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Speaker 1: Growing up, Denisha Quiller was used to chaos. She was

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Speaker 1: one of seven kids.

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Speaker 2: I have a brother, a sister, a half brother, and

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Speaker 2: then my mom adopted three of her nieces.

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Speaker 1: They lived in a two bedroom house in Long Beach, California.

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Speaker 2: Eight people. It was very chaotic, a lot of fighting

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Speaker 1: I had a good relationship with her father, but he

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Speaker 1: was in and out of the house when she was

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Speaker 1: growing up. As the primary caregiver, her mom held everything together.

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Speaker 1: With seven kids, it was an exhausting job.

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Speaker 2: She was super mom. She was stressed out and it

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Speaker 1: When the house got too loud, Denisia escaped into her

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Speaker 2: I'm an eighties kid, so it was full house and

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Speaker 1: Denisia's mom ran a tight ship, especially when it came

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Speaker 1: to dating.

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Speaker 2: My mom was antiboys, anti dating. She would tell me

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Speaker 1: On Sundays, Denisha's family attended church. They were Pentecostal and

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Speaker 2: There were so many rules. Sex was on the top

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Speaker 1: For Denisha followed all of the rules very carefully. There

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Speaker 2: I got extensions and they were always rainbow colored, and

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Speaker 1: In high school, Denisha made a plan for her future.

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Speaker 2: I thought that immediately after high school, I would go

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Speaker 1: After graduating, Denisia enrolled at Biola University, an evangelical Christian

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Speaker 2: I was really looking forward to doing either speech therapy

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Speaker 1: After college. She was eager to start her life. She

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Speaker 2: I was like, doors are going to open, right, this

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Speaker 1: She started applying to jobs and speech therapy, but she

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Speaker 2: I had a chip on my shoulder because I had

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Speaker 1: And that wasn't the only thing that wasn't going to plan.

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Speaker 1: Denisia struggled to find a romantic partner. She put herself

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Speaker 2: I was miserable. This was not what I signed up for.

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Speaker 1: Her childhood in the church hadn't prepared her for this disappointment.

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Speaker 2: I was doing everything right. I left God, I talked

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Speaker 1: She'd always believed that there was a formula to a

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Speaker 2: The formula doesn't exist. Everybody's on their own journey.

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Speaker 1: She had to start figuring out what she truly wanted

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Speaker 1: she decided to go back to school for accounting.

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Speaker 2: I love accounting. I am very virgo, and I want

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Speaker 1: Denisha worked hard and excelled at school. After getting her

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Speaker 2: By her thirties, I was feeling like the badass bitch

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Speaker 1: Going back to school for accounting, she'd established a serious relationship.

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Speaker 2: This man was just kind of bumming. He was a

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Speaker 1: She wanted a life partner who was as ambitious as

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Speaker 2: I had enough, and I said, you have to go.

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Speaker 2: You have to go, and so he went, and I

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Speaker 2: felt like this weight off my shoulders.

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Speaker 1: After the breakup, Denisha decided to live on her own.

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Speaker 1: She was surprised at how much she loved her newfound independence.

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Speaker 2: I smoothly walked into having my own place, in my

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Speaker 2: I had a personal trainer. I had people over when

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Speaker 2: I wanted half people over. So I had a jet

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Speaker 2: get a glass of wine and some snacks, go take

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Speaker 2: a nice hot bath.

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Speaker 1: As she got into her late thirties, she knew the

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Speaker 2: I had the career, I had a home, so this

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Speaker 2: I would love a great partner.

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Speaker 1: So she decided to give dating one more shot. After

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Speaker 2: I desired somebody who really took responsibility for his family

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Speaker 1: Denisha made a profile on a dating app called.

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Speaker 2: Wu It's an app for people who love to date

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Speaker 2: bigger people, mainly men and bigger women. I was a

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Speaker 2: thick girl and proud of it.

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Speaker 1: After a few days, she matched with a man who

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Speaker 1: stood out from the rest. His name was Lorenzo.

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Speaker 2: His pictures were just everything. He was super sexy.

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Speaker 1: They messaged back and forth a bit. At first, it

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Speaker 2: We rarely talked about the times that we did, it

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Speaker 2: was a fruitful conversation. I really liked him.

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Speaker 1: Lorenzo wasn't pushy or overbearing. If anything, he was more reserved.

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Speaker 1: He had a military background.

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Speaker 2: I just remember being impressed with him and really wanting

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Speaker 2: to crack this nut, but like he would not open

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Speaker 2: up as much as I wanted him to.

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Speaker 1: Denisha was hoping that Lorenzo would ask her out. He

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Speaker 1: hadn't been forthcoming about what he wanted yet. In the meantime,

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Speaker 1: Denisha went on dates with other guys she met on WU,

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Speaker 1: but none of the men she was meeting impressed her.

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Speaker 2: One night, I had a date with a man named Richard.

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Speaker 2: He was okay, he was not a bad guy, but

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Speaker 2: it was just not for me. And I got home

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Speaker 2: and I was really not stealing well about that. Like

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Speaker 2: this keeps happening. I keep meeting okay man, but I'm

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Speaker 2: not meeting the man.

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Speaker 1: Was starting to lose hope that the man of her

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Speaker 1: dreams was out there, But in that exact moment her phone.

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Speaker 2: Rang, Lorenzo called and said, I have some time off

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Speaker 2: of work. Do you want to meet. I was still

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Speaker 2: in my outfit from the date prior that evening, and

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Speaker 2: I absolutely wanted to meet.

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Speaker 1: I could not wait, even though it was late at night.

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Speaker 1: They made plans to meet up for their first date.

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Speaker 2: We found a bar called The Stash on Fourth Street

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Speaker 2: in Long Beach and they had seating outside.

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Speaker 1: When she got there, she locked eyes with Lorenzo.

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Speaker 2: He was beautiful to look at six', four just towered over,

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Speaker 2: me big, guy dressed to the, nine smelled so.

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Speaker 1: Good they made their way to the bars outside.

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Speaker 2: Patio he pulled my chair, out such a. Gentleman we

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Speaker 2: talked about our upbringing and our goals and our careers.

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Speaker 1: On other, dates making CONVERSATION i felt like pulling, teeth

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Speaker 1: but talking To lorenzo was.

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Speaker 2: Effortless and then we got on the conversation of do

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Speaker 2: you want? Kids he didn't have. KIDS i didn't have,

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Speaker 2: kids AND i, Said i'm willing IF i find the right.

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Speaker 1: Person lorenzo said he'd always wanted to be a. Dad

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Speaker 1: this Made denisha lean. In usually the guys she met

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Speaker 1: either already had kids or weren't interested in starting a.

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Speaker 1: Family When denisha looked at her, watch she was surprised

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Speaker 1: to see that hours had gone.

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Speaker 2: BY i told him it was getting kind of, late

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Speaker 2: was on the inside of the, sidewalk which was so.

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Speaker 1: Sweet standing on the sidewalk next To denisha's, Car lorenzo

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Speaker 1: leaned in to kiss.

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Speaker 2: Her it was the best kiss That i've ever had

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Speaker 2: in my. Life it was just.

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Speaker 1: Amazing lorenzo didn't walk away until he was Sure denisha

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Speaker 2: Home we watched AS i burged onto the main, street

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Speaker 2: cautious but so. Excited it was a great, night the

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Speaker 2: best Date i've ever.

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Speaker 1: Had this was the kind of guy she'd been waiting.

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Speaker 1: For when she woke up the next, morning a text

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Speaker 1: From lorenzo greeted.

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Speaker 2: Her he had left me a text message and dedicated

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Speaker 2: a song to. Me it made me smile and get

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Speaker 2: butterflies in my.

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Speaker 1: Stomach their second date followed soon, after and then their.

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Speaker 2: Third we were joined at the hip since our first.

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Speaker 1: Date soon they made their relationship. Official denisha's knowledge Of

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Speaker 1: lorenzo's life grew from a few bullet points on his

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Speaker 1: dating profile to the full.

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Speaker 2: Story he grew up In Puerto rico for the first

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Speaker 2: portion of his. Life his mom was still. There he

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Speaker 2: had been in the military for most of his. Life

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Speaker 2: he had enlisted right after high. School he started in

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Speaker 2: The army and then matriculated Into, marines and then he

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Speaker 2: went all the way up the ranks to.

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Speaker 1: Colonel he Showed denisia some of his old, uniforms decked

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Speaker 1: his years in the. Service he Told denisia about the

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Speaker 1: time he stepped on a homemade bomb while on.

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Speaker 2: Deployment it really destroyed his body and then was put

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Speaker 1: Badge after dating men who lacked, Direction lorenzo's passion for

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Speaker 2: AIR i was really impressed the, military the high profile government.

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Speaker 1: Other Soon lorenzo moved in With. Denisia they spent countless

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Speaker 1: hours watching movies AND tv shows together and debriefing about

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Speaker 2: Job it was super. SECRET i couldn't know too. Much

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Speaker 2: He would come home at like four o'clock in the,

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Speaker 1: Him When lorenzo was traveling for, work he always stayed

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Speaker 1: Work lorenzo was fearless and With, denisia he was, caring,

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Speaker 1: she'd been waiting for a love like this her whole.

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Speaker 2: Life And i've heard stories before that if you, know you,

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Speaker 2: both almost in our, forties never, married no, Kids let's

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Speaker 2: Possible if it, happened in my, mind it would be

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Speaker 1: Pregnant it felt like. Fate but she was nervous to

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Speaker 1: Tell lorenzo now that being a dad wasn't just an

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Speaker 2: we're going to do this first time. Parents let's do.

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Speaker 1: This But dinisha had a lot of complications with her.

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Speaker 1: PREGNANCY i had everything in the.

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Speaker 2: Book Because i'm, OLDER i was already high. Risk and

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Speaker 2: PRESSURES i had to test by blood pressure several times a.

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Speaker 2: DAY i was going in for a non stress test

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Speaker 2: two times a. Week it was a.

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Speaker 1: Lot lorenzo was by her side through.

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Speaker 2: Everything lorenzo was my. Anchor he came to most of the,

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Speaker 1: Time denisha Was lorenzo's top. Priority even when he got

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Speaker 1: Love lorenzo started putting together the, nursery hanging up shelves

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Speaker 1: and doing the physical labor so That denisha could. Rest

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Speaker 1: watching him take care of her Gave denisha confidence that

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Speaker 2: Dad he was just so gentle with, me AND i

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Speaker 1: Father when their daughter was, Born lorenzo was right there

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Speaker 1: Dad it was a magical. Moment looking at her daughter

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Speaker 1: In lorenzo's, Arms denisha was filled with pride for her.

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Speaker 2: FAMILY i could not BELIEVE i had my man and my.

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Speaker 1: Excited finally her fairy tale was coming to. Fruition When

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Speaker 1: denisia became a, mom she was. Overjoyed Watching lorenzo care

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Speaker 1: for her and their daughter felt like a dream come,

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Speaker 1: true the type of love always wished. For they had

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Speaker 2: THERE i got them gifts AND i thanked them for

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Speaker 2: grandchild and, niece and they were really.

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Speaker 1: Receptive because of the nature Of lorenzo's, job he didn't

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Speaker 2: Leave he was only home for a. Week his job

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Speaker 2: did not want him to be off for that. Long

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Speaker 2: he demanded that. Week him having to go back to

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Speaker 2: work was really. HARD i really wanted him.

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Speaker 1: There lorenzo worked a, lot but he still did everything

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Speaker 1: he could to be a great. Dad when he wasn't,

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Speaker 1: working he jumped in to Help.

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Speaker 2: Denisia he was helping me figure out lactation and. Breastfeeding

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Speaker 2: he was always washing the baby, bottles and when baby

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Speaker 2: screaming he would take.

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Speaker 1: Over one day In, august when their DAUGHTER i was

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Speaker 1: three months, Old denisha And lorenzo were spending time. Together

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Speaker 1: suddenly he turned to face. Her he looked, anxious out of.

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Speaker 2: Nowhere he just says that he had to tell me.

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Speaker 2: And he confessed that our baby was not his first.

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Speaker 2: Baby he actually had three additional, children a twelve year,

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Speaker 1: Women denisha was completely taken.

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Speaker 2: Aback to say THAT i was shocked is an. Understatement

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Speaker 1: Angry she left the house to get some, space.

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Speaker 2: And then WHEN i got, BACK i just begged him

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Speaker 2: to tell me. Everything what do you mean you're not

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Speaker 2: a first time? DAD i don't. Understand he said.

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Speaker 1: The kids were from two different relationships he'd had in his,

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Speaker 1: twenties they didn't live in the, area and he wasn't

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Speaker 1: involved in the kids'. Lives lorenzo tried to explain why

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Speaker 2: Denisia he said he didn't want me to. Leave he

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Speaker 2: thought that IF i knew he had other, CHILDREN i

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Speaker 2: would not be into him. Anymore and my response was

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Speaker 2: that was my, Choice so you took that choice away from.

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Speaker 1: Me he explained that he'd never been given the opportunity

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Speaker 1: to parent his older, kids so when he Met, denisha

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Speaker 1: it felt like a fresh.

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Speaker 2: START i asked a, Lot please tell me, everything no more.

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Speaker 2: Secrets we're in this. Together anything? Else are you? Married,

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Speaker 2: like what is going? On what about these other? Women

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Speaker 2: and he assured me nothing. Else there's nothing, Else there's nothing,

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Speaker 2: else and he is, very very sorry that he did

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Speaker 2: not tell me about these other.

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Speaker 1: Children the lies, stung But lorenzo seemed genuinely. Sorry he

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Speaker 1: admitted that hiding this was a. Mistake he was apologetic

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Speaker 1: i kind of understood where he was coming, from why

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Speaker 2: I would love. IT i would get. Stacks we would

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Speaker 2: other children's mothers would not be on, board that he

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Speaker 2: rarely gets to see them, anyways and there was a

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Speaker 1: Mothers denisha believed. Him she was on maternity, leave busy

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Speaker 1: with their, newborn and After lorenzo came, clean he showed

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Speaker 1: his remorse with his actions doting On denisia and their.

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Speaker 2: Daughter we had a great time all through my maternity.

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Speaker 2: Leave he was really, attentive even after this ball that he.

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Speaker 2: Dropped we try to get past, it AND i thought

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Speaker 2: it was.

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Speaker 1: Doable When lorenzo had to travel for, work he found

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Speaker 1: creative ways to stay in.

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Speaker 2: Touch baby girl AND i would hang out in the living.

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Speaker 2: Room we had the nanny cam right next to THE,

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Speaker 2: tv and it was one of those nanny cams that

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Speaker 2: you can patch through and talk.

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Speaker 1: Through lorenzo would log into the nanny cam so he

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Speaker 1: while they hung out at.

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Speaker 2: Home and it felt really, good, actually it was really.

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Speaker 2: Sweet he was watching all the. Time you just pop

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Speaker 2: in and. WATCH i would hear his voice and he's,

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Speaker 2: Like daddy's, Girl daddy's here and talk to, baby and

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Speaker 2: talk to. Me and it just was lovely to see

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Speaker 2: that he was, connecting even though he had to be.

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Speaker 1: Away By thanksgiving of that, year their daughter was six months.

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Speaker 1: Old denisha And lorenzo were in the car driving to

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Speaker 1: her family's house For thanksgiving dinner When denisia saw that

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Speaker 1: she had a miscall from an unknown.

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Speaker 2: Number there's a message from the. CALL i asked him

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Speaker 2: to play it out loud As i'm, driving and it's

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Speaker 2: this woman That i've never heard from or heard, of

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Speaker 2: and she says she's looking for her, Husband.

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Speaker 1: Lorenzo denisha nearly swerved off the.

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Speaker 2: Road my heart, drops And i'm, like what is going?

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Speaker 2: On just a couple months, ago you told me you

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Speaker 2: had three, kids and now some stranger is calling my

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Speaker 2: phone saying that she is looking for her. Husband what is?

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Speaker 1: Happening she Expected lorenzo to be panicked and, apologetic but

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Speaker 1: he was. Unfazed he had an.

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Speaker 2: Explanation he assured, me that's my Ex she's. Crazy don't believe.

440
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 2: Her please don't let this ruin. Everything we have something.

441
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 2: GOOD i love you this is our. Family don't let

442
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 2: her get in your.

443
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: Head but the whole time she was At thanksgiving, dinner

444
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 1: the woman's words my Husband lorenzo echoed in her.

445
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 2: Mind but it was maybe girls First, thanksgiving SO i

446
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 2: pretend it like everything was.

447
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,919
Speaker 1: Great she put on a brave face around her. Family

448
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 1: when they got home that, Night lorenzo tried to Reassure

449
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: denisha that there was nothing going on with his. Ex

450
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 1: he showed her the text messages between them to prove

451
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: there was nothing to worry.

452
00:24:54,640 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 2: ABOUT i saw the text messages and it's it seemed,

453
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 2: legit so it helped me kind of let it.

454
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 1: Go she was still, suspicious but she wanted to Believe.

455
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 1: Lorenzo they had just started a family.

456
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 2: TOGETHER i was fighting for my little. FAMILY i thought

457
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 2: for sure this was my, time And i'm fighting tooth

458
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 2: and nail to keep it as much as.

459
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 1: Possible one, Night denisha And lorenzo were at home watching

460
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: a show, together as they often.

461
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 2: Did Baby girl was in bed. Already it was late at.

462
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 2: Night we were Watching, dexter and he pulled out a.

463
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 1: Ring lorenzo Asked denisha to marry. Him she said.

464
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 2: Yes we took a little happy picture and posted it

465
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 2: on social, media AND i was engaged the next. DAY

466
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 2: i squealed with my mom on the phone and all that.

467
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 2: Stuff but to be, honest in the back of my,

468
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 2: Mind i'm like something felt.

469
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:59,199
Speaker 1: Off she had always imagined that getting engaged would be

470
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 1: one of the happy moments of her, life but her

471
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: happiness was laced with.

472
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: DOUBT i kept thinking about the other mother that called, me,

473
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 2: like where is she in this, story in this. ENGAGEMENT

474
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,239
Speaker 2: i don't know, why BUT i could not get her

475
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 2: out of my.

476
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 1: Mind lorenzo was passionate about his role as a federal,

477
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: agent but as time went, on he wanted to start

478
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 1: a side.

479
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: Venture he was really into, arbitration which is like the

480
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 2: middleman when somebody has an argument with another.

481
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:36,719
Speaker 1: Person lorenzo decided to open a consulting business where he

482
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 1: would use his negotiation and conflict management skills to help

483
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: clients navigate complex custody battles or divorce. Proceedings he Told

484
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:49,479
Speaker 1: denisha that his specialization within the federal government allowed him

485
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,400
Speaker 1: to be an. Arbitrator this wasn't her area of, expertise

486
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: so she didn't think much of. It she offered to

487
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: use her accounting skills to help get the business set.

488
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 2: UP i helped him draw out like a policy and

489
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 2: how to get paid and all that.

490
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: Stuff Then lorenzo started taking on.

491
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:12,719
Speaker 2: Clients his first case was a family here in Southern.

492
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 2: California it was a child custody. Case the mom was

493
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 2: not attentive to the child and the dad really wanted,

494
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 2: custody but they were not seeing eye to, eye so

495
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: he was going to see both sides and file.

496
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: Paperwork one, Day denisha was hanging out with some, friends

497
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: which she got a call From. Lorenzo right, away she

498
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: could tell something was off with. Him he seemed. Flustered

499
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,120
Speaker 1: he told, HER i.

500
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: Have to tell you what happened. Today please don't be.

501
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: Mad AND i was, like. Okay what.

502
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: Happened there had been an explosive dispute and the child

503
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,199
Speaker 1: custody case he'd been working.

504
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 2: On the mom was supposed to drop the baby back

505
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: off at dad's house and never did So lorenzo went

506
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 2: with dad to go and look for the. Child he.

507
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 2: Said they found mom and, child And lorenzo got out

508
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,239
Speaker 2: to get the, child and the mom fought him and

509
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 2: he held her. Back authorities were called and the mom

510
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 2: went to the. Hospital when the police.

511
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: Came they Arrested lorenzo and his, client the child's.

512
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 2: Father So lorenzo and the father went to, jail but

513
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 2: he had failed himself.

514
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: Out he was calling her after posting. Bail denisha was

515
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: stunned and.

516
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 2: Furious this was a client of, yours your first. Case

517
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 2: why were you on the street looking for people and

518
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,919
Speaker 2: grabbing kids out of people's, Arms, like why would you do?

519
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: That lorenzo didn't have much to say in his own.

520
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: Defense he, SAID i just got, passionate you, know it

521
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 2: was a. Mess he brushed off.

522
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: The altercation as merely a one. Off he did have

523
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: one major, worry.

524
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 2: Though he said he was concerned because he did not

525
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 2: reveal his arrest to his superior at, work and because

526
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 2: he works FOR, sech a high profiled government. Job that

527
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 2: could be a whole. Thing SO i was, like so

528
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 2: then tell them.

529
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: To denisha reporting it seemed like the obvious thing to,

530
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 1: do But lorenzo told her it wasn't that. EASY a

531
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: little while after, That denisha was home alone with her,

532
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: baby but she heard a commotion outside her front.

533
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: Door they are knocking at my neighbors right across from,

534
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: me really, loud aggressive knock AND i hear whoever is

535
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 2: asking For.

536
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: Larry the neighbors didn't. Answer denisha heard footsteps walking, away.

537
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 2: And suddenly the knock is on my. DOOR i opened the.

538
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 2: Door these two men in street clothes are claiming to

539
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 2: be THE Us marshals and they're looking For. LARRY i,

540
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 2: EXPLAIN i don't know A, larry and they, said, well

541
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 2: he goes By.

542
00:29:54,000 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: Lorenzo tanisha And lorenzo were making things, work raising their

543
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: one year old daughter. Together lorenzo's work as an agent

544
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: WITH dcis meant he was often away from. Home one,

545
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: Day danisha was at home with their baby when she

546
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: heard a knock at the. Door when she opened, it

547
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: TWO Us marshals were standing on her front.

548
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 2: Porch and they're looking For. Larry AND i, EXPLAINED i

549
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 2: don't know A.

550
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: Larry this didn't make. Sense surely the agents had the

551
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: details mixed up and were at the wrong.

552
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 2: House and they, explain, well he goes By. Lorenzo sometimes

553
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 2: my whole body is, HOT i feel like my stomach is.

554
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: Dropped then one of the marshals pulled out a photo

555
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: of the man they were looking, for.

556
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 2: And they showed me a picture and it's the first

557
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 2: THING i ever. Saw it's his dating profile. PICTURES i was, like,

558
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 2: yeah that is my. Fiance they repeat that they're from

559
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 2: THE Us marshals and he is. Wanted denisha's head was.

560
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: Spinning she needed more. Information what are you talking?

561
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 2: About what is this? About and they, said we can't

562
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 2: really tell you, much but he is wanted for a

563
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: weapons charge AND i, said, well that doesn't make. Sense

564
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,959
Speaker 2: he's an agent with our. Government he wears a badge

565
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: and a.

566
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: Gun THE Us marshals asked If lorenzo was. Home denisia

567
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: said he was, not but they told her they needed

568
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: to come in and search the house. Themselves her heart

569
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: was beating out of her.

570
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 2: Chest i've never been in, trouble not even a little.

571
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 2: BIT i mean a couple of detentions in junior, high

572
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: SO i don't know the law like. That SO i

573
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 2: allowed one of them to. LOOK i asked them to

574
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 2: be quiet because baby girl was.

575
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: Sleeping one of the marshals searched the house while the

576
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: other Asked denisia questions About. Lorenzo when they were certain

577
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: he wasn't hiding inside the, house they Gave denisiha their

578
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 1: contact information and. Left denisha felt like the ground beneath

579
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: her was shifting like she couldn't take a full.

580
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 2: Breath my mind is all over the, place totally, nervous

581
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 2: in a. FOG i was so scared THAT i did something.

582
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 2: WRONG i immediately Called, lorenzo.

583
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: But he already.

584
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 2: Knew he's, like, YEAH i saw it on the nanny.

585
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: Cam he had been watching THE Us marshall search their

586
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: home through the nanny cam he set up in their living.

587
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: Room it was as if he were waiting for this to.

588
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 2: Happen why what do you watch at that very? Moment

589
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: why now he knew he knew.

590
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 1: Something as, Always lorenzo was calm and had an.

591
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 2: Explanation don't, worry, babe it's just a. Misunderstanding it's BECAUSE

592
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 2: i didn't tell my boss about the.

593
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: Arrest To, denisha that explanation didn't seem to add. Up

594
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: THE Us marshall said he was wanted for a weapons.

595
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 1: Charge lorenzo's arrest had been months, ago and he never

596
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: made any mention of a. Weapon, plus as part of his,

597
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: job he was required to Carry none of this made.

598
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 2: SENSE i don't know why the government would be this

599
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 2: mad about a stupid. Arrest you got in a fight

600
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 2: like that's not a big.

601
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: Deal lorenzo assured her that he had everything under.

602
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 2: Control this is nothing and he will fix. It don't.

603
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 2: Worry i'm going to clean it.

604
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: Up, first there was a lieing about his, kids the

605
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: secrecy around his. Job then there was his, arrest and

606
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: now he was wanted BY Us.

607
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 2: MARSHALS i cannot have. THIS i have worked very hard

608
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 2: to have a life of peace and we have a.

609
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 2: Child NOW i cannot HAVE us marshals knocking on my

610
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 2: door asking me where you, Are, like this is. Ridiculous

611
00:33:58,720 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 2: what is?

612
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: Happening even Though lorenzo seemed calm on the, phone it

613
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: became clear To denisha that he was hiding something because

614
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: that day she waited for him to come, home but

615
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: he never, did not that day or the next, day

616
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: and he wasn't answering her. Calls that's when she realized.

617
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 2: He was essentially on the, run trying to avoid THE Us,

618
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 2: marshals try to avoid. ARREST i had no. INFORMATION i

619
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 2: didn't know where he. WAS i didn't know what was.

620
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 2: Happening nothing felt.

621
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: Normal lorenzo called her a few. Times he Telled denisha

622
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 1: he was, safe he was still sorting it all. Out

623
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: she kept urging him to just be honest and turn himself.

624
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 2: IN i don't understand why people are looking for you

625
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 2: and why it would be so hard for you to

626
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 2: just go ahead and tell your, boss get your, punishment

627
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 2: and get it over.

628
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: With as the days turned into, weeks she clung onto

629
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: the idea that he could fix it and come home

630
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 1: to their, daughter but his absence Meant denisha was suddenly

631
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 1: responsible for running the.

632
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 2: HOUSEHOLD i hadn't seen. Him he is not helping me

633
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:09,359
Speaker 2: take care of the. Baby he is not financially there.

634
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 2: Either i'm doing this all by.

635
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: Myself the Longer lorenzo was on the, run the More

636
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: denisia questioned the stories he'd been telling.

637
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 2: Her it was a balance of really, scared, angry and

638
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 2: missing him all at the same. TIME i was so

639
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 2: anxious and my neck. HURT i was so.

640
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 1: Tense lorenzo had been gone for nearly a. Month denisha

641
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: was in.

642
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 2: DENIAL i have a baby with, him AND i love

643
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 2: him so. MUCH i didn't need. PERFECTION i just wanted

644
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,720
Speaker 2: my family. Together even if it's fake, peace it's peace

645
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 2: THAT i could pretend like nothing else is.

646
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 1: Wrong when she didn't hear from, him she started checking

647
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: online googling his name to see if there was any.

648
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: News that's how she saw the.

649
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 2: Picture they actually posted On. Twitter it's just so weird to,

650
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: me BUT i see my big strong man with.

651
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 1: Handcuffs lorenzo had been.

652
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 2: Arrested they found, him THE Us marshalls found. HIM i

653
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 2: don't know where they found. HIM i always try to

654
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 2: look at the. Background it looks like a, house maybe

655
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 2: a parking. Garage but, yeah they got.

656
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 1: Him But denisia still didn't know what Exactly lorenzo had.

657
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 2: Done all of those arrests are public, records SO i

658
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 2: was able to look everything. Up and his charges were child,

659
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 2: endangerment false, imprisonment, conspiracy, violence impersonating a peace. Officer all

660
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 2: of them are, horrible but the one that really stood

661
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: out to me was impersonating a peace.

662
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 1: Officer peace officer is a blanket term to describe law enforcement.

663
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: Officers it includes the, police, sheriffs and special. Agents seeing

664
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: that charge was the first Time denisha Realized lorenzo wasn't

665
00:36:59,040 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: who he said he.

666
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 2: Was he was not an agent with the. Government all

667
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 2: of that's made. Up and because he's not an agent

668
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 2: with the, government he's in, big big trouble because he's

669
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: pretending that made more sense to me than just the stupid.

670
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: Fight there were no further details in the arrest. Record

671
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: what did they mean by child endangerment and false? Imprisonment

672
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: in the, moment all she knew for sure was that

673
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: he'd been lying to, her and seeing his, charges she

674
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: knew that his lies were serious.

675
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 2: Criminal, EMOTIONALLY i was a. MESS i was embarrassed and.

676
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 1: Shocked she struggled to accept that this was really. Happening

677
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 1: worst of all was accepting that the future they'd been

678
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: planning together was.

679
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 2: Gone and this is after these fantasy conversations THAT i

680
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,720
Speaker 2: would have with him getting married and buying a house

681
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 2: and like really living our lives out as a power.

682
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: Couple all that went out the.

683
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 1: Window she was left to raise their daughter on her

684
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 1: own While lorenzo sat in.

685
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 2: Jail i'm still going through with those partum and Then

686
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: i'm working full, time trying to keep up with the

687
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:12,439
Speaker 2: bills and life and. Cleaning it's all on. Me it's

688
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 2: all on. Me so because he's in, Prison i'm only

689
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: able to talk to him and he calls.

690
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: Me the first time they talked on the, Phone lorenzo

691
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 1: didn't have any. Answers he's stuck by his story that

692
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 1: he was a federal agent and his arrest was all

693
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: a big. Misunderstanding his perspective of the story of how

694
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: he got arrested in the first place does not add.

695
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 2: Up so what is happening is? ALL i kept, thinking,

696
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 2: like what is? Happening AM i ignoring?

697
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 1: Something then one Day denisha got a phone call while

698
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 1: she was at. Work she recognized the caller id it

699
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 1: Was lorenzo's, ex the woman who'd called On.

700
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 2: THANKSGIVING i answer and she comes in. Hot she comes

701
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 2: in like who is this and she sounds like she's ready.

702
00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 2: FIGHT i, Say I'm lorenzo's. Fiance I'm lorenzo's.

703
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: Fiance but the truth Was denisha needed her. Help maybe

704
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: this woman had the answers she.

705
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 2: Didn't she asked, her can you tell me what's going?

706
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 2: On tell me your. Perspective she tells me he was never.

707
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 2: Working every time he was not at my, house he

708
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 2: was at her. House that he is sleeping around AND

709
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 2: i need to get. Tested it's really.

710
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: Serious it turned out they weren't the only two. Women

711
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 1: lorenzo had been in multiple relationships at the same, time

712
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: and he made all of the women he was with

713
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 1: believe they were the only. One but that wasn't even

714
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,919
Speaker 1: the worst of. It the woman on the phone said

715
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 1: That lorenzo had gotten another woman pregnant around this same

716
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: time That denisia had been pregnant with their. Daughter and

717
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: this other woman apparently lived In denisha's, neighborhood.

718
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 2: And she said she lived just next door and has

719
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 2: a baby around the same age as my.

720
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: Baby and this was on top of the three secret

721
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: children he had before he Met. Denisia she recognized the

722
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 1: pain in this woman's, voice and she believed Her lorenzo

723
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: had deceived them. Both later that same, Day lorenzo Called

724
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: denisia from. Prison she answered on the first, ring.

725
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 2: AND i let them have it for the first time

726
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: since all of this has been going. On you're. TRASH

727
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 2: i don't trust anything you're. Saying i'm going to get full.

728
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 2: CUSTODY i don't want to ever see you. Again we're

729
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 2: not getting over. This we're. Done AND i don't say

730
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 2: things UNLESS i meet them AND i meant.

731
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 1: Them she hung up the.

732
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 2: PHONE i was sad That i'm losing WHAT i really,

733
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 2: wanted but Also i'm in a space WHERE i cannot

734
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 2: continue to pretend like everything's. Okay this is not, okay

735
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 2: it's not.

736
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 1: Normal the man she loved felt more like a.

737
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,919
Speaker 2: Phantom, now what CAN i say is even? Real did

738
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 2: he love? Me why? Me why did you choose?

739
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: Me denisha kept in touch With lorenzo's. Mom one, day

740
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 1: when they were out to, lunch his mom said something

741
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: that exposed yet another.

742
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 2: LIE i asked his mom How Puerto rico was and

743
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 2: she says that she's never been. There not only were

744
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: they not, there but he was not born In Puerto,

745
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 2: Rico so that was a. Lie he was born In

746
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: La he was Named.

747
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: Larry Before lorenzo's, arrest she'd seen a copy of his

748
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: birth certificate.

749
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 2: Which showed me that he was born In Puerto rico

750
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 2: and his name Was. LORENZO i saw the birth, certificate

751
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 2: it Said Puerto.

752
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: Rico but that document must have been.

753
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 2: Forged so who doctored this? Document that's so weird and

754
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 2: why lie about?

755
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:54,399
Speaker 1: That hearing this reveal Threw denisha. Off she was too

756
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: flustered to ask his mom any follow up questions in the,

757
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: moment but, later when she was, alone she realized she

758
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: needed more. Answers she didn't even know Who lorenzo, was

759
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: and she wanted to find.

760
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 2: Out NOW i Know larry is officially who he is

761
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 2: and born In LA i was able to get deeper

762
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 2: and look for more.

763
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: Receipts she scoured The internet for everything she could find

764
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 1: About lorenzo Aka. Larry her search for the truth took.

765
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: Years we want to walk you Through lorenzo's criminal, past

766
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: combining What denisha and our team has found. Out his

767
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: given name at birth Was Larry Cornell Diamond. Junior in,

768
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: total he had six arrests and. Convictions we're going to

769
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: detail a few of. Them it all started in two

770
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: thousand In Los. Angeles larry was twenty two at the.

771
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 1: Time he and his Friend Robert hun showed up unannounced

772
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: at a woman's. Apartment they knocked on her door and

773
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: told her that they WERE fbi. Agents they said that

774
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: they needed to search her. Home they were armed and

775
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: she let them. In but they WEREN'T fbi. Agents they

776
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 1: were bounty. Hunters The Los Angeles times reported on the.

777
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,760
Speaker 1: Crime here's part of that reporting read by a voice.

778
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 3: Actor huon And diamond proclaimed to be affiliated with a

779
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 3: non existent branch of THE. Fbi heon And diamond created

780
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 3: a fake search warrant and claimed they WERE fbi agents

781
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 3: when they made their way through a woman's sam pager

782
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 3: apartment searching for stolen. Computers both men were wearing holstered

783
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 3: semi automatic guns and silver badges that they claimed WERE fbi.

784
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: Badges that was the start of a, pattern an almost

785
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: pathological scheme of impersonating authority LIKE, FBI, cia or police

786
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 1: as means of. Extortion after he was, Released larry went

787
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: right back to. It in two thousand and, three he

788
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: walked into a hardware store where he intended to carry

789
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 1: out his next. Crime The District attorney's office In Central

790
00:43:56,040 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: california released a statement explaining what happened that. Day he'd

791
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: had a voice actor read part of.

792
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 4: It diamond went to the hardware company dressed like a

793
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 4: law enforcement. Officer he was wearing all, black displaying a,

794
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 4: badge and claimed that he was AN fbi agent with

795
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 4: The American. Consulate he then threatened to arrest the owner

796
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 4: unless the owner paid ten thousand dollars directly To.

797
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 1: Diamond for that, offense he served a four year prison.

798
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: Sentence this was so much darker Than denisia. Imagined lorenzo

799
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: wasn't just lying about his. Identity he was threatening and

800
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: exploiting innocent. People he would show up armed and in,

801
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 1: disguise then demand money or. Valuables he abused authority he

802
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: didn't even, have and he did that over and over

803
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: again for his entire adult. Life lorenzo wasn't just unfaithful or.

804
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: Delusional he was. Dangerous In september of twenty, sixteen he

805
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: legally changed his name To Lorenzo Sanchez. Diamond the very next,

806
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: week he was arrested, again this time for possession of a.

807
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 1: Firearm denisha poured over all of these.

808
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 2: Documents i'm reading the whole, thing and they catch him

809
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 2: at The denny's in his military gear with guns in his,

810
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 2: trunk and he gets.

811
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 1: Arrested none of his arrests or prison sentences deterred. Him

812
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,800
Speaker 1: each time he was, released he picked up where he

813
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: left off and continued his impersonation Con even After denisha

814
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 1: ended things With lorenzo and he was imprisoned for the

815
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: sixth time in twenty twenty, three he would insist that

816
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: he was always a federal. Agent at least that's what

817
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:46,479
Speaker 1: he Told, denisha but he asked her not to come

818
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 1: to his sentencing. Hearing there he pled guilty to all

819
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: the counts he was. Facing he was sentenced to another

820
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: eighteen months in. Prison denisha thought that would be the

821
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 1: end of the, story but While lorenzo was behind, bars

822
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: she got a strange.

823
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 2: EMAIL i got a mysterious email from A Bubba. Walker

824
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 2: never heard of this. Person they introduced themselves as A cia,

825
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 2: agent and then there's A mp three voicemail in. It

826
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 2: it was a computerized female. Voice the sender.

827
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 1: Claimed to be an employee at THE, cia Singing lorenzo's

828
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 1: praises for his invaluable efforts in the Global war on.

829
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: Terrorism they Said lorenzo was a good man with more

830
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: intelligence than.

831
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: Most the recording just was Like Lorenzo sanchez is a

832
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 2: great person and he's a great stand up, citizen and

833
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 2: THAT i should trust, it and also said not to

834
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 2: tell anybody about this message and to destroy the. Message

835
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 2: AFTER i got, IT i told. Everybody my sister was, like,

836
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:54,959
Speaker 2: WELL i can say a lot of bad things about

837
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 2: this man by people go through the ends of the

838
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 2: earth to fake A cia call to get to believe his,

839
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 2: Bullshit like this is so, stupid it was.

840
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:10,919
Speaker 1: Laughable she no longer believed Anything lorenzo. Said after nine

841
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: months behind, Bars lorenzo was released on good. Behavior even

842
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 1: though things were over between, them she Let lorenzo FaceTime

843
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:23,959
Speaker 1: their daughter. Occasionally on one of those, Calls lorenzo said

844
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 1: he had some grave.

845
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 2: News that's when he revealed he had. CANCER i thought

846
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 2: it was another, tactic another, lie maybe to get my

847
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 2: walls down, again to see if he can get back

848
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 2: into my good. Graces so she told, him you're not

849
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 2: invited in my home or my heart. Anymore if you're,

850
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 2: SICK i help you still better.

851
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,879
Speaker 1: Soon but the next time they had a video, Call

852
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 1: denisha noticed that the room he was calling from was.

853
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 1: Different he was in the, hospital and he Looked. Gaune

854
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: he'd lied about so, much but this time he was

855
00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: telling the.

856
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 2: Truth he has stage four colon. Cancer he's very.

857
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: Sick lorenzo's health only declined from. There he went into.

858
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 1: Hospice denisha decided to visit him and say.

859
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 2: Goodbye he looks really. Frail you could push him over

860
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 2: with just the.

861
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 1: Breath seeing him at the end of his life brought up,

862
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: overwhelming conflicting.

863
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:23,720
Speaker 2: Emotions before all the things that went, wrong he showed

864
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 2: me love like no one else had showed me before.

865
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 2: THIS i felt, RESPECTED i felt loved and desired having

866
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 2: him destroy my, life and now he was. Dying she

867
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 2: walked over to his. BEDSIDE i was so. Sad it

868
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 2: was so sad to. SEE i never wished this for.

869
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 2: ANYONE i held his hand and told HIM i forgave,

870
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 2: him and THAT i got, this AND i will take

871
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 2: care of our, daughter and you can let. Go she

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00:48:58,000 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 2: left his.

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00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:04,800
Speaker 1: Room in forty eight, Hours lorenzo passed. Away denisia reached

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00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: out to us a few months. Later she's still processing the.

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00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 2: Loss it's unending, grief grieving the life THAT i THOUGHT i,

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00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:17,919
Speaker 2: had the, husband the, baby the, house all of those,

877
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 2: things had it for so, little such a little. Time

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00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 2: i'm grieving that all the. Time i'm grieving the single

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00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 2: motherhood of it, all AND i a grieve for my.

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00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: Baby that grief is muddied by.

881
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:38,720
Speaker 2: Confusion it's really hard to determine who this person.

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00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: Was lorenzo's obituary describes him as a, doctor, author, poet

883
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 1: and rapper who loved macaroni and cheese and Watching. Jeopardy

884
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: His LinkedIn profile describes him as a legal expert and

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00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: human rights. Consultant lorenzo tried on so many disguises so

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00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:04,720
Speaker 1: many prestigious, career, doctor, lawyer federal. Agent denisia knows now

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00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: he wasn't any of those. Things she's left wondering if

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00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 1: anything he ever told her was.

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00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 2: REAL i still am not one hundred percent sure what

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00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 2: the truth.

891
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: Is denisia has had to make peace with the confusion

892
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:23,840
Speaker 1: and Grief lorenzo left. Behind she hasn't been in contact

893
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:27,839
Speaker 1: with the other Women lorenzo deceived for her reaching out

894
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 1: with reopen. Wounds she is trying to.

895
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,439
Speaker 2: Heal my focus is on my baby and doing my job.

896
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 1: Well she has built an impressive.

897
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 2: Career i'm making six figures at a nonprofit as the accounting.

898
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 2: Manager i'm so proud of me to be in this.

899
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 2: ROLE i worked hard to get.

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00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 1: Here she's created a safe and loving home where her

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00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: daughter gets to express herself. Authentically baby girl is.

902
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 2: Thriving she loves school and it's already time to enroll

903
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 2: her in regular elementary. School and that's, emotional and she loves,

904
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 2: dancing loves.

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00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: Ballet these, Days denisius used her own strength.

906
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 2: Clearly i'm resilient BECAUSE i struggle with depression, anxiety but

907
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 2: this did not strike. ME i am still Going i'm

908
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 2: still standing strong And i'm going to be.

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00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 1: Fine we end every weekly episode with the same, question

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00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: why do you want to share your?

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00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 2: STORY i cycle through grief on a daily. BASIS i

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00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 2: feel very lonely having experienced this and not having a

913
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,919
Speaker 2: lot of people that understand Where i'm, at that wore

914
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 2: these same shoes and had the same. Thoughts SO i

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00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 2: really wanted to find my, people tell other people they're not,

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00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 2: alone and to just know that somebody knows What i'm going.

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Speaker 1: Through on the next episode of The Tray, Weekly.

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Speaker 5: You've got to arrest him BECAUSE i don't know where

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00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 5: this is going to. End he's a, liar he's a,

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00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 5: manipulator and he's an, abuser AND i don't think he'll

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00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 5: stop unless he's made to.

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00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:23,360
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