WEBVTT - SECOND DATE UPDATE- The Crush on the Ex-Co-Worker

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<v Speaker 1>Rock Santa and Montclair needs a little help. She says,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe I'm writing this to you guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe this happened to me. Everybody writes in it

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<v Speaker 1>this can't believe they're doing it. So she goes on

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<v Speaker 1>to say she had a crush on this guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she used to work with for a long time. Then

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<v Speaker 1>out of the blue, he liked a bunch of photos

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and they started talking. Great, all right, so

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<v Speaker 1>Rock Sanna, thanks for coming on. We're just getting to

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<v Speaker 1>know the situation. So you worked with the guy you

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<v Speaker 1>no longer did he started liking photos and then you

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<v Speaker 1>ended up connecting and going out right exactly. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>how did you get from him liking the photos to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys going on a date? I mean, well, it

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<v Speaker 1>was very specific the kind of photos that he was liking. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>he was just liking the really hot ones, right like

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<v Speaker 1>if it was a group like one, you know, scenery,

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<v Speaker 1>a treating like that. But it was just like me

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<v Speaker 1>on the beach all over those. So I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>was a good sign, right, and then really so I

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<v Speaker 1>him and it started from that, and then he took

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<v Speaker 1>me to the Whisper house in Claremont, Claremont. It was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked and we lapped and he looked hotter than

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<v Speaker 1>ever and so um, I think he's working out or something.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he kissed me good night and it was

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<v Speaker 1>great that. Since then, nothing like we've texted a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but he hasn't asked me out again. It's just a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of like l ols. And that's it. And I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell so Hei the word hot a lot heat

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<v Speaker 1>heat heat. Uh. And you, guys, everything you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>went well. There was not an awkward moment or a

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<v Speaker 1>weird conversation or any body language or vibe you felt

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<v Speaker 1>at all. No, not at all. I thought it went

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<v Speaker 1>really well. Yes, what about the conversation besides the heat?

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<v Speaker 1>How was a conversation on the date? I mean, the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation flowed. It felt pretty effortless, like you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>did used to work together, but again it was two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. But it was like catching up with with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that I used to know. It was, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like it felt very effortless. In my I'm singing the gong.

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<v Speaker 1>We'rena try and track him down. We have his phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see if we can find out what went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stumped on this, but I mean when she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he only liked the hot photos of me, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good sign. I'm like, not always. Yeah, I was like

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<v Speaker 1>that going to be a flag and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I Like, that's what I thought you could say. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's flirty, but not to like normal photos and only

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<v Speaker 1>like the flaps. It's saying I want to be more

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<v Speaker 1>than friends. I get that, but he needs to like

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<v Speaker 1>her when she's not always in the beginning, even if

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<v Speaker 1>you think that like a picnic basket exactly. Let's come

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<v Speaker 1>back and see if we can track down this dude, Tyler.

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<v Speaker 1>What is Tyler all about? I can't wait to hear

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<v Speaker 1>his voice, can you m yeah, you can wait? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>actually can't. I can't wait either. On air with Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>Seacrest Ryan Seacrest. So let's get Rock Sanna back here

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<v Speaker 1>and see what we can learn about why Tyler's blowing

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<v Speaker 1>her off. She wants to know, like, what happened? She

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<v Speaker 1>met this guy at work, He then leaves to work,

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<v Speaker 1>he likes her photos, They go out, they have some heat.

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<v Speaker 1>They both thought each other were hot. He kisses her

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<v Speaker 1>and then he doesn't reach out at all after this

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<v Speaker 1>first date. It is a little strange in terms of behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>So Rock Sanna, here's the deal. Tyler is on hold.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get to him now before he hangs up

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<v Speaker 1>on us, So don't say anything. Let us talk to

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<v Speaker 1>Tyler and see what we can find out about what

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<v Speaker 1>went wrong. Okay, okay, cool, This all about peace of mind.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not for me. If you don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with me and I don't, it's like, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need to call me and find out why.

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<v Speaker 1>But Roxie, I'm not saying it's the bad idea. So

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<v Speaker 1>hold on one second. There we go. I think it's good, healthy,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good for some people. It's they're lane. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>for me. But that's why I'm on this side. Tyler,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? I am Tyler, Thank you for green

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<v Speaker 1>to come on. My name is Ryan, got Sisty and

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<v Speaker 1>Tania here. We're calling you about a woman named roc Sana.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys went out on a date recently. Uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah we did. Can you tell me how is the date?

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<v Speaker 1>It was? Parts of it were fine, I guess, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think me and her just kind of have different vibes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what are the different vibes if you don't mind me prying. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just, I guess, like an influencer or something, which

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. She only has like four thousand followers,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know how you're an influencer with four

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<v Speaker 1>thousand followers, But I don't know. It's not my world

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<v Speaker 1>kind of yeah, I don't know. It felt like secondary

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<v Speaker 1>to her on the phone while she was just I

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<v Speaker 1>was like trying to have a date with her, but

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<v Speaker 1>basically it wasn't happening right because she was on her

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<v Speaker 1>phone all the time. Yeah, I mean she took three

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<v Speaker 1>FaceTime calls like during our date, if that's where you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call it. I didn't like that. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who would actually, But now, can you just to

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<v Speaker 1>backtrack so I can tell that you guys didn't connect,

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<v Speaker 1>But just a backtrack here, How did you end up

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<v Speaker 1>connecting with her? After? I understand you guys work together.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you reconnect with her? She reached out to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I honestly, I've wanted to, you know, date her

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<v Speaker 1>for quite some time and we were always flirtations that

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<v Speaker 1>work together, so I was looking forward to it. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't reach out to her and like a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>her photos on Instagram. Well, I've liked a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>photos on her Instagram. I don't know if that's how

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<v Speaker 1>it all started, but yeah, I did. I've liked a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of her photos before. Ye And what did you

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<v Speaker 1>like about her photos on Instagram? I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm obviously you haven't seen her, but she's gorgeous, stunning,

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<v Speaker 1>ten out of ten. I mean, she's absolutely gorgeous. So

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<v Speaker 1>she's cool. She's gorgeous, but she's distracted by her phone

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<v Speaker 1>because in your mind, she's got to influence her four

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<v Speaker 1>thousand followers more than you. I mean, it's not in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind. She was the one talking about it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she was going on and on about how she's loving

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<v Speaker 1>her new influence life, and I don't know, it's just not.

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<v Speaker 1>At the risk of a disaster here, I'm gonna bring

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<v Speaker 1>in Roxanna, who's actually listening to this conversation? Roxanna, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to respond to Tyler's take on this? I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I have really good reasons for all of that. The

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<v Speaker 1>face times were all work related, Like I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't wasn't just like having stupid side conversations with Porce

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<v Speaker 1>those people. Roxie, You're you're an influencer, Like, how is

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<v Speaker 1>that it's not work related when you're facetiming somebody. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't have time to get into all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. I have deals that I'm working on. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is, I really like you. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time, and I think that we would be really

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<v Speaker 1>good together. I just I know it. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I've always felt that Rock Sannah, Who were you doing

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone? Who were you talking to FaceTime three

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<v Speaker 1>times during the date? It is a bit rude. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could just wait an hour or two and call

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<v Speaker 1>them back, which, well, I like, I'm I'm not an

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<v Speaker 1>established influencer like the brands that do want to work

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<v Speaker 1>with me, I feel like I don't want to. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to make them work at wait an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what a date is. A date is focusing

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<v Speaker 1>on the person across from you so you can have

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<v Speaker 1>some success and put that to the side for a moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you see what Tyler is trying to say. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think he's so wrong. I mean, I I do

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<v Speaker 1>see what he's saying, and but like what he's not

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<v Speaker 1>telling you is they were probably less than like a

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<v Speaker 1>minute doesn't matter, twenty minute FaceTime phone calls while he's

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<v Speaker 1>just sitting there. Tyler Rox Sanna, you guys have these

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<v Speaker 1>great things going for you, like you liked each other,

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<v Speaker 1>you had a good time, you think each other are heat.

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<v Speaker 1>But Tanna, can you get past the fact that she

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<v Speaker 1>was distracted and not focused on you or not? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I just need to know are you gonna go out again? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you try it again? Can you try it again?

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<v Speaker 1>Or not? Honestly, the way she's kind of defending her

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<v Speaker 1>actions on the date, it's not apologetic and like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know I was being route and embarrassing or

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<v Speaker 1>anything like this. No, I'm I'm less interested now more

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<v Speaker 1>than ever. That's why did you kiss her if you

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<v Speaker 1>were so annoyed at the end of the night. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>good question, right, thank you? Because she's hot and I've

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to kiss her for quite some time, So it

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<v Speaker 1>looks like you could get past it, all right, ty

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<v Speaker 1>I can expect the answer, Uh, Rock, Shanna, Tyler, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for your time. I think that you should move on.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not done. That is not a reason to kiss somebody. Yes, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it is not. He led her on, remember the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I do remember this sho I turn that to a

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<v Speaker 1>til Cola. Somebody said, up, that's their theme song. Because

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<v Speaker 1>they worked him and everything was fine. He was annoyed

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<v Speaker 1>by her, and he only kissed her because she was hot,

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<v Speaker 1>even though he didn't want to be with her. I've

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<v Speaker 1>done that before. Oh my gosh,