WEBVTT - Second Date Update: B Dub Flub 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.560 Alexis on a scale of one to ten. How uncool 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:04.240 am I going to sound if I call today's brand 0:00:04.240 --> 0:00:08.000 new Second Date update a doozy doozy? 0:00:08.600 --> 0:00:10.640 Oh that's not even gonna rank. I don't even know 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:11.320 where that's hut. 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:14.760 I mean it was though, welcome to the podcast. We're 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:16.119 so glad you're here, and I was. 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:20.640 Sorry, put your hands in the air when this woman 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:23.600 describes what she quote unquote does for a living. 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:26.200 I am sorry, I am sorry. 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:26.759 Go home. 0:00:26.880 --> 0:00:29.360 Well, that's not even the right thing on a scale. 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:31.080 I'm eleven for jealous of her job. 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:35.560 Lexus, all right, you're gonna hear it in just a second. 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:37.720 But first the comments, what do you got? Alexis? 0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:41.080 All right? Megel Doney said, my seven year old absolutely 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:43.360 loves your show and asked if he could be the 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:45.120 new host and if it could be brooking Charles in 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:45.520 the morning. 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:49.560 Oh yeah, immediately, I mean, Charles feels like we should 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:52.360 do a real, like fancy show, same as Jeffrey. 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:59.200 Jeff should be cut out. I agree. I'm just imagining 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:00.880 jeff in a little year old in a suit. 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:03.800 It's just kicking over and they're both wearing crowns and suits. Yeah, 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:07.160 and they have the same level of potty humor. Yeah, 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:09.559 I think it'll work. I like it all right, here's 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:11.320 your second date update right now. 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:13.560 Second date update date. 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:19.679 An important part of any blossoming relationship is the first 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:23.679 time a woman corrects her man and tells him he 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:26.479 messed up. You need to do better. 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:28.440 All right, Well, this has to happen. 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:31.800 It's such a special moment because we need that as guys. 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:34.720 If left to our own devices, we'll wear four gallons 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:39.000 of axe body spray and think it smells good. We'll 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:41.440 wash our cashmere sweaters in hot water. 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:42.800 Oh, we love. 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:44.920 Jeff? 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:45.600 Is that what you do? 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:46.800 Are we not supposed to? 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:50.120 Can we be mothers to every man? 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:54.440 Goodness for women being there to correct us so we 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:55.240 can learn and go. 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:57.040 Oh, that's how it works. 0:01:57.200 --> 0:01:57.920 You never have. 0:01:57.840 --> 0:01:58.840 To use your own brain. 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.000 Well, a lot of women will wait a few dates 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:04.280 to correct there man, but not our listener, Monica. She 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:07.400 told the guy he messed up on night one, yikes 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:09.239 for his benefit. 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:09.560 Broke. 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:11.000 No, it's nice, it is. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.480 That's what happened, Monica. Welcome to the show. Was that 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:16.640 intro to your liking? Or could I have done better? 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:18.200 No? You hit it? 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:23.520 Ye Wow, that's not just made my day, Monica, Thank. 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:23.960 You so much. 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:27.359 I'm always so curious why someone says a guy messes 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:29.000 up and then still wants to call him for. 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:30.000 Another date all that. 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:30.680 You know. 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:34.160 Yeah, we'll get into that, but let's start with what's 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:34.840 this guy's name? 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:37.360 Who did you go out with? Okay, so I met 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:42.120 Isaac online and he seemed really cool. I like his personality, 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:44.639 I like his looks definitely. 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:46.600 So there's a lot of potential there. 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:49.360 Yeah. I really liked him because there's a lot of 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:51.800 guys on this app that there will catch you forever. 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:53.960 I don't do the back and forth, back and forth thing, 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:56.120 but he came right down with it. He's like, I 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:57.680 want to take you out o. 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:03.000 Confident Yeah, and all the action that is just living 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:05.120 in this weird world of like what are we doing? 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:05.680 Yeah? 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.120 Right, that's a good note for men, because the more 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:11.160 you talk, the more opportunities you're giving yourself to say 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:17.240 something stupid and we will do that. Yes, Okay, good 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:19.280 for Isaac. Now I'm not going to say much more, 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:19.960 just keep. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:22.600 Going what happened? Yes, he says, pick me up and 0:03:22.680 --> 0:03:24.720 take me to the nice restaurant, So you know, I 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:27.520 got up in my nice little dress, thinking yeah, hey, 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:30.360 and then he came close up, he got out, he 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:34.000 opened my door. Oh okay, yeah, he was a very 0:03:34.120 --> 0:03:35.720 nice I got lie. He was nice. 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:39.839 Okay, so everything's working in his favor right now. 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.680 I'm wondering where things start to turn and you have 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:43.360 to step in. 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:46.080 And as soon as we got off the highway and 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.720 I'm like, oh no, because I see Buffalo wow Wings. 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:50.960 I love you. 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:54.040 Yeah, okay, let go. 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:56.480 Are you excited about that or not excited? 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.240 I'm not excited at all. I'm just paying from Buffalo 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:02.680 woweing to my cold go with my whole girls, excited 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:03.120 for now. 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:05.640 Okay, so that he's taking you there for a date 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:06.920 and you're not feeling. 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:12.560 That you expect okay, a lot better, not a little look. 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:15.240 He puts it in park. He gets out of a car, 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:18.120 comes around and opens my door like a perfect gentleman 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:19.960 he is. And I said, please close my door. 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:24.080 You said close, You said close the door while you're still. 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:24.440 In the car. 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:27.440 I said, please close my door. 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.479 Well it's nice to reply, let's close my door. 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:33.320 And I think that he thought I was kidding, because 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:34.320 he was like, be there. 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:39.760 I'm like hello, So you're going to force him to 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:40.799 take you somewhere else. 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:43.599 I don't force anybody do anything. I'm letting him know. 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:46.440 Please close my door, because I don't do buffalow wild 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.679 wings at a date. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:53.640 That is that a messy food. It's a terrible first date. 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:59.960 It sucks your address and stuff together. Also, especially uncomfortable, uncomfortab. 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:01.520 I don't want to like sit and drink beers and 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.800 watch sports and scream and spilled beers. 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:05.400 I'm gonna tell you what I don't want to do 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:06.960 on a day. I don't want to watch the whole 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:08.440 grown man lick his fingers. 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:10.920 That's what I'm saying. 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:13.080 I'm gonna write that down sexy when we sucked on 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:13.520 the bone. 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:18.880 So did he finally listen to you and shut the door? 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.200 Yes, he did. He shut the door. I said, I 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.680 got three choices for you, and he picked a nice 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.679 cocktail bar and I said, okay, cool. I thought, okay, 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:28.760 he didn't know, right, he didn't know. I told him, 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:29.240 let's go. 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:34.799 Also, and he adapted and he would offended by the way. 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:36.839 Like he seemed more confused than offended. 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:40.919 Okay, that's that's a standard. You know, mental headspace for 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:41.880 mens constant. 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:42.640 Right. 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:43.720 How was it though? 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:45.880 When you got to the cocktail bar? Were you able 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:47.679 to still keep a good energy together? 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:51.080 Yes? He asked me questions about what had just happened. 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.839 I'm like, yo, I'm a lady for real, I want 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:58.359 silk aware, I don't want plastic utensils. So he was like, okay, 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:01.479 I never thought of that something what a real lady like. 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:04.599 I'm sure he actually appreciated the education on how to 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:05.880 properly woo a woman. 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:08.760 I don't know he appreciated it because he's not calling 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:09.200 you back. 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:14.280 Yeah, oh man, that's a good question. Appreciate it, And 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.560 that's what I'm calling you. 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:17.279 See, I would be insulted. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:19.240 See, I'm thinking that's the reason he wasn't getting second 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:21.000 dates before, and now he's got it down. 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:22.960 She taught him too well. 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:28.119 Yeah, yeah, that's what a lot of women get upset 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:30.240 when they're like, oh great, I cleaned up my guy, 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:32.320 just for the next one to come and like swipe 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:32.640 him up. 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:34.560 He's taking ten girls of that cocktail bar. 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:36.520 We gotta get down to the nitty gritty because I 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:38.800 want to know because I think I get everything right, 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:42.080 and I taught him how to do everything right. 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:47.120 And I want you deserve a medal and definitely a 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:47.880 second date here. 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:50.240 But what if he feels like you're too high maintenance, 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:51.360 then screw that. 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:55.520 Cot a real woman, then you'll lay into him, go 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:58.000 fullheard against him, right Bro, that's where you come in. 0:06:58.080 --> 0:06:58.720 You do your thing. 0:06:58.800 --> 0:06:58.960 Well. 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:01.480 I just think that if you have some boundaries like that, 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:04.440 they should be established before the date, not when you're 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:05.040 in the middle of it. 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:07.440 But look, he's the one to ask me out and 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:10.480 I accepted, right, Yeah, so you're gonna learn me on 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:12.760 the date, and that's what he did. If he didn't 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:16.640 like what he learned, he's gonna responded, you haven't pulled 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:19.360 a whole radio show to find out what's ram with you. No, 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:20.560 I can't wait to hear this. 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:25.880 I don't want to hear it too, So hopefully he 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:28.320 picks up. But we're gonna come back. We'll call Isaac 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:30.720 for you and figure out why in the world he 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:33.920 would not be calling back a classy woman like yourself, Monica. 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:36.119 Yeah, she's a cloth napkin type of lady. 0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:37.280 That's right. 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:39.360 Let's get some answers when we do your second date 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.080 update right after this hold on. 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:43.360 Second date update. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:47.520 If you're just joining us. We've been speaking to a 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:53.800 true hero. Her name is Monica heroically swooped in and 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:57.880 save her date, Isaac from pulling a total rookie move 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:01.400 when he tried to bring here to Buffalo. 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.600 Wild Wings and that. 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:08.000 Wasn't gonna fly with her, So Monica refused to get 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.600 out of his car in order to show him this 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:13.080 is not where you take a lady of substance. 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:18.720 Yeah, they definitely had a miscommunication of what a dinner date. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:21.000 Looks like, but instead they ended up at a nice 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:24.400 cocktail bar and they did it the proper way, where 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:27.440 she actually discovered Isaac's a pretty good guy as some 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:31.720 gentlemanly qualities something to work with. So the question is 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:36.439 why is he not reaching out for cocktails? Round two, Monica. 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:40.040 Is it possible that maybe he saw your helpful sense 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:43.079 a teaching abilities as a little bit condescending. 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:47.080 That's a possibility. I just wish he would have expressed 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:48.120 that to me personally. 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:51.400 Yeah, you seem like a person who can take criticism, 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:52.640 constructive criticism. 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:55.480 Yeah yeah, if I could hit it, I definitely could 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:56.040 take it. Yeah. 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:58.520 Yeah, that's right. That's a good attitude to have. It 0:08:58.559 --> 0:08:59.719 doesn't happen often on this. 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:04.080 Yeah, would you like to criticize her constructively before we 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:05.360 do this call? Is that where you're going? 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:08.160 She knows who she is, she knows what she wants, 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:09.440 and she wants to go out with Isaac. 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:11.800 So okay, So Brooke, you're scared of her and you're 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:12.720 afraid to say anything. 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.400 I think Isaac will be scared and it will be 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:17.240 afraid to say no. So I think you're getting a date, 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:21.920 no matter one. I also like to scare men. 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:23.160 She seems like you broke. 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:27.040 You're going to intimidate this guy and yes to a date. 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:29.000 But let's see what he asked to say if he 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:29.680 picks up the phone. 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:42.560 But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Isaac? Yeah? 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:46.040 Hey man, we're a radio show. You're on it right now. 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:47.480 It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:49.640 Welcome to the show, Isaac. Hey, good morning. 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:52.480 Why is a radio show calling me? 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:57.280 Uh? Well, it's kind of a good reason. We do 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:59.640 a segment on this show. It's called a second Date 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:03.200 up eight. It sounds like you haven't heard it, but 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:05.560 this is a segment where we help out our listeners 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:08.600 who've been on a date with someone, and afterwards, they're 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.200 not getting a call back to go on a second one. 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:13.199 I think I have heard of it. I think I've 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:15.000 seen this online somewhere or once something. 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:18.600 Yeah, a lot of them are viral on TikTok. 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:20.079 They're on there. You can follow us at Brooke and 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:20.960 Jeffery if you want to. 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:21.520 No pressure. 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:26.080 But basically the reason that we're calling you is there's 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:28.839 a woman named Monica who asked us to get a 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:29.280 hold of you. 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:34.319 Hey, yeah, I met Monica. 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:35.360 Yeah right, we know you. 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:38.440 Sounds like you guys could have had a great date. 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:41.719 Did she What did she tell you? What did she 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:42.199 tell you? 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:42.880 Question? 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:45.600 Okay, Well, I guess the general recap of what we 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:49.160 heard from her is you picked her up, then you 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:53.079 took her to Buffalo Wild Wings quick, which she uh 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:57.080 politely redirected over to a cocktail bar. 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:00.720 Well politely we directed it be wrong. 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:03.160 Jeff. 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:06.240 She's our friend, so you know we're not going to 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:06.679 be rude. 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.320 Well, I mean I wasn't rude either. She just simply 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:11.400 kind of barked closed my door. 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:12.640 Did you? 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:14.800 At first? I just stood there like, what do you mean? 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:17.640 You like there's a bug about to get inside my car? 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:22.840 I was like, okay, so I close the door and 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:24.680 I go back to my side of the car. I 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:28.280 get in and she explains to me like, hey, I 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:31.920 don't do Buffalo Wild Wings And I was like, yeah, 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:34.720 all right. I mean the reason why I chose the 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:38.240 Buffalo Wild Wings because in these new dating apps, it's 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:41.800 better to start out something very casual another date, we 0:11:41.880 --> 0:11:43.520 graduate to something a little better. 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:45.640 But wait, did you explain all of that to her? 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:47.520 What you just told us why you chose it. 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:49.800 No, I didn't explain any of that to her, and 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:53.240 also didn't tell her this. I own that Buffalo Wild Wings. 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:56.360 You own it a franchisee. 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.280 You're gonna take her to your own job though. 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:03.839 For civil ex accept you get free food. Yeah, guys, 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:05.240 he's a business owner. 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:09.000 Ca Okay, So look, so look, I'm gonna be honest. 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:10.760 I'm still a gentleman. She wanted to go somewhere a 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:13.120 little bit better, so we made our way to this 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:14.560 great cocktail lounge that I know. 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:18.160 Yeah, so what changed your mind to where now you're 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:19.800 not reaching out to her for a second date? 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:23.199 Okay, So, while we're kind of enjoying each other's company, 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:25.840 it's the cocktail bar. I started asking you a little 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:27.880 bit more about her life, and of course we get 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:29.480 to like, what do we do for a living? 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:30.079 Uh huh. 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:32.319 She kind of skated around it for a while till 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:34.840 she came to an answer I've never heard in my 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:36.000 entire life. 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:36.560 What is it? 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:40.000 She says she's a stay at home daughter. 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:43.800 A stay at home daughter. 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:47.840 She's got to be joking a joke. 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:50.640 No, it's not a joke. That's what she told me. 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:54.400 Her occupation at thirty one years old is that she's 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:55.840 a stay at home daughter. 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:58.760 Yes, I supposed to be stay home girlfriend. 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.199 I mean yes, that is a real fancy way to 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:03.000 say you're unemployed and live with mom and dad. 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:03.440 Yeah. 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:06.240 Okay, so you were turned off because she doesn't have 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.480 enough ambition or drive or. 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:15.000 All right, we got we gotta cut this right here. Okay, 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:17.160 I don't know what's going on, all. 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:20.320 Right, I don't want to make her mad. But Isaac, 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:22.920 that's Monica on the other line listening to this conversation. 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:24.080 Clearly, it's Monica. 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:28.280 Clearly, maybe she's on her parents' landline. 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:32.040 You better watch yourself. You're supposed to be with me here. 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:37.080 Okay, Monica, clearly you want to jump in and say something, 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:38.960 so go ahead and talk to Isaac. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:40.920 Hello, Isaac, how are you. 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:44.720 Hi, Monica from your mom's couch. Are you doing? 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:49.240 Oh no, no, no, no no. Let me tell you something, Isaac. 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:52.200 I don't know what's the disrespect about. I thought we 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:55.160 got along pretty well on our date. We had a 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:57.600 good time. I didn't know you had a problem with 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:58.959 my daily occupation. 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.920 What is the I don't wish it. 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:04.920 But we're parents, like elderly. Do you stay home and 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:06.360 take care of them? Is that what's going on? 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:10.480 We're just no, they're perfectly healthy. They just take care 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:13.720 of me, their baby girl, and I always will be okay. 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:17.040 Monica, guess who else is perfectly healthy? You are get 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:17.440 a job? 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:22.320 You know what? Let me tell you something. I am 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:25.000 perfectly healthy. Yes I am, as you could see. And 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:27.240 if I had to get a job, I would, But 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:28.520 guess what, I don't have to. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:34.840 I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Don't you want a job? 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:37.280 Don't you want your own career? Don't you have your 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:38.920 own dreams and ambitions? 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:43.040 Like yes, my dream and my ambition is sitting at home, 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:45.880 playing on my day, going into what I have to 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.400 do and finding a man. If don't take care of me, 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:49.680 so my parents could stop. 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:53.360 So that's your goal, Brooke. 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:55.880 It sounds like you're judging her there, and she explicitly 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:56.840 asked you not to do. 0:14:56.920 --> 0:15:01.240 So it's really hard not to, right because you would 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:03.840 never date a guy who is doing what you do. 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:06.880 You are exactly right, and they shouldn't. A man shouldn't 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:11.040 do what I do. My bro is to be taken 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:13.720 care of. That's my love language. I love to be 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:16.080 taken care of. And if it works, it works. 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:17.840 The old school chivalry and stuff. 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:23.000 I cannot imagine imagine being a man going and meeting 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:24.200 your parents for the first time. 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:30.320 That sounds like all of them, Alace, what's your dowry? 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:30.640 Sir? 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:33.960 Okay, Well, Isaac, now that she's explained this a little 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:37.120 bit more, you're probably more receptive to going out with 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:38.040 her more time. 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:41.360 Look. Look, I wish Monica the best. It's just not 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:45.160 the best with me. Oh you have great life, Monica. 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:48.320 I hope you find a guy slash simp it will 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:51.640 take care what I don't think. 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:53.760 So, Isaac, you're gonna take me out and that's just 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:54.560 the way it's gonna be. 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:57.920 I love how you want to be. 0:15:57.920 --> 0:15:59.800 The boss, but you don't want to do any of 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:01.360 the work to a box. 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:03.320 A boss doesn't work. 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:07.440 No, I a boss. 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:09.760 You don't want to make And that is the problem. 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.800 Y'all just don't understand, and clearly I don't understand being 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:14.680 a whole business owner and want to take me to 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:16.280 his little budget wing stop. 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:21.520 I'm gonna be honest with you, Monica. See, there's a difference. 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:24.240 There's a difference between a boss and a leader. You're 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:24.880 not a leader. 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:27.800 I never said I was a leader. I never said that. 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:32.560 I am a leader. I'm a leader. 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:36.320 Okay, But you could have been a man and leave 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:41.760 my act. You could have told me that why are 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:43.200 you dodg didn't running. 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:47.080 No one's dodging or running. What I'm doing is ghosting. 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:58.640 Whoa okay? And I don't need him. I don't need 0:16:58.720 --> 0:16:59.240 him anyway. 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:00.760 I don't need each other. 0:17:00.880 --> 0:17:01.400 He hung up. 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:02.560 By the way, get a job? 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:05.359 You don't brook You. 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:06.439 Know what you need to do is you need to 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:08.960 go to Buffalo Wild Wings and spend your parents' money 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:09.560 over there. 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:13.160 No, I'm not going in no more. Look, I'm going 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:14.320 to the Yeah. 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:16.480 I feel like you're going to be on the phone 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:18.480 a lot with your expectations for dating. 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:21.400 Well, that's okay. Look, I got a lot of time. 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:22.160 Boom boom. 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:24.879 Yeah, that's a good point. 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:27.919 And are your parents hiring for any open roles in 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:28.479 your family? 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:30.080 Because I would love to be a party? 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:34.159 Oh that good, Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:37.320