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Speaker 1: Alexis on a scale of one to ten. How uncool

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Speaker 1: am I going to sound if I call today's brand

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Speaker 1: new Second Date update a doozy doozy?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's not even gonna rank. I don't even know

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Speaker 2: where that's hut.

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Speaker 3: I mean it was though, welcome to the podcast. We're

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Speaker 3: so glad you're here, and I was.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, put your hands in the air when this woman

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Speaker 1: describes what she quote unquote does for a living.

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Speaker 3: I am sorry, I am sorry.

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Speaker 4: Go home.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's not even the right thing on a scale.

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Speaker 2: I'm eleven for jealous of her job.

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Speaker 3: Lexus, all right, you're gonna hear it in just a second.

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Speaker 3: But first the comments, what do you got? Alexis?

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Speaker 2: All right? Megel Doney said, my seven year old absolutely

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Speaker 2: loves your show and asked if he could be the

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Speaker 2: new host and if it could be brooking Charles in

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Speaker 2: the morning.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, immediately, I mean, Charles feels like we should

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Speaker 1: do a real, like fancy show, same as Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: Jeff should be cut out. I agree. I'm just imagining

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Speaker 2: jeff in a little year old in a suit.

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Speaker 3: It's just kicking over and they're both wearing crowns and suits. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and they have the same level of potty humor. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think it'll work. I like it all right, here's

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Speaker 3: your second date update right now.

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Speaker 4: Second date update date.

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Speaker 5: An important part of any blossoming relationship is the first

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Speaker 5: time a woman corrects her man and tells him he

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Speaker 5: messed up. You need to do better.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, this has to happen.

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Speaker 5: It's such a special moment because we need that as guys.

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Speaker 5: If left to our own devices, we'll wear four gallons

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Speaker 5: of axe body spray and think it smells good. We'll

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Speaker 5: wash our cashmere sweaters in hot water.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we love.

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Speaker 1: Jeff?

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Speaker 3: Is that what you do?

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Speaker 5: Are we not supposed to?

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Speaker 3: Can we be mothers to every man?

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Speaker 5: Goodness for women being there to correct us so we

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's how it works.

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Speaker 6: You never have.

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Speaker 3: To use your own brain.

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Speaker 5: Well, a lot of women will wait a few dates

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Speaker 5: to correct there man, but not our listener, Monica. She

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Speaker 5: told the guy he messed up on night one, yikes

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Speaker 5: for his benefit.

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Speaker 4: Broke.

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Speaker 3: No, it's nice, it is.

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Speaker 5: That's what happened, Monica. Welcome to the show. Was that

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Speaker 5: intro to your liking? Or could I have done better?

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Speaker 4: No? You hit it?

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Speaker 5: Ye Wow, that's not just made my day, Monica, Thank.

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Speaker 4: You so much.

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Speaker 1: I'm always so curious why someone says a guy messes

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Speaker 3: Another date all that.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll get into that, but let's start with what's

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Speaker 5: this guy's name?

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Speaker 4: Who did you go out with? Okay, so I met

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Speaker 4: Isaac online and he seemed really cool. I like his personality,

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Speaker 3: So there's a lot of potential there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I really liked him because there's a lot of

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Speaker 4: guys on this app that there will catch you forever.

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Speaker 4: I don't do the back and forth, back and forth thing,

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Speaker 4: but he came right down with it. He's like, I

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Speaker 1: Confident Yeah, and all the action that is just living

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Right, that's a good note for men, because the more

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Speaker 5: you talk, the more opportunities you're giving yourself to say

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Speaker 5: something stupid and we will do that. Yes, Okay, good

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Speaker 5: for Isaac. Now I'm not going to say much more,

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Speaker 4: Going what happened? Yes, he says, pick me up and

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Speaker 4: take me to the nice restaurant, So you know, I

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Speaker 4: and then he came close up, he got out, he

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Speaker 5: I'm wondering where things start to turn and you have

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Speaker 4: And as soon as we got off the highway and

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh no, because I see Buffalo wow Wings.

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Speaker 2: I love you.

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Speaker 3: Are you excited about that or not excited?

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Speaker 4: I'm not excited at all. I'm just paying from Buffalo

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Speaker 3: Okay, so that he's taking you there for a date

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Speaker 4: That you expect okay, a lot better, not a little look.

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Speaker 4: He puts it in park. He gets out of a car,

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Speaker 4: comes around and opens my door like a perfect gentleman

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Speaker 4: he is. And I said, please close my door.

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Speaker 4: I said, please close my door.

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Speaker 3: Well it's nice to reply, let's close my door.

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Speaker 4: And I think that he thought I was kidding, because

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Speaker 1: I'm like hello, So you're going to force him to

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Speaker 4: I don't force anybody do anything. I'm letting him know.

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Speaker 4: Please close my door, because I don't do buffalow wild

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Speaker 3: That is that a messy food. It's a terrible first date.

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Speaker 2: It sucks your address and stuff together. Also, especially uncomfortable, uncomfortab.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to like sit and drink beers and

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you what I don't want to do

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna write that down sexy when we sucked on

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Speaker 3: So did he finally listen to you and shut the door?

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Speaker 4: Yes, he did. He shut the door. I said, I

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Speaker 4: cocktail bar and I said, okay, cool. I thought, okay,

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Speaker 4: he didn't know, right, he didn't know. I told him,

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Speaker 5: Also, and he adapted and he would offended by the way.

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Speaker 4: Like he seemed more confused than offended.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's that's a standard. You know, mental headspace for

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 3: How was it though?

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Speaker 1: When you got to the cocktail bar? Were you able

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Speaker 4: Yes? He asked me questions about what had just happened.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, yo, I'm a lady for real, I want

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Speaker 4: silk aware, I don't want plastic utensils. So he was like, okay,

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Speaker 4: I never thought of that something what a real lady like.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure he actually appreciated the education on how to

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Speaker 1: I don't know he appreciated it because he's not calling

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh man, that's a good question. Appreciate it, And

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Speaker 4: that's what I'm calling you.

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Speaker 3: See, I would be insulted.

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Speaker 2: See, I'm thinking that's the reason he wasn't getting second

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Speaker 3: She taught him too well.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's what a lot of women get upset

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Speaker 5: when they're like, oh great, I cleaned up my guy,

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Speaker 3: He's taking ten girls of that cocktail bar.

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Speaker 4: We gotta get down to the nitty gritty because I

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Speaker 4: want to know because I think I get everything right,

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Speaker 5: And I want you deserve a medal and definitely a

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Speaker 3: But what if he feels like you're too high maintenance,

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Speaker 5: Cot a real woman, then you'll lay into him, go

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Speaker 5: fullheard against him, right Bro, that's where you come in.

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Speaker 5: You do your thing.

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 1: I just think that if you have some boundaries like that,

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Speaker 4: But look, he's the one to ask me out and

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Speaker 4: I accepted, right, Yeah, so you're gonna learn me on

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Speaker 4: the date, and that's what he did. If he didn't

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Speaker 4: like what he learned, he's gonna responded, you haven't pulled

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Speaker 4: a whole radio show to find out what's ram with you. No,

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Speaker 4: I can't wait to hear this.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to hear it too, So hopefully he

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Speaker 5: for you and figure out why in the world he

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's a cloth napkin type of lady.

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Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 5: Let's get some answers when we do your second date

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Speaker 6: Second date update.

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Speaker 5: If you're just joining us. We've been speaking to a

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Speaker 5: true hero. Her name is Monica heroically swooped in and

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Speaker 5: when he tried to bring here to Buffalo.

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Speaker 3: Wild Wings and that.

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Speaker 5: Wasn't gonna fly with her, So Monica refused to get

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Speaker 5: is not where you take a lady of substance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they definitely had a miscommunication of what a dinner date.

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Speaker 5: Looks like, but instead they ended up at a nice

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Speaker 5: cocktail bar and they did it the proper way, where

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Speaker 5: she actually discovered Isaac's a pretty good guy as some

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Speaker 5: gentlemanly qualities something to work with. So the question is

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Speaker 5: why is he not reaching out for cocktails? Round two, Monica.

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Speaker 5: Is it possible that maybe he saw your helpful sense

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Speaker 5: a teaching abilities as a little bit condescending.

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Speaker 4: That's a possibility. I just wish he would have expressed

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you seem like a person who can take criticism,

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Speaker 1: constructive criticism.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, if I could hit it, I definitely could

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Speaker 4: take it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. That's a good attitude to have. It

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Speaker 3: doesn't happen often on this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, would you like to criticize her constructively before we

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Speaker 5: do this call? Is that where you're going?

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Speaker 1: She knows who she is, she knows what she wants,

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Speaker 1: and she wants to go out with Isaac.

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Speaker 5: So okay, So Brooke, you're scared of her and you're

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Speaker 3: I think Isaac will be scared and it will be

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Speaker 3: afraid to say no. So I think you're getting a date,

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Speaker 3: no matter one. I also like to scare men.

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Speaker 2: She seems like you broke.

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Speaker 5: You're going to intimidate this guy and yes to a date.

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Speaker 5: But let's see what he asked to say if he

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Speaker 5: picks up the phone.

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Speaker 6: But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Isaac? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Hey man, we're a radio show. You're on it right now.

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Speaker 5: It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Isaac. Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 6: Why is a radio show calling me?

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Speaker 5: Uh? Well, it's kind of a good reason. We do

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Speaker 5: a segment on this show. It's called a second Date

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Speaker 5: up eight. It sounds like you haven't heard it, but

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Speaker 5: this is a segment where we help out our listeners

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Speaker 5: who've been on a date with someone, and afterwards, they're

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Speaker 5: not getting a call back to go on a second one.

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Speaker 6: I think I have heard of it. I think I've

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Speaker 6: seen this online somewhere or once something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of them are viral on TikTok.

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Speaker 5: They're on there. You can follow us at Brooke and

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Speaker 5: Jeffery if you want to.

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Speaker 6: No pressure.

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Speaker 5: But basically the reason that we're calling you is there's

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Speaker 5: a woman named Monica who asked us to get a

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Speaker 6: Hey, yeah, I met Monica.

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Speaker 4: Yeah right, we know you.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like you guys could have had a great date.

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Speaker 6: Did she What did she tell you? What did she

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Speaker 4: Question?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I guess the general recap of what we

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Speaker 5: heard from her is you picked her up, then you

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Speaker 5: took her to Buffalo Wild Wings quick, which she uh

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Speaker 6: Well politely we directed it be wrong.

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Speaker 3: Jeff.

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Speaker 5: She's our friend, so you know we're not going to

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I wasn't rude either. She just simply

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Speaker 6: kind of barked closed my door.

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Speaker 3: Did you?

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Speaker 6: At first? I just stood there like, what do you mean?

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Speaker 6: You like there's a bug about to get inside my car?

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Speaker 6: I was like, okay, so I close the door and

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Speaker 6: get in and she explains to me like, hey, I

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Speaker 6: don't do Buffalo Wild Wings And I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: all right. I mean the reason why I chose the

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Speaker 6: better to start out something very casual another date, we

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Speaker 3: But wait, did you explain all of that to her?

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Speaker 3: What you just told us why you chose it.

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Speaker 6: No, I didn't explain any of that to her, and

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Speaker 6: also didn't tell her this. I own that Buffalo Wild Wings.

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Speaker 3: You own it a franchisee.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna take her to your own job though.

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Speaker 3: For civil ex accept you get free food. Yeah, guys,

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Speaker 6: Ca Okay, So look, so look, I'm gonna be honest.

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Speaker 6: I'm still a gentleman. She wanted to go somewhere a

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so what changed your mind to where now you're

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Speaker 6: Okay, So, while we're kind of enjoying each other's company,

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Speaker 6: it's the cocktail bar. I started asking you a little

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Speaker 6: to like, what do we do for a living?

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Speaker 4: Uh huh.

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Speaker 6: She kind of skated around it for a while till

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Speaker 6: she came to an answer I've never heard in my

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 6: She says she's a stay at home daughter.

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Speaker 5: A stay at home daughter.

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Speaker 3: She's got to be joking a joke.

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Speaker 6: No, it's not a joke. That's what she told me.

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Speaker 6: Her occupation at thirty one years old is that she's

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Speaker 2: Yes, I supposed to be stay home girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: I mean yes, that is a real fancy way to

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so you were turned off because she doesn't have

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Speaker 4: All right, we got we gotta cut this right here. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's going on, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, I don't want to make her mad. But Isaac,

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Speaker 5: that's Monica on the other line listening to this conversation.

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Speaker 6: Clearly, it's Monica.

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Speaker 3: Clearly, maybe she's on her parents' landline.

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Speaker 4: You better watch yourself. You're supposed to be with me here.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Monica, clearly you want to jump in and say something,

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Speaker 5: so go ahead and talk to Isaac.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Isaac, how are you.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Monica from your mom's couch. Are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, no no. Let me tell you something, Isaac.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's the disrespect about. I thought we

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Speaker 4: good time. I didn't know you had a problem with

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Speaker 3: What is the I don't wish it.

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Speaker 1: But we're parents, like elderly. Do you stay home and

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Speaker 4: We're just no, they're perfectly healthy. They just take care

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Speaker 4: of me, their baby girl, and I always will be okay.

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Speaker 6: Monica, guess who else is perfectly healthy? You are get

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Speaker 4: You know what? Let me tell you something. I am

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Speaker 4: perfectly healthy. Yes I am, as you could see. And

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Speaker 4: if I had to get a job, I would, But

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Don't you want a job?

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Speaker 1: Don't you want your own career? Don't you have your

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Speaker 4: Like yes, my dream and my ambition is sitting at home,

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Speaker 4: so my parents could stop.

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Speaker 3: So that's your goal, Brooke.

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Speaker 5: It sounds like you're judging her there, and she explicitly

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Speaker 5: asked you not to do.

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Speaker 1: So it's really hard not to, right because you would

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Speaker 4: You are exactly right, and they shouldn't. A man shouldn't

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Speaker 4: do what I do. My bro is to be taken

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Speaker 4: care of. That's my love language. I love to be

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Speaker 2: The old school chivalry and stuff.

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Speaker 1: I cannot imagine imagine being a man going and meeting

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Speaker 5: That sounds like all of them, Alace, what's your dowry?

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Speaker 4: Sir?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, Isaac, now that she's explained this a little

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Speaker 6: Look. Look, I wish Monica the best. It's just not

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Speaker 6: I hope you find a guy slash simp it will

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Speaker 4: So, Isaac, you're gonna take me out and that's just

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Speaker 3: I love how you want to be.

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Speaker 2: The boss, but you don't want to do any of

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Speaker 4: A boss doesn't work.

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Speaker 3: No, I a boss.

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Speaker 4: You don't want to make And that is the problem.

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Speaker 4: Y'all just don't understand, and clearly I don't understand being

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna be honest with you, Monica. See, there's a difference.

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Speaker 6: There's a difference between a boss and a leader. You're

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Speaker 4: I never said I was a leader. I never said that.

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Speaker 6: I am a leader. I'm a leader.

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Speaker 4: Okay, But you could have been a man and leave

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Speaker 6: No one's dodging or running. What I'm doing is ghosting.

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Speaker 4: Whoa okay? And I don't need him. I don't need

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Speaker 3: I don't need each other.

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Speaker 4: He hung up.

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Speaker 3: By the way, get a job?

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Speaker 2: You don't brook You.

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Speaker 5: Know what you need to do is you need to

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not going in no more. Look, I'm going

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Speaker 1: I feel like you're going to be on the phone

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Speaker 4: Well, that's okay. Look, I got a lot of time.

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Speaker 4: Boom boom.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 5: And are your parents hiring for any open roles in

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Speaker 3: Because I would love to be a party?

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Speaker 4: Oh that good, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Well, hey, we all learned a new job today. It's

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Speaker 2: I'll have flying right now texting my mom?

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Speaker 1: You would last I give you two days back home

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 4: Isaac?

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Speaker 3: Today Mom's house.

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Speaker 5: Isaac did not like it. Obviously Brooke does not respect

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Speaker 3: If she's not going to school, she should be working.

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Speaker 4: No, that's right.

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Speaker 5: Brooke believes you should start working at a six in

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Speaker 5: one of her overseas factories. So, parents, if you're lazy,

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Speaker 5: stay at home child, Yeah, and then text in seventy

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Speaker 5: five nine two. Brook'll whip them into shit.

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Speaker 3: Let me give you some parenting tips, yes.

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Speaker 5: And if not parenting tips, we can hopefully at least

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Speaker 5: give you a little bit of dating help. You can

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Speaker 5: email the show, we can call that person who's not

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Speaker 5: calling you back. And go check out all of our

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Speaker 5: second day podcasts. Wherever you get yours, they're up at

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Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey Brook

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Speaker 3: And Jeffrey in the morning