Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater only on.
Speaker 2: The Jubile Show. If you want to win the Jubil
Speaker 2: Shows Trip to the Caribbean, you got to listen at
Speaker 2: eight to ten. Paul is on the phone today for
Speaker 2: to Catch a Cheater. He's been with his girlfriend, Leslie
Speaker 2: for three years, but now he thinks something's going on.
Speaker 2: So we're going to see if we can help him
Speaker 2: out and try to catch her in a second if
Speaker 2: she is. Hopefully she isn't. But Paul tell us what's
Speaker 2: going on?
Speaker 3: Man. Yeah, I've been with my girlfriend Leslie now for
Speaker 3: three years and overall things have been great. It's been
Speaker 3: nice three years. Leslie actually moved up here from a
Speaker 3: small town, you know, one of those really small towns
Speaker 3: out in the middle of nowhere. Scary to me, but yes, yeah,
Speaker 3: you know, to be honest, it's the same for me.
Speaker 3: It's a little odd going back because we visit often
Speaker 3: to her family, and every time we go back there,
Speaker 3: I just feel like it's going to another country or
Speaker 3: another planet or something.
Speaker 1: That's kind of nice. You really get to escape.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's not really a big deal to visit often.
Speaker 3: I know, like I said, it's like another planet. Over there.
Speaker 3: But you know, my relationship my family's a you know,
Speaker 3: at best strain. So you know, I've never had a
Speaker 3: problem going back with her as frequently as we do.
Speaker 3: But unfortunately this year, I'm not able to go back
Speaker 3: and visit with her on her mom's birthday. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm really swamped at work, and you know, it wasn't
Speaker 3: really a huge deal. But that's kind of where in
Speaker 3: regards to this trip and me not going with her
Speaker 3: is kind of where suspicions started creeping in.
Speaker 1: Okay, was she upset that you couldn't go with her?
Speaker 3: Well, see that that's the thing. It actually didn't seem
Speaker 3: like she was upset that I wasn't going with her.
Speaker 3: And you know, recently, you know, I feel like she's
Speaker 3: been kind of pushing me away. You know, I feel like,
Speaker 3: you know, she's been getting you know a little bit
Speaker 3: more distant from me. We've been getting into more arguments.
Speaker 3: And you know, one thing I've noticed, and and the
Speaker 3: thing that I'm worried about is this guy Joel. Well,
Speaker 3: Joel is her. It's it's her ex from you know,
Speaker 3: like her kind of high school sweetheart, kind of guy
Speaker 3: you know, still lives in that small town where she
Speaker 3: came from. And I've noticed that her and Joel have
Speaker 3: been texting a lot more, you know, recently.
Speaker 1: They've always been texting, you said, a lot more so
Speaker 1: they've always.
Speaker 4: Been a yeah, they you know, you know, to be honest,
Speaker 4: I'm not one of those guys that's like have a
Speaker 4: huge issue with somebody having a friendship with an ex
Speaker 4: or you know, having that relationship ongoing.
Speaker 3: I met Joel, you know, when we've gone to to
Speaker 3: you know, to visit. You know, I've met the guy.
Speaker 3: You know, he seems like a decent person and and everything.
Speaker 3: But honestly, it has always just kind of been or,
Speaker 3: at least in my perception, like sporadic communication. And you know,
Speaker 3: now it seems like it's getting to be a lot
Speaker 3: more frequent. Like I noticed that, you know, you know,
Speaker 3: I'll notice her phone will light up, you know, a lot,
Speaker 3: and I'll see you know, his name, you know, pop up,
Speaker 3: you know, like it does on the phone. And I
Speaker 3: noticed it's more and more, and you know, I even
Speaker 3: asked her about it, and you know, she's gotten a
Speaker 3: little bit defensive like about me like checking on her
Speaker 3: or why am I looking at her phone? And and
Speaker 3: that kind of stuff. Okay, honestly, like to put two
Speaker 3: and two together, I noticed that it's really been since
Speaker 3: I told her that I wasn't going that I wasn't
Speaker 3: gonna be able to make it to the trip. And
Speaker 3: I told her mom, I wasn't going to be able
Speaker 3: to make it that you know, the communication frequency you know,
Speaker 3: stepped up and they started talking more, and like I said,
Speaker 3: I didn't really feel like she was particularly upset that
Speaker 3: I wasn't going to be able to make it and
Speaker 3: I and I did. I asked her about it, and,
Speaker 3: like I said, she got defensive, and she also said,
Speaker 3: you know, oh, no, you know, just we were playing
Speaker 3: on meeting up with mutual friends or we're just making
Speaker 3: you know, some friends plans and old friends and getting
Speaker 3: together while I'm in town or while she's in town.
Speaker 3: Rather and I don't recall any friend group or mutual friends.
Speaker 3: I've never hung out with her and her mutual friends
Speaker 3: in her small town. So you know, honestly, I really
Speaker 3: don't know what's going on in.
Speaker 2: So you think maybe it like she's planning something with
Speaker 2: him for when she's there, but.
Speaker 3: You're not there exactly. Yeah, so I thought maybe you
Speaker 3: guys could call her from you know, just say you're
Speaker 3: our credit card company and say she won a free
Speaker 3: travel ticket and a free companion, and just ask her
Speaker 3: who she would pick to be that companion.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, it's a good idea. All right, we'll play
Speaker 2: a song come back and then call her and hopefully
Speaker 2: she gives us your name and not somebody else's. But
Speaker 2: we'll play a song, come back and get your to
Speaker 2: catch a cheater next, it's.
Speaker 3: Time to Catch a Cheater only.
Speaker 2: On the Jubile Show. In the middle of to Catch
Speaker 2: a Cheater, if you're just joining us, Paul is on
Speaker 2: the phone and he thinks that his girlfriend of three
Speaker 2: years named Leslie might be cheating. So in a second,
Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if we can
Speaker 2: catch her. But first, Paul, why don't you refresh everybody's
Speaker 2: memory on your situation.
Speaker 3: We've been together three years. I'm worried she's getting back
Speaker 3: with or in a relationship with her ex boyfriend from
Speaker 3: high school, and I was hoping you guys could just
Speaker 3: pretend to be the credit card company and say she
Speaker 3: want a free flight and see who she picks. Okay,
Speaker 3: and she's going back home to visit her mom, and
Speaker 3: I'm not going, and I'm worried that she's been really
Speaker 3: texting this guy and planning on seeing him when I'm
Speaker 3: not there.
Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: All right, man, here we go.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi, this is Global calling for I was looking for
Speaker 2: our card holder Leslie.
Speaker 3: Is is?
Speaker 5: She is everything?
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm actually calling you some good news. Congratulations for
Speaker 2: being a card holder with us and racking up so
Speaker 2: many points and miles in travel. You've won a voucher
Speaker 2: for six hundred dollars in free travel for yourself and
Speaker 2: a companion.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, wow, this is so cool. Thank you.
Speaker 3: So what do I do?
Speaker 2: Well, it's simple. Your voucher will go automatically into your
Speaker 2: account online. So the only thing that I would need
Speaker 2: would be the name of the companion that you would
Speaker 2: take with you. Now, I can give you some time
Speaker 2: to obviously think about that, but unfortunately they asked that
Speaker 2: we give them that information ahead of time.
Speaker 5: You know, Oh okay, that's fine.
Speaker 2: Okay, great, Just the first and last name would be awesome.
Speaker 5: Yeah, can you make it to Joel?
Speaker 2: Yes, I can get that notated on there. Would like
Speaker 2: us to send an email to this person so that
Speaker 2: you can also give them the good news with like
Speaker 2: a little bit of an E card type situation.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe just say that things keep getting better and
Speaker 5: after this trip we can go back and have the talk.
Speaker 2: I'll just read it back to you. Okay. It says
Speaker 2: your boyfriend of three years Paul is on the phone
Speaker 2: right now listening to this and probably wants to know
Speaker 2: why you got the companion ticket for Joel and are
Speaker 2: sending Jill that message.
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 2: What do I get that?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Paul?
Speaker 3: Wait, Paul's Yeah, whats going.
Speaker 1: On, Leslie?
Speaker 2: This is the Jubile Show. It's a radio show, and
Speaker 2: we do a segment where we catch people cheating, and
Speaker 2: Paul thought you might be able to do something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it seems I'm right. Oh my god. Wow.
Speaker 5: Okay, well I was definitely not prepared to have this
Speaker 5: conversation at this moment, but I guess this is where
Speaker 5: we're at.
Speaker 3: Hi, Paul, uh, Hi, Yeah, you know what's going on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's true. I've been talking to my ex Joel.
Speaker 5: You know you know Joel.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I know that part. I know you've been talking.
Speaker 3: I've talked to you about how you've been talking but
Speaker 3: what's going on?
Speaker 5: Okay, So we've been talking, you know, about our past
Speaker 5: and the relationship and how it's never really had any
Speaker 5: real finality or ending, and you know, and then the
Speaker 5: conversation just kind of went into how there's still some
Speaker 5: feelings there that we have even though you know we've
Speaker 5: broke off obviously, and that you know, what we've been
Speaker 5: wanting in our life is really the same thing, which
Speaker 5: is to be in that town, in our town together
Speaker 5: and and have the same feature there. And I feel
Speaker 5: like an absolutely horrible person right now, but I'm I mean, Paul,
Speaker 5: I'm in love with with Joel, and I've fallen back
Speaker 5: in love with him this past month, and I really
Speaker 5: think we want to try and make it work this time.
Speaker 5: And so I guess my thought process was I wanted
Speaker 5: to give that ticket to Joel so that he could
Speaker 5: come here to us and we could all talk about it,
Speaker 5: and you know, he could help me move my things
Speaker 5: back back home.
Speaker 3: Are you serious? I honestly, I can't believe it. You
Speaker 3: think you think you're ready to fly him with a
Speaker 3: free companion ticket to our house so that I would
Speaker 3: sit down with him and what shake his hands? Wish
Speaker 3: you well, I mean I can't, you know, honestly, you
Speaker 3: know I love you and and you know we've been
Speaker 3: together three years. But it's really the sneaking around that
Speaker 3: bothers me the most that I got to like do
Speaker 3: a whole setup to catch you. Like I confronted you
Speaker 3: about texting him and you talking to him, and obviously
Speaker 3: I knew something was up, and you could sense something
Speaker 3: was up. And we've been kind of, you know, at
Speaker 3: odd and the tension has been high. Why couldn't you
Speaker 3: just talk to me? Why does it have to come
Speaker 3: out like this? This is ridiculous? And also, you know,
Speaker 3: thank you for doing this around your mom's birthday for real, honestly,
Speaker 3: Like this is a like this is a devastating thing.
Speaker 3: And you know I love your mom to death. Okay,
Speaker 3: you know she likes me, or at least you've told
Speaker 3: me she likes me, you know, And and you want
Speaker 3: to put this around your mom's birthday and and and
Speaker 3: more so, instead of this being a very serious conversation
Speaker 3: about us breaking up or you moving up, you're like
Speaker 3: capitalizing on the fact that I couldn't make it to
Speaker 3: this trip. You're like seeing as like a blessing and
Speaker 3: I could tell. I could tell you didn't want me there,
Speaker 3: you know, so you know, you know I love you,
Speaker 3: But like.
Speaker 5: You, I hear what you're saying that I probably deserve
Speaker 5: that definite.
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, you deserve more than that, you know,
Speaker 3: and you know you can text me, you could, you can,
Speaker 3: you can reach out. Obviously you would get yourself when
Speaker 3: I don't want to see you, I don't want to
Speaker 3: see him. It's not going to be the sit down,
Speaker 3: nice hug, shake hand thing. You know. Honestly, I really
Speaker 3: hope you're happy because you're taking it off from me.
Speaker 5: Okay, well we'll talk about it, and I again, I'm
Speaker 5: sorry that it had to come off this way.
Speaker 3: But nope, nothing to talk about it is done.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well Paul, I'm sorry, man, so sorry.
Speaker 3: You know, tell you know what, y'all don't need to apologize.
Speaker 3: She's the only one that needs to apologize. Thank you,
Speaker 3: Thank you. Like I said earlier, you know, I was
Speaker 3: going to be embarrassed either way, but thank you for
Speaker 3: saving me a trip to go over there and embarrass myself. Obviously,
Speaker 3: I'm pissed off. This is ridiculous, but you know what,
Speaker 3: at least It's better than me flying over there being
Speaker 3: around her family to be the guy or the other man.
Speaker 1: Don't be embarrassed, man, this sucks.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, whenever this happens, we always tell somebody there is
Speaker 2: someone out there for you. So don't give up, pope. Man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not even thinking about that, right, I'm just
Speaker 3: I'm just pissed.
Speaker 2: This is.
Speaker 3: This hurt this honestly, it hurts. This hurts, so you
Speaker 3: will show
Speaker 1: To catch a cheater.