
Speaker 4: that's what I'm calling you.
Speaker 3: See, I would be insulted.
Speaker 2: See, I'm thinking that's the reason he wasn't getting second
Speaker 2: dates before, and now he's got it down.
Speaker 3: She taught him too well.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's what a lot of women get upset
Speaker 5: when they're like, oh great, I cleaned up my guy,
Speaker 5: just for the next one to come and like swipe
Speaker 5: him up.
Speaker 3: He's taking ten girls of that cocktail bar.
Speaker 4: We gotta get down to the nitty gritty because I
Speaker 4: want to know because I think I get everything right,
Speaker 4: and I taught him how to do everything right.
Speaker 5: And I want you deserve a medal and definitely a
Speaker 5: second date here.
Speaker 3: But what if he feels like you're too high maintenance,
Speaker 3: then screw that.
Speaker 5: Cot a real woman, then you'll lay into him, go
Speaker 5: fullheard against him, right Bro, that's where you come in.
Speaker 5: You do your thing.
Speaker 4: Well.
Speaker 1: I just think that if you have some boundaries like that,
Speaker 1: they should be established before the date, not when you're
Speaker 1: in the middle of it.
Speaker 4: But look, he's the one to ask me out and
Speaker 4: I accepted, right, Yeah, so you're gonna learn me on
Speaker 4: the date, and that's what he did. If he didn't
Speaker 4: like what he learned, he's gonna responded, you haven't pulled
Speaker 4: a whole radio show to find out what's ram with you. No,
Speaker 4: I can't wait to hear this.
Speaker 5: I don't want to hear it too, So hopefully he
Speaker 5: picks up. But we're gonna come back. We'll call Isaac
Speaker 5: for you and figure out why in the world he
Speaker 5: would not be calling back a classy woman like yourself, Monica.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's a cloth napkin type of lady.
Speaker 4: That's right.
Speaker 5: Let's get some answers when we do your second date
Speaker 5: update right after this hold on.
Speaker 6: Second date update.
Speaker 5: If you're just joining us. We've been speaking to a
Speaker 5: true hero. Her name is Monica heroically swooped in and
Speaker 5: save her date, Isaac from pulling a total rookie move
Speaker 5: when he tried to bring here to Buffalo.
Speaker 3: Wild Wings and that.
Speaker 5: Wasn't gonna fly with her, So Monica refused to get
Speaker 5: out of his car in order to show him this
Speaker 5: is not where you take a lady of substance.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they definitely had a miscommunication of what a dinner date.
Speaker 5: Looks like, but instead they ended up at a nice
Speaker 5: cocktail bar and they did it the proper way, where
Speaker 5: she actually discovered Isaac's a pretty good guy as some
Speaker 5: gentlemanly qualities something to work with. So the question is
Speaker 5: why is he not reaching out for cocktails? Round two, Monica.
Speaker 5: Is it possible that maybe he saw your helpful sense
Speaker 5: a teaching abilities as a little bit condescending.
Speaker 4: That's a possibility. I just wish he would have expressed
Speaker 4: that to me personally.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you seem like a person who can take criticism,
Speaker 1: constructive criticism.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, if I could hit it, I definitely could
Speaker 4: take it. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. That's a good attitude to have. It
Speaker 3: doesn't happen often on this.
Speaker 5: Yeah, would you like to criticize her constructively before we
Speaker 5: do this call? Is that where you're going?
Speaker 1: She knows who she is, she knows what she wants,
Speaker 1: and she wants to go out with Isaac.
Speaker 5: So okay, So Brooke, you're scared of her and you're
Speaker 5: afraid to say anything.
Speaker 3: I think Isaac will be scared and it will be
Speaker 3: afraid to say no. So I think you're getting a date,
Speaker 3: no matter one. I also like to scare men.
Speaker 2: She seems like you broke.
Speaker 5: You're going to intimidate this guy and yes to a date.
Speaker 5: But let's see what he asked to say if he
Speaker 5: picks up the phone.
Speaker 6: But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Isaac? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Hey man, we're a radio show. You're on it right now.
Speaker 5: It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Isaac. Hey, good morning.
Speaker 6: Why is a radio show calling me?
Speaker 5: Uh? Well, it's kind of a good reason. We do
Speaker 5: a segment on this show. It's called a second Date
Speaker 5: up eight. It sounds like you haven't heard it, but
Speaker 5: this is a segment where we help out our listeners
Speaker 5: who've been on a date with someone, and afterwards, they're
Speaker 5: not getting a call back to go on a second one.
Speaker 6: I think I have heard of it. I think I've
Speaker 6: seen this online somewhere or once something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of them are viral on TikTok.
Speaker 5: They're on there. You can follow us at Brooke and
Speaker 5: Jeffery if you want to.
Speaker 6: No pressure.
Speaker 5: But basically the reason that we're calling you is there's
Speaker 5: a woman named Monica who asked us to get a
Speaker 5: hold of you.
Speaker 6: Hey, yeah, I met Monica.
Speaker 4: Yeah right, we know you.
Speaker 3: Sounds like you guys could have had a great date.
Speaker 6: Did she What did she tell you? What did she
Speaker 6: tell you?
Speaker 4: Question?
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I guess the general recap of what we
Speaker 5: heard from her is you picked her up, then you
Speaker 5: took her to Buffalo Wild Wings quick, which she uh
Speaker 5: politely redirected over to a cocktail bar.
Speaker 6: Well politely we directed it be wrong.
Speaker 3: Jeff.
Speaker 5: She's our friend, so you know we're not going to
Speaker 5: be rude.
Speaker 6: Well, I mean I wasn't rude either. She just simply
Speaker 6: kind of barked closed my door.
Speaker 3: Did you?
Speaker 6: At first? I just stood there like, what do you mean?
Speaker 6: You like there's a bug about to get inside my car?
Speaker 6: I was like, okay, so I close the door and
Speaker 6: I go back to my side of the car. I
Speaker 6: get in and she explains to me like, hey, I
Speaker 6: don't do Buffalo Wild Wings And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 6: all right. I mean the reason why I chose the
Speaker 6: Buffalo Wild Wings because in these new dating apps, it's
Speaker 6: better to start out something very casual another date, we
Speaker 6: graduate to something a little better.
Speaker 3: But wait, did you explain all of that to her?
Speaker 3: What you just told us why you chose it.
Speaker 6: No, I didn't explain any of that to her, and
Speaker 6: also didn't tell her this. I own that Buffalo Wild Wings.
Speaker 3: You own it a franchisee.
Speaker 2: You're gonna take her to your own job though.
Speaker 3: For civil ex accept you get free food. Yeah, guys,
Speaker 3: he's a business owner.
Speaker 6: Ca Okay, So look, so look, I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 6: I'm still a gentleman. She wanted to go somewhere a
Speaker 6: little bit better, so we made our way to this
Speaker 6: great cocktail lounge that I know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so what changed your mind to where now you're
Speaker 5: not reaching out to her for a second date?
Speaker 6: Okay, So, while we're kind of enjoying each other's company,
Speaker 6: it's the cocktail bar. I started asking you a little
Speaker 6: bit more about her life, and of course we get
Speaker 6: to like, what do we do for a living?
Speaker 4: Uh huh.
Speaker 6: She kind of skated around it for a while till
Speaker 6: she came to an answer I've never heard in my
Speaker 6: entire life.
Speaker 3: What is it?
Speaker 6: She says she's a stay at home daughter.
Speaker 5: A stay at home daughter.
Speaker 3: She's got to be joking a joke.
Speaker 6: No, it's not a joke. That's what she told me.
Speaker 6: Her occupation at thirty one years old is that she's
Speaker 6: a stay at home daughter.
Speaker 2: Yes, I supposed to be stay home girlfriend.
Speaker 1: I mean yes, that is a real fancy way to
Speaker 1: say you're unemployed and live with mom and dad.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Okay, so you were turned off because she doesn't have
Speaker 5: enough ambition or drive or.
Speaker 4: All right, we got we gotta cut this right here. Okay,
Speaker 4: I don't know what's going on, all.
Speaker 5: Right, I don't want to make her mad. But Isaac,
Speaker 5: that's Monica on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 6: Clearly, it's Monica.
Speaker 3: Clearly, maybe she's on her parents' landline.
Speaker 4: You better watch yourself. You're supposed to be with me here.
Speaker 5: Okay, Monica, clearly you want to jump in and say something,
Speaker 5: so go ahead and talk to Isaac.
Speaker 4: Hello, Isaac, how are you.
Speaker 6: Hi, Monica from your mom's couch. Are you doing?
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, no no. Let me tell you something, Isaac.
Speaker 4: I don't know what's the disrespect about. I thought we
Speaker 4: got along pretty well on our date. We had a
Speaker 4: good time. I didn't know you had a problem with
Speaker 4: my daily occupation.
Speaker 3: What is the I don't wish it.
Speaker 1: But we're parents, like elderly. Do you stay home and
Speaker 1: take care of them? Is that what's going on?
Speaker 4: We're just no, they're perfectly healthy. They just take care
Speaker 4: of me, their baby girl, and I always will be okay.
Speaker 6: Monica, guess who else is perfectly healthy? You are get
Speaker 6: a job?
Speaker 4: You know what? Let me tell you something. I am
Speaker 4: perfectly healthy. Yes I am, as you could see. And
Speaker 4: if I had to get a job, I would, But
Speaker 4: guess what, I don't have to.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Don't you want a job?
Speaker 1: Don't you want your own career? Don't you have your
Speaker 1: own dreams and ambitions?
Speaker 4: Like yes, my dream and my ambition is sitting at home,
Speaker 4: playing on my day, going into what I have to
Speaker 4: do and finding a man. If don't take care of me,
Speaker 4: so my parents could stop.
Speaker 3: So that's your goal, Brooke.
Speaker 5: It sounds like you're judging her there, and she explicitly
Speaker 5: asked you not to do.
Speaker 1: So it's really hard not to, right because you would
Speaker 1: never date a guy who is doing what you do.
Speaker 4: You are exactly right, and they shouldn't. A man shouldn't
Speaker 4: do what I do. My bro is to be taken
Speaker 4: care of. That's my love language. I love to be
Speaker 4: taken care of. And if it works, it works.
Speaker 2: The old school chivalry and stuff.
Speaker 1: I cannot imagine imagine being a man going and meeting
Speaker 1: your parents for the first time.
Speaker 5: That sounds like all of them, Alace, what's your dowry?
Speaker 4: Sir?
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, Isaac, now that she's explained this a little
Speaker 5: bit more, you're probably more receptive to going out with
Speaker 5: her more time.
Speaker 6: Look. Look, I wish Monica the best. It's just not
Speaker 6: the best with me. Oh you have great life, Monica.
Speaker 6: I hope you find a guy slash simp it will
Speaker 6: take care what I don't think.
Speaker 4: So, Isaac, you're gonna take me out and that's just
Speaker 4: the way it's gonna be.
Speaker 3: I love how you want to be.
Speaker 2: The boss, but you don't want to do any of
Speaker 2: the work to a box.
Speaker 4: A boss doesn't work.
Speaker 3: No, I a boss.
Speaker 4: You don't want to make And that is the problem.
Speaker 4: Y'all just don't understand, and clearly I don't understand being
Speaker 4: a whole business owner and want to take me to
Speaker 4: his little budget wing stop.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna be honest with you, Monica. See, there's a difference.
Speaker 6: There's a difference between a boss and a leader. You're
Speaker 6: not a leader.
Speaker 4: I never said I was a leader. I never said that.
Speaker 6: I am a leader. I'm a leader.
Speaker 4: Okay, But you could have been a man and leave
Speaker 4: my act. You could have told me that why are
Speaker 4: you dodg didn't running.
Speaker 6: No one's dodging or running. What I'm doing is ghosting.
Speaker 4: Whoa okay? And I don't need him. I don't need
Speaker 4: him anyway.
Speaker 3: I don't need each other.
Speaker 4: He hung up.
Speaker 3: By the way, get a job?
Speaker 2: You don't brook You.
Speaker 5: Know what you need to do is you need to
Speaker 5: go to Buffalo Wild Wings and spend your parents' money
Speaker 5: over there.
Speaker 4: No, I'm not going in no more. Look, I'm going
Speaker 4: to the Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like you're going to be on the phone
Speaker 1: a lot with your expectations for dating.
Speaker 4: Well, that's okay. Look, I got a lot of time.
Speaker 4: Boom boom.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 5: And are your parents hiring for any open roles in
Speaker 5: your family?
Speaker 3: Because I would love to be a party?
Speaker 4: Oh that good, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Well, hey, we all learned a new job today. It's
Speaker 5: stay at home daughter, a job.
Speaker 2: I'll have flying right now texting my mom?
Speaker 1: You would last I give you two days back home
Speaker 1: with your parents?
Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4: Isaac?
Speaker 3: Today Mom's house.
Speaker 5: Isaac did not like it. Obviously Brooke does not respect
Speaker 5: it either. But okay, Brook, let me ask you this, okay,
Speaker 5: would it have changed how you felt if Monica was
Speaker 5: twenty one years compared to thirty one? Would you give
Speaker 5: her more grace?
Speaker 3: If she's not going to school, she should be working.
Speaker 4: No, that's right.
Speaker 5: Brooke believes you should start working at a six in
Speaker 5: one of her overseas factories. So, parents, if you're lazy,
Speaker 5: first grader is still mooching off of you as a
Speaker 5: stay at home child, Yeah, and then text in seventy
Speaker 5: five nine two. Brook'll whip them into shit.
Speaker 3: Let me give you some parenting tips, yes.
Speaker 5: And if not parenting tips, we can hopefully at least
Speaker 5: give you a little bit of dating help. You can
Speaker 5: email the show, we can call that person who's not
Speaker 5: calling you back. And go check out all of our
Speaker 5: second day podcasts. Wherever you get yours, they're up at
Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey Brook
Speaker 3: And Jeffrey in the morning