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Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Man, Oh man, almost forgot I had

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Speaker 1: one this morning. But I'm okay. I'll tell you who

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Speaker 1: I am in a little bit. You know, I get around. Man,

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Speaker 1: it's so much. But man, good morning everybody. You know

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Speaker 1: today I was having a conversation with my wife last

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Speaker 1: night and we were talking about our plans. You know,

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Speaker 1: we often sit down, you know, just like a married couple.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you know we're married. You know,

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Speaker 1: I mean know, we have things we want. You know,

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Speaker 1: when you're married, you know, I mean it's important to

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Speaker 1: sit with your partner. I'm not telling you anything you

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Speaker 1: don't know, it's common sense. Really, It's important to sit

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Speaker 1: that all of our conversations aren't always just business related

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Speaker 1: much on the marriage that because that that's the grunt

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Speaker 1: know though, what's due, what's coming up, and if you're

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Speaker 1: not careful, you'll you'll start that becomes the focal point

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Speaker 1: person that you've decided to have this life with, all

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Speaker 1: it just gets so anywhere. I'm just saying that that

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Speaker 1: is important to sit down and have these conversations, but

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Speaker 1: You know, It's it's important with the person that you're

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Speaker 1: about other things, you know, on a more upbeat note.

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Speaker 1: You know, we were having a conversation that she was

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Speaker 1: But we constantly had these conversations about appreciation. You know,

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Speaker 1: So these things are important. But we got into the

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Speaker 1: the Bible reminds us not to be anxious for anything.

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Speaker 1: Don't be anxious for something. And you know, it really

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Speaker 1: to a point where. You know, you've heard old people

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Speaker 1: God has never been too late. You don't know the

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Speaker 1: turn around process for many of us. Some of us

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Speaker 1: tremendous amount of abundance for you. He has an amazing

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Speaker 1: many times have you thought it was over and it

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Speaker 1: but then something better came along? How many times has

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Speaker 1: that happened? You've got to realize this, man. I was

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Speaker 1: They totally totally blew me away. Man. The brother said, man,

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Speaker 1: he said, Man, it all got washed away. We thought

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Speaker 1: rediscovering my wife, how beautiful she really is, how much

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Speaker 1: it's straightened me up. Man, he says, so I gotta

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Speaker 1: tell you, Steve, it was the best thing that ever

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Speaker 1: it's how you look at a situation. But just don't

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Speaker 1: be anxious for anything, because God got a fix for

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Speaker 1: you if you just let him work. So just stay

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Speaker 1: He got some great stuff in store for you. You're listening,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. It is here that Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show us upon us energy, attitude, gratitude, latitude, outitude. It's

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Speaker 1: all positive right now. You've got to wake up and

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Speaker 1: understand that. Man, When you wake up, it's a sure

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Speaker 1: I am living my life in expectation of what could

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Speaker 1: that be? Now? Lord, who what else you got? Man?

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Speaker 1: Even if it comes wrapped up in a package of pain,

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Speaker 1: I am. I'm ready to go. This is Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Marny Show. That right there is a blessing. You know

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Speaker 1: sharing Strawberry calling for real Mouth of the South, Junior, Nephew, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: whatever God may be from my unconquerable soul. Boy, what man,

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Speaker 1: and farrently, Yes, sir, yes, sir yes, saw the cues

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Speaker 1: and the nuts is preaching this moment because we have

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Speaker 1: both been in the fair clutch of circumstances. All right,

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Speaker 1: coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour of

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Speaker 1: the nephew and run that prank back right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show, all right, it is time now

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Speaker 1: for the nephew to run that prank back. What you

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Speaker 1: got for us now, this is no half weed, all

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Speaker 1: naturalality day. When you come up in this office, I

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Speaker 1: No hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Resa, please reesa.

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Speaker 1: Hi Resa. My name is Byron, Byron from the job.

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm okay, how are you buying? I'm good. Listen.

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Speaker 1: I hate to call you after hours at your home.

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Speaker 1: But there has been some new issues that will be

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Speaker 1: going into effect. That was just tomorrow morning, and we're

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Speaker 1: calling everyone letting them know the new changes that have

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Speaker 1: So we're giving everyone a call. So don't be alarmed.

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Speaker 1: It's just giving you a call letting you know what

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Speaker 1: the what the higher ups have changed. Okay, okay, there's

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Speaker 1: no problem. Minutes to listen. Okay, that's up tomorrow. What's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen is when you guys come in, you'll be

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Speaker 1: the Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Here we go, Missy

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Speaker 1: it's in our hand you know. It's our handbook. Is

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Speaker 1: ride or die all the way out ride the lie,

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Speaker 1: Ride or die all the way out with the lie

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00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: is the motto. And so y'all obviously doesn't have that

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00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: type of relationship. And yeah, she's angry, but you know

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Speaker 1: you don't. I also say you are not beholding to

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00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 1: bad behavior. You don't have to condone it or be

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Speaker 1: a part of it. Sometimes when you make your bed,

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00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: you have to lay in it. Don't ask see you can't.

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00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: You can't mess up your sheets and stuff in expect

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Speaker 1: me to come over every day and put that fitted

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00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 1: sheet back on there and make your bed. You gotta

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00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,360
Speaker 1: do that yourself. You do not have to condone bad behavior.

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00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: Nobody does. Nobody does. Example, if a friend of mine

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Speaker 1: rob a bank and the police come to my house

436
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: looking for the guy who robbed a bank, first worried

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Speaker 1: out my mouth is he upstairs in the attic behind

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Speaker 1: the water heating. First first, well, I would be an

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Speaker 1: accessful if I didn't tell you, right. But once the

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Speaker 1: FBI come in that dope, they ain't coming in that dough. Yeah,

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00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: hoping here and that they got some information. So first

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Speaker 1: words out of my mouth is he's upstairs in the

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Speaker 1: attic behind the water Call it what you want to

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00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: call it, but I'm not fitting to get the aiding

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00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: and a bedding, uh conspiracy you knowed yeah, yeah, harbord

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Speaker 1: And now all that sounds like time. You know, I've

447
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: been at working a bought your ass. This bag of

448
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: money that you that clearly ain't your all the blue

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00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 1: week all over your face is so well, I'm not

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Speaker 1: fit to be a part of this year. Yes, I

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Speaker 1: here you all right? Thank you Cello. Coming up at

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Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news

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Speaker 1: for you. Right after this. You're listening to the Stave

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. A deceased rapper's body was propped up

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00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: in DCA's Bliss Nightclub for a public viewing on Sunday.

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00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: It was very reminiscent of a weekend at Bernie's. We

457
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: all remember that movie, but it was in a nightclub setting.

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Speaker 1: Trending videos showed the body of twenty four year old

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Speaker 1: murdered rapper Gunu, whose real name is MARKL. Morrow, appearing

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Speaker 1: to be standing upright on a stage for a public

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Speaker 1: viewing and memorial service. The body was decked out in

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00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: a designer hoodie, it blinged out rolex and a goal

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00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: crown was on his head. Gnu was murdered by an

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Speaker 1: unknown assailant in District Heights, Maryland, on March eighteenth, and

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Speaker 1: the memorial service was named the last Show. There was

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Speaker 1: a forty dollars cover charge to get in. Bliss's nightclubs

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Speaker 1: management issued a statement containing an apology and some background

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Speaker 1: information event. They said, our deepest condolences to Guno's fancy

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Speaker 1: friends and his fans. Contacted by a local funeral home

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Speaker 1: to rent out our venue or Guno's homecoming celebration. Bliss

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Speaker 1: was never made aware of what would transpire. We sincerely

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Speaker 1: apologize to all those who may be upset or offended.

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Speaker 1: Please keep Guno's family and friends in your prayers at

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Speaker 1: this difficult time. Respectfully, Bliss DC, well he said most stuff. Respectfully,

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Speaker 1: keep me in prayers. Then I saw online. I just

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Speaker 1: found it unbelievable. I just was truly unbelievable. Ye, it

477
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: was disturbing, really was. You know, do you know what

478
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: you got to do? The proper body up like that

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00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: straight up? Yeah? You know what I mean to steal rode?

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Speaker 1: You got to put in this back to this house man. Look,

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Speaker 1: first of all, where is this boy's mama and daddy?

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Speaker 1: But I really want to know where his grandmama at

483
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: because I promise you she wouldn't boy nobody grandmama. You know,

484
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: she got a little nickname for him. Who's gonna put

485
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: Google wear? But you're not fitting up? I just can't

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Speaker 1: see it. And then you know, I was looking at

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Speaker 1: the video. I'm gonna let y'all talk, But I was

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Speaker 1: looking at the video and I saw some people dancing.

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Speaker 1: But then I saw the looks on a couple of

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00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: them dudes faces that was in hoodies. They looked this

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00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: strap like damn man, like he got my dude, he dad. Yeah,

492
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: something about this just isn't right. I'm sure. Yeah, it

493
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: was very disturbing, very much. I loved doing stand up,

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00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 1: I love doing play, I love doing movies. When I

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Speaker 1: leave here, put me in that casket, gonna prop my

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Speaker 1: ass nowhere, and now one of them arenas I want

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Speaker 1: to be in the casket on the way. I Hey, man,

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Speaker 1: you know what was disturbing to me some of the comments.

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Speaker 1: If you are understood our history, this is how we

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Speaker 1: used to do it as Africans, So quit tripping. You're

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00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 1: a damn lie. You That boy wasn't propped up because

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00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: of what we used to do in Africa. You're no

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00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 1: good in hell where your dumb man say, read no

504
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: history book about no burials in all this here. Y'all

505
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: kill me with all that all that sudden information. The internet, man,

506
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 1: is a trap for fools. If you don't have your

507
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: head on right and you listen to the foolishness that

508
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: be on some of these comments. You've been going, wait

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00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: a minute, that's somebody think like that. But as soon

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00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: as somebody think like that, here comes some agreeing and

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00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: I just go, wow, that was really shocking to see

512
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 1: that boy propped up. Like when a guy first sent

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00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 1: it to me, I didn't know what it was. I

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00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 1: thought it was I just thought it was a concert. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it was. Yeah, you didn't really

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Speaker 1: know that he was dead. I mean it was, but

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Speaker 1: these shoes, the skinny jeans on his wrist, watch on

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Speaker 1: the crown on his head, but the phone it looked like, yeah,

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00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: it was just way way too So after this over,

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00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: they carried you the body back out of there and

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00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: then what we're gonna but all of this and I mean,

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00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: you know, and sad to say the young man passed

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00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: away because he was shot. Absolutely really that's another issue. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: the it's called rip for a reason. Rest in peace,

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00:33:51,680 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: peace Yeah that rest, lay down, yeah, rest, stretch out, rest.

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Speaker 1: That was too much for me. It was yeah, and

527
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: we Burnie the movie I was on at So the

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00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: club is saying they didn't know, so they didn't know

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Speaker 1: what was they were gonna he was they didn't they

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Speaker 1: be right right. They were contacted by a funeral home

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00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: and to use the facility. I got that I could

532
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: because you know, because of COVID. I will tell you

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00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: a lot of funerals are backed up. It's hard to

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00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: get places in church. And then this boy might not

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00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: have been a church going. Hey, really a lot of

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00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: churches available, you know, because they got a save it

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00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 1: for their memberships and all this here. That's how bad

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00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: it's been lately, because I know ministers who say, you know,

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00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 1: they backed up two three weeks on funerals. My god,

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00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 1: I've I've lost two friends of mine, two friend brothers

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00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: over the past three months, and both of them were

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00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: out of the ground for a considerable amount of time

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00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,439
Speaker 1: before they were able to be laid to rest properly. Yeah,

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00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 1: so I can understand them written out a club or something,

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00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: you know, forty dollars cover charge to get in. Yeah,

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00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 1: what was that? I don't know, playing music that wasn't

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00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: a church song? They were saying, what was the song

548
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 1: they was playing? All I didn't even have the volume up.

549
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: I just want to believe it. Yeah, I don't. I

550
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: don't know what the song was. No, y'all gonna lay

551
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: my ass down. I'm not gonna do anything like this. Yeah, yeah, exactly, Tommy,

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00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show. I'm gonna make a show man, I'm

553
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: gonna use I'm gonna get you, gonna get you right now,

554
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you in a thirteen saze thirteen shot box.

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00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go on that note. Coming up

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Speaker 1: At twenty minutes after the hour, court is in session

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00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 1: with Judge Steve Harvey. We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So

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Speaker 1: the big show happened last night, Carla. How about last

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00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: night's Judge Steve episode. It was on ABC and her

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00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: you noticed my show Judy. Okay, So the first case

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00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: was the friends. The guy was on the scooters and

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00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 1: his friend pushed him and he broke his leg and

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Speaker 1: sixteen it's sixteen pieces. But his lifelong dream was to

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00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 1: ride in an ambulance and his friend wouldn't call it.

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00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: It was on his bucket list and he told him

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Speaker 1: to go to the hospital in the uber. What But

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00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:42,720
Speaker 1: the guy worked, and the guy worked in medical billing

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00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 1: to his friend that he was suing. So basically, his

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00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 1: friend was like, you know, I'm help you out. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna get through this. So basically, because he worked in

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00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 1: medical billing, he didn't want him to have to pay

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Speaker 1: for all this. But so that's why he sued his

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00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: friend because he felt like he kind of pushed them.

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00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: The judge said he pushed them ushed right here because hey, man,

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00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: because I was looking at the way he was looking

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00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: at it, and I told, Hi, dog, you're lying, you know,

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00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 1: what I'm getting here with because that's what we do.

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00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 1: He crossed the street, he going real slow. He shoved

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Speaker 1: it now, he said, he said, he bumped up into him.

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00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 1: No dog, you pushed his ass to hell, you're talking

582
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,879
Speaker 1: about you bumped up into him? No good here where

583
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 1: you pushed his ass because he was going too slow

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00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: across the street. Yes, so this Paul man broke his

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00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: legs anyway, to judge rule that the friend had to

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00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: pay him half of his medical business because the friend

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00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: felt like he shouldn't have to pay. So that was

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00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: the judge. That's the way he saw it. Just pushed

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00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: your podcast, pushed it. Did you say it like that? No,

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00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:57,280
Speaker 1: he said him on his radio show. He did. Yeah. Okay.

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00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 1: So then in the second case, these two these two women,

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00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 1: they decided to have LiPo. So one friend loaned the

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00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: other friend some money to help her pay for all that.

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00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: So she didn't she took her time paying her back.

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00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,360
Speaker 1: So Steve broke that down. You remember that, Steve. The

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00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 1: surgical sisters rush that down. A lot of cases, a

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00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: lot of cases, all right. And then the final case

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00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: was the wife sued the husband because she could not cook.

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00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 1: Miss Shirley strawberry. Well, her husband felt like she was

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00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: not a good cooker, and so she was suing him

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00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: because he would go to his mama's house and eat. Yeah.

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00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: Fine with that. Yeah, she broke out and start doing yoga.

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00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: In the middle of her testimony, she did, Steve say,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing? She said, protecting hers in because

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Speaker 1: ye yes, or anyone and you want Judge Steve to

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00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 1: settle the matter, apply at Judge Steve Harvey Casting dot com. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's all you have to do, Judge Steve Harvey Casting

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Speaker 1: dot com and Steve will see you in courts. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well. Singer

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Speaker 1: and actress Selena Gomez says she has transformed her life

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Speaker 1: simply by spending years off the internet. The twenty nine

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Speaker 1: year old Selena was on Good Money at America earlier

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Speaker 1: this week and talked about her decision to stay offline.

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Speaker 1: Gomez said that her childhood stardom led her to the

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Speaker 1: decision to step away from scrolling through social media and

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Speaker 1: online surfing. Take a listen I haven't been on Aaron

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Speaker 1: Latin four and a half years. What does that do

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00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: to detox your life? It has changed my life completely.

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Speaker 1: I am happier, I am more present, I connect tomorrow

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Speaker 1: with people. It makes me feel normal. Wow. Uh. Selena

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Speaker 1: Gomez is one of the most followed stars on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: She has three hundred and nine million followers. She says

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Speaker 1: it ain't three million in America. Okay, well she has

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Speaker 1: to see how many she has over three hundred million. Yes,

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Speaker 1: she says she helps create the content for her fans,

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Speaker 1: but um, she does not post it herself. So here's

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Speaker 1: the question. Could you guys stay off social media for

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Speaker 1: four and a half years? You think, yeah, yeah, and

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00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 1: do you and do you miss it when you haven't

632
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,800
Speaker 1: been on for a day or two? No? No, no,

633
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 1: away from it, you know. And yeah, Monica and I

634
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: were talking about that on the phone the other day.

635
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: You just got is I can't operate it. So what

636
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: do you mean I can't. I can't tell you how

637
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 1: to get it up on that line. I can't. I can't.

638
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:06,919
Speaker 1: I gotta teach with people that do that. I don't

639
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: do none of that. I don't answer dms, none of that.

640
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know how to do none. Yeah,

641
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: I can't do anything. I think I'm looking forward to

642
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 1: the day when I don't participate in it at all,

643
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,439
Speaker 1: and I'm slowly coming to that. Like, can I say

644
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: something about these fashion posts? I was just can I say, well,

645
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:28,399
Speaker 1: mister fashions, you know, I don't really you know, Look,

646
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 1: every time I get dressed, my style is you know,

647
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: maids the stuff out and I put my stuff on

648
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: to wear. You know, I've been dressing for a long time.

649
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: I just started taking pictures. But I take the pictures

650
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 1: for him. Okay, you don't you know what I mean.

651
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 1: Times I've been getting dressed up without taking photos and

652
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: showing you what I wear. I've been doing that for years.

653
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: I do it for him, and it really does help

654
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: him where he's trying to go. He's starting to be recognized,

655
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 1: and so that that was standing there after I get dressed,

656
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 1: before I go out the door, taking the pictures for him.

657
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: We get in more fights about that because you don't

658
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,320
Speaker 1: want to do it all the time. Oh girl, I

659
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: can't tell you how many pictures we don't have. I'm

660
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:18,879
Speaker 1: telling you, man, because I don't like feeling that you know. Look,

661
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what we got in the big argument

662
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: in Abu Dhabi. I got dressed, you know, running late

663
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: for a meeting. I gotta go to this meeting. I

664
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: get dressed walking to the door. Mister Harvey, we need pictures,

665
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: I said, I ain't got time for this, man. I

666
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 1: got a meeting to go too. But mister Harvey, I

667
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,720
Speaker 1: need the pictures for this federation. Ask for the pictures

668
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: on this online magazine. Asked for some fresh looks that

669
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: no one's seen. Mister Harvey, and you buy these clothes,

670
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,959
Speaker 1: you have these looks. Let's take these pictures. I said, Ellie,

671
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: I got to go to a meeting. I got a meeting.

672
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: But mister Hardy, we have to take the pictures. We

673
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: ain't over here to take pictures. We're over here from meetings. Man,

674
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: do you not understand if I don't go take these

675
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: meetings a picture of who? See the who I am

676
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 1: ain't in these pictures. The only reason they want a

677
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: picture now, it's cause of who I am. If I

678
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: wasn't who I was, you just kidding me with these pictures.

679
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: So and I'm gonna have him on the radio the

680
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 1: day that the one day to talk about that because

681
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: it's really wonderful for him in his career, and I

682
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 1: really support it. And he's a very very talented young guy.

683
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 1: He's a great guy. Fire I I can put my

684
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: clothes on the walk out the door like I've been

685
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 1: doing all these other damn years before you came alone. Boy,

686
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: I think I had some fire ass outfits on them before.

687
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 1: You just ain't take no damn picture. Yeah, that's why

688
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: you got the name blue Cheese, you know. But she's

689
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 1: been up for four and a half years and she

690
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: said her life is much better. She along with her mother,

691
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: talking about Selena Gomez and businesswoman another businesswoman who started

692
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 1: the mental the mental fitness company Wondermine to provide mental

693
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,959
Speaker 1: health resources for free online. So there you go. Coming

694
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: up next, it is a nephew with the prank phone call.

695
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Stry Morning Show.

696
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour, it's

697
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject is he and his brother

698
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:31,359
Speaker 1: baby Mama. We'll get into that in just a few

699
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: but right now it is time for the nephew and

700
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 1: the prank phone call. Which you got, neph what you got? Well,

701
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: we just got through talking about young man who passed

702
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: away unfortunately, and he's deceased and and his I guess

703
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 1: his uh what was it called it? It's not a

704
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: funeral that was at the club. It was what was

705
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:55,240
Speaker 1: it pretty much what do you call it? Home cetiontion?

706
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: It was a funeral. You just shocked by what it

707
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:02,760
Speaker 1: looked like it was. And they had his body propped

708
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: up on the right. So this right here, it's Chopper's funeral,

709
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: Chopper's funeral. Let's see if there's in the type of

710
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: residentulus that's right. Here's Chopper's got dog if you would, Yeah,

711
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach your James, James James, Yeah, yeah,

712
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 1: what's up? Hey? This this is a gerald. Uh. I

713
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: was a friend of uh uh your your friend Chopper, yeah,

714
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: huh and Chopper just uh passed away last week? Right, Yeah?

715
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: I know they posed hall the funeral and stuff over

716
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: at uh at mom Baptist Church and uh, I don't

717
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: really know you, but me, me and me and Chopper

718
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: and a bunch of rest of was man. We used

719
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 1: to hang out at the club not too far from

720
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:58,479
Speaker 1: the house. You know. That's pretty much with chopping Wood

721
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 1: all the time. At the club. Anyway, what a bunch

722
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: of us was over at the club talking, man, and

723
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: I was, we was really want to reach out to

724
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: one of the family members, you know, And then somebody

725
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:10,479
Speaker 1: said you was, you know, kind of a good friend

726
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 1: of his. And when we we we we decided to

727
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,800
Speaker 1: call you and see if you didn't mind. Do you

728
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 1: think that you can talk to some of the family

729
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: members and see if they don't mind having the funeral

730
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:32,800
Speaker 1: at the club. At the club. See what, let me

731
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: let me try to explain something to you, Jane. What

732
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,800
Speaker 1: we're trying to do is, see, we believe that we

733
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 1: believed at the club. Come on the club, there's a funeral.

734
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 1: That's what I understand it. But see, see Chop Choppa

735
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: ain't really go to church a whole lot, you know

736
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. He didn't really really go long as

737
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: I've been knowing him. Now, he loved a lord and

738
00:46:55,239 --> 00:47:02,720
Speaker 1: stuff like that, I understand. But see Chopper wouldn't Chopper,

739
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 1: Chopper went to the club. So what I'm asking you is,

740
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 1: let's have the funeral at the club. Hell, no, bro,

741
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 1: come on, we can't have no funeral at no club. Man,

742
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: Come on, No, No, I can't but but what what

743
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying is, though, is that he wasn't really he

744
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 1: wasn't really no church going person. I believe that a

745
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: person ought to be uh, the last words are to

746
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: be said over him in a place he's more familiar with.

747
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,919
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Player, player No, I don't.

748
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what you mean. Player out. No, just

749
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: just gotta be a funeral. This is this is church

750
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: for I go to church, and all my folks go

751
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: to church. Now we we gotta do this thing up

752
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: in church. This is church thing. But you don't you

753
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 1: don't feel But do you understand where I'm coming from? No,

754
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 1: that man ought to going on and and the last

755
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 1: words are to be in a place he more familiar with. Now,

756
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 1: if he went to church, then I understand that you

757
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,359
Speaker 1: see him? Bro Hell no, no, See, this is chance

758
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 1: itself right, and we're gonna we're gonna have them up

759
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: in church in front of everybody. You know that don't

760
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: make sense? Who's this again? I mean, who are you?

761
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 1: My name Gerald? But who is Gerald? I mean? How

762
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: do you? How do you relate to this? Are you preacher?

763
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: Are you no? No? Are you no? No? No, No,

764
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I was friends with Chopper, and see I

765
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: hung out at the club and still hang out there

766
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: with a whole bunch of you know, was real good

767
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,320
Speaker 1: friends with Chopping, and we were saying that, you know,

768
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: Chopper's the last words about Chopper are to be said

769
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: at the club, because see that's what Chopper would. But

770
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: five six days a week, that's what Chopper was. But

771
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: what church are you affiliated with? I mean, what, what?

772
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:43,800
Speaker 1: Why the hell? What I I try to talk to

773
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,240
Speaker 1: the family, make me look stupid in front of the family,

774
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 1: telling them to put the thing in a club? How

775
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: do that gonna go off? Well? See, see that's what

776
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You know him way more than we do,

777
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: because see that you're talking about trying to move from

778
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: a damn funeral add a church to a damn nightclub

779
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: or strip club something. No, no, no strip club, just

780
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:05,439
Speaker 1: a nightclub, same, ain't it? I mean you talking about

781
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: having folks travel from across the country and meeting in

782
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: the damn club. What kind of that? But that's what

783
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 1: Chopper was. That's what Chopper was. I'm gonna look, if

784
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 1: I'm the one telling them to rooted to the damn club,

785
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna look like somebody that's trying to I'm gonna

786
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: look like a fool. No, you're not. You're gonna look

787
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: like somebody that's trying to keep it real. Come to

788
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 1: the damn funeral if I will to do something like that. Okay, okay,

789
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: let me ask you this, Hi, Then let me ask

790
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: you this, Hill or Jane? Do you think do you

791
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: think you can maybe get the body and bring it

792
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:42,240
Speaker 1: over to the club. No, well, I'm just saying before

793
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 1: they even do the funeral or whatever. You know, I

794
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: ain't touching getting the walk in the dog by my

795
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 1: body for him. Now, we're just trying to say our

796
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 1: last words at Chopper Man in a place that Chopper No,

797
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: Hilma again, who the you? You get my number? Somebody

798
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 1: at the club had your numbers, said you was print.

799
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: But why do y'all call me? Of all folks, y'all

800
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 1: called me. They say you good. You in with the family,

801
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: and you can tell me with the family. But I

802
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 1: ain't end in the family. Make me look stupid. Hell,

803
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 1: no'all won't y'all. I get y'all of them to the family.

804
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 1: Y'all call the family, y'all tell them that yourself. Man,

805
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:23,800
Speaker 1: I won't. I just want trying to get you to

806
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: brain the body by man and let us no, I

807
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 1: ain't touching no dead body. We just want to have

808
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: one last drink with Chopper. Man, you have one with

809
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: your boys and you you get together with them and

810
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,800
Speaker 1: y'all talk about bottom and let him know how Chopper

811
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,360
Speaker 1: what kind of prisoning was? What kind of prison? But

812
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: we need to we won't chop up to be there

813
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 1: this Chopper, This is Chopper you talking about? Man, Bring

814
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: y'all to the church. Y'all need to be up in

815
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: the church. We want to have a Chopper at the club. Well,

816
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: we didn't know them all, man, y'all fuller, well we

817
00:50:56,239 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 1: know have looking like a food letter. Damn what this

818
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 1: about Chopper? Though? And write it about Chopper? You break

819
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: Chopper to that club, y'all tripping, man, I ain't doing

820
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 1: I'm just going to this funeral. I'm gonna care to

821
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: say of what I think about Chopping And I'm moving tone.

822
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: If y'all want to clays in front of time of

823
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: y'all call the family, y'all selling you this. Look, I

824
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: got one more thing I want to say. I don't

825
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: even know you what what what this is nephew tim

826
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 1: Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

827
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 1: pranked by your board. This nephew Timmy, man from the

828
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boy told me to prank you. Man.

829
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: I just know y'all'd it, James. This is nephew Timmy. No, no,

830
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 1: don't play out. Oh man, I can't believe this. No,

831
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 1: he didn't. I can't even believe he did that. Hey man,

832
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you, man, what

833
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 1: is what is the baddest radio show in the land,

834
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: The Steve Hardy Moaning Show that was a hang up

835
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: when he wasn't really talking to you. Ain't gonna call

836
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: this blanket the blank phone with this blank man my

837
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 1: favorite thing. When you told him to go and get

838
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 1: the body and brain down there, he said, Man, I'm

839
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 1: scared to walk in the duve by myself. I showed

840
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: the hill ain't gonna get no damn about it. Ain't moving.

841
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 1: Most people feel okay, Yeah, Well look hill, I am

842
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: in Charlotte, North Carolina for five shows this weekend. We

843
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 1: will all be alive in there while I am performing.

844
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 1: Get your tickets right now at the Comedy Zone and

845
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 1: nephew come to town and Shawl to North Carolina two Friday,

846
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: too sad to one Sunday. You tickets left, but most

847
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: of them gone. The nephew coming. I appreciate y'all here.

848
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: I come good to know you'll be alive up in

849
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 1: the club. Nephew, thank you. Coming up next, the Strawberry Letter.

850
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 1: The subject he and his brother's baby Mama. We'll get

851
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

852
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 1: It's time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

853
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 1: advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting and more, please submit

854
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 1: your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com by clicking

855
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, and you never know your letter

856
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 1: could be read live on the air, just like this

857
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 1: one right here, and you never know it could be yours.

858
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: About that? How about that? Buckle up and hold on type.

859
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter.

860
00:53:57,360 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: Subject he and his brother's baby mama. Stephen Shirley. I

861
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:04,360
Speaker 1: was married for eleven years and we had two daughters.

862
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: The last three years of our marriage, he messed with

863
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: his brother's baby mother and she got pregnant. His brother

864
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 1: has two sons by this woman, and my husband is

865
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 1: the godfather of both of his brother's sons. His brother

866
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: left her after he caught her in bed with another

867
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: man at their house. She started popping up at our

868
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: house to talk to my husband, and I always assumed

869
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: it was to talk about his brother's dumping her. I

870
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: invited her over for Thanksgiving in twenty twenty and she

871
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: pulled my husband aside to talk to him, and I

872
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 1: let them talk. She got very upset and was crying.

873
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:45,280
Speaker 1: Then she got I rate and started pointing her finger

874
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:50,240
Speaker 1: forcibly forcefully into my husband's head. He pulled her close

875
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 1: to comfort her, and I still did not get involved.

876
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 1: This sort of thing happened four more times, and she

877
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 1: was always very upset when she came to my house.

878
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 1: Figured she must still be suffering from the breakup, so

879
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: I stayed out of it. Then, earlier this year, my

880
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 1: husband got a letter from our local child support office.

881
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 1: And I opened the letter and it said he is

882
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: the father of a baby girl, and it listed his

883
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 1: brother's baby mama as the mother. I started snooping. Yeah,

884
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: I started snooping through his drawers and I found DNA

885
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:27,720
Speaker 1: test results hidden in a cigar box in his junk drawer.

886
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: This woman mysteriously had a baby, and I had no

887
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: idea she was pregnant. I sent a picture of the

888
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: DNA results to my husband's brother and he responded that

889
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: he's known about them for three years because he caught

890
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 1: them in the act. I felt so lost and stupid.

891
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,839
Speaker 1: Their daughter is two years old, and this woman wants

892
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:52,440
Speaker 1: my kids to meet their sister, and she wants to

893
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 1: clear the air with me. Should I forgive her and

894
00:55:55,040 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 1: move on or keep ignoring her forever? All right? Give

895
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 1: them for sure, forgive her, not for them, not for her,

896
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: but because forgiveness it is for you to be free

897
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:10,759
Speaker 1: to move on with your life. But anything else, all

898
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: bets are off. Keep ignoring her forever, all right? And

899
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: don't you ever be that trusting to anyone again. You

900
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 1: saw what was going on, You didn't think for a

901
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 1: second that you know. I mean, I get that she

902
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,879
Speaker 1: was distraught over her brother, but her pointing her finger

903
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: at his forehead and your husband pulling her close to him,

904
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 1: all that's in your letter. I can't believe you didn't

905
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 1: suspect something was going on between them with all the

906
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 1: stuff they were doing. I mean, maybe because it was

907
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,360
Speaker 1: done in your face and not behind your back. You

908
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: didn't think that they would be doing what they were doing.

909
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: I just don't know too many women, including myself, who

910
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 1: would have allowed them to carry on like they were

911
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: carrying on in front of you. So I'm gonna need

912
00:56:55,280 --> 00:57:00,760
Speaker 1: you to get mad, you know, do something I just asked,

913
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: keep ignoring her forever. You know, it's okay to forgive,

914
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:08,440
Speaker 1: but you shouldn't forget or clear the air with her

915
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 1: like she wants to do if you choose not to, Okay,

916
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 1: do what's best for you and your children, your family. Okay,

917
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 1: keep her out of it. She's trashed at this point

918
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 1: as far as I'm concerned. What she did to you

919
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 1: and her husband Steve the most confusing damn letter of

920
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: the yell. I don't know. Surely, I can't make no

921
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: sense of this. I've been trying to find the turning points,

922
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 1: but the whole letters a turning point. Lady was married

923
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 1: for eleven years with a husband. They got two daughters,

924
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 1: but then the last three years of the marriage he

925
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: messed with his brother's babies and mama and she got pregnant.

926
00:57:56,800 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: His brother has two two sons by this woman, and

927
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:06,919
Speaker 1: my husband is the godfather or both of his brother's son.

928
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Wait a minute. If this is your

929
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: brother and he got two children, what is you the godfather?

930
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: For you the uncle? You're the uncle? See these this

931
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: family love giving titles. Now his brother left her, He

932
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: left her baby mama after he caught her and dad

933
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: with another man at their house. Who is these men

934
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: that covid these other men's houses? Man, I just don't

935
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:42,439
Speaker 1: understand that. I don't know why more of these ain't

936
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: winding up in deaths. She started popping up at our

937
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: house to talk to my husband, and I always sooned

938
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 1: it was to talk about his brother dumping her. But

939
00:58:55,400 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: now let me say this though. Could it be the

940
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:03,439
Speaker 1: way this letter's written when she said her brother left

941
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 1: her after he caught her in bed with another man

942
00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 1: to day house. Could the other man have been his brother? Well? No,

943
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 1: I think that that was an additional man, Steve, because

944
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 1: lower in the letter he said he's known about we'll

945
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: find out. I invited over for Thanksgiving in twenty twenty.

946
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: She pulled my husband to decide to talk to him,

947
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: and I let him talk. She got upset and was crying,

948
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: and she got out right and started pouring her finger

949
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 1: forcefully into my husband's head. You know how they'd be

950
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 1: tapping on your head like what you ain't ain't nobody

951
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: fun do that that to me in front of Margie. Okay,

952
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 1: I don't know any woman alive none quarter what is

953
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:51,959
Speaker 1: she tapping? So that's kind of crazy. And I still

954
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 1: didn't get get involved. This sort of thing happened full

955
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 1: more times, and she was always upset when she came

956
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: to my house. I figured she must steal be suffering

957
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 1: from the breakup, so I stayed out about how stupid

958
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 1: are you? Well, she said that she's so stupid. All right,

959
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 1: we're talking a lot to come back, all right. Part

960
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes

961
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: after be our today's Strawberry letter, subject he and his

962
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 1: brother's baby mama. We'll get back into it right after this.

963
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's

964
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject he and his brother's baby mama.

965
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 1: This regga so confused ter. It's the letter Sherley. Let

966
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 1: me don't even know the damn people mess right here.

967
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: This lady married to her husband, they got two kids

968
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:49,959
Speaker 1: and then uh. Later three years, the last three years

969
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:53,440
Speaker 1: of the marriage, he messed with his brother's baby's mama

970
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: and she got pregnant. His brother got two sons by

971
01:00:57,240 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 1: this woman, and my husband is the godfather to both

972
01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 1: his brother's son. You ain't uncle. You're a damn uncle.

973
01:01:04,880 --> 01:01:07,400
Speaker 1: You legally everything. You they't uncle. You don't need no

974
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 1: extra title. His brother left her because he caught her

975
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: in bed with another man at the house. And then

976
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 1: she started popping up at our house to talk to

977
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: my husband. Always assumed he was to talk about his

978
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: brother dumping her. I'm telling you, Shirley, I think you

979
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: got the man he caught in bed with her is

980
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 1: his brother. Because right after that she kept coming to

981
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:37,439
Speaker 1: the house. Yeah, mad every time she come to the house.

982
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 1: Right after that, then they say I invited over the

983
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving twenty twenty, she pulled my husband aside to talk

984
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: to him. I let him talk. She got up, setting

985
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,040
Speaker 1: was crying. Then she got out right and she started

986
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 1: pointing her finger forcefully in my husband's head. Not damn

987
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 1: because his brother found you in bed with another man,

988
01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: or because he found you in bed and the other

989
01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: man was his damn brother. And I got starting up

990
01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: to starting to put it together for myself. Here now, Shirley,

991
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 1: I didn't get involved. This sort of thing happened full

992
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 1: more times, and she was always upset when she came

993
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 1: to the house. I figured she must be still suffering

994
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:14,680
Speaker 1: from the breakup, so I stayed out. And she was

995
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 1: something from the breakup because your husband was to cause

996
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 1: her the breakup because he got caught in his brother's

997
01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: house in that bed. That's what I believe this letter

998
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 1: is really all about. Then, earlier this year, my husband

999
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 1: got a letter from our local child support office. I

1000
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 1: opened the letter and they said he was the father

1001
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 1: of a baby girl and it was listed his brother's

1002
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 1: baby's mama, asked the mother. I started snooper through his

1003
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: drawers and I found DNA test rezone hiding in a

1004
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 1: cigar box. That's what really, Why is she putting this

1005
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 1: in a cigar box? You put this in a cigar box?

1006
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 1: Trop see now people like me ass got tight. Now

1007
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: my ass tight because it's in a cigar box. Immediately

1008
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 1: I go to myself and how many cigar boxes I got.

1009
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 1: I can't think of what important and put in the

1010
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: damn cigar box in about you? Anyway, this woman misterily

1011
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 1: had a baby and I had no idea she was pranknant. Oh.

1012
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: I sent a picture to DNA results to my husband's

1013
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: brother and he responded that he's known about them for

1014
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: three years because he caught them in the act. It

1015
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: was his brother that he walked in and saw in

1016
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: the bed with his woman three years ago. She stayed

1017
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: away and had this baby, but every time she came

1018
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: over she was mad at him. I felt so lost

1019
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 1: and stupid. They daughter two years old. This woman wants

1020
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: my kids to meet their sister, and she wants to

1021
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 1: clear the ad with me. Should I forgive her and

1022
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: move on and keep it knowing her felver where? You

1023
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 1: can't forgive her? But this is the most confusing mess.

1024
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 1: I really ain't got nothing for her no more. Hellfel

1025
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 1: and my biggest thing like his What is we finn

1026
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 1: to call these kids? Because he not even if they meet?

1027
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 1: What is we finn to call these kids? Right here?

1028
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: Mama's these are cousins, Mamas, these are brothers and sisters.

1029
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: Know they're not it's they our aunts. No, no, baby,

1030
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 1: they're not your aunts. It's these are cousins in laws? Na,

1031
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 1: they not? What is they mama, is these are nothing

1032
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 1: laws are nothing? Lost Mama? What is we gonna call

1033
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 1: these damn kids? Your husband slept with his brothers baby, mama.

1034
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 1: The brother called them. You found the DNA report, send

1035
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: it to his brother to say, hey, on this DNA report,

1036
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: this listing my husband who is your brother as the

1037
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 1: daddy of your baby, mama's baby. He ain't surprised because

1038
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 1: he all about it. So what kind of help she want?

1039
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 1: She I really thought it was two different men. But

1040
01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 1: she says she felt so lost and stupid that yeah,

1041
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 1: she should feel that way. I think it's sognoring what's

1042
01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 1: going on in front of her eyes. Why are we held?

1043
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 1: Who do you trust in this story? You can't trust

1044
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 1: your brother in law? Yeah, he held to the code

1045
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: with his brother, and she nobody told you nothing right?

1046
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:34,160
Speaker 1: And then she's she's considering forgiving this woman and moving

1047
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 1: and moving on, or to keep ignoring her forever. That's

1048
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Speaker 1: her issue. None of this is what you said made

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01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:45,960
Speaker 1: since you could forgive a cause. Forgiveness is for you,

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01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 1: not the other person. But to forgive don't mean to forget, right.

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01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 1: You don't have to set yourself back up in the

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01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 1: line of fire, just because you forgave somebody. Yes, Tommy,

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01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:00,160
Speaker 1: I see, can't you forgive as you walking out to

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01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 1: do with all your stuff? Can't you forgiving? She can

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01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: keep ignoring her forever. What I'm not fit to do

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01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 1: is sit here and deal with this mess. Now. The

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Speaker 1: kids are gonna have to know each other eventually, because

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Speaker 1: that's baby. All right, we gotta go please us, all right, Look,

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01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 1: leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram, Steve

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01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 1: Harvey FM, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcasts done

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Speaker 1: demand sports with Junior coming up next. Right after this

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time

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Speaker 1: now for Junior and sports talk. What you got Junior

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Speaker 1: once again, congratulates the Kansas as they are the national champions.

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01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: And men's basketball congratulations to South Carolina Gamecocks champ. I

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Speaker 1: found so down though. Hey, hey man, hey man, I

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01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 1: don't like what my team loses. Okay. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how you be looking for the team. I don't root

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01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 1: for them. Stay dude, yes, stay dude, Do I come

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01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:09,959
Speaker 1: in here? I want to talk about No. I don't

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01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 1: know how you sold you, just so all right. Coach

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01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: K's replacement has been named, it would be his assistant coach,

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01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:19,280
Speaker 1: John Shire, thirty four years old. He played four years

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Speaker 1: at Dude two thousand and sixty, two thousand and ten.

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Speaker 1: That's a tough job, man, to follow up a career

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01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:27,440
Speaker 1: like uh, coach k. That's kind of like the next

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Speaker 1: replacement for a fan. If you gonna have hell, Yeah,

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01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real, it ain't gonna be no damn you.

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01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,760
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna keep it straight. One you're in the series.

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Speaker 1: All one thing I've understood. I try to perform on

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01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 1: my job. So when I ain't there, it ain't no

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01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 1: more damn job. I perform to make people miss me. Yeah,

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01:07:56,600 --> 01:08:00,720
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure they all about Yeah,

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01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:03,840
Speaker 1: who could re replace him with. I'm pretty show they

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01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:06,760
Speaker 1: had Yeah. But but but when you ain't there, it

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01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be no family few. That's all we do.

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01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:11,000
Speaker 1: It can be family few, but it's gonna get back

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Speaker 1: to what it was. Just the game boy, listen to me.

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01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm not playing with you. Yeah, it's like the Steve

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01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. This show right here, Oh you can

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01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:30,639
Speaker 1: you gonna have to rename this and everything. It won't

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01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 1: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Now we can go

1093
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 1: on to take any consideration. Who would be the likely

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01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 1: takeover the Nephew tim It Morning Show. You know you

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01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: can start there. Oh lord, he say, Oh lord, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: let me ask you a question, man, if you had

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01:08:56,720 --> 01:09:02,400
Speaker 1: this show, what would you do differently in sports? You want? No,

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01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 1: we sport? That's always in sports news. Coach case replaces. Oh,

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01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 1: Tiger Woods probably gonna play in the in the Masses

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01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 1: this weekend. Good news. Let's get to that a good player.

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01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,200
Speaker 1: They say he looked good in his practice round, so

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01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:17,639
Speaker 1: we were route for Tiger. Come on, man, is anybody

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01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:24,519
Speaker 1: gonna watch the Masses weekend? I can tell you we

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01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:27,760
Speaker 1: ain't watch. I'm watching it. If he don't. Everybody out

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01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 1: taken play better than me. I was just trying to

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01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 1: pick up anything. Okay, all right, anything coming up at

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01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:37,560
Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Have you ever handwritten a

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01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: love letter to someone? We'll tell you who did, and

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01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 1: it might be a bit shocking. Right after this, you're

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01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:52,400
Speaker 1: listening to Steve, your favorite rapper. Tupac Shakur's love life

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01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:55,800
Speaker 1: is the source of endless fascination. We know that, and

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01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 1: who would have thought that he wrote love letters to

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01:09:57,960 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 1: his high school sweetheart when he was just seventeen years old.

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Speaker 1: In a Southeast auction titled The Art and Influence of

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01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:11,799
Speaker 1: Hip Hop, Tupac's love letters to Kosima Inez were auctioned

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01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:15,640
Speaker 1: off for thousands of dollars each. Kosima was a sophomore

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01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 1: at his high school in California. This is after he

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01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:22,439
Speaker 1: moved from Baltimore, and in the letters, m Pac revealed

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01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:25,200
Speaker 1: his deep love for her. All of the letters were

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01:10:25,280 --> 01:10:29,559
Speaker 1: signed at the end with thinking of you eternally, your friend,

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Speaker 1: Tupac Shakur Pac was a romantic at a very early age. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so here's a question for you, guys. Did you ever

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Speaker 1: write love letters to your high school sweetheart or to

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01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:45,200
Speaker 1: women period? I mean, do you think, say four dollars now?

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Speaker 1: Oh yes he did? Hell yeah? How what did you write?

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01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:55,080
Speaker 1: I leave this segregation? You ain't write a little letters

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01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:58,560
Speaker 1: stamps on about licked him trying and hopes that this

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01:10:58,680 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: girl would want me back. You dropped stuff off. And

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you one of the deepest things I did

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01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 1: was I was senior in high school. Man I wanted

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01:11:10,880 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 1: this girl man so bad. I wrote the lyrics to

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01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:19,200
Speaker 1: Devotion by Earth Winning Fire on a poster board, rolled

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01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 1: it up, put it in my I tucked my T

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01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: shirt in my pants, put it in the back of

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01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 1: my T shirt like a like a boring arrow case.

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01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 1: And got on my bike and rode over to her

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Speaker 1: house and rode them down the street till she came

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01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: out on the porch and jes because you ain't no

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01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:38,639
Speaker 1: way of calling her, you know, So rode them down

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01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:40,479
Speaker 1: the street till she came out. I got off my

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01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 1: bike and handed it to her. She unrolled it on

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01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:46,719
Speaker 1: the thing and read the whole or the whole lyrics

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01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 1: to devotion. Oh did she cry? Or yeah? She cried? Yeah,

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01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 1: when the father came out on the porch and put

1145
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 1: my ass off the porch, you get your punk ass

1146
01:11:56,280 --> 01:12:07,719
Speaker 1: off the boat. This is before social media. What about

1147
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 1: your nephew love letter? Definitely high school sweetheart wrote it

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01:12:12,439 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 1: walked to school, sweetheart. Love was so brand new, And

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01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:25,599
Speaker 1: as my grandmama said, my nose was wide open. If

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01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 1: you ain't had your nose wide open, you ain't lived.

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01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:34,599
Speaker 1: Come on, man, junior, no we I'm three generations from

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01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 1: three funk. That's two fun We over here texted, I

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01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:43,479
Speaker 1: made I made cassette tapes. That's what I had. I

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01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 1: had that. I listened to quiet store Press playing Paul

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01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:49,920
Speaker 1: who you record the song? Then you pausing dog. That's

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01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 1: what I had to do. But love letters. We had

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01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 1: technology by this time, a little bit of it. Yeah.

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01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 1: We was paying paper boy. Yeah, y'all were paying a

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01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 1: paper damn their pony expressed with my bike. He yeah,

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01:13:07,080 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 1: delive it, my damn self. I wait on the three

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Speaker 1: days and you know, and mail. It took three days,

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01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 1: even locally, three days to get to somebody's house. Locally,

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Speaker 1: you had to write a letter. Man, I ain't got

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01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:18,800
Speaker 1: no time for this here. I got to ride this

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01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 1: over there. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I had pony expressed me

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01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:25,880
Speaker 1: and that bike man I had. I wrote. I wrote

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01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:28,960
Speaker 1: a girl a letter one time, man, and I you know,

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01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:31,000
Speaker 1: I just wanted her to like me. I drove it

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Speaker 1: over the house and put it in there, uh uh mailbox,

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01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:38,080
Speaker 1: and I'm riding up the street and then I come

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01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:41,680
Speaker 1: back down the hill just to see and uh she

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01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 1: would had reached out there and pulled it, let out

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01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:48,760
Speaker 1: the mailbox, didn't even open it and just tow it

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Speaker 1: in hand. O. Man. That broke my heart, manbreaking, yeah,

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01:13:57,439 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 1: he yeah, I had to write it. On there you know.

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01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 1: Oh okay, you know, got put it in the mail

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01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: but I gotta make sure her Mama, dadda, don't get it,

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01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:07,760
Speaker 1: have a name on and everything. She as soon as

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01:14:07,800 --> 01:14:09,439
Speaker 1: I came back down the hill, I said, man, she

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01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:11,680
Speaker 1: reached in the mailbox to get it. She pulled it

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01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:15,640
Speaker 1: out the mailbox and tow it in head. All right,

1182
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:19,920
Speaker 1: look at your sharing. We didn't who knew you guys

1183
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:22,760
Speaker 1: were so romantic coming up at twenty minutes after the hour.

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01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:27,599
Speaker 1: If you hate your facial features selfies, maybe the blame

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01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:33,599
Speaker 1: who We'll get into that right after this. You're listening show,

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01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:38,120
Speaker 1: all right, So if you're feeling down about your looks,

1187
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:40,920
Speaker 1: maybe you need to take a break from taking selfies.

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01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:44,640
Speaker 1: A new study from the American Society of Plastic Surgeons

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01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 1: found that selfies just sort distort sizes and perceptions of

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Speaker 1: our facial features. No matter how well you pose or

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01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 1: angle on your phone, selfies can make anyone's nose look

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01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 1: bigger than it really is. And there, and there's a

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01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:05,879
Speaker 1: direct correlation with the fact that the number he dives

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01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 1: in first every time. What happened? What happened? To see? Ready, no,

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01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:13,519
Speaker 1: you ain't see look around all my Instagram. You don't

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01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:19,360
Speaker 1: see no selfies. Hey, no, I don't care how I

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01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:25,000
Speaker 1: hold this camera. This damn nose look like the rooftop

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01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 1: of a stadium. I don't give a damn what. It

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01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:33,920
Speaker 1: looked like the Mercedis Stadium. You look like the AT

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Speaker 1: and T Stadium in Dallas. It looked like the Mad

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01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:43,560
Speaker 1: Life Boy selfie. Right now, Steve, let me see, I

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01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:47,320
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie to you. Can't do it. Okay, we'll

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01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:51,680
Speaker 1: look at it like he actually doing it right now?

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01:15:52,240 --> 01:15:55,519
Speaker 1: Talk to you, cute nephew, Steve. Oh, I'm sexist here

1205
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:58,920
Speaker 1: when I take man, let me see yourselfie posting girl,

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01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 1: I'd be like this, ye look at on the phone.

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01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:10,880
Speaker 1: I shoot it down so I looked home. Coming up.

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01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:15,280
Speaker 1: Just got yourselfie, Steve, coming up at thirty three minutes

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01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:17,400
Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll do a round of would you rather?

1210
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:22,360
Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. It

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01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:25,439
Speaker 1: is time now to play a round of would you rather?

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01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:29,320
Speaker 1: Would you rather? Guys, would you rather? Star as James

1213
01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:36,640
Speaker 1: Bond or Michael Carlyone Corleon? James Bond or Michael Corleone

1214
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 1: Carlyon What how the god Father were you your hot head.

1215
01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:52,719
Speaker 1: You more like, ain't nobody following name and everybody gonna

1216
01:16:53,920 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 1: had all the families? Yes, yeah, you like Junior said

1217
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:05,519
Speaker 1: you could be boss baby something like that, but you

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01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:11,560
Speaker 1: ain't going to be Him's sunny the brother. Remember he

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01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:18,719
Speaker 1: was a hothead. Family of the cor Leons. Yeah, nobody

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01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:21,960
Speaker 1: James Bond because you know there's talk they might put

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01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:26,200
Speaker 1: a brother in that row. Come on, reggae. No, I

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01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:30,160
Speaker 1: ain't got bon what I ain't got body? No more,

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01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 1: I can't run, I can't through it. I'na would you be?

1224
01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:36,439
Speaker 1: I'm not going to hang on the edge and a

1225
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:48,479
Speaker 1: helicopter blade. And because that opening scene is ten minutes, man,

1226
01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:53,320
Speaker 1: this is how to go. No, this is how to go. Yeah,

1227
01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:58,960
Speaker 1: rock that wardrobe on? Got on? That's all that's double

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01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 1: Get a stuck up bull, Steve, it's not double? What else?

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01:18:05,240 --> 01:18:09,160
Speaker 1: All right? You're done with that one? All right? Would

1230
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 1: you rather all your text messages get leaked, all your

1231
01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:16,160
Speaker 1: text messages get leaked, or all your photos get leaked?

1232
01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 1: Oh god, so you want all your pictures to get leaked,

1233
01:18:21,240 --> 01:18:24,599
Speaker 1: not your text messages? Yeah, I ain't got no pictures. Yeah?

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01:18:26,520 --> 01:18:31,200
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Junior, Yeah, b I can't. I can't. I

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01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 1: can't what I said to somebody. No, not the stuff

1236
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:44,679
Speaker 1: I've said. It cost you a career. Okay, Yes, Tommy,

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01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:51,160
Speaker 1: I'm with him, a right one. All right, Let's keep

1238
01:18:51,200 --> 01:18:53,840
Speaker 1: with the phone theme here. Would you rather your phone

1239
01:18:53,920 --> 01:19:00,320
Speaker 1: ringer make porn sounds or belching sounds? Belch? What is

1240
01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:09,759
Speaker 1: pawing sounds the poem? Huh? What is pawing sounds? Yeah? Sounds? Okay,

1241
01:19:10,439 --> 01:19:13,200
Speaker 1: moaning and groaning and all you know, just oh ah,

1242
01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:18,599
Speaker 1: you know all that stuff you know, Oh, and that's

1243
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:23,679
Speaker 1: coming from my phone? Yeah, yeah, yes, your ringers ringer? Yeah,

1244
01:19:23,840 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 1: would your rather belching or pouring sounds? Belch loud as

1245
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:35,240
Speaker 1: you can? All right? All right, we'll do our last

1246
01:19:35,280 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 1: break of the day, coming up at forty nine minutes

1247
01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 1: after the hour, and of course we'll have some closing

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01:19:39,360 --> 01:19:42,120
Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

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01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:46,679
Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

1250
01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:50,320
Speaker 1: here we are. This is Wednesday, hump day. It's been

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Speaker 1: a good day. Huh, yes, today, yes, week. If we

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01:19:56,560 --> 01:19:59,200
Speaker 1: get the humps and day is gonna being better. I

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01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 1: just say anything. Do you run it through a filter once?

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01:20:03,280 --> 01:20:07,080
Speaker 1: You get past fifes, say what you want to say,

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01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:11,000
Speaker 1: that's the age. I'm gonna tell you right now that

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01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:17,680
Speaker 1: ain't true. Why you say that did? Because the consequences

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01:20:18,080 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 1: more diet. The older you get, the more diet of

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01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:23,920
Speaker 1: the consequences. Yeah. That's one of the things I've really

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01:20:23,960 --> 01:20:26,479
Speaker 1: tried to teach my children. I said, Look, man, I

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01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 1: ain't gonna have to keep giving you these punishments and sprinking.

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01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:30,880
Speaker 1: I said, because life gonna take over in a minute.

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01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 1: Oh Dad, What you mean by that? I say, because

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01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 1: the older you get your decisions, you make the consequences

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01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:40,800
Speaker 1: or more diet or older you get. Yeah, everything is

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01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:45,120
Speaker 1: at steak. Yeah. I saw a T shirt Steve that

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01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:47,560
Speaker 1: said the dumbest thing I ever did growing up was

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01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 1: the dumbest thing I ever did. Man. Ye man, And

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01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:54,280
Speaker 1: when you're little, that's all you want to do is

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01:20:54,479 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 1: grow up, yeah, man, not realizing that growing up come

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01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:04,320
Speaker 1: with everything that that is being a grown up. The

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01:21:04,600 --> 01:21:08,439
Speaker 1: sad part of it is is when you rush the process. Yeah,

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01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:11,400
Speaker 1: and you're an adult way longer than you're a kid,

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01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:17,640
Speaker 1: way man now and man, and you be sitting up

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01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 1: doing stuff as a younger person because you you think

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01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:24,800
Speaker 1: you ready for it now. Oh no you're not. Oh

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01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:27,640
Speaker 1: no you're not, because you don't have the life experience

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01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:31,360
Speaker 1: to deal with decisions. You. I want a baby now, Okay, Yeah,

1278
01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 1: you might want the baby now, but I'm not sure

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01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:37,639
Speaker 1: you're gonna want all that come with the baby. Yeah,

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01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:39,760
Speaker 1: if you end up with the baby, you're gonna find

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01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:44,360
Speaker 1: out quickly because the requirements of that baby they not

1282
01:21:44,520 --> 01:21:49,639
Speaker 1: they don't lessen, they do not lessen. They come full package,

1283
01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 1: ready out the dope. I need everything. I remember in school.

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01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:01,400
Speaker 1: I remember in school that made us carry a raw

1285
01:22:01,520 --> 01:22:05,320
Speaker 1: egg around for a whole day. This, you know what

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01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:07,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying. This is symbolic of being a baby and

1287
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 1: see them you can take care of it. I dropped

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01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:14,120
Speaker 1: that egg so many damn turn I'm not. I am

1289
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:18,160
Speaker 1: not ready for that left it left him a locker up,

1290
01:22:18,520 --> 01:22:28,160
Speaker 1: you know, the baby, all of that right in your defense.

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01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:31,840
Speaker 1: You're a great dad right now, Oh my god, yes

1292
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:36,600
Speaker 1: you are. I'm a great dad right now. Haven't always

1293
01:22:36,760 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 1: been a great dad because I went through the process differently,

1294
01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 1: you know, and I had to grow into this man

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01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:48,000
Speaker 1: that I am. And that's why I talked to me

1296
01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 1: and all the time about look man, you just got

1297
01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:55,800
Speaker 1: a gold and throw yourself into this thing called fatherhood

1298
01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:59,439
Speaker 1: head first. And you got to get about the business.

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01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:03,080
Speaker 1: Because if you don't take on the responsibility of being

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01:23:03,160 --> 01:23:06,800
Speaker 1: a father, ain't a lot of good fit to come

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01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:10,160
Speaker 1: your way. Man, It's just not a lot of good.

1302
01:23:10,240 --> 01:23:12,479
Speaker 1: And I want to encourage men out there to day,

1303
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:16,280
Speaker 1: if you have made a child, get active in your

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01:23:16,400 --> 01:23:20,680
Speaker 1: child's life. I know it's challenging. I know you may

1305
01:23:21,000 --> 01:23:23,400
Speaker 1: not be where you want to be, but has nothing

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01:23:23,439 --> 01:23:27,160
Speaker 1: to do with your abilities to be a father. Your

1307
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:30,800
Speaker 1: ability to be a father encompasses things that don't cost

1308
01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:39,639
Speaker 1: you money, time, guidance, and love. Time, guidance and love.

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01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 1: That's your responsibility. You don't have to have money to

1310
01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:46,799
Speaker 1: do that. Get over there and see them kids, spend

1311
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 1: some time with them. Tell them what you've learned, share

1312
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:52,920
Speaker 1: the mistakes you've made, let them know if you could

1313
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:55,639
Speaker 1: do it differently, you would have. But now that I'm here,

1314
01:23:55,920 --> 01:23:57,880
Speaker 1: let me just start from who I am right now,

1315
01:23:58,240 --> 01:24:02,400
Speaker 1: I've had to have these compensations, and so as fathers,

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01:24:03,040 --> 01:24:06,960
Speaker 1: I'm encouraging all men today to step up to the plate.

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01:24:07,280 --> 01:24:09,240
Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm sorry, I have no other way I

1318
01:24:09,320 --> 01:24:13,200
Speaker 1: can put it be a man. Step up to the plate,

1319
01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:17,120
Speaker 1: forward your way through these attitudes with these baby mamas

1320
01:24:17,160 --> 01:24:21,840
Speaker 1: and all this here get you gotta get past that. Now.

1321
01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:24,479
Speaker 1: The women out there that is using the children as palms,

1322
01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:27,920
Speaker 1: you wrong like two left shoes. And because a man

1323
01:24:28,000 --> 01:24:30,599
Speaker 1: ain't paid child support, you should not stop him from

1324
01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:33,960
Speaker 1: seeing his child. Because he ain't he behind on child support.

1325
01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:38,719
Speaker 1: That punishment you're issuing to him is costing your child

1326
01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:43,400
Speaker 1: even more deally, and quit trying to be the issuer

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01:24:43,640 --> 01:24:47,000
Speaker 1: of punishment. It ain't your job. God got this thing

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01:24:47,120 --> 01:24:49,559
Speaker 1: all taken care of. And I'm telling you right now,

1329
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:52,280
Speaker 1: as a man, you've got to step up to the

1330
01:24:52,360 --> 01:24:55,360
Speaker 1: plate and take care of your responsibility. It's yours, and

1331
01:24:55,600 --> 01:24:59,160
Speaker 1: yours your responsibility is not gonna lessen. God, don't let

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01:24:59,240 --> 01:25:03,200
Speaker 1: us off the hook from being fathers. He don't okay,

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01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:06,040
Speaker 1: Well you didn't get it right, Get it right. All

1334
01:25:06,120 --> 01:25:09,479
Speaker 1: you was going through a bad time, so you ain't

1335
01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:14,160
Speaker 1: the only one. Get over there and be a man,

1336
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:18,960
Speaker 1: get a presence in your child's life. Start if you

1337
01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:21,080
Speaker 1: got to start with the woman, start with the woman. Look,

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01:25:21,120 --> 01:25:24,320
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I know I'm behind on these child support payments.

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01:25:24,400 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 1: I just ain't got it. But man, I would love

1340
01:25:27,800 --> 01:25:30,479
Speaker 1: to see my son. I would love to see my daughter.

1341
01:25:31,040 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 1: I would love to be active in their life. Just

1342
01:25:33,240 --> 01:25:35,400
Speaker 1: let me take them to school sometimes. Let me pick

1343
01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:37,800
Speaker 1: them up, man, Let me take them to the park.

1344
01:25:37,920 --> 01:25:41,120
Speaker 1: Can I keep them overnight? You know? Can I stay there?

1345
01:25:41,200 --> 01:25:45,120
Speaker 1: Can I sleep in the other rooms? Something? But man,

1346
01:25:45,240 --> 01:25:49,080
Speaker 1: it's time for me to do my duty. Be a man.

1347
01:25:49,720 --> 01:25:52,880
Speaker 1: Get over there and get yourself active in these children's lives.

1348
01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:57,640
Speaker 1: And mothers. Stop blocking these men from having access to

1349
01:25:57,760 --> 01:26:01,080
Speaker 1: their children over a child support check or the fact

1350
01:26:01,120 --> 01:26:03,920
Speaker 1: that you don't like him. You're hurting your child. Those

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01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:06,720
Speaker 1: are my closing remarks today. I should have started this

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01:26:06,880 --> 01:26:09,000
Speaker 1: earlier because I got so much more to say. Part

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Speaker 1: two tomorrow, Nasi and Jenner talked to God today. He

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