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<v Speaker 1>Growing up, Denisha Quiller was used to chaos. She was

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<v Speaker 1>one of seven kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a brother, a sister, a half brother, and

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<v Speaker 2>then my mom adopted three of her nieces.

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<v Speaker 1>They lived in a two bedroom house in Long Beach, California.

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<v Speaker 2>Eight people. It was very chaotic, a lot of fighting

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<v Speaker 2>for attentions.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a good relationship with her father, but he

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<v Speaker 1>was in and out of the house when she was

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<v Speaker 1>growing up. As the primary caregiver, her mom held everything together.

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<v Speaker 1>With seven kids, it was an exhausting job.

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<v Speaker 2>She was super mom. She was stressed out and it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't easy.

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<v Speaker 1>When the house got too loud, Denisia escaped into her

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom and watched her favorite TV shows. She practically had

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<v Speaker 1>the TV guide memorized.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm an eighties kid, so it was full house and

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<v Speaker 2>perfect strangers.

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<v Speaker 1>Denisia's mom ran a tight ship, especially when it came

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<v Speaker 1>to dating.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom was antiboys, anti dating. She would tell me

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<v Speaker 2>constantly that you don't trust men, you don't rely on men.

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<v Speaker 1>On Sundays, Denisha's family attended church. They were Pentecostal and

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<v Speaker 1>that came with its own expectations.

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<v Speaker 2>There were so many rules. Sex was on the top

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<v Speaker 2>of the list. If you did that, you were just done.

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<v Speaker 1>For Denisha followed all of the rules very carefully. There

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<v Speaker 1>were certain movies she couldn't watch, certain clothes she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to wear, so she had to find creative ways

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<v Speaker 1>to express herself.

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<v Speaker 2>I got extensions and they were always rainbow colored, and

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<v Speaker 2>that was exciting. It was pretty much the only thing

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<v Speaker 2>my mom would allow.

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<v Speaker 1>In high school, Denisha made a plan for her future.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that immediately after high school, I would go

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<v Speaker 2>to college, find my husband, buy a house, have a

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<v Speaker 2>couple kids, and then be a career woman.

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<v Speaker 1>After graduating, Denisia enrolled at Biola University, an evangelical Christian

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<v Speaker 1>university in southeast LA. She graduated with a degree in

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<v Speaker 1>communication disorders.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really looking forward to doing either speech therapy

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<v Speaker 2>or some sort of work with the deaf community.

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<v Speaker 1>After college. She was eager to start her life. She

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't wait to get a job, get married, and start

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<v Speaker 1>a family.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, doors are going to open, right, this

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<v Speaker 2>is obvious.

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<v Speaker 1>She started applying to jobs and speech therapy, but she

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<v Speaker 1>was rejected again and again. It was discouraging.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a chip on my shoulder because I had

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<v Speaker 2>a degree.

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<v Speaker 1>And that wasn't the only thing that wasn't going to plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Denisia struggled to find a romantic partner. She put herself

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<v Speaker 1>out there and went on dates, but she didn't meet

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<v Speaker 1>anyone she genuinely connected with.

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<v Speaker 2>I was miserable. This was not what I signed up for.

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<v Speaker 1>Her childhood in the church hadn't prepared her for this disappointment.

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing everything right. I left God, I talked

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<v Speaker 2>to God, I read the Bible. I thought, why am

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<v Speaker 2>I not getting my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>She'd always believed that there was a formula to a

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<v Speaker 1>fulfilling life, but now that she was an adult, she

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<v Speaker 1>began to see.

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<v Speaker 2>The formula doesn't exist. Everybody's on their own journey.

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<v Speaker 1>She had to start figuring out what she truly wanted

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<v Speaker 1>when she wasn't trying to follow other people's rules. So

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<v Speaker 1>she decided to go back to school for accounting.

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<v Speaker 2>I love accounting. I am very virgo, and I want

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<v Speaker 2>the receipts. I want to know the proof.

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<v Speaker 1>Denisha worked hard and excelled at school. After getting her

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<v Speaker 1>graduate certificate in accounting. She quickly found a job. She'd

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<v Speaker 1>been ambitious her whole life, but in her twenties, she

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<v Speaker 1>found a way to channel her hard work towards schools

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<v Speaker 1>that genuinely excited and challenged her. She was finally living

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<v Speaker 1>life on her own terms. She started saving up money

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<v Speaker 1>and bought her first condo.

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<v Speaker 2>By her thirties, I was feeling like the badass bitch

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<v Speaker 2>like I have doing this life stuff well.

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<v Speaker 1>Going back to school for accounting, she'd established a serious relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>She and her boyfriend had been together for years, but

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<v Speaker 1>as she excelled, she noticed he wasn't growing with her.

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<v Speaker 2>This man was just kind of bumming. He was a

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<v Speaker 2>very nice man, but he was not motivated, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was bumming me out.

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<v Speaker 1>She wanted a life partner who was as ambitious as

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<v Speaker 1>she was, someone who she could rely on, who she

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<v Speaker 1>could trust enough to build a family with.

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<v Speaker 2>I had enough, and I said, you have to go.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to go, and so he went, and I

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<v Speaker 2>felt like this weight off my shoulders.

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<v Speaker 1>After the breakup, Denisha decided to live on her own.

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<v Speaker 1>She was surprised at how much she loved her newfound independence.

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<v Speaker 2>I smoothly walked into having my own place, in my

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<v Speaker 2>own space, in peace of mind. I started working out,

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<v Speaker 2>I had a personal trainer. I had people over when

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted half people over. So I had a jet

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<v Speaker 2>tub in my condo. My favorite thing to do was

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<v Speaker 2>get a glass of wine and some snacks, go take

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<v Speaker 2>a nice hot bath.

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<v Speaker 1>As she got into her late thirties, she knew the

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<v Speaker 1>window to have kids was closing. She started considering the

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<v Speaker 1>idea of pursuing motherhood on her own.

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<v Speaker 2>I had the career, I had a home, so this

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<v Speaker 2>kid would not miss out on anything. But ideally, ideally,

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<v Speaker 2>I would love a great partner.

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<v Speaker 1>So she decided to give dating one more shot. After

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<v Speaker 1>her last breakup, she had a clear picture of what

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted in a romantic partner.

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<v Speaker 2>I desired somebody who really took responsibility for his family

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<v Speaker 2>and led his family.

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<v Speaker 1>Denisha made a profile on a dating app called.

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<v Speaker 2>Wu It's an app for people who love to date

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<v Speaker 2>bigger people, mainly men and bigger women. I was a

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<v Speaker 2>thick girl and proud of it.

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<v Speaker 1>After a few days, she matched with a man who

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<v Speaker 1>stood out from the rest. His name was Lorenzo.

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<v Speaker 2>His pictures were just everything. He was super sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>They messaged back and forth a bit. At first, it

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<v Speaker 1>was casual.

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<v Speaker 2>We rarely talked about the times that we did, it

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<v Speaker 2>was a fruitful conversation. I really liked him.

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<v Speaker 1>Lorenzo wasn't pushy or overbearing. If anything, he was more reserved.

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<v Speaker 1>He had a military background.

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<v Speaker 2>I just remember being impressed with him and really wanting

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<v Speaker 2>to crack this nut, but like he would not open

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<v Speaker 2>up as much as I wanted him to.

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<v Speaker 1>Denisha was hoping that Lorenzo would ask her out. He

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't been forthcoming about what he wanted yet. In the meantime,

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<v Speaker 1>Denisha went on dates with other guys she met on WU,

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<v Speaker 1>but none of the men she was meeting impressed her.

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<v Speaker 2>One night, I had a date with a man named Richard.

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<v Speaker 2>He was okay, he was not a bad guy, but

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<v Speaker 2>it was just not for me. And I got home

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<v Speaker 2>and I was really not stealing well about that. Like

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<v Speaker 2>this keeps happening. I keep meeting okay man, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not meeting the man.

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<v Speaker 1>Was starting to lose hope that the man of her

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<v Speaker 1>dreams was out there, But in that exact moment her phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Rang, Lorenzo called and said, I have some time off

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<v Speaker 2>of work. Do you want to meet. I was still

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<v Speaker 2>in my outfit from the date prior that evening, and

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<v Speaker 2>I absolutely wanted to meet.

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<v Speaker 1>I could not wait, even though it was late at night.

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<v Speaker 1>They made plans to meet up for their first date.

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<v Speaker 2>We found a bar called The Stash on Fourth Street

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<v Speaker 2>in Long Beach and they had seating outside.

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<v Speaker 1>When she got there, she locked eyes with Lorenzo.

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<v Speaker 2>He was beautiful to look at six', four just towered over,

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<v Speaker 2>me big, guy dressed to the, nine smelled so.

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<v Speaker 1>Good they made their way to the bars outside.

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<v Speaker 2>Patio he pulled my chair, out such a. Gentleman we

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<v Speaker 2>talked about our upbringing and our goals and our careers.

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<v Speaker 1>On other, dates making CONVERSATION i felt like pulling, teeth

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<v Speaker 1>but talking To lorenzo was.

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<v Speaker 2>Effortless and then we got on the conversation of do

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<v Speaker 2>you want? Kids he didn't have. KIDS i didn't have,

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<v Speaker 2>kids AND i, Said i'm willing IF i find the right.

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<v Speaker 1>Person lorenzo said he'd always wanted to be a. Dad

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<v Speaker 1>this Made denisha lean. In usually the guys she met

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<v Speaker 1>either already had kids or weren't interested in starting a.

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<v Speaker 1>Family When denisha looked at her, watch she was surprised

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<v Speaker 1>to see that hours had gone.

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<v Speaker 2>BY i told him it was getting kind of, late

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<v Speaker 2>and one walked me to my, car made SURE i

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<v Speaker 2>was on the inside of the, sidewalk which was so.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet standing on the sidewalk next To denisha's, Car lorenzo

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<v Speaker 1>leaned in to kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Her it was the best kiss That i've ever had

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<v Speaker 2>in my. Life it was just.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing lorenzo didn't walk away until he was Sure denisha

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<v Speaker 1>was safely on her way.

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<v Speaker 2>Home we watched AS i burged onto the main, street

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<v Speaker 2>made SURE i got home by a. TEXT i got

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<v Speaker 2>home with a smile from ear to. EAR i was,

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<v Speaker 2>cautious but so. Excited it was a great, night the

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<v Speaker 2>best Date i've ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Had this was the kind of guy she'd been waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>For when she woke up the next, morning a text

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<v Speaker 1>From lorenzo greeted.

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<v Speaker 2>Her he had left me a text message and dedicated

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<v Speaker 2>a song to. Me it made me smile and get

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<v Speaker 2>butterflies in my.

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<v Speaker 1>Stomach their second date followed soon, after and then their.

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<v Speaker 2>Third we were joined at the hip since our first.

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<v Speaker 1>Date soon they made their relationship. Official denisha's knowledge Of

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<v Speaker 1>lorenzo's life grew from a few bullet points on his

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<v Speaker 1>dating profile to the full.

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<v Speaker 2>Story he grew up In Puerto rico for the first

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<v Speaker 2>portion of his. Life his mom was still. There he

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<v Speaker 2>had been in the military for most of his. Life

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<v Speaker 2>he had enlisted right after high. School he started in

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<v Speaker 2>The army and then matriculated Into, marines and then he

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<v Speaker 2>went all the way up the ranks to.

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<v Speaker 1>Colonel he Showed denisia some of his old, uniforms decked

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<v Speaker 1>out with military pins and. Accolades he shared stories from

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<v Speaker 1>his years in the. Service he Told denisia about the

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<v Speaker 1>time he stepped on a homemade bomb while on.

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<v Speaker 2>Deployment it really destroyed his body and then was put

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<v Speaker 2>back together In, germany like titanium and.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything he'd since retired from active military, service but he

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<v Speaker 1>still worked for The department Of.

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<v Speaker 2>Defense he worked FOR.

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<v Speaker 1>DCIS, dcis Or Defense Criminal Investigative, service investigates fraud and

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<v Speaker 1>corruption within The department Of.

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<v Speaker 2>Defense he had a gun on him all the, time

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<v Speaker 2>no matter where we, were he had a gun in his.

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<v Speaker 1>Badge after dating men who lacked, Direction lorenzo's passion for

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<v Speaker 1>his work was a breath of fresh.

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<v Speaker 2>AIR i was really impressed the, military the high profile government.

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<v Speaker 2>Job it just was like a cherry on top of

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<v Speaker 2>this sexy, man like he's on the right side of,

0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:12.960
<v Speaker 2>things making sure our military is, safe AND i felt

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<v Speaker 2>safe with. HIM i felt.

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<v Speaker 1>Protected as the time they spent together, grew so did their.

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<v Speaker 2>Feelings it didn't take long for us to be telling

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<v Speaker 2>each other we loved each.

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<v Speaker 1>Other Soon lorenzo moved in With. Denisia they spent countless

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<v Speaker 1>hours watching movies AND tv shows together and debriefing about

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<v Speaker 1>the characters and themes of the.

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<v Speaker 2>Story, afterwards we would have long conversations and would morph

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<v Speaker 2>into like philosophical, conversations and we would get deep into

0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:47.080
<v Speaker 2>our religious, backgrounds and he also was deconstructing his.

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<v Speaker 1>Faith they could talk about. Anything when conflicts did, arise

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<v Speaker 1>they worked through them together with patience and.

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<v Speaker 2>Care the disagreements we had were short and, sporadic and

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<v Speaker 2>it was more of a. Conversation it s felt so.

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<v Speaker 2>Adult it felt so good to just be able to

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<v Speaker 2>express SOMETHING i didn't like or something that was bothering,

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<v Speaker 2>me and we could just talk it.

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<v Speaker 1>Out the only thing they couldn't really talk about Was lorenzo's.

0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:21.520
<v Speaker 2>Job it was super. SECRET i couldn't know too. Much

0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:23.280
<v Speaker 2>every once in a, while he'd give me a little

0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:26.120
<v Speaker 2>bit of an inkling about a case that he was working,

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<v Speaker 2>on but no, names no.

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<v Speaker 1>Details lorenzo worked long, hours and.

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<v Speaker 2>He would come home at like four o'clock in the,

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<v Speaker 2>morning or he would be gone for a.

0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Week lorenzo Told danisha he had to travel often for.

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<v Speaker 2>Work me and my girlfriend called HIM fbi because we

0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:45.480
<v Speaker 2>knew he was working for the federal government and some

0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:49.440
<v Speaker 2>high profile, thing and SO i would call HIM fbi

0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:51.640
<v Speaker 2>babe WHEN i was referring to.

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<v Speaker 1>Him When lorenzo was traveling for, work he always stayed

0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:56.680
<v Speaker 1>in touch over.

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<v Speaker 2>Text he would just send me pictures of the plane

0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:01.400
<v Speaker 2>he was going. On he would send me pictures of

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<v Speaker 2>him in uniform going into a high profile meeting before

0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:08.960
<v Speaker 2>he had to turn his phone in at.

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<v Speaker 1>Work lorenzo was fearless and With, denisia he was, caring,

0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:17.200
<v Speaker 1>gentle and. Patient she felt at home by his. Side

0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:20.600
<v Speaker 1>she'd been waiting for a love like this her whole.

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<v Speaker 2>Life And i've heard stories before that if you, know you,

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<v Speaker 2>know AND i JUST i. KNEW i knew this was,

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<v Speaker 2>HIM i knew this was my.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy they had only been dating for a couple of,

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<v Speaker 1>months but she knew what she. Wanted denisha was in

0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:38.000
<v Speaker 1>her late, thirties and she told him her priority was

0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:38.560
<v Speaker 1>starting a.

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<v Speaker 2>Family, finally you, know and two grown up nerds were

0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:47.640
<v Speaker 2>both almost in our, forties never, married no, Kids let's

0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:47.960
<v Speaker 2>do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Together so they made the unconventional decision to prioritize starting

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<v Speaker 1>a family as soon as.

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<v Speaker 2>Possible if it, happened in my, mind it would be

0:15:57.160 --> 0:16:01.000
<v Speaker 2>just a. Blessing and then it. HAPPENED i was so

0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:03.400
<v Speaker 2>elated she was.

0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:06.840
<v Speaker 1>Pregnant it felt like. Fate but she was nervous to

0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:10.360
<v Speaker 1>Tell lorenzo now that being a dad wasn't just an

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<v Speaker 1>idea but a. Reality what if he changed his.

0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:16.600
<v Speaker 2>MIND i told, him you don't have to. STAY i

0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:19.600
<v Speaker 2>could do this on my, own and he, said absolutely.

0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.680
<v Speaker 2>Not that was not even a question in his. Mind

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to do this first time. Parents let's do.

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<v Speaker 1>This But dinisha had a lot of complications with her.

0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:30.840
<v Speaker 1>PREGNANCY i had everything in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Book Because i'm, OLDER i was already high. Risk and

0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:37.680
<v Speaker 2>then twelve week mark they did the diabetes, test had,

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<v Speaker 2>diabetes had to go on a very strict. Diet around

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<v Speaker 2>thirty four thirty five, WEEKS i started getting high blood.

0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:48.080
<v Speaker 2>PRESSURES i had to test by blood pressure several times a.

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<v Speaker 2>DAY i was going in for a non stress test

0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:52.440
<v Speaker 2>two times a. Week it was a.

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<v Speaker 1>Lot lorenzo was by her side through.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything lorenzo was my. Anchor he came to most of the,

0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:03.920
<v Speaker 2>appointments drove me. There he stayed with me the entire.

0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Time denisha Was lorenzo's top. Priority even when he got

0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:13.000
<v Speaker 1>home from work at four in the, morning he got

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<v Speaker 1>up two hours later to prepare her breakfast in.

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<v Speaker 2>Bed he really was focused on making me happy and

0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:23.600
<v Speaker 2>making me. Comfortable lots of, massages lots of.

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<v Speaker 1>Love lorenzo started putting together the, nursery hanging up shelves

0:17:29.119 --> 0:17:32.160
<v Speaker 1>and doing the physical labor so That denisha could. Rest

0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:35.879
<v Speaker 1>watching him take care of her Gave denisha confidence that

0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:36.879
<v Speaker 1>he would be a great.

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<v Speaker 2>Dad he was just so gentle with, me AND i

0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:44.159
<v Speaker 2>was a. MESS i was crying all the, time and

0:17:44.240 --> 0:17:46.720
<v Speaker 2>he made me feel happy and he got me in

0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:49.679
<v Speaker 2>a better mood every. TIME i knew that he was

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<v Speaker 2>going to be an amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Father when their daughter was, Born lorenzo was right there

0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:56.880
<v Speaker 1>by her, side.

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<v Speaker 2>And you got to cut her, cord and he was

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<v Speaker 2>the first person she. Touched it was so, amazing and

0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:06.000
<v Speaker 2>the nurses try to bring her to, me And i'm,

0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:07.359
<v Speaker 2>like please give her to her a.

0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Dad it was a magical. Moment looking at her daughter

0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:15.160
<v Speaker 1>In lorenzo's, Arms denisha was filled with pride for her.

0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:18.320
<v Speaker 2>FAMILY i could not BELIEVE i had my man and my.

0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:19.760
<v Speaker 2>BABY i was just so.

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<v Speaker 1>Excited finally her fairy tale was coming to. Fruition When

0:18:50.240 --> 0:18:54.920
<v Speaker 1>denisia became a, mom she was. Overjoyed Watching lorenzo care

0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.600
<v Speaker 1>for her and their daughter felt like a dream come,

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<v Speaker 1>true the type of love always wished. For they had

0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:06.240
<v Speaker 1>a baby. Shower lorenzo's bomb and sister traveled in From

0:19:06.280 --> 0:19:07.240
<v Speaker 1>Puerto rico to be.

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<v Speaker 2>THERE i got them gifts AND i thanked them for

0:19:09.960 --> 0:19:13.120
<v Speaker 2>coming to be with us and celebrate this new journey

0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:15.919
<v Speaker 2>and how amazing it is that this is their first

0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:18.480
<v Speaker 2>grandchild and, niece and they were really.

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<v Speaker 1>Receptive because of the nature Of lorenzo's, job he didn't

0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:23.679
<v Speaker 1>have paternity.

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<v Speaker 2>Leave he was only home for a. Week his job

0:19:27.080 --> 0:19:29.320
<v Speaker 2>did not want him to be off for that. Long

0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:32.840
<v Speaker 2>he demanded that. Week him having to go back to

0:19:32.920 --> 0:19:35.320
<v Speaker 2>work was really. HARD i really wanted him.

0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:39.000
<v Speaker 1>There lorenzo worked a, lot but he still did everything

0:19:39.040 --> 0:19:41.560
<v Speaker 1>he could to be a great. Dad when he wasn't,

0:19:41.560 --> 0:19:43.200
<v Speaker 1>working he jumped in to Help.

0:19:43.240 --> 0:19:47.400
<v Speaker 2>Denisia he was helping me figure out lactation and. Breastfeeding

0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:51.439
<v Speaker 2>he was always washing the baby, bottles and when baby

0:19:51.520 --> 0:19:54.600
<v Speaker 2>was stressed out and wouldn't sleep and she's screaming and,

0:19:54.720 --> 0:19:56.280
<v Speaker 2>screaming he would take.

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<v Speaker 1>Over one day In, august when their DAUGHTER i was

0:20:00.280 --> 0:20:04.199
<v Speaker 1>three months, Old denisha And lorenzo were spending time. Together

0:20:05.000 --> 0:20:09.840
<v Speaker 1>suddenly he turned to face. Her he looked, anxious out of.

0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:12.399
<v Speaker 2>Nowhere he just says that he had to tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>Something Then lorenzo dropped a, bombshell.

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<v Speaker 2>And he confessed that our baby was not his first.

0:20:21.119 --> 0:20:26.600
<v Speaker 2>Baby he actually had three additional, children a twelve year,

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<v Speaker 2>old a ten year, old and an eight year old

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<v Speaker 2>with two other.

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<v Speaker 1>Women denisha was completely taken.

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<v Speaker 2>Aback to say THAT i was shocked is an. Understatement

0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:41.320
<v Speaker 2>she was numb and.

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<v Speaker 1>Angry she left the house to get some, space.

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<v Speaker 2>And then WHEN i got, BACK i just begged him

0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:50.199
<v Speaker 2>to tell me. Everything what do you mean you're not

0:20:50.280 --> 0:20:54.080
<v Speaker 2>a first time? DAD i don't. Understand he said.

0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:57.280
<v Speaker 1>The kids were from two different relationships he'd had in his,

0:20:57.359 --> 0:21:00.679
<v Speaker 1>twenties they didn't live in the, area and he wasn't

0:21:00.720 --> 0:21:04.960
<v Speaker 1>involved in the kids'. Lives lorenzo tried to explain why

0:21:05.000 --> 0:21:05.960
<v Speaker 1>he'd kept this From.

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<v Speaker 2>Denisia he said he didn't want me to. Leave he

0:21:09.280 --> 0:21:11.720
<v Speaker 2>thought that IF i knew he had other, CHILDREN i

0:21:11.760 --> 0:21:15.399
<v Speaker 2>would not be into him. Anymore and my response was

0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:17.600
<v Speaker 2>that was my, Choice so you took that choice away from.

0:21:17.640 --> 0:21:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Me he explained that he'd never been given the opportunity

0:21:21.640 --> 0:21:25.120
<v Speaker 1>to parent his older, kids so when he Met, denisha

0:21:25.200 --> 0:21:26.280
<v Speaker 1>it felt like a fresh.

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<v Speaker 2>START i asked a, Lot please tell me, everything no more.

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<v Speaker 2>Secrets we're in this. Together anything? Else are you? Married,

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<v Speaker 2>like what is going? On what about these other? Women

0:21:37.400 --> 0:21:40.399
<v Speaker 2>and he assured me nothing. Else there's nothing, Else there's nothing,

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<v Speaker 2>else and he is, very very sorry that he did

0:21:43.560 --> 0:21:44.520
<v Speaker 2>not tell me about these other.

0:21:44.640 --> 0:21:51.320
<v Speaker 1>Children the lies, stung But lorenzo seemed genuinely. Sorry he

0:21:51.359 --> 0:21:55.160
<v Speaker 1>admitted that hiding this was a. Mistake he was apologetic

0:21:55.440 --> 0:21:58.439
<v Speaker 1>and wasn't. DEFENSIVE i really wanted to let it. GO

0:21:59.280 --> 0:22:01.600
<v Speaker 1>i kind of understood where he was coming, from why

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<v Speaker 1>he would keep that from. Me she asked if she

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<v Speaker 1>could meet his other, CHILDREN.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love. IT i would get. Stacks we would

0:22:08.320 --> 0:22:10.800
<v Speaker 2>watch movies and he was really reluctant and he did

0:22:10.840 --> 0:22:13.399
<v Speaker 2>not like that, idea and then told me that the

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<v Speaker 2>other children's mothers would not be on, board that he

0:22:17.240 --> 0:22:20.000
<v Speaker 2>rarely gets to see them, anyways and there was a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of animosity between him and the other.

0:22:22.640 --> 0:22:27.480
<v Speaker 1>Mothers denisha believed. Him she was on maternity, leave busy

0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:31.520
<v Speaker 1>with their, newborn and After lorenzo came, clean he showed

0:22:31.520 --> 0:22:34.800
<v Speaker 1>his remorse with his actions doting On denisia and their.

0:22:34.880 --> 0:22:38.040
<v Speaker 2>Daughter we had a great time all through my maternity.

0:22:38.119 --> 0:22:42.240
<v Speaker 2>Leave he was really, attentive even after this ball that he.

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<v Speaker 2>Dropped we try to get past, it AND i thought

0:22:45.320 --> 0:22:45.560
<v Speaker 2>it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Doable When lorenzo had to travel for, work he found

0:22:49.640 --> 0:22:51.000
<v Speaker 1>creative ways to stay in.

0:22:51.080 --> 0:22:54.240
<v Speaker 2>Touch baby girl AND i would hang out in the living.

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<v Speaker 2>Room we had the nanny cam right next to THE,

0:22:57.000 --> 0:22:59.399
<v Speaker 2>tv and it was one of those nanny cams that

0:22:59.440 --> 0:23:00.720
<v Speaker 2>you can patch through and talk.

0:23:00.840 --> 0:23:04.280
<v Speaker 1>Through lorenzo would log into the nanny cam so he

0:23:04.320 --> 0:23:07.040
<v Speaker 1>could See denisha and his daughter and talk to them

0:23:07.200 --> 0:23:08.200
<v Speaker 1>while they hung out at.

0:23:08.119 --> 0:23:11.359
<v Speaker 2>Home and it felt really, good, actually it was really.

0:23:11.400 --> 0:23:13.399
<v Speaker 2>Sweet he was watching all the. Time you just pop

0:23:13.440 --> 0:23:15.920
<v Speaker 2>in and. WATCH i would hear his voice and he's,

0:23:15.960 --> 0:23:19.399
<v Speaker 2>Like daddy's, Girl daddy's here and talk to, baby and

0:23:19.440 --> 0:23:22.760
<v Speaker 2>talk to. Me and it just was lovely to see

0:23:22.800 --> 0:23:25.320
<v Speaker 2>that he was, connecting even though he had to be.

0:23:25.359 --> 0:23:30.200
<v Speaker 1>Away By thanksgiving of that, year their daughter was six months.

0:23:30.240 --> 0:23:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Old denisha And lorenzo were in the car driving to

0:23:33.600 --> 0:23:37.000
<v Speaker 1>her family's house For thanksgiving dinner When denisia saw that

0:23:37.080 --> 0:23:38.840
<v Speaker 1>she had a miscall from an unknown.

0:23:38.920 --> 0:23:41.800
<v Speaker 2>Number there's a message from the. CALL i asked him

0:23:41.840 --> 0:23:45.040
<v Speaker 2>to play it out loud As i'm, driving and it's

0:23:45.080 --> 0:23:47.720
<v Speaker 2>this woman That i've never heard from or heard, of

0:23:48.440 --> 0:23:51.399
<v Speaker 2>and she says she's looking for her, Husband.

0:23:51.440 --> 0:23:55.280
<v Speaker 1>Lorenzo denisha nearly swerved off the.

0:23:55.359 --> 0:23:58.720
<v Speaker 2>Road my heart, drops And i'm, like what is going?

0:23:58.760 --> 0:24:01.240
<v Speaker 2>On just a couple months, ago you told me you

0:24:01.280 --> 0:24:03.840
<v Speaker 2>had three, kids and now some stranger is calling my

0:24:03.920 --> 0:24:07.399
<v Speaker 2>phone saying that she is looking for her. Husband what is?

0:24:07.440 --> 0:24:11.800
<v Speaker 1>Happening she Expected lorenzo to be panicked and, apologetic but

0:24:11.840 --> 0:24:13.960
<v Speaker 1>he was. Unfazed he had an.

0:24:14.000 --> 0:24:18.480
<v Speaker 2>Explanation he assured, me that's my Ex she's. Crazy don't believe.

0:24:18.520 --> 0:24:21.280
<v Speaker 2>Her please don't let this ruin. Everything we have something.

0:24:21.359 --> 0:24:25.080
<v Speaker 2>GOOD i love you this is our. Family don't let

0:24:25.080 --> 0:24:25.920
<v Speaker 2>her get in your.

0:24:25.960 --> 0:24:29.080
<v Speaker 1>Head but the whole time she was At thanksgiving, dinner

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:33.080
<v Speaker 1>the woman's words my Husband lorenzo echoed in her.

0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:39.240
<v Speaker 2>Mind but it was maybe girls First, thanksgiving SO i

0:24:39.280 --> 0:24:40.679
<v Speaker 2>pretend it like everything was.

0:24:40.720 --> 0:24:43.919
<v Speaker 1>Great she put on a brave face around her. Family

0:24:44.600 --> 0:24:47.360
<v Speaker 1>when they got home that, Night lorenzo tried to Reassure

0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:50.080
<v Speaker 1>denisha that there was nothing going on with his. Ex

0:24:50.680 --> 0:24:53.280
<v Speaker 1>he showed her the text messages between them to prove

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:54.639
<v Speaker 1>there was nothing to worry.

0:24:54.640 --> 0:25:00.439
<v Speaker 2>ABOUT i saw the text messages and it's it seemed,

0:25:00.520 --> 0:25:04.159
<v Speaker 2>legit so it helped me kind of let it.

0:25:04.200 --> 0:25:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Go she was still, suspicious but she wanted to Believe.

0:25:09.280 --> 0:25:12.159
<v Speaker 1>Lorenzo they had just started a family.

0:25:12.200 --> 0:25:16.040
<v Speaker 2>TOGETHER i was fighting for my little. FAMILY i thought

0:25:16.119 --> 0:25:18.560
<v Speaker 2>for sure this was my, time And i'm fighting tooth

0:25:18.600 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 2>and nail to keep it as much as.

0:25:20.320 --> 0:25:25.240
<v Speaker 1>Possible one, Night denisha And lorenzo were at home watching

0:25:25.320 --> 0:25:26.879
<v Speaker 1>a show, together as they often.

0:25:26.920 --> 0:25:30.679
<v Speaker 2>Did Baby girl was in bed. Already it was late at.

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:34.560
<v Speaker 2>Night we were Watching, dexter and he pulled out a.

0:25:34.640 --> 0:25:38.440
<v Speaker 1>Ring lorenzo Asked denisha to marry. Him she said.

0:25:38.520 --> 0:25:42.600
<v Speaker 2>Yes we took a little happy picture and posted it

0:25:42.640 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 2>on social, media AND i was engaged the next. DAY

0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:48.600
<v Speaker 2>i squealed with my mom on the phone and all that.

0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:52.240
<v Speaker 2>Stuff but to be, honest in the back of my,

0:25:52.320 --> 0:25:54.560
<v Speaker 2>Mind i'm like something felt.

0:25:54.560 --> 0:25:59.199
<v Speaker 1>Off she had always imagined that getting engaged would be

0:25:59.240 --> 0:26:02.480
<v Speaker 1>one of the happy moments of her, life but her

0:26:02.520 --> 0:26:04.320
<v Speaker 1>happiness was laced with.

0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:09.000
<v Speaker 2>DOUBT i kept thinking about the other mother that called, me,

0:26:10.040 --> 0:26:13.119
<v Speaker 2>like where is she in this, story in this. ENGAGEMENT

0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:15.239
<v Speaker 2>i don't know, why BUT i could not get her

0:26:15.280 --> 0:26:15.639
<v Speaker 2>out of my.

0:26:15.680 --> 0:26:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Mind lorenzo was passionate about his role as a federal,

0:26:19.720 --> 0:26:23.040
<v Speaker 1>agent but as time went, on he wanted to start

0:26:23.080 --> 0:26:23.440
<v Speaker 1>a side.

0:26:23.560 --> 0:26:29.520
<v Speaker 2>Venture he was really into, arbitration which is like the

0:26:29.560 --> 0:26:32.399
<v Speaker 2>middleman when somebody has an argument with another.

0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:36.719
<v Speaker 1>Person lorenzo decided to open a consulting business where he

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>would use his negotiation and conflict management skills to help

0:26:40.800 --> 0:26:45.520
<v Speaker 1>clients navigate complex custody battles or divorce. Proceedings he Told

0:26:45.600 --> 0:26:49.479
<v Speaker 1>denisha that his specialization within the federal government allowed him

0:26:49.560 --> 0:26:53.400
<v Speaker 1>to be an. Arbitrator this wasn't her area of, expertise

0:26:53.880 --> 0:26:56.560
<v Speaker 1>so she didn't think much of. It she offered to

0:26:56.640 --> 0:26:59.240
<v Speaker 1>use her accounting skills to help get the business set.

0:26:59.280 --> 0:27:02.680
<v Speaker 2>UP i helped him draw out like a policy and

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:04.159
<v Speaker 2>how to get paid and all that.

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 1>Stuff Then lorenzo started taking on.

0:27:07.359 --> 0:27:12.719
<v Speaker 2>Clients his first case was a family here in Southern.

0:27:12.720 --> 0:27:17.359
<v Speaker 2>California it was a child custody. Case the mom was

0:27:17.440 --> 0:27:20.040
<v Speaker 2>not attentive to the child and the dad really wanted,

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:22.560
<v Speaker 2>custody but they were not seeing eye to, eye so

0:27:22.640 --> 0:27:25.440
<v Speaker 2>he was going to see both sides and file.

0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:29.240
<v Speaker 1>Paperwork one, Day denisha was hanging out with some, friends

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:32.720
<v Speaker 1>which she got a call From. Lorenzo right, away she

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:37.200
<v Speaker 1>could tell something was off with. Him he seemed. Flustered

0:27:37.520 --> 0:27:39.120
<v Speaker 1>he told, HER i.

0:27:39.119 --> 0:27:41.520
<v Speaker 2>Have to tell you what happened. Today please don't be.

0:27:41.600 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 2>Mad AND i was, like. Okay what.

0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:48.600
<v Speaker 1>Happened there had been an explosive dispute and the child

0:27:48.720 --> 0:27:50.199
<v Speaker 1>custody case he'd been working.

0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:53.760
<v Speaker 2>On the mom was supposed to drop the baby back

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:57.760
<v Speaker 2>off at dad's house and never did So lorenzo went

0:27:57.800 --> 0:28:00.560
<v Speaker 2>with dad to go and look for the. Child he.

0:28:00.600 --> 0:28:03.800
<v Speaker 2>Said they found mom and, child And lorenzo got out

0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:06.239
<v Speaker 2>to get the, child and the mom fought him and

0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:11.800
<v Speaker 2>he held her. Back authorities were called and the mom

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:14.199
<v Speaker 2>went to the. Hospital when the police.

0:28:14.240 --> 0:28:17.600
<v Speaker 1>Came they Arrested lorenzo and his, client the child's.

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:21.439
<v Speaker 2>Father So lorenzo and the father went to, jail but

0:28:21.600 --> 0:28:22.840
<v Speaker 2>he had failed himself.

0:28:22.880 --> 0:28:27.280
<v Speaker 1>Out he was calling her after posting. Bail denisha was

0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 1>stunned and.

0:28:28.200 --> 0:28:31.480
<v Speaker 2>Furious this was a client of, yours your first. Case

0:28:32.000 --> 0:28:35.000
<v Speaker 2>why were you on the street looking for people and

0:28:35.080 --> 0:28:37.919
<v Speaker 2>grabbing kids out of people's, Arms, like why would you do?

0:28:38.000 --> 0:28:41.200
<v Speaker 1>That lorenzo didn't have much to say in his own.

0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:44.840
<v Speaker 2>Defense he, SAID i just got, passionate you, know it

0:28:44.880 --> 0:28:47.520
<v Speaker 2>was a. Mess he brushed off.

0:28:47.360 --> 0:28:50.840
<v Speaker 1>The altercation as merely a one. Off he did have

0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:51.880
<v Speaker 1>one major, worry.

0:28:51.920 --> 0:28:54.800
<v Speaker 2>Though he said he was concerned because he did not

0:28:55.400 --> 0:28:59.200
<v Speaker 2>reveal his arrest to his superior at, work and because

0:28:59.240 --> 0:29:02.400
<v Speaker 2>he works FOR, sech a high profiled government. Job that

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 2>could be a whole. Thing SO i was, like so

0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:06.920
<v Speaker 2>then tell them.

0:29:06.600 --> 0:29:10.080
<v Speaker 1>To denisha reporting it seemed like the obvious thing to,

0:29:10.120 --> 0:29:15.920
<v Speaker 1>do But lorenzo told her it wasn't that. EASY a

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:19.040
<v Speaker 1>little while after, That denisha was home alone with her,

0:29:19.080 --> 0:29:21.880
<v Speaker 1>baby but she heard a commotion outside her front.

0:29:21.880 --> 0:29:24.720
<v Speaker 2>Door they are knocking at my neighbors right across from,

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 2>me really, loud aggressive knock AND i hear whoever is

0:29:30.800 --> 0:29:31.280
<v Speaker 2>asking For.

0:29:31.440 --> 0:29:38.600
<v Speaker 1>Larry the neighbors didn't. Answer denisha heard footsteps walking, away.

0:29:39.080 --> 0:29:42.840
<v Speaker 2>And suddenly the knock is on my. DOOR i opened the.

0:29:42.880 --> 0:29:45.240
<v Speaker 2>Door these two men in street clothes are claiming to

0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 2>be THE Us marshals and they're looking For. LARRY i,

0:29:49.760 --> 0:29:52.800
<v Speaker 2>EXPLAIN i don't know A, larry and they, said, well

0:29:53.240 --> 0:29:53.920
<v Speaker 2>he goes By.

0:29:54.000 --> 0:30:21.680
<v Speaker 1>Lorenzo tanisha And lorenzo were making things, work raising their

0:30:21.720 --> 0:30:24.880
<v Speaker 1>one year old daughter. Together lorenzo's work as an agent

0:30:24.960 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 1>WITH dcis meant he was often away from. Home one,

0:30:28.600 --> 0:30:31.320
<v Speaker 1>Day danisha was at home with their baby when she

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:34.040
<v Speaker 1>heard a knock at the. Door when she opened, it

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:37.200
<v Speaker 1>TWO Us marshals were standing on her front.

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:40.320
<v Speaker 2>Porch and they're looking For. Larry AND i, EXPLAINED i

0:30:40.320 --> 0:30:40.760
<v Speaker 2>don't know A.

0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:44.800
<v Speaker 1>Larry this didn't make. Sense surely the agents had the

0:30:44.880 --> 0:30:47.040
<v Speaker 1>details mixed up and were at the wrong.

0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:51.640
<v Speaker 2>House and they, explain, well he goes By. Lorenzo sometimes

0:30:52.200 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 2>my whole body is, HOT i feel like my stomach is.

0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Dropped then one of the marshals pulled out a photo

0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 1>of the man they were looking, for.

0:31:01.280 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 2>And they showed me a picture and it's the first

0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:07.760
<v Speaker 2>THING i ever. Saw it's his dating profile. PICTURES i was, like,

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:11.520
<v Speaker 2>yeah that is my. Fiance they repeat that they're from

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:15.200
<v Speaker 2>THE Us marshals and he is. Wanted denisha's head was.

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Spinning she needed more. Information what are you talking?

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:21.480
<v Speaker 2>About what is this? About and they, said we can't

0:31:21.480 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 2>really tell you, much but he is wanted for a

0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:26.920
<v Speaker 2>weapons charge AND i, said, well that doesn't make. Sense

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:30.959
<v Speaker 2>he's an agent with our. Government he wears a badge

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:31.160
<v Speaker 2>and a.

0:31:31.240 --> 0:31:37.240
<v Speaker 1>Gun THE Us marshals asked If lorenzo was. Home denisia

0:31:37.280 --> 0:31:39.760
<v Speaker 1>said he was, not but they told her they needed

0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:43.280
<v Speaker 1>to come in and search the house. Themselves her heart

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:44.280
<v Speaker 1>was beating out of her.

0:31:44.360 --> 0:31:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Chest i've never been in, trouble not even a little.

0:31:48.040 --> 0:31:50.760
<v Speaker 2>BIT i mean a couple of detentions in junior, high

0:31:50.880 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 2>SO i don't know the law like. That SO i

0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:56.080
<v Speaker 2>allowed one of them to. LOOK i asked them to

0:31:56.120 --> 0:31:57.520
<v Speaker 2>be quiet because baby girl was.

0:31:57.560 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 1>Sleeping one of the marshals searched the house while the

0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:05.120
<v Speaker 1>other Asked denisia questions About. Lorenzo when they were certain

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:08.280
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't hiding inside the, house they Gave denisiha their

0:32:08.400 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 1>contact information and. Left denisha felt like the ground beneath

0:32:12.880 --> 0:32:15.360
<v Speaker 1>her was shifting like she couldn't take a full.

0:32:15.440 --> 0:32:19.360
<v Speaker 2>Breath my mind is all over the, place totally, nervous

0:32:19.800 --> 0:32:22.920
<v Speaker 2>in a. FOG i was so scared THAT i did something.

0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:26.400
<v Speaker 2>WRONG i immediately Called, lorenzo.

0:32:26.400 --> 0:32:27.760
<v Speaker 1>But he already.

0:32:27.840 --> 0:32:30.280
<v Speaker 2>Knew he's, like, YEAH i saw it on the nanny.

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:34.440
<v Speaker 1>Cam he had been watching THE Us marshall search their

0:32:34.480 --> 0:32:37.000
<v Speaker 1>home through the nanny cam he set up in their living.

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:40.760
<v Speaker 2>Room it was as if he were waiting for this to.

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:44.120
<v Speaker 2>Happen why what do you watch at that very? Moment

0:32:44.920 --> 0:32:47.920
<v Speaker 2>why now he knew he knew.

0:32:47.960 --> 0:32:51.880
<v Speaker 1>Something as, Always lorenzo was calm and had an.

0:32:51.960 --> 0:32:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Explanation don't, worry, babe it's just a. Misunderstanding it's BECAUSE

0:32:56.120 --> 0:32:57.320
<v Speaker 2>i didn't tell my boss about the.

0:32:57.400 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 1>Arrest To, denisha that explanation didn't seem to add. Up

0:33:02.360 --> 0:33:05.320
<v Speaker 1>THE Us marshall said he was wanted for a weapons.

0:33:05.440 --> 0:33:09.600
<v Speaker 1>Charge lorenzo's arrest had been months, ago and he never

0:33:09.720 --> 0:33:13.360
<v Speaker 1>made any mention of a. Weapon, plus as part of his,

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:17.200
<v Speaker 1>job he was required to Carry none of this made.

0:33:17.240 --> 0:33:20.520
<v Speaker 2>SENSE i don't know why the government would be this

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:22.880
<v Speaker 2>mad about a stupid. Arrest you got in a fight

0:33:23.000 --> 0:33:23.880
<v Speaker 2>like that's not a big.

0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Deal lorenzo assured her that he had everything under.

0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 2>Control this is nothing and he will fix. It don't.

0:33:32.480 --> 0:33:33.440
<v Speaker 2>Worry i'm going to clean it.

0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:36.840
<v Speaker 1>Up, first there was a lieing about his, kids the

0:33:36.880 --> 0:33:40.920
<v Speaker 1>secrecy around his. Job then there was his, arrest and

0:33:40.960 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 1>now he was wanted BY Us.

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:48.000
<v Speaker 2>MARSHALS i cannot have. THIS i have worked very hard

0:33:48.040 --> 0:33:52.240
<v Speaker 2>to have a life of peace and we have a.

0:33:52.360 --> 0:33:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Child NOW i cannot HAVE us marshals knocking on my

0:33:55.640 --> 0:33:58.680
<v Speaker 2>door asking me where you, Are, like this is. Ridiculous

0:33:58.720 --> 0:33:59.000
<v Speaker 2>what is?

0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Happening even Though lorenzo seemed calm on the, phone it

0:34:04.000 --> 0:34:07.960
<v Speaker 1>became clear To denisha that he was hiding something because

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:11.200
<v Speaker 1>that day she waited for him to come, home but

0:34:11.320 --> 0:34:14.719
<v Speaker 1>he never, did not that day or the next, day

0:34:15.440 --> 0:34:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and he wasn't answering her. Calls that's when she realized.

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:23.560
<v Speaker 2>He was essentially on the, run trying to avoid THE Us,

0:34:23.600 --> 0:34:26.719
<v Speaker 2>marshals try to avoid. ARREST i had no. INFORMATION i

0:34:26.719 --> 0:34:28.400
<v Speaker 2>didn't know where he. WAS i didn't know what was.

0:34:28.440 --> 0:34:30.400
<v Speaker 2>Happening nothing felt.

0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:34.480
<v Speaker 1>Normal lorenzo called her a few. Times he Telled denisha

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:37.120
<v Speaker 1>he was, safe he was still sorting it all. Out

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:41.040
<v Speaker 1>she kept urging him to just be honest and turn himself.

0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 2>IN i don't understand why people are looking for you

0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:46.600
<v Speaker 2>and why it would be so hard for you to

0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:49.640
<v Speaker 2>just go ahead and tell your, boss get your, punishment

0:34:49.719 --> 0:34:50.359
<v Speaker 2>and get it over.

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:54.239
<v Speaker 1>With as the days turned into, weeks she clung onto

0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:56.719
<v Speaker 1>the idea that he could fix it and come home

0:34:56.760 --> 0:35:00.600
<v Speaker 1>to their, daughter but his absence Meant denisha was suddenly

0:35:00.640 --> 0:35:01.920
<v Speaker 1>responsible for running the.

0:35:01.960 --> 0:35:05.840
<v Speaker 2>HOUSEHOLD i hadn't seen. Him he is not helping me

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:09.359
<v Speaker 2>take care of the. Baby he is not financially there.

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:11.759
<v Speaker 2>Either i'm doing this all by.

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:15.640
<v Speaker 1>Myself the Longer lorenzo was on the, run the More

0:35:15.719 --> 0:35:17.920
<v Speaker 1>denisia questioned the stories he'd been telling.

0:35:17.960 --> 0:35:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Her it was a balance of really, scared, angry and

0:35:24.719 --> 0:35:28.480
<v Speaker 2>missing him all at the same. TIME i was so

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 2>anxious and my neck. HURT i was so.

0:35:31.239 --> 0:35:37.799
<v Speaker 1>Tense lorenzo had been gone for nearly a. Month denisha

0:35:38.480 --> 0:35:38.719
<v Speaker 1>was in.

0:35:38.800 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 2>DENIAL i have a baby with, him AND i love

0:35:41.880 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 2>him so. MUCH i didn't need. PERFECTION i just wanted

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:48.720
<v Speaker 2>my family. Together even if it's fake, peace it's peace

0:35:49.200 --> 0:35:50.880
<v Speaker 2>THAT i could pretend like nothing else is.

0:35:50.920 --> 0:35:54.320
<v Speaker 1>Wrong when she didn't hear from, him she started checking

0:35:54.320 --> 0:35:57.520
<v Speaker 1>online googling his name to see if there was any.

0:35:57.560 --> 0:35:59.719
<v Speaker 1>News that's how she saw the.

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:03.440
<v Speaker 2>Picture they actually posted On. Twitter it's just so weird to,

0:36:03.480 --> 0:36:06.360
<v Speaker 2>me BUT i see my big strong man with.

0:36:07.120 --> 0:36:09.920
<v Speaker 1>Handcuffs lorenzo had been.

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:14.440
<v Speaker 2>Arrested they found, him THE Us marshalls found. HIM i

0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:17.000
<v Speaker 2>don't know where they found. HIM i always try to

0:36:17.000 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 2>look at the. Background it looks like a, house maybe

0:36:19.239 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 2>a parking. Garage but, yeah they got.

0:36:21.760 --> 0:36:25.879
<v Speaker 1>Him But denisia still didn't know what Exactly lorenzo had.

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 2>Done all of those arrests are public, records SO i

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:32.440
<v Speaker 2>was able to look everything. Up and his charges were child,

0:36:32.560 --> 0:36:40.279
<v Speaker 2>endangerment false, imprisonment, conspiracy, violence impersonating a peace. Officer all

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:42.640
<v Speaker 2>of them are, horrible but the one that really stood

0:36:42.640 --> 0:36:44.200
<v Speaker 2>out to me was impersonating a peace.

0:36:44.239 --> 0:36:49.320
<v Speaker 1>Officer peace officer is a blanket term to describe law enforcement.

0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Officers it includes the, police, sheriffs and special. Agents seeing

0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 1>that charge was the first Time denisha Realized lorenzo wasn't

0:36:59.040 --> 0:36:59.759
<v Speaker 1>who he said he.

0:36:59.880 --> 0:37:03.960
<v Speaker 2>Was he was not an agent with the. Government all

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:06.640
<v Speaker 2>of that's made. Up and because he's not an agent

0:37:06.640 --> 0:37:09.799
<v Speaker 2>with the, government he's in, big big trouble because he's

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:14.960
<v Speaker 2>pretending that made more sense to me than just the stupid.

0:37:15.000 --> 0:37:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Fight there were no further details in the arrest. Record

0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:22.920
<v Speaker 1>what did they mean by child endangerment and false? Imprisonment

0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:26.600
<v Speaker 1>in the, moment all she knew for sure was that

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:30.200
<v Speaker 1>he'd been lying to, her and seeing his, charges she

0:37:30.360 --> 0:37:32.120
<v Speaker 1>knew that his lies were serious.

0:37:32.760 --> 0:37:37.839
<v Speaker 2>Criminal, EMOTIONALLY i was a. MESS i was embarrassed and.

0:37:37.880 --> 0:37:41.719
<v Speaker 1>Shocked she struggled to accept that this was really. Happening

0:37:42.360 --> 0:37:45.319
<v Speaker 1>worst of all was accepting that the future they'd been

0:37:45.360 --> 0:37:46.680
<v Speaker 1>planning together was.

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 2>Gone and this is after these fantasy conversations THAT i

0:37:51.040 --> 0:37:53.720
<v Speaker 2>would have with him getting married and buying a house

0:37:53.760 --> 0:37:56.160
<v Speaker 2>and like really living our lives out as a power.

0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 2>Couple all that went out the.

0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:01.359
<v Speaker 1>Window she was left to raise their daughter on her

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:03.239
<v Speaker 1>own While lorenzo sat in.

0:38:03.320 --> 0:38:06.640
<v Speaker 2>Jail i'm still going through with those partum and Then

0:38:06.680 --> 0:38:08.640
<v Speaker 2>i'm working full, time trying to keep up with the

0:38:08.640 --> 0:38:12.439
<v Speaker 2>bills and life and. Cleaning it's all on. Me it's

0:38:12.440 --> 0:38:15.680
<v Speaker 2>all on. Me so because he's in, Prison i'm only

0:38:15.719 --> 0:38:17.000
<v Speaker 2>able to talk to him and he calls.

0:38:17.040 --> 0:38:20.520
<v Speaker 1>Me the first time they talked on the, Phone lorenzo

0:38:20.640 --> 0:38:23.840
<v Speaker 1>didn't have any. Answers he's stuck by his story that

0:38:23.880 --> 0:38:27.319
<v Speaker 1>he was a federal agent and his arrest was all

0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 1>a big. Misunderstanding his perspective of the story of how

0:38:31.640 --> 0:38:33.719
<v Speaker 1>he got arrested in the first place does not add.

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:36.600
<v Speaker 2>Up so what is happening is? ALL i kept, thinking,

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:38.760
<v Speaker 2>like what is? Happening AM i ignoring?

0:38:38.800 --> 0:38:42.080
<v Speaker 1>Something then one Day denisha got a phone call while

0:38:42.120 --> 0:38:46.360
<v Speaker 1>she was at. Work she recognized the caller id it

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:49.319
<v Speaker 1>Was lorenzo's, ex the woman who'd called On.

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:53.480
<v Speaker 2>THANKSGIVING i answer and she comes in. Hot she comes

0:38:53.480 --> 0:38:56.759
<v Speaker 2>in like who is this and she sounds like she's ready.

0:38:56.760 --> 0:39:01.000
<v Speaker 2>FIGHT i, Say I'm lorenzo's. Fiance I'm lorenzo's.

0:39:01.000 --> 0:39:06.640
<v Speaker 1>Fiance but the truth Was denisha needed her. Help maybe

0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:08.400
<v Speaker 1>this woman had the answers she.

0:39:08.560 --> 0:39:12.000
<v Speaker 2>Didn't she asked, her can you tell me what's going?

0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:17.040
<v Speaker 2>On tell me your. Perspective she tells me he was never.

0:39:17.120 --> 0:39:19.680
<v Speaker 2>Working every time he was not at my, house he

0:39:19.760 --> 0:39:22.920
<v Speaker 2>was at her. House that he is sleeping around AND

0:39:23.000 --> 0:39:24.640
<v Speaker 2>i need to get. Tested it's really.

0:39:24.680 --> 0:39:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Serious it turned out they weren't the only two. Women

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 1>lorenzo had been in multiple relationships at the same, time

0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 1>and he made all of the women he was with

0:39:35.400 --> 0:39:38.879
<v Speaker 1>believe they were the only. One but that wasn't even

0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:41.919
<v Speaker 1>the worst of. It the woman on the phone said

0:39:41.920 --> 0:39:46.320
<v Speaker 1>That lorenzo had gotten another woman pregnant around this same

0:39:46.480 --> 0:39:50.040
<v Speaker 1>time That denisia had been pregnant with their. Daughter and

0:39:50.080 --> 0:39:54.480
<v Speaker 1>this other woman apparently lived In denisha's, neighborhood.

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:57.520
<v Speaker 2>And she said she lived just next door and has

0:39:57.560 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 2>a baby around the same age as my.

0:39:59.080 --> 0:40:02.360
<v Speaker 1>Baby and this was on top of the three secret

0:40:02.440 --> 0:40:07.080
<v Speaker 1>children he had before he Met. Denisia she recognized the

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:11.799
<v Speaker 1>pain in this woman's, voice and she believed Her lorenzo

0:40:12.360 --> 0:40:18.160
<v Speaker 1>had deceived them. Both later that same, Day lorenzo Called

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:21.640
<v Speaker 1>denisia from. Prison she answered on the first, ring.

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:24.120
<v Speaker 2>AND i let them have it for the first time

0:40:24.480 --> 0:40:27.560
<v Speaker 2>since all of this has been going. On you're. TRASH

0:40:27.840 --> 0:40:30.319
<v Speaker 2>i don't trust anything you're. Saying i'm going to get full.

0:40:30.360 --> 0:40:32.759
<v Speaker 2>CUSTODY i don't want to ever see you. Again we're

0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:36.040
<v Speaker 2>not getting over. This we're. Done AND i don't say

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:37.799
<v Speaker 2>things UNLESS i meet them AND i meant.

0:40:37.840 --> 0:40:39.799
<v Speaker 1>Them she hung up the.

0:40:39.840 --> 0:40:42.719
<v Speaker 2>PHONE i was sad That i'm losing WHAT i really,

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:46.240
<v Speaker 2>wanted but Also i'm in a space WHERE i cannot

0:40:46.280 --> 0:40:50.840
<v Speaker 2>continue to pretend like everything's. Okay this is not, okay

0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:51.239
<v Speaker 2>it's not.

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.879
<v Speaker 1>Normal the man she loved felt more like a.

0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:58.919
<v Speaker 2>Phantom, now what CAN i say is even? Real did

0:40:58.920 --> 0:41:01.960
<v Speaker 2>he love? Me why? Me why did you choose?

0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Me denisha kept in touch With lorenzo's. Mom one, day

0:41:06.120 --> 0:41:08.840
<v Speaker 1>when they were out to, lunch his mom said something

0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:10.560
<v Speaker 1>that exposed yet another.

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:13.799
<v Speaker 2>LIE i asked his mom How Puerto rico was and

0:41:14.160 --> 0:41:19.120
<v Speaker 2>she says that she's never been. There not only were

0:41:19.120 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 2>they not, there but he was not born In Puerto,

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:24.440
<v Speaker 2>Rico so that was a. Lie he was born In

0:41:24.840 --> 0:41:26.160
<v Speaker 2>La he was Named.

0:41:26.880 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Larry Before lorenzo's, arrest she'd seen a copy of his

0:41:31.040 --> 0:41:32.560
<v Speaker 1>birth certificate.

0:41:32.680 --> 0:41:34.960
<v Speaker 2>Which showed me that he was born In Puerto rico

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:38.080
<v Speaker 2>and his name Was. LORENZO i saw the birth, certificate

0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:38.759
<v Speaker 2>it Said Puerto.

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:41.759
<v Speaker 1>Rico but that document must have been.

0:41:41.800 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 2>Forged so who doctored this? Document that's so weird and

0:41:47.520 --> 0:41:48.320
<v Speaker 2>why lie about?

0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:54.399
<v Speaker 1>That hearing this reveal Threw denisha. Off she was too

0:41:54.520 --> 0:41:57.319
<v Speaker 1>flustered to ask his mom any follow up questions in the,

0:41:57.360 --> 0:42:01.200
<v Speaker 1>moment but, later when she was, alone she realized she

0:42:01.320 --> 0:42:04.920
<v Speaker 1>needed more. Answers she didn't even know Who lorenzo, was

0:42:05.800 --> 0:42:06.880
<v Speaker 1>and she wanted to find.

0:42:06.880 --> 0:42:11.080
<v Speaker 2>Out NOW i Know larry is officially who he is

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:13.120
<v Speaker 2>and born In LA i was able to get deeper

0:42:13.200 --> 0:42:14.080
<v Speaker 2>and look for more.

0:42:14.120 --> 0:42:18.200
<v Speaker 1>Receipts she scoured The internet for everything she could find

0:42:18.280 --> 0:42:23.200
<v Speaker 1>About lorenzo Aka. Larry her search for the truth took.

0:42:23.280 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 1>Years we want to walk you Through lorenzo's criminal, past

0:42:27.120 --> 0:42:31.440
<v Speaker 1>combining What denisha and our team has found. Out his

0:42:31.480 --> 0:42:34.799
<v Speaker 1>given name at birth Was Larry Cornell Diamond. Junior in,

0:42:34.880 --> 0:42:38.319
<v Speaker 1>total he had six arrests and. Convictions we're going to

0:42:38.360 --> 0:42:41.040
<v Speaker 1>detail a few of. Them it all started in two

0:42:41.080 --> 0:42:44.279
<v Speaker 1>thousand In Los. Angeles larry was twenty two at the.

0:42:44.280 --> 0:42:48.000
<v Speaker 1>Time he and his Friend Robert hun showed up unannounced

0:42:48.000 --> 0:42:51.080
<v Speaker 1>at a woman's. Apartment they knocked on her door and

0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:54.560
<v Speaker 1>told her that they WERE fbi. Agents they said that

0:42:54.600 --> 0:42:57.719
<v Speaker 1>they needed to search her. Home they were armed and

0:42:57.760 --> 0:43:01.480
<v Speaker 1>she let them. In but they WEREN'T fbi. Agents they

0:43:01.480 --> 0:43:05.400
<v Speaker 1>were bounty. Hunters The Los Angeles times reported on the.

0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:08.760
<v Speaker 1>Crime here's part of that reporting read by a voice.

0:43:08.800 --> 0:43:12.440
<v Speaker 3>Actor huon And diamond proclaimed to be affiliated with a

0:43:12.480 --> 0:43:16.040
<v Speaker 3>non existent branch of THE. Fbi heon And diamond created

0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:18.960
<v Speaker 3>a fake search warrant and claimed they WERE fbi agents

0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:21.120
<v Speaker 3>when they made their way through a woman's sam pager

0:43:21.239 --> 0:43:25.680
<v Speaker 3>apartment searching for stolen. Computers both men were wearing holstered

0:43:25.719 --> 0:43:29.880
<v Speaker 3>semi automatic guns and silver badges that they claimed WERE fbi.

0:43:30.000 --> 0:43:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Badges that was the start of a, pattern an almost

0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:41.000
<v Speaker 1>pathological scheme of impersonating authority LIKE, FBI, cia or police

0:43:41.239 --> 0:43:45.799
<v Speaker 1>as means of. Extortion after he was, Released larry went

0:43:45.880 --> 0:43:48.640
<v Speaker 1>right back to. It in two thousand and, three he

0:43:48.719 --> 0:43:51.680
<v Speaker 1>walked into a hardware store where he intended to carry

0:43:51.680 --> 0:43:56.040
<v Speaker 1>out his next. Crime The District attorney's office In Central

0:43:56.040 --> 0:44:00.120
<v Speaker 1>california released a statement explaining what happened that. Day he'd

0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:01.440
<v Speaker 1>had a voice actor read part of.

0:44:01.480 --> 0:44:04.840
<v Speaker 4>It diamond went to the hardware company dressed like a

0:44:04.960 --> 0:44:08.680
<v Speaker 4>law enforcement. Officer he was wearing all, black displaying a,

0:44:08.719 --> 0:44:12.000
<v Speaker 4>badge and claimed that he was AN fbi agent with

0:44:12.120 --> 0:44:15.400
<v Speaker 4>The American. Consulate he then threatened to arrest the owner

0:44:15.760 --> 0:44:19.480
<v Speaker 4>unless the owner paid ten thousand dollars directly To.

0:44:19.560 --> 0:44:24.840
<v Speaker 1>Diamond for that, offense he served a four year prison.

0:44:24.920 --> 0:44:32.719
<v Speaker 1>Sentence this was so much darker Than denisia. Imagined lorenzo

0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:36.120
<v Speaker 1>wasn't just lying about his. Identity he was threatening and

0:44:36.200 --> 0:44:40.200
<v Speaker 1>exploiting innocent. People he would show up armed and in,

0:44:40.320 --> 0:44:45.080
<v Speaker 1>disguise then demand money or. Valuables he abused authority he

0:44:45.120 --> 0:44:48.759
<v Speaker 1>didn't even, have and he did that over and over

0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:54.000
<v Speaker 1>again for his entire adult. Life lorenzo wasn't just unfaithful or.

0:44:54.040 --> 0:44:59.440
<v Speaker 1>Delusional he was. Dangerous In september of twenty, sixteen he

0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:03.719
<v Speaker 1>legally changed his name To Lorenzo Sanchez. Diamond the very next,

0:45:03.760 --> 0:45:08.160
<v Speaker 1>week he was arrested, again this time for possession of a.

0:45:08.200 --> 0:45:11.919
<v Speaker 1>Firearm denisha poured over all of these.

0:45:11.960 --> 0:45:15.839
<v Speaker 2>Documents i'm reading the whole, thing and they catch him

0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:19.160
<v Speaker 2>at The denny's in his military gear with guns in his,

0:45:19.239 --> 0:45:20.239
<v Speaker 2>trunk and he gets.

0:45:20.360 --> 0:45:24.560
<v Speaker 1>Arrested none of his arrests or prison sentences deterred. Him

0:45:24.880 --> 0:45:27.800
<v Speaker 1>each time he was, released he picked up where he

0:45:27.880 --> 0:45:33.200
<v Speaker 1>left off and continued his impersonation Con even After denisha

0:45:33.280 --> 0:45:36.200
<v Speaker 1>ended things With lorenzo and he was imprisoned for the

0:45:36.360 --> 0:45:40.000
<v Speaker 1>sixth time in twenty twenty, three he would insist that

0:45:40.040 --> 0:45:43.400
<v Speaker 1>he was always a federal. Agent at least that's what

0:45:43.480 --> 0:45:46.479
<v Speaker 1>he Told, denisha but he asked her not to come

0:45:46.520 --> 0:45:49.960
<v Speaker 1>to his sentencing. Hearing there he pled guilty to all

0:45:49.960 --> 0:45:53.040
<v Speaker 1>the counts he was. Facing he was sentenced to another

0:45:53.160 --> 0:45:56.600
<v Speaker 1>eighteen months in. Prison denisha thought that would be the

0:45:56.719 --> 0:46:00.000
<v Speaker 1>end of the, story but While lorenzo was behind, bars

0:46:00.440 --> 0:46:01.440
<v Speaker 1>she got a strange.

0:46:01.480 --> 0:46:06.240
<v Speaker 2>EMAIL i got a mysterious email from A Bubba. Walker

0:46:06.520 --> 0:46:09.960
<v Speaker 2>never heard of this. Person they introduced themselves as A cia,

0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:15.400
<v Speaker 2>agent and then there's A mp three voicemail in. It

0:46:15.400 --> 0:46:19.200
<v Speaker 2>it was a computerized female. Voice the sender.

0:46:18.920 --> 0:46:22.560
<v Speaker 1>Claimed to be an employee at THE, cia Singing lorenzo's

0:46:22.560 --> 0:46:26.319
<v Speaker 1>praises for his invaluable efforts in the Global war on.

0:46:26.440 --> 0:46:30.399
<v Speaker 1>Terrorism they Said lorenzo was a good man with more

0:46:30.440 --> 0:46:31.279
<v Speaker 1>intelligence than.

0:46:31.280 --> 0:46:36.160
<v Speaker 2>Most the recording just was Like Lorenzo sanchez is a

0:46:36.400 --> 0:46:40.160
<v Speaker 2>great person and he's a great stand up, citizen and

0:46:40.160 --> 0:46:43.120
<v Speaker 2>THAT i should trust, it and also said not to

0:46:43.160 --> 0:46:46.040
<v Speaker 2>tell anybody about this message and to destroy the. Message

0:46:46.080 --> 0:46:52.840
<v Speaker 2>AFTER i got, IT i told. Everybody my sister was, like,

0:46:52.960 --> 0:46:54.959
<v Speaker 2>WELL i can say a lot of bad things about

0:46:54.960 --> 0:46:56.880
<v Speaker 2>this man by people go through the ends of the

0:46:56.920 --> 0:47:00.839
<v Speaker 2>earth to fake A cia call to get to believe his,

0:47:01.040 --> 0:47:04.960
<v Speaker 2>Bullshit like this is so, stupid it was.

0:47:05.120 --> 0:47:10.919
<v Speaker 1>Laughable she no longer believed Anything lorenzo. Said after nine

0:47:10.960 --> 0:47:15.640
<v Speaker 1>months behind, Bars lorenzo was released on good. Behavior even

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:19.480
<v Speaker 1>though things were over between, them she Let lorenzo FaceTime

0:47:19.520 --> 0:47:23.959
<v Speaker 1>their daughter. Occasionally on one of those, Calls lorenzo said

0:47:24.000 --> 0:47:24.840
<v Speaker 1>he had some grave.

0:47:24.920 --> 0:47:29.640
<v Speaker 2>News that's when he revealed he had. CANCER i thought

0:47:29.640 --> 0:47:33.000
<v Speaker 2>it was another, tactic another, lie maybe to get my

0:47:33.040 --> 0:47:35.319
<v Speaker 2>walls down, again to see if he can get back

0:47:35.360 --> 0:47:39.160
<v Speaker 2>into my good. Graces so she told, him you're not

0:47:39.200 --> 0:47:42.000
<v Speaker 2>invited in my home or my heart. Anymore if you're,

0:47:42.040 --> 0:47:43.759
<v Speaker 2>SICK i help you still better.

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:46.879
<v Speaker 1>Soon but the next time they had a video, Call

0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:49.880
<v Speaker 1>denisha noticed that the room he was calling from was.

0:47:49.920 --> 0:47:53.800
<v Speaker 1>Different he was in the, hospital and he Looked. Gaune

0:47:54.040 --> 0:47:57.520
<v Speaker 1>he'd lied about so, much but this time he was

0:47:57.560 --> 0:47:57.960
<v Speaker 1>telling the.

0:47:58.000 --> 0:48:01.799
<v Speaker 2>Truth he has stage four colon. Cancer he's very.

0:48:01.880 --> 0:48:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Sick lorenzo's health only declined from. There he went into.

0:48:06.080 --> 0:48:09.600
<v Speaker 1>Hospice denisha decided to visit him and say.

0:48:09.600 --> 0:48:13.600
<v Speaker 2>Goodbye he looks really. Frail you could push him over

0:48:13.680 --> 0:48:14.120
<v Speaker 2>with just the.

0:48:14.160 --> 0:48:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Breath seeing him at the end of his life brought up,

0:48:18.040 --> 0:48:19.480
<v Speaker 1>overwhelming conflicting.

0:48:19.520 --> 0:48:23.720
<v Speaker 2>Emotions before all the things that went, wrong he showed

0:48:23.760 --> 0:48:26.600
<v Speaker 2>me love like no one else had showed me before.

0:48:26.640 --> 0:48:31.440
<v Speaker 2>THIS i felt, RESPECTED i felt loved and desired having

0:48:31.520 --> 0:48:36.200
<v Speaker 2>him destroy my, life and now he was. Dying she

0:48:36.320 --> 0:48:41.040
<v Speaker 2>walked over to his. BEDSIDE i was so. Sad it

0:48:41.160 --> 0:48:44.840
<v Speaker 2>was so sad to. SEE i never wished this for.

0:48:44.960 --> 0:48:49.840
<v Speaker 2>ANYONE i held his hand and told HIM i forgave,

0:48:49.960 --> 0:48:52.440
<v Speaker 2>him and THAT i got, this AND i will take

0:48:52.440 --> 0:48:57.840
<v Speaker 2>care of our, daughter and you can let. Go she

0:48:58.000 --> 0:48:58.360
<v Speaker 2>left his.

0:48:58.440 --> 0:49:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Room in forty eight, Hours lorenzo passed. Away denisia reached

0:49:04.840 --> 0:49:08.200
<v Speaker 1>out to us a few months. Later she's still processing the.

0:49:08.320 --> 0:49:13.239
<v Speaker 2>Loss it's unending, grief grieving the life THAT i THOUGHT i,

0:49:13.360 --> 0:49:17.919
<v Speaker 2>had the, husband the, baby the, house all of those,

0:49:17.960 --> 0:49:21.719
<v Speaker 2>things had it for so, little such a little. Time

0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:25.560
<v Speaker 2>i'm grieving that all the. Time i'm grieving the single

0:49:25.640 --> 0:49:30.880
<v Speaker 2>motherhood of it, all AND i a grieve for my.

0:49:31.000 --> 0:49:33.920
<v Speaker 1>Baby that grief is muddied by.

0:49:33.960 --> 0:49:38.720
<v Speaker 2>Confusion it's really hard to determine who this person.

0:49:38.880 --> 0:49:44.960
<v Speaker 1>Was lorenzo's obituary describes him as a, doctor, author, poet

0:49:45.280 --> 0:49:49.120
<v Speaker 1>and rapper who loved macaroni and cheese and Watching. Jeopardy

0:49:49.920 --> 0:49:52.960
<v Speaker 1>His LinkedIn profile describes him as a legal expert and

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:58.759
<v Speaker 1>human rights. Consultant lorenzo tried on so many disguises so

0:49:58.880 --> 0:50:04.720
<v Speaker 1>many prestigious, career, doctor, lawyer federal. Agent denisia knows now

0:50:05.160 --> 0:50:08.759
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't any of those. Things she's left wondering if

0:50:08.800 --> 0:50:10.360
<v Speaker 1>anything he ever told her was.

0:50:10.400 --> 0:50:14.160
<v Speaker 2>REAL i still am not one hundred percent sure what

0:50:14.200 --> 0:50:14.600
<v Speaker 2>the truth.

0:50:14.719 --> 0:50:19.200
<v Speaker 1>Is denisia has had to make peace with the confusion

0:50:19.360 --> 0:50:23.840
<v Speaker 1>and Grief lorenzo left. Behind she hasn't been in contact

0:50:23.880 --> 0:50:27.839
<v Speaker 1>with the other Women lorenzo deceived for her reaching out

0:50:27.840 --> 0:50:29.719
<v Speaker 1>with reopen. Wounds she is trying to.

0:50:29.760 --> 0:50:33.439
<v Speaker 2>Heal my focus is on my baby and doing my job.

0:50:33.480 --> 0:50:36.120
<v Speaker 1>Well she has built an impressive.

0:50:36.200 --> 0:50:40.120
<v Speaker 2>Career i'm making six figures at a nonprofit as the accounting.

0:50:40.160 --> 0:50:44.000
<v Speaker 2>Manager i'm so proud of me to be in this.

0:50:44.200 --> 0:50:45.839
<v Speaker 2>ROLE i worked hard to get.

0:50:45.840 --> 0:50:49.719
<v Speaker 1>Here she's created a safe and loving home where her

0:50:49.760 --> 0:50:53.680
<v Speaker 1>daughter gets to express herself. Authentically baby girl is.

0:50:53.719 --> 0:50:57.840
<v Speaker 2>Thriving she loves school and it's already time to enroll

0:50:57.880 --> 0:51:04.320
<v Speaker 2>her in regular elementary. School and that's, emotional and she loves,

0:51:04.440 --> 0:51:05.760
<v Speaker 2>dancing loves.

0:51:05.800 --> 0:51:09.680
<v Speaker 1>Ballet these, Days denisius used her own strength.

0:51:09.760 --> 0:51:13.880
<v Speaker 2>Clearly i'm resilient BECAUSE i struggle with depression, anxiety but

0:51:13.960 --> 0:51:16.560
<v Speaker 2>this did not strike. ME i am still Going i'm

0:51:16.600 --> 0:51:19.239
<v Speaker 2>still standing strong And i'm going to be.

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:25.400
<v Speaker 1>Fine we end every weekly episode with the same, question

0:51:26.080 --> 0:51:27.160
<v Speaker 1>why do you want to share your?

0:51:27.200 --> 0:51:33.279
<v Speaker 2>STORY i cycle through grief on a daily. BASIS i

0:51:33.320 --> 0:51:37.400
<v Speaker 2>feel very lonely having experienced this and not having a

0:51:37.400 --> 0:51:39.919
<v Speaker 2>lot of people that understand Where i'm, at that wore

0:51:39.960 --> 0:51:43.560
<v Speaker 2>these same shoes and had the same. Thoughts SO i

0:51:43.600 --> 0:51:48.000
<v Speaker 2>really wanted to find my, people tell other people they're not,

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