Speaker 1: Stop everything.
Speaker 2: What you're about to hear is the most important thing
Speaker 2: that you need to hear before Valentine's Day. Okay, the
Speaker 2: Jewel Show, So listen very very closely.
Speaker 1: Really excuse you. Sorry, I couldn't help it. That's not
Speaker 1: what I was going to say.
Speaker 2: What I was going to say is relationship experts have
Speaker 2: released the top ways to scare someone off in a
Speaker 2: new relationship. So what should you not do just in
Speaker 2: time for Valentine's Day? If you don't want to scare
Speaker 2: your Valentine off? Have so many ideas, what's your first idea?
Speaker 2: You know, what are we when you're eating married?
Speaker 1: WHOA, I love you? What we'll go over?
Speaker 2: A relationship experts day right now? Posting too many photos
Speaker 2: of you two on social media too early, that's definitely
Speaker 2: definitely definitely, but I think at all would kind of
Speaker 2: bug me exactly if you're like just started hanging out
Speaker 2: with somebody. That's I've had that happen to me before,
Speaker 2: when I've just started hanging out with someone and then
Speaker 2: all of a sudden they're posting photos of us together,
Speaker 2: like as if we are together.
Speaker 3: I think they would me ten years in I like
Speaker 3: to be claimed, but at the very least. I think
Speaker 3: it would be cool if it was like pictures of
Speaker 3: stuff that we did together, like even if I'm not
Speaker 3: in the photo, you're not in the photo, but maybe
Speaker 3: it's like a dinner that we had together, or then
Speaker 3: that tells me that you're excited about the time we're
Speaker 3: setting up better.
Speaker 1: I like that.
Speaker 2: Yep, okay, because it's also too if somebody's just gotten
Speaker 2: out a relationship and they're doing that, it's like, are
Speaker 2: you just doing this to them because this is about
Speaker 2: you liking me or you wanting to get even with them.
Speaker 1: And be like, look, I'm fine.
Speaker 3: I'm so happy to say a lot of people are
Speaker 3: doing that.
Speaker 1: Far.
Speaker 2: What are the top things that you shouldn't do if
Speaker 2: you don't want to scare your valentine off? According to
Speaker 2: relationship experts, referring to their pet as our pet, what
Speaker 2: when talking to other people?
Speaker 1: That's weird, that's their pets. This is at the beginning
Speaker 1: of a relationship, or just.
Speaker 2: Like ever, this is at the beginning of a relationship,
Speaker 2: it says, but really that's odd.
Speaker 1: It's very odd.
Speaker 2: Even if I were with someone and they had a
Speaker 2: dog when I met them, and then we got married,
Speaker 2: I would still consider that their dog, like we didn't
Speaker 2: get that together.
Speaker 1: It's ours, I.
Speaker 2: Guess, I mean it's ours, but also I might not
Speaker 2: have gotten the dog and unless I.
Speaker 1: Got her right, So listen, there was one care of it.
Speaker 1: Why do you want to claim it anyway? Ten years
Speaker 1: and you'd be like.
Speaker 4: Your dog's doing bads dogs, you know what I mean,
Speaker 4: Like you don't want to put down on yourself.
Speaker 1: Well, that's the best part.
Speaker 3: It can be their dog when you want it to be,
Speaker 3: or yours when it's convenient.
Speaker 1: Obviously, if whoever you're with has a.
Speaker 3: Dog, you live with them whatever. You know, you're walking
Speaker 3: the dog, you know, you're taking it like doing all that.
Speaker 4: I'm not.
Speaker 1: It's not my dog. If you wake up, it's always
Speaker 1: their dog, their dog. Yeah yeah, but that's good because
Speaker 1: you don't want those memories.
Speaker 2: Imagine you just start dating somebody and you have a pet,
Speaker 2: and then you go out to meet your friends for
Speaker 2: the first time. They're like, yeah, our dog is so crazy,
Speaker 2: but I will be very weird. It would be very disturbing.
Speaker 1: I told you I had Oh my gosh, it was
Speaker 1: a cat.
Speaker 3: Though.
Speaker 2: The top ways to scare off your Valentine Day as
Speaker 2: according to Valentine As according to relationship experts, They say,
Speaker 2: these are the things you should not do early on
Speaker 2: in a relationship if you want to keep the person around.
Speaker 2: Asking someone to leave a toothbrush at their place but
Speaker 2: you are just hooking up.
Speaker 1: Don't ask you just do know?
Speaker 4: Somebody asked me that one time.
Speaker 1: And I never spoke to them again. Really, to keep
Speaker 1: a toothbrush at their place? What if they didn't ask
Speaker 1: and it just was left, would it matter? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: would throw it away and never speak to them again.
Speaker 1: If you're just hooking up, absolutely not.
Speaker 3: You don't want them to have fresh breath at your home, exactly.
Speaker 1: If we're just hooking up, I don't.
Speaker 2: I want them to meet me somewhere and then we'll
Speaker 2: be over there, or they can just come there. But
Speaker 2: I don't want them having to worry about brushing their teeth,
Speaker 2: like I want to leave before they have morning breath.
Speaker 1: You don't want a little good morning.
Speaker 5: Hell.
Speaker 4: In fact, bring your own pillow because I'm not washing
Speaker 4: mine extra.
Speaker 1: I don't know you all.
Speaker 5: I have scabies, I don't wear of a mat, so
Speaker 5: it just doesn't sound right. Fashion breath is always welcome,
Speaker 5: I will say, if you're in a relationship with someone,
Speaker 5: or you're just starting to get in a relationship and
Speaker 5: it's like a few months in and then you get
Speaker 5: them a toothbrush, that's a good move, that's probably a
Speaker 5: solid move.
Speaker 1: But when you're just hooking up with.
Speaker 3: Someone, no brush, I feel like you also need to
Speaker 3: be asked, like, don't just do like ask because I
Speaker 3: feel like that's just more polite. Well, I used to
Speaker 3: keep extra toothbrushes at my house wait, just in case,
Speaker 3: whether it was my friend or somebody who stayed. I
Speaker 3: just think it's important to brush your teeth before you
Speaker 3: go to sleep, no matter what different story.
Speaker 1: That makes sense.
Speaker 4: Also, some people keep a toothbrush on them at all times.
Speaker 4: That's that's a whole different thing. If you're if you're like, hey,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna I want to leave toothbrush at your place,
Speaker 4: the answer is no.
Speaker 1: You just do it. We're marry, but I don't want
Speaker 1: it here.
Speaker 2: Who gets to the number one thing that relationship experts
Speaker 2: saying you should not do early on in a relationship
Speaker 2: if you don't want to scare the person off. But
Speaker 2: another one is getting upset if they don't respond to
Speaker 2: your texts right away.
Speaker 1: Oh that would annoy me that it's annoying you.
Speaker 3: Well, just don't tell them you're upset. I understand why.
Speaker 3: But you just don't tell them that you're upset. You
Speaker 3: understand why, Yeah, Because it's like if you have an
Speaker 3: anxious attachment, you're a little insecure, you're trying to get
Speaker 3: comfortable in the new situation. You get a little panicky
Speaker 3: if you don't get a text back in a few hours. Right,
Speaker 3: I'm busy, But you don't tell them about it, because
Speaker 3: that's not that's a flack, that's okay, it.
Speaker 1: Is Yeah, you kind of deal with it yourself and
Speaker 1: go okay, exactly.
Speaker 2: Everything seems to be falling down around me right now
Speaker 2: because they haven't texted me back, but I know that
Speaker 2: they're busy at work, and they said that they don't
Speaker 2: really text at work. We're gonna sit here and start
Speaker 2: the wall for a while. I'm not saying anything to them,
Speaker 2: and then over time, if it has happened that they
Speaker 2: text you back after work, and then you go okay, cool,
Speaker 2: yeah exactly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's fine. I talked to you about it
Speaker 1: a lot.
Speaker 2: What is the number one thing that relationship experts you
Speaker 2: should not do early on in a relationship. If you
Speaker 2: don't want to scare the person off talking about baby names.
Speaker 1: Why would you bring that up? Okay, I don't I
Speaker 1: agree with this. I have no defense. I can't wait
Speaker 1: till we're raising little Percocet. Isn't that